Glenda, Pray 🙏 and ask Jesus to help you stop the picking. When you think about picking start praying and then read the Bible . Say out loud ...devil leave me alone in the name of Jesus... I command this picking shall stop in the name of Jesus. Tell Jesus you are putting this at His feet. Tell the devil you are breaking the chain of picking. Glenda don't put Zeus off anymore. Those sores won't matter to him. What if he suddenly died ? You would wished you told him to come on. Don't put life on hold. Remember this...Be your own kind of beautiful. Love ❤ who you are... you are so beautiful...

Glenda I do the same thing. I take the same meds. I sleep with it well, but I also take other meds,like mood stablizers, PTSD is just as bad for me. I pick my face, shoulders and arms. I sometimes can't go out bc my face looks too bad.

I used to do something similar. I put a hair elastic around my wrist. Every time I caught myself picking or THOUGHT about picking, I’d snap the elastic a few times. It’s uncomfortable but not terribly painful. It’s a really good and proactive way to train or untrain our mind . It worked wonders for me because it was an action. I needed to actually and outwardly DO something. It might just work for you too.

Seek intense therapy. Healing prayers! Prayers over all here who are suffering too.🙏🏽🙏🏽

I think it must be really common! In our family we do that too but I didn't know there was a name for it. We all take Zoloft too for anxiety and OCD. I blame it on modern society stressing us out, even without any childhood trauma. That's awful your Mom did all that in front of you though.

Artichokes are so good, don't be embarrassed, child hood trauma is horrible and so many people are suffering This video will help so many people, may God heal you! 🙏😊

Stuff happens Glenda. You know..Mini van Lee wears beautiful colored arm gaiters I think they are called. So pretty. It may even stop some of the picking. Just a thought.❤

Would you or have you ever been willing to try Amitriptyline? It has worked really well for my OCD and I’ve had no side effects with it and I’m the person who reacts to many medicines so I do highly recommend it. I’m not sure if you remember the contents of my email some time ago but I went through excessive trauma including abuse and rape and so I know how these OCD’s can develop. It breaks my heart to hear your granddaughter want to fix your boo boo’s. You might have the sweetest grandkids in the world.

I’m a skin picker too. I’ve got one sore under my shirt sleeve I try to pick if I get picky. Mine bubble up and burst too. I pick my face and so wish I could stop that. Also, I read an article that serotonin reputake inhibitors can cause stress over a long period of time. It is called serotonin toxicity. So instead of taking more, I took half for a while until it subsided. My momma and daddy didn’t like me too well and I felt alone most of my life. My grandmother loved me. And I was bullied at school for being chubby. It is harder to do than to say but you HAVE to let that stuff go. Give it to God and walk away from it. I was just wondering if you could be a half sibling to your sisters. I’m praying for you.

One of my family members does that same thing on her legs. She has major depression and OCD. Living in today's society too much is expected of each and everyone of us and this is a coping mechanism for my family member.

Ms Glenda. Have you ever tried Pickled Okra? They sell it at walmart down here in South Carolina. It's delicious!!

Don't be embarrassed. Everyone has an issue they need to deal with. Be proud of you are and all you accomplished.

I honestly don't even notice the sores. It's not something that sticks out to me.

I always was with my Momma when her men wined and dined her......I remember going out onto the porch roof of the house hiding...this was for safety.....I was less than kindergarten age. I never knew my daddy's name nor my other 3 sisters daddy's. I'm 68 and I pretty much raised my sisters. Only by the grace of God that I'm as healthy as I am....God bless us Dear

Glenda, thank you for your transparency, I’ll bet you helped a lot of people today! So many people suffer silently and your openness is a healthy way to work through the physical/emotional abuse. I can see how painful it is for you to talk about it and tell us the awful things that happened to you. God bless you ✝️

I have a mild case of psoriasis and when my nerves get really bad or I'm upset about anything my psoriasis will get really inflamed and be really red. My 4 year old granddaughter ask me one day about them. I told her the truth about it. Now that she is older she will say things like ( what are you worried about or are you upset)? I have never even with my own daughter made up thing to satisfy their curiosities. They understand more about it than we know and will continue to ask until they are satisfied. Don't be sorry or ashamed about, it you are just trying to protect them. They need to understand that even us adults have worries and we do get upset. You are such an awesome and amazing person always. Just be honest with your grandchildren they will keep asking until they are satisfied. Love you lady!

