I wouldn't want to get locked up with an INFJ either because as an ISTP I would probably be too cold and insensitive to their thoughts and opinions without realizing

Ik you won't see this but I think your videos are really funny and actually really accurate too. 👏🤌

Orange jumpsuit is a vibe ngl

Listening to it right now and saw that it was a year old so listening how it compares to today's annual check up, Doctor Frank. Heyyy...you said ESFPs are awesome...huh. Oh yeah, in older video you said you wanted to be an ESFP instead of an INFJ when people were typing you as something other than INFJ which haha I see that you've been bringing up lately especially seeing the ol classic INFJ Frank James return....is it classic?..Wait a second...you had short hair in your video! I paused the video since I want to hear your thoughts because you're a likable guy and stand out amongst the internet so you don't require as much of a "why" behind your what reasonings if you just listed your likes for types kinda like with people close to us or people we like or think has good taste....then we don't need the why behind the what or kinda like how we think someone is good with tools, we can just ask them what tools to buy no questions asked or if someone has good taste in fashion just wear whatever they say...UNLESS...I don't like wearing pink, and yeah, I know in the past pink was considered a more masculine color while blue was more feminine and pink had that whole blood in the snow sorta deal but um violence is not masculine so...what I'm saying is....who knows? If you are an INFJ....waitasec, in this new video you called out Fe types other TRUE type- LIAR, in which case....waitasec...the fun hook of "What's Frank's type" is back, and oh, man, I still paused at your ESFP love...which wait now I gotta watch the ESFP segment of this video because I thought you backed ENFPs, ENTPs ISFJs ISFJs...but then...oh yeah you did say the LIAR thing so...wait what am I even whatever let me finish this and get back to...I forget...I think you're an INFJ: INFJ: 1. Ni 2. Ne- Being that Ni is an INFJ's dominant function conceptually, I think Ne would be ranked second among INFJs functions but if they don't get a chance to pull back or are just entertaining people like you, maybe that's why you might come across as an ENFP because we don't see what Ni goal you're ordering everything towards...I'm pretty sure it's to entertain people while helping people while making dough so you can cook the dough so you eat the dough because money don't grow on trees and if it did...the economy is brutal enough to even think about it...But this is why any INFJ can come across as an ENFP or INFP 3. Fe- Depending on how much they're interacting with people, they'll come across as an ENFJ and even in previous videos of yours where you suggested a pattern of judging doms always asking questions people could think that about your polls but have to take in consideration that we love the polls, and as you established in this being alone video in regards to ESTJs and ENTJs, you're an agreeable guy plus it helps your videos and....guys, check out the polls. They're fun! And if you're looking for someone to connect with, you'll probably find at least 5 people no matter what your personality is because there's so many cool people, and that's all thanks to you, Frank building up such a cool following with your fun friendly...uh oh I gotta go! You rock. ENFJs are considered the most likable type so maybe that's where it comes from. 4. Fi- This could be ranked higher depending on how much an INFJ spends alone trying to find things to connect people over and in my opinion...cuz everything else has been a fact so far haha...I think the Fi Si combo are the more intimate personable functions to help ground someone in having a personality, and the reason why we care so much what you like or dislike about types is because you have such a likable personality. Nothing to do with type. You said there could only be one INFJ, which, heh, is the INFJ thing THEY ARE THE ONE and also cue your Guy Fieri reference haha (hey, that might be a classic along with my favorite TANK JAMES haha. Before getting into your channel, I was thinking you might be an ENFP, not for a great reason but...in my experience ENFPs are the funniest type besides ESTPs and INTJs...although INFPs might be up there but I can think of famous funny ones at the moment besides Brian in Impractical Jokers...but Ne ways, Fi could also help you come across as an INTJ, which, conceptually I think should be one of the top types you could come across besides other NFs (yeah yeah yeah, I saw your charts in your previous lesson plan video...I get what you're saying but, hey, I'm writing this to try to defend your INFJ honor! haha But anyways, you did a fantastic video on INFJs and ISFJ not coming across so different but I think INFJs could also come across as all the NF types as well as an INTJ...and really could come across as any type if they're well developed because we all use all 8 functions every day, but it's like in your video about the grip, we'll see our type when the chips are down....and by type I mean if were the type of people who missed squat day if we have frog butt bending over picking up chips....hehe The point is...INTJ TANK JAMES 5. Ti 6. Te- This could be ranked lower depending on how much an INFJ is working with external logic 7. Se 8. Si- This could be ranked high depending on how much an INFJ spends alone and maybe could get higher due to something like depression where they reflect on the past a lot, or need it for work and taking care of health.... Oh, just unpaused the video and heard you love ESFPs and...ESTPs...so what happened this year? Frank man?!!! jk So, you can't stand ESFPs and ESTPs because you're too busy sitting down in awe of them. They are great. What's a famous ESFP....Lou Costello? I watched a documentary on him...funny guy...butt I still think from my experience ENFPs, ESTPs, and INTJs are the funniest. Haha just paused it again. This is a roast? You are agreeable man! haha I could learn from you...which is why I'm listening to these videos...whether or not I'm learning....unpausing the video again Uh oh. I finished your video, uh, never mind...even I'm too agreeable to say THAT! Woah! jk haha The point is that I was more convinced you were an INFJ more than anyone and one of the best MBTI people besides you is the ENTP ZombiesRuinEverything (my gauge for ENTP), wrote an article called "Type you Most Wanna..." And for INFJ, he wrote "Type You'd Most Wanna Restore Your Faith in People", and I think you...don't really know you...but I think you're one of the most decent creators ever so it's nice if you get to relax a bit and share yourself instead of always trying to gauge everybody's sensibilities to make so many happy all time and...let me read the comments for a second...hang on...scrolling down....yeah, everybody loves you being you. That's why you don't have to give the "why reasoning" behind what you like. You can just give the "what information" and people are happy to hear from you because you're so great Frank man.

