I know this is 19 days later but man you be getting some sleep? I don't know if it's just me but the exhaustion is kinda obvious. I hope you are good now

Hey FJ 😁😁

What is your MBTI? You look like you could be my fraternal twin brother...

I think I’m an INFJ but not sure does that mean I’m not?

I can attest you are incorrect about INTP. Not only would we just go "Oh", and go silent, what we rage at is willful ignorance. Working at a (swimming) pool store, I had a colleague describe phosphates as "little pac-mans that eats away chlorine in your pool". I got stunned in horror for half a minute in front of his desk. (At BEST phosphates are food for algae. It is inanimate. It doesn't consume chlorine. THOSE. ARE. BASIC. FACTS.)

Just interrupting, period

Or you could just talk to them.

yeah, it's easy to get murdarized by an xNTJ

please I get so mad when this happens

Yeah, I guess my INTP ass is getting closer and closer to the INTJ side as I get older. *Starts yelling at clouds*

TYSM

Saint

Thank you. You time stampers are a great help. 👍

Bless you!

1:21 ENFP and ENTP

I'm ENTP and I'm in my home these days in quarantine because I'm with COVID and I spent one hour yesterday and another this morning filling paperwork and trying to register in government website to send to my company the paper that say that I'm ill and I don't have to work. It's like a nightmare!!! I'm ill!!! Why the government can't send that to my company themselves!!?? I only want to rest in peace!!!! It's impossible to register in that page because they have error maintenance due to all the people that is ill trying to get the same paper 😫😫😫 Finally I called to my company and told them that it's impossible for a normal user to register due to maintenance error and that they have to ask for the government that paper 🤦‍♀

ENTP here... My computer has received the worst of language.....

As a INTP minor, i haven’t had to do that yet, but I can see where the frustration comes from

Lmao my ENTP bf was told to go to like 600 websites and retrieve some numbers into excel. To me this is just casual and fun, but my bf is so pissed off he was smoking 4x more cigarettes. Had me laughed for half a year while I helped him with those works.

@@harerutoast what is your type? I'm ENTP and that job seems desperately boring as hell XD

As an ISFP I 100% agree with you!

INFP, completely agree with every single one of these. ESPECIALLY the last one.

Ohmygosh YES to all of those

Yep, that covers it. Good list.

Inability to answer the question "why" when giving an order with anything other than "just because"

just imagining these happening makes me annoyed already bahahaha

I've been annoying my intj sister my entire life and I agree with this list. I'm an infj and have had a lot of success with #1 especially.

The sound of my husband breathing bothered me, not that he WAS breathing, but the fact it was so loud that I could hear it. Stop smoking you big idiot!!!

OMG 100% I've annoyed myself with irritating noises. And it's devastating that I have tinnitus and there's no cure for it.

Nah. I have perfected my ability to just walk away. You first have to find a way to make me responsible for you before any of those have a chance of working.

And me looking at myself in the mirror this morning, just before work, trying to smile..then goes, Urgh, I can't even give a smile to myself 😐.. Thank you, mask😷

I just read a Socionics description of the equivalent to INFP: "Their faces convey the feeling that their soul is suffering even when it is not."

I actually felt very happy when he said that cuz quite a bit makes me happy

@@honeybeemoo Yes! Most people see me as happy. I do get sad easily, but most people don't do or say things that make me sad. And when I am sad, I usually keep it to myself. I cry when I'm alone, or write sad poetry, or come up with a sad story in my head.

Infps are so cute I love thrm maybe I’m one myself

INTP here, I don't really care about what others think about my individuality, what REALLY annoys me, is that they try to tell me what to do, bonus if they tell me HOW to do it, and extra bonus if it is about some important decision in my life

I am actually fine with most chaos, but the EJ one definitely feels like me. Lol

10,000% on the ENFP scale!!! We ARE that child that never ever responded well to "You'll do it because that's the way it's always been done." Stand back and prepare to be ignored.

@ponpon Sometimes a thought that I could be an INFP, but after several tests and reading about cognitive functions, I'm definitely main Ti parent Ne.

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Exactly

YES

Oh hell yeah that is irritating 😡

When they answer me like that (after asking why) I say "so you don't know why..."

@@nishatjahan339 I agree. It makes my skin crawl when they do not give me a proper answer.

