If you are tired of him cheating, why stay?

Is anyone else disturbed by the fact that she was 14 and he was 19 when they started to date?

Damn where her dad. No 19 year old preying on my 14 year old daughter

I don’t feel wanted or appreciated!!!! Then leave!!!

I swear Judge Lynne knows how to lay the truth down hard, I love her so much.

She was 14 and he was 19 when they first started dating. That's all imma say for now

They don’t need to be together. They don’t understand what a commitment relationship means. There not ready

I love the judge but why she didn't call him out for dating a 14 year old when he was 19. I don't know who her parents is but he would of got a clean ass whooping for pulling that if that was my daughter

I love Judge Toler and her responses and facial expressions 💜😂

When theyre together they cheat on each other. When theyre apart they cheat with each other. BOTH of them are career Side Pieces lol

All this cheating and talking marriage? Good lawd!

Let him cheat in peace if you just going to stay

Great advice from Judge Toler. She is such a wise and articulate sister.

He’s cheating so I’m gonna cheat. And since she’s cheating now too, I gotta cheat again. Where does the logic come into play, when one of y’all get the Clap?

I appreciate the people who actually take the judge's advice cause a lot of people come on and completely disregard everything she tells them

Marriage is for mature people. They still cheating on each other cuz the other cheated. It's in the back of his mind that she like women more than men. And those are good reasons to get married? Ew yeah..Y'all should get married 😒😒

They don't love one another, they love the thought of loving someone. He's tired of her behaviour, but he's the reason why she is how she is. She's tired of his behaviour, but she's allowing that behavior and keeping it going. And he's taking this all as a joke. Life and marriage isn't a joke. A relationship is hard work.

Mrs. Toler. You are the BEST. I want to be like you.

Marriage is not meant for them

Im convinced Judge Lynn is a freak she always want the details🤣😂🤣😂

I dont think anyone knows how valuable I find Aunty Lynn's wisdom! You are definitely needed in this world. Thanks for giving us your jewels!!!!

Cheating is cheating just because she cheats with women doesn't mean she gets a pass. If a woman with a man she thinks like men, people say she should bounce so why should he deal with a woman who he feels like women more. He's her cover and he's right to worry because she can meet a woman that can blow her mind. It's not just a play thing because she's doing women, she's cheating emotionally and physical as well. She won't initiate sex with him but with women. He deserves all of her and maybe he won't stray so much but he shouldn't be shocked if one day she leaves him for Ashley.

Judge gives the best advice. I come for the advice first then the entertainment

Love in da Hood😂😂😂...I just love Judge Lynn😏

Action speaks louder than words Both need to take full responsibility of their actions. Interesting Video..

I see we have ourselves another member of the "Im gonna change him just you see" club🤣

Did anyone else do the math? He 31, she 26, been together 12 years Don't that mean he was 19 and she was 14 when they started? Hmmm

This week is crazy couples week on DC.

Mr Rutherford's smiling like if this is all a joke

I just love this judge😘

You always have the option of leaving someone if they cheat. People do know that right?

Disloyalness 😑 oh ok

The same way you got him. Is the same way you going to lose him

There's been alot of these long term relationships that started at age 12-15 lately. Like, how? 14 I had a boyfriend, but it was not that serious lol and damn sure no sex

Girl, 26 you better get out of there. Still young, can straighten up, find a man to Love and build a great life with. I never understand why people cheat or stay in relationships with cheating. Life is too short and that's nasty. Diseases, you don't know if they're using condoms. I'm too health consious for stuff like that.

You can't lay up with God knows who and expect a desire to be there. If the tables turn even hypothetically he'd be uninterested in her.

im to disgusted at the fact she was 14 and he was 19. idk thats just too much

There is no coming back from all that mess once trust is gone it's gone

Judge Toller saying “cool at the crib” makes me chuckle every time 😂🤣

might as well call it quits this is so petty you cheat but wanna get married, marriage aint gonna change a cheater either way

I'm really glad they stayed together and worked things out. I really love the advice the judge gave them because a lot of times the community you live in and the people you're around affect the way you are in a relationship.

Could never marry someone who wasn’t loyal to me from beginning to present time

Why wouldn't you love Judge Toler. She speaks with passion. I feel like giving her a hug 🫂 🤗

Mr. Rutherford is that occurring? 😂

The theory has a name “A love in the hood!” I love it lol Judge Toler is correct in the hood, we don’t get to witness healthy and positive relationships. Therefore we don’t know how to live correctly.

This was relationship therapy, not court.

They are together for familiarity.....its obvious.....

