Exactly!.. #WhoCares

That’s a fair point, I didn’t consider it from that perspective

Yassi EXACTLY! If her ticket was paid for then whats the problem? 🙄

Yass But what if he's not paying for your whole meal though? In this day and age, guys want to go halfsies on the first date.

That's what I say. every single guy I ever dated always paid for me. I could care less what they do. If they are as cheap but frugal and still likes to enjoy their money Why not? I'm as cheap as it comes and if I found a guy that thought just like me. I'd be happy. I have my own savings and it's the most I've ever had.

I like being treated but if I am going to take you seriously I need to know you can budget and handle your finances or at least be willing to learn

Loni is bougie I wouldn't care what he paid the date with a long as he paid for the date and long as we had a good time that's all that mattered.

Sometimes when you use Groupon, some places treat you differently and this is from experience. Unfortunately this has nothing to do with the place but the employee...

Kay You Yea and so...

That’s why she’s single and fat..

Me too, I love a man who can manage his finance

Same me too I would love a man who know how to save

Me too also

Well you better pay if it was your idea for the date you cheap ass.

If ur gonua be mad cause he's smart with his money, then throw ur own money away on ur own meal lmao. He's gonna save them coins sksj

My boyfriend could pull out a coupon and I wouldn’t even care only little children are bothered by a coupon

Exactly. Its a fucking groupon. Smh. Women are so superficial

LaDarius Baker yup!!!

Adrienne was kinda hurt when she said that

Didnt like the comment either

Right! I mean imagine if he didn't have money like he "forgot" his wallet.... lol then y'all be washing dishes haha.

TEEEEAAAAA

@@Mel__21 That's funny!

“BE GREATFUL!!!” 😂😂😂

Honestly, if my husband had used a coupon in our first date I’d a problem. I feel that more thought and effort should go into a first date. I don’t mind happy hours, but to slap done a coupon comes off as cheap especially because I’m hard worker myself and wouldn’t take my man out on a first date and slap down coupon, so I expect the same. However, if it was coupon to an amusement park, or discounted movie ticket I wouldn’t mind, but at restaurant it just comes off as tacky, and tells me you can’t even afford to to pay for your food; also the tip is 10% of the bill so can even afford to tip the sever/waiter? I’m also aware that some restaurants have memberships where you get discount on your food for being member, and I’m okay with that too. I’m also the kind of person that if you’re honest that couldn’t afford it, I’d at least pay my half or even just go get some groceries and we make our dinner or picnic, but coupon on first dinner date is a no. I’ve heard stories from friends and family, where men used coupons and voiding afford to pay the rest of the night for an amusement park, or didn’t have gas in their to get them or himself back home; or even after the coupon still didn’t have money to pay for her meal. I can understand why Loni is saying no; she’s also older and much more experienced than the other girls on the show.

I know right!! I thought the same thing!

yes! Jeannie Mai on CRA pls! 🙌

#jeanniemaionCRA

Watched the movie last night, totally agree she could’ve played one of the brides friends

LatashaTrueHeart I’m a little late to the party, but I agree. I love Crazy Rich Asians and I love Jeannie😍😍😍😍😍

xris905 very true

Agreeeeeeedd

what you said is literally so hot, so is ur pic

Right?

If she making me spend so much money how about making her pay the whole bill. Who's cheap now?!

I think it's super nice if somebody regardless of gender, buys you a soda or candy bar. If a guy asked me out on a date then paid with a coupon, I see no issue with it. He does not have to pay for my meal or we can split the bill. I think it's just being considerate on both sides.

Especially since Loni has often talked about how poor she used to be and was barely getting by.

@@Rin_Mitsumono right!😂

TEA

Preach😂

ChimneySweep07 exactly!!!

ChimneySweep07 yo dm this to Loni no neck ass

Exactly say bye to that bitch

Exactly

It actually is her show lol

@@alexiscarrillo781 what do you mean? Am I missing something? 🤔

Who was she talking to when she said that?

