How dare people shame mothers for how they choose to bring THEIR child safely into this world. They need to mind their own business
@jennybee87575 жыл бұрын
Exxxxactly! Beats the Hell out of an abortion!
@laurencrouch7645 жыл бұрын
@@jennybee8757 I'm going to say that next time someone raises an eyebrow at me for having an elective c-section!
@jennybee87575 жыл бұрын
@@laurencrouch764 Good for you sister! You chose LIFE!
@foodislife67355 жыл бұрын
Hell I had to have one with my little girl cause she was breeched and my little boy I have to have one since they are not a year and a half apart
@restingsadface3 жыл бұрын
@@jennybee8757 abortion beats the hell out of unwanted kids and a ruined body!
@TurnTheTideCounselling5 жыл бұрын
Both my c sections were amazing positive experiences. I was terrified of vaginal birth and I was honestly almost relieved when my first child didn’t fit and I needed a c section. For me a c section was a wonderful positive experience. When people say you want to avoid them I find this point of view so limiting. Some women prefer them.
@ayeshasayyad70552 жыл бұрын
Painful after surgery??
@dianavillegas13232 жыл бұрын
I went to my doctor yesterday and she said the baby is big and I am really small down there apparently so she said we should plan a c section. I am sad and relieved at the same time. So Idk
@ayeshasayyad70552 жыл бұрын
Stiches pain after surgery
@roadhouse_blues80812 жыл бұрын
How did you manage after the surgery, from what i have heard it's really painful..you are in constant excruciating pain, can't move , can't sleep because of the stitches. Your body swells up , you vomit initially for few hours. Is there a way to avoid or limit such side effects ?
@denisebell45452 жыл бұрын
I Myself Prefer C- section Over Vaginal birth I Had 3 C-section .
@kelsweety16 жыл бұрын
I was able to give birth to my baby boy vaginally and with no epidural. I know this is something very hard to do for most women, but I think women who undergo a c section are SO strong! Oh my goodness, c sections are a major surgery to go through, so props to all the mommas out there who have had c sections! Xx
@SuperChildofChrist6 жыл бұрын
Kelsweet wow you are strong!
@sandisg45575 жыл бұрын
without epidural? i almost died from pain contraction pain. i was saking very hard from pain and sreaming
@lilymel97595 жыл бұрын
C section is the best choice , good for both baby and mama.
@laurenalmeyda69165 жыл бұрын
As a mom who has had a natural (no drugs) birth and a c-section... a natural birth is WAY harder!!!
@laurencrouch7645 жыл бұрын
@@laurenalmeyda6916 I think it's an unfair comparison to make because it differs so much woman to woman, baby to baby. I had a girlfriend who gave birth naturally about two months ago and she literally used the hashtag #whatlabour after she'd given birth because things went so smoothly and her recovery was so easy. I went for a natural birth and laboured for 28 hours ending in an emergency c-section and the recovery was rough and was in hospital for a week. Some women have exhausting, long and terribly painful natural labours and others have quick and smooth naturals. Others have chill c-sections where everything goes fine and the recovery isn't too bad and other times it can be a lot harder. You just never know what you're going to get. I'm having my second in ten weeks and I'm getting a bit nervous!
@meredithf68375 жыл бұрын
Proud c-section mama here! Having my second c-section in May 💞
@nobody-og5tl5 жыл бұрын
Congrats! When is your due date!
@sabrinagonzalez96655 жыл бұрын
Meredith Floyd my c section is in two weeks
@aishayaqub34374 жыл бұрын
Hope it all went well for u! How much gap did u have between ur two c section?
@ana-oj5eq11 ай бұрын
I'm pregnant with my first baby and since day one, my doctor asked me how I plan to give birth, I told him that I wanted to feel beautiful, no pain and I wanted to know the exact time and minute that the baby will be out. He smiled and told me "So we'll have a c-section, which is great because due to some of your health issues I was going to suggest that" I was so happy that my doctor was in sync with me and my wishes! My husband is super supportive as well, but I've had TONS of people saying to me that I'm making a huge mistake by having a c-section. No Karen, I'm not, it was previously discussed with my doctor and husband and this is exactly what I want. Pregnancy is a crazy ride! You don't need the comments and the judgments.
@youtubecommentator60239 ай бұрын
You do you girly! I had a vaginal birth with my first and ended up tearing so bad they were stitching me up for 40 minutes. The pain the I endured for weeks after is unlike anything I've ever gone through before. I'm in my second pregnancy now and because of issues that I have going on (possibly due to what happened in the last birth) my doctor recommended a C-section and I've been considering my options. Child birth is terrifying. Anything you can do to help yourself be calm and collected? Do it! Who cares what anyone else thinks?
@tryphenarose3845 ай бұрын
Regardless of your decision, people will always judge. I chose natural for my first two, and got judged for not wanting an epidural. My aunt told me to "stop trying to be superwoman and just take the drugs". I said no, and stuck with my decision. Now my circumstances are different and I'm opting for an elective C-section for my 3rd. The options are there for a reason and you have to decide what's best for you and your health/the health of your baby.
@JC-cp3rt4 жыл бұрын
Finally a balanced view of c sections instead of demonising them, love it
@annamcdermott85655 жыл бұрын
I had an emergency c-section with my son and I don't regret it one bit. He was happy and healthy and that's all that matters.
@toniedobson89446 жыл бұрын
For me labor was difficult, I was delivering my baby at 19 weeks and wasn't sure if he or she would make it. Sadly during labor she passed. It shouldn't matter if you had a baby vag or c- section as long as the mom and baby are healthy that is all that matters
@LacrimaPhoenix6 жыл бұрын
Tonie Dobson God gracious, that is so sad. My condolences, no one should have to go through this. :(
@shauna60866 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss ❤❤❤
@BlendedBarbieDoll5 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry that takes a level of strength I can not imagine. Thank you for sharing.
@Mizzpinkperfect5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry and thank you for being strong and shearing
@momtomom73225 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss :(
@queenanhle12585 жыл бұрын
I live in Thailand and my doctor from a private hospital recommended me a selective C-section. I was totally on board with that and everything went greatttttt. No pain during or after it at all for me and baby is totally healthy, having only a slight cold in her first year, other than that she’s never sick at all. Great birth experience. Honestly my ingrown toenail hurts me more than my birth experience. Relax and have fun with your pregnancy and your baby moms ❤️ choose whichever method you feel comfortable with
@roadhouse_blues80812 жыл бұрын
I feel so glad after reading about such experiences . I have been advised C section as i am expecting twins..it's been nerve wrecking as it is not preferred by anyone here in India and rather frowned upon if doctor ends up doing it on a patient. But i am glad it's not as bad as people say it is.
@christinewalker91156 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I am 35 weeks and want to remove all the fear. A C-section could be a possibility. Hearing your stories and insight helps take away the stigma.
@kelsweety16 жыл бұрын
Christine Walker congratulations! you’re going to do great! :)
@chelseavaness72565 жыл бұрын
I’m having a scheduled C section tmrw for my first child due to back issues and I really appreciate this video. People constantly are looking at C sections as a harsh thing. Thank you for bringing some positive light into this.
