What’s hilarious is I remember a scene where the girl’s steak was appearing and reappearing on her plate. But thank god they had gold wine glasses! 😂

I think it was the blind date show version where they couldn't control the glasses, and you saw the glasses magically refill.

That’s awesome about the glasses. I worked on a reality t.v. show, back when they were first catching on, so during production I had no idea how deceptive they could be … and then, when I actually watched the show as it aired, I saw *all the exterior footage we had shot around various Chicago neighborhoods,* for one leg of the show’s auditions, being recycled *over and over again* and presented to the audience as *the exteriors of the Seattle, Wisconsin, Portland, and a few other cities’ auditions,* just because the production crews for those other legs of the auditions had either not shot any b-roll or had shot inadequate b-roll. So if you ever watch an early 2000s show called _Are You Hot? The Search for America’s Sexiest People_ (hosted by Lorenzo Lamas), just know that nearly every exterior shot of every audition nationwide was actually shot around Chicago, but then presented as “Oh, here’s Seattle, and now here’s Portland,” those lazy @#$%&! producers…

Yes, because you are not allowed to drink some and then refill it.... God forbid!

@@mikatu well, you are, but if it is to be believed that the conversation we are shown is an entire conversation happening in order, jesus chirst these people getting like 5 refills in a 2 minute conversation LOL

Or went to therapy

​@@blahblahblahEMILY I don't think therapy would of help by this point

@@moisesmartinezmorales5885 breakup + therapy

People are too quick to jump onto another boat the moment their boat has any issues. It's dumb. Nothing will ever be yours to keep that way.

@@marnenotmarnie259 + ratio

This show feels like the TV equivalent of ripping out your own eyeballs by hand

⁠@@russonauta the professor ripping their eyes out from the essay that rambles on and on to hit to word count

YIKES!!! yeah i had a terrible time with copyright on this one, so i left a lot out that i wish i could keep 🥲 plus i missed a lot details esp w colby and shanique and randall that wouldve made this video an hour long

KennieJD did a great job of breaking down all the relationships- although the video is an hour long.

WTF

so much of what colby said was a red flag. he was terrible

Yeah that was terrifying to me, I hope she does better than him

So why did my dad say he was gonna go get milk in 1907??

"big cheese" is also a phrase meaning a person who's important and full of themself

@@woah4167 from what decade?! Or maybe it’s regional 🤔

is she lactose intolerant? maybe she's just protecting you from the farts

@@Guimhj I think she sneaks out at night to binge on blue Stilton.

Agreed, I remember thinking him and Madison deserved each other

100% agree he is such a red flag and madison was aware of it from the beginning

i knooow right?? that guy is terrible

yeah he’s awful i feel like she was way too nice to him and zay

he's one of those guys that sells himself on being super sensitive and romantic and maybe even free-spirited or artistic, but then you realise he's full of shit. and manipulative of course

Literally makes or breaks a relationship and is a non negotiable for most people.

Additional comment, this isn't true, there was a two month gap between the reunion and the last episode

@@leahdavis9434 in the reunion episode, they make several comments about leaving set “six months ago” and what the last “six months” has been like since filming. I’m not sure where you got 2 months

@@alyssarae1788 From their written statements after the episode came out

How would Madlyn become 7 months pregnant in 2 months? It was 6 months

In the psychology world, we call it "overshadowing" and this is the most EXTREME case of that I've ever seen. Also. Alexis didn't make it any better cause she was entitled and a bit bitter

@@pixiestxNyomouf Thanks for correction.