@@alexiscarrillo781 Girl. Where? 😂

@Totododofodo one of. Not the owner of. It is not HER show. It's THEIR show get out my mentions and go back to Kansas todo.

Tiffany and Co. I hope you don’t have kids because I doubt they’d have a good education with your lack of knowledge of the meaning of basic words 😂😂

I ain't doing more for less what even 💀

Boom!! Amen girl!!

🕳 I understood it... you might be a little slow on this one 😬

She's not meaning labor guys she's meaning cost of activities. She said it right....

😅😅😅😅😅😅

I thought I was tripping for a min 😂

Can't win. 🙈

chantel shernelle LMFAOOOOOOO

Loni, that's not your show, it's e everybody's show, don't be mean like that!

*THANK YOU*

@@jocelynpaul8615 i couldn't agree more. Nobody is looking to date a bill

BOOM! 🤜🏾🤛🏾

Romeo Reyes you right 👏🏾 and you mad cute lol ☺️

Adrienne actually admitted to it first about seeing being able to save money as sexy

They're old though lol

They are all old hahaha not foolin us

its old lol

Too good to be true 🙄

I didn't even notice lol

im the same. thats my desire.

Abbie Ruth SAME!!! not only that but I would like to be more involved raising my kid(s) and possibly home schooling for a bit or having them involved in extra activities etc. And with technology today there are more & more ways to work from home. I work from home now and love it.

I feel that okay, but I also say be prepared because life happens unexpectedly and you what to be able to continue to rise your kids. I also think negativity comes from the idea of being a stay at home mom is because many that even I’ve came treat their children like work and imply moms that work aren’t really raising their kids; which creates division between working moms and stay at home mom in general. My view is that raising a child stay at home or not is your responsibility and duty not work. Work is job you’re getting paid to do, and no one is paying you watch your child. Secondly, many working moms do wish they were fortunate enough to stay home and spend more time with their kids. I had sister that at one was a stay at home mom and working mom and she decided to be a stay at home mom because it was more complex trying to find a babysitter, working, coming home and taking her kids, not being able spend as much time with them and still having chores to do especially because her husbands job sent him it on the road lot. She eventually made the decision to be a stay at home mom, but at same time she still wants to make her own income in case of emergencies.

There is nothing wrong with that at all

People think its wrong if it isnt the woman deciding to do so and just the man not wanting the woman to be independent/wanting to control her. A lot of times woman are put in the housewife box because of how domestic life used to be back in the day.

Exactly!!!

How do you know she makes the least?

Lol why are you counting her coins? She was very extra on this one but funny though

Girl how is her getting a less pay related to the topic .. girl keep it clean

ryan LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO THAT MADEEE ME LAUGH

Ikr

She does her own makeup

Her skin is so good that’s what y

❤️

Coco T great perspective

I knew it was old when I realized it was 14 minutes long, I knew their selfish ass producers weren't that considerate.

She mentioned Freddie...u didn't realized then...?!?!??

I really miss Jeannie’s old hair it had very nice styles and accessories

Or the description box

Yeah and she said she was a married woman.

its only attractive to gold diggers and people who are insecure in who they are like loni thinking more spending means he likes her more!

Tokyoo Cox, I agree with what your saying, I would be a bit turned off, but I would not care if it was the second, third etc. I totally am for saving money, so if he can’t afford to go to a fancy place, than don’t take me to a fancy place you can’t afford. Their is no need to act like you got it like that if you don’t got it like that, if I like you it’s not going to matter at the end of the day.

Show you you're worth a little coin? If someone asks you out and gives their time, attention and whatever resources they have to provide you with a date, how dare you act ungrateful just because they paid for it with a $50 bill and a 50% coupon instead of a full $100 bill? You're obviously not worth a little coin, because you're focused on how they've paid for it rather than they've successfully paid for it.

