God is Revealing Your Relationship is Toxic (7 Warning Signs) + LIVE Q&A

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7 ай бұрын

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@Josephine5252 7 ай бұрын

1. Lack of love and respect. 2. Manipulative and Controlling 3. Constant conflict and strife. 4. Unforgiveness 5. Dishonesty and deceit. 6. Lack of boundaries and personal freedom. 7. Selfishness 8. Abusive 9. Lack of Trust and insecurity.

@dennyfie 5 ай бұрын

I just went through all of that,i was really dumb founded by the whole deal,very sad. Gone now never to see her again. A covert Christian narcissist is really scary, the neglectful attitude was very disturbing,but a total stranger she had all kinds of time for them.i will never get it.

@user-ke5yu1gj2q 5 ай бұрын

Amen

@carajssavannahga8830 5 ай бұрын

Going through this with my ID twin sister and planning to leave. We roommate together. She's a covert narcissist and a raging alcoholic. So abusive and evil

@londontyler6598 5 ай бұрын

I went through all of this in my 5 year situationship they I finally walked away from. This person created a story in there head and kept it going , until he got literally caught in the act. I’ll never submit to a man that has not submitted to God first. I’ll never be again, a girlfriend working with wifely duties and is not a wife.

@annawallace3264 4 ай бұрын

all items you referenced were in my relationship with my Husband (Narcissist)

@janberger4057 2 ай бұрын

Toxic people hate BOUNDARIES.

@user-ty3fe8gq1f 2 ай бұрын

What do you consider boundaries? Your statement means nothing. Stonewalling is not boundaries. The silent treatment is not a boundary.having different perspective or opinion is not a boundary. Toxic is just a phrase that people use to describe a behavior that is damaging. There isn’t a person in the planet who is not toxic in some way or another. KZfaq is chocked full of people claiming God said this and God said that. Full of people deciding for themselves that their partner is a narcissist because they do some of the things a KZfaq therapist told you makes them a narcissist. No counselor worth a damn would diagnose someone without meeting with them in person. Anyone who watches a bunch of KZfaq videos and decides that someone is something is a fool. Anyone who believes God is revealing their partner is toxic is even more of a fool. You may very well be in a toxic relationship, he or she may very well be a narcissist, but narcissism is a very specific disorder. Everyone does half the things in the list. Bottom line, if the person refuses to put in the required effort to make it work, and you are not married, move on. Therapy creates victims. These people literally find ways to show you that you are a victim. If someone is a victim then someone must be an abuser. If therapy doesn’t work, as many have said here, then why are you taking advice from a therapist?

@JesusistheLivingGod.777 13 күн бұрын

No toxic people just hate boundaries, tell a person who thinks they run the world and are entitled to everything no and watch the chaos thay ensues. The blaming name calling, lieing about your character to others. Simple rules to have for your home they don't respect but expect others to respect theirs. Toxic people exist. Theres toxic traits and straight up toxic people, who thrive for this lifestlye of victim mindset versus someone who actually is a victim of their narc games. This doesnt make us victims but keeps us from staying one with support of the word.@user-ty3fe8gq1f

@quallawingerter4434 4 ай бұрын

IT IS NEVER GOD'S WILL FOR ANYONE TO BE ABUSED. PERIOD!!!!

@indridcold8433 3 ай бұрын

Exactly! It is far better to be completely alone than to have others around you that would harm you or take advantage of you in you moments of weakness. It happened to me back in 2000. To keep anything similar from happening to me again, I deleted everyone from my life and never bothered to replace anybody. I iwll allows no possibility of the events of 30 December 1998 to 8 August 2000 from ever happening again. Thus, I have had no friends, a girlfriend, nor acqaintences, since 2000. It is far better to have nobody in your life than to have abusive or bad people in your life. This is written from experience. Being alone is nti the worse thing that could happen to anybody. It is far from it. For me, it has actually proven extremely beneficial to have nobody in my life. Nobody is going to die because they have no social existence. I am proof of this.

@chartman194 3 ай бұрын

Get out of toxic don’t waste your years with toxic. God never wants us to be abused. Trust God to show you the way out for a productive life.

@indridcold8433 3 ай бұрын

@@chartman194 I quit wasting my time with human companionship. Almost all of them are toxic. I just do what I must to live and succeed without having anything to do with humans. I interact with humans in a manner that a client would interact with a service provider or merchant. No interpersonal exchanges are ever made. I am done with what is regarded as friendship and amorous relationships. They have become nothing but opportunistic relationships and sex. I need none of that just to be abused later because I met my purpose for the opportunist. I will never be social again.