@@JohnHenrysaysHi am I supposed to read all that

But after a while, I'll start talking about random deep things that ppl think about in the shower. It might be annoying, but another deep thinker might enjoy the chaos :)

*Relatable*

Tell me what are your deep subjects you talk about and I'll prove you wrong in mere seconds.

I’m an INFP but this is really relatable still, lol

Please break the silence! A bummed out INFJ can brood and sulk in the loudest way possible (without making a sound) and my inferior Fe cannot handle it! -INTP

Lol, I didn't think of that. Yeah, Ne users are nearly always considered annoying irl so I'm happy to see you've got someone who doesn't think that

Then why did that idea exist in the first place? 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀

I don't think they're annoying, which is probably a good thing, since I gave birth to one (an ENFP.) Anyway, my little ENFP is a pretty awesome human, with a very cool way of seeing the world. There's no such thing as a boring conversation with an ENFP. -INTP

As an INTJ female, ENFPs are the least annoying type for me and all my close friends or crushes happen to be ENFPs. I guess it depends on the person and is not a general thing so I wouldn't worry about that if I were you.

As an entp I thought we'd be the most annoying

Ikr

@@realtehen Dude some infps are so fucking dry like you. How can someone be so socially secluded yet adored and still be alive. I don't understand how we as a species survived because of our construction of language yet Inxp types are the antithesis of speaking sometimes I have a very very sweet infp friend but they are such a dry texter and speaker at times it is comical and almost worrying :> It's okay though I take a while to come up with things to talk about because I think quite slowly, especially with people I don't know. I don't know how people just have a seemingly random stream of things they like to talk about and can seemingly summon at will. (actually thats kinda meta and hypocritical since im all 🗣) I actually thought of making a system where i just remember a few important questions if I ever want to take a convo deeper but I probably won't, if anything as an ixxj I need to be less of a control freak :) Infps please continue to be awkward, it keeps things intriguing and honest, it kinda boosts my ego since I realize that not everyone is so open and extroverted and it makes me feel heard and safe in some inexplicable way Infps are the people you want to be around even though they don't do much and are very unassuming I should collect more infps I currently have 5 intps friends and 1 infps friends I was tired so I talked a lot Okay bye bye infps feel appreciated

lol did i write this?

So relatable, I feel like it’s a complete waste of time talking abt things that happened to me or what I’m planning to other ppl because i my self wouldn’t rlly care about such stuff if i were them

Storms of Ne should be rather EZ and even endless with xNxPs, just talk about anything in general jumping from one topic to another because of "connections" in between, i mean, if it happens that your best friends got heavy Ne - INTP

Also INTP and you are correct. However, if a conversation did ensue, I would certainly rip apart any illogical statements or conclusions presented to me. (That should be enough to get him to leave me alone so I can get back to my quiet corner.)

Also, as an intp who has accidentally been really critical and harsh when having, what I thought were interesting conversations, I now have an intense fear of interacting with anyone I don’t know well. I’ve even tried to add positive statements like, “Hey, that’s an interesting point” and then gotten yelled at because it sounds insincere. Interaction is too much work and a cause of too much turmoil.