I’m so sorry you had to go through that! Sending love and prayers! I wish I could help somehow! 💜💜

I have the same diagnosis (among others), and I know 100% how you feel. My mother has gone as far as to tell me I look like I'm cracked out on drugs. I've never done any drug in my 33 years of life. She acts like I choose to have this problem and the other ones. I just want you to know that you aren't disgusting and I'll watch you cook regardless of how your arms look. 💗

Miss Glenda...there is no need to be ashamed, but you have to forgive YOURSELF. Maybe instead of pinpointing how your granddaughter wanted to heal your booboos, concentrate on how she has been raised with empathy and kindness and the desire to help others. You have to forgive your mother or you will stay in a "trauma bonded" relationship and it will hold you back from ever moving forward. I am working on this myself, it certainly won't happen overnight but just wanted to give you something to think about. Sendingy love and prayers! 🧡Chris

You know my care for you, and all the years since the start I've been watching and supporting you. I know how bad childhood trauma can hurt as I have been through it and it is debilitating many days. All of this is not your fault, trauma is handled in so many ways and I am so proud of you for disclosing yours as it is a way to heal, and to recover. It is so brave of you to share that and you should be very proud and not ashamed. I know it is easier said then done but you from this day are on your way. I know things are tough but you have a huge support system right here for you, and we care, and we want what is best for you. I am sending my love and continued support to you Glenda, stay strong. I tell myself often, it cannot rain forever the sun will shine again soon. Just hold on. xoxoxo

I have OCD. I clean everything I touch with rubbing alcohol. My OCD got worse after being rxped. I'm always fiddling with my hair. I suffer Tourette's & have hypersensitive ears.

Glenda, I have watched you for 2 or 3 years now and have never seen anything but kindness, warmth, and grace from you. I wish you could let go of the bad memories because you deserve peace and happiness. I don't know if it will help any, but I want you to know you aren't alone in fighting that terrible obsession. Well, I call it an "obsession" because no matter what I tell myself I can't stop. And mine mostly affects my face. If I feel ANYTHING other than smooth skin I won't stop. It could be a hair that I will tweeze until I make a sore or I think I feel a pimple and I try to scratch or squeeze it away and ofcourse that just makes it worse. The only thing that helps me is finding a distraction before I get manic about it; like having someone around, crafting, sewing or KZfaq. When I'm alone and it's quiet and I have nothing to do but think is when I struggle. Please don't be so hard on yourself. You are possibly missing out on the best therapy ever by keeping your friend away. You are in my prayers. Much love! ♥

So sorry my friend. I guess Zeus will see this video so then he will know which will relieve some stress.

Aww Glenda there is nothing to be ashamed about. It is what it is. Its no ones business anyway. But just tell your grandchildren what you have been. They are small yet. As they get older then you can tell them the truth. A lot of us deal with things like this. Don’t beat yourself up, you do not deserve that. You are a beautiful loving and kind person. And we just love you. You are not alone. You have all of us on here that care. God Bless Glenda.

Several people in our family do the picking of their skin. Don't be ahsamed hon,never feel guilty,mental illness is nothing to be ashamed of. So many people have a mental health problem. This is is a crazy world we live in. I have bad anxiety,so no judgement here.