"... the mostest." 😉

"The coolest of cats..."

INFJ and is me to a T. At work and in my house common areas I'm tidy, but my bedroom is a disaster. And yes, there is the added frustration I did I to myself in addition to not being able to do a little ritual I wanted to do and clean instead...like surf random crap on the internet in my coziest sweater with a cup of hot tea.

Yes!

I’m an INFJ and apparently so is Marie Kondo. When I learned about her I decluttered my whole house. (Although it wasn’t completely out of order in the first place.) My room is the one place that some things can get a little messy but it’s definitely not out of control. I have unfinished projects (pictures that need to go in albums, etc.) but they’re in neat ‘piles’. I relate to the whole - I’m having an existential crisis because I’m not happy about this thing but I know all I have to do are ‘these things’ to fix it but I have no mental energy because I’m upset with myself for not doing it OR I’m upset that my idea of perfection is not reached 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ We wear ourselves out mentally! I think so much I often have to re-read while reading several times or rewind shows 🤦🏾‍♀️

You just explained my life perfectly 😅 Also I feel like it fits the INFJ characteristic of being full of contradictions. Because I’m really neat with things like school work but, my bedroom is absolute chaos

Yes! Communal areas are clean and tidy but my own rooms - meh, it's only my stuff, it doesn't matter. I know where everything is (roughly) in the chaos. Looks like we've got an INFJ Messy Bedroom Club forming!

entp here, same.

Fr

I was talking about the nonexistent intent of suicide with a friend and they kept saying that "obviously a suicidal person wants to die"

@@hasargel so you were trynna find the deeper meaning? But your friend was like "nah there's no deeper meaning"

I'm an INFP that grew up in a family of mostly thinking types. Getting anyone to understand my point of view took a lot of work because my gut instinct is not easily explained in words. The only other feeler in the family is an ESFJ so I couldn't always rely on her to back me up T_T

I relate to this, and I also don't like personal questions from family members. They can tell me all about their life, but I don't want to talk about my life. I'd rather talk about my ideas, or things I've been thinking about.

Same - INFP

That has nothing to do with INTP, not a single thing. Everyone hates it.

@@dimensionalblade2778 Nothing's exclusive to any one type. He was just sharing his biggest annoyances, and that's ok. Also, while there are a lot of things that are annoying to most people, some types will tend to be affected especially strongly by any given thing. Some types are more amenable than others to doing as they're told or accepting one established way as correct and don't have as great a need to explore and figure things out for themselves. There's some obvious relevance to INTPs here given that their Ne needs to explore and consider different perspectives and their Ti needs to reason things out independently.

Same. I also hate when someone insists that they know the right way to do things when I've already seen their way fail. I also can't stand people who think/act like they are much smarter than they are. I've been around enough thinkers in their insecure formative years to sniff it out quickly. (It also reminds me of when I was young and stupid. I don't like that.)

Yeeeeessssss! - another INFJ

Hehehe

Yep... I am the definition of a socially ANXIOUS yet sometimes blabbering dum fuk

She clearly doesn't know anything about lifegoals. One is supposed to have high standards and goals. The higher they are, the higher u get. Think big in order to achieve big. Ofc one has to put in the work, but higher goals are more driving

Considering what you said, if she verbatim mostly said it the way you mentioned it, that is truly going too far and I'm saying that as an INFJ myself lmao. Like I'll also humble someone to calm down a little and focus on one step at a time, and remind them it might never happen, but at the same time I'll cheer them on if they're dead set on it because you never know unless you try. Of course, there are limits like wanting to marry some celebrity lmao, some things are really just dreams that don't influence your real life. In that regard if someone was complaining why they couldn't find their "*insert celebrity name*" and whatnot, obviously they wont find a copy of that lmao. Having good standards doesn't mean asking for god almighty. Even a perfect celeb or perfect seeming person has to have their bad sides. To this day I have not met a person in real life that doesn't have their down side. Of course, same with life goals, sometimes it's too much coming up with too many possibilities at once especially if you might change your mind later- in that case, there really is so much one can focus on at a time so if you were acting very other worldly and just hitting off possibility after possibility without regard for both your strengths/weaknesses and financial state and the steps that it would take to achieve something big from what you currently have, no doubt the INFJ might get irritated and depending on factors, their reaction might be more aggressive than necessary 😅. It essentially feels the same as being all talk and no action; INFJs are just that future oriented that when they make goals, they don't just say it, they size up the requirements.