Thankfully there are even less occasions to deem it necessary to leave the house with contactless delivery. Too many (dumb) people on the other side of that Twilight Zone door to the outside. … Is there a Twilight Zone doorbell by any chance?

@@jenna2720 Yes! Accidentally upsetting people seems to be my superpower or something. I hate talking to new (or new-ish) people because I've accidentally messed up horribly so many times in the past that it's become more trouble than it's worth for all parties involved. I don't understand the intricacies of "polite" conversation and social cues, and at this point, I'm not sure I ever will. Social interaction is unfortunately one of those things where no one tells you what you did wrong or how you messed up, and even if someone does, it's hard to break those habits because that's what feels right and natural (and logical, in my case) to you.

I feel so comfortable with intps. They're so weird.

Tell your friend to find an ENTP to talk all day, and you should find an ENFP to bring out a friendlier/more talkative side of you.

@@firespawnie537 Accurate, as an INFJ with an INFP mother making conversations just like Frank said took effort so I just stayed quite almost the entire time, not like we don't get along or talk at all just like we both prefer silence. When I met an ENTP though I started speaking more and my communication skills got even better.

This guy sounds kinda rude. But maybe he was trying to get you to talk more or something

My bestie / boyfriend is an INTJ and I'm an INFP and we're both very introverted but we love talking to each other all the time and I get so talkative that I feel I'm annoying but to him I'm not (either that, or he just lies to me lol). So I'm trying to say that it's not your fault that you don't talk, you just need someone you like and vibe with :)

My father an ENFJ often complains that I don't talk to him often.And when my mother also don't talk to him very much he goes to our neighbors to talk which can last veryyy lonnng.Sometimes I wonder how can they talk so long and never get sick of it.

As another ISTP, I would simply and passively answer the questions asked

@@talaomaluko6749 Same bro. Unless there were fun things to do in the room. Then I could explain how it was constructed poorly and tell Frank how the idiot who built it could have done a better job (this may or may not have happened in real life without Frank and you'll never know for sure because i'm pleading the fifth😁)

@@aaronburdon221 that's also very relatable dude, if there are any nice objects in the referred room, I mean.

I would start a conversation but only if there wasn't anything more interesting to do

I have ISTP boyfriend and he wouldn't get into one eaither.

As an ENFP myself, I can confidently say that I can and will laugh at my own jokes. One time I got butter on my thumb and laughed for a solid 30 minutes. I don’t even know why. It was so funny for no reason

Haha same! I’ve often been told I talk regardless of if the other person is listening, talks back, or really cares that much. For me it’s externally processing I don’t need other people I just need to talk aloud the other person might as well be cardboard. I also don’t get linear conversation or social conversation boundaries (because Fe goes out the window when Ne joins the convo which is like immediately) so any topic or idea is on the table for me and then I talk, jump from idea to idea with little consistency (or logic, but there is logic somewhere in there), getting very excited about these random things and the other person normally gets taken aback, but becomes intrigued and if by the end I haven’t alienated them a friendship is formed (and by that I mean I find an introvert and kidnap/adopt them- all my friends nearly are introverts)

😂😂😂 That story is so relatable! I have three niece under 5 and this kind of thing happens a lot. Only difference is they start crying or get mad when I can't stop laughing.

oh god, yes and that made me laugh 😹 too

We would all get along bc we would just talk to ourselves and laugh after a while and not worry who is listening 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Appreciate your insights!

Thanks for validating us. We love you INFJs to bits and pieces aswell! So, so much! -INFP

I'm an ISFP 😊 I haven't seen any comments other than yours even mentioning ISFP's, so thanks for being someone who did, it's tiring never seeing any about us 😂 Also yay, I feel appreciated 😁😂

@@avalontucker everyone knows already that Isfps are great, that’s why they don’t state the obvious. :P

@@Recep007 Thank you 😊 I always thought we're pretty annoying 😂

Agreed. Same here. I'm German and we're not really educated to be polite, but I don't want others to feel bad because of me,so I usually am happy if the people around me are happy. I'm also very good at looking at someone pretending to listen, just following their emotional vibe and turning my mind off not thinking of anything.

Same. INFP small town farm girl raised with manners & a high tolerance for small talk. I once watched a livestream walking past a line of people & realized I was smiling and knodding at the people in line from my couch 🤣 Engaging with kids in their imaginary hypotheticals is a blast!

