💔You can count on me, but you never trust me and put me into your heart...

💔You can count on me, but you never trust me and put me into your heart... | Love Like The Galaxy

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Synopsis:
Cheng Shao Shang is a young girl who was forced to grow up alone after most of her family had to leave to fight in a bloody war. Thus she becomes stubborn and untrusting. She fends for herself in a town populated by people like her, who have been left behind by the war.
One day, a talented and powerfu general named Ling Bu Yi comes to the town - and falls in love with her at first sight. He resolves to marry her, even though it will cause him no end of problems if he decides to pursue this union. She also warns him that she doesn’t trust him, and that her stubborn personality might not be suitable for the wife of a general. But Ling Bu Yi also has deep secrets, and there are facts about his true identity that even he does not know. Slowly, they begin to trust one another a little more - and start to investigate the truth about Ling Bu Yi’s early childhood, family, and real identity…
Episodes: 56
Genres: Historical, Mystery, Romance
Subtitles: English [CC]
Audio languages: Chinese
Director: Fei Zhen Xiang
Starring:
Leo Wu as Ling Buyi
Zhao Lusi as Cheng Shaoshang
Guo Tao as Cheng Shi
Wang Zhuocheng as Crown Prince Yuan
Bao Jianfeng as Emperor Wen
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@yvonneburns2786 Жыл бұрын

It's not that she doesn't trust you Zisheng she's not used to someone wanting to and protect her...

@bxw2721 Жыл бұрын

Concubine Yue don’t miss a beat! So glad to have her in the the ML and FL camp.

@NomadicCreator Жыл бұрын

How can he expect something from her that he himself does not give?! If anything this should be a moment of self reflection and awareness after being upset with her.

@latishabuckner8231 Жыл бұрын

After watching recent episodes the audacity of Zisheng to accuse her of not trusting him when he, himself held a lot of truths back blows my mind. Watching these clips now makes me want to snatch him from the screen and yell, "boy you better practice what you preach" 😤

@pirimpallopirimpalli4932 Жыл бұрын

that's why my conclusion is that he's the control freak type. Not that I'm trying to justify him, it's very annoying and I think it makes perfect sense that Shaoshang would lose trust in him in the end, but I think it's consistent with his story. With everything that happened to him, the real reason he's so demanding about her is that he wants everything to fit in his scheme, because he's been planning for so long. I find the scene when he gets drunk and breaks down in the rain is pivotal there. He was trying so hard to make all ends meet, to achieve both vengeance and happiness at the same time, he'd let himself hope that he could be happy with Shaoshang after everything else was taken care of. But his hamletic dilemma was always going to make him feel like getting revenge would cost him everything else. So when (that certain something happens and) he yells at fate and the gods under the pouring rain, he is not just mad, he is facing the desperate conclusion that, in the end, he'll have to do it himself; which means he and Shaoshang are done.

@divinearia1601 Жыл бұрын

...she hasn't exactly proven herself to be trustworthy. She has harmed Ling Buyi's agendas on multiple occasions, has straight-up said she doesn't like to obey others or be told what to do(not even when others try to reason with her), and didn't really care when she was told that the things she did could harm him. She still went out and did her own things to accomplish her own agendas. On the other hand, Zisheng consistently protected her over and over again so her not trusting his sincerity in wanting to keep her safe is a huge puzzle to me.

@pirimpallopirimpalli4932 Жыл бұрын

@@divinearia1601 he never told her his agendas. She was very upfront about not being one to obey, and why should she obey, again? I don't care whatever was the standard back in whatever time, we like a person who's not subjugated and that's the shows we go for. Also, when was she told that he could be harmed from her actions? When did she not care about that? Zisheng saved her life, but he also put her in danger. You talk as if she should put him first in everything all the time, and as if we should agree with that. Well, I believe slavery is bad, so I don't.

@divinearia1601 Жыл бұрын

@@pirimpallopirimpalli4932...and why would he give her all the details of his life-long goals when she is so impulsive and has proven herself to not stand by him(because she thinks she's so much smarter) or when he gives her warning about rippling consequences and domino effects amd she ignores him? He warned her that her actions might harm him all the way back in EP32 or 33(I know it's there because I just rewatched those parts), she didn't care. She ignored him because she valued her own agendas to help other people more. Who in their right mind would share things with a person like that? And if you think Zisheng letting her do as she pleases while protecting her in the process is slavery then I have nothing else to say to you.

