Gen Z Embraces Polyamory

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@goreysins 5 ай бұрын

Just because it works for you doesn’t mean it works for everyone. I rather be single than be in this weird shit dating pool

@michelhickey5765 5 ай бұрын

SAME, this generation turned me A sexual with there disgusting habits

@wolfsmaid6815 5 ай бұрын

it works for nobody. Only an estimatef 0.8% of people can detach emotion and intimacy. what are the odds that two people like that are in a relationship with one another?

@ravenart8591 5 ай бұрын

just wanna be single now :)

@Ghillie_Beast_yt 5 ай бұрын

It's a mess

@DiscipleOfHeavyMeta1 5 ай бұрын

It's fucking horrible.

@wolfsmaid6815 5 ай бұрын

If someone lets you cheat, they don‘t care about your relationship. And that is the hill I will die on.

@EdenthelRei 5 ай бұрын

How about cheating is doing things outside of what you agreed to in the relationship. Sleeping with others isn't automatically cheating. Cheating involves lying

@whoohw1394 5 ай бұрын

⁠@@EdenthelRei Cheating is being romantically involved with someone outside of your relationship. I can agree that it doesn’t have to just be sex, you can have intimacy without it being physical. But I think just saying doing things outside of the relationship is too vague. You can be lying without cheating in a relationship such as spending the collective money, going to a place you both agreed not to go to like a bar, being friends with someone you both agreed wasn’t beneficial to your relationship etc.! But you can’t cheat without lying. 🤷🏾‍♀️

@Raphaeltheslayer 5 ай бұрын

@@EdenthelReisleeping with others is cheating if you said you were going to be faithful… if you decide to be someone’s partner it’s automatic that your basically agreeing to stay faithful to them

@EdenthelRei 5 ай бұрын

@@Raphaeltheslayer its not automatic when you have discussed otherwise

@intermezzono1 5 ай бұрын

@@Raphaeltheslayerwho said that if you have a partner you will be faithful? if both parties agree to an open relationship, thats not cheating. i cannot believe you people dont wanna accept that 😂

@Laternite 5 ай бұрын

HIV/AIDS. Jealousy. Various STDs. Financial difficulties. Loneliness. Drama. Mental trauma. Shorter life span. Inability to make meaningful relationships. The list goes on and on.

@Anonymous-ld7je 5 ай бұрын

Children growing up in a terrible environment where mom and dad and sleeping with strangers every week is a huge one.

@rizkyadiyanto7922 5 ай бұрын

so is free sex before marriage.

@kruggyy 5 ай бұрын

@@Anonymous-ld7jethinking of my parents doing that makes me want to vomit

@thefirsttrillionaire2925 5 ай бұрын

me too. Thank God they've been married 25 years and are 60 now. I pray I can find a good woman to live this type of life with as well. Divorce sucks for kids@@kruggyy

@thetraditionalist 5 ай бұрын

this describes perfectly the pride community

@Popup-hs2ho 5 ай бұрын

This is literally the most influenceable generation. I wish we could see through all of this bs.

@elric9892 5 ай бұрын

the internets information overload is a weapon exactly for this purpose - too many sides to choose from and the endresult is a mix of toxic half-knowledge.

@averdadeeumaso4003 5 ай бұрын

Not influenceable, they're respōnsible for their own actions and are wrōng

@l__l2328 5 ай бұрын

@@averdadeeumaso4003 People don't come to these solutions themselves. They are influenced by other people in polyamorous relationships who share their positive experiences in social media

@beyondappalachian8218 5 ай бұрын

Alison Krause said it best...give me a song 🎵 and a 1 night stand 😂and you'll be looking at a happy man 👨

@kellysouter4381 5 ай бұрын

Get rid of tiktok and return to church.

@BartekAlfirion 5 ай бұрын

Polyamory isn't even a relationship thing, it's just a sexual deviation.

@apscreditcards 5 ай бұрын

It’s why they vote for the democrat communist party…it better reflects their “morals”!

@AppStateWaifu 5 ай бұрын

Polyamory is a flowered up way to say “I’m cheating on you and you will deal with it”

@NekoNebula1313 5 ай бұрын

Really tho

@e.yassine4426 5 ай бұрын

As is the case for the LGB part

@Raphaeltheslayer 5 ай бұрын

@@e.yassine4426not really cause by that statement being straight is the same this is more so like… Not having impulse control if you can’t control yourself something is really wrong

@M0V3DXD 5 ай бұрын

It’s sad to see that my generation thinks sexual deviance and letting your partner “do whatever they want” is considered “love” to them.

@cincinnati4391 5 ай бұрын

Not even most of us. It’s a very loud minority. No sane individual would want this or seek this under any circumstances. It’s quite sad.

@Gumbyloomy 5 ай бұрын

Why is polyamory suddenly “sexual deviance” lol

@M0V3DXD 5 ай бұрын

@@Gumbyloomy Isn’t not? lol Can you explain how polyamorous is not sexual deviance?

@shionkreth7536 5 ай бұрын

@@Gumbyloomy ..because it deviates from the sexual norms in Western society, and that's what sexual deviance means?

@haventchangedmypfpsince2009 5 ай бұрын

I hate that I was born into this generation :( as a hopeless romantic, it really is HOPELESS now.

@Mannyxz 5 ай бұрын

When people prioritize their sexual pleasures more then an actual life:

@kruggyy 5 ай бұрын

PERIOD

@mr.e0311 Ай бұрын

Why not?? Pole is gonna shift any day now.. life basically sucks anyhow

@ImthebiggestTMNTfan 5 ай бұрын

This actually saddens me because if your partner wants to be "open" or "polyamory" then clearly they arent satisfied with you. I do not believe open relationships are anything but lust disguised as being kind to your partner....How can anyone be okay with this??? You are worth so much more than letting your partner sleep around and ignore and mistreat you. And i cannot see how these people dont have a drop of sadness or jealousy over the fact that they are not enough for the partner they love so dearly....

@TheScyy 5 ай бұрын

We’re just making a brave new world a reality. Nothing dystopian going on here at all.

@orangesnowflake3769 5 ай бұрын

i am a millenial who is asexual, ive lived with my partner for 4 years but I am okay with him having another partner if he wants to

@ImthebiggestTMNTfan 5 ай бұрын

@@orangesnowflake3769 if you don't mind explaining to me, why are you okay with this? Do you have other partners too? Sending love to your relationship

@madlKmT 5 ай бұрын

@@orangesnowflake3769 well you aren't really "partners" then, are you? Wouldn't you just be close friends at that point?

@MessageViolation 5 ай бұрын

@madlKmT I've met many "asexual" people who have admitted they tried coitus and it was painful or uncomfortable or they have no drive. They then chock it up as being asexual but the real issue is none of those things are normal...besides it being uncomfortable the first time or two and then it gets amazing. Most of them need to see a gynecologist and do pelvic floor exercises or vitamins/diet change. A gynecologist would find out what is blocking their drive like poor diet. A lot of it is lack of proper education and they just accept it because the internet said it. Not to mention, being asexual is biologically impossible as a human, as only plants can be asexual as it means you can reproduce with yourself not that you don't do coitus as biology states. So it boils down to improper science education or misinformation also.

@michal31131 5 ай бұрын

Usually when a person who presented themselves as monogamous in the beginning and wants to "try" polyamory/an open relationship because of "reasons", it's because they already had someone in mind and wanted a pass.

@skyworm8006 5 ай бұрын

Or it's just people who don't understand the concept of getting into a relationship yet still do it, who want to have sex with other people but don't want to cheat because they don't want to be the bad guy, basically forcing their partner to accept it so they can say to themselves it's technically not cheating. Weird indecisiveness and stringing people along. I bet they nagged and argued to 'open' their relationship with tacit threat of leaving or simply cheating outright.