@@jonnyreinhardt1961 I was trying to be funny, hope it didn't come off as "snobby" or anything. If so, I'm sorry 😞 😁

@@pixiestxNyomouf no no no, I didn’t read it as snobby. I thought I was just wrong on my terminology

@@jonnyreinhardt1961 not a correction at all, just wanted to add to it. You were 100% right 😁

not to mention that when she and colby talk for literally the first time she keeps talking about money the entire time (from what we see) and how she doesn’t wanna be “comfortable” she wants to be “good” in terms of money (which idk what that means to her)

and then privately she tells the camera that she would leave hunter if he didn’t make enough money

i feel like everyone ive seen talking about her interactions also weirdly minimise just how entitled she is- its not a funny-spoilt-girl moment, she seems genuinely nasty

@@chickenfoot2423 fr, ignoring consent and trying to pressure someone into a relationship is no joke. This stuff is often minimized and I hate it, I've been on the over end of it a few times and it's genuinely pretty scary and stressful

@@chickenfoot2423 can't disagree. She's giving me real "ex-bf had to take out a restraining order against after she keyed his car" vibes

His gf was the one who kept talking about kissing Randall, feeling his boner, finding him so much more attractive than Colby, etc etc. That's why it doesn't make sense, it's a double standard to go on a show where the whole premise is cheating on your partner and then get mad that he was cheating like she was

Talked about cheating with Randall to his girlfriends face*

yeah i think the part that was really hurting was that he kept it from her and basically lied

@@tinygreencreature5167 She shouldn't have done that either but he was cheating either way.

I understand both sides but ultimately: talk to your partner, Colby.

Same

True😂 There are a few shows I would've never considered watching if not for youtube commentary

Omg I LOVE Love It or List It (the British Phil and Kristy version) and to think this is what the dating equivalent came out to be is *puke*

this is literally the funniest way to describe this show and also completely accurate 🤣

Love that show! Hate this one 😂

Her whole character on the show is “superficial entitled rich girl” and at one point she even admits she would break up with Hunter if he started making less money

Literally what I was thinking! I don’t get physically attracted to people unless I’m attracted to their personality (or perceived personality) first.

And yet still the relationship fails

That's because it is cheating. The experience he wanted was cheating. This whole show was just "cheat for 3 weeks, and see what happens"

That whole conflict just made me mad at both parties. Colby because he was trying to justify his cheating, and Madelyn because she was so high on her pedestal that she couldn't see how she had done the exact same thing she was criticizing him for.

can confirm my ex gave me the “i’m not ending this conversation unless you tell me if we’re breaking up or not” during a fight (by text) so i broke up with her 😭 i was like fine if you won’t even give me the option to do it later in person then i’ll do it now

@@sylmaerie idk, I’ve been on the other end of that. My ex and I got into a fight on the day my grandma died because I was mad that he hadn’t called me for my birthday the day before. He was basically accusing me of being immature and taking it out on him that I was upset about my grandmother dying and I was like idk I feel like it’s reasonable to be emotional about that and hurt that all I asked you to do was just call me for my birthday, and you couldn’t even do that. So we were texting and I was already stressed out and dealing with a lot and he was like “you’re exhausting, I can’t handle this” and wanting to stop and I was like we can talk about it tomorrow and he was like, I don’t want to talk about it at all. Basically I was like I feel disrespected and if you’re not willing to acknowledge the way that I feel, even if you think it’s not your fault, just be there for me when I’m sad and feel hurt. And basically he was like not having it and really upset with me and started talking about how we was unsure about stuff. He was like we should talk tomorrow and it was pretty clear he just wanted time to think of a way to break up with me, like you know how you just get that vibe. So I just asked him straight up like are you thinking of breaking up with me, because if that’s something you’re going to do just get it over with now and don’t drag it out and make me wait until tomorrow. Because otherwise I would have been up all night anxious thinking about it, and I really just wanted to be with my family and grieve and not have to worry about that at that time.