@ingevanderross51545 жыл бұрын
I think the main con for people is the judgement from other people. I chose to have a c section , and I never felt bad or guilty. I am the type that doesn't really care what people think or say about me especially when it comes to my body and what I do with it. My son who is 10 years old is top of his class and grade.. I am a single mom, who has an elective c section and formula fed my son.. so imagine I was worried what people thought of me.. I probably would be crying everyday
@olyvianjoroge22644 жыл бұрын
Im planning a scheduled c section and formula feeding my baby girl!!! Im glad to see this! Everyone says how one should have a vaginal birth and breastfeed or your kid will develop issues......
@nchalp66315 жыл бұрын
This video is spot on! My first csection was emergency. I have since had 4 all up, and luckily have had 4 wonderful csection experiences and in Australia you now get to go home 24 hours after surgery which I find great as I’m ready to get home to my family. Also I have found it so interesting that I seem to recover easier with every csection, I had my 4th 3 weeks ago and within a few hours from surgery I was up walking around minimal pain and the next day back home doing all my usual things. Thanks for helping to break some of the csection taboo ladies!
@zhoyos6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for educating others on this topic- it's super important that we support each other and not associate shame to C-Section Mamas (like myself)- in many cases, a C-Section is out of the mom's hands, so it surprises me every time when people judge it. As someone mentioned below, Brandi Milloy seems so sweet but her experience is not as common so thank you both for sharing this side!
@judithrevers5 жыл бұрын
Thanx for this video. Had an all natural-no painkiller involved-vaginal birth with my firstborn that was celebrated as a success although I suffered a 3rd degree tear including a broken tailbone (no one ever took care of). So my recovery took extremely long. Could not sit without pain for weeks, could not walk up straight for at least a week, had my whole pelvis ace for a year after, still feeling my tailbone every time I have my period...now pregnant with my second I am seriously considering a scheduled C-section. Nothing can be worse than this first vaginal experience. Plus: The vaginal experience did also traumatized me and my husband...so, if somebody tried to shame me for choosing scheduled c-section this time, I’d honestly laugh at them.
@dreamcatcher47475 жыл бұрын
At least someone admits this.. I had few "friends" before my son ce out and they all had scars on their vaginas and said they would still not choose c section... Mean while one woman told me that if she could choose she would do c section because her scar didnt heal fast at all and was so painful to even walk.. Of course when I told this to those "friends" I used to have... They started to become super defencive and said that its not like that at all.. And I said.. Well yes each body is different.. And some people are more sensitive and all.. And of course after my c section even knowing it was emergency and with clinical death of mine... They still chose to say that Im just not strong enough.. I just blocked their numbers and everywhere. Some people are just rude by choice..they can be whatever they want... Just as far away from ne as possible.. Interesting how many more years I would call them "friends" if there wasnt a c section :D so grateful for that.. Two snakes out of my life:)) really happy that there are people that doesnt lie about vaginal birth giving and how painful that is aswell... Both are Hard and painful and not to be conpared because thats just egoistic to think that one is better than the other. Both are DELIVERING baby and that is all that matters.. That babies are fine and finally meating their moms. Women that scream too much about saying one is better than the other doesnt understand that they have kids and will have grand kids and at some point they may have to experience that other option and realise that judging one or another of options(which are so many times not even a choise or option) they just ask karma to step in..
@laurencrouch7645 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh that would have been so difficult to go through. A broken tailbone is such a painful injury and not much can be done about it and usually it's never the same. I would talk to your midwife/doctor about your concerns because I would think that having a previous tailbone injury would effect a natural birth? Good luck!
@FFlores7911 ай бұрын
I have permanent small deformities on my vagina due to my 2 vaginal.births ..one epidural one unmedicated....the unmedicated one worse..my son is 3 and I still Have to be careful washing myself or during sex. I even saw a surgeon about fixing it. I m about to have my 3rd child via c section due to placenta previa and I am scared but very glad to not involve the vagina this time. You really don't hear about birth injuries much and if you tear in the natural community then..you did it wrong!...thats basically what they say I think people are ashamed to admit if they tore or God forbid in a vulnerable moment ended up on your back pushing.
@missmodernlove6 жыл бұрын
For as long as I can remember I said I was going to do a C-Section because I was terrified of labor (this was me like 10 years before I actually had a baby). But then, the time came when I got pregnant and I actually asked my OB if I could do a C-Section. She said no. They’re not elective and only for emergencies. So I said ok, that’s fine. As time went on I was actually glad I wasn’t having a C-Section because the more I researched the more frightened I was for it. So I was happy my dr said no. THEN, I went into labor, 17 hours later and 3 tries trying to get the epidural IN correctly to relive my pain. I had a beautiful baby girl...who gave me a 3b degree tear! 😫 it was my first baby. And the recovery from that has actually traumatized me from having another baby. When I think about it makes me emotional. I hope that if I do decide to go through it again, the Dr will let me have a C-Section. 🙏🏼
@rainbowbrightone98526 жыл бұрын
missmodernlove it's your choice isnt it. I'm gonna make sure I get a c section or I'm gonna get another doctor
@missmodernlove6 жыл бұрын
AfroItalianSaboteur xo it should be our choice.
@deannathomas23596 жыл бұрын
It is your choice ! The doctor cant decide what’s better for you . They can litterally list maternal anxiety as your reason for doing it ! I wish more people knew their rites !
@rachellecollin36615 жыл бұрын
So at first from reading that I was like "OK cool no c section for me ever then" but by the end i resent vaginal birth all over again
@jillianelise55 жыл бұрын
What was the doctors reasoning for not letting you have a c section?
@srslymorgan6 жыл бұрын
I don’t think people hate c-sections in general (or at least I would hope they’re not that ignorant), it’s that doctors corner women into them all the time because in many cases it’s more convenient for *them* (the Doctor) and they make more money. The stats really are there. I do believe each mom should be able to choose how she wants to deliver her baby, but I just wish more moms were educated and encouraged about the truth and not just being fear mongered-whether that’s fear mongering about vaginal, natural, or cesarean births!
@hartmyndsole6 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY! No one cares if you have a cesarean, but it's unjust for doctors to push it on women when there is no emergency and you aren't "progressing" in their eyes. :p
@saranichole45765 жыл бұрын
This wasnt true for me. I had preeclampsia and my doctor tried to inducd me for 2 days to avoid a cesarean..and after 2 days of induction i only was 1cm dialated and my liver enzymes and blood platelets were so low i had to have an emergency cesarean with general anesthesia because it was too risky to get epidural. For them a cesarean was only for emergencies sadly.
@tovah88415 жыл бұрын
But some of us do want them so our vaginas won’t get ruined .. Someone needs to say it ✋
@godsgirl72015 жыл бұрын
My doctor let me wait 2 days in labor to decide
@TubnQT5 жыл бұрын
No judgment here, just facts. I would just like to add that a c-section costs $30,000 vs $5,000 for a vaginal delivery. We pay for this in our insurance and as taxpayers. Many women get free medical care when they are pregnant. (I work as an L&D RN in a hospital). It’s crazy, right? But true. If you don’t have insurance, you file for Medicaid and get free delivery. 95% of patients in my city are in Medicaid. Also, c-sections are major surgery and carry many more risks, including higher risk of hemmhorage and death for the mother and babies more frequently go to the NICU for breathing problems because they didn’t get squeezed.
