getting my life together 😭 i finally went to the gym, new hair cut, getting out of my comfort zone

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8 ай бұрын

okay guys are you proud of me? coz I really am. like really. I still cannot believe I actually went to the gym. I have a very big fear of the gym since I didn’t grow up being an athletic kid so i just thought it was just never a possibility for me to go to a gym. but I realized there really isn't anything to be scared of. i told myself it'll be ok and I'm gonna do it coz what's the worst that can happen?
once I decided to make a membership, things became easier. everything also seem a lot easier and achievable. I just hope this vlog motivates you and tells you that you can do anything you put your mind to! don't be scared! we got this!!
also! this was a vlog from multiple days so sorry if it seemed choppy or the clips seem random lol. i personally enjoy vlogs edited this way because it honestly depicts how my brain works sometimes (one thing to the next lol). but yeah thank you guys for watching! hope you guys have any amazing rest of your week!
see you all next week! i love youuuuu!
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@via.ilyouu 8 ай бұрын

so proud of all of you guys for going to the gym despite being scared 😭🩷🤍 i 100% get the gym anxiety djsjwjwjwjjw and thanks so much for giving me advice 😭🫶

@thatsanwartoyou 7 ай бұрын

girl 😭 im so proud of you for going to the gym! i struggled with gym and social anxiety so i know how scary it can be. im a health and wellness coach that help people to implement the right mentality and beliefs towards their body, health, and self-image to overcome their fears and struggles (in and out the gym) for free. Im not typing this down bc you have a following, i genuinely want to help people. so if you ever just want to talk and want some help, reach out! i got your back!

@ru-km6tb 8 ай бұрын

Is just me or does she sound and looks so happy this video? ❤

@chae_purple7062 8 ай бұрын

fr 😭💗

@kimi4787 8 ай бұрын

As she always

@mdln_p8 7 ай бұрын

frrr I loved the jolly energy lol

@miskatunjannat1599 7 ай бұрын

yessss 🥰

@imnumbnam 5 ай бұрын

maybe it's the endorphins kickin in 😆

@nea3784 8 ай бұрын

Change can be good even when it seems different. I'm proud of you Via for taking steps, even small ones, towards finding yourself everyday! I love you

@via.ilyouu 8 ай бұрын

thank yuuu! this is so truuu

@stargazer6852 8 ай бұрын

As someone who is terrified of gym, I'm very proud of you and this vlog made me very happy

@enyoungjeong4186 8 ай бұрын

You're so brave gurllllll! I'm 6 years older than you but I've not been brave enough. You inspire me so much. I will give it a shot!!! Love you ♡

@via.ilyouu 8 ай бұрын

I BELIEVE IN UUUU

@leyyyqx 8 ай бұрын

YOU GO GURL!! SO PROUD OF YOU 💕🫡🏃‍♂️ amazing content as always 🩷

@paigeschiemann6225 8 ай бұрын

From a gym girl at the age of 17 I started lifting at the gym when I was 15 and let me tell you it can be terrifying but no one cares everyone is in the gym to improve themselves and if they staring at you hun they are just looking 😘 your gonna do great one gym girl to the next gym girl 🩵 love ya

@hcdimension4279 7 ай бұрын

I kinda want to go the gym but all the kids at my school go there 😭 It feels too embarrassing because I’m weaker than them

@lila.sorelli 7 ай бұрын

@@hcdimension4279 we all start somewhere! remember they probably felt that way too, you got this whenever you decide to do it!

@Idgafyaar 5 ай бұрын

@@hcdimension4279 just simply don't care about what others will think about you and you know what? EVERYBODY is afraid of what others are thinking of them as well. So you do you💜💜

@jasdelarosa 8 ай бұрын

i’ve recently discovered ur channel and i can’t help but feel grateful for ur transparency and sharing us your growth. ty for being so inspiring!!!🥹

@a_ashii 8 ай бұрын

i am so proud of you. I know we're strangers on the internet but I am so happy for you. lots of love

@trishalalala0108 8 ай бұрын

Seeing you do new things genuinely makes me happy. I know it’s not a priority for you, but I realllyyy can’t wait for you explore another new thing, like going on date with someone. I wish you get to experience that soon. ❤