@kimberlyd7398 3 ай бұрын

That’s what the narcissist says you do. They say you never forgive. Forgiveness does not mean to keep taking it!

@amberdetwiler9786 3 ай бұрын

Thank you. So often Christian women(pastor's wives in my life) say that there is not enough reason to leave unless the kids or I are getting physically abused. Here is my thing...so much happens leading up to physical abuse. It doesn't just happen. And why does someone have to be bleeding before we leave? Really people? How can it be God's will for us to put up with emotional abuse either?

@kellyulrich3802 2 ай бұрын

I've emotionally, physically, and mentally checked out. It's the only way I can survive this. My peace is my priority now.

@jenniferlorence1950 Ай бұрын

I was watching some videos yesterday, right here on KZfaq, of American Women who live and Work in Brothels, and let me say that this is Not the first time that I hear that a LOT of Married Men go there to have S*X ON THEIR WAY to work, or On their Way from Work. It made me realize that Sometimes, being SINGLE is A BLESSING.

@kathleenknapp 26 күн бұрын

I did the same thing for years, emotionally, physically and mentally checked out, deeply hungry for peace. It’s your coping mechanism for survival. My heart goes out to you. Praying for your path towards freedom.

@anniewebster724 23 күн бұрын

I truly feel for you😢 l was married to pastor for 27 years and eventually l was strong enough to get out. I had been hoodwinked into believing that l was wrong, HE was the pastor so had yo be right! Now, almost 37 yrs later, l'm still checked out at a deep level. On the surface l'm fine, but closed down inside and didn't know how to switch on again. Hearing teaching on the narcissist, l'm FINALLY seeing that l wasn't the problem, what a release. I had finally let go of feeling l had to defend myself and let God be my vindicator, and He's brought this teaching to me!! Hang in there, the Lord will show what to do and how to get free, but we do need help from someone who understands this behaviour we've submitted to. Bless you, l pray you find your help soon. ❤ xx

@Avenray19 Ай бұрын

God, please. Please heal the narcissistic personalities of the world.

@suelindsey2295 6 ай бұрын

The Lord told me I can’t do this on my own strength but to trust Him for his strength

@tional5266 5 ай бұрын

Same, going through this currently, my husband told me I’m guilty of all his issues, total projection, my responsibility is for myself , I’m gone for 6 months ish and he couldn’t care less, except when he calls me drunk and late to fake cry and mess with my heart some more

@indridcold8433 3 ай бұрын

One thing is certain. Never depend on a human for help, support, nor companionship. They will not add to your strength. The will suck, destroy, your strength. it is horrible that it has become this way. Keep your enemies far and your, "friends," further. In fact, keep the entire species away from you.

@path4245 17 күн бұрын

Amen

@path4245 17 күн бұрын

Had a case of total abuse with someone I counseled with, that ended so well. The husband's life was totally changed by Christ, and he started treating her so well and has never gone back to being abusive. That was over 10 years now

@loriraemorris4142 Ай бұрын

18 years ago my abuser beat me on the head with a baseball bat. The Christian counselor said to forgive. Took me 13 years till I divorced him. I now am living with him trying to cohabitate and it's not working. The verbal abuse is too much to handle. I feel crazy. I finally have a way to leave now and I am carefully planning my escape. Thank you for your videos I just found you today and needed this extra push.❤

@kayesmith2518 Ай бұрын

I pray for you and your safety 🙏 ❤️

@path4245 17 күн бұрын

@loriraemorris4142 yes forgive but leave to allow both of you a better life.

@sueknight5525 10 күн бұрын

Grab the bat Call 911 and get them out

@sharonericson480 10 күн бұрын

Churches andcso-called "christian" counselors are a huge problem. They should all take these courses. Praying for you.

@sheilabates8561 3 ай бұрын

I find myself singing “no weapon formed against me shall prosper “ find so much comfort in that. I feel so much at peace.

@rozalina531 3 ай бұрын

Amen 💕 🙏🏻 💕

@shelleyg218 2 ай бұрын

Thank you, I’m going to start singing that too. Already I say, “Your peace Lord, your peace” - that’s helps a lot. When he’s in a rage I just concentrate on our Saviour; his love and his peace. But I’m going to add yours, it’s truth.

@user-ty3fe8gq1f 2 ай бұрын

All these Christian’s making their partners the enemy and claiming God is telling them they are toxic. Listing off traits that just about every human being has in one form or another. Here’s a verse for you, we wrestle not with flesh and with blood. Your partner is not forming a weapon against you, your partner likely suffered from abuse and trauma and hasn’t gotten the help they need. That doesn’t make them the enemy, the devil comes to kill, steal and destroy. Imagine claiming to know God and love God and believing your partner is evil and an enemy of God. Yet you forget that God lives that person the same as he loves you. This is just typical of this modern age wheee relationships or disposable, people are disposable. If you are not married than what difference does it make, leave. You are living in sin anyway and talking about what God wants for you. Hypocrisy is abounding.