Thank you for sharing many do suffer 😢🙏❤️🤗

I have it too... I understand. We do the best we can... I wear long sleeves even in the summer. Me I try to do one day at time. Somedays are better. People really don't understand. I pick all over. Be trying... We get through one more day

Understand. I have been that to myself for a very long time. Could not join my 2 daughters in getting a pedi because picked my heel to an open sore

I'm sorry you're feeling badly today. You seem depressed. Your family was certainly dysfunctional, mine was too. I empathize, because I feel the same way. I'm depressed sometimes too and also very hard on myself. I've picked scabs since I was a child, now I know why. I used to bite my fingernails constantly, but that stopped, when I was divorced after 30 years. No one here is judging you. They love you just the way you are, (like Mr. Rogers said). Sometimes we just need to feel badly. So if you allow yourself to do that today, then shake it off and be back to your sunny self tomorrow or later today if you can manage it. Concentrate on the fact that you have family and friends who love you.

I’m sorry Glenda for the trauma in your life. I’ve been picking the callus on my feet for over 40 years, I’m 68 now. It is so bad at times I have trouble walking. I think it’s just Nerves. I have never had any trauma in my life. I have been crocheting a lot and found it keeps my hands busy. Praying 🙏 for you!

Dearest Glenda, you are such a brave and courageous woman. You’ve been through so much and you’ve survived. We are all unique beings and things affect us differently even when we’ve gone through similar circumstances. Thanks for bringing light to this disease and for helping others who suffer with it. God bless you.😘❤️🙏🏻

Bless your heart! I am so sorry for your pain! Our childhood definitely impacts our lives! Prayers for you sweet Glenda🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

My sister was a picker also. We found out, years later, about her mental illness. She used drugs and alcohol, to numb her pain and trauma. A few years ago, she sadly died, in rehab. I pray, you find peace Glenda.

Glenda, you are SO much more than your weight or complexion!! I want you to try Amish Farm Soap. It won't change the behavior (duh) but it WILL help the affects of this OCD aspect of life and help with healing the skin. And may I suggest a good chat with your doctor to look into changing your medicine. You may benefit from a different drug that could really help. Worth a try anyway! And let Zeus visit. I don't think he pays real attention except to hear and appreciate your big heart, my friend. Blessings to you and yours! XO

I do the same thing but with my nails. I bite the skin around my nails. It looks disgusting and i wish i could stop but its hard. Dont be hard on yourself ❤. Love yourself!

That's what I have been doing for years. My mom would always say, don't pick them. They'll cause scar's. I still do the same thing today. I started putting Vicks Vapor Rub on me and it's been helping me some. I'm praying for you sweetie 🥰😘

I just made an artichoke casserole/ dip from The Farming Pastor's Wife channel, she has the best recipes AND she has such a genuine sweet southern disposition like you sweet Glenda🌻.. it's just a can of artichokes chopped, parmesan cheese, mozzarella cheese ,mayo,hot sauce, Worcestershire sauce to taste,Bake 350 for 30.. it's fabulous with crackers 😋

Thank you for being so open and transparent. So many people are going through the exact thing. I'm sure you touched many hearts today with this message. Trying times do not ease the stress either. But know Glenda.......we all love and support you. More importantly God loves you inside and out. Sending you healing energy and love always ❣️💜❣️💜😇😇😇

Continue to rise up ,our intelligent, loving ,wise,beautiful and altogether lovely lady.Hugs and prayers for our precious Glenda.You are loved down to the last cell of your body.

I love okra and really love artichokes!!! I grew up in the San Francisco area so the artichokes grew well in the area. They were BIG!!!!!

I don't know what to say I chew my cuticle from time to time. :)

You have nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed about. I'm glad you and your doctors are working on things. Hugs Glenda.

I wouldn't tell the child about this, just in case she might copy.

I have eczema and pick at it when it gets scaly. Best medicine is Desoximetasine cream for me. It's an autoimmune problem that causes the scaly skin. The picking is hard to stop when it's hardened scales. Your momma had no idea what a little sweetheart she was blessed with. 🎈

I love okra every way except boiled. Love it fried, like at the Cracker Barrel. Yummy!!!! Glenda, give all your troubles to the Master. HE is concerned about ALL that troubles us! Tears are a language that God understands. We all love you!