@christinetran916 7 ай бұрын

YALL WHO IS SHEEEE??! The way she is ✨glowing✨ (literally lol) I love that for her! Via, I love how you are growing confident in going to the gym (with no makeup too!) and really pushing yourself to try new things and be comfortable with the uncomfortable. For whatever this means coming from a random person on the internet, I’m so proud of you! 🥹 I love seeing you live your best life ❤️ And it really inspires and motivates me to do the same ☺️

@jess-qb9ph 8 ай бұрын

as someone that's been going to the gym for a while and was once scared too, I'm so proud of you for going!! It will definitely get easier once you keep going, so keep going! You already took the first step, and that's already really amazing 🩷

@user-fs5zp4sf1b 7 ай бұрын

I really like your honesty in your videos, that’s amazing and I completely understand you about being scared to go to the gym and that’s great you did it, hope we will continue overcoming every fear, thank you for your videos, it’s so comforting and kinda cozy

@ro2974 8 ай бұрын

AHHH VIAAAAA IM SO PROUD OF YOU FOR GOING OUTSIDE OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE AND DOING SOMETHING SCARY FOR YOU ❤🥺😭😭 love witnessing these little steps aaaaaa so happy! also the haircut looks so lovely 😍 loving the layers

@KPOPCOOKIES452 8 ай бұрын

I'm so proud of Via for coming out of her comfort zone and it motivates me to do somethings more productive while coming out of my comfort zone. Have a blessed and wonderful week Via💗

@santiagobenites 7 ай бұрын

I just discovered your videos today, Via, and I must say that I'm very impressed with your positive attitude and your level of maturity for someone so young. The thing about the gym is that you have to keep going there regularly for a few months before making any decisions on whether you like it or not. Usually by that time you're feeling and looking so good that you won't want to stop. As for being nervous about going the first time, you have to remember that everyone had their first time going to the gym. Even 'unathletic' people. You can learn a lot by watching other people work out too, and never ever be afraid to ask people questions if you don't know something. I'm proud of you!

@starlight_emaan 8 ай бұрын

Ur videos increase my confidence and i feel so motivated to try new things... Ur literally the best person 🫶

@lvckycharm1218 8 ай бұрын

Hey Via!! Just wanted to thank you for making all those videos! I often relate to your struggles and they always bring a smile on my face! Keep it up

@ihatepineapple2980 7 ай бұрын

Hi Via, I just wanted to let u know that your videos are inspiring and motivating for me. A few months ago, I was feeling really down and lost in life, but I found your channel and couldn't help binge-watching your videos. Now, everything in my life is going so well, and I want to thank you for being there during my tough times :)

@bernadetttoth3904 7 ай бұрын

i have been kind of a shy person in all my life and never ever went anywhere alone bcs i was scared ppl would look at me like what is she doing here, and i've been watching your videos lately and today i went out like alone without friends and i felt really good, thank you for making videos, you are wonderful

@Yanaxskz 7 ай бұрын

You literally made my day today,I had so much struggle today but then I watched your vlog and it got better,I even had motivation to learn for my English test.Thank you so much💗

@cicekyxasar 8 ай бұрын

Via I really enjoy your videos they are kinda therapy for me

@Fallperson22 8 ай бұрын

She literally post whenever I feel bad, idk how tho but I just wanna say that I’m really really thankful for Via! Love you! 🌷🤍

@pinayhousewife9796 8 ай бұрын

via you’re like the older sister i’ve never had, i love watching your vids all the time because it makes me feel so free

@dhja579 7 ай бұрын

Watching your videos has truly been something, at times I wish I could go back to the first video I watched and experience that feeling again cause it was sooo fulfilling. I just want to say, thank you for being you .😊

@jiahu_ 8 ай бұрын

literally going to the gym for the first time in ages tomorrow, this video was uploaded in such good timing!! this def gave me a huge confidence boost, thank you Via❤

@libby_with_s 8 ай бұрын

Via, I'm so proud of you! Doing things that are scary makes me want to also try overcoming my fears. You are my inspiration 🌷 Also, your editing is more and more aesthetically pleasing, loving it 💖

@miskatunjannat1599 7 ай бұрын

via li your videos are soo comforting PLEASE make a video foe those of us feeling begind in life and lost their sparkle

@karlenasanchez9376 7 ай бұрын

It’s insane how even our fears are the same. I’m terrified about gym since probably always. I feel the same as you but also bcuz my social anxiety I know it would be just overwhelming so I just skip gym and do home workouts all the time but being honest I just fantasize about going to the gym all the time. So happy and proud of you, don’t let my fears control my life is something I’m working on and seeing you overcome it makes me feels so proud and motivated. ❤

@mzrui 8 ай бұрын

so proud of you!!! & this def motivated me so thank u sm💖💖 also i wanted to say that i really love how you edit ur videos!!

