If you've been in a long-term relationship, have you ever stopped caring about your appearance, listening closely to your partner, or going out of your way for them?
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@courtneypillay26065 жыл бұрын
I think sometimes I get lazy with my relationship with God
@rikanejose26115 жыл бұрын
Me too 😩
@simplymonica68885 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying this. I hate to admit it, but that's me now. I'm getting my relationship back on track. I don't like feeling distant from God.
@courtneypillay26065 жыл бұрын
@@simplymonica6888 Sometimes we forget that he is our number one priority
@simplymonica68885 жыл бұрын
Courtney Pillay. Amen to that. I’m so grateful for Him and all He has done in my life. He deserves a more attentive child than what I’ve been given Him.
@lg550155 жыл бұрын
A little prayer for us and those who feel the same, may the Lord’s light guide us toward Him or whichever positive being you personally believe in, in the good and in the bad may we not drift from Him or that which gives us hope and strength. Amen.
@XavAMusic5 жыл бұрын
Relationships sound like a lot of work. I don't wanna work 8 hours a day and then work at home too. 😖😖😖
@darionwilson36665 жыл бұрын
Xav A. Exactly
@SanyaTheShe5 жыл бұрын
But it's not work, it's pleasure..There's nothing hard about wanting to make the person you love happy, it comes naturally. If it doesn't, that's a sign that something's wrong.
@citlalie97915 жыл бұрын
Yup plus kids
@queenbutterfly48885 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@SanyaTheShe5 жыл бұрын
Brian W How did we get from LTRs to divorce and women telling men what to do? I don't understand your train of thought
@MajesticMyronn5 жыл бұрын
I feel like there's a difference between getting COMFORTABLE and being LAZY... sometimes it's ok to let your hair down and show your partner who you REALLY are but don't get to a point where you don't take care of yourself & you basically don't recognize who you are ! And I'm sure your partner loves ALL of you but please take care of yourself not only for your partner but for yourself ! 💕
@bluedrip58315 жыл бұрын
thanks pretty well said
@DaniielaVergara5 жыл бұрын
so true, Agreed
@asdfghjkl-oo7lv5 жыл бұрын
I define lazy as is someone who doesnt put effort in the relationship anymore. Whether thats dates, sex or emotional support. Now that's Lazy to me. All the other stuff like not shaving, grey hair, gaining some weight, or not wearing makeup... that's just being a human and its natural.
@Hazelgonzalez085 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏
@torihehehehe29565 жыл бұрын
Facts
@RoodianneTide5 жыл бұрын
I’m just like Tamera and I feel soooo badly 😩 It’s hard taking care of the kids, the house, multiple businesses AND having to look like a decent human being. But I’ll keep trying.
@BeautifulDreamerK5 жыл бұрын
The Tide Family keep up the good work, Mama!! Remember that you are more than enough 😉 you are Wonder Woman! ❤️
@BeNothingg5 жыл бұрын
Love ur blogs !
@kryssiewoo515 жыл бұрын
Yeees hunnie, same here. It's like comfort is just my go-to 😧
@saramokwena44995 жыл бұрын
Being a wife and mother is a lot of work
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@xtelfolaj5 жыл бұрын
I get lazy in my single life. Especially since I'm in school. I literally leave the house looking like a bum, with very loose twist that turns fast, and sometimes my mom looks at me like "that's seriously how you going to leave the house?" I lost all zeal to look pretty.
@amyfall83075 жыл бұрын
xtel folaj girl same here and it’s so bad because I was looking at myself on the mirror the other day, and I couldn’t even recognize my self. That’s how bad I let my self go😔
@dairaluna64865 жыл бұрын
xtel folaj well girl look cute for self shoot.. like choose a day or two 😄 sometimes we gotta look good to feel good 😊
@DogAngel225 жыл бұрын
@@dairaluna6486 aww i like how you responded. i agree!
@f.-j.j.57385 жыл бұрын
This is sometimes a sign of depression... Or maybe it's not that serious but you might feel down a little bit... See if you can work on your mood and your satisfaction with your life, surround yourself with uplifting people, if you feel good, you'll make your look match it... School can be very stressful. Make sure you're not letting it drown you.