@stephaniea48394 жыл бұрын
This has honestly made me feel a bit more comfortable about c-sections. I have a scheduled one this coming Thursday & my anxiety about it has been crazy. Thank you for making this video!
@raysmith86044 жыл бұрын
How did it go
@jesshurley84354 жыл бұрын
How did your c section go?
@stephaniea48394 жыл бұрын
It went amazing! I would definitely do it again.
@sarahjohnson6454 жыл бұрын
Stephanie Alvarenga can you tell me your experience? I am a bit nervous I will need one. I have very high anxiety. So they give you something for the anxiety?
@stephaniea48393 жыл бұрын
sari Hoops I was super nervous at first. But when I met my surgical team, I did mention to the anesthesiologist (which is the person thats gonna be right next you) that i have really bad anxiety & she told me that she will tell me everything that is happening once we were in the OR. & it made the experience 1000000x better. Also my husband being there (pre-covid) made me feel more at ease too.
@SusanYara6 жыл бұрын
Hoping we could shed some light on c-sections in this video! There are definitely pros and cons!
@piepie60206 жыл бұрын
Susan Yara Hi Susan. Really enjoying these moM videos. I am 5 months pregnant, can you please do a video on experience of after labour 1- can you take a shower after birth or how long do you wait 2-whats the worst outcome for pain
@t.h96096 жыл бұрын
Susan Yara you know susan i was searching for some encouraging video on cs because i am planning my cs on 16th of august 2018 ... i found out this one very helpful. Really want to hear .. my mental situation now is that its my 2nd cs and people and relatives will look down upon me for not trying vaginally... my husband said its upto you my love but as you said that you want to hear some one encouraging you. My mom had 2 cs.. she said go for it as u had 1st emergeny cs after trying for 52 hours. I want to shout out loud its not an easy surgery to go through just to bring in little one new life..
@valeriefrancia64175 жыл бұрын
@@piepie6020 I had a scheduled c-section in December of last year. On #1 - you can take a shower as soon as you have your catheter and IV removed - about 24-36 hours after the surgery. It is somewhat painful to get up and do it, but the more you move after surgery, the better you will begin to feel. DO follow their instructions though about keeping your scar dry. I didn't have any problems, but have heard of people getting infections if they are not careful. On #2 - I obviously can't answer this, but I will say that you should take the medication they offer you. Take the IV medication and then take the pain killers they prescribe. They will help immensely. I tried to get off them as soon as I could since I know some of them go to the baby, but I took them for at least a week and they helped me to function! After about a week, I could live with just some ibuprofen. Again, the more you walk (to a point), the better you will feel. Try to do normal things and rest a lot. It's a process, but you'll be fine with the pain after a short while.
@ginjaninja46825 жыл бұрын
15 days away from my planned c section. This is my first child there for my 1st birthing experience . these videos really help with the anxiety that comes with the unknown
@diamondmanou87075 жыл бұрын
I have had c section and recovery was painful but words cannot express how much I love my son. He is perfect and it doesn't make me feel less of a mom.
@ingridrevolorio18004 жыл бұрын
Niska Niska I had an emergency C -section and I was put down cuz I was screaming and frightened because I was terrified because of been cut and recovery was painful !!!!! 😣
@guera0175 жыл бұрын
I had a c section and i was very traumatized, it was unplanned, can you make a video on how to take care of yourself after
@s.cartier67235 жыл бұрын
Me too. 11 years later and im still tramatized
@HarmonyandHope74 жыл бұрын
Please, I need this video. I had a c-section last week. managing the burning pain at the incision site, trying to breast feed or find the best sleeping position while also taking care of my one year old is difficult.
@DLM75766 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate you guys putting this up, especially after having Brandi Milloy on recently. I love her, but I sort of felt that her birth story was one in a million and I hoped that the C-section mums didn’t feel put off by that. I’m all for a healthy baby and Mum, I do not care which way the baby comes out, as long as it comes out healthy and happy. My second is due in a few weeks and I’m totally open to anything. Let’s not make this another thing to make Mums feel shame about! #mumsunited
@kelsweety16 жыл бұрын
De LM I agree with you! Too many mom shamers out there. We should all be here for each other! Motherhood is very special!
@thejessicashelby5 жыл бұрын
I had an “elective” c section 5 weeks ago due to the babies size. I wish I had known how the recovery of a c section is beforehand just to be mentally prepared. Fortunately, my husband stepped up and did literally everything for me but it just would have been nice to know. More people need to talk about this!
@nylcoon2645 жыл бұрын
Thank you for covering c-sections in a way that doesn't make it sound like such a horrible and unhealthy thing. It's really appreciated and it's also nice to have some positive information on c-sections that dont try to also scare you away from doing doing one.
@celecanosa66276 жыл бұрын
Loved the video. I scheduled my c-section since week 30, always knew that I wanted that and that alone and to me, it was wonderful. I did get “those comments” LOTS of them, but I stayed put because my mind was set and it was the best decision that I could have made.
@veronicasolorzano8895 жыл бұрын
And how was it? The after care and everything?
@stefaniemedina146 жыл бұрын
Love love love this! I have had 2 c sections. First was an emergency c section and baby was 3 months premature, she was in the nicu for 3 months. That was traumatic but it saved my life and our daughters life. Second c section was not planned but baby came early again and was also in the nicu. Second c section was much easier to recover from. Birth is dangerous, I don't care what anyone says. A good friend of mine had a still birth during a vaginal delivery. And women still die in childbirth here in America. On women being shamed for a c section, I had one experience at Target: a stranger asked me when I was due. I was walking around Target with my mom, 2 weeks after my c section so my tummy was still big. I said I was two weeks postpartum and baby was in the nicu. I said I was walking around to help me recover from my c section. And she started saying rude stuff about me having a c section and I told her to stfu because this surgery saved my life and our baby's life. Unreal!
@veronicasolorzano8895 жыл бұрын
How fucking disgusting .. glad you spoke up
@dreamcatcher47475 жыл бұрын
Some people just like to create bad karma for themselves... I hope she regrets it.. Otherwise we all know how karma works.... :) I had emergency c section aswell. And also clinical death. When ever someone tries to look down to me for that... I remember that moment when I was gone and they reanimated me and I smile because I know if there wasnt a c section... I would not be here. And my son wouldnt be here.. Now he is almost 4years old. And I am pregnant again and am planning c section. There are plenty of people telling me that its egoistic... But the truth is.. They never experienced what I experienced so they are just being ignorant and asking karma to create their future with lots of experience that will help them understand... Maybe not in this lifetime.. But I think that lack of empathy is the main problem in general in today society... So I feel like there is no reason to even respond anything to those people.. They just want to bring someone down.. Lets not be the ones they get successful on bringing down. When they get into our skin and goes trough all the same experiences, then they can share their opinions.. Otherwise its just them showing their lack of wisdom. Im proud that so many moms understand that c section is not un natural. We are natural beings still and our Children aswell. And Who is who to judge others for Whatever they do or choose to do or want to do... People that have rude opinions mostly are just not having happy life themselves thats why they try to bring others down aswell. Misery needs company.. :) head up, all that matters i what is happening right now. We have our babies, we love them, they love us.. Who cares what anyone who is not part of our bond with our Children thinks.❤️
@karaquigg36846 жыл бұрын
This was great! I had an emergency c-section, and then an elected. I even got to watch my second c-section. It was the most amazing experience.