@yaniii._.14 8 ай бұрын

I love fall so much and i think everything just heals in the fall and this video is giving healing and fall loved it so much ❤

@eeevy_ 7 ай бұрын

your videos makes me feel so safe and really inspires me to continue doing things :’)💓

@MMM1MM 8 ай бұрын

Good luck with the gym! I remember the first time I went with my friend I was nervous as hell thinking everyone would judge me, but I realized that everyone's focused on themselves. Now I've been going to the gym for several years by myself and I really enjoy it. Gives me time to listen to music as well.

@user-ev3ts2mh5h 7 ай бұрын

i really really love ur channel it is my favourite and has taught me to love my self and i am really proud of u for facing ur fear many ppl cant do it

@danielyresende8392 7 ай бұрын

She's so pretty❤ I just love her. Her energy is everything ❣️

@carolwu05 8 ай бұрын

your videos are so comforting to watch

@CakeNinjaa-gu6uk 7 ай бұрын

so proud of you for how far you’ve come!!!! you are GLOWING ✨✨🫶

@Call_meloise 7 ай бұрын

Tbh, your outfits are so neat and pretty... And, like, you're so serene and so peaceful to watch. I can literally watch you all day without getting bored. Keep going like this, Habibti

@michaellagotlieb5231 7 ай бұрын

ily so muchhh i'm so happy for u that you're doing stuff that's hard to do! superrr proud of u!!!!

@mai1tsy 8 ай бұрын

we love seeing via happy and trying new things ! taking this video as a sign to start going on the gym lmao (I do workouts at home for 1 year already !)

@ghostofTomieKawakami 7 ай бұрын

Hi Via, your energy in this vlog is amazinggg i couldn't even tell it was a 14 min vlog. Also, this motivated me so thankyou for that!!

@Sooooophiaaaathefirst 8 ай бұрын

Thanks for being so honest and letting us know that it’s ok to feel self-conscious and scared of the gym ❤

@phoenix-ue4uv 7 ай бұрын

I'm very proud of you of overcoming your obstacle and overcoming your fear, keep up the good work love your vids

@josephl447 8 ай бұрын

This is really pushing me to just take a reset and get back to what I need to do. Honestly like I've been slacking, and whilst I do work on a blog and try to be creative I have been falling behind on some personal responsibilities. Good luck with the Gym journey Via!

@sunnyf4iry 8 ай бұрын

so proud of u omg, i love seeing ur progress throughout your videos

@Vincetorix 8 ай бұрын

I never did any sports in my life until I started going to the gym at 21. It's the ultimate sport for introverts that get lonely now and again, because you can train all by yourself and not say a word, but if you want to chat with someone, there's always like-minded people around.

@julssjen 8 ай бұрын

I was stressed because I have exams next week but seeing this helped me a lot thank uuu Via🩵🩵✨

@trishikha1373 6 ай бұрын

recently came across your channel and i'm glad it did! you are so relatable and your vlogs just bring in a feeling of calmness and peace. i hope you keep doing what you love

@tripuravosuri7845 8 ай бұрын

you help me with my anxiety so much

@taexemi344 8 ай бұрын

you look really happy , and im so happy that you're happy , keep smiling like this alwayss , LOVE YOUU VIA

@Narmarinka 8 ай бұрын

yaaaay new vlog!!! I’m happy for you so much! I have a fear of going to the gym too 😢 I'M SOOOO PROUD OF YOU GIRL!!!❤❤

