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A Beautiful Mess | Extreme Cleaning

A Beautiful Mess | Extreme Cleaning

11 ай бұрын

We are back to the house where it all started...my first few videos on this channel were of this home. This home had issues with carpet beetles and pantry moths. After cleaning up the kitchen, living room, her son's room, and three bathrooms, I left there thinking things were under control and that she was making good progress on her own, and she was, so it was a surprise to me when I texted her a few weeks ago just to see how things were coming along and this was the response I got:
"We have gotten a little bit more done at the house, but not as much as I would like. I've had some health issues comes up that have made it harder for me to clean and honestly my anxiety has made it hard, too. My neck has been hurting since early this year and at some point it became so painful that I couldn't turn my head which made it hard to drive or do much of anything. I went and got an MRI and have a few things going on in my cervical spine that are causing nerve pain and they're wanting me to get injections that will help with the pain and potentially help with the inflammation and, if that doesn't relieve the pain, I might have to get surgery. On top of that, my husband and I have been wanting to get pregnant, but haven't been able to due to my latest test showing positive for polyps in my uterus (this is the second time), so I will have to get surgery to remove the polyps either later this month or next month. Anyway, all of it has been too much, so I haven't been doing much, But I started feeling like there's more to my struggle to get this house clean. I have some pretty bad memories there with my ex-husband." -- then she goes on and tells about the abuse, which I told her I would leave out the details -- "I think the longer I've been staying away from that house, the more I've felt like I could never go back and I keep thinking it's just because of the bugs, but I think it's also because of the PTSD associated with my ex-husband. So, this past week, we started looking at houses and we're strongly considering selling our house. However, that still means we need to clean our house so, if we find somewhere we'd like to go, we're gonna have a big push to move everything to storage pretty quickly."
There is more to this story which I will explain in the video, but that is the gist of what's going on here. I have really grown to love this woman and feel bad that she has been through so much and would love nothing more than to see her get a fresh start in a new home.
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@heatherakagamermom7790
@heatherakagamermom7790 11 ай бұрын
I’m glad she has you. You did a great job. I think she’s right. She should move. A brand new start is exactly what she needs. ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thank you! Yes, for sure. I wouldn't want to live there either with those memories.
@trinity4ce
@trinity4ce 11 ай бұрын
You are changing her world, and it counts ❤️
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Awww...thank you. ❤❤
@trinity4ce
@trinity4ce 11 ай бұрын
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp You are welcome ❤️❤️
@marybolieu
@marybolieu 11 ай бұрын
You are so sweet and have such a huge heart. Thank you for helping out people in need and bringing us along.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
You bet! Thanks for your kind comment.❤️
@jillneer7305
@jillneer7305 11 ай бұрын
The work you're doing to clean up this home is amazing! Talking with, & being a friend to this woman, is the HELP she needs to move on! ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thank you! It helps me as well. Hearing her story makes me really appreciate what I have. ❤
@sarahconklin1256
@sarahconklin1256 11 ай бұрын
This is so beautiful❣️ people don’t know how important mental health is❣️
@lia-liz2012
@lia-liz2012 10 ай бұрын
And so misunderstood...people judge so easily 😢
@user-ym2wx1yt7k
@user-ym2wx1yt7k 7 ай бұрын
I have severe PTSD. She needs away from that house ASAP. Thank you for helping her out. I hope she can live somewhere she can have a dog. Dogs help in ways that therapy and medication just can't.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 ай бұрын
She has actually moved out to a rental while their house is being built. Yay! Also, she got a dog a couple of years ago while she was living with her parents. You're right, dogs are very therapeutic. I can't even express how much I love dogs. They are just the best!😊
@HungerSTR1KE
@HungerSTR1KE 9 ай бұрын
I always like it when a cleaner can buy new bedding or even replace a stained bed. It really is a beautiful touch. I hope your channel grows and you get enough from it to give back even more.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 ай бұрын
Thank you! Since this collaboration, it has grown so much that I am now setting aside any donations from the super thanks feature to buy things for the homeowners to help get things organized or to give them something they desperately need. I'm so thankful for all of the support!🤗❤️❤️
@sadafahmad3078
@sadafahmad3078 10 ай бұрын
Your voice is so soothing to ears. I watch your videos to hear you, and you are doing amazing work
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
That's so nice of you. I find it pretty funny that so many people find my voice soothing. I hear it totally differently and it just sounds odd to me, but I'm getting used to hearing it now I guess. Thank you!
