In what ways are you not just physically but emotionally, mentally or spiritually preparing for transition related surgery? Have you set any intentions for your surgery or visualized your results? I’m planning a mediation series for preparing for and recovering from top surgery to reduce stress that can cause inflammation in the body. Anything other ideas or mediation let me know! Stay awesome, my beloveds. ✌️❤️🏳️‍🌈

I resonate so much with this concept of loving yourself before the physical changes, I'm in the beginning processes of planning top surgery and I've learned a lot of these things as a critical thinking spiritual individual, but also from being on testosterone, I thought it would erase my negative mentality toward my body and gender, which it definitely has made me more comfortable in myself, but I still have a very negative body image etc. I do believe I have to truly be happy in this body before I get the surgery in order to feel aligned and happy w my results. I also am super interested that you said your results would come out better with less toxicity of the mind, I really do believe in mind over matter and think this concept needs to be explored by trans folx more! I want to extra thank you for these videos because they're really helping me understand how much I need to work on my mentality and get back to my beliefs about the physical changes, that they are just changes to the vessel, the first year of my transition were purely emotional/social and not physical and now when people ask how long I've been transitioning I always say my T start dat but this is motivating me to just be like, when I first began rethinking gender and accepting myself should be the time it technically began. Seriously tho, don't stop making these videos, regardless if youtube will try to censor content, or if you don't gain a huge following, because if anything you helped me get back to myself and try and fight against the narrative that society is forcing me to believe should be mine. And that's truly amazing work because I'm a stubborn person haha. Also, side note your hair/outfit looks great in this vid!

this resonated so much thank you for putting this out there im getting top surgery in 3 days so this helped me allot

I am not transgender (just an ally) but I appreciate your story and respect your journey. Love your videos!

Thank you! I needed this.

I was literally needing this video !! Got my surgery in November- Bless you Bro xx

Question: How do you prepared to enter the highly agressive and violent world of maleness? Being a men has a lot of benefits, sure, but also an unspoken psychological and sociological burden.

Thanks for this video! I had surgery one month ago. I spent a lot of time pre surgery telling my chest I loved it and my body that I was having this surgery bc I loved myself so much. This I believe helped tremendously however I bumped into a huge depression and apathy after the surgery. I was not prepared for all the fear narrative that came up. I wish I had explored the negative voice in my head pre surgery by journaling and bringing awareness to it, I realize now that I avoided it bc I didn’t want to focus on the negatives but they were never released either. I am now working with this post surgery. I wanted to mention that as another prep tool that may really be supportive for folks! I loved your advice about visualizing joy and freedom. I am doing that now to drown out the negative fears!! Thanks 🙏

You know I needed to hear this because part of me has been in denial of my manhood still. I totally want both surgeries and know I need them. I dont have to let it drag me down or deny it because it's about FEELING my man-ness NOW. ♡sigh of relief♡

ayeee I have the same necklace thats cool

Great video and I love your personality!!! But didn't Aaron Ansuini come up with this idea?