Choosing a man over her children... that kills me...

He's not going to change. She need to leave and run. He don't want help

Man that was tough to watch. She is putting up with so much, i just want to hug her. He doesn't get it. Gosh it's so sad that this family is torn up over what's at the bottom of a bottle...

JUDGE LYN WAS ABOUT TO CRY AT 17:45 WHEN SHE TALKS TO THE DEFENDANT... I GUESS YOU HAVE REALLY BEEN THERE... THERE'S BEEN A TOUGH TIME

Why is this man not put under the jail for his multiple DUI's and how does he keep driving? I guess the state of Wyoming don't care.

You can see his pain in his eyes.... not to justify him in any way but my heart breaks for addicts :'(

Another depressing "After The Show" screen. Helena, you and the kids have to *RUN.* It's just that simple. He admitted appearing on national TV coming off a hangover. He's *still* drinking. What more proof does he have to show that he will never be sober? And Helena has zero self-esteem left. Not her fault it's gone - but she needs a therapist as well.

Two lessons I've learned: 1) you can't force change onto someone that does not want to change and 2) you can accept someone for who they are but that doesn't mean it's cruel to not want that person apart of your life. He will destroy himself and take his entire family down with him. So sad 😔

She has to feel so badly about herself to believe that she deserves to be with someone that doesn’t want to change for his family!!! She could do bad all by herself🥺

His pate divorced at 8. He went to live with his grandma who was on pills. So his mom didn't want him. His daddy didn't want him. His grandma didn't deal with him. He didn't have any friends. He raised his self. Nobody spent any time with him. The booze was his friend. That's a lonely life.

Mr. Miller: he ain't paying no bills Judge: neither are u Me: heheheeeeee serve yuh right lmao!!!!

They met in a bar and married six months later.. And she's complaining that he drinks too much 😵

The bottle is his wife not her, i feel bad for her to be honest he is what he is, if 3 yrs in the joint dont sober you up nothin will man.smh

Hopefully Mr. Jeff watches this Divorce Court epd, so he can really see what his family & others see due to his excessive drinking. Best of luck henceforth to him & his family! Dear Jeff, if you ever read this- OWN UP TO YOUR MISTAKES, & DON'T LET IT OWN YOU! Take care Kid!

I’m alarmed that he just recently got out of jail for three years as a function of his drinking. I pray he’s gotten help and clean.

I am renewed. I came to the comments expecting judgment and bullying and instead find compassion and genuine concern for both of them in the comments. Wow, keep it up, humanity!

I've been here. A relationship with an alcoholic is so very painful. You try to make them see over and over again how much you care about them and how painful it is to watch them destroy themselves. He is still at the stage where he is speaking in uncertain terms about whether he is an alcoholic because he can find a way to blame it on you or the kids or a bad day or a bad mood. Until you and the kids leave he will never truly see that it's just him. Your support is killing him.

This was such an amazing episode. Speaking from experience, having lived with an addict at one point, it really is like such a negative black hole just starting to consume you when their in your presence.

Damn Judge Toler she called him a black hole lmaoo she ain't lyin tho

this episode is making me really sad i feel sorry for both of them may god give you the strength to stop drinking

I was not born with this level of tolerance and it did not manifest in me with age.

In order for you to want help. You got to help your self

If he ain't got no job who buying the booze???

I was raised in an alcoholic home and while it wasn't volatile, the damage was done. The alcoholic has to WANT to get clean and stay clean. This guy doesn't. He has a job but he's still drinking so it's just a matter of time.

8 DUI'S? What sort of municipality allows someone to get 8 DUI without pulling their license?

Helena, I hope you read this. I've been there. When it was just the 2 of us, that was one thing. But after I had a child? When my son was 3, I left....found a cheap, safe place for the two of us...because I had to, for my kid's sake. This is what YOU MUST DO. For your children, if not yourself. YOU MUST THINK OF THE CHILDREN & WHAT YOU ARE EXPOSING THEM TO. It is YOUR job as their mother. It's not easy, I know. You can do it. Believe me, it's the only & right thing to do. JMHO

That man looks like he doesn't have anymore life in him. He's given up on himself and his family. So sad. I feel bad for them.

He will never understand cause he's the one causing the pain

The judge seemed like she cared more about the marriage than him. He's dead inside and I hope he's finally able to get some help. Drinking since 13 probably messed up his mind

This makes me so sad, alcohol has the potential to be nasty. I hope he gets some help before his liver gives in ☹️

he's all about me me me me ... from drinking to cheating... it's all about satisfying himself... so SELFISH

He started drinking since he was 13/14 years old. Too many brain cells been destroyed

Addiction Kills! SMH. I am praying for him!

