She see this man 4 who he is... why u still want him boo??? Why?, I don't get it...

I do

Excuses

@@jaylegacy81 explain please? Wants his cake & eat it too?

@@jaylegacy81 nahh even if you weren't ready for marriage again, you would have closed that chapter with first wife and made a safe opening for this new lady.

That's exactly it. He's going back to her.

PeriodT 💯

8 years, gotta be something there! She wasted too much time & she’s tied to him with the child!

So true

Yes I agree , he is confused , running away not wanted to deal with his wife’s illness. He need to man up .

Mrs. Baldwin I love your hair.

Mrs. Baldwin wuld u hv ran if ur feels we're involved

George Frazier honestly knowing he’s married she should’ve never allowed it to get far enough for feelings to get involved

@@ga9100 You don't procreate based on feelings. Even without the wife, all those kids are a financial strain recipe for drama and stress. Struggle love is for losers.

Mrs. Baldwin She did run. Into his arms lol. No sense of direction :)

Absolutely!!!! He still have love for wife no.1

Wasn't with her the wife...but I left.

Exactly

@@jaylegacy81 you did ?

They rarely do.

Al James you bloody right

Al James maybe she's not sane.

J A say thing I said!!

Exactly

AGREED!!!!

trilette Chandler That's it.

trilette Chandler wife? She should have ran when she found out he had a girlfriend

PERIODT!!!

Black women enjoy laying with men who are already involved.

Dasani605 race has nothing to deal with this

Noviia. It's STILL his wife. What's he suppose to call her?

brishaberries0101 shit that's the PROBLEM

Noviia. 😂😂😂

Noviia: this man told this woman no lie. If his dies he still isn't going to marry her. He told her what he wanted and she's not getting it. He never lied.

Yes NoVee I caught that. Any married man who wants to get a divorce, he would. He keeps calling her his wife. Sadly, this woman dont get it. You already have one child before you met Jay and then you had another child for him. Really

Thirsty

Claresa Morris Loyal?

beautyfyewitAlaina B true facts. This is what happens in the black community

he is the man! why you hatting! lol hahahahha

IKR 💯💯🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ man like she knew about the other gf smh .. so much RED FLAGS 🚩

💯 He said it's "financial".

Lol that means he can’t leave the side chick either

Riiiiight. Good point. 🤔Man, Judge Mathis would've pick up on that from jump! 😂

@@amenahking7863”financial” than he alluded to the cost of the divorce papers itself. I bet he would’ve been told her that if he didn’t want to pay child support to get her of his back.

2theOmega 2 more years AND a baby!!!

2theOmega and then have a child by him! I can't feel bad for her!

We do it to ourselves. I’m not dating anyone and I haven’t for a while but I am pledging right now and right here not to allow any man who is in a sordid arrangement with other women to rest his feet under my coffee table. I respect my sisters too much for that.

and get a child for him?????????.............stroops

And she can do better too

I'm divorced

That was a dope line. She does that from time to time.

jasmine hill 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 ON POINT!!!!

We choose the wrong men

Facts!! 💯

Aki Scott WORD!! And why the heck would anyone want to live like that is beyond me.

i 💘 Your Comments Very Meaningful n Truthful.Very Enlightening 4Sure FACTS.Your Comments Are Well Appreciated.

Preach 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@@wildones9339 U Mean Teach

True bro

Tru Brutha amen

Roshonda Robinson Thank you!!!!!!!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 I'm over here like wtf?!

Say it

Only If You're Thirsty.

And make a baby

Exactly.

Simply put and Brilliant. Don't cheat yourself by laying down with a married man. If it starts raggedy it will certainly end RAGGEDY!!! I do not feel sorry for this chick.

Jae Raee period!!

Roshonda Robinson 💯💯💯

I'm confused? Why is everyone still talking like this man has an active relationship with his wife? Even the side piece said he doesn't see her, she's just pissed they keep in contact and the wife obviously wants him back. Plus, divorce or not, he's not marrying her, he said he didn't want to get married again at the top of the show.