@dairaluna64865 жыл бұрын
I am a new(single) mom of a baby girl, I am a college student and I work a part time job & yes it's so much easier/comfortable to just stay a "bum" during the day but I've noticed that getting ready really does boost up my mood. Btw I am only 20 years old, I try my best to keep doing those things that make me feel pretty so with this being said I encourage everyone who's reading this to do the same once in while 😊 blessings ❤️
@lulamanjuza5 жыл бұрын
Tamera stays blaming those kids 😂
@rikanejose26115 жыл бұрын
At least she's open or maybe share too much unlike Loni. She's way too private and bearly share anything.
@realSimoneCherie5 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking Tamera could use some adderrall 🤣
@lifeisgolden415 жыл бұрын
Right and they’re like 3 and under smh everything can’t be their fault lmao
@etf425 жыл бұрын
yea, thats foul
@beigelover955 жыл бұрын
looooool was thinking this
@imbored60375 жыл бұрын
Jeannie was about to correct Adrienne and say even if you were bald and didn't have"mad beautiful hair" you should still be comfortable to show yourself in a relationship I think. I agree.
@ofletcher64225 жыл бұрын
That's alot easier for a beautiful Asian woman with lustrous locks to say though. That isn't the same for most African American women.
@imbored60375 жыл бұрын
@@ofletcher6422 soo... self confidence, maybe?
@latishal.81425 жыл бұрын
O Fletcher Goodbye. I’m an Afro-Caribbean islander and I love MY luscious locs.
@ofletcher64225 жыл бұрын
@@latishal.8142 Good for u. I dont dispute that some women are comfortable with their natural hair. My point is an Asian woman doesn't have the same hair issues that an African woman would so its easier to say be comfortable with ur natural state if u have hair that everyone wants. I doubt any of those women would trade in lustrous Asian hair for African hair and that is really real.
@zora99ny5 жыл бұрын
O Fletcher don't project your issues onto all African or black women. I personally don't think Asian hair is "lustrous," it's just thin and only looks good when it's straight, can barely hold curls or braids. African hair is versatile and can look great in about 30 different styles.
@alexiastargirl5 жыл бұрын
We all get lazy in any kind of relationship we have
@chloesandrelli73375 жыл бұрын
I Can’t relate to that statement, you don’t have to get lazy and not everybody does.
@realshizz2475 жыл бұрын
@@chloesandrelli7337 i agreed like people always told us we'd grow out of surprising eachother and celebrating monthly anniversaries and just the little things we would do yet here we are years later still lovey dovey and everything's still as sweet as it was
@Sankines5 жыл бұрын
Including the relationship with ourselves 😂
@indigo_blue_s28304 жыл бұрын
Preach 😉😴
@isabelscr1115 жыл бұрын
Been with my husband for 10 years. I am very comfortable. I don't wear make up anymore rarely i don't really like to do my hair unless it's a date because i like to aviod heat damage. My husband is perfectly happy with how i look. He was the one who told me stop wearing heels you're messing your feet up. And to stop wearing make up everyday to let my face breath. We are very much in love. I guess it just depends on your relationship.
@marisolcee92165 жыл бұрын
👏🏻 yes.
@javiruiz44055 жыл бұрын
That's why men cheat!!! Men are visual creatures!
@isabelscr1115 жыл бұрын
@@javiruiz4405 my husband has never cheated trust me 10 years later amazing sex life still.
@isabelscr1115 жыл бұрын
@@javiruiz4405 people cheat for a lot of reasons
@lg550155 жыл бұрын
Javi Ruiz how do you explain men who cheat on women who are beautiful inside AND out? ive seen some men cheat on some fine ass women, stop blaming the way women look on why men cheat that shits getting old
@AdelaideAnn5 жыл бұрын
Tamera looks soooo beautiful 😍😍😍😍
@anniejackson43935 жыл бұрын
Adelaide Agbozo Amen gorgeous.
@shirleyfretty4875 жыл бұрын
She really is looking so much better, actually very pretty!
@onebraincellleft25635 жыл бұрын
I like being single. You can be selfish with your time, money and do what you want to do. But I also do like the companionship of having a boyfriend.
