I’m so sick of people using “LOVE” as a reason to stay or keep taking someone back. Love should have brought you home 🏡 last night- Toni Braxton

There is nothing worse than being in a loveless relationship!

This is what is described as a toxic relationship. If you’re constantly cheating on each other than it’s not good relationship and you need to go your separate ways

That sideye Judge Lynn gave him was something else 😂

Sounds like they both could listen to B.B. King because "The Thrill Has Definitely Gone Away"!

There is no love here, they have gotten used to the situation that’s all. Hence the ending, she gained independence and he couldn’t handle it.

Your "best friend" would not hurt you over and over! That's not your best friend miss, that your worst enemy!

Wow, that ended unexpectedly

Love is not an emotional attachment. It may create one, but it's an action word and I hate when people say " At my work" 😩😩 Carry on

She just told the wife to prepare her exit strategy in case she needs in the future!

"I wish i could just go make the money and come home and have everything taken care of..". So hire yourself a maid, and sleep around. Don't latch someone onto you if you're not interested in a relationship.

When they broke up she should have moved on and stayed gone

32 & 30??? Whew! Hard living... life unforgiving...

“You’re all kept it real close”😅😅🤣😂😂🤣

These two are a great example of the term Dysfunctional...

It's a bad habbit to keep taking someone back if they gone keep disrespecting you and then use the famous phase "we have all this time in"

30 seconds in, I’m already grossed out by him.

He has a skewed sense of manhood... His version of manhood is to provide and that's it... He can drink, cheat, mistreat his wife but once he provides he believes that is enough. Also, why was he watching Judge Lynn like that? He was looking at her like he's not going to take advice from a woman, let alone a beautiful, black Judge!

These two need to stay apart this time. It drives me crazy when people say they stay together even though they are cheating on each other, fighting all the time, etc. because they love each other, or because they have children. Throughout the entire video I felt as if they didn't really care. Especially him. He kept saying "Yes," and "Right" to everything the Judge said in a non caring way. I think they both already knew they didn't want to stay with the other one, but just went on the show to get the money give to get people to appear with their issues. Like I said to begin with, here's to hoping they stay apart this time. I think they will both be happier that way.

They seem so emotionless they need to separate there seems to be no love no more and they grow apart as they got older.

Why doesnt the update at the end suprise me smh. She's better off with out him.

Wow I did not expect that update at the end.

Damn. That ending though 😭😭😭

I'm 29. My friends are between the ages of 28-34 and we look 10 years younger than them. Trippy.

I don't know when "revenge cheating" & being "on a break" became the thing to do, but it's ridiculous & it needs to stop. If this goes on in a relationship then you shouldn't be together. And by all means, DON'T HAVE CHILDREN. Don't bring young innocents who deserve a stable, loving home into your mess. IMO couples these days are too quick to get pregnant & also don't try hard enough to weather tough times. It's sad b/c it's the kids that truly suffer. When my husband & I raised our children, we worked together to provide, & believe me, we went thru some trying times, both personal & professional. We never cheated on each other. We sacrificed...couldn't "party" like we used to...but it was worth it. And now that I think of it, we were too busy working + raising our family to even think of drinking in excess or having sex with someone else. I guess the bottom line I'm getting at is GROW UP before you start having kids & screwing up their lives. JMHO

She:"He treats me like shit but he's my best friend." ???

Woman isn't innocent either. Man's a jerk but she messed with his family member for revenge

Thank you ancestors for this age defying melanin.

consternation=distress...thanks Judge..I learned a new word today.

She can do so much better then him. She should move on

We're about 15 minutes in & I've heard no real arguments. VERY NICE!!! Much better than those when both litigants are literally yelling at each other!!! It sounds like a real court case!

I don't think they are bad people they just need some adult and parental advice to keep their relationship functional.

I know I'm late af but congratulations on hitting 200k Divorce Court! Should be 200M but people will gravitate towards Judge Toler's wisdom when they are ready for it. Keep it up and thanks for uploading on KZfaq for the broke b*tches like me that can't afford cable 😘😘😘 Love ya'll!!!