@yiran322 7 ай бұрын

OMG I'm so proudof you via!! I've been watching your videos for a while, and I was genuinely motivated by you to bravely try out new things alone! Still sometimes I feel a lil scared when I go out exploring places by myself. I'm curious how you manage to make yourself comfortable when you take yourself on a solo date. The very idea of occupying spaces, being relaxed, and not caring what others think of me makes me a lil anxious ;

@Nekel. 8 ай бұрын

Ily you're motivating me so much thanks❤️

@pheebsland1336 2 ай бұрын

I’m so proud of you! As a first time viewer, definitely can related to some of your struggles and you being very raw and authentic to your viewers, really motivates me to do better in my life! 🥹❤️

@bhawana4220 7 ай бұрын

i just feel so goood and happy when i see her happyyy ... love youuuu via

@yaa.todoro 6 ай бұрын

i dont have time to make a member ship in a gym but i recently starting workout at home and honestly i'm feeling so good with myself. your vlogs helps me a lot with the motivation !!!! thank yew

@TIKI-hb7by 7 ай бұрын

Your videos are what I need right now to keep me from giving up 😊

@saram4599 8 ай бұрын

What i like about you is that you are so realll

@lumzs 8 ай бұрын

This was so inspirational rlly😭 I love watching your vids and as i said seing you doing stuff is very insperational for me❤

@im_just_vidu 7 ай бұрын

Seeing you taking actions for your growth makes me so proud of you. It's not easy but trying is important. Then one day we'll be able to do those things with confidence. So proud of you Via❤ 👏🏻

@neybe6846 8 ай бұрын

omg your videos make me so happy coz they make me see that the days are full of small achievements and of course we´re proud of you for try new things even with fear,,, love to you from Mexico!!

@farahthv 8 ай бұрын

One of notification that I love🥹🫶🏻

@girl_from313 8 ай бұрын

Me too 😭💗💗

@farahthv 8 ай бұрын

@@girl_from313🩷

@animestan8206 8 ай бұрын

you're beautiful

@zsuzsavojna4559 7 ай бұрын

Via, I have always been afraid too going to the gym. I am an introvert, hate crowded places. But once I started my gym experience, I kinda fell in love with. I can't say that I am confidently going there, even after 4 months, but at least I'm trying to. Happy to see you checking things from your bucket list.

@peepoobert 7 ай бұрын

As someone who is also afraid of the gym I just want to say I am so proud of you!! I’ve also recently started to get out of my comfort zone and try to start going consistently so I know how hard it is. Btw your workout set looked so cute!!

@noahjustnoah9017 8 ай бұрын

so proud of you Via!!!🩷 and the haircut is amazing 😍 have a nice day :)

@monishaghosh-lg7pd 8 ай бұрын

love your energy & YOUR VIDEOSS

@eviemari7764 8 ай бұрын

it seemed like you had a good couple days, im so happy to see you trying new things and being positive about it

@crmochi 8 ай бұрын

you're my motivation for a better me :"

@Zoes_42 8 ай бұрын

Life in autumn just hits different 😍🍂

@paukacang 8 ай бұрын

I've been waiting for your new video to come out bcs i already rewatched all of your videos😭💞btw i'm proud of youu✨

@via.ilyouu 8 ай бұрын

ILYSMMM

@mewliaa 7 ай бұрын

I started going to the gym a week ago and it was probably one of the best decisions I made in my life lol! I was really scared of it before and avoided it at all costs (worked out from home!), but finally decided to do it xD It's good to see somebody doing the same ❤

@annalovebook3458 7 ай бұрын

Hey via, I just want to thank you because i was heavily suicidal today but I reminded myself that someday I want to live like you and that's what saved me 😇😇

@starrailsunday 7 ай бұрын

I’m so proud of you for taking steps out of your comfort zone for your bucket list. Gym anxiety is def real for a lot of ppl so it takes courage to just go for it ❤ some workout sets recommendations are Lululemon and White Fox Boutique

@mewmew6158 8 ай бұрын

I'm so proud of you V!!!!💙💕

@user-pb5fl1zu5w 7 ай бұрын

wait ahhhhhh girl your flowy outfit in the beginning was so slay i think my jaw just dropped to the floor!!

@Deprezzed_Ramen 8 ай бұрын

Via, you finally posted again! Yay I’m so happy!!