@josephdaly2015
@josephdaly2015 10 ай бұрын
So happy after hearing what she dealt with that they are going to sell this house and move. I really think it will ease a lot of her ailments. Wishing them health and happiness in their next chapter. Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇‍♀️👏💪👍💐🙏
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
I agree. Thank you!
@katiblue
@katiblue 11 ай бұрын
I looked over at my husband on his computer when the Tetris music started, and he was bopping his head. 🤣
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
😂So cute!
@melaniewest3947
@melaniewest3947 10 ай бұрын
We all need help at some time. This lady needs all the help she can get. It does get better
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Thank you. It really does. I know she is feeling more hopeful than she has in years.😊
@Dennise_Who
@Dennise_Who 11 ай бұрын
These videos take forever to watch because I have to get up and clean something. NOT complaining! I am looking forward to you working with @MidwestMagicCleaning and @CleanWithBarbie ! ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Haha! I love it! Thank you! I am so stoked about it!❤
@dwt20125
@dwt20125 9 ай бұрын
Same,Im sitting watching the video and looking around for something to clean.😃.Great work Bonnie.
@mareebarrett1267
@mareebarrett1267 9 күн бұрын
I love that you tell us about the people you help and explain the situation. Great job yet again❤❤
@bobbishuemaker7973
@bobbishuemaker7973 11 ай бұрын
Can't wait to see you, Barbie and Midwest in Oct!!
@niksand1713
@niksand1713 11 ай бұрын
You are a great person and friend!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Awww...thank you. She is easy to love!
@ccgirl5055
@ccgirl5055 10 ай бұрын
Really like watching these help-one-another videos. Thanks for posting. (Slight comment about client's health. If she has neck, back, or nerve pain, I highly recommend people try chiropractors before leaping to surgeries. However, not all chiropractors are equal, choosing one that is very reputable with a good practice is important. I have Multiple Sclerosis, my mom has a sensitive neck, my dad has poor hips, the chiropractors have saved us so much pain.)
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! I have tried chiropractors before and I almost always leave in more pain than I came in with. I have tried different ones over the years. There was one I found where I used to live who I felt did a better job, but then I moved and I haven't been back to one since. I know they are super helpful for a lot of people though and, you're right, I'm sure it depends on the chiropractor. I found physical therapists to be more helpful, but even that only helps for so long before I end up needing surgery. This woman is trying everything she can to avoid surgery though, which is wise. I avoided it as long as I could as well, but unfortunately, ended up needing it after I tried everything.
@laurahicks8084
@laurahicks8084 11 ай бұрын
Looking forward to your cleaning collaboration!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Can't wait!
@deannaw9657
@deannaw9657 11 ай бұрын
SO EXCITED for your collab!! The minute Mack announced it on his go live, I thought about what a great opportunity it would be to grow your channel FAST😊!! Good luck and great job as always!! ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
I know! I am beyond grateful he is willing to allow me to be part of this collab! It's a dream come true! Thanks so much for your support!!❤😊
@johnkelly9451
@johnkelly9451 10 ай бұрын
We are looking forward to collab too!... Going to be Epic for viewers and even more Epic seeing our fav channels via eachothers recommendations and mentions...So amazing how each of you help others and inspire so many for their own places and for others too. Thank you all for everything! ❤❤❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
@@johnkelly9451 Thank you! The support has been amazing, both from my viewers and from Mack and Barbie. I really love that we all are cleaning in VERY different areas (big city, rural, suburban) and all have our own styles, so it's going to be a fun collaboration!
@johnkelly9451
@johnkelly9451 10 ай бұрын
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp That's what makes each of you so special...(big city, rural, suburban), The common thread is you are all so good and help people that really need it and each of you have good hearts... We've learned alot from each and apply it in our own homes too... we thank each of you... collab is going to be fun... Just thrilled to see you all together in a collab... maybe someday you all could do a distance zoom clean video then a live zoom q & a... once in awhile later?.... Whatever comes next... we will be tuned into each of your channels! Thankyou... ! ❤️!!!