@lydiacameron48115 жыл бұрын
Bunny Runner exactly how I be feeling
@benedictaamuaku77185 жыл бұрын
@@lydiacameron4811 same
@annarose89135 жыл бұрын
If Loni is talking about it it must be serious! 😳
@positivevibes53645 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!!
@flymoon10445 жыл бұрын
it's the white dude
@JloA7x5 жыл бұрын
Getting lazy does happen in relationships. But being too lazy can hurt the relationship as well. So you always have to communicate to one another what you are unhappy with or what you would like for them to do more for you.
@cruiz11055 жыл бұрын
Every relationship is different. I like to look good all the time for my beau. I feel it’s so important to keep it fun and alive and always have him find me attractive. Even when I don’t where makeup I still smell good I’m shaved and my hair is maintained. Just because you’re comfortable in a relationship doesn’t mean let yourself go you know. Do it for yourself. I feel good when I know I look good or at least I’m fresh you know. You don’t need makeup or high fashion clothes to look good and be maintained and fresh. 😌🙏🏼
@BGriff-5 жыл бұрын
Thank goodness for you. This comments section is depressing. ~A guy~
@candice4465 жыл бұрын
When you look good, you feel good! That energy spills over in the relationship. When a man comes home he wants to come home to a woman who put in effort (is she’s able), not a hot mess! These ladies are failing to realize that men don’t think like us and they’re visual creatures!
@cruiz11055 жыл бұрын
B. Griff seriously. It’s so upsetting to see women commenting saying my husband loves me and I’m not shaved he’s lucky if he catches my hair done. So sad. I mean forget the husband but isn’t self maintaining important for a woman? Isn’t looking pretty making yourself confident. Thank god for guys like you. 👌🏽
@MusicalRose215 жыл бұрын
But everyone isn't you though. Everyone doesn't maintain the way you do. This isn't at all a put down but it's not "sad" just because someone is happy in a way that's different from you.
@cruiz11055 жыл бұрын
Lunar Duchess hey. Not judging anyone but I see girls or women commenting my husband is lucky if my hair gets washed in a week or if I shave or if he sees me looking good. It’s not about looking like a model it’s about self maintenance all I’m saying. It’s important to care for your relationship. Hygiene is important it’s one thing to not care how you look but to not care how you smell or how you maintain your hygiene that’s just a little messed up. I guess I’m crazy for caring about my hygiene and appearance to keep my relationship alive. 😬
@TooBlessedBabyDoll5 жыл бұрын
I love how Tamera is always honest about her experiences. She doesn’t put off like she got it all together... all the time. 🙌🏼
@julisamarcel93595 жыл бұрын
I would love to see Loni’s hair on the show, at least once. Remind the 4c community that our hair is beautiful too. ❤️
@Roseys_World5 жыл бұрын
Been with my husband 7 years and heck yeah I get lazy. I’m a stay at home mom and just let myself go like Tamara said. My husband still loved up on me at those times but I didn’t recognize myself. I put some effort in now 😂😂😂😂 not 100% but definitely 50% and it’s working 🤗
@Urhiness4155 жыл бұрын
When you take off your wig ... just make sure your hair up under is on point... that’s all!!! Moisturized, smelling good and curls defined is how it should be.
@Lalala-fz2ci5 жыл бұрын
Urhiness415 so then why even wear the wig?? Are you a professional clown or....?
@Lalala-fz2ci5 жыл бұрын
WhatMichelleLikes101 so you just admitted you hate your natural hair. So why do black women get mad when you tell them to stop lying when they say “iM nOt iNsEcUrE, WiGs aRe JuSt fUn!” We’re not dumb, literally NO sane woman thinks wasting money on other peoples’ hair and plopping on a tight hair hat is fun. Also, y’all keep regurgitating the same “protect and cover” part....protect and cover from WHAT?? And why does no other race of women have to “protect and cover” their natural hair???