After the 10 dui I would have packed and left

My heart goes out to the both of them maybe he has underlining problem. Shes been struggling on her own with her kids bless her. If i was her i would leave for good...

Miller case: I appreciate dude, he’s forthcoming wit his issues regarding his alcoholism, thank you 🙏🏾 brotha, get counseling, rehab, and hopefully y’all can work this out.

As an alcoholic, it's hard to watch these episodes

Mr. Miller, I hope you will read this and be blessed. Mr. Miller, there is hope for you yet still. I pray for you, that Heavenly Father will meet you where you are and heal you of the broken heart you've had for so, so long but are too afraid to look at it for what it is. The bottle has now become an idol god to you because it now controls you and your life. You can't stop drinking in your own willpower. You need a Savior who has the real power to deliver you out of alcoholism's chokehold on you.... If you want to be free, you can. It is time to get in a quiet place (just you and your Creator), lift your head to heaven and open your mouth and ask the Lord to fill your heart with His love and life. Did you know Jesus Christ came to heal the broken-hearted? He came for you, Mr. Miller, and He loves you so dearly. He gave His very life for you. Ask the Lord to strengthen you. He is faithful to never leave you or forsake you. It is time for you to surrender it all.... All the pain, fear, failures, shame, and unforgiveness toward those who let you down. God will meet you if you will cry out to Him. He wants to restore you and make you whole. You tried man's rehab. It didn't work. Now try the greatest healer there is...your Creator. Then and only then can you see yourself as the man of God Heavenly Father created you to be. I'm here too, praying with you. God bless you.

To the man, prove everyone wrong and STOP DRINKING!!!

She talks a bit like Cardi B lol

Helena is slow. As soon as I heard her say, “If he doesn’t change...” at the end, I knew she hadn’t heard a word that the judge said. What doesn’t this chick understand about her husband’s sickness?! He has to want to stop drinking and he doesn’t want to. And it’s a shame that it’s the children who suffer in the long run from being in such an unstable environment.

You can go to all the best rehabs and serve years in prison… but It’s not going to make a bit of difference unless the addict actually WANT to change for their own self.

Something is Off about her

He may not ever get it until his body gives out and he has no choice but to get it. That's what happened to my stepfather, but he still dabbles in it from time to time. Just like my mom, I don't think she's going anywhere. You children will estrange you if they don't want that chaotic lifestyle for themselves. I left Houston and never looked back. My middle brother is a little less than an alcoholic. My baby brother doesn't come around often. There you go; a drug addict and alcoholic can destroy a family. My mom should have been left, but she's still other him til this day. I hope she Wise's up for the children's sake.

Sometimes you just have to be strong and leave for your kids and yourself. At times its better to be alone and happy than with someone hoping you will be happy one day. That day may never come....

The demonic spirit of apathy is weighing on him heavily.

this is why double cousins shouldn't marry

I'm sorry, I burst out laughing in the first minute when he said "her nagging drives me to want to drink"...that was hilarious.

She sound like that kid in class growing up that would raise their hand to read and you knew they ass couldn't read 😭

Dam Judge Lynn almost burst into angry tears almost had me in them 😩😩 addiction is so real man.. get help.

I'm trying to figure out why she still there

I'm ready for the judge to get her therapy license! She is "Extremely" financially literate too!

he seems like he does have a bit of remorse. God rescue him from this demon. We all have them.

They are so done with each other, even if he got off the alcohol, they have hurt each other so much. There's absolutely no trust left. At that level of alcholism if he stops suddenly, he's dead, his organs will shut down. He needs medical intervention. Even just one less drink per day is a step in the right direction. He fought and lost. Maybe if he can find some value in his life he will discover enough fight within himself to get help and finally kick the drink. He's failing to deal with the past. Did you see the stress response when he mentioned his parents' divorce. That's at least part of it. That was the first thing that came to mind when queried, he didn't even have to pause.

He is a drowning man holding on to his family not caring that they will drown with him.😪Those poor kids will need therapy from this exposure to his alcoholism, I hope they are getting help.

There's "Better or for Worse"..for this, I have now words except to tell you to run missus!

His lack of insight is STUNNING!

When u talk judge I listen to everything u say. U have an annointing Judge.

Where is the money coming from to buy all this alcohol? Her?