If you don't feel appreciate then leave. He think this all a joke

Well to be perfectly honest, in my humble opinion, of course without offending anyone who thinks differently from my point of view, but also by looking at this matter in a different perspective and without being condemning of ones view and by trying to make it objective, and by considering each and everyone's valid opinion, I honestly believe I completely forgot what I was going to say

He jumped on the couch 😂😂😂😂😂

Such great advice, I wish them the best

I wish them the best because underneath all that hostility is so much love between the. The Judge is completely right in this case, as usual.

OMG the advice Judge Lynn gave at the end was everything. I loved it. StArt today. Even. 😍💕💘💖💗💓💞💝💞💗💖💗💖💗💖💘. Just the two of us, we can make it if we try just the two of us, you and I

If someone cheats, why stay with them!

Started dating while they were in high school? Is the editor saying he's slow or are they trying to pull one over us?

It's a great thing what ur doing for these people who're lost in their relationships, I love what u doing mu Dear Judge I always watch ur KZfaq videos# from Algeria. By the way I'd love to buy ur book. 😉

I'm surprised they don't have any kids together..oh Mr. Eric

What’s the point OMG

Brilliant!!!very helpful advice.

I wonder why they never address the fact that there are some serious moral and legal issues with people being underage and aside from it being illegal that may be a huge factor for why they are having issues currently. She was 14 and he was 19. *side eye*

I'm glad they worked things out, I like them both separately and as a couple.

When someone shows you who they really are believe them!!!!!, the fact that he took an entire couch out the house stomped on it n told her now go get it, she should’ve left then.

Nice one again judge. Im glad they sought help to love each other right.

At 2:38 i died at the judges reaction

Hot chocolate time ☕️😊 Love me my Judge Lynn ❤️

He prayed on her, he should be in the jail not divorce court !

Everytime he cheats he blames me for it, okay gurl how many chances do you give him to disrespect ya

No kids!!! Good for you👏

Judge got it WRONG!! The girl is waaay too young for this relationship. She should DATE many men and find a right one for her!!

I lost my virginity to a man who lost his virginity to me. We have been married & in love 41 years & counting.

Wait! When they met she was 14 & he was 19???

They seem really immature, they definitely not ready for marriage, SMDH ,too much cheating, No trust ,Also what's up with the bisexuality, there's nothing wrong with it ,but it's something that needs to be addressed

I love this judge. She’s so intelligent. On top of that she’s gorgeous. Brains and beauty... I love it!!

This whole relationship is dumb and out of order!

I feel dirty after watching this.

This relationship was long past due to be OVER!!! you were way too young to even think about relationships... focus on you and your good man aka Mr. Right will find you when the timing is right for the both of you. Hopefully, she moved on... this is crazy... no way my (future) children both my boys and girls will be in relationships when they can't even have a stable one with themselves yet... kids need to learn the relationship logistics and basics throughout their teenage years... they need structure, guidance, love, warmth, compassion, and most importantly discipline during those crucial years. #thatsjustme #realtalk

Love this couple! Much success!

She must have been a freshman while he was a senior

They point fingers back and forth..so annoying..

I would love a update on all these couples

Who’s on the women’s side because I am lol 😂

Why did it look like Mr. Rutherford was trying to flirt with the judge? LOL

2:30 Judge Lynn reaction 🤣😁🤣🤣🤣🤣

I don't take couples like this serious...

Face it, some people are just stuck on stupid.

Wait, wait, wait!!! He was basically 19 and she was 14? Is that right?!!? I'm going to leave that right here... 😶😶😶😕😕😕😕😕

Love these episodes 💖😂

disloyalness? oh yessss this gon go well

Good job judge

The first place i will visit when i come to state is divorce court just to see judge i like you so much

They’re making a mockery of the institution of marriage.... those people are horrible, I hope they stay together cuz they deserve each other and no one else is gonna want them.

I need that book..😊

So he cheats and is unloyal and yet you need time to understand if he’s marriage material. Confuzzled

This hurt my brain so bad, they are so dumb

Wishing them the BEST!!! I think things will work out for them. We all have ups and downs in a relationship, what matters is HOW MUCH do you want the relationship and is it with one another or to move on. Basically, being truthful to yourself 1st will always make it worth your choice. Any thoughts????

When the man says he feel unappreciated the audience does nothing, when the woman says it, they applaud

She's so pretty!!!!! Roaming the halls!!!! That's so nasty! But let me tell you, if you don't like what you in then walk away. Let's be grown people. There's never a valid excuse for cheating, move the freak on!

That is a good advice to them both

I love judge Toler!

That's wild I know this dude