I have been journaling for one year and i havent really been able to do these things. Ty, this really helped

I love you so much omg tysm for making this🙏😭

Yeah, I'm 30 and have never dated. People tell me I'm pretty, so that's probably not the problem. I've grown up with an absent father and my mom never got a boyfriend. I really crave love but I'm just so fucking scared to make a move and at the same time I think I just completely miss the moves of others. Trust is way important to me and at the same time, I've never had a man in my life I could trust. I need attachment and fear it at the same time. It's a fucking ruthless trap.

thank u so much Via Li😄

It's not okay , get some friends please.

Omg where did you get that dress from?!!! I love it !

i really feel guilty for just existing

I’ve been REAL lazy these past few weeks and this literally motivated me to get my shit together. Tmrws a Monday! New week new me 5am me is gonna have a come back

Why is it assumed you are a mean person if you have no friends

Stay there until January its snows❤❤❤❤❤😊

Omg the first two minutes of the video is literally my energy

I was bullied as a kid and long story short I ended up trying to make myself better in the worst way. I was constantly lying to myself to be better so I could keep any friends I had, I didn't realize the distance until I realized I hadn't been vulnerable with these best friends. I wish I had a friend group and had a different life tbh. I made being alone, loneliness an identity because I figured I wouldn't be able to fit in so I would make being able to stand on my own my thing. People love strong people who don't need anything. But I want to have friend groups

This video must have been hard to make and upload but I feel like you took me by the shoulders and shook me and I hadn’t realized that I wasn’t awake. 😢 I am so very grateful for this video and the direct way you presented your story and spoke on this topic. I feel like it truly saved me. Thank you so much!

🌷🌷🌷I've been watching ur videos for most of this year and when I see your tiktoks I get so happy or like inspired. I js wanted you to know that you are one of the only people who actually give me motivation to do stuff and I am so grateful to have found an inspirational person like you! Good luck for the rest of your year and I will look forward to all you will post in the future❤❤❤ thank youuu and congratsss🎉

The way I just had an episode and this came up and this actually made me tear up I felt seen listing to your story

this is the best video ive ever seen and that actually changed me thank u im not gonna waste my teenage years but omg thank u smm

I'm 14 AND OMGMG THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEOOO AND I WANT TO LET YOU KNOW YOU ARE SP PRETTYYYY AND GORGEOUS AND BEAUTIFUL, NOT JUST YOUR LOOKS BUT YOU HELPING YOURSELF, THIS MINDSET. YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL AND THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

Man I can relate to this very heavily. I also want to create a lot of stuff. I can relate even to dealing with childhood chaos. I thought I was alone.

you should do a podcast ! !

13:12 you look flawless 🩷🩷💖

hi , this video was so relatable to me and im so happy im not the only one who feels this way this kinda was free therapy to me xD and OMG where do you get your jewlery from they're so pretty 😭😭😭

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i was doing some research today on what sort of content is available on 'how to overcome despression' and i couldn't find many videos with a solid outline of actionable steps and mindset changes. later i randomly started watching this video because the thumbnail was alluring. AND YES! THIS is what i was searching for. i could relate to Via SO much because I've been through a lot of those steps too, and i found myself just agreeing with her, point after point. i loved your video, Via. This can truly be someone's step by step guide out of depression. 💖

where’s the umbrella from 🤩 I moved to london and hasn’t bothered carrying one since bc of the wind 😂

In my country we can't travel by ourselves

you're like a big sister to me which i needed so bad❤❤

Holidays to different countries alone are the best. If you're comfortable spending time alone, you have the best friend in the world, yourself.

Hey by change the line you told that my inner child is scared . I read this from a novel called “ The power of subconscious mind “.

via i need you in my life and thank you for this

I love you so much via 🌷@julia.laskar

POV-Having no friends in middle school

Last year I had a bad experience with a group of friends. It took a lot from me. But now I'm alone and I'm much better. I actually have friends, but not the ones who are close to me and I see them all the time.

How you fukin dare to say you are not beautiful .. u r giving major actress vibe omgggg

oh maybe i do have an eating disorder :(

08:00 onwards i shed my tears 😭

I've never seen anyone genuinely enjoy Boston's winter weather LOL (I moved there for school). I need to have some of your perspective so I can enjoy the 6 months of cold and barrenness.

#bombsquad

I'm so grateful that I found this channel

skincare routine plzz

Hi, I’m from Edinburgh. If only you had gone to the botanical gardens in Glasgow. A 5 minute walk to the subway, to the west end and you’re there. It’s unreal. so beautiful. Please visit again!❤

I would definitely accept to be your friend. All jokes aside being an introvert whith high independence traits can make one feel like an alien. Funny thing is iam very comfortable with people, I just rather be alone. I can relate to you.

OMG I DIDN'T KNOW YOU HAVE YT I LOVE YOUR TIKTOK VIDS

It's awesome to see so many people journaling. I turned my journals into books; keep writing!

I'm so glad I clicked on this video, I really relate to most of the things you said. Thank you for sharing this with us❤

thanks for sharing your story, it resonated a lot with me. KZfaq suggested this to me after i got pissed off at another KZfaqr suggesting having normal shoulders is not feminine. I'm so tired of Asian cultures pushing these insanely unattainable beauty ideals on us.

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Your videos literally heal me and motivate me to sudy, so thank you so much 🤎

gonna rant about my ed so tw! i sometimes get moments of clarity where i realize how bad my ed is and it makes me wanna recover, but then i see skinny girls at school and on insta and i starve all over again. it sucks because nothing i do makes me get thinner anyways. i literally have a workout obsession and restrictive diet but im still fat. also, even when i wanna recover, my stupid pride doesn't let me. my mind will be like "you've come this far with the starving, why quit now?" so yeah. i wish this was easier. im literally watching myself lose my teenage years to a stupid ed.

Omg what hotell?? Plsnning to go in october❤

Your videos are so nice fo me. I'm only a junior in highschool and i've always been very freaked about my future. It causes me to panic so much. Not only that but i struggle to accept my reality but watching your videos truly make me realize that even i can do what i want. I love you so much Via 😭 congratulations on 500k