“No one is born ugly, we're just born in a judgemental society.” ― Kim Namjoon

She looked beautiful as a natural. She didn’t need plastic surgery. She just needed to get rid of her abusive husband.

Hey Y'all!!! For those of you who have praised me for speaking about this so publicly, and understand how difficult it was to show my "imperfect" features and insecurities on a national and international television platform....THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart. I did this show, and all the others to reach as many people as possible to show/explain how easy it is to lose your grip on the way you view your reflection, and the devastating effects this has on a person both physically and emotionally. For those of you who struggle to understand what/how/why I acted/reacted in such extreme ways, but leave encouraging and complimentary comments/replies....THANK YOU for being open to TRY to understand by showing Grace and empathy towards me. I learned years ago that reading a bunch of negative comments was counterproductive for me, so I don't read them that much. I have 2 gorgeous daughters who do read the comments from time to time, and it's hurtful to read comments that can be very cruel about their mother. There is a personal and emotional toll that is paid to stand up and shine a light in a very very dark place. It's now late May 2021. My focus in life is my husband, my daughters, close family/friends, and regaining my health, which I have struggled with for the last 11 years. I lost every single pound I gained after a fibromyalgia diagnosis as I continue searching and investigating alternative answers. Thanks to those kind enough to reserve unnecessary/counterproductive comments and judgements in favor of compassion and empathy 🙌🙏. ~Jenny Lee

What kind of doctor gives someone who's still in their 20's a facelift

Your EX WAS TOXIC. He Lied to make you feel low. He tried to mentally ruin you and he succeeded. Guys thanks for 1k likes.

I can’t believe how naturally pretty she was🥺😞

I feel sad for this lady. She's so brave to be on stage and talk about her surgeries. What a beautiful lady, both inside and out.

This lady has the life lesson of Loving herself. I grew up in a dysfunctional family where there was very little love. Money and things were always more important than people. One of my life lesson is to love myself unconditionally .

Parents please acknowledge your daughters how beautiful and smart they are. Build their self esteem like steel armor from the early start so no one can shatter it.

The people laughing and gasping have zero empathy. This woman is brave to come on this show and talk about her insecurities, and everyone laughs.

This segment is all about self love. We all need to love ourselves unconditionally.

I have never had surgery but I can feel how empty they feel inside. My heart hurts just listening to them talk about how much they do not love themselves. How sad!

Man people were ruthless to this girl.. telling her she looks worse now is just as harmful as her ex's comments before.

Her husband knew she was beautiful and he couldn't handle it smh

It’s crazy she was literally like PERFECT before. Like literally a model mental health is so powerful because idk how she didn’t see how beautiful she was.

That is why I love Oprah. She is a beautiful person who want people live a happy life by not fooling themselves.

Not gonna lie Oprah looks a million bucks here

Woah, i remember watching this as a child and thinking she looked so cartoonish and over the top... And now, by todays standards she kind of just looks like every influencer

The physicians doing these procedures are irresponsible enablers.

being able to recoganize abusive behaviors is as important as having high self-esteem. Comments like "your bs are too small" or "your nose is too big" should never be made by any "loved one".

She's extraordinarily self-aware. That's huge, honestly. I hope she's doing well.

"You can fix it, but you can't fix what you can't see. It's the soul that needs the surgery."

Lesson learned: NEVER, EVER EVER EVER allow a man nor no one to let us down.

Having these three women come in and hear each other’s stories is really amazing

She does not need a surgeon, she needs a therapist. And I think the crowd laughing is so bizarre. I feel sad for this woman.

When she said 'my spirit was broken', I realized this woman is the victim of narcissistic abuse...some survive this, some don't....her spirit did NOT survive her ex-husband's abuse...and THIS is the result.

My mom died two days after having plastic surgery on New Year's Day five years ago. The surgeons did so much on her that she didn't walk around soon after, therefore, causing blood clots to finally have three heart attacks from it. They did so much on her in such little time. My mom's friend that worked at the plastic surgeon's told about my mom's story and a girl got up and walked out of the waiting room. Think about if that's what you want because you might live but might not survive afterward and my family and I now have to see her at the cemetery. We miss her every day.

In this period of time we didn’t understand mental health as a culture. Shows like this would routinely have people with serious issues come on and tell us about their problems. People in a normal state of mind would marvel at them. They would be asked all kinds of questions, sometimes insensitively. This one was better than others I’ve seen especially in the end.