@Thesilentvoice...5 жыл бұрын
La La La Black women don't wear their hair for two reasons: 1. It's hard to maintain an afro. Our hair texture is more coarse and kinky than a white or Asian person. You have to braid it, section the hair and use the right products for our hair not to break. A white/Asian person hair texture is just straight so it doesn't tangle as much. That's why black women wear wigs, weaves, braids etc because if they keep their real afro out without treating it properly our hair will break off. Are you Black? If not that's a reason. Black hair is the hardest to maintain, they contribute to 80 per cent of the hair market. 2. Afro hair has been made fun of in the media and society for years. Don't act like you don't know that and if you don't you need to open your eyes. In the media, Eurocentric beauty standards for women are pushed to the nod (straight hair, light skin, being skinny/thin, being tall, being racially ambiguous etc). That's why you see black women wearing weaves a lot. I don't think they should be wearing fake hair all the time as a substitute of their afro hair, but many black women get judged all the time at first glance just because of the stereotypes in society. Also, more black girls are embracing their natural hair now, it's not all of them but many have stopped wearing weaves. Other races don't say they protect their hair because society approves of it. Having straight hair is the trend/standard. Whenever someone wears an afro people make fun of them. There are stories of students who were told to change their hair or they couldn't go back to school because other students complained of it being too huge. At work, the employers complain the afros don't fit the work standards. They only want straight her which is ignorant and wrong since not everyone's hair is straight. Its the same as someone having a unique ethnic name. Society tends to judge you if you have a different name than the standard name (etc Shakiya vs Lisa). An employee always hires the person with the normal name (in society standards) over the applicant with an ethnic name without considering who can do the job. That's why people use fake names, or legally change it to receive work. It's not right but what are they supposed to do? If you were shamed for something you are born with by society wouldn't you try to hide it off out of embarrassment so you can fit in? It's wrong but there's a reason why its happening. Every race of women wear weaves not only Black women. It's just that black women wear weaves that don't suit their hair texture. A white lady would wear straight weave that fits her hair colour and texture (straight) that's why you don't notice. You sound very ignorant and rude in your comment.
@Urhiness4155 жыл бұрын
La la la actually I am a professional clown 🤷🏾♀️
@Urhiness4155 жыл бұрын
WhatMichelleLikes101 no sense In going back n fourth with these people 😂😂😂
@CatsEyes135 жыл бұрын
I'm in full tree monster mode right now.
@Tata-hr3hs5 жыл бұрын
Ariah and Aiden take allllll the blame
@chriss65315 жыл бұрын
tizzlemynizzle she needs to leave them kids alone and own it loool
@emmaowoyele92635 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@peachlife51185 жыл бұрын
I knew she was gonna say MY KIDS as soon as she said "because of..."
@umi.a1785 жыл бұрын
Yall be saying this cause you don’t know how hard it is to be a mom. Moms don’t have enough time to take care of them kids, work and also take care of themselves so ya’ll better chill with these annoying comments. Of course she’s gonna blame it on the fact that she is a mom cause that is the reason.
@andreacollins32045 жыл бұрын
I’m married 13 years together nearly 20. Had 3 kids. And he’s lucky if I actually shave the whole winter! He’s lucky to see me even out of my morning robe! I’m not here to impress him no more.hes put on weight he’s gone grey and I still love him so what’s the problem?
@FA-dv5he5 жыл бұрын
Thank You
@xtelfolaj5 жыл бұрын
I think its about that sometimes its good to make yourself look good for your partner. I'm pretty sure he loves you no matter, but I feel like men likes when women put in effort to look good, im not talking about makeup, extensions, and all that fake beauty. Just take care of yourself.
@andreacollins32045 жыл бұрын
xtel folaj oh I do honey! I’m 38 don’t smoke drink due my hair nothing. If you look at my profile pic you will see I take care but I am not asking him what he wants to see. Just like I wouldn’t expect him to ask me what day he should shave etc. he will still jump my bones fully clothed anywhere in the house so I’m not worried if he isn’t.
@simplymonica68885 жыл бұрын
The right man will not care. I don't shave that often too because it is honestly too much work. My boyfriend is constantly rubbing my legs, or trying to, and I'm like stop lol. He finds me naturally beautiful with no makeup on, and my natural hair. Hold on to the one who accepts you for you, and allow you to be comfortable. I feel bad for the one's who are always having to dress, and act like they're going on their first date with their significant other all the time. I know a lot of women who have men trying to fix them, or wanting them to look a certain way. Yes, I believe both people should look nice every now and then, but don't expect that all the time.
@ladaca-yi1xm5 жыл бұрын
andrea collins okay!