@keddy5627 Ай бұрын

Thank you for that!!!!! God bless you, Sister! 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

@recoveringbaptist2023 7 ай бұрын

I had a covert religious Narcissist in my life once, and later realized my body was warning me of her toxicity, and I should've listened to God's warning concerning her. I emailed her my written testimony, and she called me. When I saw her name on Caller ID I picked up the receiver expecting to hear encouraging words, but instead heard cutting, hurtful words. And my body jerked back on my chair while my heart sank within me. My body was recoiling from her yet I didn't listen to it -- I made excuses for her, telling myself she was having a bad day. She continued exploiting and manipulating me for years, when I finally went no contact. I literally changed my phone number, and learned "When someone shows me who they are, I need to believe them."

@PeriwinklePotter 4 ай бұрын

My sister is a Bible 'swinging and throwing' 'Christian'. She always says the Devil made her do it and everything is the Devil's fault. She judges harshly and has a demonic tongue. 💖 💖

@michaelthompson-li7zs 3 ай бұрын

Hope its going well bro

@polskigirl8547 3 ай бұрын

Religious narcs are the worst….i was married to one and the lord took me out of it via his adultery

@lisadelgado228 2 ай бұрын

That’s the tricky part. No one wants to believe it

@andreagreig2887 Ай бұрын

Covert religious narcissist or intimacy anorexia or what ever you want to call it, hurts us so badly but we stay. It is abuse.

@TeaRose9 5 ай бұрын

The signs were revealed by God, yet at the time I gave it my all and tried to make the marriage work. A marriage I should have never entered.

@user-ku7we2yr7z Ай бұрын

I made exactly the same mistakes! I sensed that there was something not healthy, but I gave it my all and tried so hard as a Christian to make a marriage work that I should never have entered into. Now my boundaries are strong. Now I see clearly. So many lessons learned. I divorced him and now I live alone and experience so much peace.

@Gemmarose9012 6 ай бұрын

When i recognize that I am having t to do a dance or worry about the outcome of every single interaction I have with someone, I know the relationship isn’t healthy. It’s just not worth it with toxic people. I give them to God and move on. I’ve had to walk away from toxic family and it was the hardest thing I ever did. I wouldn’t exchange the peace I’ve gained in healing for anything. God doesn’t want us to be used and abused.

@manjulasingh2362 5 ай бұрын

It's difficult enough to live in this world today and with all these mind games with people one can totally go out of their mind. Remember this is god's creation and the environment you are placed in is done by god

@deec411 5 ай бұрын

The inner peace is boundless when I cleared out trapped emotions I had. I did meditations by Aaron Doughty and feel so much joy now. ❤❤❤

@trinityestrada9588 4 ай бұрын

Very well stated.

@m998hmmwv7 3 ай бұрын

@manjulasingh2362 Not all gods work. The devil is also hard at work on this planet.. stop using God as a excuse for the work of the devil

@JC-qb3wx 3 ай бұрын

Your comment makes me wonder. The man I've been with for one year has taken me on an emotional rollercoaster; where he initially seemed to take joy in lifting me up, celebrating my successes, now, since I've had a promotion, he's insulting me publicly and makes my stomach churn. I'm walking on egg shells in every conversation. It's happened almost overnight and I'm so confused. Please 🙏

@JW-po9mb 4 ай бұрын

Going to counseling with a narcissist is a waste of time and money.

@cazb4421 2 ай бұрын

Is it?? My keeps pushing me and I keep saying No. I've been in therapy since 18yrs old. I'm now 44yrs old. He has never gone.

@JW-po9mb 2 ай бұрын

@@cazb4421 if he's the one pushing for it, then go. If not, he'll say later on that it's because of you the marriage failed and the universe is turning inside out.

@cazb4421 2 ай бұрын

@JW-po9mb I'm going through that already. He blames me for everything and doesn't own anything cause he's embarrassed. If I go to therapy, I will embarrass him. He has cheated and had emotional relationships with other women. He goes away for48 hours, and I don't know where he is or who his with. I have 2 children who are watching his behaviour. I don't want to fix it. He plays too many games, hurts me and thinks it's funny. I have 20 years left on this earth. I want peace, happiness for me and my children. Being with him will destroy us all.