@@MCPanda-bl3nc yeah, I understand where your coming from...but I've dreamed of doing these things all my life and have worked hard in my academics as well. I'm a good student and willing to work hard to make my dreams a reality. She just didn't believe that there would be a day that I would achieve that reality. As much as I hate thinking about real world situations. I am aware of the steps I have to take and the things I must learn to do so. Thank you so much for writing back to me. It meant a lot!🤗

@@sofiereads Yeah I get you. My sister's also an INFP but I've never had a reason to doubt her goals and such. She doesn't have super high dreams per se but she's capable of also being more than one thing and I know when it's all said and done even if someone achieves one of or their main goal, one day they may decide to go a different route and it's just how it is sometimes. Your sister might just be too overprotective or doesn't want you to experience a huge setback badly because it seems like a waste of time, but in all honesty, sometimes it's just better to get something out of your system even if it'll end badly or turn out to not be suitable for you lol. I myself have a problem with wholeheartedly believing I'm capable of much but only way to get somewhere is to try. Your sister might just also not be at a point to realize that, annoyed by the assumption that if it doesn't work out or it feels too unsure then it's a waste of time which is honestly something that can also hold me back at times and wish it didn't. Anyway good luck on your goals!

@@MCPanda-bl3nc thank you🤗🫂

OMG THIS!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Especially the second part. There are some people (older family members included) that I don't even bother talking around anymore because it would just piss me off. I realize it's not actually about me, that those are their own hangups.

Yes, I'm also an INTP and that irritates me. I like to solve problems and if someone dismisses my solution, esp if it's because they'd rather just complain about it, I wash my hands of them.

Yes!

@@shuris_vibranium Yes, it is their personality clashing with yours. Te Fe people tend to look more to "experts"--whatever that means.

@@lynnes1864 Same! I basically just said this exact same thing in a comment.

IKR! it's so annoying! My brother always interupts me when Im in my room and I'm chilling with headphones on like bro

My sister claims to be an INFJ and introverted, but proceeds to SIT DOWN it my room and talk nonstop - I'll be at my desk very obviously giving off "Please leave" energy, like "That’s great. Uh huh." And she'll just stay for an hour or two until I have to actually tell her to leave. I'll have my headphones blasting and I'll be split screening and she just doesn't get it. And then she gets angry at me for telling her to leave. She opens my door without knocking, starts talking about random crap in my ear and then proceeds to sit on my bed or in the chair next to the window- just doesn't ask. I love being an INFP. A lack of social battery sure does help when your entire family are extroverts 🥲🤌

Oooooh I do that. Now I understand what Frank meant. Cause I might die (or go into a coma) if I couldn’t use my data when we lose WiFi. My focus is a precious thing. Especially with ADHD.

Omg .. I'm an INFJ and I do that too...

I do that too LOL

Being stuck in some anniversary where I know no one and the friend in question has to give attention to everyone makes me desperate inside if I have no mobile data, I even download books sometimes 🤣

A few years ago, I ripped all of my DVDs and Blu Rays to my NAS, just so I could keep streaming media whenever the internet stops working, which is maybe twice a year.

First two just sound like you're antisocial but 3 and 4 are extremely fucken relatable.

Yea 3 and 4 are definitely where it’s at, 1 and 2 is just an antisocial thing

@@loganblack6684 Yeah 1 and 2 might just be stereotypes of introverts, but it does apply to me personally.

INTP, at least at some point, no longer expects others to "get it," and it's really their own problem. Ours is loneliness, but also people who want to interrupt our time to ourselves.

That last part tho, I feel that:”)

That lowkey isn't just an INTP trait it falls into INFP too. It's very disliked as an INFP especially since I have my own pace

My mom is INFP and she has always hated being rushed. She would even tell me that it makes her go slower. I'm INTP and, as I'm getting older, and trying to manage my anxiety and emotions better, I'm realizing how much I hate being rushed as well. It gives me a lot of anxiety. But before, I wasn't in touch with my feelings. I was just taken over by Fe (you HAVE to be on time to be respectful of others, or others will hate you, etc). Now I realize I actually like to do things slowly and in my own time.