I had a boyfriend, he told me, "physically you're not my type". I didn't realize it was a sign that I should left him, untill 3 years later I found someone whom loves me just the way I'am.

When that man broke down and cried at the thought of having to leave his wife... 😭😭😭

When the lightbulb went off and Oprah raised her arms and said, “yes.” I clapped out loud and tears were brought to my eyes. I am a drug addict, and I want that light bulb. I want it so badly.

It’s so sad when people you love tell you aren’t good enough. I dated a guy a few years ago and things he told me still impact me today. Not to this level, but we need to realize the weight of our comments. We are all guilty of it , but it’s something that needs to change!

It broke my heart when they laughed when she said she wanted a body lift. She even stopped talking smh 😢

She was soo unbelievably pretty before

This is a self esteem problem and hope she’s in a better place mentally and is accepting herself

She was so gorgeous before and she's so gorgeous now! I even looked her up from 2022 and she looks stunning!!! I hope she feels as beautiful as she is.

It’s scary that this became the new normal literally everyone looks like her now

When do the surgeons say enough is enough and give them a referral to therapy.

Oprah’s comment on her Botox was rude. It kind of undermines everything she has accomplished in her recovery.

I’d be so interested in seeing what she looks like now, 16 years later

The first lady really did look like Julia Roberts. She was so beautiful. The very first surgeon should have sent her home.

People, tell your loved ones they are pretty more often. And never call someone ugly, A few words can ruin someones life :(

I've never gone under the knife but I can absolutely relate to how she feels when she looks in the mirror. You Just can't feel comfortable in your own skin. It's very hard.

I love how she grilled the last lady hahaha

The crowd laughing really pissed me off!

If she regrows her eyebrows and disolve the lip fillers a bit, she'll look a bit more natural. She's still beautiful..

I cried when she got a standing ovation for stating " I'll stick up with the legs"... if only society would applaud this in real-world not only when they are inside Oprah's studio, but that's far from reality in the world during decades we have been and continue to be bombarded with beauty stereotypes, I think is worse now than when this show was recorded

This is the first time of me being here on Oprah. The lady as a guest reserve more respect being here and telling her truth and empathy for whatever pain she gone through. I wish she find love and unshattered confidence in herself.

She was very pretty. What she needed was a psychologist and to leave that husband sooner

Poor girl isn't addicted, she's broken and driven to behave in this way as a result of toxic relationships in the past

She is so well spoken. I hope you get the confidence you’re seeking beautiful xoxo

This is a reminder that words do hurt people.

Self Love and acceptance of ones own self MEANS EVERYTHING.

She looked like a young Jennifer Garner when she had her first face. She was really pretty.

I left an abusive relationship a few months into the pandemic. it understandably messed me up but I'm so glad he never talked bad about my appearance because I would 100% be on that path if he did. abusive relationships like rewire your mind when you're in them

The second lady nailed it. An ADDICT will find anything to be addicted to. Its truly COMPULSION!

When I was growing up, I hated when my Mom would make me turn off cartoons so she could watch Oprah. Now I’m in my 20s and binging Oprah on KZfaq. This show is lit!

This is why people need to really think about what they tell others , be kind it isn’t hard .

As far as the crowd goes, most people just lack empathy and so many people are not aware of their own weaknesses and don’t see themselves in this lady’s shoes but we all can learn and grow from each other when we learn to withhold judgment and offer help. I’m glad Oprah called out the sighs and said we are all here as a nation, they still didn’t get it like, nah not me, when really their kids or someone in their family can end up like the first lady.

Jenny you seem like the sweetest, most down to earth person, it’s a shame that other people have to ruin it, with or without plastic surgery you are a beautiful person, it’s great that you love animals and you love your children and your family ❤

Wow this is old but so relevant in today’s society. She’s so addicted. God bless her!🙏🏾🙏🏾💜💜💜

Because of her surgery she looks like she is in her 40’s. She was perfect the way she was.

That’s crazy she’s only 28 years old.. She actually look like a old lady that had a lot of plastic surgery to look young. Damn!!

Why people are laughing and clapping? She’s so beautiful before and after all of these surgeries ❤️❤️❤️

I may not be most beautiful girl but I do love myself the way God made me

Doctors should have stopped when she told them she could do everyday. Cut off an addict. U don't keep giving them liquor

Anyone putting you down based on physical appearance has no business in your life. That's their problem not yours.