🤣😆 That's so cute thanks for a giggle

Also same. I think our Ne keeps us open to the possibility that what someone is saying might indeed be interesting, and our Fi makes us rather tolerant listeners, however it also takes our Fi a while to formulate an appropriate/somewhat genuine response while we digest what was said, so I can see why FJ thinks the way he does

Exact same. I'm an INFP from the South as well. Whenever the topic of conversation goes into something I'm interested in, I can talk someone's ear off, and they'll probably think I'm very social (usually with other college kids). However, family reunions are awful for me. They talk about things that don't interest me at all, so I just sit there, not talking to anybody the entire time I'm there. There's barely anyone my age, or in college, or been to college, or even remotely near my political stance. They talk about jobs, and starting a family, and car troubles, and it's hell. But plop me in a conversation about movies, TV shows, music, or games I've never experienced but watched a review of that one time, and I'm golden!

INTJ married to an INTJ. He's slightly more extroverted than I am so that can be awkward at times.

Agreed !! I think though were quiet if we assume that the other person might be anywhere near our own personality or share similar interest we will try to connect and make conversation. I feel Intps are stapled as being quiet because were shy when really we just dont talk unless it intrest us.

He should do: the personality type you are most _likely_ to be stuck in a room with :D just kidding, it's not a given INTPs are winning that one.

Yep...totally me...sometimes it's hard to pretend to be interested in the conversation cause I don't want to be rude and make the other person feel upset...

Same same

Saaamee ahahaha

Omg that's so true

Yeah this is the exact situation I be in when I was looking at my phone or reading a book at the bus stop when an auntie or uncle came and started talking about history. Then the conversation drifted really fast to their families that they were actually telling me their family problems. And the thing is. I don't even know them 😂 Happen to me all the time 😂

How sweet! ❤️

I'm sorry for your loss. ♥️

Thanks so much for the time stamps, they're immensely helpful!

Thank you Random Name

Thank u :D

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A MODERN DAY HERO

Same

I think my longest monologue was about 35 minutes until she quite literally told me to shut the F up. Who doesn't want a 35 minute monologue about ancient historical figures and how their actions made the world how it is today?

Don't ever get me started on Brandon Sanderson. I could go on a while talking about his writing speed and quantity only to go off on tangents about his magic systems which I've memorized the complexities of. I've done this to many friends. Luckily they're all nerds as well.

@@aaronburdon221 Bro I'd love that. I'm and ENFP tho so I love when people talk to me about their favorite things and I can ask them questions after questions and the conversation never ends and I love it more when I can connect one of my interest with that persons interest after lots of questions and we just vibe.

I'm an ISTP married to an INTP with very different interests and both of us only tolerate the other's monologues so we can keep giving our own. >_>

@@b.1162 yeeea as ISTP's we have to remember that we aren't always the only smart person in the room, but God knows that it feels that way sometimes lol

As an ENFP my best friends are INFPs. We just get each other.

@@Harlenna INFP, and my best friend is an ENFP. those 2 types are literally made for each other 😋

I love INFJs…most of my closest friends are INFJ…when I immediately click with someone they almost always end up being INFJ. I love being myself with them while giving them time and space to get comfortable so they can eventually open up and show what’s hiding under the surface…because it almost always matches what I openly show on the surface. I always get a kindred spirit kinda vibe with them and it makes me feel special knowing they are able to be themselves with me. Also…I always wanna post comments but it takes me forever because i have so much to say and am incapable of being succinct that I eventually give up because I get overwhelmed…or I post it but overthink it to death and then end up editing it a million times or eventually deleting the comment entirely. I feel you. ~ENFP 🙃

Infj, I love enfps they are so funny.

I'm also an INFJ who tends to click with ENFPs, they're just the right kind and amount of wierd and random and deep. Edited because I was still on my post surgery painkillers and, therefore, could not spell.

What about ideas to brutally torture people for example taser them until you get the needed information when looking for information on a suspected terrorist? I ask this as an ISTJ.

Fr, that's one of my favorite part os socializing. Getting ideas from someone and then, on other social situation, sharing this ideas into another group. Is like I'm a plane and ideas are just travelling around :3. I wonder how far an idea that I shared have travelled.

I LOVE INFJS. - enfp

The INFJ chemistry is so real - another ENFP

All the INFJs I've met in real life are very cool. -yet another ENFP

It’s because INFJs and ENFPs are shadow-types. They’re exact-opposites and exactly the same simultaneously so there’s always going to be a natural synergy. Ditto for INFJs and ENFJs.