@@fatimao2161 Exactly. Thats the point. Don't take a woman somewhere you can't afford. First date, is all about the positive impressions. & that start, is somewhere he can afford. Not everyone can live that "boujie" lifestyle. I sure can't. BUT I know what I'm worth on a first date. Once you get to know someone, thats when living that comfortable, so called "cheap" lifestyle, I'm 100% all about. I'm not ashamed. Again, nothing wrong with the coupon life. Anybody think differently, that's their own opinion. 💕But I'm glad we agree 💕

@@OneLoveRSR ok....aaaand that's your opinion. 🤷🏽‍♀️ To me it's not being ungrateful, when i know its a place he can afford to fully pay for. On a FIRST date. Hence why communicating beforehand is important. Also, don't take a woman to a place you can't afford...again especially on a first date. (Show her you tried to at least impress her, by paying the full bill. )But if she doesn't like the restaurant because it's not "boujie" enough, by her own standards, then that's STILL her opinion, & she can leave.Some women could care less about the attention he gives her. They, in the end, just want his money. It's not your relationship, so it's not your opinion to judge. It may be sad, yes, that she's using him, but, not your relationship. 🙂

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Millenials are 37-25

XO OX 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣♥️

Loni was being nice, Adriennes not a millennial.

Elle Plow Plow she is Adrienne was born 1983 and the millennial generations started in 81

Most the ppl in the comments agree with you

Lol she needs to put on a cape and be super mad

@@traciemathews166 Omg I'm stealing that 😂

@@MutetheCity lol. I've been using that for years now. My friends laugh all the time when I say it because it comes out right on time😂😂

stop perpetuating the angry darkskin black women on her , she can’t stand up for herself without people like you taking it the wrong way .

@@memimomomum Bro she was making fun of guys who don’t have money like that so they try to save it has nothing to do with her skin color it’s the fact that what she said was disrespectful and uncalled for

I think she got offended because they told her that "that's why she stays single"

lol

Lizzie Robertson well he's not wrong

She's gross

That wasnt the first time she said that...

But she always talks about how she struggled. What r u on about?

@@sosmcs specifically the recent video I referred to. Can you believe she just wouldn't acknowledge that black women have it the hardest in America? It's about the bette Midler tweet.

@@imbored6037 I don't think it's okay to say that black women have it the hardest. It would have made more sense that black women have it hard that they are one of the groups that has it the hardest in the US. It's about wording.

@@danaflamenco tru

But Loni doesn't have it that hard and she DID persevere when it was difficult. And she was black during the struggles AND successes. Why should she have to lie to make you feel better? Race doesn't affect her much in her life. Studies show that in fact MOST black people say racism in their lives is either non-existent or has negligible affects. Those same studies however, show that people still see racism as a "major issue" (white people more than black people). It shows a large disconnect between perception and reality.

What about Tamara why not her?

AGREE THATS WHY SHES SINGLE!!

I just wanna know why it was important for you to specify So Clearly, in capital letters, that he makes huge money legally!?🤣🤣😂😂😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I mean only people who who've been accused of being _"illegal"_ will yell out _"legal"_ even when no one asked😂😂😂🤣😅👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

That's how she lime things. Who are you to tell her she's tripping or wrong. You're ok with a guy using coupons while others aren't. She didn't say the other women who are ok with it are stupid, she said she ain't about that life. Get yours and go on with your day

@@tamtamr9081 She was singke by choice. She said it many times

Facebook friend request me @ Marley Janim

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black gay antifa 🙊💀

Her big belly

Exactly

Are yall really talking about this woman's weight 🤔 none of you even have a profile pic and are not expanding on what it is your offering🤦‍♀️ Off the top of my head: loni is beautiful, brings college degrees, house, car, and her successful career.

*Y O U ' R E

This is so annoying. Subtly implying that people in relationships don't have flaws.

@@kaylenejantjes8113 That's not even implied a little bit.

This is a girl chat if you don't expect people to talk over each other which they all do then why even watch

You're* Like do it properly if you wanna be salty

Exactly!