@pirimpallopirimpalli4932 Жыл бұрын

@@divinearia1601 a generic "what you do may not be good for me" doesn't cut it in a relationship. And she never dreamed what it should be like in a couple, sharing aims, thoughts and long-time goals, but he's the one who demanded all of this from her, when in fact he had a whole agenda of his own. You're welcome to have nothing more to say to me, if you think that in a couple the guy can have all his side stories while the girl should live to please him, you can go back to the middle ages and stay there.

@suspendeddisbelief786 Жыл бұрын

The best summarized comment I've seen below is "this does not age well". As much as I adore him my stance with her is, stay exactly on the path you're on. Anyone who hasn't noticed the growth in her especially after the engagement and under the Empress guidance and care is missing it. I love the subtle way in which they are tracking her evolution. She has risen from the depths of loneliness she had about her with her mother's return and ill-equipped and ill-advised way of loving her. I remember that monologue to the moon after a convo with her mom where she restated she could only depend on herself, "there are more that hate you than those that love you" were her words. She has come a long way and he had to have known the line he casted had a very long lead in which to draw her near. They belong together as he accepts the core of who she is and vice versa. Her acceptance and love is not unconditional and he will reap both the good and bad of what he has sowed between them. "Put them together and weigh the importance of each to you".

@2G_igurl Жыл бұрын

I could understand Niao Niao's behavior because it stems from years of neglect and abadonment when she was young. She's always on survivor-mode, she trusts no one bec no one is on her side. And it's hard to get out of that mindset. She always thinks she can fend for herself and finds it hard to believe some one will protect her. I could also understand Zisheng's point of view. He wants to protect her but it's frustrating when she doesn't listen or believe in him. He's trying to make her understand that doing it her way could have dire consequences esp when it comes to imperial palace issues. The people in power over there can simply kill her quietly or have her whole family framed and executed. He wants her to see the bigger picture before acting on her own. He wants her to trust him to protect her. This scene is interesting bec when you watch the later episodes, you'll see the reversal of their roles - Zisheng not trusting Niao Niao at all, and their relationship suffered greatly from it.

@arilu89x Жыл бұрын

Agreed but he knew what he was taking on with her issues and how they effected her thought process. She's literally been traumatized and conditioned to seek her own form of justice. She is someone who must be reasoned with and explain the plan so she can follow, LBY never told her anything but expected his actions to speak for him but she's young and never knew love (whether giving or receiving) so she doesn't actually know how to trust. And the fact he's holding himself back as well, is a little hypocritical on his part.

@barbarariley6804 Жыл бұрын

Well said! 👏👏

@honeybunny1of23 Жыл бұрын

Great synopsis, I love it. I was thinking the same thing. I love the acting and the character development when they go through the scenes in every episode.

@2G_igurl Жыл бұрын

@@arilu89x To be fair, he already realized how deep her issues are and he actually voiced out that maybe he shouldn't have forced marriage on her. And yes, he's also aware of his hypocrisy bec he asked her about having to hurt a loved one for revenge. That hypocrisy will come out in the later part of the drama and it will cost him.

@tatsumakijim Жыл бұрын

I think it's a bit more than that. She recognizes that LBY has power and she never wants to use that for herself because she doesn't consider that part of her own power.

@tatsumakijim Жыл бұрын

The significant part of this to me was him pointing out why she picked Luo Yao. Dude was wrong for her in many ways but she still picked him cause she was settling, but yeah it really was that he was just a safe pick.

@arilu89x Жыл бұрын

True and with her personality she could fit anywhere and make a life. If their plan worked she and Lou Yao would have a friendly bonded marriage.

@pirimpallopirimpalli4932 Жыл бұрын

yeah, well, I agree with his analysis, but his grievance here is a bunch of crap. He's got a truckload of cobwebs in his closet, thoughts, plans and feelings, that he won't even mention with her. He's making her do all the trust and sharing in the relationship. In any case, choosing a harmless partner just for the sake of being safe isn't exactly idiotic, you know? Lou Yao was devoted and he was happy with her. So what's to reproach about that? Let's not spread out the opposite extreme, that a relationship should be difficult and a partner a constant challenge.

@tatsumakijim Жыл бұрын

@@pirimpallopirimpalli4932 I think the key difference is that he brought out the best in her not just shelter her in a safe bubble. Things did go poorly for her and LBY, but to be fair he couldn't have seen the desperate move he had to make for revenge coming -- that wasn't realistic for him to know. If not for that, everything would have been happily ever after right away.

