The gray man is a guy who can move through any crowd and not be noticed.

I thought the concept of "gray man" was more how not to draw attention to yourself in an SHTF situation.

The gray man is the exact opposite of the guy you see with a grunt style shirt, giant beard, and army tattoos that you can probably assume is obviously carrying a firearm open or concealed

What I understood gray man meant was to blend in with population around so you don’t stick out as a obvious easy target.

Grey man is for when you don't have a team, when you are alone, outnumbered, getting home through hostile lawless territory. It's a good option when the situation is otherwise unwinnable.

That’s how I did my military career, just kept volunteering for classes, training, and got to go to a lot of cool places, learned a lot. I thought about out of sight and out of mind. Just punch that time card and remain unknown. I made my career good

Moral of the video: Take advantage of not knowing anything to learn and be humble otherwise when you're expected to perform you won't have the same experience as someone who has learned from their failiures.

Lol. I’m a grey man in my daily life without even trying. Everyone always forgets they’ve already met me. 😑

The State Department uses "grey man" as a description of how to act if your embassy is occupied by a terror group. They suggest you not stand out. Standing out makes you a target. Don't be loud. Don't be flashy. Don't be first. Don't be last. Be part of the crowd. It is a survival strategy.

I've only heard "Grey Man" in prepper circles. It's usually about how when you're trying to get home or bug out, you don't want attention from opportunists. If you've got gear coming out your ears and have "tactical" stuff, folks are more likely to target you since your gear is the best. Similar to "The most dangerous man in the room" being the guy that has a ton of training and experience, but isn't flaunting it. While you may be able to spot a guy in military boots from a mile away, most people won't. Same with the pants. They may be obvious to you, but the vast majority of people just see them as pants. But great video! Definitely do not want to fly under the radar in your ODA as a new guy

If I'm not mistaken the term "Gray Man" was used in FM 21-78 (Prisoner of War Resistance: 1981). It has to do with not drawing attention to yourself in a POW camp.

The gray man approach is more often discussed in prepper and self defense circles. It’s more about not putting a target on your back in self defense or shtf scenarios. There is a time to be covert and a time to be overt.

Being the grey man is just being the guy that can be counted for everything but doesn’t attempt to highlight himself. The grey man is usually a listener and not a speaker. He is the guy that performs well at his job but not so much to where he outperforms most of the group. The grey man is also not a shitbag he fits perfectly in the middle.

I think the whole "Gray Man" thing started with SHTF and blending in not drawing attention to yourself while doing recon for food,supplies,intel ect. or just moving from one local to another so your not noticed It has nothing to do with being the NFG in an SOF A team,Ranger, or Seal team

Don't make videos about concepts you admit you don't understand.

Gray man just means being able to avoid unnecessary attention when the situation dictates. It’s entirely situation dependent, and like we see here, there are times you want to stand out.

Nothing like a new video to brighten up a dark day!

Anyone wanting to get involved in Special Operations as a whole should watch these, it's good to know this information. Ive been part of the community for 7 years and it's still good to hear these things so I can (properly) encourage people to try out who are unsure of themselves. Thanks for putting this stuff out there

I believe the origin of “grey man” was from Robert Jordan’s “Wheel of Time”, where grey men were soulless assassins who were supernaturally bland, to the point where most people would not notice them standing in front of them. The prepper community uses it to try to get the idea across that you should blend in...don’t obviously be the prepared guy in a SHTF situation. Where ever you go, you should look like you belong and not draw attention to yourself.

The first time I heard of the Gray Man was in SAS literature referring to not calling undo attention to yourself in regards to the enemy. Don't advertise who and what you are to them. It has nothing to do with flying below the radar within your own community.

Great video! Once I became an NCO the first thing I did when arriving in a new unit was give a class. Make yourself available, step up to the plate, and don't forget about everything you've forgotten.

This is some of the best career advice I've heard. Buck, you nailed it. Thanks!

What I look forward to everyday👊 Saw the notification and couldn’t wait to watch

Excellent explanation. You have here a new follower of your presentations. Thanks!

Gray man is a British SIS term dubbeb by the Agency to describe deep under cover agents, case officers and or NOCs. A gray man is someone who looks unassuming and blends in with the crowd, but is well equipped for an emergency situation. The term ‘gray man’ (or ‘grey man’ in British English) is used to describe this practice of downplaying one's skillsets and resources. The idea behind the gray man theory is that in crisis situations, there are benefits to going unnoticed and blending in!

Sounds like exciting stuff on the horizon. Well done, Mr. Rogers.

Seriously I hope u make millions, luv ur channel. Great info...

Great video, I’m shipping out as an 11b in July and I think this video applies not only to SF but also the real army, I’m a guy that worries about making mistakes and failing, and this is really good advice that has given me a bit more confidence. Thanks Buck.

Very helpful advice, been following your channel since the beginning. I am training to become an Army Chaplain. Completely Different MOS but same ideology. As I progress in my studies I know that it’s time to step up and start sharing knowledge even though I’m still in school. Being the new guy has its advantages because I’m supposed to make mistakes. Having the humility to know you don’t know everything is part of the process! Only blessings! Thank you :)

The "Gray Man" is a concept we were taught in the Commonwealth version of SERE. I my case it was being reminded to be quiet, fade, dont be visible any more than required..