I have Keratosis pilaris and I am a picker. I often wear long sleeves in public. My childhood was a train wreck.

Ms. Glenda, Pray & ask God to help you overcome this Problem! He Loves you & we all Love You! He is concerned about every Problem we Face! Nothing is Impossible for God! He cares & believe me he Understands what you are going Through! He is just waiting for you to give your Problems To him! When we are Weak God is Strong ! I will be Praying 🙏 for You Sweet Ms. Glenda! God’s Blessings on You Today & Everyday! ❤️🌹🙏😇🙏😇🌻🌻🌈

I ray for you . So sorry, we all have issues with somethings. Don’t lie to her just flat out tell her . She needs to hear it if she asks. My feet itch horribly and I scratch till they bleed sometimes. Not always but sometimes. Don’t fret love ya,

There should be no shame Glenda. We all go through our own struggles. Know you are not alone. You are loved! ❤

Its ok, Am sure your not alone. You don't need to explain to a 3 y/o or ever, She doesn't need to know. How sweet the baby wants to show her love and care as others have done for her. ❤

We al! have to struggle at times. Life is hard.You are good the way you are.God made you.Don't feel bad.

Picking of the skin is no different to me than cleaning obsessively, giving into rumination, shopping compulsively and so on and so forth. It's just the skin picking adds the weight of being visible to the eyes and causes additional shame. Have you ever sought a low cost or free senior citizen therapist counseling for mental health issues? Have you ever sought a like minded support group? I believe those resources can greatly help you. You are not alone in your struggle.

You say your sisters don't have trauma, but they probably do in some way that just isn't evident. I have 3 sisters and it wasn't until we were adults that we started talking about some childhood traumas that we had never realized that we all had experienced, but in different ways.

Momma use to boil okra and looked like snot lol but when I grew up and cooked it myself I liked it lol ,bless her heart she couldn't cook well ,

Hun, I have a mental illness also. Just being honest helps! I have panic attacks and depression. I don't like crowds but my crazy problem is BP cups! The tightness on my arms makes me worse! Dr's don't understand! It's horrible! And don't grab my arms?? To this day I don't know why?? Just knowing I have to go to the Dr sends my BP out of site! But don't be ashamed! It's a chemical imbalance! Just talk to us all you need to talk! Try Journaling! Talk, scream, whatever you need to do. Talk to him, just like you did us! DO NOT BE ASHAMED!!! Praying for you!

You can overcome it. I think it is nerves. When I was a teen I pulled my hair. Then after being bitten by a brown recluse and my arm opened up in 2 bad places, I would find myself digging at it, it took a long time to heal. I am good now but I am not nerved out about anything like I was. I think it is just a nerve disorder. I was not even aware I was doing it. But no matter what my friend, you are just as valuable person as anyone else. Don't be embarrassed nor ashamed. You are not intentionally doing it. Now if you were cutting, then that is mental illness. I had a younger friend that pulled her hair out too. Try not to focus on it too much. A lot is just a habit and think too that our skin does not heal on the arms like we were younger. A lot of it is ezema. I think I misspelled that. Anyway the more you think about it, the worse. I am clear now. Don't worry about it. One thing that did help the dry patches is that I put a medicated bandaid on and left it one for a few days. This sealed in the natural moisture and kept the dry air away and something as simple as that really works. Nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about. Take care.

it's okay. maybe you should at least think about having a trusted friend or family member go over things with you . it will stop the issue of getting scammed. I'm not calling anyone senile,I'm just giving hopefully useful advice,to be very clear.

Sending you hugs today!!

I love okra! Boiled in purple hull peas! Yummy!