@el_killorcure 5 ай бұрын

@@skyworm8006You got everything right except the "understand" part. They don't care, they understand just fine...

@aCycloneSteve 5 ай бұрын

This generation is going to blame everyone else when they are alone and miserable at 65.

@latrinemarine826 5 ай бұрын

These will be prime candidates for assisted suicide when they get to that age if their respective countries allow it. Deaths from despair.

@Alabaster335 5 ай бұрын

They're alone and miserable now.

@Channel-io4xu 5 ай бұрын

If they even make it half way to 65

@Some-random-Scythian 5 ай бұрын

Just like the boomers.

@Lupostehgreat 2 ай бұрын

They absolutely are because this generation believes that it does everything absolutely correctly at all times and is smarter and savvier than every last generation before it, until Gen Alpha is called the smartest and savviest generation ever and Zoomers are just seen as carmudgeons lacking any and all self-awareness. For the record, I do not believe that is all Zoomers, but the terminally online contingent sure is this way.

@AppStateWaifu 5 ай бұрын

Marriages are meant to bond and build an everlasting trust over time. Not immediately. My grandparents stayed together for over 50 years despite their occasional fights. And prior to marriage they were both previously cheated on, which I believe is a factor in the bond. My parents stayed together despite my mom’s substance abuse in the late 80s. My dad gets a lifetime award for sticking with her through the painful journey and eventually getting her out of it. It’s disgusting a saddening how today’s generation treats marriages/relationships as a joke, and the advent of social media has made it worse. Means nothing now 🤦🏻‍♀️

@tessabarre9330 5 ай бұрын

I think young people today are afraid of being 'martyrs' for the sake of a truly bad relationship. They probably saw it happen to older couples in their family where the woman /man tolerated cheating, abuse etc for decades and are afraid they're going to make the same mistake. But that's not an excuse to just nuke every relationship with polyamory without giving it a real chance to grow. I feel for this generation despite its faults. We've become slaves to the idea that we have all the options in the world. We've lost sight of who we are and what we want.

@Lupostehgreat 2 ай бұрын

@@tessabarre9330I think the other problem you guys were subjected to is Gen X tried to raise you guys as some perfect opposite to what they hated about Millennials, the perceived airy optimism that Boomers raised Millenials with. It made a lot of you guys seek risk reduction, first, and I think that shows with the poly and Open Relationships thing popping off beside the loneliness epidemic is a reflection of this need to mitigate all risk. Can't get cheated on if you don't believe in cheating. Can't get a bad divorce if you just pick the perfect person. Problem with both is that monogamy has benefits that poly never can (a level of intimacy and commitment that requires no one being in-between the couple) and you gotta play to win (if you obsess over mitigating shit you can't actually control like a relationship not working out, you will end up never making any plays).

@jessicastraw6593 5 ай бұрын

Gen Z clearly did not watch Sister Wives (the TV show) and it shows. If they had ever watched that show, they'd know that polyamory is actually really stupid and doesn't work. No one is actually happy long term in a polyamorous or open relationship

@backdoorsluts_9 5 ай бұрын

LOVE that show , youre so right

@crunchyman5330 5 ай бұрын

We also have to be cognizant that this generation is very narcissistic and in severe delusion, always think they're better than the odds. They literally believe that they can make it work.

@markattenborough9107 5 ай бұрын

So I am in grad school and in one of my classes a classmate did a presentation on polyamory and they have seen the Sister wives show. It was brought up in the Q&A portion and they basically argue that this is different and healthier than the Sisterwives scenario....have fun trying to figure because it just seen as a given to everyone but me.

@Lupostehgreat 2 ай бұрын

Seriously, some people will refer to polyamory in ancient societies but those polyamorous societies didn't really see "love" present in those relationships. They were usually men who picked up wives who were property, with additional wives typically coming from conquests, the men of these additional wives typically killed while the extra women schemed against each other and their husbands to seek a form a vengeance by getting their child with the oaf to inherit the majority of his holdings. Honestly, if you want to do swinging, which is just for the freaky types out there who want to experience an orgy or something by all means go ahead. Those are things where the couple does them together. Jealousy and boundaries are not as much of an issue because the couple is fucking other people together, so there is less risk of resentment forming. Plus, when the couple leaves the event, they go back to their normal lives and commitment to one another. Swingers seem to be the only variety of these activities that actually has some sustainability. I know old swingers, but I don't know old folks who were in open relationships where the partners dates separately and pursued love lives that were separate from their partners. This goes equally for poly relationships, which always seem to devolve into dynastic wars for inheritance and drama between the partners.

@friskycatnip9107 5 ай бұрын

I feel like polyamory is so popular with gen z because of the loneliness epidemic. Many ppl are struggling to even get in a relationship, so I believe they think being polyamorous will open their dating pool. Like it’s either be polyamorous or be single. It’s really sad honestly

@ericvulgate7091 5 ай бұрын

I'm fine with single.

@kellysouter4381 5 ай бұрын

Don't they have apps?

@friskycatnip9107 5 ай бұрын

@@kellysouter4381 dating apps are hell and are primarily for hookups

@thealgorithmluvsu3788 5 ай бұрын

@@kellysouter4381 Dating apps are complete garbage. Very few people have any good experiences on them.

@g.y.perelechow3587 5 ай бұрын

damn that actually makes so much sense oof

@Adam-sd2ow 5 ай бұрын

Notice the open relationship types are rarely attractive, the types to take anything just to have someone.

@kenofken9458 5 ай бұрын

And yet they're getting laid and you're not. How galling is that?🤣

@calumzmemez5075 5 ай бұрын

I think your on to something there.

@cincinnati4391 5 ай бұрын

I’ve noticed that too. Is it a self hatred thing or something?

@kenofken9458 5 ай бұрын

Yet these supposedly ugly people are getting action, and the incels that hate them are not.... I suspect that's the main source of their hatred of all things poly.

@Leafygreenie 5 ай бұрын

They all look like they don’t shower too lol I guess they don’t have time to with all the sleeping around 🤮

@tanja1007 5 ай бұрын

I'm in a relationship with the same man for 16 years and I can say for sure, that trust and closeness is something that grows over time. Concepts like open relationships and polygamy destroy any honest relationship. At the end, such people will end heartbroken and frustrated because who wants to be with a partner who slept around.

@SquidwardLSDSquirtingOctopussy 5 ай бұрын

This whimpy generation is so afraid to say no or disagree with someone, to avoid being called a bigot, that they let themselves persuade by subconscious & manipulative fascist tactics, to be fine with all this. That's how the left works. "Political Correctness is nothing but tyranny but with manners" - Charlton Heston On the outside they may all claim that they don't have a problem with this. But eventually over time, they will all suffer deep seeded emotional damage & probably end up in therapy & developing a psychosis from it. That's why this generation is doomed. They will probably also be fine with burglars to visit their homes. "Hello there, Im sorry to bother you, but would you mind if I were to go through your house & pick out anything valuable for me to keep & sell?" "Ohhh, not at all...please come in. Im sorry about the mess though. Just feel free to ask me any questions if you can't seem to find an item." Lmao

@Raphaeltheslayer 5 ай бұрын

I think you meant to say a partner who is STILL sleeping around regardless of being with you

@saswatsahoo6105 5 ай бұрын

I wouldn't say dishonest, just plain bad. Honestly doing bad stuff, is still bad, that's polyamory/polygamy.