@@corneliastreet2491 yeah i totally understand that and i’m really sorry that happened; that must have been really difficult and hurtful and i understand why you handled it the way you did for sure. i hope you’re doing okay now it’s worth it to mention for my story that my ex was not going through anything at the time, in fact she was apparently doing super great and seeing me after being fully long distance for 4 months was not very high on her list of priorities in her mind- actually when i had asked about potentially coming with her to all the parties she was getting invited to with her roommate (we are/were in college) her response was to say “sure that could be fun but i think we should have a conversation about boundaries soon.” and beyond that she had a history of a) not making me feel comfortable speaking to her about anything that hurt me/i had an issue with in our relationship and b) expecting me to be able to drop everything to talk to her about any issues SHE had in our relationship. it was extremely one-sided and this was the first time in our entire relationship i had been able to speak up and talk to her about something that was bothering me, and she immediately turned it into something much bigger than it was and only after realizing that i was genuinely upset and not backing down she pulled the “this is damaging my mental health and i’m not ending this conversation until you decide whether we are breaking up or not” card (among other toxic manipulative things she had started pulling throughout the conversation). i feel like our situations are actually quite similar apart from who ended up actually giving the ultimatum-both of us were wronged and put in an extremely unfair position where it felt like only our ex’s feelings mattered to them. and while i do feel bad that i ended up breaking up with her by text, she left me no choice with the ultimatum. but after that argument had been resolved in some way i was going to break up with her anyway based on what she said that day before the ultimatum on top of all the things that had happened prior-i was just trying to see if solving this problem and actually being together in person normally for a while would help, and if it didn’t, then have the decency to do it kindly and in person until she forced my hand.

@@sylmaerie I agree. Like, I can’t say “never try and give people ultimatums” because I agree its generally unfair and a bad position to put someone in, but at the same time I understand it because sometimes you just can’t wait forever and you need to know if the other person is committed, or ever going to be. So ultimately I can’t say never give them, just be prepared to get either end of it, because you can try and force someone to choose, but you can’t make them choose what you want them to.

@@corneliastreet2491 hard agree on that one. it just comes down to being prepared for every outcome of the situation, even the ones you don’t want. if one is prepared and feels an ultimatum is necessary for their own peace of mind and self, then go for it. i hope you’re doing better now

EXACTLY!!! Madlyn was mad that he told these outside girls that they're in an open relationship. Which at the very least was news to her. And don't even get me STARTED on how shitty Colby was when he was hanging out with Madlyn and her friends. You can tell they put up with him cause they love her so much.

Oh yeah colby was terrible. I wouldn’t argue that she’s a weak innocent victim tho-Madelyn was emotionally abusive and really really awfully mean. They were awful for each other

Homie this entire show rides the line of what is and isn’t cheating 💀

@@benadkins7695 they’re consenting to their partner being involved with someone else WITHIN THE SHOW. if they go and talk to people outside of that then that’s cheating because that goes outside of the boundaries that have been established. madlyn has every right to still be mad because she was operating within the established rules and was only involved with someone within the show. colby not only got involved with people outside of the show, but hid it from madlyn, and then said he “did it for her” after he got caught.

@@willnaib Okay but to be fair, I don’t think their emotions are completely limited to the bounds of the shows rules. It genuinely just feels like these people don’t know what they’re doing.

yeah 🥲

It was so cute😭

Same, best of luck with your score!

update us when u get ur score!

they remind falling for his "romantic sensitive good guy" shtick

He’s honestly just awful…

He really showed his true colors when he freaked out at her when her friends were there

He was cute, had a fun personality and he was the sensitive good one, and it's easy to fall for that kinda guy. His red flags are just accidents! he didn't mean it etc which is pretty scary.

Halo effect

I'll be honest, I've met very few people who didn't get at least engaged within a two or three year timespan of dating unless they were high school sweethearts who had to wait until adulthood. Is it really that unusual? I get that two years isn't any time at all in the grand scheme of life, but how could you not know someone well enough within three years to get married to them?

@@rowancook4369 I guess it depends where you’re from. I don’t know anyone who got engaged under 5-10 years together.