@@lishayost144 I'm the same exact, I could have written this myself, except for the part about my mom being an INFP.

It's common for INFPs to identify with INTPs, since your first function, Fi (introverted feeling) is an introverted judging function, just like INTPs' first function, Ti (introverted thinking). Many INFPs first mistype as INTPs for this reason. Edit: the reverse seems to be not as common, though. (I'm an INTJ, Enneagram type 5w6, Enneagram tritype 548.) Also, not insulting INFPs. Just explaining.

@@lishayost144 Yep same thing here. I don't even intentionally try to go slower. I just get flustered and frustrated and it kind of breaks my rhythm when people rush me so I get more...awkward. lol

oh yeaaa filling commun is so frustrating !!

Same and im a isfp

*smiles in infp 4w5*

I'M ASSDFKDSNFS I gotta admit I still feel annoyed when I discover someone else is an INFP even though later we can enjoy the same things and think the same about them

Same!!!

Me too

Same ~

Or argue with ISTP based on feeling and insisted that was 'logic'

Oh god!! No!! My mom is infp and she talk to me about illogical thing in a very emotional way and yas its kill me inside.

@@atesakarn7448 you’re certified evil

Ye, hell no we're dealing with someone who refuse to get straight facts inside just bc that's brutally truth.

yes, that sounds far more logical. He was saying what bothers ISTP and I'm like, "well that doesn't bother me, just means there's more good people out there than I thought." If you wanna get under my skin, ya, arguing something completely dumb in an emotional way and I'll flip out. Like it deeply angers me when I see trees planted very close to powers lines because it makes no damn sense. TREES GROW and they're gonna hit the power lines and then you gotta shave the tree and the the tree looks silly

Not mentioning the work that gets in the way.

I’m an INFJ 5th grade teacher and this comment pretty much sums up the conflicting feelings I have about work

Yeah, I relate with this

Accurate.

I’m a nurse and it’s exactly the same to me. The constant bells and ringing drives me nuts.

Microexpressions never lie hahahahah

He really had a hard time masking the glee. To be fair, I was taking notes so…..

"These little guys 😀 are very-"

agreed ikr

INFJ here I did it :)

@@managerMcDonalds as an INTJ I love you for this.

@@bluwaterdragoon :)))

Same here

Like the people @ work not working. No purpose being there.

Like watching this video lol

Is that becuase youre an INTJ or are you a millenial meme and everything has to have a purpose?

EXACTLY!! Doing worthless things that have no use to me is my greatest pet peeve, followed by the fact that I have to deal with XSFXs and ENFXs at a regular basis and let me tell you, they give me instant migraines. No wonder I suffer from migraines once every week!

Very true. Can relate here

Same here, I don’t like to talk strangers but friends yes I can talk a lot

If you don't find these things irritating, then their is something wrong with you!

Also when people contradict themselves... Or the rare occasion where I contradict myself. Hell I can annoy myself with that one.

This INTJ agrees.

But feelings are real. 😋

Once I made an INTJ the most annoyed person in the world just by doing something without a plan in front of them The cherry on top was that my planless way worked out in the end

As well as teaching us brand new tricks and concepts 👍🏽

Yeah he is also so accurate

@@memecult3639 that's INFJ intellect for ya 😁

And he never entertains failure.

8) Talk to them

@@shortstacks592 yeah, that's about it!

I cant even point out which annoys me the most! They're all equally annoying! 😅

The same applies to an INFJ.

the breathing is terrible

I was just imagining getting a piece of paper and a pen and then someone tells me that, no, I cannot draw on it, but instead I have to fill in a form that's on the backside. Sigh, yeah, that's super annoying.

I gasped really loud actually when he discussed the paperwork.

as an ENTP i absolutely hate you

@@Moon-oq7mf 😂😂😂it's fine.. I like ENTPs anyway. They're fun people. Besides.. He annoys me equally by making me do spontaneous things etc so we're even. 😛

as an INFJ, I totally understand that infj observation. I do that to people and I do manipulate the situation but only because I hate it when everything gets awkward

@@thousandyardgavri2785 my understanding is that we work like thermostats at times as well and not just manipulators controlling the surroundings (people or objects)... Changing ourself to mingle in with the tribe to be accepted with our reasons or values.. It's weird but it makes sense to us haha..