+Mr.Lion just because he doesn't want to have nothing or anything to do with his wife..that doesn't change the fact that he still a father and a husband..that still seeing his wife & kids. but at the same time..still setting a bad example for his daughters.as her saying..aka the side chick that he telling her he's not together with his wife. you of all men's that knows... that's a player move to get what he wanted??& besides..he made that choice also as well to marry his first wife.the only way it could've been prevented" if he doesn't want to get re-married...is not to get on his knees & proposed to his first wife at the first place.. as for the sloppy second side chick.. that still wants what other women have..??rather than choosing" a single man that's available for her, which..she wouldn't not been a side chick at the first place!!why continue to waist time battling a relationship especially if you keep losing the war??he may claim that he love her but..is still in love with his first wife.married is married!! like the side chick..Why try to fix it.. if it's not broken?? & that's on her for being a third wheel..!!!

Roshonda Robinson 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Mr. Lion maybe so, but she uncomfortable with his situation and always have been. She's been complaining since day one. She should have made sure she was secured with his situation with his wife before she got all caught up and involved. She had a whole family with this man and she still have a problem with him and his family before "the wife"! So I'm confused on her feelings! She did this to her self, actions speak louder than words.

good point

Maybe because its.....

Shia Adams he's like Pinky for "Friday after next". He's got a girlfriend and a wife on the side.

+Shia Adams maybe even a side grand-kids..!!! I wonder if her mother and father were a side chick & or a side guy??

Damn shame

Tasha Ivory 100% if she's getting pumped by any dude who won't commit.

Shia Adams smh....

Bryan Beeman right... two years later you aren’t being tricked.. you’re being unwise. Period.

Right, Two years and a baby later! 😅

Bryan Beeman 😂😂😂😂

Some trick, isn't it?

😀😀😀😀😀

Nita Pita Everyone clowning the man, but she’s got lots of problems too!

She always taking something that's not hers somebodies husband keychain lol

Right

Bingo!

She feels entitled

Cali Cali I was thinking the same thing but giving him the benefit of doubt he his doing it for the children.

Exactly my thoughts.

It wouldn't surprise me.

Interesting 🧐

That guy wants his cake,and eat it too.

My wife?

They don't learn; they prefer to play victim.

@@kattiethomas4687 you can't blame him for her choices like you want. Blame her. She did this to herself but it to hard for immature women like you to get. Grow up

This is like 80 percent of American women.

Jo Bunny He don't want her.

Avonell Kewley we are all women , some women make poor decisions in life then one day they get a rude awakening

What's funny???

I agree

Right!!

yep.... STRING A LONG GAME AT IT'S BEST... when they drag it out like that they get real comfortable doing other people while still doing the married thing so even if they get a divorce you can bet the Ex-wife will still sleep with him to spite yo ass for dating him while he was hers... FACTS... just LET GO...lol

true!! they can always get back together. The chances that they leave for the lover is extremely low, statistically speaking.

Right! This reminds me of a book called the wives by Tarryn fisher

Truth!!

Jessie Norvell hi I'm Joanne I agree with you but he really disrespecting his family neither you or me know their situation but for the young lady with the baby she needs to recognize she's a child of God she can do better

That's An Ole Big Jack Ass.She Think She's Cute She Have No Respect For Herself n Other Women.A Straight up Gatorade Thirst.

He's the one disrespecting his own family wtf he was separated from his wife for two years when she came into the picture 🙄

Jessie Norvell ❗️❗️

Bianca Jones supet annoying

belle hartinez ratchet behavior all around

Line B No, the question is WHY WOULD SHE TALK TO A MARRIED MAN.?!!!? IDC if he says the divorce is final TOMORROW... I'm not talking to a married man.!!!! #PERIOD.!!!!!

If It Aint Broke Don't Fix It.

@@lifeofta729 Because You're Very Smart n Not Thirsty.That Chic Have A Gatorade Thirst.

Pure truth

brishaberries0101 she needs a single man like because I have never being married have a good job and I will provide a security for her.

Swei Taylor She need to be alone til she finds her some self esteem that has nothing to do with taking another womens man. You shouldn't want a trash bag of a women like her.