She looked beautiful before and after. The kindness inside shines outward. Hope she’s found peace and gives herself grace. She seems like such a genuine soul.

She smiled so hard when Oprah said she looked like Barbie then looked crush when she went on to say " that's good if you work for Matel" 😭

My ex-husband told me so much about how I could be better. I’m so grateful that not only is he my EX-husband but that I realized he was revealing HIS insecurities AND that. I accepted myself and am now married to a man who thinks my body and face are the most beautiful things in this world. More importantly, I finally feel beautiful.

It's the soul that needs the surgery ✌️

What a angel of a husband. 3 jobs, she's truly bless. I think all those women was beautiful before the surgery.

The second woman has what many people long for, to be loved for who she is, have a truly supportive partner, a home and a family.

When Oprah said to the husband "You don't really wanna leave" and he shook his head and broke down... man.. that really broke me.. :(

This girl is so ill and she needs such help - clearly being here is her attempt to get help. Bless her, knowing she can achieve healing

My boyfriend always says my nose is beautiful and I shouldn’t do anything to it when I whine about how much I hate it and will change it one day. Watching this makes me appreciate him so much more than I already do, and I appreciate him soo much already :’).

I cried when the husband started crying.....He loves her so much! She needs to love herself.

why would the doctors keep cutting up this lady shame on them

What this woman said at 34min,34sec almost made me cry. She was honest, although it looked hard to admit. However, it makes so much sense, especially to someone whose struggling with OCD. I was watching this on my TV and had to get on my phone to share this aha moment… Change is sooo hard and when you’re fighting yourself, sometimes you give in just to feel at peace. Your own brain is your enemy… It’s much deeper than I can explain!… Maybe I’ve already known this, but something in me just UNDERSTOOD when she said it 💡… So hard to explain smh!… So glad she was honest!

I remember when I was in primary school in the 90’s when I’d get to watch Oprah if I had the day off school because I was sick. It used to be on around midday in Australia and I learnt a lot! People bag Oprah now because they judge it by todays standards but really back when it started in 1986 and all through it was pretty ground breaking.

This is an example of how vulnerable we are to other people's comments. She was so gorgeous before!

The reactions from the audience are quite disrespectful. The poor woman clearly needed compassion and to be told how worth she is without surgery, not people laughing at her. Oh, and therapy, she definitely needed therapy.

FF to 2022, this show was years ago, It would be wonderful to see them now. She is a very sweet person, such beauty inside and out. Bless her.

Poor lady. I know how she feels. I hope she is in a better place today.

This was exactly what happened to Lil' Kim. Her exes told her she was ugly but that was a lie, she was beautiful. Now she looks like the Bride of Wildenstein.

Poor thing, she looks 40 and is only in her late 20’s.

That second woman says her husband works three Jobs to pay for her plastic surgery?! Why can’t she get a job herself to finance this; it is her choice!

She is a smart lady, i hope she heals inside.

This is why i tell my daughters everyday how beautiful they are....you have to instill that self confidence at home before they face the harsh real world!

Can we just appreciate how gorgeous Oprah looks here

I'm insecure about my nose and when raising my children I said bad things about myself. Fast forward many years and I heard my daughter criticizing her own looks. I was super shocked because I thought She was gorgeous. Sadly she reminded me how I used to talk about myself and she'd always known she had the same nose. If I had only known....

This poor young lady. Prayers. For you to love your insides first. Then it doesn't matter what the outside looks like 🙏❤🙏❤🙏

We care too much about what people think of us. We need to remember that when we die, we die alone. It’s only the individual the one that passes away.

She was so beautiful before the surgery, the guy clearly said what he said to destroy her self esteem. He got what he wanted.

She is such a beautiful woman with beautiful soul

The lady knew what Oprah meant when she asked had she had any Surgery, had Oprah not probed, she would have went on pretending she hadn't had any procedures for 10 years....BUSTED😜

"I left a bad relationship with my husband to a bad relationship with plastic surgery"

Damn people’s opinions really do influence us more than we think. She looked way more beautiful than before. She was a natural beauty.Why do people do this to themselves

When my daughter was growing up, alot of people used to tell her that she was soooo pretty. I told her, "well, that's nice, but it's much more important to be a kind person."

She was gorgeous! I still find her beautiful because of how charming and sweet she is. What I understood is ..your personality is what makes you beautiful, if you want to look beautiful and be considered attractive you better have the best personality! I hope everyone realises that. 🙏🏽🙏🏽