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10 Antidotes to Anxiety Caused by Emotional Abuse

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Dr. Rhoberta Shaler - Help for Toxic Relationships

Dr. Rhoberta Shaler - Help for Toxic Relationships

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When you're living in anxiety, you cannot think clearly, right? Hijackals love to cause anxiety. They think it gives them power, and they look for ways to control. In order to make good decisions about the relationship, you need antidotes to anxiety to recognize the emotional abuse. Listen in.
An antidote is a remedy to counteract, relieve or prevent the effects of something. Just what you need for "Hijackal bites!" And, those can remain open wounds for a long time unless you know how to close them and begin the healing process.
HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
- Signs of your anxiety
- 10 Hijackal ways designed to increase your anxiety
- 10 antidotes that allow you to reclaim your personal power, and shift your toxic relationship
- Some reasons why it is difficult to change your patterns...and, how to do it anyway
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@WalkerHoundGal
@WalkerHoundGal 2 жыл бұрын
For a few weeks now, whenever he starts with his well recognized hijackal behavior, I just go to the kitchen and create a healthy green smoothie packed with superfoods, to remind myself that I am worthy, and building my strength. Taking care of me at the worst times, is my new habit that makes me know that I’m bulletproof. ❤️
@katrina3560
@katrina3560 2 жыл бұрын
Clever idea! I do believe I'll use this on occasion now, thanks. A great way to thought stop and redirect to things we are in control of and physically care for ourselves. 🥤🥭💚
@sharlapatriot2725
@sharlapatriot2725 2 жыл бұрын
On the first 2 minutes you've described the current jerk I'm living with. I may physically disabled but I am back to the strong person I was before him. Soon, very soon, I'm out of here. My faith is my foundation, my strength. Thank you for all you do to help us navigate this darkness in these "Hijackels". Life does not have to be this hard.
@ntordel
@ntordel Жыл бұрын
Q
@shaem9702
@shaem9702 Жыл бұрын
You are not alone!🙏🥰
@soraya4957
@soraya4957 2 жыл бұрын
I had to send the person a message recently. I didn't like to see the name in the list of lately sent messages. So I decided to write my friends and family how much I like them. In return I got lovely messages back. So good!
@sjwillis1137
@sjwillis1137 2 жыл бұрын
I actually love my own company . And many people have wanted to be good friends with me . Neighbours, colleagues . Now this vlog is so good !!!! Cheers babe!!😘💕💕
@terrapintravels3829
@terrapintravels3829 2 жыл бұрын
Also, just recently I was asking myself why I seem to want the approval of all the hijackals in my life past and present. So the question you mentioned, " why do I want the approval of someone I don't approve of?" Is so current with me. Thank you.🦋
@sjwillis1137
@sjwillis1137 2 жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ . So terribly , awfully true . Tension . Worried thoughts .
@sjwillis1137
@sjwillis1137 2 жыл бұрын
You have nailed it so so well. I did the fawning in the 90s . I DON'T do this shit anymore . But what I am doing is punishing . And that is hurting me . But , a walk ,, some nice music . Just cuddle my darling cat , and make plans for a nice walk . Thankyou. ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
@sjwillis1137
@sjwillis1137 2 жыл бұрын
Never mind your stutters . You have nailed it !!
@christ565
@christ565 2 жыл бұрын
All phenomenally great ideas! Always wondered why hijackals are attracted to me. I felt like I was never able to be smart enough with multiple degrees, good common sense for finances and daily living habits.
@lindalonsbury5362
@lindalonsbury5362 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, sorry I missed the live.
@devonnawicks7615
@devonnawicks7615 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! This video is full of mighty gems to empower ourselves to not abandon ourselves and give away our power to the hijackles.
@sjwillis1137
@sjwillis1137 2 жыл бұрын
I needed this so terribly , and can i say, your hair looks great !! Shallow Hal moment . But the colour and length is working 👍💕
@chrisb4653
@chrisb4653 2 жыл бұрын
Very helpful and profond! thank you very much!
@lindagreen9278
@lindagreen9278 2 жыл бұрын
It feels as though it's their world even though I'm striving to learn how to help myself. It's crazy making lol. The main person, at the moment, is a friend who has cancer and is somehow still surviving after 6 years of it taking her whole body. She will never be off of chemo. It's so hard, Dr. Shaler.
@rachael862
@rachael862 Ай бұрын
Rest in peace doctor
@terrapintravels3829
@terrapintravels3829 2 жыл бұрын
This video is so very helpful, thank you so very much.🦋
@shaem9702
@shaem9702 Жыл бұрын
Excellent!
@sjwillis1137
@sjwillis1137 2 жыл бұрын
Bless you ♡♡♡ 🇬🇧🇬🇧
@rachael862
@rachael862 Ай бұрын
Amen
@sjwillis1137
@sjwillis1137 2 жыл бұрын
I get it .
@fishstickbio594
@fishstickbio594 2 жыл бұрын
They intentionally create anxiety as they want to make you CHASE THEM. It’s called the “DREAD GAME “ . Be curious and google it or search it here on KZfaq .
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