INTJ here: I agree that small talk is a waste of time, painfully boring. But talk to me about your personal trauma? 😳 God, *…no!* Not unless you’re a close friend, then I will do my very best to comfort and support. I’m a very private person and prefer acquaintances to have similar boundaries. We can bond sharing interests until a certain level of trust is established (if it ever is). Instead of small talk, tell me how you think capitalism may need to change in light of the worsening effects of climate change; what you think of the inculcation of religious values into public policy; or the creeping authoritarianism across the globe; or even *why* you chose your particular career path. Even if your opinions differ from mine, it’ll be a deeper and more interesting conversation than, “Hey, how ‘bout those Cubs?” And we each may walk away having actually learned something.

As a fellow INFP we're really asking the real questions Lol

I'm intrigued about the idea of being stuck with another INFP. If we could open up, I'd love to explore someone else's world views in an honest and open dialog. I can handle opposing views if you can be mature enough to have a discussion about those views.

@@MelodicQuest There'd be this slight tinge of both of us feeling like we might be misunderstood, but if we showed each other that we can both be non-judgemental, then I'd say we'd start to slowly open up. It's a rarity to find someone in this world who truly understands us, but maybe that's just from my experience.

so true

You went out in public?😳 That's already a win in my book😂 Be proud of yourself. You're doing just fine🥰 (infp)

Just start doing a military march everywhere you go so you dont trip LOL .. actually in all seriousness, I have been re-taught how to walk a few times in my life and supposedly how you lift and plant your feet says something about your mental state. I cannot specify for you, but maybe the marching thing may be a good idea if you are tripping because you are not lifting your toes. We take walking for granted and that it is so easy. There is actually A LOT agoing on in order to walk.

I think that's what INFJs are. I become so clumsy at times, makes me wonder what the hell am I !!

As an infj, girl, you just described us. I’m extremely clumsy, both left and right brained just both of everything I swear🤣

@@kacimarlene Infjs might could have two brains and nothing would change because it is impossible to exaggerate how much they think

oh this is such a good idea!

Yessss!! Please do this one. I love this idea.

@@FrankJames We are very interested in your assessment of this idea ;)

I think an ENFP would die quickly, especially if it was a who done it? mystery. ENFPs are so friendly they have often have no guile to speak of.

The NTs and the SPs would survive. The SJs would survive only if they follow orders correctly by thr NTs. And the NFs would probably die.

I am an INTJ (female) who was often stuck in small room with another INTJ (im talking closet space, had to watch carefully we didnt touch on accident lol or invade eachothers space out of need for propriety and resect). Honestly I followed them around cause I liked them. They didn't like it at first but eventually we talked about anything for hours lol. I think they liked my boldness, bluntness and sense of humor. I think they secretly missed me when I stopped coming over to the tiny room and share all my cool ideas in that closet, but things end and I had to move on. Still good times. I honestly think they disliked me at first cause they were trying to push me away but once I made a joke about them and it made them laugh so much that they secretly liked my interaction, but they were so severely introverted and odd and terrible at expressing feelings that they kinda shoved me away and I'm an INTJ too lol (I think female intjs are more extrovert-like imo). So I guess if you're a male INTJ and a female one is seeking you out to trap you in a closet with cool conversation and awesome jokes, for the love of God take the hint. We hate everyone too so why am I here? With you? Ugh INTJ males are hopeless sometimes lol.

I once listen to other INTJ on the internet and her interpretations were... I would call them stupid, but let's just call them different than mine. So yeah, two INTJs are going change this simple room they're stuck in into hell.

@@grazynawolska8160 I don't think it's a gender thing but more based on the person's personality tbh. But i do relate. I tend to push people away thinking it's a waste of time talking to them but when I start enjoying someone's company, I'm really hard to get rid of lol.

@@ArtsyAustin My boyfriend is an INTJ and he is exaaactly the same. He gets really enthusiastic about space and science-y stuff as well and says a bunch of "what if's". I'm an ISFP who's kinda like an ISTP (My enneagram is apparently 4w5), so I'm not into that stuff cuz it's kinda scary to me 😂😂 But I just listen and smile cuz it's kinda cute seeing how into the conversation he gets, even if it is very one sided 😂

Oh god now imagine you are stuck with another you.. except your views on things are swapped… what a nightmare

Nice one :D On the other hand ENFP: oh hi Frank, my youtube man, the YT enigmaH! How it goi... oh wait! Let's make a video, like, right now. Wait here, I'll go find the camera.. ~ comes back with some random book he's found ~ Hey, have you read this book?

When your Brain is talking to you, tell your brain to ONLY talk in the positive sense...Your subconscious knows nothing of the word NO so THIS is what it heard you say... "He's gonna want to talk about KZfaq. Think of something else to say. Talk about KZfaq. Talk about KZfaq." ..... No one would be able to resist.