@micheleboschert175
@micheleboschert175 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for supporting this dear one.💗
@aurorauniversalis1633
@aurorauniversalis1633 11 ай бұрын
Great video as always! Hopefully she moves out, moves on and gets the fresh start she needs.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
I hope so too! Thank you!
@cziegle3794
@cziegle3794 11 ай бұрын
Yay top 17 and top 111 comments and likes. Love this channel. Best to you and your family. Thanks for making this video.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for your support!❤
@debby891
@debby891 11 ай бұрын
I love your videos, have so much admiration for your compassion and selfless giving of your time and hard work so that others have a fresh start. After reading a few of the comments I would just like to say that I do think it’s important to share a little of the background of their situation that caused this and you do it very respectfully as does, Auri, Barbie and Mack. I am 64, have had 26 surgeries to include 4 total knee replacements, back and neck disc surgeries, use a cane and a walker and also care for my 85 year old mom with Alzheimer’s. I am the opposite, am and have always been OCD clean so needless to say is a huge physical challenge but my way of coping with the constant physical pain (I’m allergic to all pain meds) and the unbelievable emotional challenges of dealing with Alzheimer’s. Many times people say “you look great and your home is always beautiful “. I internal response is blind people look great but still can’t see so many times people don’t realize the real hidden struggles that one is living with. Great job❤❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for your comment. I know it's not the most cheery video, but I, too, think it IS important to share people's struggles. I think so many people feel like they are the only ones going through a specific struggle and, for some reason, it just feels better to know you aren't the only one. It gives me hope and makes my own burdens seem manageable. And, holy cow, 26 surgeries?!! That is WAY too many for one person. And without being able to take pain meds, I can't even imagine the constant pain you must be in on top of dealing with the emotional challenges of helping your mother with Alzheimer's...one of the most awful diseases you can witness and one that is usually harder on the caregiver than the person with the Alzheimer's (runs in our family, too). I'm so sorry! But, you're right, we put on a happy face and just push forward so it's hard for people to know how big our struggles are sometimes. My heart goes out to you and your mother!❤❤
@sarahwilks2413
@sarahwilks2413 3 ай бұрын
Bonnie you are amazing! What a fantastic job you did, can't wait to watch more in the series xxxx
@christinecornezcolmenero9356
@christinecornezcolmenero9356 10 ай бұрын
Just found out about you through Mack, so I immediately subscribed to your channel. I have been watching him and Barbie for some months now. The collaboration should be great to watch. I'm looking forward to it. I admire your capacity to give to those who are experiencing difficulties. You guys/ gals are great.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Awesome! Welcome! I'm thrilled you're here! I'm so excited about the collab! It's going to be awesome!😊❤
@tonimcbride2205
@tonimcbride2205 8 ай бұрын
Beyond thrilled for her to move. PTSD is not nice. This house is a trigger considering all her suffering. God bless this lady. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 ай бұрын
Thank you, Toni! She and her family just moved a couple of weeks ago and I know it has helped tremendously with the PTSD.
@tonimcbride2205
@tonimcbride2205 8 ай бұрын
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp a trillion percent, bless her heart? ❤️🙏🏽
@sharonchandler6245
@sharonchandler6245 11 ай бұрын
Bless you for helping her.
@aussieisy
@aussieisy 10 ай бұрын
Nothing little about what you have done for this family, it is HUGE for them! God bless you!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Yes, thank you! It's been a blessing for me as well!
@lisamcdonald9792
@lisamcdonald9792 10 ай бұрын
What an amazing difference ❤ You do a wonderful job! I hope this family does have better days ahead. God bless you for all you do. Also, you have a new t-shirt idea for channel "Oh look more water bottles" 😁
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! Yes, I've thought about that as a shirt idea, but I also don't want to copy too much of what Mack is doing. I'll think about it though. I guess it is different than "Oh look, more dishes!" and maybe a fun version of my own. 😋
@lisamcdonald9792
@lisamcdonald9792 10 ай бұрын
I don't think he would mind at all! LOL 😁😁@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@annw1395
@annw1395 10 ай бұрын
You're a miracle worker! Huge transformation!