@fromspace75 жыл бұрын
"Well I didn't want it but he told me it was" LMAO I love Loni!
@amaristar5 жыл бұрын
I knew tamara was gonna blame it on the kids before she even started talking 💀
@ofletcher64225 жыл бұрын
Majority of moms seem to do that.
@cutiepies88995 жыл бұрын
Because it does play a big part. I’m a mom and most days I’m to tired to get glammed up or workout after all the cleaning, diaper changes and getting kids dressed 😩
@tamtamr90815 жыл бұрын
what other reason would there be?! u want her to lie just so ull be pleased?
@Beaneabean5 жыл бұрын
MM E After having kids, things are different, but after a few years, you should have a new routine down. Its being lazy.
@OhhGlam185 жыл бұрын
Unless you have kids, you obviously wont understand. Before I had kids I also used to underplay how much hardwork it actually is. The most difficult responsibility on the planet.
@UnyikQueen5 жыл бұрын
I just never want to let myself go when I get into a long lasting relationship! 😍
@rashaalsabah17225 жыл бұрын
Adrienne’s wig I can’t.....
@phillipswatson34525 жыл бұрын
Rasha AlSabah 😎 HORRIBLE COLOR!!
@lamoskgr5 жыл бұрын
It starts way too far.
@ntokozongcobo40915 жыл бұрын
Lol! I go over to my man's house in my expired bantu knots. But when I do clean up, child, I'm a Ssssnack!
@naomimcdonald79094 жыл бұрын
Hahaha i laughed soooo hard😂😂😂 go head girl with your shnnnnaack self😂😂👏🏾
@m.samuel63505 жыл бұрын
I love how Real Tamara is about her life. Do it for yourself not for them. Wait a minute..... Loni is in a new relationship.🤗🤗🤗 Loni you have beautiful hair, get it done and show the man😍 I love this show because you ladies keep it authentic 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@summerlyric5065 жыл бұрын
Yes. Bedroom wise for sure. It's hard to run a household, raise kids and we are entrepreneurs plus work. Plus you get comfortable. Things get routine and sleep becomes more important. It takes work to keep it fresh and spicy.
@adaysa2105 жыл бұрын
Adrienne girl....that wiggggg please...Love you but fix it
@pigsnum15 жыл бұрын
I honestly think they're getting wigs from wish...cause its just SITTING there.
@shaythareal23825 жыл бұрын
Lol they should just let her wear her own hair
@AlitaQuinn5 жыл бұрын
adaysa210 Lol I always thought she only wore extensions, I didn’t know she wore wigs
@annesilver63185 жыл бұрын
Everybody's always picking on these girls
@Mh-xe1zh5 жыл бұрын
Anne Silver how is it picking if she literally has to fix the wig. Stop being sensitive
@hannahlopez34115 жыл бұрын
The answer to Loni's question is whenever you get the chance. He's already asking if you not gonna take it off
@anewloveofficial91375 жыл бұрын
Tamera you should have to understand, that it's very normal if sometimes you can't fix yourself because you already have children and of course you need to take good care of them first. That is the hardest but also the fulfilling part of being a mother.
@smoothblackskin76555 жыл бұрын
Relationships are a continuous effort, it really is hard work when there is so much going on but we just have to do our best to ensure that we keep things fresh, still give our partner the attention they deserve and hope they forgive us when we fall short.
@samanthacurry18575 жыл бұрын
the ladies look great today! Love that bun on Tamera
@brandeered14445 жыл бұрын
Been together for 6 yrs 3 kids. When im to pregnant and cant shave my legs he does it for me he's the real MVP 😂😂😂
@irishcladdagh35 жыл бұрын
I have to speak up against the way society is always belittling a natural look...going gray is a natural process, fine if a woman doesnt want to do it perfect but don't categorize it as a downer...there are tons of gorgeous women who shine their tinsel with pride...not wanting to shave.....many women don't, many women barely even have a chance to show their legs, if women love doing it to feel confident perfect but again.....don't belittle a way of being such as natural as something negative to look down upon.....a person can feel good in sweats (not broken or dirty but a clean even stylish decent pair) gray hair (combed, brushed, styled decently and kept clean) no make up ( take care of your skin instead of hiding behind makeup) as long as a woman is clean, healthy and comfortable and a good person, a good woman, a good partner, a good mom, a good relative, a good co worker.....then the daily costume shouldn't matter, or be a preferred way of being ok with themselves. BLESSINGS TO YOU LADIES
@tornadosirenwednesday5 жыл бұрын
SPEAK ON IT
@hannahholley13595 жыл бұрын
I love this!! Honestly women put too much pressure on themselves and want to look perfect all the time its crazy. After 2 kids and now pregnant with twins my husband loves and embraces the changes my body has been through. And he respects the fact that maybe sometimes I don't feel like shaving. He's told me himself he don't even notice because he thinks I'm beautiful no matter what. And all women deserve a man that won't make them feel like they need to do these things to feel beautiful.