@dearsierra4913 Жыл бұрын
Mine was not a choice. Never in my life did I think that I wouldn't have a baby vaginally. There were sudden issues that were putting my son in distress at 35 weeks, so after 3 weeks in the hospital, they were like "you'll be having an emergency section in 8 hours". Nobody should shame a mother about how her baby/babies were born
@oliviagonzalez93694 жыл бұрын
I had a natural, unmedicated birth and I am just coming to grips with how traumatizing it was. I tore BAD, and yes ladies, if your Doula says that all you feel is ¨warm pressure¨ that´s bullshit, perhaps you are one of those women but you just don´t know, I felt myself split in 3 different ways when my son came out and it was the most excruciating pain you could EVER feel. My vulva which was a 10 at the time (seriously, I had a model, perfectly symmetrical, beautiful ¨omg¨ type of vulva) is now destroyed along with my self esteem. I always knew I wanted a C section but when I moved to Colorado, the hippie dippie ¨natural birth movement¨ went to my head and having a Doula actually made it worse as she took all the TRUE fear of a vaginal birth away, without ever being straight up about the things that could go wrong. Hello pelvic prolapse... Anyways, I´m now saving money for plastic surgery down there and I no longer care who judges me, to each their own. I CARE deeply about the way my girl looks down there and ¨accepting¨ is not enough for me. I´m going to do what I can to repair the damage even though I know this will never be 100%. There is not a SINGLE day that I don´t regret sticking to my guns about having a C section. So girls out there who are really scared of a vaginal birth and just don´t want to fucking do it-stick to your guns, don´t worry about the judgement, it´s YOUR body, YOUR choice. NOTHING WRONG WITH ELECTING A C SECTION!
@jogendrayadv4 жыл бұрын
Right Olivia. My wife also felt same She is sharing her experience here kzfaq.info/get/bejne/j9d9l6qQr6jKgWQ.html
@jessicaraelene52765 жыл бұрын
I was born through C-section, I even got to witness my nephew being born through C-section because his father is a trucker and he was actually away and I was the only one that was able to come. The cool thing is I did get to be a part of that and I helped take care of the baby for the first 6 months before my sister and her husband moved so that was really cool.
@earlysunshine58304 жыл бұрын
This was one of the videos I have seen like ten times before my C section. Now, it has been 3 weeks after my delivery. Although I nearly hated my ob for taking this decision, I really would go for a C section if I got pregnant again. I would recover slowly and under painkillers instead of suffering labor.
@jogendrayadv4 жыл бұрын
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@jogendrayadv4 жыл бұрын
Also share your experiences with us on the above link
@yanirakleinsasser19725 жыл бұрын
I’m having a scheduled c section because I’m 4’11” with a very narrow pelvis! My baby girl was already 7lbs 4oz at 36 weeks 😬😬 She was in the 98th percentile for growth the whole time so we knew early on I would probably be doing a c section. And I’m ok with that 😊 I also had a major laparotomy a few years ago which also puts me at a higher risk for so many things to go wrong.. so I’m happy with my decision and I’m so blessed everyone around me is so supportive! ♥️ Exactly one week from today I’ll have my baby girl in my arms 😁😁💕
@laurenalmeyda69165 жыл бұрын
I'm having a scheduled c-section this time with my third child. Everyone I have told has been very supportive. The most supportive people have been family members who know my history of having very large babies lol.
@ericawheaton5 жыл бұрын
Having a scheduled c-section in January. I've had brain surgery and this scares me more. Thanks for helping to ease my nerves!
@ingridrevolorio18004 жыл бұрын
erica webb hope everything goes well, I’m also scared and terrified since my first was emergency C- section was traumatic for my and recovery was painful .
@bjuana136 жыл бұрын
I had my mother and my sister say that truly didn't experience becoming a true because it wasn't vaginal. I had no choice with either of my pregnancies. My first we were both going to die my blood pressure was sky high. And my second i was diabetic and they wont let deliver full term because the baby was going to be 13lbs so my butter ball wasnt about to pass through my pipe line.... Lol.... Im so happy you both had great experiences..
@dreamcatcher47475 жыл бұрын
Very "supportive" from them. I would ignore their existance until they realise what they said and apologises. Like I did with few people aftem my emergency c section in which I also experienced clinical death. I am glad you didnt try too long because it could end up terribly.
@LaLynnaBeach6 жыл бұрын
I had a vaginal birth, I didn't tare. And I recovered very fast. I fear a c-section but I know if its needed I would do it, only if needed. When it comes to birth you have to do whats best for you c-section or vaginal as long as baby and you are safe that's all that matters.
@rachellecollin36615 жыл бұрын
How did you not tear during a vaginal birth?!!!
@AshleyCamden5 жыл бұрын
@@rachellecollin3661 I have had 6 babies so far and only tore for my 5th (very small tear)... he was also my only hospital birth, and I was just trying to get him out as fast as possible so that the doctor would go away lol... he came out shoulders up and down instead of sideways, so I think that's what did it. It helps to not actually push, just breathe through the contractions, squatting or on all 4s, let the fetal ejection reflex kick in, and your body does all of the "pushing" for you... baby comes out nice and "easy".
@rachellecollin36615 жыл бұрын
@@AshleyCamden thanks for this information ill remember it for the future you dont know how terrified i am of giving birth 😭
@sydneylane31295 жыл бұрын
@@AshleyCamden may I ask did You have any epidural procedures during those births?
@AshleyCamden5 жыл бұрын
@@sydneylane3129 No, never, all 100% natural.
@potterchick275 жыл бұрын
I'm having a scheduled c section in 2 days and this really really helped! Thanks!
@kimberlygonzalez31486 жыл бұрын
I feel like doctors always do it out of convenience for them and it sucks! I feel that c sections should only be suggested by a doctor if it’s absolutely necessary or if a mom wants to do it.
@hartmyndsole6 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!
@Beachandpool3 жыл бұрын
Doctors do things for profit also. They lie to patients about what they need or don't need. So sad.
@adzblue59693 жыл бұрын
They also see all of the things that can go wrong. I appreciate their knowledge, experience and I trust their judgement.
@isabelcapeles23465 жыл бұрын
A woman at the supermarket told me "push out the baby cuz then you'll love her like a real mom" ... Some people are so insensitive to the topic. Due on Monday November 26, 2018 planned C-section due to a past emergency C-section. Love my babies with my whole hear
@carols45075 жыл бұрын
wish you a safe birth for you and the baby and a quick recovery.. I am 36 weeks and my baby is still in a breech position, so I am planned to have a c section too, so tell me how it goes if you have time later.. tc
@isabelcapeles23465 жыл бұрын
@@carols4507 Hi! It went great, thank God. My little princess is 6 days old and feeling great after C-section. Got the spinal anesthesia so feeling pain in my back like crazy all the time. But it is so worth it. Hope your C-section goes perfect and your baby is born healthy and well!