@@carissahill3414 actually your subconscious DOES understand the word "no" and by denying something you create resistance which in turn makes it more likely to happen. I find that changing my core beliefs and healing childhood wounds has been much more effective in creating positivity around me than policing my thoughts for negativity. I just let my thoughts exist and know that they are not who I am.

@@melodyconte I wasn't talking about policing your thoughts for negativity. The word NO is not inherently negative. For example, saying No has a positive effect when keeping to your boundaries. What I was referring to is this effect v=3H82aFBFvzQ

@@carissahill3414 you literally told me to tell my brain to stop saying no. Under my original comment, which is a JOKE.

thanks!!

Yup. IxxP types are the personification of ‘head in the clouds.’ The clouds may be composed of scientific musings, somber theological and philosophical marvels, lilies, anime or moonwalk routines but unless they have a duty to perform or bring inventions/knowledge into the world it’s all for them and them-alone. You don’t intrude on an IxxP’s world.

Sometimes I’ll use my INFJ-ness to trick myself into being more outgoing. I start telling myself that everyone else feels awkward too and it’s always nice to have someone break the ice…so if I reach out and break the ice, it’s an act of service to the other person. I’ve met a lot of good friends this way.

H*ck yeah hearted comment

as an ENTP you're literally trying to be all the 16 types at once 😁

I'm an INTJ, who is extremely talkative and the intellectual sparring is why I tend to enjoy ENTPs at parties and things... that is, until I realize they're not actually interested in the specific topic so much as the idea of sparring. My interest in the mental game of talking to other humans is moreso about borrowing their brain for awhile to sharpen my own against (combative) or to aid in fleshing out a concept I care a lot about and am a bit stuck on (collaborative). ENTPs get this process started, but sometimes get bored with the subject when I feel we are just getting started. If I am feeling more relaxed, though, and can just "let the convo go where it goes," I can have a blast chatting away with an ENTP!

ENTP always has my back so, yeah... :) -intj

ENTP x INTJ is the best relationship.

🙌

Yesss. That's one thing with us. We suck greatly in social gatherings. But we function (close to) normal in one on one situations.

Especially on a mutual topic, it helps time to pass.

The Josh fight? No idea to what you are referring. I was thinking Highlander.

@@SugarandSarcasm it was an organised battle between a lot of josh to see which one can keep his name.

That's it.

Omg I thought I was the only one who actually remembered the Josh fight!

That’s the exact reason why I don’t have a favorite color...

I feel like we ISFPs just like things without any deep reason? Like a song just sounds so good?? Like your heart and mind are just telling you to like it 😂 No other reson needed... Or that is just how i feel.

@@sephwearsprada exactly😁

God damn it, you are me!! 😂 I don't know any other ISFP's and I swear to god I need to find some, so I can be friends with someone who doesn't look at me in confusion whenever I say something about me "just liking" something 🙄😂 Like if I say I like Autumn cuz it "feels" nice, then it's because of exactly that! It just resonates with me; I feel it in my bones 😂😂 Gotta have a logical reason for everything nowadays 🤦‍♀️😂

I'm an INTJ, my GF is an INFJ. Sometimes it happens just like Frank says, sometimes MAGIC happens. :D

@@mr.popoballballl745 I know right. INFJs are so damn nice. My brother, my boyfriend, my best friend and my closest colleague. All are INFJs. 🌸

I believe the beauty in your heart is reflected here too!! ~INFJ

@@wisteria1739 Throughout my life, I have been misunderstood. I have been forced to choose between intimacy and respect. With him, I can have both. INFJs taught me that vulnerability is the birthplace of love. I have been working on my tertiary function since so long but he polished me. I have never had a single fruitful relationship/friendship/acquaintance because nobody quite understood me. And This INFJ, figured me out in 1 conversation. I think the best pair is INTJ INFJ when INTJs are in touch with emotion and INFJs are not mistreated and loved rightly. He is absolute magic. P.S. Thank you for the compliment.