@pirimpallopirimpalli4932 Жыл бұрын

@@tatsumakijim I'd say she did a lot more for him than he did for her. She brought a light and hope in his life that he probably didn't even expect he'd want, but when he found it he couldn't help himself. Also, she's the only person in his life who actually understood him; she figured him out all by herself. On the other hand, although he was instrumental in her growth, the real life-changer for her was the Empress. As for him, he made his choices. I respect his choices as long as we don't start talking about this point here: how many responsibility he forcibly took with her, how many promises he made to her, how many changes he demanded from her, and then threw them all out the window. If she hadn't saved his ass and his reputation (all possible ways that third day after his massacre of Ling Yi), he would have never got a chance to make up for it, so however mad she was at him, I stand by her all the way. And this episode here, this is not okay. First of all, it was her trauma, her life, her pain, which he took and made all about himself. Secondly, in a relationship you may wish for your partner to give you more, but you don't shame them if they won't. You can ask, not demand. Thirdly, and perhaps most to the point, he has no right whatsoever to make this kind of demand of her, when in truth he's hiding his whole identity and life purpose from her; it's like he's asking her to do all the trusting in their relationship, to give all of herself to him so he can keep himself in the darkness. Oh, and we know he's actually going to use this as a double excuse for his secret plans. That's gaslighting times square.

@carolehiga9772 Жыл бұрын

@@arilu89x I wouldn’t want that

@wickedwitch7456 Жыл бұрын

Ladies and gentlemen who haven't watched the last episodes, behold the hypocrisy of Ling Buyi

@suspendeddisbelief786 Жыл бұрын

I need the book translated in English please. I love the essence of each character and how they revolve around each other. Some are simple and straight to the point and the shallow and short lived ones work great as highlighters of something bigger. They have really built her from the ground up. Her mind is that of an engineer for real, practical, stubborn, self-sufficient, immersive, cool, and logic focus. Even the way she goes about discovering her love for him. Her upbringing had a hand in layering on some negative traits but they will soften.

@twinflames8600 Жыл бұрын

Can we just say we love this couple anyway. Maybe it's a lack of communication or too young to understand each other's thoughts or feelings

@katystarr697 Жыл бұрын

In some ways let’s all say both are to blame for their actions and lesson had to be learned on both ends leading to finally acknowledging everything and come together again.

@pirimpallopirimpalli4932 Жыл бұрын

Beside everything else that's in the comments about his audacity in light of what happens later... I was rewatching the scene when Zisheng goes to see Shaoshang in her room the evening after she was thrown into the lake. She cried into his shoulder like a baby. Right after he asked her what happened, she asked him to teach her how to react if somebody bullied her, and even mimicked the scene of being pushed from behind. How the heck didn't he get it? He was so perceptive about everything else in that room, but he didn't figure that that's exactly what had happened to her? And here he complains she didn't open up to him. WHUT?

@zoe9190 Жыл бұрын

Most people can become blind when it comes to those who they truly love.

@pirimpallopirimpalli4932 Жыл бұрын

@@zoe9190 I'll take that for when you become blind to a loved one's fault, not for when you can hardly wait to blame them for something that pisses you off.

@luoluoye9620 Жыл бұрын

This does not age well....

@lilipuce01 Жыл бұрын

was coming back to say the same....

@pirimpallopirimpalli4932 Жыл бұрын

oh, the most succint and to-the-point way to put it. 👏

@dianaosazenaye1313 Жыл бұрын

Love hard

@kershawarner7130 Жыл бұрын

The hurt he must b feeling knowing she never told him....

@tinayoung5948 Жыл бұрын

um he got no room. he hasn't told her anything not even his real name.

@garnetdragon7120 Жыл бұрын

@@tinayoung5948 Probably because of exactly what she’s capable of. She dives straight into danger regardless of her safety, seeks revenge on her own cause she feels no one will stand up for her (cause apparently she had great examples of that growing up). So can you imagine if he confided in her, would she have stayed on the sidelines and let him investigate on his own or would she have dived right in and endangered both their lives. He knows now she always had a target on her back, but never knowing the severity of it is probably what continues to keep him from telling her the entire story of his own. And of course as stories go she will react the same when she finally hears the truth, for even then she has a right to vet her anger as he when he punished those who dared to hurt her, only he will be the outlet for hers.