Going into Navy Nurse Corps very soon and I know the corpsman know way more than me. This video helped a lot. Thank you!

Absolutely great advice 👍🏼

Your content always helps us out and your always so passionate. Really wanna get your book I’m getting it soon!!!

This is a really good video! Best advice any new guy ANYWHERE can use.

This really helps put things into perspective !

Being the gray man is a concept used in selection. You don't want the Cadre to know who you are. You don't want to bring unwanted attention to yourself. That is what it means to be the gray man

Every time I've heard it used was always in the context of "don't look like you have a gun." Eg. clothing that people in the area wear, regular haircut, relaxed body language.

Outstanding advise that can be transferred to everyday life as well!! Thank you sir!!

Yes swagggg, can't wait crushing it as always .thank-you sir Buck

Thanks, Buck. This is good advice in many walks of life. Not just in the Green Berets.

Man, I love this guy's calm demeanor as he explains stuff. You can tell when people have reached the pinnacle of their professions. You can just tell.

This advice applies to way more than just military. Excellent!

Great talk. You are so on point about getting the mistakes out and done early. 20 years ago I was a machine tool/ manufacturing education instructor at a local community college. One year, At the beginning of Fall session,I was handed the syllabi for two management classes. Was told the adjuncts were not brought back, you’re picking up their classes. I walked into that Intro to Supervision class ( full of 40-50 yo olds who just needed the credits) and told them they knew more about real world supervision than I did , and I needed their help. Each week I wanted a SME on the chapter to give a short overview on how they handled the weeks assignment. By the time break time happened, several students came to me to volunteer their help. Class was great, everyone learned from each other, my job became facilitator of the lesson and each student shined in his or her day leading the class. I learned how to be a more effective instructor and made a number of friends along the way.

As Goggins would say “they got that blending in mentality. Stay hard”

Blessings to you and your family my brother in Arms.

Can’t wait for your show!

This is a really interesting video. I once watched a documentary on British SAS training, put on by former SAS dudes, where they stressed being the "gray man" in training. Basically, they said that the "gray man" was the dude who did everything expected of them but also didn't mess up alot.

Comes from the 1950's novel "The Man In The Grey Flannel Suit" (also made into a good movie with Gregory Peck) which was all about conforming to the status quo. Hence if your a Grey Man you blend in.

Great video. This lesson is good for civilian life too. Never wait for it, grab a hold and go for the ride. Stay safe.

Great advice!

Congrats on the new projects 👌🏼

finally found your 'Gray Man' video bro! you were right!!!! i was reading the comments and the comments are ridiculous..... i was referring to the comment you made on your review on the grey man episode with John (actor guy). Keep Up the Great VIds bro! very insightful!!!!!!!!!!!! you bring it home, every time :D

I can't help being a grey man.... I'm old. 😂 This is a very good topic. Closed mouth's don't get fed. Knowledge transfer goes along way in everyday life, let alone the military. Be a sponge. Be safe out there Sean! Keep on keeping on Brother! 🇺🇸🤘🏼

I've never heard the Gray Man tern used that way. I always took it as urban camo, blending into an urban environment. Don't be that super tactical dude, all it does is draw attention to yourself that might just put a big target on your back

🐐 thank you for your service

Being the "gray man" refers to not standing out in a non permissive environment. To not draw attention to yourself. To blend in with the social environment and not become a target. To basically not look like a "tourist". Dress down and wear neutral colors. But its specific to location, region, environment etc. And not so much in reference to military. Unless you're doing some high clandestine shizzy. Spycraft type stuff. Btw i think youre channel is awesome. Thank you for the content!

Soon as I hear that "what's up everybody, welcome back to the FNG academy, Buck her former Green Beret here to help YOU guys get selected" no matter what I'm doing it makes me hyper focused and continues to affirm the ultimate goal of earning that Green Beret at all costs, thanks for the awesome content buck!

Recurrent training is always around the corner for both facilitators and attendees; approaching the training session with humility is a wise course of action. Wise is also this content, Bravo Zulu, Buck.

I’ve always took it as advice when in public, just be the same as everyone else. When your back home with a group of people be as much of a leader as you want but don’t put yourself in a position to get robbed or killed when it’s not needed Edit dude.... this concept isn’t supposed to be used for professional settings it’s supposed used for life and death

Being the “grey man” only applies to basic, RASP, BUDS, Selection, etc. It is referring to not standing out to the cadre or instructors so you don’t get fucked with and make your situation harder. It is not for when you arrive at regiment or any permanent duty station.

Great advice man thanks

Great vid buck. I’m gonna be 17 in a few weeks preparing to join the marines and become a raider in the next few years. Maybe I can meet you one day much love from Cali ✌️

This is some of the best advice I've ever heard. Whether its a Green Beret team or a new job, this is wide ranging. Hit it out of the park again, thanks Buck!