@@saloni.sharma 20% of population are Highly Sensitive and INFJs are Highly Sensitive people. Crowds and noise overwhelm them, they like socialising sometimes but need days to recover, get overwhelm quickly. They are highly observant and thanks to extraverted feeling, quickly pick up on atmospheres. So we act as harmonisers in social groups, helping the introverted come out of their shells, calming down the extraverts, and keeping a balance and of course, avoiding conflicts (we hate them generally). It's been said many other types see this as fake or manipulative when it isn't. Our goal in life is to have harmony around us, and that is why we are called counsellors or seers (who in tribes are the medicine or wise man or woman). This is only acting out the way our cognitive functions make us like other types. We are using it to help others, not ourselves. Of course, I know I could be manipulative and be good at it if I wanted, but I hate dishonesty and it hurts to think that people think I'm fake (chameleon ability). It used to worry me too (who the hell am I??) but now I understand it. Generally, I try to be kind and helpful but also keep my own schedule and have time to myself as much as possible. However, famous INFJs are apparently Jesus, Martin Luther King, Gandhi, Hitler, Charles Manson and more! So we do have a dark side (Darth Vader curve) and if we let ourselves go there, it can have unpleasant consequences. I hate when because it is a rare type, a lot of people want to be INFJ like it's precious, and other worldly, when like all the other types, we have our good and bad sides, and we all need to work on our shadow sides more. We have all cognitive abilities, but have four stronger ones, that of course we like to use most because it's just easier (human brains love to take the easier short cut).. So for INFJs we need to work on our extraverted intuition (i.e. having the confidence to communicate our ideas and beliefs and articulate them well, and our extraverted thinking, work on our introverted feeling (i.e. working out who we really are and what we really believe in without the distraction of other people's feelings and thoughts) and most of all, our introverted sensing so we can run our real lives better (those hated mundane and practical tasks, having a direction and vision to go with). When we strengthen these, then we can become a better and more balanced person. I do feel with this video Frank was letting out his dark side,, with some relish!! I have found it helpful when I've got in some tight corners with friends where the situation has been quite dangerous). Anyway, it adds some dark relief. People need to be careful if they try to take down someone I really care about, otherwise outwardedly I seem very easy going so I'm told (not really true, inside I'm a seething mess of ideas and sensations).

So true.

Yet that's what xNTJs do subconsciously

@@--thatbih If you intuitively know how things should be managed and are managing things for yourself, the last thing you want is someone to mess up your arrangements.

If by "micromanagement". you mean "babysit idiots who won't think for themselves or can't be depended on to do a job correctly without someone watching over them or refuse to do a method that literally makes their job easier because they are either lazy or incompetent...", then Yes.

As an INFJ I can confirm.

And include a lot of paperwork along the way lmao

@@TeaLeafNeeka make sure that paperwork asks for repeat information constantly too

true, bureaucracy and redundancy are strongly related

Agree. I even find people speaking slowly to be irritating.

@@PaleGhost69 and doesn't use terminology consistently.

Pure facts above -INTP

Yes *especially* the first one - another INTP

As an INTJ, same, especially the first one

I'd either be sad or like just agree with that. "Yeahh you're right, but don't you worry fellow human, you can't make me think anything worse about myself than I already do....Oh wait, is that too dark?? Lol sorry!!😅😅😬😄😁😁😅" -enfp

if you tell an intj their weakness AND you are right, they won't get annoyed

@@GeekNewz they will. They'll eventually agree but fi isn't very good at accepting people's contradictory opinions... Unless it's an obvious one of course

@@saloni.sharma as i said, they will not get angry only if you are right

@@GeekNewz I'm just adding that they initially would if it's something valuable and personal to them like FJ mentioned. They'll agree if it's right but initial response is defensive when Fi is involved.

As someone who has irritated an ISTP before I agree wholeheartedly.

Yup, yup. If I had to do things based on how I feel about it, I would never get anything done. Cause I'd never know.

I’m ISTP. Discussing feelings? Ugh. Could we not?

As an INFJ, I'm thinking they aren't saying anything, so it must be really terrible. INFJ empathetic hug mode initialized.

My Husband is an ISTP and it is definitely a way to irritate him.