Preach ! She needs her ass beat ! Trifling

Ummm no he is separated and she can date him. The wife is just trying to hold on and he is letting her. She thought that they were getting a divorce. He hasnt and she was dumb to stay but shes not a side chick they legally on paper together but its not like she broke them up. Take from someone divorcing dating while separated is normal. Especially if the spouse is dragging on the papers. In her case both parties are

TooCuteNoir B. That's not how that works. Legally, the wife has more rights than the side chick, and she is within those rights to fight for her marriage until the divorce is final. If something happened to him tomorrow, the wife is the one who makes all the decisions, not his mistress, not his parents but her. He's the one trying to have his cake and eat it too. That's why you either wait until he's fully divorced or leave him alone altogether.

London Esque awesome comment.

Yep

Nicey H. Exactlyyyyy as his wife her place is beside him. Shes the one out of place smh

Nicey H. yeah right ,she can do better

I know my eyes was 😳 when she told him to put his wife to her place ....hallo lady she is exctly where she is supposed to be

Amen!

Maybe I'm wrong on this (wouldn't be the first time and certainly won't be the last) but I'm not sure why not divorcing his wife is a bad thing? He obviously doesn't want to marry the other woman and the marriage is a shield so I certainly get that but he said right at the beginning that he didn't want to get married again so I'm not sure why it's an issue. My ex-wife and I were still married ten years after we split because neither of us were interested in marrying anyone else and we just didn't see the need to rush it? I'm just not sure why it matters in this instance.

Mr. Lion my thing is why prolong something that you say you want. I think he likes the way that it is and will never divorce her because again he doesn't want to. To each its own but I've never heard of the reason that you stated of staying married for ten years but if it worked for you guys then kudos to y'all.. In my opinion just get it done and over with if you truly want it and if you don't then work on your marriage

Exactly!!! Fullofsoutherncharm! You're correct!

FullofSouthernCharm word...

FullofSouthernCharm Well said!

Nafeeza Sitaram he never left

Nafeeza Sitaram first of all ms sitaram do you know if both people still want to be together

Mark Rush Facts!!

Why is he talking in circles.

Exactly

Esther Jean right❗️

Angelique Collins bye Felix .. thats a new one

Angelique Collins Probably not because not everyone goes that route. He has an strong effection for his wife though. So get the divorce and just be single until he can nurture lasting parenting relationships with the mothers of his children.

Angelique Collins you know what i didn't even think about that but that could be very true

Angelique Collins oooh yeah

I don't think so because his wife will not put him on child support. you remember, she knows about the other woman and she's still cool with it.

The divorce is never happening. She wasted 2 years only to be a baby mama looking stupid on t.v. Another innocent baby born into a trash situation with two trashy parents @temi david

Shenice Says but we know she wont smh lol

benji 80 exactly

I don't feel bad for her at all she getting everything she deserves. She should have never came around from the start he is a married man.

brishaberries0101 Agreed.

Shenice Says lol!

Kenneth Barnes BINGO! That’s exactly what I thought. He’s trying to avoid spousal & child support.

I'm telling you

Yeah. It's too many guys like this in our community which is easy since we outnumber Black men in double digits. But I wish so many sisters weren't so desperate. It's making it impossible for sisters like me to be taken seriously.

James Gibson I agree

James Gibson absolutely agree however he let them know and this woman still want to be ahead of the wife in terms of her position and expecting to be put first because hes abandoned his duties as a husband. She needs a reality check, thats the same thing he will do to her and shes not his wife. You can clearly see she anxious and insecure and hes cool as a cucumber knowing what game hes playing and the sad thing is he will get more woman. 🤷🏽‍♀️

That's illogical dude, did he not tell her everything about his current situation before they ever started messing around YES or NO?

James Gibson thankyou 👌🏾

Desiree Allen These dudes survive by living off of women. They never have their own house hold.

Hes a mooch

Finally, someone with some sense... these comments in here defending him.. saying, "but he was being honest and truthful" people use that line so much and still pretend to be something that they're not just the simple fact that the line is used should automatically tell you... he's no good... and agreed he was definitely taking advantage of her... and that's the WHOLE purpose of his "honesty" to take advantage...

And in the meantime he'll still be sleeping with her 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

naw, not child support because you don't have to be married for them but he probably didn't want to pay spousal support if he's the bread winner.