@TJRhea Жыл бұрын

@@garnetdragon7120 I mean, he does the same thing later though. He dives head first in to his revenge and pushes her away as a result.

@garnetdragon7120 Жыл бұрын

@@TJRhea Yup, it’s like they hurt themselves so they won’t hurt those they love around them. It’s like when she set the trap for the princess, she was ready to take her punishment. Probably cause she felt she deserved it, examples from her upbringing. It’s like “Oh well, might as well accept my punishment, I’ll be blamed anyway.” As for him I’m thinking something must have triggered the demos he holds very closely. At that point his rage took over and saw nothing but his revenge. And in his mind even she ceased to exist, but just maybe within his most guarded heart he’s silently yelling for her to save him. But his wanting revenge at that time would rather push her away than to be caught up in aftermath. And once that rage cools down and sees the results, especially loosing her. Thinks he deserves it, better to loose her than to see her dead. Especially when those rage demons reappear, and the next time they won’t care who’s in front of him. To think him being a soldier for his entire life and wanting revenge at such a young age, he must have suffered from what is now diagnosed as PTSD. In that era so many soldiers must have committed unspeakable crimes, and punishments at the whim of their leaders, those demons inside of them must have been clawing at them to be let loose. She was his savior, he could have let her go long ago. But he needed her until he pushed her away to protect her. And on her part even she suffered a little from her own form of PTSD. So two stubborn people head butting each other and neither one willing to ask for outside help, for thinking they deserve whatever they get. Sorry my comment is a little long winded. And if it sounds weird, sometimes my mind works overtime.😂😉🤗

@BlueMoonV Жыл бұрын

@@garnetdragon7120I totally agree with you! Deep down he probably want her to save him, but he's also not willing to risk her life. Idk why ppl are not willing to see the good in both characters but keep on blaming one of the characters. At the end of the day they both are willing to sacrifice for each other because they love each other dearly... She loves him enough to die with him and he loves her so much for not willing to let her die along with him.

@ursiemay Жыл бұрын

Niao Niao had a tough time growing up, but she didn’t have to watch her entire family being slaughtered, she didn’t have to take on a false identity in order to protect his real one. She never fought in wars, saw innocent people die, saw evil people survive. She was young, inexperienced, and a pretty typical self centred teen, used to do doing things her way, used to feeling rejected by her mother, used to running wild. Zisheng finally realised the mistake he had made in making her stay. He couldn’t trust her because she was too immature. I think right from the beginning he would have told her who he really was and what he needed to do to take revenge if she had been the trustworthy woman she eventually grew up to become, in his absence. Timing is everything! But his love was unwavering, and in the end she discovered that her love for him was also unshakable. Great storytelling. Best scene was the arrow extraction. Said it all. 😊❤

@pirimpallopirimpalli4932 Жыл бұрын

first of all, we don't all need to go through war and devastation to learn the power of love, and if the "normal" status is to hatch vengeance for 15 years while lying to everyone about the very core of your identity, I think the definition of "normal" is very wrong. Secondly, it doesn't matter what his reason is, he made this relationship happen by force and he made promises he couldn't keep; he also chose to keep everything inside and be inconsistent about it. Here he's reproaching her for not being completely dependent on him. Which in itself is sick by modern standards. Also, it's hypocritical because he shares zilch with her. Finally, what do you mean by "immature"? Please point out where she is immature, because it seems to me die-hard fans of the male lead just find any excuse to hate on the girl all the time.

@ursiemay Жыл бұрын

@@pirimpallopirimpalli4932 Zisheng was protective of Shaoshang because the royal palace environment was so dangerous. She had no idea just how dangerous it could be. He was 21 years old and she was his first love, and far from coercing her into marriage, once the path was clear and her first betrothal put aside, he followed through on the feelings they both had clearly felt for one another from the moment they met. He couldn’t believe his luck when she became free and she couldn’t believe a catch like him would love her. Yes, he made mistakes, serious ones, ones that nearly cost him the love of his life, but so did she, unwittingly, by being self centred. She didn’t have his responsibilities, duties, obligations. He had spent his entire life being trained to meet these, to risk his life in battles and to serve the emperor. In time she became the partner he needed, one he could trust, to fight alongside him, and share the burdens of royal army service.