The grass is greenest where you water it.

I'm thinking that he's a narcissist....and I think him using "I'm old fashioned " is an excuse to guilt trip her into giving him the supply he needs ...narcissism is his game.. ghosting her like she's just a girlfriend who doesn't have a child with him. Piiish😒. He shows all the signs ..just my opinion based on information shared, because a normal person wouldn't leave like a petulant child every time things don't go their way.

Once the cheating started, that relationship was done. Both of them need to work on themselves and learn to co parent. Their done, say goodbye to that relationship.

Ugh this is draining to watch gosh. This is so disgusting, sloppy n messy. He’s disgusting. Just dirty. She’s foolish for returning.

She won't leave. I feel like people who come on the show wanting help and wanting Judge Lynn's advice but never take their advice when she says to leave. It is aggravating. Cheat once, leave them.

Ladies. Ladies, Ladies, You can NOT make a man romantic, you can NOT allow a 3rd person in your bedroom and think everything going to be unicorns and rainbows. Wake the hell up ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!

I love that ring Judge Toler has on. Its pretty and simple.

This is not love!

Engaged for 41/2 years?!? Wow

They both need to get a dictionary and look up the definition of “LOVE”....

I'm so shy with my body even now after 27yrs marriage. I can't see myself sharing my body with anyone over an argument. Imagine there would be 5 million extra people who doesn't argue???

I hate it when people use ''love'' so loosely.

Steven and Shawna may very well walk down the aisle someday however it won't be with each other. As always good advice Judge Lynn Toler (which is the primary reason I watch). 😉

I don’t believe in the concept of Revenge cheating, I think it’s just a situation where 2 people are attracted to each other already but haven’t acted on it but when they get cheated on they then use that as an excuse to actually act on it. People say oh I slept with his brother out of anger! No you already had a thing for his brother & you finally found the opportunity to go for it without feeling bad about it because you’ve been cheated on. Eventually, something was going to happen whether you had been cheated on or not. Don’t bash me but that’s just my opinion...

Every time one of these guys says they want a house appliance and calls it love it bugs the shit out of me. Neither have a clue about what love is, or how to conduct themselves as adults

That update saddens me

Back and fourth make up your mind can't trust his butt

Nothing good 👍comes out of sleeping with each other's family members, that's a no no 👎🙅

Well folks, it is not just fatigue but following childbirth from loss of sleep chronically, your adrenal glands need to recover from the stress of birth & healing. This takes varying time but a minimum of 6-8 weeks or longer (especially if you are lactating). Give him the 24 hour responsibility of the child.

Therapy and counseling low self-esteem know your worth

the after the show response that they are in a bitter custody battle...very sad but that "ward cleaver conservative mentality mixed with alcoholusm leaves little room for compromise. I was married to one i know

AFTER THE SHOW surprised me! Not one of Judge Lynn"s successes. They are now involved in a bitter custody battle LOL LOL LOL

They're both wrong and neither of them loves the other. Next!

Put in your life at risk with all these disease

They can forget about it.

Enjoy it

32 and 30 nope more like 42 and 40

Soooo she slept with a FAMILY MEMBER for revenge???? I dont buy that. She could have just as easily broke it off with him.

He says he spiced her up but sounds as boring AF! 🙄

Damn, another unexpected update

it ended up on the rocks sad!

When I heard the judge say she thought he was "a bit of a perfectionist" at 11:23 my immediate thought was that he's probably a "Virgo". I am too and I usually want to be the "perfect everything to everyone", and when I can't, I usually act the fool and try to sabotage myself because i feel unworthy and worthless. I don't drink or cheat or spend money crazily but my attitude isn't very nice then. Self-awareness much! Thanks judge!

This is just a sad marriage. He cheats on her than she turns around and revenge cheats. Just let each other loose. No actually stay together nobody deserves these two running around the communities.

Just as the judge warned...men and women should be educated, work, and be independent. The stay-at-home mom thing isn't cutting it, unless a person can make money while being at home.