@carols45075 жыл бұрын
@@isabelcapeles2346 Glad to hear that it went well 👍🏼, congratulations!! lots of love and good wishes to you and your baby girl
@dreamcatcher47475 жыл бұрын
Imagine she saying that to someone who has their adopted Children with her at that moment............. Just disgusting. Giving vaginal birth doesnt make one a mother. Unconditional love and acceptance is what makes one a real mother...🌻
@msch76205 жыл бұрын
My own mother told me I didn’t give birth because I had a c-section. It really hurt me. Once day she admitted when she was down that she was jealous on how I was connected with my child and didn’t need her help. She said “I really f up with you”. Then she became mean again. Women who feel superior and put other down often have deep issues.
@DomesticArtsyVeteran6 жыл бұрын
First let me say, LOVE watching these videos and super glad you posted this. Two, as I am now expecting my second, I am told I HAVE to have a c-section again and I'm really unsettled with that. I'm also chronically ill (bad back, autoimmune and fibromyalgia) and am told no one will let a patient like me attempt a VBAC. So hearing positive experiences helps some what. My first experience was an emergency C-Section after 16 hours of hardcore labor but I just would not dilate for anything. My experience was so negative- I'd rather be in labor for 3 days as bad as it was the first time then have to deal with the recovery of another C-Section; and mine was considered a relative success. I think the hardest part in any of the birthing experience is choice. Feeling like your choices have been taking away from you sucks and then not knowing the outcome of something you didn't pick for yourself is that much harder to cope with. Third and finally, it will be 19 years between my first child and my second- I'm pretty sure things have changed since 1999. Do you think you might want to do a "What to expect when C-Sectioning" video? You know, like a play by play of a planned and emergency version plus post recovery to do/can dos/should dos? And maybe mention things like the post C-Section clot. That always seems to freak out first timers. LoL!
@siddy8765 жыл бұрын
Am having my 3rd child but this is going to be my 1st c section.... you guys really make me feel a lot better
@nimmywren4 жыл бұрын
I just had my second baby through c section last week. Planned, this time. My first one was an emergency c section. I'm just happy to have the option to get my babies out safely.
@hannaholiver88315 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! I have tokophobia and at this point I feel like I'm going to have to hire a lawyer just to have an elective c section. I don't know why so many women get so mean and nasty about it, it's not like they actually care if your c section scar gets infected or something. No I'm not pregnant my fear is so deep I stress on the daily about this and I don't want kids for at least 4 or 5 years. I feel that these doctors care more about their c section percentages than the well being of the mother and child.
@courtneyusmcwife56655 жыл бұрын
H 35 do what I did. Search until you find one who will listen to you! I’m having mine in March! I would’ve never gotten pregnant on the first place if I hadn’t found my ob! It’ll work out love 😘
@hannaholiver88315 жыл бұрын
@@courtneyusmcwife5665 ❤ congratulations 😊 Thanks for the info!
@Kozickih6 жыл бұрын
I wish I had seen this before my c section. It seemed like there was no discussion of the pros. I'd love to see a video about ECV too
@evitaevita986 жыл бұрын
I had an emergency csection and I also felt like I failed as a mom. I was put under general anesthesia, so my husband couldn't be with me. My daughter was breeched. Then a couple weeks ago I had an unmedicated Vbac with my son. Both deliveries were difficult, but I'd try for another vaginal delivery next time!
@ingridrevolorio18004 жыл бұрын
Eva C I also had an emergency C-section it was something that I was terrified and scared that I screamed going to the operating room . I was put under and while been under I started to alucínate and recovery was so painful !!!!😖 😣 now pregnant again I’m also terrified and my anxiety is not helping either just thinking about what’s going to happen during labor 😢😭😦😦 . I talked to my obyn she asked if I wanted more babies in the future I said no then she suggested C- section! Again??? 😣😯😦 I let her know I’m terrified
@inspireme926 жыл бұрын
My baby is breeched and my doctor told me today I need to schedule a C-section. I was terrified and disappointed, but after watching this video it doesn’t seem so awful anymore. Thank you for doing this!
@chasitytorres88405 жыл бұрын
Rebekah Parr how was it?? My baby is breeched also
@tflipping73364 жыл бұрын
34yrs old, First time mommy to be...I hv a low lining placenta. I’ve always thought I would have a non-medicated vaginal birth. I was told today at 33wks that I will hv a c-section. I immediately felt sad for some reason. I came here and now I feel much better and now ready to do my research.
@BumpandBeyond4 жыл бұрын
This discussion is great for any new moms and mums who have had a c section and want to connect with others who went through the same thing. Thanks for sharing these great pros and cons and opening up the discussion. Love your channel.
@njelly1297 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video! People do not understand the guilt you feel for making the choice to have a c-section. This video is 5 years old and I’m struggling to understand how elective c sections are still frowned upon!
@vbsworld76205 жыл бұрын
My plan was a natural vaginal, but my baby had pooped in the womb, her heart rate was dropping, and she wasn’t moving at all for 3 hours. I developed a fever of 103/39.4c, my heart was spiking up, and they had to do an emergency c section. I wasn’t sad or mad about I just wanted my daughter to be okay. That is the only thing that kept me so calm.
@naicam16 жыл бұрын
My midwife has had four kids and said recovery and pain is 100x worse for c section unless you have worse than 3rd degree tear
@yfsdm5 жыл бұрын
@@lilymel9759 Do you really feel like having your abs cut in half (and then growing scar tissue instead of the muscle so it will never work as before) is better than a tear in a soft tissue that will heal with time?!?!?!
@augustacookeygam55795 жыл бұрын
Kristýna Chrbolková it doesn’t always happen like that. After two C sections, I don’t have scar tissues, I have toned abs and recovery for both seemed easy.
@HattieRodvien5 жыл бұрын
I had an emergency c-section after a failed induction that I was pushed into at 41 weeks. I labored 11 hours without pain medication before my doctor came in and told me I was not progressing, I was feeling ALL the pain, and it was getting dangerous for baby and myself. My son and I are very bonded. I still was able to breastfeed. I’m hurt that I couldn’t deliver naturally, without any medications. I used to feel a lot of shame because I had a FAILED birth plan. I’m currently pregnant with my second and despite having been told I would be a prefect candidate for a VBAC, I’m having a scheduled c-section.
@ambersimerly18035 жыл бұрын
Thank you thank you thank you both for sharing. I'm 2 months away from delivering my 2nd child. The 1st was an emergent c-section. I've felt that I have to get another C-section and have been dreading it. Talking with my Dr., a friend and watching this video has really calmed my nerves. I'm now feeling peace in choosing a C-section.
@stolenrelic2 жыл бұрын
I personally am a survivor of sexual assault and the idea of natural birth is traumatic to me. (I know it's not the same for everyone!) Having a choice is so important! No one should be shamed!
@LoveLyMissCarLy5 жыл бұрын
My first son was basically forced out of my vagina by vacuum and an episiotomy through my rectal muscle after a 32 hour labor. I was left with a Rectovaginal Fistula because of the trauma to that area and my vagina is not what it was I’m still getting used to my “new” vagina after almost 2.5years. It took 2 surgeries to fix my Fistula which was a 7month ordeal, so you could say instead Of the 6-8week recovery mine took 7 MONTHS and almost $10k out of pocket since insurance wouldn’t cover my surgery! I’m now due with baby #2 in 3 months and am choosing elective csection this time around. Everyone including my new doctor says it will be so much easier to recover from a csection after the first experience I had. I appreciate both of your insights on csections.