@TheBaumcm 5 ай бұрын

I don’t believe in soulmates, because each of us is constantly changing, but rather that some people’s fundamental mentalities “fit” better than others. My husband and I are very opposite on many things, morning versus night, anal versus go with the flow, but very similar on key issues. My husband and I didn’t have a good understanding of each other, along with the shorthand that goes with it, I would say, until about a decade in, when we found through our MBTI personalities that we communicate in fundamentally different ways, but always with logic. It has to make sense to us if you want us to get it. If either of us had simply had other options early on, we might have never gotten the work done to get to this point. I can understand the social constructs that led to polygamy, especially when you consider the role of women in early civilizations, like the man who should marry his brother’s widow. Islam also doesn’t say have at, you must be able to support them both financially equally.

@Lupostehgreat 2 ай бұрын

I'm at 10 with my wife, and staying faithful has lead to me learning how to cope with the impulse to cheat. As a man, monogamy teaches you not to live your life steered by you pee-pee like a little fucking boy. You feel the need to fuck someone else? Jerk it out in the bathroom, you'll feel that post-nut clarity and realize you didn't want them, you just were craving a brief fantasy that was satisfied with the masturbation. You want some variety? Talk with your partner about your sex. If you can't talk with your partner about sex, there is a problem in the relationship that needs to be confronted and overcome. You should be able to talk with your partner about everything, and if you can't work it out together get a couple's counselor and be prepared to possibly change something YOU are doing if the third party sees a problem both of you are contributing to. Monogamy forces you to grow up and not always seek your own pleasure, first.

@UncleMikeDrop 5 ай бұрын

Porn addiction poisons the soul.

@girlvlogsdiy2462 5 ай бұрын

I knew a girl who was married. Her and her husband were in a polyamorous relationship and guess what happened? He left her for another chick. I wasn't surprised. So she had to go through a divorce and everything. Like what's the point of getting married if you're just gonna sleep with other people?

@uhhhhh4748 5 ай бұрын

So you can come home to a consolation prize if you can't find anyone better at the end of the day lol

@Anonymous-ld7je 5 ай бұрын

@@uhhhhh4748 Facts. The purpose is to freely shop around for someone "better", while falling back on your spouse every day until you inevitably find someone else. It's disgusting.

@DrAngelKins 5 ай бұрын

Marriage is a "closed relationship" status. Being open relationship there is something you do not wanna do.

@Lupostehgreat 2 ай бұрын

@@Anonymous-ld7jeyes, it creates a toxic mentality in both partners. There is a form of mental magic in monogamy that helps you move beyond being an impulsive child. If you are addicted to the novelty of new partners and have no interest in changing that, don't get married or even settle down. You can't form a true, powerful relationship with someone else if you are expending energy pursuing others. You cannot have your cake and eat it too, because maturity is about learning that life comes with sacrifices.

@alisahail9607 5 ай бұрын

Sounds like there’s a lot of people who need to work on their sense of self worth. I’d rather be single than a part of someone’s collection.

@dannyphantom3090 5 ай бұрын

Exactly like have some self respect living like that sounds depressing being one in a rotation.

@saswatsahoo6105 5 ай бұрын

I strongly suspect that my ex crush left me because she sensed I had low self worth. I thank her.

@yamori8717 2 ай бұрын

That's exactly right. I was in poly "relationships" for a while and the reason was that I had zero self worth and fell for the "oh if you really love him why don't you let him be free" bs. I wouldn't have tolerated it if I had a good self esteem, and in fact as soon as I started to fix my issue I left that wretched lifestyle. The people in it are either narcissists, sex addicts or people with no self esteem at all. I'd rather pull my own teeth out without anesthesia than do it ever again.

@smellme6313 5 ай бұрын

Pretty sure tossing basic morals out the window is a sign of societal collapse…

@kickmuncher3 5 ай бұрын

Why don’t people want a loving relationship just between the two of them anymore? It’s something that can be so special and if anyone out there has been lucky enough for that already then .. I’m jealous 😂

@SDS-ee9js 5 ай бұрын

It seems like that’s a thing of the past unfortunately. I have a feeling it has something to do with dating apps and this insane hookup culture.

@kickmuncher3 5 ай бұрын

@@SDS-ee9js if dating apps/hookup culture/ AND tiktok were just gone , things would be so much better and easier lol but sadly I don’t think any of those are going away especially hookup culture… some people view it almost as a competition of how many people they can sleep with … it’s pretty gross but i feel bad for them at the same time

@jimmcneal5292 5 ай бұрын

Can one wife give me even 20 kids?

@OnlyLilynn44 5 ай бұрын

You answered your own questions. It’s not that people don’t want to, they feel like it’s an unattainable goal. You said it yourself, anyone would be lucky to find a loving loyal and faithful partner. These types of relationships feel like fairytales now…

@kellysouter4381 5 ай бұрын

I've been married for 27 years. No,we don't cheat on each other. My husband is a church man.

@chillonfunsmart4929 5 ай бұрын

When it comes to polyamory, I think people tell themselves it's working a lot more than it actually works

@bloodmoon0205 5 ай бұрын

It wouldn’t surprise me if a lot of these people are people who have been cheated and/or are afraid of getting cheated on so are choosing polyamory as a way to protect themselves from getting cheated on again. They don’t think their partner will ever stay faithful so they see polyamory as a way to protect themselves from getting cheated on.

@billionaeris1183 5 ай бұрын

And why were they cheated on? Because Monogamy isn't natural, it's an absurd idea to commit to a single person your whole life.

@kellysouter4381 5 ай бұрын

This sounds like they lack self confidence in deserving a real relationship.

@urgadurga 5 ай бұрын

@@billionaeris1183 You want to pull the natural argument? "Cavemen did this, therefore it's good." Yea? It's "natural" for males to rape females in nature. It's natural for males to get violent urges and club another male to death. It's natural for females to kill their own kid if that kid was disabled or they couldn't feed it. It's natural for my dog to eat her own shit. Just because these are natural impulses absolutely does not justify them. We're supposed to distance ourselves from apes, not aspire to be them. Why can't you people just say "I want to have sex like an animal"? You always have to do this thing where you degrade monogamy, like it isn't OBJECTIVELY better for society.

@whoohw1394 5 ай бұрын

⁠⁠⁠⁠@@billionaeris1183how can you look at history where majority of people were in monogamous relationships and think that it’s not natural lol. If you’re in a poly relationship what makes you think you still can’t get cheated on. Poly doesn’t automatically equal open. So your point still makes no sense. 💀

@billionaeris1183 5 ай бұрын

What God lol how are you still fooling for that old trick, God didn't write the bible humans did and it's based on astrology and the stars bible isn't to be taken literally, Jesus is the Sun not son, that's why he is the light of the world be cause the sun is the brightest star that lights our world, he walked on water because when the su is setting it looks like it's walking on water again Jesus was not a real person lol how have you not figured it out yet? @Anitak.-rj1ek

@Retroplayer6472 5 ай бұрын

I seen this with one of my friends and all I hear is "you should have polyamory relationships" and I sit there like "why TF should I do that, it's basically cheating and dehumanizing because your sharing a person with someone else?" We all gotta do way better than this because this kind of shit gonna ruin our lives

@ericvulgate7091 5 ай бұрын

this will do wonders for the spread of disease.

@user-og6hl6lv7p 5 ай бұрын

You should find better friends.

@Retroplayer6472 5 ай бұрын

@@user-og6hl6lv7p I am trying but almost everyone I see has the same problems as her

@cincinnati4391 5 ай бұрын

@@user-og6hl6lv7pExactly. People who preach this stuff are not people you should be around.