Same. I wanted to quit my job to pursue a career that was fulfilling but when my parents told me it couldn't work.It only made me more motivated to prove them wrong. Infp here btw 🙋🏽‍♀️

As an Intp myself, having smarter people around me annoys me. It's even worse when they can prove it.

If I feel tired or don't like the work we're supposed to do, I'd rather be with smart people so they can do it for me. If I really like what we're doing, then I just tell them what to do my way and if they don't do their part then I just don't do the group work either

I love being around smart people. it gives me a "feeling" of connection. past experiences provide this pattern, usually someone as smart as me has evil intentions masked by benevolence. I don't do group shtuff.

Especially if the teacher is extroverted, goodbye social battery.

@@beepboop4679 absolutely. it's like - are you going to let me work or not, sir

Right, anything is tedious to me if it disrupts my fun. I would prefer it if people messaged or told me in advance of any chores or favours they need done.

Entp here and you're 100 percent right! Spanish here as well!😊

Yes we NFJs have to learn the hard way that we, too, might be deserving of respect and healthy boundaries

@@timefortee I couldn't agree more. It's so brutal. Why is it so hard to get through our thick heads?? 😒

@@AllThisDebree Maybe because we were conditioned to be that way by our Fe parents.

@@timefortee Most definitely true. 🙌

Yup. I'm INFP, and for some reason I tend to hide my emotions. If you see me expressing them, it means I feel ok being myself around you.

In school I used to get teased if I showed emotion so I started holding back. It took over a decade for me to start feeling comfortable enough with others to allow myself to express any sort of feeling.

What is your partner? I do this stuff on accident to my INTJ hubby and I’m an ISFJ.

is he an INFJ? He certainly laughed the most at how to annoy INFJs... made me laugh the most too because that's my personality type

@@dawngw26 yes, Frank is INFJ

No, it's not. He'll put the information out there. It's up to you how you use it.

How?

Lol same! ENFJ and I usually diffuse moods and nod at peoples bullshit knowing damn well it’s bullshit 😂 LOVE debating if I feel moved and I always win when I decide to “go there” lmao

@@jellyfishi_ ah ok i get it now My mom is an ENFJ and she for sure does that a lot

@@spiritualempress6691 Try not to "debate" with an XNTP, they are...VERY passionate about it

Saaammeee lloooll

100000000% FACTS

Damn! That sounds scary.💀😱

Sayymeee my papa is estj and mummy is istj... And I'm infj :-)

This is incredibly true. I speak as an ESTJ that my biggest pet peeve is when people dont follow through on their promises. But doesnt everybody hate that?

So so true. My ESTJ husband takes his word extremely seriously. If he says he'll do something with someone he will not budge, even if a better offer comes around. So if you reschedule on him he will definitely take note!

"Faker Daker" too..

"You piece of shrimp 🦐" lol I love this 🤣

Coolosity, the uniquest

I've been itching to know the backstory of "my frisky ponies"😂

@@chidinmaajayi2000 lol me tooo XD

I'm ISTJ and gets really frustrated when that happens. I'm very organized and do things in the most efficient way. And when anyone messes my routine up for no reason or laziness, it really pisses me off! 😅

As an ISFJ I can confirm that what Frank said is true. Btw I definitely feel you guys..😅

INTJs seem frustrated with the world in general. What makes you happy?

@@The0Advent A lot does make me happy, honestly. I'm married to an ISTJ for many years. I love nature, I'm an early childhood educator, I paint and draw, I have friends that are honest and true. You learn with age. You learn what drains and what recharges you. You surround yourself with good people and not just be friends with anyone. You cut out who is no good for you.

I got one, I'm at a work training and one of the team is egotistical to an extreme and continually interrupts the teacher/lecturer giving his opinions and his knowledge like we flew across the country to hear his dumbass opinions.. OMG I WAS SCREAMING INTERNALLY. Even the teacher was starting to show signs of telling him to stfu. There was some redemption though he ended up trying to prove the teacher wrong which backfired and an awesome comment from the teacher. "Well I guess that's why I'm the teacher and your not" almost everyone in the class laughed at him. This was a group of 20s - 40s working adults too.

I'm now a teacher in my forties and I still wish I didn't get annoyed so easily. But the upside is high efficiency and and the ability to avoid crap pretty well.