I wish them the best

wth kind of advice was that? He cheated, she cheated, throw that shit away. The nail in the coffin was the affair with the family member. Throw in the damn towel!

She has a deep voice at first I was pondering 🤔

I never saw sleeping with another man as revenge to me!! Now busting out all your house windows, pouring gasoline all over your porch, leaving a note that says light a match, and walking away never being seen again. Now that was revenge to me! I use to be like this.

contrary to what people think----love DOES NOT----conquer all....and once i got THAT thru my THICK head, it made it sooooo much CLEARER as to what i was willing to "put up" or "excuse" for behavior.....there have been times when it was better for MEEEE....to love and care from afar as in the end....what someone else DOES...or DOESN'T DO.....is not my deal, and is....out of my "control" .....a dead horse is still a dead horse and there is no bringin' it back to life....why does nobody have a concern as to what COULD be brought back to them after a cheat???? like-----oh say---std's......????? or----ANOTHER baby....

Ugh at the recap there at the end...I actually felt awkward with them..

Is it just me, the opening intro they sound like robots.

This guy needs work, but in this case, he also suffered from judge toler’s propensity (sometimes) to validate the wife’s point of view at the expense of the husband’s. At 13:41: The wife tells a story in which the couple agreed to temporarily work in different states and the kids would reside with the father. The wife only complained when a busybody family member filled her head with nonsense about custody. The Judge said nothing. The wife’s VERY NEXT COMPLAINT was that he didn’t assume enough responsibility for the kids. And even though the wife admitted he spent quality time with them, Judge Toler still dismissed it as “fun” time when he should be “raising” them. Being silent when an outsider is interfering with a father assuming responsibility for his kids is one thing. Admonishing a father to take a more active role in their lives is one thing. Doing both BACK TO BACK speaks to at least some bias on the counselor’s part.

He has binge and extreme behaviors in varying aspects of his life. He's either all the way to left or all the way to the right! He has no medium or balance which seems to be based on his lack of structure.

He did AA bu didn’t stay. 🤦🏾‍♀️

My.Life...

Young v Helfrich: Love & what’s your description of it lady and who’s family member, his or yours?? Oh Lordt, and he breaks up just to make up, chasing tail in a glorious repetition that won’t stop cuz you jet him. No one appears to have any values or boundaries, damn...Loozers both of y’all, Judge 👩🏽‍⚖️ throw that gavel at them both please!!

Some men like a variety of women and this dude is definitely one...........

He’s too old fashioned?! Whaaaa?!

I would not marry an alcoholic or addict been there done that. my alcoholic relapsed after losing his job and it was not pretty.

damn he is ward cleaver smh

What did Tina say?

This episode boring... I will still watch I guess...Just broke up.

They look old as hell

Question stated would you marry alcoholic or a addtic not knowingly

Why making babies with someone who doesn’t love you enough to make you his own?! In her case, she accepted to make two babies with a man that clearly doesn’t respect her at all. Than again though, she is one among millions of women with a doormat attitude. We hear that damn phrase : «Yeaaaaa, but I love him….»😳🙄 way too often. What it takes for that moron is a «Stepford Wife».

Hey Everybody… You Are A Big Deal Remember Dat💯👍🏾

lol And he don’t even know what it is judge need to stop with that facial expression

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I agree with the 1950s style woman

She's got that bruh bruh vibe. Dank voice plus that jawline wow....

I really liked you two, come on folks give it an adult try, to err is human. Peace

Sorry !!is reason for leaving and return don't add up he look to me that he is a sure of himself what he need.

The kids.

People just don't fear God these days. Marriage is kept sacred 😳

Hopefully they find God and fix their lives. People believe Revenge cheating will hurt the other partner more but it really hurts you more and makes you look foolish. The world tells you to try to hurt the other person back more which is never the best idea. If someone cheats just leave and move on or forgive. We need God at the forefront of our relationships or we have situations like this. Feel bad for the kids in this situation but there’s always hope for them

Does the judge have a stammering problem????

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