@DasHeiligsteHuhn 5 ай бұрын

its just like friendship trios. firstly you both are together happy, then another person joins in. and then slowly they'll get happy together and leave u out...

@ericvulgate7091 5 ай бұрын

almost every three way situation I've witnessed in 53 years had gone that way exactly.

@shady_the_one 4 ай бұрын

Well, when the other two friends only wanna screw everything that walks (yes, everything) and go and watch woke bs, they can go and be together I don't give a damn anymore. I'm not the same as any of them.

@Lupostehgreat 2 ай бұрын

Yup, either the first couple eventually gets bored with the 3rd and rejects them, leaving that 3rd wheel feeling rejected and used, or the 3rd wheel gets closer to one of the other 2 and splits them up. There was nothing wrong with fucking serial monogamy...

@DasHeiligsteHuhn 2 ай бұрын

@@Lupostehgreat yeah, i gotta be honest i am in a working friendship trio, but a relationship is so much more, its also about body, about physical love and in the end it wont be split equally...

@Lupostehgreat 2 ай бұрын

@@DasHeiligsteHuhn obviously I would say you do you, and I really don't care what you do, friend. I hope you're happy, but I would caution you that as time goes on one pair is probably going to be the happy pair, and the third wheel will likely move on. I hope you're a part of the happy pair.

@l__l2328 5 ай бұрын

Sometimes, i feel so alienated from other people. I just can't engage in stuff like this. It doesn't seem right to me. I can't think of worse feeling than seeing my partner in bed with some other dude.

@ericvulgate7091 5 ай бұрын

that's our biology.

@kellysouter4381 5 ай бұрын

So, you're normal then.

@user-og6hl6lv7p 5 ай бұрын

@@ericvulgate7091Yeh our biology is also hitting women over the head with a club and claiming them for our own. Naturalistic arguments are so fkn stupid.

@calumzmemez5075 5 ай бұрын

Litterally everyone feels the same way. Its all just a trend thing

@sundance1372 5 ай бұрын

Same. I'd feel so miserable and disheartened if I saw my partner with other girls. I'd never be able to give my trust and love to someone who looks at me and thinks "Yeah, she's not enough" and goes looking for someone else. I have many trust issues but I always try very hard to give myself completely in a relationship, and I expect nothing less in return. It would destroy me to know that I'm here trying to be the best version of myself only to be thought of as "not enough" and cheated on. I mean, it's legitimate to fall out of love and want something else for yourself, but at that point you just end the relationship like a mature person and only then you look for another partner.

@TheMilkiestMan69 5 ай бұрын

I think the fact we went from “Marriage” to now “Traditional Marriage and Etc” is the most scary part about this…

@dannyphantom3090 5 ай бұрын

For real it's so sad like marriage is just 2 people it's sad how that's a controversal take now

@Thenerdoftheweek987 3 ай бұрын

@@dannyphantom3090 2 people is how it's meant to be, a third person would be a breach of their trust and faith in each other.

@Lupostehgreat 2 ай бұрын

@@Thenerdoftheweek987not to mention can you imagine the fights that are going to happen when raising children? 2 members of the polycule team up on the 3rd and force them to go along with my way or the highway? As hard as it can be to get 2 people to agree on one point, having to get 3 to agree on one point and compromise is even harder because the risk to just say fuck it and overrule them is there.

@Thenerdoftheweek987 2 ай бұрын

@@Lupostehgreat Yeah

@randomtanjnt9441 5 ай бұрын

If your attitude to your companion is, "Not sacrificing anything for them," then you're a narcissist only in it for yourself and deserve to be alone.

@2010hyundaielantra 5 ай бұрын

the internet is the worst thing to happen to humans.

@kellysouter4381 5 ай бұрын

Bring back DVDs and real movies.

@l__l2328 5 ай бұрын

Yeah, without a doubt. If the internet didn't exist, people would be forced to go outside and form real connections. A lot of today's problems stem from loneliness.

@sovietunion7643 5 ай бұрын

meh, this type of stuff had been building for a while. the 60s and 70s had the hippie movement which was also hugely into polyamory and loose relationships. this sort of ideal around loose relationships and a destigmatization around sex was always going to lead into a bad place as norms around sex and marriage are basically what holds society together. the internet was gasoline on a fire that was already out of control. sure it made the problem worse but the problem was already there.

@intpleb4206 5 ай бұрын

@@sovietunion7643 That was the 60's and 70's, we don't hear about it encouraged or popular in the 90's and 2000's because that generation learned there was too much mental and emotional strife involved, not to mention the rampant spread of STD's. It seems generations goes through phases where it skips one or two, and this one will also die hard when they grow up and realize it had devastating effects on them. They'll start instilling different values in their kids until their kids feel "stifled," and begin the cycle anew.

@shady_the_one 4 ай бұрын

Can't agree more.

@Banillashake 5 ай бұрын

I was on audible and had a hard time finding romances that didn't have four guys inolved. I swear, every other two books I read the description for was about polyamory. Our entertainment influences our reality.

@snakedick4753 5 ай бұрын

Even before polyamory got big weren’t most romances based on a woman cheating on her abusive rich husband with the nice poor guy

@toodlescae 5 ай бұрын

@@snakedick4753no. They were usually about 2 single people becoming a couple.

@lisaroper421 5 ай бұрын

Ugh! Yes!

@Lupostehgreat 2 ай бұрын

It's the fantasy of the moment. Those books are made because there is an appetite for it. Poly is the current BDSM. Cuckoldry also seems to be popular if porn is anything to go by, as is incest. Yeah, this comment just got worse as it went on. Porn addiction is a fucking problem.

@smolcutie1773 5 ай бұрын

Its actually quite sad because one thing is certain, these relationships won't last in the long run and these people when they become old and unattractive they'll be incredibly lonely. That's what happens when you base your whole relationship on s*x.

@ericvulgate7091 5 ай бұрын

a miniscule number if them are 'attractive'

@smolcutie1773 5 ай бұрын

@@ericvulgate7091 I'm not referring the people in the video in particular but people who engage in open relationships in general.

@uhhhhh4748 5 ай бұрын

They just find communities of swingers and find another person to settle for while they try to search for something better. There are tons of old swinger communities and conventions. They're unhappy people because they can't ever just be content with what they have. That's fine for them though, best to just steer clear of them

@lordsneed9418 5 ай бұрын

Polyamorous relationships are gross and if you're in one that makes you gross.

@emilyk1109 5 ай бұрын

The amount of people you'll end up introducing to your "sexual connection network" (every person with whom someone you've slept with ever had intercourse with, and all the sexual connections of this person as well, etc) through this lifestyle is bound to introduce your organism to a STD. That's not "shaming", it's common sense. If you've slept with 30 people, and each of them has slept with 30 people, and each of these people again slept with 30 people, plus some slept with sex workers with hundreds of clients and so on, then the epidemiological statistics aren't in your favour.

@cryptonoobsnews1 5 ай бұрын

I'm married to a beautiful Italian woman. I jokingly told her I'd like to have an open relationship. She told me to start writing the script for "my" Dateline murder mystery, starring me being dead... lol.

@TheBaumcm 5 ай бұрын

My husband who once jokingly asked what I would do if he ever cheated, and then said “you’d probably kill me, huh?” I then explained, without missing a beat, that his Dateline Murder Mystery would star his “girlfriend” and he’d be the one on the hook.

@amirah_williams 2 ай бұрын

is she sicilian?? 💅🏻🇮🇹

@Lupostehgreat 2 ай бұрын

@@TheBaumcmmy wife has informed me of either my demise of the loss of my testicles if I cheat on her, it would be my choice and she stated she would find me in my sleep. Cue the reaction vids reading these comments and doing wild laughing about how ridiculous these comments are.