Get your own bank account

Exactly I agree! What Loni is saying is completely reasonable, idk why everyone is so pressed in these comments. It's not hard to find someone to splurge on the first date, my boyfriend still overdoes it 2 years into the relationship. You don't need to spend money if you don't have it, you should just offer the most of whatever you can afford, if you don't have enough money I'm sure the person can make a date creative on a low budget. I think the dates should match that person's salary

Oh wait....it's an old clip💔

Lola N lmaooo

Taneshae Davis Rich people stay rich because they save money. Using a Groupon says NOTHING about what you can afford, but instead it shows how smart you are with your money. Its superficial and shallow to assume that because a guy is interested in you, he should change his routine and spend more money on you. Money does not equate to love or interest at all. The fact that he’s paying for your meal should be flattering enough, but to go even further and request that he not save his hard earned money while doing that is just low, yet Loni says these men aren’t “real men.” A real man doesn’t let his pride cause him to go broke trying to impress some chick he may never see again.

@@Isaacthedondada I like men who save money because I save money as well. I use coupons, groupons and dollar menus at restaurants! But as I said in my statement, if 2 people really want to go on a date but their financial circumstances arent the best, they should decide TOGETHER what they would like to do! That way things aren't awkward and the money won't be an issue. However, I completely understand where you are coming from.

Using a Groupon doesn't mean your finances aren't in order, though. Maybe he's just a person that watches his money. I could see if Groupons only applied to crappy places...but you can find a Groupon for damn near anywhere.

@@shaedavis53 but hun using a groupon doesnt equal finances not being the best!! thats shallow of you to judge. why would he give the restaurant extra money when he doesnt need to? what benefit do you get from the restaurant getting more of his money for the same meal ?? stupid.

But you cant say that if you have the chance to spend less money you wouldn't do it...

Andrea Far I think they're trying out a new uploading format... so let's see what happens tomorrow & etc. with this lol

Andrea Far read the description

As always, smh

That was her mom guilt

Yeah that was her guilt. I understood what Jeanie was saying.

Yea but that doesn't mean u gotta call a whole person annoying. Just say the way she cut Jeannie off was annoying or you didn't like what she was tryna say. I think there are viewers who can relate to each of the ladies' views. Some moms are actually feeling bad for not being able to spend more time with their kids due to financial situations, and Tamera's interjection is telling those viewers who relate that it is alright. As long as in their spare time, they spend quality time with them.

stay single

everything is wrong with being a stay home mom. how can somebody be ok with a man getting you everything you need?? Like how do you feel about not doing anything for your self? what do you teach you children?

@@DaniielaVergara In your world, you work and get a check. In Recettes, she doesn't work (if she chooses) and gets the same benefits. I wouldn't be so quick to judge/condemn! Also, she never said she wouldn't be working. If you wanted to get your POV off then cool but you missed the mark here.

@@DaniielaVergara Also, the kids is a low blow don't you think. She could prolly teach her hypothetical children a lot with all the time she will be spending with them...ya know...staying at home.

@@BGriff- I honestly don't even get what you are talking about. just leave it there, I said what I said period, just my opinion

I'm a stay at home mum and my husband is the sole provider. This is something we decided together. I am teaching my children to be decent human beings. And you know what I am more qualified (Masters) than my hubby, and could probably earn more if I did work. But I want to stay home with my babies because I have all the time in the world to get a job but my children will only stay children for so long.

@Michelle Appiah some people care more about superficial things that the actual thing that should matter.

the kinda person they are should matter more then someones financial situation.

It's your personality that's going to impress me. How well the date is planned out that's going to impress me. Your goals and dreams are going to impress me. A coupon just doesn't really mean anything to me.

@Michelle Appiah exactly! So many places offer Groupons...if you don't see him paying then you would never know the difference.

@@idekatthispoint8041 but just because they use a Groupon doesn't mean they aren't doing good financially.

Koojia Xyooj I totally agree, like she said if you can’t afford to take me out, don’t take me out. It is what it is, you don’t need to be extra if you ain’t got the money to be extra. I don’t understood why guys try to be fancy when they don’t have the means to be fancy with. Just go to a place you can afford.

Yes beautiful, but that hair looks confused