Another INTJ here, my wife is INFJ, this is exactly it. She runs cover for me against all the feelings (eeeeeewwwww), and I force her to logically confront reality, and then conquer it with cunning and a lack of mercy. ... (insert "are we the baddies" meme)

Agreeing as an ISFP

same here (INFP)

Omg I will literally shut off and not say a word if I know I won't get along with the person. And if i have to talk to someone who is different to me but capable of getting along with, I will restrict certain aspects of my personality if it will cause awkwardness with the other person, or change it only slightly to avoid conflict if I can see it working. If not, I will almost definitely not like them due to them questioning me about the stuff I like in a seemingly patronising/insulting manner, or them arguing with me because they got too vocal about their viewpoints on some particular thing that I would hold back from talking about personally, because I know we would clash about it 🙄😂 Also I find I can be myself the most with my ISTP friend (who's also a girl), and my INTJ boyfriend. My friend and I have the same dark sense of humour which is at the same time very silly and stupid, we'll go from joking about things we really shouldn't joke about to crying with laughter at some stupid snapchat filter that puts your face on a sloth 😂 My boyfriend and I though just click, and anything we disagree on we both avoid talking about because we know what eachother can get like haha Also sorry for this being an essay lol

ENFP would probably be one of my top 2 choices (especailly because my bff is an ENFP) -INFP

I feel the saaame way.

I’m ENTP too!

@@dreamfyre11 Yayyy entp buddies :D

my mom is XSFX, my dad is ENTJ, my sister is a very social INFP (sound weird, but belive me it is real).... and then me, an INTP...

@@Dr._Bo dang that must suck I’m like half intp and half entp.. so I understand 😅

@@beepbedits I kinda half entp too, but hooo boiii you dont know how the two sides of my families are *only* extroverts (exept two in my mother's side. the one is an INTJ end we are close to each other, and the other is INFX).

Lol stuck in a room with someone that has nothing worth saying but they cant handle being alone with their itty bitty thoughts so they think they are doing you a favor by killing the silence with what their grandkids said and what their plans are...😖

Really? As an INTJ I love coming across one of my type!

The anxiety of having over shared something is real 😶😶 but am I the only infj who likes meeting other infjs? plus I love to hear people's stories and dreams 😂 I'm also basically immune to whining. 🤣 I just love digging and understanding other people because they help me understand the world in a sense 🤷🏼‍♀️ but I have to say I have a very low tolerance for boring small talk which is usually what people who likes to talk talk about 😬🙁 at least those I usually meet ^^

@@JellyIsland im infj and running into another infj i have not done that i know of. I have met an isfj and she is a loyal friend whom i have so much in common with but i would love to get to know another infj just to see how annoying i am to others. Im rarely liked by others and its usually by those i dont care for much anyways. I would like to observe another infj and study it like national geographics filming a tiger from a distance.

People who are afraid of oversharing, are either afraid, that the person next to them will not be able to handle it or are afraid to look in to themselves more deeply and hence need help with it. It’s no weakness to share, it’s a weakness to feel weak about it. If the person doesn’t care, then don’t feel bad about it, it just means, it’s not the Right person for you. The less you feel judged by others, the easier you will be able to live with yourself and it makes finding the right people to connect with stress free.

Los ExxP son divertidos pero los Ti son interesantes :)

Como INTP me pasa EXACTAMENTE lo mismo

Sameeee

Encontrar puntos en común puede ser una carrera cuesta arriba pero es la única forma que conozco de mantener la atención de ESFP. También evita profundizar demasiado en un solo tema si ellos no lo hacen.

Same, but I am INFP.

Same!!! ENFP here. My friends sometimes can’t catch up since I want to jump topics from one to another. Hahaha

ENFPs are great best friends... and also pretty damn annoying (still love u guys 😋) -probably every INFP ever PS: considering ENFPs are probably the only type able to understand us, and they aren't too shy to talk to us, they're pretty much the only friend option we've got anyways lol

Nah, you are not weird.... *grins in ENTP*

@@farrex0 I just suddenly became hurt. But then I remember that you are a Ne user too. So in your point of view.. we are the same as you. Welcome to the weird side

@@andreavieira5681 I mean true, if you are weird for being an Ne dom, then how would I know it because I am an Ne dom too? What is weird for others might be normal for me. But yeah, I am weird as well, or maybe the correct word would be, unusual. Although you should know by now, I never doubted ENFPs were weird. Just that I can't let go of an opportunity to troll.

@@farrex0 when u said grins in entp I imagined that frog in your pfp grinning at me.....nvm

@Erza Scarlet I'm not really much to write home about, but she is the person who understands me the most in the whole world. That means everything to me! :)

To balance things out, I feel obligated to call you insufferable.

@@end4567 🥲

He's mellowing towards us as he gets to know more ENFPs in his life, which is nice!

Everyone takes it so personally as well, like it's not your fault you don't click with us, and it certainly ain't ours 😂😂😂

Appreciate your insights!