@ShellyCline
@ShellyCline 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for helping her Bonnie. Your compassion and empathy is so heartwarming. As a DV survivor I can absolutely relate to that anxiety. I wouldn't be surprised if her anxiety is related to the abuse and not so much the bugs. But there's only one way to find out. Git awn outta there lol. I hope she and her family are able to move soon and get a fresh start. Wonderful video. ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
"Git awn outta there..." Love it! Yep, I'm sure the abuse has way more to do with her not doing well in that house. I'm sad to hear you have been through DV as well. Glad you are a survivor!❤
@ShellyCline
@ShellyCline 10 ай бұрын
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp thank you, Bonnie 💕
@NaturalDirtQueen
@NaturalDirtQueen Ай бұрын
Thank you for the original sound on the vacuum section ❤
@NaturalDirtQueen
@NaturalDirtQueen Ай бұрын
Very Satisfying ❤
@kellimeguiar534
@kellimeguiar534 11 ай бұрын
It's such a beautiful thing you are doing for her. Especially these days it's getting very difficult for everyone it's got to be even harder these days for folks with health problems and ptsd.
@kellimeguiar534
@kellimeguiar534 11 ай бұрын
It really is wonderful to see others helping others. We all need to just be kind to each others. I have really serious knee issues so I completely understand. I just have to stick to a schedule so it dosen't get away from me. Thank you for understanding and caring.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Yes, it seems everyone is struggling with something.
@LadyAurora10
@LadyAurora10 10 ай бұрын
You are so sweet. 🙏🏻 Amazing result!
@diane6037
@diane6037 11 ай бұрын
Great job 👏 you are helping her transform her life, wishing her a happier future, Thank you for sharing with us ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
You are so kind. Thank you!
@sandebryant3878
@sandebryant3878 10 ай бұрын
I pray every works out well for this lady. Mental health and physical health mix together can definitely be a struggle. How has she kept the rest of the house that you did clean for her? I hope your hard work was continued. ❤❤ I felt the same as your husband. And I hope it's not true. She may need to check into getting a house cleaner for two days a week.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
She has definitely, not only kept it up, but has gone through and gotten rid of so much of the stuff that she has been trying to ignore for the past few years, but now finally dealing with it. Besides the physical issues she is dealing with right now, I do know she is feeling a lot more hopeful than she has in a long time since reaching out for help and deciding to move on from this place with horrible memories. Thanks for your comments. ❤
@annwilliams6438
@annwilliams6438 10 ай бұрын
I have found that as a person with physical problems that the only way to not have my home a pile of clutter within two months is to have a daily routine. Got to do a little each day. AND have small dustbins in a lot of places (which can be easily emptied each day.) In each bedroom, in the sitting area, in an office area, in the bathroom, in the kitchen of course, in the dining room, in play areas. Having a place where bits and pieces can be thrown within three or four steps - and with a flip of the wrist for each bin/container they can be emptied into one bag which can then be thrown out each day.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
I love this! Such a simple, yet effective way to keep everything clean and tidy.🤗
@cintalopez-teijeiro5683
@cintalopez-teijeiro5683 10 ай бұрын
Girl! You made me laugh loud with the Tetris 😂😂😂 So good you helped her again ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed!
@RobinSpencer-wc6hj
@RobinSpencer-wc6hj 2 ай бұрын
Awesome job! Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤
@mollylindsay1825
@mollylindsay1825 11 ай бұрын
Love your positive attitude, Bonnie. Also appreciate you sharing your neck pain knowledge, learning is always helpful.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thank you! And having typed for a neurosurgery clinic for 9 years and a pain specialty clinic for about 16, plus my own issues, I know WAY more than I ever wanted to know about neck pain and the different treatments...LOL!
@patriciap2355
@patriciap2355 11 ай бұрын
👍🏼J’aime votre empathie ❤et j’admire votre dynamisme!! Bises de France 🇫🇷
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Merci! C'est très gentil de votre part.❤
@rebeccaashton5390
@rebeccaashton5390 11 ай бұрын
You did a great job. What a difference. Thank you for helping this lady and her family. So glad to find your channel. I am looking forward to the collab with Barbie and Mack. 3of my favorite people in one video. Woo hoo.😊
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! I'm so excited for the collab!
