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Introverts, looks like we have been "EXPOSED".

SIGNS THAT I LIKE SOMEONE(INTROVERT) 1- Pretend i don't like them 2 - Analyzing them from afar 3 - Getting to know them when its too late(yay)😩

Me liking someone, avoiding them at all costs and then wondering why they don’t notice me or have asked me out 😂😂

Introverts be like: Anything you say can and will be used against you.

They either naturally talk more or stay quiet, totally depending on their crush's energy. Maybe only me, hehe.

Most of the viewers are actually introverts with a crush, finding out what signs they do so they can stop doing them and become more mysterious 👀

I am an introvert... And when i like someone, i freak out and try to ignore them and pretend like i don't care👀

I ended up marrying my crush, who is also an introvert. My coworker at the time actually ended up telling him that I liked him, which is a good thing because he had zero idea that I was throwing all these subtle, introverted hints at him 😂 we owe our whole relationship to her extrovertedness 👏

I'm an INFJ and I just act like my crush doesn't exist while obsessively thinking about them the whole time.

Introvert here🖐️. My crush thought I hated him

1- They try to be physically close to you 2- They talk more than usual 3- or They won't talk at all 4- They talk about their interests 5- They remember random stuff about you 6- They will find weird excuses to talk to you 7- Watch their eyes "watching you more than others"

When two introverts collide, probably nothing will happen...

I avoid eye contact, otherwise I feel that my crush would read my soul 😅😅😅 So I usually look when no one is looking like a ninja... Collecting data in the shadows.

I am, actually, the CEO of not even slipping a single word in front of my crush

"There's a fine line between this being cute and creepy, so don't over-do it." Oh, so that's why I'm single lol

"What was I thinking" is a question I ask myself everytime a word leaves my mouth

signs an introvert likes you 1. they dont talk to you 2. they seem like they hate you 3. they avoid you at all cost 4. if they run into you they contort their head in every possible position so as not to look at you 5. ... ... ... well it's really just those 4

Like... like? Or _like_ like?

As a SOCIAL introvert, I can say that I... 1.) Smile more, but try to cover it up 2.) Glance at them a LOT but get embarrassed when they look back at me. 3.) Laugh wayyyyyy more, like to the point where it's almost obnoxious. 4.) Doubt myself somehow even MORE 5.) Sit closer to them 6) Talk way more and share random stuff about me that was probably never needed 7.) Get really distracted, almost forgetting where I am 8.) All of my nervous habits come to the front where I'm suddenly sweating, rubbing my hands together, playing with my hair.. (My ADHD doesn't help with this either :'>) 9.) I will remember EVERYTHING about them and bring up every inside joke that ever existed between us in the history of ever 10.) Somehow, with all of that going on, also try to act like they annoy me when really they're the only person I want to be with in that moment If any of your friends that are generally quiet around you do this stuff, then maybe... ;))

You missed one about the 'complete shutdown' thing. In high school, if there was a girl I was particularly interested in I would show her how much I respected her by ignoring her completely.

The worst thing about crushes is that they have full control over you. One compliment can make your day the best of your life, sure, but it can easily get ruined if they said the opposite, even as a joke. They don’t even KNOW they have that kind of power.

Note to self: Make sure not to look at anyone when everyone is laughing.

“I probably can google it myself but I wanted to ask you for some weird reason” that hit me so hard 🤣

"They're collecting data on you!" Man, I just read every single Facebook and Instagram post she made during the past 10 years, and over-analyzed each of her photos on all mediums, so that doesn't count as collecting data... is it?

"Create opprotunites for you to talk to them and initiate contact." That just made me think of aliens

When me and my crush both are introverts: 👁👄👁

I cant be the only one who is regretting every little thing I did in front of my crush right now!

Being an introvert I have done everything that he mentioned while being around my crush..And now my crush is converted into my husband..😍 Will be completing one year of our marriage this month...💕💕

The problem with us introverts like-liking someone is that we don't communicate and find out the facts but, instead, fill in our knowledge gaps with fantasy, and then get disappointed and upset when the person is different to our imagined perception. It's a drama that can repeat itself for a whole lifetime.

when someone says something funny and everyone in the room starts looking at everyone to see who's looking at whom

"Introverts will talk more than usual" Me: *spits drink out realizing that I do that and feel really stupid around my crush and wonder why I act like a crazy person around them"

The only problem is that liking someone doesn't necessarily mean he wants you as their partner.