@jakelynch5113 Ай бұрын

nice, she's a keeper haha

@GenXfrom75 5 ай бұрын

They’re completely jealous… sharing isn’t a marriage. Glad we’ve kept our vows for 19 years of marriage… 21 committed years together ❤💕❤️

@dannyphantom3090 5 ай бұрын

Amazing i'm 21 and hope I can find a loving long lasting relationship.

@GenXfrom75 5 ай бұрын

@@dannyphantom3090 just be patient and be sure your values align before committing or having children together 💕

@johnwilliams1223 5 ай бұрын

How did this work out for Destiny? His wife left him for a guy who weighs about 90 pounds soaking wet. 😅

@steverlfs 5 ай бұрын

I feel so sorry for those little children in that one video. I can only pray that at some point the parents grow up and start acting like responsible adults and parents.

@Jv-jx7fb 5 ай бұрын

I met so many polyamorous people when I lived in the capital of my country, like maybe around 50 people in total and I swear to God not one of them seemed actually happy. It always seemed like they were constantly talking about how they are "overcoming jealousy" and they always just had a similar vibe to when people are in an MLM and everyone above them is saying they're successful and happy, so everyone just pretends to be like that hoping that at some point they'll get there too but no one ever does. Idk it must genuinely work for some people but I never met anyone who came off chill and well rounded, they were all insecure and culty.

@JustM2024 5 ай бұрын

I have seen the same.

@Msmiyagii 5 ай бұрын

I’ve lived with a poly trans couple before. The woman was the ring leader with all men that claimed to be “female”. They would argue everyday, cry, have resentment. Lots of manipulation and jealousy. The girl would always say crap like “ It just has to be that way, if you love me you’d be more understanding and work on your jealousy”. The arguments were out there but man, when she would get ganged banged by all those dudes while I was home, I felt the trauma piercing my bones.

@Cationna 5 ай бұрын

Nah bruv, it doesn't "have" to work for someone. It just doesn't work. Maybe unless everyone there is a narcissist.

@PrimeMinisterRetsuko 5 ай бұрын

Trust me, it doesn’t work for anyone. They will take someone they follow online celebrating one year of success as shining shimmering proof that it works 99% of the time

@ShadySideUp 3 ай бұрын

Comparing polyamory to an MLM scenario made me laugh for real cause I can totally see where you’re coming from 😂

@orphicfemme7694 5 ай бұрын

I often wonder if the attraction to polyamory by Gen Z is related to their general lack of accountability in general. Real long lasting monogamous relationships are hard work and require each person to be honest with themselves and each other and recognize when they are not pulling their weight whether it’s emotionally, sexually, physically, financially, spiritually or with responsibilities. Recognizing error, apologizing and working to correct bad behaviors and mistakes means you can’t blame the other person or some external catalyst. Seems the trend in the world today is to avoid true accountability by finger pointing and playing victim in every conceivable aspect of life. It’s sad to see people missing out on so much because they have a very skewed view of what a good life is or what goals they should strive to achieve.

@Cationna 5 ай бұрын

Incredibly on point!

@intpleb4206 5 ай бұрын

Just like the 60's/70's, it's cyclical, skipping a couple generations and coming back into vogue again. They'll learn for themselves how unfulfilling it is, change their ways, and instill different values in their kids. A couple generations will pass where it's not popular (like the 90's/00's), then they'll feel stifled and poly will trend again. We teach history claiming it'll prevent us from repeating the same mistakes as our ancestors, but the reality is we much prefer to make our own mistakes and learn from them.

@thealgorithmluvsu3788 5 ай бұрын

@@intpleb4206 "The only thing we learn from history is that we do not learn from history." - Georg Hegel

@Lupostehgreat 2 ай бұрын

@@intpleb4206this. It's a cycle, we're in the 70's once again. The 10's were kinda similar to the 60's, with social movement after social movement being prominent. Presently it feels like the 1970's, and the 2030's will probably feature some repeat akin to the 80's with a doubling down on a new paradigm for society and some movement back to basics while retaining the more positive aspects of the past social movements. I can see non-profits that work with substance abuse, loneliness, and video game addiction starting to move forward, and hopefully in the 2030's things will look up, again. We gotta get through this wierd, rough patch though.

@daniellassander 5 ай бұрын

I have never cheated nor have i ever wanted to cheat, its the easiest thing in the world to stay faithful to your partner. Im not saying that relationships are easy they are tough but staying faithful that part is very easy.

@dannyphantom3090 5 ай бұрын

Exactly like anyone who can't stay faithful is very weak willed.

@kruggyy 5 ай бұрын

@@dannyphantom3090 THIS

@CRAZYCLOWNTOWN 5 ай бұрын

I am a Mormon, and even after 100 years of announcement of ending the practice of polygamy, we still get a black mark. My generation parade around collecting sexual partners like Pokemon Gym Badges.

@PeterGargan 5 ай бұрын

The only problem with that analogy is that they may go beyond the 8 badge limit...

@beastpuncher5927 5 ай бұрын

Leave Mormonism seek the true Christ

@trashketchum9782 5 ай бұрын

yeah a lot of people don’t know that vast majority of Mormons (and also Muslims) are monogamous outside a few fundamentalist fringe sects. polyamorous people always talk about “not every culture is monogamous” but the vast majority of them are at the time being. polygamy was horrible for women and children which had terrible outcomes for society as a whole. and you’d be hard pressed to find a culture that practices polyandry or anything where multiple men share one woman outside of maybe a few isolated tribes.

@alexgardener46 5 ай бұрын

Joseph Smith and Brigham Young had many wives and said God condoned it. I don't know what made God change his mind about that. Find the real Christ, brother.

@CRAZYCLOWNTOWN 5 ай бұрын

@PeterGargan did Ash stop in Kanto?

@The_traveller_2 5 ай бұрын

polyamory is just cheating rebranded.

@GOTHICMAMBA35 5 ай бұрын

My ex went from monogamy with me to polyamory. I was like nope disgusting not for me. I am now in a way happier relationship with a monogamous man.

@DiscipleOfHeavyMeta1 5 ай бұрын

4:52 Literal child abuse on television. What a fantastic era we live in.

@Cationna 5 ай бұрын

"It felt like a sacrifice" YES KAREN. YES YOU HAVE TO SACRIFICE THINGS IN A RELATIONSHIP. Any relationship whatsoever in fact. Heavens forbid you ever feel the slightest, barest hint of discomfort for the good of someone else I guess

@Lupostehgreat 2 ай бұрын

This is the main reason there are so many problems for this generation. They are taught that they should be able to have it all, and thus are always looking for relationships where they win everything and their partner simps for them.

@hermionegreen333 5 ай бұрын

It's always the most insecure people who are also the least conventionally attractive. They think they don't deserve high standards.

@kenofken9458 5 ай бұрын

That's rich coming from incels who couldn't get one woman with $500 taped to their boys in the red light districts of Thailand!

@marlonmoncrieffe0728 5 ай бұрын

Maybe everyone should be made to learn and practice martial arts or some other sport so, no matter how they look like, they will have self-confidence, self-esteem, and self-respect outside of and beyond their looks?

@hermionegreen333 5 ай бұрын

absolutely, having a personality and being healthy generates more attractiveness than basic physical features.@@marlonmoncrieffe0728

@DrAngelKins 5 ай бұрын

If you wanna see violence spike up high, you wanna avoid anything physical

@laurahughes8902 5 ай бұрын

My husband loves and respects me too much to do that. He isn’t going to disrespect me like that. And I reciprocate because I love and respect him.