Damn bro I subbed when you were at 5k . Nice to see your growing pretty quick .. I dont do IG bro so I guess I'm gonna have to wait .. Nice video bro

Good shit bro you earned a sub

Hey Buck do you think you could talk about how family life is as a Green Beret? Love your videos man keep them coming!

Good shit man

I don't think gray man is meant for those on a team, but for those in hostile environments needing to blend in and flee a bad situation without drawing attention to himself. Gray man and concealed carry makes sense to me.

Hey Buck I think the term of being “the gray man” comes from a lot of prior green berets talking about the best opportunity to get selected during SFAS by not trying to be the first one in every event and showing off to cadre but also not being the last one and the weakest link. Somewhere in the middle is the sweet spot where you can pull your own weight but also not stand out too much. You don’t want cadre knowing your name essentially.

Day just got better!

This helped a lot

Good job !

Can’t wait to buy a shirt bro

Understood. Thanks man

This is healthy in the proper application. 👏

Think I’ve read that “advice” in the context of recommendations on how to pass SAS selection. Maybe check Andy McNab’s books or other SAS books. Been a long time since I read any of those books but I think it was there.

was my biggest mistake going through Air Force SERE Specialist Selection. Kept my head down trying to not get noticed and I never made any real bonds with my team. Tried to do it all by myself and my ego caught up with me very quickly as I didn't make it through. Tough lesson to learn but it's helped me a ton in my current career field. Getting ready to submit my packet to try again.

Good life advice.

I am currently in some training that Special Forces is providing for non-combat MOSs and I actually saw this firsthand. One of the the teams new team members was teaching classes on tactics and weapons.

I always take the approach that the first three weeks at a new unit will determine how the rest of your time there goes. Hit the ground running and that initial effort to make a good impression always pays off down the road. On the flip side a bad first impression will stick with you and be difficult to live down. I also keep my mouth shut and roger up until I can see that my input is wanted.

As a cop with 20yrs on the job, I've seen the worst of our society for a good chunk of my life. If SHTF, do everything you can to avoid making yourself a target. Blend into the crowd, and get where you're going. You're not going to win every gunfight.

These are rules for every human being. Solid.

“Grey man” as far as a civilian. I’ve never heard the “grey man” in the military. Good video bud. Thanks

hey buck, it came up when it came to gun stickers on my truck my mentor was like you need to run grey and like my instructor says he does not advertise that he has guns on any of his vehicles yes i love the companies i support and my instructor and my school of marksmanship and i hope to see it grow here in Canada advertisement is less than the states anyways i have some books on the subject and its more about tracking those who go grey. beyond that if someone does need to evade capture or being followed all good information to have on the subject

Buck totally unrelated. But today I found out that the song in “Behind Enemy Lines” when they’re firing up the jet on the aircraft carrier is called “BUCK ROGERS” lmfao

First video I've watched and I'm in the sauce now

I remember being a fresh outta PLDC E-5 and asking a question to a PL about land nav (which I wasn’t that good at in the beginning until I got reps in during other training cycles and deployments) during an exercise and getting my ass chewed for asking an officer from my PLT Sgt. hahaha. I figured we’re all men here and didn’t see what the problem was. Shit was almost 20 years ago.

Very motivational. This has nothing to do with what a gray man is, which is a (usually solitary) person in a shtf situation that tries to blend in and not draw undo attention to themselves when they are (usually) scavenging or moving out in the open. Nice video. Gray man is a survivalist term for blending in.

Love your videos especially as someone aspiring to one day have a career in SF. What about in selection?

I've never heard of a "Gray man". Thanks for definitely making a video about this. And I'll watch out.

You only get to be alive once. Why not just be yourself the whole time? I like this video. Throw yourself out there, take opportunities, share what you know, ask questions so you learn... Good video.

I wasn't military. Yet, when I was a kid, I wanted to be the 18B (Weapons Sergeant) in a team or try for tier 1 stuff. I'm not sure if this can help anyone, but its been my experience that you've gotta have that passion for something to be able to do it right. Yeah, new guys aren't expected to know shit and the vets will mentor and help where needed. Yet in those kind of teams, leave the ego at home.

Are you going to be shipping to England?? Cheers Buck 👌🏽

Buck, man, I thought at first look the title said 'gay, 'not 'grey', and I thought ah hell, there goes one of my favorite youtubers!

You have no idea how overjoyed I am to find something that having been a drum major is gonna help me do

The video’s lessons are getting better and better, but the thumbnails make me laugh.

I think you’ve taken it out of the context it was meant for,or at least from my understanding.It’s about in the streets after a shtf event,not in a group or team class event.Thank you for your service to our country 🇺🇸

Buck, how much does this apply to selection? Would you recommend staying the gray man to avoid getting smoked by the cadre, but step up when you need to or when other people don't want to in a team event?

i can be either...i'm proud to wear my patriotic gear, service i was in, etc...also, i can be the most basic of basic guys that wouldn't bring any attention to myself. HUMINT is a great place to practice being a grey man.

When you show up to the team, be in shape. In language school it is easy to relax on your pt. Don't do that, do what you have to in order to stay in shape.