@pirimpallopirimpalli4932 Жыл бұрын

@@ursiemay I'm not sure what you're trying to say here. That since the palace was so dangerous for her, she should rely on him to protect her there? No way, say I. If the palace is so dangerous he should not have brought her there at all. And, in hindsight, it's clear that one reason he didn't want her to take care of things herself was because he was afraid she'd interfere, unwittingly, with his machinations. Which is kinda vile, because it means he gaslighted her into thinking everything was so complicated and dangerous and she was being unrelenting and a bad partner, when in fact his problem was that he didn't want her to know what kind of mess *he* was making of himself and of their relationship. So, yeah, he had is reasons, but they were far from pure. And if I forgive him, it means that he was wrong and I still give him a second chance out of my magnamity, not that he was entitled to do it and I'm immature for not allowing him to do whatever he wants (with my trust, which he's demanding of me).

@ursiemay Жыл бұрын

@@pirimpallopirimpalli4932 I think from the moment she extracted the arrow from his chest their fates were entwined. I think General Huo initially and mistakenly believed he could marry her AND exact his revenge, but increasingly realised that pursuing revenge would compromise her and her family, possibly even cause her and her parents to be killed, so he had to let her go. It’s a shame he couldn’t let his bitterness and vengefulness go, but watching his parents and entire family being slaughtered when he was a child, and then having to conceal his true identity, must have almost driven him insane. He also knew she loved him, and would risk her life to help him. He couldn’t let her do that.

@pirimpallopirimpalli4932 Жыл бұрын

@@ursiemay it seems to me this way to put it is a bit too tragic, it idealises Zisheng too much, and it's also belied by the story. He could have probably gotten justice against Ling Yi if he'd managed to bring Peng Kun to testify, but Ling Yi managed to get Peng Kun killed first, and maybe that's because Zisheng did too many things in secret and alone. He did implicate Shaoshang, no matter what we say now, because she was already his fiancée (she was so implicated with him that their engagement was enough of an excuse for the emperor to save her from the law when her whole family was incarcerated for treason, for instance), and if he thought dumping her two days before the wedding without any explanation would save her from the consequences of his plan to die in parricide, then he was quite a fool; his best friend the third prince, for instance, was all too ready to blame Shaoshang for Zisheng's crime, and to get her executed that day. Anyway, in spite of Zisheng's best efforts to die, Shaoshang still managed to prove the truth, how he was not a parricide, how Ling Yi was a traitor and a murderer, and she restored Zisheng's name, so his judgment about keeping her out of it was objectively wrong. Also, it was wrong in my opinion, and in Shaoshang's opinion, and hopefully in the opinion of anyone who acknowledges a woman as capable to make her own choices; because if she's old enough and mature enough to marry him, then she sure af should be old enough and mature enough to make her choices about her life. And if you think Zisheng's justification is that he was insane or almost insane, you're also saying that his judgment was not reliable, so we may forgive him (*if* we choose to), but not say that he had any right or was right in any way.

@portiaotengoforile-tapa9871 Жыл бұрын

What I take from this is that CSS does not understand the meaning of marriage. She only agreed to marry LBY just to settle and also to piss her mother off. However she will learn as she grows and understand her role as a wife. Right now she is just a kid and everything she does is forgivable. However LBY is the kind that is very patient with her. He is sad but not angry at her, which is also understandable.

@divinearia1601 Жыл бұрын

This part of Shao Shang does not change by the time the series ends. She is portrayed as a victim from beginning to end. And, if anything, she hardens her stance even more on remaining the way she is and everyone else around her changes for her. Viewers are just expected to accept her in all her flaws. It's disappointing to me.

@wndthomas Жыл бұрын

I don’t think is was to get back at her mother. I really think she did as she saw how upset the king was and he could strip the family of all they’ve achieved on the battlefield. She just wants to be able to do as she wishes too. She sees her mother terrible parenting skills and agrees to this marriage knowing Ling Buyi could be even worse. So finds it terribly hard to trust him. But a great drama not only from the whole cast, director and everyone but it has made people talk about the drama and it’s many life lessons it shared 😊

@divinearia1601 Жыл бұрын

@@wndthomas...that feels like an excuse to me. Her parents were clearly against their engagement. And she was considering breaking things off with Ling Buyi in EP27 so I highly doubt this was really about fearing the Emperor. She wanted to marry Yao to escape her family...so, I'm pretty sure her decision here had something to do with that. You can see her immediate reaction when her mother said those negative things about her in front of everyone. She also told Emperor Wen she didn't need anyone making decisions for her and that she could make her own decisions. To me, she did it to rebel and to spite her mother.