@kruggyy 5 ай бұрын

As you should

@IceGuadian 5 ай бұрын

i almost feel like this moder polygamy comes from a place of insecurity more than anything

@jimmcneal5292 5 ай бұрын

How?

@IceGuadian 5 ай бұрын

@@jimmcneal5292 like these people accepting polygamy dont have any real self worth and see themselves like a commodity maybe almost it could be one of the many reasons at least

@jimmcneal5292 5 ай бұрын

@@IceGuadian we are "commodities". Human alone can't build and maintain civilization.

@wildermidnight 5 ай бұрын

Back in the late nineties I met someone. Handsome, talented, good chemistry. We hung out a few times. Started thinking there might be something there...until I met his two roommates. Apparently the three were lifelong bffs and their goal was to have him get both of them pregnant and for them to have a six person household. No.

@kenofken9458 5 ай бұрын

Lucky man.

@szxnc 4 ай бұрын

@@kenofken9458🤮🤮🤮

@mamc1986 4 ай бұрын

@@kenofken9458🤦‍♀️

@user-mr9oq4kd6z 2 ай бұрын

@@kenofken9458You just turned another woman into a misandrist today. Congratulations

@kenofken9458 2 ай бұрын

@@user-mr9oq4kd6z I do what I can.

@deltaneedstea4155 5 ай бұрын

Tbh I will fight polyamory until the day I die.

@kruggyy 5 ай бұрын

Right there with ya bud

@flannelsone1159 4 ай бұрын

(True) Polyamory is the ethical relationship between multiple people, meaning it's a team, not just two people working together. As a polyamorous person, if you're in a relationship that is monogomous, and your partner was to "open" it, *run.* They knew that they were only getting into a relationship with you, they are *unfaithful.* Or if they show nonplatonic interest in someone else.

@terracottagecheese2767 5 ай бұрын

5:00 That deeply, deeply pains me as someone who was homeschooled my entire life by two normal, well educated parents. Please know that most of us homeschool families are nothing like this.

@At76812 5 ай бұрын

This isn’t the majority of gen Z though right? This has to be the online weirdos

@At76812 5 ай бұрын

@@ConontheBinarian that’s very true

@emilyk1109 5 ай бұрын

Definitely not, these are just the ones clamouring the loudest because they've got nothing going on except gaining validation for not being "boring" from their 700 social media followers.

@At76812 5 ай бұрын

@@emilyk1109 yeah that’s my thought too. I’m getting to be an old man (34) now so I don’t interact much with the youths lol, but it makes me happy that these people are just the weirdos and not the norm

@cincinnati4391 5 ай бұрын

It’s just a loud minority. The terminally online do the most unusual and disgraceful things.

@pabloescobarschanclas 5 ай бұрын

is anyone genuinely surprised by this? in all seriousness?

@twilasreadingcorner6590 5 ай бұрын

not even a little bit surprised

@goreysins 5 ай бұрын

Not a single ounce

@dragonmaster909 5 ай бұрын

I am

@AppStateWaifu 5 ай бұрын

Nope. This generation has fallen harder than my generation

@gaiuswoltislovewoltislife6661 5 ай бұрын

I always wonder where the hell these articles get their numbers from. Like, I have never, in my life met anyone who actually wanted to be in an open relationship. The only dude I know who was in an open relationship was VERY apparently unhappy with it. So, I don’t think these statistics are exactly representative

@JenniferMcMahonhawaii78 5 ай бұрын

Polyamory, formally known as HAREMS…. which, seems to be focused on females mostly, not always, but mostly.

@thealgorithmluvsu3788 5 ай бұрын

@@ConontheBinarian So it would be more accurate to call it Polygyny then.

@tristanbackup2536 5 ай бұрын

@@ConontheBinarian Hence why Judaism & Christianity enforced relationship equality, one man for one woman.

@Lupostehgreat 2 ай бұрын

@@tristanbackup2536which was ultimately healthier for society. Truly polygamous societies are usually associated with a lot of conquest, as the multiple wives typically came from conquered cultures as tribute for the victors, or spoils of war for the soldiers who had already killed the husbands of these poor women, and potentially their children as well. This shit was disgusting and makes one think of lions, killing a male then killing off all his babies and raping the lionesses to claim new ownership over them. This shit was never cute, or even good for stable societies that weren't also deeply martial and war-like (something that can never work anymore in the age of atomic fucking weapons, bio-weapons, and drone strikes).

@AutomaticDuck300 5 ай бұрын

'Open relationship' is like saying 'Open locked door'.

@dane4073 5 ай бұрын

this is why I'm still single. It hard being a traditional male in today's world.

@robbymounce5764 5 ай бұрын

Yeah…………………… any OTHER 100% NATURAL BORN MEN IN THE COMMENTS?

@HostileTakeover555 5 ай бұрын

Sure bro - that’s why ur still single 😂

@spagooba215 5 ай бұрын

Fair argument...have a good day

@chamberofdiscipline 5 ай бұрын

@@HostileTakeover555atleast he ain't no weak man and cuck, btw traditional man

@jimmcneal5292 5 ай бұрын

If you were ACTUALLY traditional, you'd have aimed for polygyny

@artty9214 5 ай бұрын

This video has brought me to tears. Thank you for finally bringing this to everyone’s attention, Misha. Truly. Thank you. ❤

@calumzmemez5075 5 ай бұрын

Its so sad because these kind of relationships will inevitability end in loneliness for all parties.

@HaileysHealth 5 ай бұрын

And probably low self-esteem

@HaileysHealth 5 ай бұрын

And probably low self-esteem

@HaileysHealth 5 ай бұрын

And probably low self-esteem

@CalvaryCatalyst 5 ай бұрын

I think these people have just never been in love in a serious way

@thesoundpurist 5 ай бұрын

The child has the right to choose what to identify to. Yeah, that's why you feel the need to tell them what to think, to ask for law that criminalize people who refuse to sexualize their children so they can go under the knife of criminal surgeon ideologue, mess their development with puberty blockers. Did I forget something? It's hard to keep everything together nowadays with all the lunatics surrounding us. Thank you Misha for exposing the sorry truth.

@mak88119 5 ай бұрын

This is wicked and perverse.

@backdoorsluts_9 5 ай бұрын

Polygamy: “My husband cheats and I won’t leave him so this is what I put up with” 😅

@jacobparra4570 5 ай бұрын

Having a couple is difficult, the fact that you both need chemistry and work a relationship out through rough and good times is difficult, that even guarantees you'll be together forever... Now imagine trying to connect 3 people and make a relationship work, that's mad asf.

@bloomcorii 5 ай бұрын

STIs joined the polyamorous chatroom.

@arumugam-ok2lb 5 ай бұрын

😂

@Caleboney 5 ай бұрын

They might as well argue "Well, we don't wear the same pair of shoes every day."

@jacksonguillory8114 5 ай бұрын

Polyamory is Wrong.

@RilaAudio 5 ай бұрын

Amen

@broidkanymore-zc4lt 4 ай бұрын

thats subjective

@RilaAudio 4 ай бұрын

@@broidkanymore-zc4lt No, it's sin.

@broidkanymore-zc4lt 4 ай бұрын

why dont you prove that god exists then? @@RilaAudio

@RilaAudio 4 ай бұрын

@@broidkanymore-zc4lt Why don't you prove He doesn't? As a Christian, I could easily amuse myself saying that everything around you is proof enough, knowing full well that you want a scientific answer. The unfortunate reality is that no such answer exists. Not because God isn't real, but rather because Science is a byproduct of (and exists within) the natural world, it is neither capable of proving nor disproving God, whom, by His very nature, exists outside of it. We know that God exists because there is both no feasible alternative, and no theory which has flawlessly disproven Him. It is why the Bible makes to attempt to argue for the existence of God, instead assuming it. Christianity has an answer to everything. A quality it shares with the truth, because it is.

