I won't say she deserves to be forgiven but to say that is just crazy. People make it through to the other side and overcome addiction if they take the steps and put in the work to get better.

Not siding with the wife, but not true. My SIL used to be a junkie. She’s going on 2 years sober

10 years clean here. 🙋‍♀️ please don’t lump all addicts together. I don’t lump… saayy…? all former residents of the DOC together and say, “Once a fuck up always a fuck up” Because I know- (from my own experiences and from just, ya know living life and meeting people) that *People CAN and DO change.* Theives stop stealing, addicts stop using, and assholes stop being assholes… people grow and change. Thank goodness too!!- Just imagine if you and everyone in your life was the same person they were ten years ago- hell, five years ago…😳🤬 it’d suck. ❤❤❤