@shawntennant9049
@shawntennant9049 10 ай бұрын
You are a good steward! Thank you for giving me motivation to get up & get something done
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Awww, thank you! Go you!😊❤
@marloespeters8404
@marloespeters8404 10 ай бұрын
Ik wish this family all the best ❤ oh and i can't wait for your collab with Mack and clean with Barbie 🥰🥰
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Thank you! So exciting!
@kimberlymckellar6995
@kimberlymckellar6995 11 ай бұрын
You’re AWESOME! 😊😊❤❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
And you're very sweet!❤😊❤
@elfstarsaka
@elfstarsaka 11 ай бұрын
I have similar neck issues, and when it's bad, it really does make it nearly impossible to do anything except lie down and take the pressure off my neck. I hope they are able to get a fresh start so she can start healing, at least mentally if not physically too.
@debby891
@debby891 11 ай бұрын
Same with me and I did have disc fusion surgery in my neck and still can be debilitating
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to both of you about your necks. You don't really realize what pinched nerves and disc bulges in the neck can effect unless you've dealt with it. It's pretty miserable. Hard to stay in a good mood when you have constant pain, headaches, numbness, can't use your arms well, etc. I feel ya!
@cathtf7957
@cathtf7957 11 ай бұрын
Why is it that nobody ever just says, " I don't do cleaning or housework? "
@fjklfdasdf
@fjklfdasdf 11 ай бұрын
that would be so refreshing!
@leashy1204
@leashy1204 11 ай бұрын
Great job!!!💞💞💞💞
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thank you!!
@eyrunsigrunardottir6977
@eyrunsigrunardottir6977 11 ай бұрын
I hope she sells this house and moves to a new home. My advise is to only unpack what she needs to begin with to keep maintenance to the minimum. She can´t go through much decluttering now, she must be in a better place for that 💜 I did this; I have an illness that makes it hard for me to maintain the home like it was but I also can´t push myself to get rid of too much. I somehow managed to strip down to somewhat minimalist living but stored the rest of my things in upper cabinets and in my storage room. So very, very helpful on my journey to better health.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Great advice! I have been pretty surprised with how much decluttering she actually has done while we've been packing things up. I think a lot of it was easy to get rid of if it had any association with her first marriage and, because she wasn't functioning for so long, most of that stuff was buried. Once it surfaced, she didn't hesitate to get rid of it. But, I agree, taking her time to unpack things into a new house will help because I think it's amazing how little we can actually live with. We don't need all the "stuff" that just takes more time and energy to take care of. Thanks for your suggestions!
@grandmasfavorites
@grandmasfavorites 10 ай бұрын
Thanks
@carolynoquinn4573
@carolynoquinn4573 11 ай бұрын
Hi Hon! I can't wait to see The Collaboration!!!
@ediebutt3439
@ediebutt3439 10 ай бұрын
Looking gooooooood!!
@lisasteinhardt6537
@lisasteinhardt6537 8 ай бұрын
Mack is awesome... He put me onto you
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 ай бұрын
Isn't he the best?! So happy you're here!!
@mariaalvarez8385
@mariaalvarez8385 11 ай бұрын
Great Job! Can't wait for the collab you are going to do with Magic Clean and Barbie!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thank you! It's going to be so much fun!
@jamiehogg1807
@jamiehogg1807 11 ай бұрын
The TETRIS music made my day. Gave me a laugh and motivation. I'm the same with sorting like that in the dishwasher 😂
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Love it!❤😅
@cynthiaphillips1474
@cynthiaphillips1474 11 ай бұрын
You do beautiful work! But if I had bugs, maybe I would put garbage where it belongs, in the garbage can!
@mjs.2000
@mjs.2000 11 ай бұрын
Great job. 😊
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thank you! ❤
@bearfog07
@bearfog07 11 ай бұрын
Another amazing transformation! Thanks, Bonnie x
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@lanahundley8625
@lanahundley8625 10 ай бұрын
You inspire me 😊
@sellyourhomenowbook
@sellyourhomenowbook 10 ай бұрын
Excellent job as usual.
@marystrenke3050
@marystrenke3050 11 ай бұрын
Two of my sons fit the description of executive dysfunction 😮 Chaotic to say the least
@debby891
@debby891 11 ай бұрын
My son and grandson too
@suewright984
@suewright984 11 ай бұрын
My son as well. It’s real.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Yeah, it sounds pretty awful.