ISFJ teacher for 32 years…I guess it would just be you and me in that class because I would never put up with such nonsense! 🤣 Try to survive until graduation. Sorry for your unhappy experience.

I can't believe how classes are run since I was in school. I went to a couple of my son's high school classes and I don't see how anyone could learn anything. Kids were running around all over the room, talking to each other, playing with their stuff. Nobody was paying attention to the teacher. And this is supposed to be one of the best schools in the midwest. I think the school is fudging their stats.

I find accepting the fact that people can only change if they want to has been an enormous relief, and lifted any responsibility I felt off my shoulders! Of course, it's frustrating for INFJs who want harmony but also logic, to exist, but we don't live in that world. What I find incredible is finally realising some people are nasty because they enjoy making other people feel bad. I gave up warning others ages ago, because they have to find out for themselves and learn the hard lessons that way too! I don't give negative, toxic people much leeway now, two strikes and they are out, or I see them coming and avoid. That said, when I see people are honest and have generally good intentions, I tolerate their differences much better. Even though I have good intuition about people, their quirks can still surprise me, but if they are harmless, it's all good fun. It helped me a lot to realise I could use the Door Slam when things were dire, rather than putting up because I did not want to feel judgemental or unkind, but our intuition is usually right, and we need to listen to it more. Yes, feeling sorry for people who are not worth your pity has wasted my time in the past, but once I realise they don't want to help themselves, I'm done, and won't lend my ear to constant whining about the mistakes they repeat.

@@angelatewson8202 Thank you for sharing your experience~ What you say is very relatable and I’m happy we were able to reach similar conclusions (But at the same time it is also sad we had to X’D). It certainly makes life easier being able to set boundaries where needed while at the same time accepting that people are the way they are, change if any at all can be a long process and that it is not our responsibility to make it happen. (I’m basically just repeating what you are saying now and don’t have much to add) tl;dr I wholeheartedly agree 😂 (but it did take until about my mid-20s to get this far think)

What? That's dumb. If she would be the only human left in the world she probably wouldn't last more than a month

@@bluepetals. she wasn't that serious, she just hates humans

As an INTJ I like to fantasize about a scenario where everyone but me mysteriously disappears from earth (I would only include my pets too 🤭).🤣 I don't know about your friend, but if it was me I would already be thinking about all the pitfalls and possibilities so I don't know how someone else bringing it up would be annoying. Whenever there is a new idea, the first thing I basically think about is why it wouldn't work.

@@AngelDeed Yeah she speaks about that a lot lol, she even made scenario where aliens would take us and her future 8 cats ( at least she included me this time) and then destroy Earth

I know I wouldn't survive on earth without any other humans around to handle the things I cannot (e.g. food production), but the scenario where I am permanently abducted by aliens and taken to a much better planet has occurred to me a thousand times.

I agree! I’ve been married to my ISFP husband for almost 30 years, and I’m so impressed at how he handles the real world! Also, as an ISFJ, I’m better at managing chaos, as long as I see a time limit in the future 🤣

Omg conflict. Yeah just run in the opposite direction. That's my go to XD

They don't want to admit they fall prey to manipulation in advertising because they want to believe they're in control. You could try to explain the logical fallacies used in ads, but they won't like that either

@@recoveringsoul755 Actually, awareness of it does help. Those who are not aware of it (while watching) are going to be most affected. And there are studies that show that about 25% of people can't be hypnotized.

@@lishayost144 right, but op made it sound like the other person was close minded, thinks they already know everything

@@recoveringsoul755 Yeah, it seems they were being a bit overly defensive...

I'm pretty sure his close ones know this already.. It's not that hard to figure out what irritates people around you.. He just gave us a cheat sheet hahaha.

INFP here, it’s because their sensation(action) is their buried function. I’ve struggled with this my whole life.

as an iNTJ myself i couldn't agree more. it annoys me so much to the point of being happy, to anger.

Yes, when I first saw the video, I thought it was going to be one of the comedy sketches. It was a good informative video though. I'm sure these videos are easier, not having to change clothes 16 times lol!

Yes. Yes. Yes. Actually that doesn’t irritate me; I’ve made my peace with it.

Well-stated. I try to be as patient as possible with stupid people, telling myself we all have those moments. But being micromanaged is intolerable, on the level of a flea infestation to me.