This was really deep, and really sad.

I know he’s an alcoholic but what’s wrong with her though? She seems as if she’s a few pineapples short of a fruit salad. He probably knew this & took advantage of the situation. How is he not in prison after this many DUIs? I know a guy who got 2 or 3 DUIs & he was sent to prison for 5 years, so how is he not locked up?

Man the intro was already explosive

Still drinking huh...hope she has an insurance policy. #cirrhosisoftheliver🤷🏾‍♀️

WHY WASTE THE JUDGE'S TIME IF YOU AREN'T GOING TO LEAVE THE GUY??!!! ITS RIDICULOUS AIRING YOUR BUSINESS IF YOU AREN'T GOING TO BETTER YOURSELF AFTERWARD!!

Grabs my popcorn

Both of them are slow

Oh those poor kids

These people s children are scarred for life. Permanently.

Their clothes match...how cute

Big bad boggie man u know 😂😂

Lady you need to dump him,he is never going to change. Take your kids and run as fast as you can.

She needs to let him go. He can't get it together, don't think he really wants to. The children come first, always.

The drunk is supposed to get Wernicke-Korsakoff, not the drunk’s wife 😂

Why do people, especially women, think revenge cheating hurts the other person?

NO WILL POWER AT ALL.... AAA MEETINGS MAY HELP IF, IF HE'S WILLING TO FOLLOW THROUGH. #8 DUI'S, THIS MAN NEEDS REAL HELP. SEEMS TO ME, HE DON'T VALUE NO ONE'S LIFE WHATSOEVER INCLUDING HIS OWN...... JUDGE LYNN, ALL OF THE ABOVE WOULD HAVE ME 86'S HIM RIGHT OUT THE DOOR.... WIFE AND THE KIDS DON'T NEED HIM IN THEIR LIFE.....

I dnt know how women can stay with such men. He cant even see he has a problem. 🤦🏽‍♀️

This is so sad 😞

4th! Why the late upload though? i thought i was going to have to wait till Monday! lol

She talks like Cardi B without the cursing

Honey it wont change right away, its gonna take alot of time and patience and understanding.

This is so sad. Both of them are.

What he needs is deliverance

That was so sad to watch mostly time she had her head down which means she has poor sustained which explains why she's with someone who treats her so terribly enhanced her kid's frightful their kid's mind you and hes just so unkind yes he might be fighting his own issues but hurt people should not hurt people in at 40 he knows better so he should do better

I have a theory: Any couple that matches in color with their clothes are staying together. Good or bad. It is what it is *shrugs*

Is no one going to mention how she sounds like she's 5 years old? The whole episode, I felt like I was listening to my 5 year old daughter all over again. I don't think this girl ever became a woman, because her body languages shows "child" too.

Pitiful

Miller case: get the sip under control, he was jacked with alcohol addiction before he got to you. She sounds like she’s got a learning or hearing disability but she needs a strong person who’s available & sober-he’s not that, I think that they both settled for each other for obvious reasons. She needs to find a shelter or some intervention for assistance, he needs help badly, that dime sized liver is gonna disintegrate even more. How sad 😞 the babies, and I hope y’all can get fixed & then fix the relationship, or I’d bail.

8 DUIs!! That's 8 times he could've killed somebody, or himself. If you can't do it for your family, do it for yourself bruh 🙏🏿💪🏿

She needs to leave for the kids. And he needs prayer the family needs it to. Just sad

She is strong! she has to run!

Getting ready to SMH

He need God for real, when he delivers you it's a done deal. Who would want him, why worry about Facebook

RUN GIRL RUN

I would be gone so fast. He is all about himself and doesn't really want help. He literally gives her nothing and is a giant leech who expects everything.

He isn't going to change. He has been away half of your relationship. What do you think is going to happen? He will stop drinking and step up? This woman clearly has low self esteem and worth. Her posture and body language said a lot. Always looking down when talking. This man has done some major damage to her and she doesn't even see it. If she was my sister I would pack her out his life for good. Your kids deserve better.

My father was an alcoholic and he destroyed our whole family. He had no shame or morals left and I hate him to this day for what he made us go through. The Shame and abuse and the terror he caused. He's been dead for 14 years and I'm glad he is. I hope he rots in hell.

Wow

just a few moments in..she sounds like a four year old boy. and already, their dynamic makes me uncomfortable..he seems so abusive and toxic

damn, I hear it too she does sound like cardi b lol

Not ment to be 2018!