@JoshuaEdward12 5 ай бұрын

A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

@JoshuaEdward12 5 ай бұрын

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do I reach her?

@JoshuaEdward12 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

@TheBaumcm 5 ай бұрын

You are most likely experiencing grief, especially if it was sudden or unexpected. Focus on you, and addressing your needs. Do the mental work and you will find that you can picture lots of people in your life.

@Durandalski 5 ай бұрын

Crazy people want to have their cake and eat it too. Real relationships don’t work that way. My wife and I did marriage in the truly traditional way, married as virgins, and have never been with anyone else. We often comment on how sorry we feel for people who didn’t follow those old traditions. There is a level of commitment and trust that came with what we did that is impossible to get any other way. We’ve been married for over ten years, and our marriage and love has weathered incredible hardships, even a period of a couple years where I battled ptsd and pretty much shut everyone including her out of my life. Marriage relationships were meant to be an incredibly powerful bond, and anything you do to erode that, even having sex before marriage in a committed relationship, can weaken the marriage later. It should be no surprise that people who embraced casual sex before getting married are unwilling to remain committed to one partner.

@kenofken9458 5 ай бұрын

10 years? Come back when you reach 30 and maybe I'll listen to your lecture then.

@whoohw1394 5 ай бұрын

@@kenofken9458my parents have been married for 28. Taught me the same things.

@intpleb4206 5 ай бұрын

@@kenofken9458 So salty xD

@abcdeshole 5 ай бұрын

They want to have their cake, eat it, and eat the baker’s ass.

@rhuonaChanel 5 ай бұрын

@kenofken9458 they've reached the 10 year point where the probability of divorce gets much lower as they go.

@mrbojangles8133 5 ай бұрын

just a bunch of animals, crawling all over each other

@AspiringNormie 5 ай бұрын

Polyamory: translation- You're not enough for me. Sorry, that's just double speak for "I don't want to be faithful to you but I want your permission" 😒

@Mary.andersen19 5 ай бұрын

If you DON'T get jealous when your "significant other" goes out with another person, you OBVIOUSLY don't care about them very much, so what are you doing with them? Just let them go. Find someone you love who loves you and let THEM find someone who loves them enough to say NO to that NONSENSE.

@feukka2148 5 ай бұрын

sad day for the faithfuls who stick by their significant other.

@ClarkyWarky 5 ай бұрын

REAL TALK. Poly relationship dont work for anyone PERIOD. If you think it does then you're lying to yourself and/or really need to heal deeper issues within yourself.

@augustinewahlstrom8753 5 ай бұрын

Man, it feels so nice being single!

@dannyphantom3090 5 ай бұрын

Same living like this would be depressing I mean talk about no self worth letting the person you love cheat on others like why be in a relationship.

@frankopitt 5 ай бұрын

"Do you like being treated like a door mat and have no self worth?" "Have you tried polyamory😂

@Cody12o 5 ай бұрын

Polyamory is when you don't want to exactly be singularly faithful, but you still want to keep your favorite person. Disgusting.

@blueberryimpala 5 ай бұрын

What's the point of being in a relationship or getting married if you are going to share with other people? Just date casually because that's what this is. I grew up a portion of my life thinking I wouldn't be able to legally marry. And when it became legal I was able to dream of having a wedding and being fully romantically and sexually committed to one woman for the rest of my life, and I think that is beautiful. If I married someone and she told me she wanted to date others, it would be time for divorce. How disrespectful and callous to treat one's partner that way. To tell one's partner "you're not enough for me." And then the people who bring the kids into it? Gross and confusing for the poor kids. Kids need stable homes and reliable families, not a revolving door of partners their parents are openly getting it on with. A kid should never have to consider his or her parent's sex lives - there should be a boundary there. They should see their parents as boring adults who don't do sexual things. And when they're old enough to understand married people do have sex with each other even if they are boring and old, they should still never see/discuss/think deeply about it. And also, it seems most people involved in this are quite unattractive. Maybe they are always cheating because they aren't attracted to their partners, and that's why they're not satisfied? But then they seem to cheat with equally ugly people so, who knows.

@jimmcneal5292 5 ай бұрын

Somehow it works in Islam well and worked in the old testament too

@leahnzastrzelecki5217 5 ай бұрын

@@jimmcneal5292 I wouldn't say it worked in the Old Testament--both Abraham and Jacob and their respective wives and concubine were all deeply unhappy rather directly due to their polygamy. Solomon was disgraced and lost favor from God due to allowing in idol worship from his harem. David also lost God's favor by trying to hook up with Bathsheba, a married woman. All other mentions of polygamy in the Old Testament were footnotes as far as I recall.

@user-ot5ub7ck8j 5 ай бұрын

But you do not understand the true meaning of marriage. Marriage is not a transaction between people, but a transaction between people and a higher power. If you are not going to marry before any of the gods, it does not make sense. You can just live with one woman.

@user-ot5ub7ck8j 5 ай бұрын

@@leahnzastrzelecki5217 Only you forgot to mention that in the Talmud there are instructions on how to divide property between three widows of one husband. That is, it was such a common occurrence that people of that time needed guidance for such a situation. And idol worship is not a harem problem.

@l__l2328 5 ай бұрын

Imagine being with someone knowing full well you're not enough for them. If you were, they wouldn't feel the need to sleep around with another men

@shionkreth7536 5 ай бұрын

It only makes sense that the most miserable generation in recent history would pursue every avenue of hedonism, not realizing that hedonism is one of the things making them so unhappy and unfulfilled.

@tell-me-a-story- 4 ай бұрын

I recently learned that some gen Z people are only thirteen, and now I kind of hate the way people talk about them. Nobody EVER talks about gen Z people as children, but legit a bunch of them are.

@uffevonlauterbach 5 ай бұрын

Isn't Gen Z the generation that hasn't been having sex? This may explain this nonsense.

@Chico-yg5yw 5 ай бұрын

Yikes….i guess teens in the 50s would do this a little bit where they would date several people to find the right one. But eventually they always went steady. The “polyamory” was a teenage phase youre supposed to get over. Im planning on already going steady with my girlfriend. And yea, it has not been very long that we’ve been together. But ive been friends with her for 2 years before, and i believe she would make a great wife. Shes the sweetest girl ive ever met. If you meet somebody youve known for some time that you know makes you happy, dont swing with others and lose them.

@mnogobukv 5 ай бұрын

Besides all the obvious drawbacks, I don't understand why you'd want to have sex with someone who doesn't love you. Especially when you already have someone who does. Like yeah you know what I want, sex but it is worse in every way. Fantastic.

@emilyk1109 5 ай бұрын

This concept is so foreign to them that they've turned it into a lgbt identity called "demisexual".That tells you all you need to know.

@kevinbuyks6788 5 ай бұрын

Having more than one partner isn't love, it's lust

@karolinax5199 5 ай бұрын

ive been manifesting a video on this topic from you, what a lovely notification that was to see

@dadpridad59 5 ай бұрын

Yesterday, one "boy" gen Z was convincing me that if my gf wants to go to swingers party, true love is to go with her and enjoy. I have met more people with this attitude talking about visiting swingers parties as about unconditional love or even faithfullnes.