@@rowancook4369 Respectfully, most people don't know SHIT about someone after 3 years

@@theodoraa.9670 Lol I posted that comment as a person who has only been in two relationships, one with a friend of 4 years previously and one with a dude I barely know but spend a lot of time with. So I guess it's just hard to fathom not knowing anything about someone you theoretically spend a lot of time with after 3 years, especially if that includes living together.

@@rowancook4369 I think it's just a very "mainstream/US/ countrys we se on tv" thing (because mayority of family representation we see on TV or movies its the "perfect family"; start dating in high-school/college, marry and have kids very young, etc) to marry after just 2 or 3 years of relationship, where I am from people just don't get marry, like never, they live together and have children and then die together without getting married lol, so it's very weird and kinda creepy when someone marry after just 3 years of knowing each other over here, I don't know anyone that got married before their 40's after 20 years of living together, except rich people but they're US wannabes so they don't count, I think the massive difference is funny

Yeah Gabi commented on Hunter/Mike's proposal and asked "why did he have reservations to begin with?" my immediate thought is that hes probably heard her speak for longer than 10 seconds

@@bigbearkat2010 I find her repulsive and she has limited commenting on her instagram, I wonder why,

rightt!! and @tee noir did an amazing job in explaining his behavior in the show if you want to check her channel out 💗

@@ashleywh3178 thanks for the rec I subbed immediately it was a really good video!

agreed! also kennie jd has a great video on all of this

@@zorro...... yesss I love Kendall!!

I just don't understand what was so great about him that the girls were fighting over him. Any of the guys really. The only ones I could see having a connection were Jake and Ray

^This. I don’t even have Facebook or Twitter or Tumblr anymore, because they’d grown so intrusive and had begun interfering with how I preferred to live my life, so I didn’t deactivate the accounts but I just stopped posting to them or looking at them … and initially people freaked out and wondered if I’d died, but now when I go out on a date from time to time, people freak out when they discover I’m mostly un-Google-able, like imagining I must be using a fake name or something. How did it so quickly become “weird” not to post your partner online, or not to even have social media at all??

Being a parent has nothing to do with getting something out of it. Parenthood is intended to be the most selfless act one can carry out. The issue is that there are a lot of people having children and who should never have done so simply because they are having children for all of the wrong reasons.

@@ydad8946 I disagree. "Getting something out of it" doesn't mean it has to be something measurable or that can be objectively said to be fulfilling to anyone else. Just getting to raise a kid and be their guardian might get you fulfillment of having a purpose. You get company, good company even for the rest of your life if you do your job well. You get to experience aspects of life through your children that you probably would not have gone through without them. You get to leave a legacy on a more personal level. At the same time, yes, it is a huge responsibility and doing it for selfish reasons only will probably get you and your children in a mess. On the contrary historically, having children really was an investment with expected profits for the vast majority of people. For the lower classes they were extra workers to help feed the entire family and take care of you when you get too old to manage it entirely by yourself. For the higher classes they were a means to keep the power they held within the family, and to gain more.

Who are Danny, drew and Cody? I only know gabi here and I was introduced to her from Hivemind

@@hugo07260 Danny Gonzalez, Drew Godden and Cody Ko. All amazing, hilarious old school KZfaqrs! Check them out!

Does Susan have her own channel? What's it called?

Yes…and my mom 😅🥲

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I went to a language course abroad for three weeks when I was 15 and had a great time with the friends I made of the people on the same program. Then in the reunion party a month after the course I found out nobody of that group was actually interested in socialising with me, one of them even going "nah, I don't want the number of [the city I lived in instead of my name]" when I asked to change numbers because they'd had a different number during the course. I was pretty devastated and spent pretty much the next half a year in a kind of confusion of having great memories but looking through all of them in an entirely new light of what of it was genuine and what not. That also reignited my primary school anxiety of who I can trust when making friends in the first place. But at least it also caused me to be a lot better in choosing my friends in time so no complaints anymore.

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i also had to google it -teenager ur officially old, you have different words than we have

nah dude im 20 and i know that shit. granted its from me playing toontown as a child