Oh how sad. I almost started crying too when you talked about your grand daughter bringing the ointment. She's a little care taker. I know there's nothing anyone can come up with that you haven't already tried. But off the top of my head I would cut and keep my fingernails super short and wrap my arms with cloth where it would be difficult to get to my skin. You've probably tried that already. Just to reassure you about your delicious cooking. Not once have I ever seen or even looked for any sores. Never. If by chance I did see something on your hand it was totally normal and I never ever saw anything bad that disgusted me. Also you have such a good memory to remember what you ate and how your mom cooked everything. Amazing. All I can remember is my grandmother's home made tortillas. They were delicious 😘 Be kind to yourself. You deserve it.

Honey you need therapy, no if's ands or buts, you need to get to the bottom of this, the childhood drama is what you need to get relief and delivered from, you can get a Christian therapist who will have spiritual intense impact in the healing that you need. You cannot continue on life like this, God loves you and wants you healed!

Maam i had the same problem and i know how you feel.I found out that it was stress.Once the stress was gone,it all stopped.You sound like your from Texas,so yall take care now.You hear.

Is Cannibis legal in your state?

Glenda, please don't be so hard on yourself! There are reactions to trauma. And you were a small child. Just think! You just ended it. Your not giving excuses for your physical condition of your skin now. So don't be embarrassed sweetie. Help yourself with this the best you can, with medical help. Be it on the inside and outside! Live life to the fullest with your family! Blessings love ❤️

GLENDA I TO AM A PICKER AND HAVE ALL MY LIFE MY HUSBAND TELLS ME TO STOP WHEN HE SEES ME DOING IT I DONT PICK TO MAKE SORES BUT IF I HAVE A SORE I WILL PICK IT

Hugs ❤️ I am deeply sorry you are dealing with that illness. I wish I can take it away. Take care of yourself, don't give up!! We all have some kind of issue in our lives but keep thinking all the blessings in your life. Move forward with positive thoughts!

Okra sliced and coated in cornmeal and fried I'd DELICIOUS!!!!😋😋😋

I am praying for you. Learn to try to change but also except yourself

Good vibes, light and love to you my dear Glenda. They say that the moment we bring the dark to light things can heal. I admire your courage to share and be vulnerable as you have. *hugs*

So sorry you have had to endure this.Crying with you. Could hypnosis help?

bless your heart

I am hugging you tightly right now...to my heart. I hope you can feel it. My prayer is that God leads you to the person or people that can genuinely help you with this as soon as possible. I'm thinking maybe hypnosis.... You are loved, Glenda. Just the way you are.

I never ate an artichoke, I think I had okra but not sure.

So sorry Glenda, you having to go through this. Please don’t be ashamed…it’s not your fault. Sending prayers and love 🙏💕

I love okra certain ways.In soup it's a must flavor.

Love you Glenda! We all have our issues and we all handle them differently! Keep up the good fight and trust in the Lord to see you through.. I have been diagnosed with Meige syndrome not a fun condition.. But I just keep on going..

Hi Angel girl and everyone else 😇 God bless you and your families everyone 😇 Have a blessed day 😇 Love you guys 😇🥰

Dear Glenda you have many people that love you. Draw you strength from the Lord and his might power. I'm adding you to my prayer list. I have O C D too some days are better than others. I've dealt with it all my life we have to get up and keep going. Prayers 🙏

I feel for you People can be so cruel....

I have something similar where I pick at my psoriasis. It is what it is. As far as Zeus goes, he seems to care for you a lot. At our age I think the spirit and kindness of the person is more important than any physical stuff. I say you let him come over and be yourself. Times a wasting Glenda! We’re not teenagers anymore!

Wow that’s terrible 😞 makes me want to be a better Mom, I want to constantly improve. Sounds like a lot of hurt in your past. I know you’re hard on yourself but at least you’re trying. And you seem very sweet. God bless you

I'll be praying for you, much love ❤️ and hugs. Be kind to yourself.

I like it boiled on peas, or butter bean

Prayers that God will take away that habit for good. Concentrate on healing scriptures every day.