@oliviap7496 Жыл бұрын
I had PTSD from my emergency c-sec/birthing experience (and still do) because almost everything that could go wrong did go wrong for example, medication starting to wear-off mid surgery - they reacted quickly though and in the end my scar was done 'perfectly' according to many examiners post surgery. However, the recovery took me long, almost 6 months to not feel sore (even after a year and a half when I got pregnant again and they did the ultra sound, it hurt). All this stress contributed to the my milk supply being low and it took me a month to build up. __ With all that being said, I'm still grateful for it. My son and I wouldn't be here without it. I just wish I had watched this video during that time to help deal with PPD because I felt less than during the time and it was one of my biggest struggle. So it's nice to see this in a different light.
@AnastasiaRuby6 жыл бұрын
Interesting video! I had an emergency C section and then a vaginal birth 17 months later! Baby number 3 is on the way and I’m hoping to avoid surgery again just because the recovery is so much harder.
@Gypsy-Queen5 жыл бұрын
Congrats on your vbac. I also had one 17 months ago and share your opinion.. I had a 2nd degree tear but regardless of that.. it was incredibly easier with recovering. 🙂
@vinayajoshi78105 жыл бұрын
When you talk about technology.. people live off machines.. having a c section is so much legit to be a choice of the mother.. it shouldn't be looked down upon at all.. I mean.. people have false limbs and all.. they're not looked down upon.. then why c sections should be considered bad..
@dreamcatcher47475 жыл бұрын
Lets raise future generations that are not as ignorant to whatever other people choose.. And hope for a better world.. Without one another looking down to each other... Maybe SOMEDAY in future people will become empathetic again... Lets hope❤️
@Sibicat4 жыл бұрын
So my C section was unplanned. I chose to have an epidural even though I originally wanted labour to be drugs free because I was absolutely shattered with hardly any sleep from the 2 days of contractions. I ended up going funny with the epidural and both mine and my sons heart rate went down. We were rushed into another room for an emergency C section. I was traumatised by it for months and had to go to counselling to talk about it because I felt I failed him and my partner. At the end of the day, my son is here safe and it was what’s best for him at the time. Well done strong C section mommies xxx
@tryphenarose3845 ай бұрын
This video has helped a lot to ease my mind. I've had two babies, both literally back to back. My son and daughter are 11 and a half months apart. Both were natural, with no epidural, with midwives. My 2nd birth especially was really hard. I hemorrhaged with both and had a 3rd degree tear with both. After the birth of my 2nd, I was diagnosed with a 2nd degree uterine and bladder prolapse. The symptoms are uncomfortable. Feeling like I have a ball falling out of me, and I can see my dropped organs when I examine myself. I'm only 28 and not old at all, as this us usually an issue seen in older women. Now pregnant with my 3rd, which was a surprise, and am going for a scheduled C-section to try to avoid worsening of my prolapse for as long as I can. I'm terrified of the thought of surgery - being awake while they're cutting me open freaks me out. But a lot of it, I'm sure has to do with mentality. Like I said, my natural birth experiences were hard, and its kind of nice to think I won't have to go through labor and delivery this time. The ring of fire is no joke! And I'm looking forward to not having to experience that again. Also not having all of that intense pushing on my organs, is relieving. I'm glad to have the options to choose between natural or medical deliveries.
@dark7days5 жыл бұрын
I wanna throw my 2 cents in this. I ended up having a c section. I was 34 weeks and 5 days pregnant. My son had to be delivered unexpectedly. The beginning of August I had high blood pressure and was sent to the hospital to check to see if I was developing preeclampsia. Was just high blood pressure. The beginning of September, same thing. Just ended up with high blood pressure. I was sent 3 times to the hospital to get checked out. I was told to not be surprised if they had to induce me week 34. September 14th I remember waking up and getting a shower...that was it. Somehow I got in my car, stopped for breakfast and got to work. I ended up having a seizure at work. Not long after I was brought to the hospital and had another. Turns out I went from high blood pressure to eclampsia, skipped over preeclampsia. They had to deliver my son...my husband wasnt allowed in the room, he wasnt even allowed to cut the cord. They had to sedate me, I was told I was fighting 5 doctors. My son was in this world for 48 hours before I even got to see him. A c section isnt something I wanted, I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to see my son until days later and sadly my fear came true. I was discharged 5 days later...however my son is still in the hospital. His lungs are still developing. Heres to hoping that he will be home in about a week 🤞
@Free2B36 жыл бұрын
I am 36 weeks pregnant and had scheduled a c section in 3 weeks hoping to avoid all the labor pain and tearimg. Thank God its optional in Canada, at least in my case since I also have SPD. thank you soooo much for the video, I truly enjoyed it!
@londontimetube6 жыл бұрын
LightUponLight888 how did your c-section go? I’m also in Canada and am scheduled to have one next week!
@natasjailnyckyj2674 Жыл бұрын
@@londontimetube how did yours go? im in canada too and im having mine booked soon for next month
@juanitamartin3216 жыл бұрын
At 20 years old I had to have my first child with a emergency c-section. I was so scared. Now I am having my fourth child v c-section. I love them.
@patricia-eu8ov6 жыл бұрын
I just want to share I've had 6 c-section for all 6 of my children. My newest one is 6months old. :)
@Ksh3rman6 жыл бұрын
My first son was an emergency cesarean after an ultrasound (I wasn't in labor) and my second son was born vaginally. While my connection with each child became strong and the same I can honestly say that it was harder for me to bond right away after my cesarean. My love for my son was strong but I still felt a little disconnect that first week or so. When people "Its harder to bond after cesarean" I would think that most are meaning immediately after birth.
@lorrainejimenez59915 жыл бұрын
Kaitlyn Sherman how far apart were the pregnancies? I want a second baby. My first was emergency cesarean
@prettibrowneyez2u4 жыл бұрын
I had to have an emergency c section in 2004, had a planned c section in 2007 now expecting my last in a few months and that will be a planned c section👶🏾❣
@godsgirl72015 жыл бұрын
My hospital Allowed skin to skin immediately after c section
@amandazander73055 жыл бұрын
@Fearn and Tucker’s Angel Forever there has been plenty of studies talking about the benefits of skin to skin contact and in most cases when you have a c-section you dont get that.
@amandazander73055 жыл бұрын
That's awesome they allowed that
@sweetheartokay695 жыл бұрын
If you want they do it normally right after the baby is born they clean them and lay them on to your skin if you aren’t in total anastehtics but only for few minutes while they are removing the placenta after this they will need to take the baby out when starting to close your belly for safety reasons and is normally waiting with the dad or someone of your family you brought in until you‘re out of the surgery room and after that they will directly lye the baby again on your cheast while the anastehtics is fading
@tcking20143 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! I am having my second c section tomorrow and have been crying nonstop because I wanted a VBAC. You have helped me mentally prep and feel better about the whole situation:)
@anghygonzalez76916 жыл бұрын
Wooooow! Such a healthy talk, thank you for this. I've haven't had the chance to think about all of this topic. I had a C-Section and I thought I was wrong for feeling so afraid of having it and all the pain after was a unique thing for me. Go girls!