@RealTalkRelationshipTherapy5 жыл бұрын
You always have to spice it up. The key to a lasting relationship is finding things to fall in love with everyday. What you won’t do someone else will.
@lala09135 жыл бұрын
I’m starting to really love Adrienne. So sweet and uplifting !
@Katiekatie00995 жыл бұрын
Adrienne is annoying in this clip. Just how she reacted after Loni read the question and Tamera made that face. She acts like she is this angel of a wife in every aspect. Which she may very well be, but no one is perfect and the way she acts as if all of this is "wack" is kinda low key crazy to me.
@Lojani5 жыл бұрын
K G give her a few years. She’s a newly wed in a sense.
@irishcladdagh35 жыл бұрын
SHE IS STILL A NEWLYWED....HER TIME WILL COME :)
@Katiekatie00995 жыл бұрын
Lojani 12345 that’s not what I was saying at all. My point actually was she is a newly wed and she was making those faces. And then when Loni gestured to Tamera she kinda stopped talking.
@Katiekatie00995 жыл бұрын
Irish Claddagh that’s kinda what I just mentioned below !!
@joycecunningham87855 жыл бұрын
I've notice that since she's been married, loni when you're comfortable than you should remove your wig
@KYESHAKNOWSSKIN5 жыл бұрын
Can we give these ladies a round of applause for the transparency!! They have been being truly realer than life lately! Love it!
@chiomalydia48785 жыл бұрын
I'm in a new relationship right now...... That took few seconds to sink in. Happy for you Loni
@ZionFame5 жыл бұрын
Whoaaa! I do get lazy he also does get lazy. then we like let's just be real with our love and not looks. 👫
@afrosamurai87555 жыл бұрын
Relationships aren’t hard people make them hard. The word WANT is the number one reason for breakups and divorce
@ayandamkhatshwa30035 жыл бұрын
I love Loni for being herself. She never tries to fit in or look like her co- hosts.
@TheMusicalFeeling5 жыл бұрын
Tamera and the kids lawd , she act like she the first person to have kids my goodnessss
@abimbolaogunmodede8625 жыл бұрын
@@Lojani ....she said she had kids earlier in her marriage not relationship
@fayepatrice16725 жыл бұрын
All of us with kids feel that way sometimes. We stay talking about our babies. I would be worried if she didn’t talk about them.
@latishal.81425 жыл бұрын
The Real has the weirdest fan base
@tianamiller68205 жыл бұрын
@@fayepatrice1672 nothing wrong with showing off and proudly talking about your kids but also know many of us especially those who dont have kids dont wanna talk and hear about your beloved kids all day😁
@fayepatrice16725 жыл бұрын
It was relevant though. Lots of women start slacking off in their relationship after they have kids because they are sooooo demanding. It is like telling a single professional to stop talking about their job and their dating life. Not gonna happen.
@zakithintuli18894 жыл бұрын
I feel kinda excluded when Loni says "Dont laugh at me America" 😏
@Ashleyokeeya5 жыл бұрын
Definitely have gotten lazy in my relationship. Love me as I am lol
@simplymonica68885 жыл бұрын
Girl ok, lol. I'm looking rough a lot, and he still thinks I'm beautiful, and always showing me off to people, but I''ll dress up and hit you with sexiness real quick too lol.
@ohhey_chelsey5 жыл бұрын
Loni, you NEVER take your wig off sis. Or at least I don't. I hold on for dear life!