@laurastewart2418
@laurastewart2418 7 ай бұрын
I subscribed...really enjoying the videos😊
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 7 ай бұрын
Yay! Thank you!
@cyndaarce6986
@cyndaarce6986 11 ай бұрын
If you sprinkle 20 Mule Team Borax on the rug it might help get rid of the bugs. I know it does for fleas.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Yes, you're correct. This is actually what we are doing to treat everything as we pack it up is we sprinkle a little bit into each tote/box before we start packing things to make sure we are killing everything before moving it to storage. Then we sprinkle it all over the carpets after the room is cleared. I meant to talk about that in this video, but I will on the next one.
@maryrichardson6205
@maryrichardson6205 9 ай бұрын
Paper and books are the worst to go through, good job.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 ай бұрын
I really enjoy paper clutter, actually. I know it's weird, but I get a little excited to go through a pile of paper!😄❤️
@lorettalouvros207
@lorettalouvros207 11 ай бұрын
Good job! Amazing👏👏👏
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thanks so much!
@lawaincooley6788
@lawaincooley6788 8 ай бұрын
You are a blessing to this lady. ♡
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 ай бұрын
🥰🙏
@cindyroberts5703
@cindyroberts5703 10 ай бұрын
I loved your narrative and another job well done.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Thank you very much!
@andreametternich6662
@andreametternich6662 10 ай бұрын
Super job!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@dorenedaniels7493
@dorenedaniels7493 9 ай бұрын
My goodness now this is beautiful God bless you 🙏❤️
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much❤️❤️🙏
@michellesimpson6734
@michellesimpson6734 10 ай бұрын
Great Job!! Thank you for sharing.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@lawaincooley6788
@lawaincooley6788 8 ай бұрын
Awesome job!!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 ай бұрын
Thanks!!
@connieverbeck1110
@connieverbeck1110 11 ай бұрын
Wonderful!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@patriciastubbs7605
@patriciastubbs7605 11 ай бұрын
Very inspiring !!❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thank you! 🙂
@lanahundley8625
@lanahundley8625 10 ай бұрын
💗
@brendarussell1265
@brendarussell1265 8 ай бұрын
Good job !!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 ай бұрын
Thanks!!
@angelajenkins6933
@angelajenkins6933 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for helping this family, I really like your channel and thank you for being such a patient and caring person. I pray your channel grows alot!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Awww...thank you so much!🥰
@dianeb411
@dianeb411 10 ай бұрын
So happy to see and hear your growing self confidence. You are so amazing, l see your true self that is loving kind and giving. Looking forward to your group cleaning adventure!!!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. That's so sweet of you! ❤️
@annietoro4648
@annietoro4648 11 ай бұрын
Well done as always ✅👏
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@AndiE-pq6xp
@AndiE-pq6xp 6 ай бұрын
It's a chain reaction!! Every time you do something for someone It's contagious!! ❤❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 6 ай бұрын
It is!😊🫶
@frelsi__Andrea
@frelsi__Andrea 13 күн бұрын
Thank you for talking about executive dysfunction. I have ADHD - Primarily inattentive (formerly known as ADD). ADHD is well known around the world, but what it actually means to have ADHD, seems much less known. Like just the name doesn't describe it enough, executive dysfunction does so much better. As a result of this being less known, when you say you have ADHD, it's more often shrugged off than it should be. Many don't see how serious it can be for some people. But of course, executive dysfunction isn't only in ADHD, it's also a part of depression, brain damage and more, but just talking from my own perspective and my own experience :)
@Wachtelkatze
@Wachtelkatze 10 ай бұрын
Love it 😍
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Thank you! 😊
@rachelpalumbo8135
@rachelpalumbo8135 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@buckeyedav1
@buckeyedav1 2 ай бұрын
I love the way their desk are arranged. Anna In Ohio
@lgibson0515
@lgibson0515 10 ай бұрын
Amazing! Im sure with the media coverage & the collaboration, your channel cant help but grow!! 🙏 🎉❤🎉
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Right?! I am just elated at how quickly it is growing! It's like a dream come true to be able to help people as my job!