@MissCheyonne4 жыл бұрын
I tried to go completely natural. No pain meds or anything & once I reached 8cm my daughters heart rate dropped super low and my blood pressure spiked ! I had to have an emergency c-section and it was so scary but well worth it . If it wasn’t for c sections I don’t think my baby would be here .
@donnapiraino33235 жыл бұрын
I had two C Sections..Both my sons were large babies 10 lbs and 9 lbs...My body never dilated...I never ever feel judged because I couldn't care less what anyone's opinion is on this subject....It's nobody business how any woman chooses to have her OWN CHILD BROUGHT INTO this world safety for herself and the baby....People need to stop judging and hating on other women and try supporting instead..💕💪🏻🤷🏻♀️
@yahmein5 жыл бұрын
I’m only in two days after having an unplanned emergency c-section and it is so painful, I did an all natural vaginal with my first and I would’ve definitely preferred having another vaginal over a c-section, but I didn’t have control over that and I think that left me a little traumatized. After my vaginal one I was able to get up, walk, shower, etc. My baby boy is in the NICU but I’m grateful that he’s here, that’s all that matters!
@JuiceeVasquez6 жыл бұрын
Thank you ladies so much for what you do, you have no idea. I'm 24 weeks with my first and I need all the help I can get. The only family member I'm close with is my grandmother and I dont have any friends so I turn to the internet for guidance. Thank you!!
@MeSimoneI5 жыл бұрын
This is such a wonderful video, I haven't got children yet but I've always been unsure about future birth plans etc. Thank you for shedding some light on C-Sections :D
@nhlakaniphonontombiteffo47393 жыл бұрын
This video is amazing, planning on having a baby soon not yet pregnant but I have always been so terrified of vaginal child birth and the anxiety just doesn’t go away and every time I tell people I’m going for a c-section I’m always being talked out of it
@guadalupe12rbd5 жыл бұрын
In November of 2017 I had my first via c-sec it was an emergency because baby had his cord wrapped around his neck and I broke down in tears cause I just seriously didn’t want one. But once he was out i was glad that c-sections exist. I’ll be honest, I was in no pain whatsoever. I threw away the pain pills once I got home. I hardly took them in the hospital. As soon as I was out of surgery I even asked if I could get up and walk around or at least shower. 5 months later I was pregnant again with baby #2 and decided I wanted to try to have a VBAC.... talked to my doctor and he said he was almost 100% that it would work out! So a few weeks ago on the 2nd of Feb i had baby #2, vaginally. And oh boy let me tell you. Pushing was awesome. Loved the birth. But once the epidural wore off boy oh boy I couldn’t wait until the next painkiller and the next and the next. I cried myself to sleep sometimes cause I was so upset over how much pain I was in. Even sitting or laying down didn’t help. When the doctor told me I had a tear she said it wasn’t bad and changed the subject. But she took a long time to sew me up. That was honestly so rough. I’m still in pain sometimes but have gotten off my painkillers since I don’t want to depend on them. But holy cow it was intense pain for days. I kept telling my spouse that i much rather prefer a csection. All my doctors kept telling me how fast i recuperated and healed after my c section.
@elizabethandrade88653 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy that they let you have a VBAC after 14 months after your first cesarean! I’m glad you’re alright! My OBGYN didn’t let me have one at 19 months after my c-section.
@nauuwgtx4 жыл бұрын
Now i know C section is literally fine and im now can have a sigh of relief because my mother are going in a planned C section
@LevelUpLauren6 жыл бұрын
Love this video even though I had a natural birth and poss will have a natural birth again with my current. I’ve always been open to c-section because at the end of the day, I want us all to be safe. I had two internal tears and haven’t really had any ‘issues’ with my pelvic floor as such. No one should have to feel ashamed about how they gave birth. As long as everyone’s safe, nothing else matters ❤️
@Hoopla298562 жыл бұрын
I’ve heard way worse things about vaginal birth than c-sections so they’re not really convincing me to have a vaginal delivery. I’d rather recover from surgery than go through the trauma of labor and ripping the cooch open with internal stitching….
@cranberry4202 ай бұрын
I'm not even pregnant yet, but I've always thought that I'd want a c-section, because giving birth to a watermelon through that small hole is absolutely terrifying. The reason I searched for this video is because I mentioned this to my mother (she's had 3 natural births) and she pretty much shut me off instantly. She basically said that people who get a c-section (without it being an emergency) are just like... For women who only care about looks of their downstairs and such. But I disagree with her. I've heard so many horror stories of getting torn so badly, bleeding soo much etc, that I really don't want to go through it. My brother's gf had a c-section (planned) and she healed well, and overall had a positive experience. I'm not getting pregnant for another 5-8 years (I'm aroace, so I'm not getting a partner, and will use a sperm bank when I want to get pregnant) so I still have time, but I've felt like this for a LONG while
@elle12925 жыл бұрын
I felt the same as the girl on the right, I had that birth plan and watched so many birth vlogs but ... had contractions for almost 20 hours and epidural and then no epidural and oxytocin stimulation and still was only 6 cm dilated so they put me through emergency c-section 🤷♀️. Also had those moms that were like oh you don’t understand..excuse you but I did have labour contractions w/o epidural .. anyways I did feel a bit disconnected from my son for the first week or so but not anymore❤️ cried several times after it until my hub saw me and made me realise there’s nothing to be sad about ❤️ So my advice is don’t try to plan your pregnancy just be on ease bc natural or c-sec doesn’t matter until you and your bby by are fine
@brittanydavis39263 жыл бұрын
I had a emergency c-section and it was the best easiest delivery it wasn't painful during or after plus the extra days at the hospital was so helpful. I'm having a planned csection with my current pregnancy and getting my tubes out so it's all in one.
@jenns62545 жыл бұрын
I had an emergency section and they only let my stay 1 j8ght in hospital, so far I'm 5wks postpartum and me and my little one are doing fab
@katiaray35166 ай бұрын
Elective c-sections are very different than emergency c-sections and they should not be put in the same bucket. Emergency c-sections happen usually when something is going really wrong with the baby or the mother, after many hours or days of labour, usually there are other procedures like induction etc. The doctors have to perform an emergency life saving procedure, and it is typically a traumatic experience for women and the recovery tends to be long and painful. Elective c-sections are a completely different story, you know what to expect, when you’ll give birth, you have time to prepare - to come rested, relaxed and have a postpartum plan considering the surgery. Recovery is usually quick and the pain ia minimal if the procedure was done correctly and if pain killers are used. My sister and friends that had elective c-sections had a wonderful experience and speedy recovery … while my friends with VBAC including my mother and grandmothers had traumatic experiences with tears, use of forceps, very long and painful labours, long recovery etc. I’m totally going with an elective c-section, but who am I kidding? I’m super nervous anyway, birth and postpartum are not easy.
@jjgems59095 жыл бұрын
I didn’t get to choose to have a c section. I had to have one to save my son’s life. His heart rate had gone down so much and was inaudible. The doctor told me they had to get this baby out! I do not feel bad or ashamed one iota for having a c section. Honestly it was such a horrible and yet equally wonderfully experience. So many emotions and not to mention the PPD I experienced afterward. But I would do it a MILLION times over to save my child’s life.