Me, an introvert trying to talk to my crush: ... Potatoes

Me, an introvert, thinking about my introverted crush: He really likes me! Also me: Nope. Nope. Stop assuming

Introverts will talk more than usual infront of their crush, but only rubbish things will come out of their mouth and they endup embarrasing themselves and making their crush uncomfortable and ruin any chance they had. :(

* They try to be close with you * Meanwhile, *Me, who runs like a freak just by the sight of my crush*

Imagine how many people have felt called out watching his

The thing about being physically close to the other person is also just enjoying their presence. Nonverbal communication and all. _I don't know what to say, but I like to feel that you're there._

Nah mate if I'm staring at my crush repetitively it's really just because they're gorgeous and I can't get enough of the sight of them

I'm the type of introvert that is quite around my crush because I'm worryed I will look like a total idiot but I do try to look for opportunitys to talk to them. And I think I'm giving them the impression that I hate them or I'm being totally obvious and WHY AM I LIKE THIS

My favorite is when two introverts like each other and there’s a standstill and you never get together cause neither risked making a definitive move 😒

I know nobody asked me but, I want to share about the time I dated an ENTJ, I liked him at first sight in college, we lived in front of each other (inside the campus), just by looking through the blinds I could already see him (yeah, I watched him a lot xd creepy) Luckily, we were in the same class so i got several excuses to talk to him. Since we were neighbors we ran into each other "accidentally" on the way. I remember the time that I "accidentally" brought so much tofu so I called him to share it (I already knew that he is a vegetarian). In simply words, I studied him a lot hahaha so that the situations happened "accidentally", so that we ended dating😂 (nowadays I think that it was manipulation😢) (Oh, I'm an INFP) Now I know that my actions were kind of creepy ☹️ ... unless? 😂

Lol I stare into my crushes soul and immediately regret all my life decisions when they come up to me

I'm an introvert but when I'm with my girlfriend it doesn't take "energy" or whatever. I usually just wanna be left alone(not talk) but I can talk for hours with my crush

When I was in 10th also, my crush wished me a Happy birthday and I say "You too!" with absolute happiness. He teased me about it the rest of the day and I was the happiest girl alive 😌

Only if others knew that we really really want to be their best friend or love. Only if. 🥺

that awkward pause at the end after telling the story... that has been my whole life.

I'm hoping my crush (she occasionally watches your videos) sees this video on her own and realize that I might be into her so that I don't have to confess directly. But, you know, chances are quite low.

The problem comes when you, an introvert, like like another introvert, so you both stand super closely to each other, but wait for the other to start the conversation Help? I'm an INFP and he's INTP (in my opinion)

I got my first boyfriend like that. Staring, excuses to talk, a lot of staring, asking my other male friends about him, sitting near him, 6 months of this & I got him hehehe

I’m an introvert and I wanted to see how true this is. It’s really accurate. I’m cringing remembering how I do this all the time :’)

I literally just realized I do all of these things around my crush-

I'm not here because an introvert likes me. I'm the introvert, I couldn't even figure out if I like someone so I'm looking for some signs.

Why am I watching this as if someone is crushing on me. IVE BEEN CONFINED IN MY HOUSE FOR 9 MONTHS Edit : it’s been officially a year (+some months due to massive exams )of confinement the world has forgotten about me and I’m coming to terms with it

“they seem to remember random stuff about you” i... i feel exposed. S.O.S. send help

Got it. Now I'll be careful to not be suspicious around my crush😂🙃:')

Me: talks louder to everyone else but studiously ignores the person I like

I've always preferred taking my crushes to my grave and pretend i didn't notice them when they're near than somehow letting them know, guess I'm the forever alone type

My hubby is introvert, and yes, in start, he was all the time around, he still doesn’t stop talking to me, yes, his interests... he never stops, even when I don’t listen and he knows it, ok, he forgets everything, even some meaningful conversation that made him fall in love with me, yes, always looking at me...it’s fun to be married to introvert 😁

Seriously this vid is sooo helpful. I needed help deciphering introverts. I don't need to see a funny sketch, just a practical guide to understand introverts better. Thank you Frank!

I'm an INFP and I had a crush on an ENTP. When he told me he'd been attracted to me for three years but couldn't figure out if I liked him I think I nearly died. I'm trying to be more ~expressive~ now when I like someone because damn that's a lot of time to waste lol.

The problem is, we know some of our actions are creepy, but we don't know what else to do...

As an introvert, I do like weirding people out and I do like this girl, and one of my goals is to weird her out, idk why, but that is my goal, somehow I haven't yet, she just says "your not weird, your just creative and persistent"

I remember soaking up every piece of information my crushes' behaviour would reveal and then being disappointed missing one opportunity to do so. I love being introverted!

Introverts are so thoughtful and confusing. We love that. Beautiful mysteries ahahahaha

Frankly, that was great! Can you also make a video on how to tell if someone’s just being nice or if they’re interested?? Thx!!