Appreciate your insights!

Well worded

I would disagree and say they're naturally resistant to viewpoints that different from their own, although healthy INxJs can work on that of course. They have a big idea of what is true and how the world works and if something doesn't fit with that they might not say anything but they'll be resistant to accept it. I'm ESTJ so I'm the same with Te, I usually won't say anything but if people act in a way that I think is illogical it bothers me, even though to a lot of people it wouldn't really matter.

Gosh, this reminds me of washroom moments. When I refused to say "excuse me" but I needed to reach for the napkin. I washed my hand like 3-4x longer & waited for that person to leave. :( How much more if I'll be left alone with someone else in a room :(

@@AdiSchwarz LITERALLY, I'll do anything I can to get out of the room or distract myself, being alone in a room with only 1 other person especially someone I don't know gives me goose-bumps.

@@kaity9480 By that time, it happened I was so focused on the person which was 2m away from me when normally, I have my playlist loudly playing in my head without my earbuds. :( After that, I told my friend, "I dont need to be asleep to experience nightmare."

@@AdiSchwarz Yeah you start hyperfocusing on the fact that you're there with another person that it clogs your entire thinking system, probably anxiety (at least in my case)

@@kaity9480 That's alright, Venti hihi But not looking forward to another moment. 😂😭

just realized there was a pattern where the opposite type is opposite of the type, so if it begins with entj, it will end with isfp and so on (i know no one cares about this)

@@color4795 I care about it, thank you for pointing it out. I find stuff like this really cool 😊 As an ISFP it also tells me who to avoid 😂😂

Well… 😂😂😂

It would be cool

Oh yes, every introvert's worst nightmare, being crowded with so much people!

@@trinaq not if all are introverts :) and if they don't have social anxiety.

There is actually a TV show on this!! A Korean show about all the MBTI personality types living together and seeing how they react. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mNOgoL2cs7-2aYk.html

yasss me too - enfj

Yep, I’m ENFJ and are usually very ashamed that I’ve talked about myself for way too long when I should be getting to know the other person better 😅

@@HaHaHaLMFAOtv I know right!? Glad to see I'm not the only one lol

I was, too!

Hahahaha right?? Same

Love the idea to bring up an idea to analyze rather than making small talk!

@@Introvertedalpha thank you! And what type are you?

@@inblack585 Thank you for asking! Our clients cover all 16 types, especially INFJs!

B.A.L.A.N.C.E. balllllaaaanceee!

I'm an infj and I talked quite a bit to someone I think is an infp and spent awhile with friends I think were infp or infj, when we talked we sorta knew when our "world" was felt and where the boundaries were, but actually were surprisingly happy each time and we never really punched something we knew the other was "fixed on" so if there was a "fact" that for any reason isn't true anymore (there's a lot of potential reasons) we knew the other person wouldn't budge much we would just say a part that was close and we probibly knew but with a little that we probibly don't know, and it's sorta a "hey I disagree with that thing, but ur view is just as strong as mine, why don't you go reread that sector, I'll prob do same" and we arnt really expected to remember the question just what it was pointing lol

I'm an INFJ- most people I interact with irl think I'm boring because I barely have anything to say. Almost my entire self is stored within this abstract realm inside my head that it's almost impossible to communicate my thoughts and ideas with the outside world, thus, I mostly only participate in small-talk, and I'm not very good at even that.

@@josiahtaylor7967 until the right person that we deem as capable of understanding at least some parts of the contents of our brain appears. Believe me they are out there. It happened to me a couple of days ago and it was amazing (having someone actually listening to my thoughts and theories and even asking questions. He was an ENFJ). Plus no we're not boring at all once we let someone in and trust them to the extent of showing ourselves. But yeah if i don't trust a person i'd simply act like a wall.

Hm - am inclined to think that the key to an ideal - or at least tolerable lol - real-life interaction would be if both parties could find either one thing to laugh about or one thing to enthuse over. Otherwise, in my case I wouldn't want to impose myself where unwanted, so I'd withdraw into myself.

Same

I thought you were an INFJ? Something changed?

@@koylejeune4332 Yes, I retook the test again, and I received ENFJ as my result, but it could always change again.

ENFJ here! Bingo! Haha same

lol as an enfj probably same

Though did you know that when he throws you spiky things and you jump on top of his head he will fall and you will get to ride his cloud and evade everything in the game and just ride it until 3/4 or for the whole level?

@@danirosa3804 I _think_ you can do the same for coin Lakitus too. I've always tried to do it for the spiky-throwing ones. Never been great at it though.