@anewno62404 жыл бұрын
I love Tamera, she said I do things to make myself happy not the other way around. so beautiful inside and out, always a fan of her
@BusinessBox135 жыл бұрын
"...we all experience." No ma'am. MANY of us haven't been in a long term relationship.
@ReinaRainhaRegina5 жыл бұрын
🙋🏽♀️ Guilty wife! 😬 And I don’t even have kids to use as an excuse. 😔 I just gained a lot of weight and started to feel unattractive so I stopped getting dolled up. Now I’ve lost most of it and in the process of losing more so I’m back to dressing up! But the struggle was real for a minute (a long minute).
@yasminbagley88265 жыл бұрын
Reigña Reyes ugh me right now :(
@patriciabarnes70342 жыл бұрын
O, my... Lorni... "When do I take my wig off?" 😂 😂 😂 😂
@seaanna413 жыл бұрын
Loni looks so good with bangs
@kaelstialbeing13515 жыл бұрын
It is so sad that we don’t want to show our true beauty. I am so happy that when I met my husband the first thing that he did was strip me of all the unnecessary European influences, he then ignited a spark and the queen exposed, locs, thick brows, Brain and a body to match, proud to be Egyptian Nubian, raceless, and a QUEEN.
@notongacheta1075 жыл бұрын
The wig question is a legit one
@awakeningsoul335 жыл бұрын
Tam always on point, with her points...
@anneambulo10275 жыл бұрын
I love it when they talk about marriage or relationships, cause Tam always got the most entertaining stories haha.
@hx66125 жыл бұрын
That’s why I’m single 😌 who has time to work all the time !!
@youngtalent61725 жыл бұрын
Loni 's left eye looks kinda funny is it maybe the eyelashes idk🤔
@deagalore5 жыл бұрын
Tamera is so beautiful ✨
@ceelipa5 жыл бұрын
"but it's like,I got them prison braids rn-" "No stop" 😂😂😂 I loves them
@klove87265 жыл бұрын
Here goes DJ 2 kids again 🙂
@JenJHayden5 жыл бұрын
i dont find anything about this laughable. they are using lazy and depressed like they are the same thing. some of the behavior they mentioned can be due to mental illness. feeling stuck/living a lie will do that to you.
@takingitonedayatatime78515 жыл бұрын
"I got them prison braids" 💀💀😂
@KingBoss20155 жыл бұрын
I’m a stay at home mom and my daily outfit is leggings and a T-shirt. I’ve talked to my husband and asked him if it bugs him or if he would prefer if I was wearing jeans and had my make-up done. He told me he doesn’t really care. He told me “You’re home taking care of our 2 yr. old, you do the cooking and cleaning so you wear whatever you feel comfortable in and is flexible” then he turned to me and said “I love it when you wear leggings cause it makes your butt look great”
@SMPink5 жыл бұрын
The morning after the wedding loni
@simplymonica68885 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@morelemonpledge4695 жыл бұрын
As soon as he knows you got fake hair take it off lol
@poetry_on_standby64405 жыл бұрын
Declining in personal hygiene could also be a sign of depression. That is important to know, that way you are aware of what you're partner may be going through. Often it can be because of other priorities, but it sometimes means that that person has lost interest in caring for themselves. Food for thought.
@candizzllee5 жыл бұрын
Tamera lashes are sooooo bomb her makeup is on point I’m loving it
@mariajandersen53875 жыл бұрын
Adrienne is seriously NEVER relatable.. in all the videos..
@dreamyrebel5 жыл бұрын
@TheRealDaytime There is no harm in posting a 6:05 long video.
@bjjackson96535 жыл бұрын
I got them prison braids right now -Loni 😂😂😂
@RashellRoc5 жыл бұрын
Lol “expose something crazy looking” hahaha Adrienne and yes I can relate to those prison braid
@rikanejose26115 жыл бұрын
Loni take notes. These ladies are very open and the viewers can relate to every single one of them except Loni. She needs to get out of entertainment and stick to comedy if she's gonna be private. She make up stories which are fake save everything that's personal.
@savaana75815 жыл бұрын
But the topic is getting lazy in a LONG TERM relationship. I don't understand why Loni had to re-direct the conversation to herself.