Frank, I started watching your channel a few days ago and I'm never getting tired of watching your videos lmao I'm an introvert with OCD and I couldn't find your videos more relatable. It's so reassuring that normal introverts also store embarrassing memories to torture themselves months/years later with them, or that they are also afraid of social interactions and are self conscious 24/7, godamn I thought smth was wrong with me for getting tired after 10 minutes of socializing and needing time alone despite i didn't mind hanging out with my friends or neither I hate them... I don't feel so alone and weird thanks to your videos and the community you helped create

3:50 I have never felt so called out in my life.

No offense but as an intovert I do NOT wanna be on a relationship with another introvert like,, at least ONE of us needs to be socially functional

I will become more shy and timid because I fear doing something or saying something wrong, but at the same time I will make an effort to engage with that person in ways that I can

It's so cute when someone remember random stuff about you because usually it's something people don't pay attention

You are my “ How to Parent an Introvert” educator. Thank you!!!

Ruminating on something you did in 10th Grade is *so* introvert...!

Me talking to my crush: My crush: "Wwhat does that even meaan like, why? “ Me, sweating: I-I don't know.. Lol haha My crush:Sorry gotta go Me:oh me too, no, I mean sure, me neither, I mean ok, bye.. Bruh.

Couldn’t be more true! Especially remembering random things about someone you like lol.

For real! Bringing up interests is such a helpful gauge. Oh yes i remember the most random things and how he said things, that was huge.

Pretty accurate. If I'm silent I'm either desperately trying not to show I like you, or I'm mentally conveying "approach me, and I will not be held accountable for your murder." Not confusing at all.

It’s creepy how accurate this is

ur minimalistically hilarious out of nowhere xD so subbbed!!

"Remember random stuff about you" Me: remembers that my crush used a dark green gel pen to sign my yearbook (oddly specific ik) Him: remembers what book I was last reading and notices that my purple shirt is my favorite bc I wear it every couple days Yes, we're in love

Don't TELL them!! They'll stop giving us the signs and then we'll never know...

Now what. about extroverts? I got you covered as I am one of them: 1: Putting more effort to talking to you then others. 2: Being SUPER talkative or SUPER quiet. I've done both. 3:Asks your opinion on something and then trusts it. EX: should I cut my hair? 4: Smiles or stares at you a lot, accidentally or purposely. 5: Asks to do things 1 on one or team up. 6: Compliments you a lot or acts silly or even cool to you. (More than normal or to others) 7:Usually its quite obvious because they give you more attention than others. All these could be signs and extrovert likes you or... they are just an ENFP.

you have a unique way of explaining things , so funny but so true .

Completely true! And about the fine line between cute and creepy in remembering random stuffs, i went through it lol!!!

I feel quite called out lol😅😂 I literally do almost all of these

These are true facts. My husband and I are both introverts, and before we started dating, we... did a lot of these things. We "randomly" sat next to each other on many occasions, stealthily learned many facts about each other, had a lot of accidental eye contact... Anyway, then he asked me out by email.

OMG I’m collecting so much data with this video. Thanks for opening my eyes Frank.

Great your doing content on us introverts. I don't normally try to explain to others as it's hard to.

What if that person introvert likes watches this video? Poor introvert will get exposed who was subtly hiding. Such an accurate video whoa.

Now that it’s over I am realizing I do all those things... in the creepy ways.

Trying to avoid psychical contact with them. Being together with them but being super anxious around them. Freaking out Observing them

HEE HEE ! Spot on as usual! Love it! Love you FJ! Blessings most attractive one..

OH MY GOD, you just reminded me of some embarrassing things I did in the past, I used to have a crush on someone, and my dude, I like never spoke to him, but still I even knew his name and used to yell his name whenever I saw him and waved at him, like for a long time, and not only that, when I did got his email i sent him a message saying that I am that girl calling you and waving to you every morning on the way to school :') I wonder why he didn't call the police...

When I first starting dating this guy, I was totally fine. He quickly realized he was going to have to carry the conversation though lol (I'm an introvert big time). Then I guess I started really liking him because suddenly I couldn't look at him and did the stereotypical giggle and blush. That lasted about a month. Thankfully he found it cute and endearing and I got over it.

My crush has no idea I exist and that I know his name. I used to enjoy seeing him during Sunday service before lock down.

Wow you are spilling my insides! This is so me spot on Sir 👍

As an INFJ I would switch from shy to bold if my crush was shy.

There's an introvert that when we hung out he wouldn't talk to me or barely look at me, just laugh or smile at things I said and answer my questions so short. I thought he thought I was annoying. Then a bit later he shows up at my house and gives me this super beautiful card and says nothing hahaha! He hands it to me, smiles, bows, and walks away! I was shocked! Still am shocked.

3:38 why didn’t I know that three years ago haha