Glenda my dear you have suffered so much in regards to your life. You actually do quite well considering everything you've gone through it shows how strong you are. There's people that couldn't even deal with half the things you've had to deal with. Don't be upset with yourself be proud of yourself be proud of where you're at now and what you've done to make your life better for yourself. You are seriously and deeply loved by your KZfaq family and that includes me we're all behind you we will all hold you up if you need it your loved Glenda and don't forget that. God bless you Glenda

Just a random thought. I'm certainly no expert on this topic. But have you ever tried wearing arm sleeves? Maybe just wearing them around the house everyday to help prevent the temptation. I know Amazon sells them in a variety of styles and colors. Avid runners use them in all types of weather. Please don't be embarrassed. You're still a beautiful lady inside and out. 🙏❤⚘️

Thinking of u. Prayers you can get this under control. My friend has this disease also. Prayers and hugs

We will pray for you. Don't be embarrassed. Everyone has burdens they carry...but God will heal you and we will pray for your internal and external healing. God bless you. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Always love all your videos and you!! My sister has the same disorder (they told her it is a type of O.C.D.). She has so many scars and sores but not just on her arms. Arms, legs, and sometimes her face. They put her on Zoloft, but she still picks herself. You are not alone!! ♥️

Look all you have survived 💕

It will be ok you are a terrific person and well loved😉🙏

Don’t worry 😉 Guaranteed that we all have issues !!!

My siblings and I made a vow that we will never allow those Generation Curses to continue on in our lives and in the lives of our generation and generations to come. We had to forgive and leave it in Gods hands once and for all. Remember that forgiveness is not saying what was done to us was okay but it means it’s that we will not allow people or circumstances of the past to keep us stuck, or remain in dark places . Those issues and people are now Gods to deal with we are free to move on. It’s never too late to take control of your entire happiness. We become better not bitter people in the end. We can either keep blaming our parents and use them as an excuse to be who we are or have become or we can learn from their mistakes and not repeat them.

Yes ,are past has a lot to do who become. One thing you need to know that didn't let your parents behavior , be a part your personally. Your a wonderful kind and beautiful woman. Talk to your Doctor about creams that help fade the dark spots on your arms.Maybe keeping your finger nails stort.. Theirs is tops that airily and loose that would cover your arms. Try listen to calming music and lighting a candle , Lavender is a good scent in a candle that has a calming effect. Having bird is calming also have maybe some pet fish . Watching fish's is enjoying with color lights in back around. This you must know, that are many people that love you. Your a kind and wonderful person. That you have learn so much from her past. Your nothing like your parents in way that talk about them.Everyday look in the mirror ,and say God made me beautiful , your heart is in the right place. Keep loving you. Because we all do also. Enjoy your Sunday and every day of your life.

maybe meditation to help bring a sense of calm to your days?

So sorry Glenda you have this disorder, 🙏🏾👁️👁️🧚🕊️💕💐

Glenda you probably don’t remember me but years ago I was in the hospital ..again, I have no immune system, and I started watching you. I had to quit teaching which I loved and could not go out. I was so depressed. You answered a comment I made and said you would pray for me. I was on the edge and you brought me back from wanting to give up. None of us are perfect and none of us expect you to be. I just wanted you to know you are helping others. I have been off internet for a while but never forgot your compassion for others. Ps I pick too but didn’t know others didn’t. Hum. Anyway sending love and love yourself. Sounds like you were a target child.

Sweetie don't be embarrassed, it's not your fault, so many suffer with mental illnesses and it's ok I love you ,your a strong beautiful person with a heart of gold,

Aloha 🌺 Glenda! I'm sorry you have this problem! Hope you can help. Please try Skinfix or Surgeon's Ski Treatment. I use both. The cancer leaves my skin discolored. Surgeon's has really helped with this problem. Sorry, about you trauma! Please take care. Aloha 🌺

It’s ok. You recognize it and that’s wonderful. Does not lesson what a good person you really are