@naai5025 7 ай бұрын

girl i FEEL YOU i was always so scared of going alone to the gym but this week i made my membership & im starting on monday eeeek im so proud of both of us😎

@cindychong2012 8 ай бұрын

Can relate so much to gym anxiety, just started going to the gym with my friend a few months ago and loved it. I highly recommend optimum nutrition double chocolate protein powder with soy or oat milk, literally taste like a smoothie, so good that I look forward to working out just so I can drink it. Loved the video :)

@karinsvajcikova5962 7 ай бұрын

We’re all so proud of you !!💓 It made me get up and do the things I’m afraid of too, so it feels like we’re doing it together haha.

@hiloo917 8 ай бұрын

I was also so scared of going to the gym, even though I really wanted to. However I am now in my senior year of high school (👏🏼) and i signed myself up for weightlifting class as my gym elective. A month in and i absolutely love it. Going to the gym in my school made me feel more confident about going to the gym in real life. So now I could proudly say that i would sign up to go to the gym outside of school even if I would be there working out w/o a gym buddy.

@Fallperson22 8 ай бұрын

Why does the workout set looks so good on her and the hair is just mwuaaaa

@leea3405 8 ай бұрын

the sport in general makes you feel good and gives you a lot more energy keep doing it love ya 🐱🌷🌷💕

@azelbatangan 7 ай бұрын

Very proud of you girlie! Going to the gym can be very daunting but I’m glad you are choosing to better yourself little by little everyday!!!🎉

@MrsLize 8 ай бұрын

The queen uploaded ❤️❤️

@sammying 8 ай бұрын

POOKIE IM SO PROUD OF YOU YOU'RE GIRLBOSSING SO HARD!! 🤍🤍🤍

@faerysen 8 ай бұрын

The queen has posted 🥰🤍🤍

@michaelng03 7 ай бұрын

She is definitely comfortable in her skin. It's awesome inspired to be like you.

@idi3698 8 ай бұрын

i'm so proud of youuu! i'm so happy that you have get ou of your comfort zone, that also do motivate me to do the same . love you so much

@mahimamuthu 8 ай бұрын

I'm soo soooo happy for you . I'm glad you tried to go out of your comfort zone and try stuff out. i hope you'll enjoy it. have a great day ahead

@dakshajasingh2529 8 ай бұрын

via is literally my that internet person who i would love to go anytime 🫂

@tinslol6782 7 ай бұрын

im proud of uu n and also the long layers suit u so muchh

@L33yur1m 7 ай бұрын

You’re so cute and entertaining lots of love 💗hope you finish your goals happily 💗💗✨

@n07cjy 4 ай бұрын

i grew up as the eldest sister with no one to look up to, and watching your videos make me so happy bc it seems like i have an older sister figure to look up to :))) extra points bc im also chinese ajdhawdhidu but ilyy thank you for making my days 💗💗💗

@jess-qb9ph 8 ай бұрын

I'm also so so happy there are more girls getting into the gym, it's underrated!

@penguinandpandasftw6741 8 ай бұрын

makes me feel motivated, thanks queen

@marccolomayt82094 8 ай бұрын

You look so pretty and I’m enjoying this transformation / lifestyle vlog so much! ❤❤

@via.ilyouu 8 ай бұрын

i’m honestly so proud of myself too

@lakshmipai7858 8 ай бұрын

Lots of loveeee via ❤ thank you for always making me smile through your videos 🥺❤️ it always feels like I'm talking to a close friend who understands me ❤️have a great dayyy ❤️🌷

@AnaS-of8ri 8 ай бұрын

I'm so proud of you! I feel you so much regarding gym anxiety.. had to go through it myself but I feel like the gym place made ahuge difference for e! Now I'm obsessed with the gym and it's my happy place. You just have to realise that everyone's focusing on themselve and they don't have any nerves to be caring about what or what not you're doing. You'd catch me dancing in the gym and no one, literally no one cares. They're so much in their own zone that they may be glancing at you but they're actually disassociating while taking a break from a heavy set xD

@via.ilyouu 8 ай бұрын

yesss so truee!! everyone is focused on themselves which is so great 😭🩷❤️

@AnaS-of8ri 7 ай бұрын

@@via.ilyouu Hihi I'm so excited for your new gym journey