@whenimmanicimgodly4228 5 ай бұрын

I was polyamorous for years and wven got engaged in a poly relaruonship that i thankfully dipped out of, literally EVERY poly relarionship i know the people in it say "oh no we are fine we love it nothing will happen" then months to years later something happens and rhere a ton of drama and shit

@robbymounce5764 5 ай бұрын

What one generation tolerates, the next accepts, and then the NEXT EMBRACES………………

@MindfulAttraction2.0 5 ай бұрын

Actually I kind of disagree. The next generation always rebels against the previous generation. And It rebels by going in the extreme opposite

@MindfulAttraction2.0 5 ай бұрын

They call it generational myopia

@Ichigitchyyayadada 5 ай бұрын

Honestly, as someone who's working with the eldest gen alpha. They all really really really really really really really hate anything to do with Gen Z (because most of them have mean Gen Z older siblings) so I think we'll be fine

@jimmcneal5292 5 ай бұрын

@@MindfulAttraction2.0 clearly not so, it takes longer. The generations in US became more and more left-wing up until the gen Z

@ericvulgate7091 5 ай бұрын

what were normal jokes in the 80's became uncomfortable jokes in the 90's became hushed amusement but openly tolerated I'm the 00's. in the 00's these things that were formerly ridiculous became open talking points, though still mostly not taken seriously. now, things once thought laughable by almost everyone, are mandatory in main stream circles. I've witnessed all this ad an adult. I was very much aware something was changing. but I really had no idea it could ever really come where it is today.

@allium_o7 5 ай бұрын

As a muslim, who knows about this topic, the only way you can marry 4 wives is if you swear that you will treat all of them the same, love them all the same, and get them all the same things without mistreating, and ofcourse the husband needs a (sometimes signed) permission from the first wife, but most muslim men nowadays would never get 4 wives

@mamc1986 4 ай бұрын

It’s hard to please one woman, let alone 4 of them at once. I’m assuming most Muslim men would rather just be more monogamous then?

@allium_o7 4 ай бұрын

@@mamc1986 yes most muslim men nowadays never even consider marrying more than one, as they themselves find it weird, and are happy with one, and most women also disagree

@Zbolzgi 3 ай бұрын

Conditions of polygamy in Islam are many and they are hard to follow for huge chunk of guys: fair treatment, no inclining towards one of wives, equal time spent with each of them, ofc equal financial treatment, let alone intimate fulfillment for all the wives involved. Those who are unfair, abusive or injust will be resurrected as deformed and suffer in Jahannah (hell fire) Polygamy in Islam is certainly not for every man out there. Sometimes it serves a female ( orphans, widows with children, poor women with no male relative to take care of her). And to be totally honest most guys just have their heart for the only one and have no need for more wives as they're happy in monogamous marriage. Also that's true: first wife can stipulate in marriage contract that she doesn't agree to other wives.

@allium_o7 3 ай бұрын

@@Zbolzgi yes yes you are right, but also nowadays sheikhs don't like when young boys who are js looking for play say "but it's sunnah" (do all the other sunnahs before u try to get the only thing you want), I'm just trying to put a word out for people that see muslim men as animals, who follow a religion that only full fills them and not us women, I'm tired of always being called oppressed bcs of my veiling and that one day I'll be forced to marry. Anyone with assumptions like this reading this comment, please research before you put out baseless claims. thank you 🫶

@HanaDubs 5 ай бұрын

Dude I'm jealous knowing any woman has had him before me 🤣 I could never

@kenofken9458 5 ай бұрын

Right because online "influencers" are so representative of the general population.

@Cationna 5 ай бұрын

And this is THE normal thing to happen. Even sleeping around before marriage is not natural, we (both men and women actually) want one person for life.

@hyperbeamattack775 5 ай бұрын

I’m not monogamous because of society’s expectations, rather I feel biologically inclined to be this way. There was a girl I started to genuinely like as I talked to her more, and before I knew it I had zero romantic/sexual interest towards any other woman on the planet no matter how good looking/high value they were. There’s no conformity, submitting to expectations or mental gymnastics going on to make me feel this way, it’s a fundamental aspect of how my brain works. Me and this girl stopped talking, but neither of us were ready for a relationship at the time. All I know is that should I get into a relationship I wanna know for sure if the girl I’m talking to is monogamous/mono-amorous. Hot take I don’t mind the idea of polyamory not being shamed because if it’s more normalized people will be more willing to mention that they’re polyamorous. Good! I’ll know who to avoid!

@nakirx 5 ай бұрын

I would hurt so much if the one I love and who is supposed to love me, isnt satisfied with only having me as a partner... like... I wanna cherish my partner and in turn also be cherished....

@adu1991 5 ай бұрын

The "traditional relationship" is harder to get now, partly because dating is so convoluted. It's changed and it's not as simple as it once was.

@DanielStikKleiman 5 ай бұрын

This is just wild to me! If my SO will come to me saying "I want to sleep with this other man" it's when I know the relationship is dead

@Solar_Corpus 5 ай бұрын

This might be an unpopular opinion here, but I genuinely believe women that have accepted polygamy have simultaneously been severely emotionally hurt and just can’t let go of the idea of feeling like…”ok if I just accept this, maybe I have control of my own emotions.” they don’t feel hope even if they left, they feel like it’s just a given with whatever man they pursue. That whatever man they find, his eyes won’t ever be fulfilled with her. I am one of these women. I’m sorry.

@nightwolf9723 5 ай бұрын

So, you're a polygamist?

@Solar_Corpus 4 ай бұрын

@@nightwolf9723 I don’t know. Maybe even a cuck.

@maryempire1104 5 ай бұрын

Ex Muslim women here and tired from the crap that Muslim women saying lmfao

@j.lmt. 5 ай бұрын

Hi, I want to ask you a question, what was the thing that made you leave islam ?

@cassandraerdman7144 5 ай бұрын

@@j.lmt. probably things like in the video above...

@j.lmt. 5 ай бұрын

@@cassandraerdman7144 4 wives and in Heaven 72 virgins ?

@playerx5583 5 ай бұрын

Bruh a condition can be put in the nikah so that the man doesnt marry anybody else.. This is what happens when u dont bother making research but rather deliberately look for excuses to abandon the truth

@Cationna 5 ай бұрын

Taking aside everything else, this is also about refusal to grow up. Being an adult means taking responsibility and seeking accountability, and growing up means shedding possibilities and options by making choices. You are not gonna get, do, or be everything you've ever wanted. You sacrifice the ideas, desires, and impulses so you can make real things happen. People nowadays are trying so hard to live in a dream world where they can become anything at anytime and there will never be any consequences for anything, yet alone any discomfort or hardship or necessity of growth. They demand other people are always ready to accept a part in that playacting and never confront them with reality. But here's the thing: it's impossible. You are making choices and they do have consequences, you are losing all other possibilities by the very fact of time passing let alone by living some sort of life, you are shaping yourself with your choices and the kind of person you make yourself into does matter. Something something this ideology prays on the parentlessness and loneliness epidemic but also creates so much more of it for the next generation.

@jeffmedlock2782 5 ай бұрын

My friend in America says all married men are playing around on dating sites!😮

@Micolashcage1 5 ай бұрын

Seek Christ. Really that's the only answer

@jimmcneal5292 5 ай бұрын

Paganism is so much better

@Qwerty-8644 5 ай бұрын

I cannot imagine how horrible a polyamorous relationship is to both parties. I would give the world for one gal, it would not do me any good getting 10 girls.

@fundhund62 5 ай бұрын

"Go hiking or something!" 😂

@Cationna 5 ай бұрын

17:21 💯 this. It's just a complete disconnect with healthy sexuality we're seeing in so many ways everywhere. Our society is addicted and we refuse to see it.