@DevynWeckman3 жыл бұрын
i am 18 weeks & i know it’s still early to be thinking, but i do have chronic health issues involving my heart rate/blood pressure, i think a c section would be a better route for myself rather than a vaginal birth.
@chelseycollins21585 жыл бұрын
For people that judge women for having a c section are annoying. I can’t have a natural birth because of my uterus I don’t wanna hear how I did it wrong for something I can’t even control.
@ZanaRahman6 жыл бұрын
I was so happy to have a doctor understand my emotions and have a planned c section even after having a great pregnancy! And it was the best thing ever!
@elenamartinez98004 жыл бұрын
Baby boy is breech and we had an unsuccessful ECV. It was a hard pill to swallow because I planned to do it completely natural. But now I've come to accept it and I'm honestly excited! 🙌 Just can't wait for baby boy to be here! And hubby is happy he won't have to see me in so much labor pain
@Gabriela-pi9zt5 жыл бұрын
I have had two C-sections. First was emergency, second was planned. I have two beautiful healthy children and would do it all over again. The pain afterwards is intense but it fades quickly. If you're watching this video and you have to have a c-section, just know that so many women have done it and have been absolutely fine, good luck.
@taramaryalice88772 жыл бұрын
I’m considering a c section as my natural was quite traumatic! Only concern is recovery of c section so like picking baby up and doing day to day things with a 6 year old.. 💓
@Gabriela-pi9zt2 жыл бұрын
@@taramaryalice8877 it's not too bad with a planned c-section speaking fron experience. The things that I found hard were getting up, coughing, laughing. I suppose everyone is different with their recovery and pain threshold. Good luck 👍
@KawaiiAYGirlz6 жыл бұрын
I am so happy to see a video from you about C-section... As for me, it was decided from 6 months that I will have to deliver throght c-section *my baby was in a seated position, he couldn't turn* which I really hated and I didn't want the day to come because I was so terrified and scared... but after the surgery I remembered I walked and I felt that my tummy will fall down it was so heavy to even walk.... what is funny that when I laught the next day I cried and laught at the same time.... but now I am glad it was C-section... but wanna experience the veganial birth... since I can't understand the pain....
@salamahmm19875 жыл бұрын
My first born was with an emergency C Section i went through the whole labour pain experience till 10 centimeters then contractions stopped it completely went away. I was just in pain but no contractions.they even induced but in vain. And the baby was suffocating so at Cesarean was done. But then my second and third born i delivered by normal vaginal birth. My Second son With 4 years gap. and third daughter with 6 years gap. The doc said after seeing the scar of my C Section as usual if u have a first Cesarean, doctors expect all Cesarean as if then u can not deliver naturally, so they just tell u for another C Section. instead of encouraging and giving u a normal natural birth chance. they just do Cesarean. So me i insisted for normal chance and i did. I'm so glad i didn't go through 3 C Section. I'm sharing my story to help others who wish to avoid all C Section's. And have a natural chance.
@christengardner14662 жыл бұрын
I just had my first baby and I had an emergency c section. It was very scary and I had to relearn to walk it's taking me a while but, now I'm happy to have done it to have my baby and family. In a few years my second baby I wouldnt mind getting a c section again.
@relaxregan5 жыл бұрын
Me and my boyfriend are planning to have kids a little while after we get married. I’m naturally a very small person because my mom was. Me and her both have very narrow hips. This caused my mom MANY problems giving birth to me and my two other brothers. She’s torn almost everything to bits down there. She sacrificed her body for us because she was not given the choice of a c-section. Therefore, to save my body (and my self because I’ve been told by my gynecologist that having a vaginal birth could endanger my life from how much smaller I am built in that area) and my child the risks of a natural birth, I’m going to have a c-section. I’m still very terrified of the pain and what I will look like afterwards. But this video helped me calm my thoughts about the future :) I feel more ready about having a child in a few years
@momtomom73225 жыл бұрын
i had c-section and i was so not understanded from so many moms. It is nice to see such video!
@Wanderflies5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video. I am pregnant and have been doing some research on this topic, and had decided that I wanted a C-section from the beginning. My doctor, however made me feel so guilty about it. The way she asked me already made me feel like I gave her the wrong answer. It was something like, "so, vaginal birth, right??". Ugh, even my best girl friend, who had two smooth vaginal births keeps pushing her ideals and experiences on me...almost shaming me for not allowing myself to at least try to experience something beautiful that every mother should go through. I keep changing my mind now, but regardless I'm quite annoyed some people can't understand that it's my body, and my decision.
@whatgwenloves4 жыл бұрын
My c section experience was wonderful even though it was unexpected (baby flipped herself back breech). However I would still opt for trying for a VBAC over planning another C-section for this next baby. The recovery is just so long, like 8 weeks at least! It wasn't too painful or traumatic, but it took so long to be able to move around without pain.
@laurenemond93842 жыл бұрын
How was caring for your little one right after it?
@whatgwenloves2 жыл бұрын
@@laurenemond9384 if you have someone that can stay with you like your partner or a close family member that really helps. I could care for the baby pretty well, but all household stuff like cooking dinner, doing laundry, etc was too much at first. You can't lift anything heavier than like 10lbs and I found if I was doing too much I would be really sore by the evening.
@redting27915 жыл бұрын
I currently plan on having a c section because of the anxiety natural birth gives me and this video helped me not feel like a loser ;-;
@dreamcatcher47475 жыл бұрын
Do it! ❤️✨ C section is just as good as vaginal.. Whatever makes you feel safe and less stressed is for you
@nvmee85 жыл бұрын
Please tell me how, I want this option and my hospital says no, that I cannot have a c section unless vaginal doesn’t work or if there are complications. How do you get one ?
@dreamcatcher47475 жыл бұрын
@@nvmee8 depends on which country you live in. If you have a health insurance and it can cover it then there shouldnt be a problem. Also I would go and see different midwife, if this one is not listening to what you want. Your body, your choice!:)
@dreamcatcher47475 жыл бұрын
@Janet Adebanwo you will be fine, and your organs wont be pulled out lol. I just had second c section and it was fun lol. It was like... I heae my baby screaming and i smile and ask.. "What she is aready out?!" and doctors be like.. "Yes! And we are almost done with surgery. :)" and then they gave her to me. The most painful part for me to be honest was when they added urine catheter.. 🤦🏼♀️😂 All catheter adding is painful.. But c section is not that painful because of anesthesia.
@sweetheartokay695 жыл бұрын
Same over here I‘m happy I‘m not the only one And still a little scared of my planed C section But definitely not getting panic attacks like when I tried to get prepared for normal birth so Me and my doctor decided to plan the C section
@amandamosser18546 жыл бұрын
This was SO helpful!!! Thank you 🙏
@daniellebecker80865 жыл бұрын
I am so so happy i found this video! Im only 15 weeks pregnant, but my hospital informed with that they are totally ok with elective c sections, and im seriously convinced thats what i want. But yes, im afraid of.judgement from my family. This really helped me feel better about it and gave me the confidence i needed, so thank you so so much!