@symonesotica62465 жыл бұрын
Girl talk has been REAL AF lately🔥😍😍
@stacyblvd5 жыл бұрын
Loni looks gooood😍I’m loving her makeup look today! The pink lip is so youthful
@stever51225 жыл бұрын
Adrienne needs to stop trying to talk first. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. It’s annoying. Plus she acts like she is perfect and has the perfect relationship and life and like she knows everything. She is the reason I only watch certain clips now and stopped watching the full show.
@lawbsk10485 жыл бұрын
Black women with there hair insecurity, i know lots of sistas with beautiful natural hair but rather have wigs on kinda sad. We love fully even better in your nature form. #Blackgirlpower
@sydney73805 жыл бұрын
She asked “when can I take my wig off” I’m weak 😂
@marisolforonda68115 жыл бұрын
Aww, Loni! You're so cute! I like seeing you a bit vulnerable and just like that, I think your boyfriend will appreciate you allowing that as a way to feel more intimate! XO!
@maramgusbi16355 жыл бұрын
Anyone else just LOVE Jeanie’s hair??????
@mckayfam30905 жыл бұрын
Loni, that is a good question. I over heard some girls at my previous job discussing that same topic.
@JayNoel65 жыл бұрын
I laugh everytime Loni says "Tree Monsters" 😂😂
@marissathomas93275 жыл бұрын
Tamara I know exactly how uu feel . Thank uu for being REAL ❤ I have 3 kids now and I'm 24 and we been together for 6 years and I lost myself multiple times (oldest is 5) and I'm telling uu I'm finding myself again .❤ I'm so tired all the time but imma get myself together girl ! Slowly . Day by day
@elizabethcalderon84905 жыл бұрын
Adrienne...who told you to rock that wig?! OH LAWD 😂
@shaylaahava64135 жыл бұрын
Loni, sounds like that man is interested in you. Sounds as if he wants to know you as you truly are physically. He knows that somewhere under that wig and accessories is the actual you and he wants to see that. That says a lot! Most times in order to have an authentic connection with anyone you are truly interested in, it takes them giving up their comfort zone and shedding some insecurities or uneasy, awkward feelings, and in your case it's a wig... Always, always be true to yourself, remembering not to forget to share who you are entirely so that the "interested person" can gain a greater understanding and make his own assessment of "you". Let him see the "real" you.
@kingly14074 жыл бұрын
Who was lazy was Adrienne's wig stylist lmao
@jofloletschat77885 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love the wig question, that’s so real and if you have hair underneath then yay, Lesson: take care of your hair under those wigs, in the relationship he must see and be happy with the real you!
@BGriff-5 жыл бұрын
"I don't ever do things just to make him happy." 🤔🤔🤔
@ericasunny72345 жыл бұрын
he didn't say anything because you are fine lol! sweats or dressed up; you're a beauty! Adam is lucky lol!
@cristinaherdiz35165 жыл бұрын
I’m glad that tamera brought this up. I’m only 21 so I wanna dress up and do my makeup but I always use my sons nap time to clean the house!
@ab_i_gayl5 жыл бұрын
« I have them prison braids » I felt that 😩😂💀! I have them too !
@Sssssssslf5 жыл бұрын
'Protective style' 'mad beautiful hair under there' ahahaha!
@youheard035 жыл бұрын
'Everybody know it's a wig' LMAOOOO
@zandilentsipho11505 жыл бұрын
Being a working mom can take up all your time and you end up neglecting yourself but if your partner loves you they will understand
@teesceeo5 жыл бұрын
Tamera is so gorgeous! Stunning!
@Hal.chemist5 жыл бұрын
I got them prison braids 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love Loni Lawd
@youredelusional47495 жыл бұрын
As a mom of 4 and married for over 20 years now you do get lazy and than you find yourself looking across that room asking who they are! So always remember your kids are going to grow up and move out and whose left behind? You and your partner! So in my opinion don't ever get to comfortable and take your partner for granted because it might just back fire in the end!
@kishacazley49724 жыл бұрын
Everybody knows it's a wig 😂😂😂this is me and people be thinking I got no hair I got hair boo dont get it twisted. Love Loni ❤🙏forgot about this episode