@magdalenaborkowska4950
@magdalenaborkowska4950 10 ай бұрын
❤️
@Paula-mk8so
@Paula-mk8so 10 ай бұрын
Hi .I am here because of Midwest magic cleaning and barbie and I've just subscribed to your channel .I enjoyed the video 😊
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Welcome!! Thanks so much for being here!❤
@mightygamer7474
@mightygamer7474 11 ай бұрын
Came over from Midwest Magic Cleaning. Looking forward to checking out your channel.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Welcome! So glad you're here!❤😊
@lindamiller1945
@lindamiller1945 11 ай бұрын
Great video
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it. Thank you!
@melaniehutchinson5306
@melaniehutchinson5306 11 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thank you Melanie! How are things coming with your own venture into the free cleaning world?
@melaniehutchinson5306
@melaniehutchinson5306 11 ай бұрын
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp I am working on my writing career by starting a blog … planning my exit and early retirement from a long corporate career. Also now decluttering our empty nest. 🥳
@ingerfalch-jacobsen1717
@ingerfalch-jacobsen1717 9 ай бұрын
Also, some serious packing skills you got there!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@Demi-qn4gb
@Demi-qn4gb 11 ай бұрын
Excellent job...i so dislike these wall to wall carpets.... consider them always dirty no matter how often clean or vacuum
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thank you! Yes, carpets can definitely be hard to keep clean.
@deborahhopper4832
@deborahhopper4832 11 ай бұрын
Wow! What a great transformation ❤️😀👍Can’t wait to see your collaboration with Mac and Barbie😀
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thank you! It's going to be awesome!
@nazneenabbas9119
@nazneenabbas9119 11 ай бұрын
Waiting for your next vlog ❤❤❤
@dixiegeorge9665
@dixiegeorge9665 10 ай бұрын
Thanks! Have fun with Mack and his family and Barbie ❤ I want to be a member❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Thank you Dixie! You are the sweetest! I've spent the last few hours with them and they are all, including Emily, amazing people! So excited to tackle this house tomorrow!
@dixiegeorge9665
@dixiegeorge9665 10 ай бұрын
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp ❤️ don't hurt your back 😳❤️
@gmateri67mc39
@gmateri67mc39 11 ай бұрын
Nice job!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@StoophStoph
@StoophStoph 11 ай бұрын
Dang, I saw this just in time. I was on here binge watching all your videos and all of a sudden a saw a new one pop up on your pageXD
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
Awesome!
@kerryforman8129
@kerryforman8129 11 ай бұрын
Why not have exterminators there? They can’t sell knowing there is a infestation.
@Alwaysherethere
@Alwaysherethere 10 ай бұрын
Yes i came over from Midwest Magic. I subscribed 😊
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Welcome!! I love that you're here!❤
@Brandi62
@Brandi62 10 ай бұрын
You are the organizing queen! I have never seen anyone pack a tub so well! You are right, that nerve pain from the spine is horrendous! I have had two rounds of surgeries with two at a time in the same week. I had 3 dics repaced and had my shifted spine stabilized with plates and screws so I know how bad that pain is! I hope she gets some relief soon.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Wow, that's really a lot for you to have gone through. Three disc replacements?! I actually thought there was a limit of two disc replacements. But maybe that's just dependent upon the surgeon. I know mine wouldn't do more than two. I hope it really helped you!
@Brandi62
@Brandi62 10 ай бұрын
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp I had two discs replaced the first time and the third a year later. Thank God it finally took the nerve pain away! My hubby likes to clean so I was blessed that he could help.
@snudder.s.m.l.5026
@snudder.s.m.l.5026 11 ай бұрын
Some people just steals our hart ( in a good way) Big hugs from Denmark 💝🥰🌹
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 ай бұрын
I couldn't have said it better. Thanks and hugs back to you!❤😊
@snudder.s.m.l.5026
@snudder.s.m.l.5026 11 ай бұрын
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 🌹💝🥰
@elainelittauauthor2218
@elainelittauauthor2218 5 ай бұрын
Good job
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 5 ай бұрын
🥰🙏
@sheryllester3490
@sheryllester3490 10 ай бұрын
Mack from midwest magic sent me over. I subscribed. Love what I'm seeing.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for being here!❤️
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