@JW-po9mb 2 ай бұрын

@@cazb4421 I'm in the same exact boat you're on. Please find a good therapist who can help you deal with all that you've been going through. We all know that dealing with them is huge task and destroys us in ways we could never have imagined. No one should have to go through life suffering under the hands of another. A therapist will help you to get your self esteem and self worth back. Please get help.

@littleme3597 2 ай бұрын

JW; Yes, mine said, he wanted to learn HOW to better control people. Not the point of therapy. I left.

@eastfelicen 7 ай бұрын

Let’s all pray 🙏 to be saved from toxic. My siblings and mother is poisining my soul, I thank God for protection and reading the Bible and listening to preachings so that I and my daughter will not get lost in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏

@Peacefully-Happy-86 4 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏🏻 ❤️

@leebacon-butler6130 4 ай бұрын

We can trust God. As long as we follow Holy Spirit, we can trust.

@leebacon-butler6130 4 ай бұрын

Mother and child are both hard

@leebacon-butler6130 4 ай бұрын

Amen

@rozalina531 3 ай бұрын

Amen in Jesus Christ's name 🙏🏻 💕 ✨️ 🕊

@jackiechristine8358 7 ай бұрын

I’m blown away I’ve been praying for clarity and understanding for my situation especially as a Christian. I’m literally crying 😭

6 ай бұрын

I went to 18 years of Catholic School. Narcissism and the different types of narcissist were NEVER taught to me in those 18 years. My question, WHY NOT?

@rebekahtamagne5086 6 ай бұрын

Praying for you!

@emilymbogho5945 5 ай бұрын

Crying here too oh

@asmtoni83 4 ай бұрын

I completely understand how you feel. I’m a Christian also and didn’t know what I was getting into until it was too late, after we got married. I’m so glad that God used this media outlet for people like us. We think we’re the crazy ones but it’s really the narcissist patner that makes us feel crazy. Praise God we have a Godly lady who is helping us.

@1948rambo 3 ай бұрын

Part one: learn about them. Part two: learn why they’re so attracted to us! We’re”too too” too loving, too forgiving, too agreeable, too understanding. That only works in a healthy relationship- not ever w a narcissist! We learned early in childhood- “our place” in life! They did too! Perfect matches! Everyone except a narcissist deserves more respect n better treatment than they are capable of giving! It will never make sense to a healthy person. Trying to explain is like talking to the wall! Run and be glad you got out!!!

@Bibleinformationandhelp 4 ай бұрын

Depending on the situation and on the narcissist, it is probably best to not engage. If you know they are lying or trying to fight, just stop talking. Don't get emotional and don't raise your voice. It is very difficult for a person to fight with themselves.

@jayrodriguez4119 6 ай бұрын

Feeling confused is key. Its a very very strong indicator your in the wrong relationship and in fact with a toxic person.

@Moose74491 3 ай бұрын

I feel so confused. In the middle of a divorce now, my 3rd. First was an alcoholic and abusive, 2nd was caught molesting children he coached and now this is my 3rd. I’m mortified and embarrassed for myself but mostly for my children. I feel like it MUST be me! I want to fix whatever it is. I believe this time, there are multiple issues, Asperger’s/narcissism/ADHD and possibly sociopath. (Our marriage counselor stated all of those for him) But I also know I am not perfect and wondering if I cause people to react the way they do. I am loud. I’m always loud. I’m loud when I’m happy, I’m loud when I’m sad, I’m loud when I’m upset. I don’t know how to be different. And should I change? Is this the way God made me? I don’t know. All I know is I am TIRED. I want to fix myself, whatever is mine. And I am constantly asking myself if it’s always all my fault. He would never go to counseling. He felt it was all my fault. You can’t help but believe it after so long.

@LibbySlaughter101 3 ай бұрын

Truly. Who wants to spend hours & hours & hours trying to figure out one single bizarre interaction? Let alone multiple such interactions! What a waste of time!

@ashleynicole9423 7 ай бұрын

My husband displays every single trait listed, in some form, as a covert narcissist. I’m in trouble 😟 But I do not fear as I know God will see me through 🙏

@n23391 7 ай бұрын

praying 🙏

@n23391 7 ай бұрын

fast and pray

@michealsilvey1124 7 ай бұрын

Praying 🙏 for you. Learn her other lessons on HOW to protect your heart and not be sucked into the toxic ❤

@user-yr8mv9uq8t 7 ай бұрын

Remember God has called you to peace. If you tell him if he doesn't want to be married to a Christian then he is welcome to leave (say this with gentleness and love) if he does want to stay with you then let him stay and keep sacrificing for him, pray and fast for him and win him without a word. Doing this he will either leave or change and stay ❤

@Seraphim7 7 ай бұрын

You’ll have to Leave because I have a covert Narc father….. and met many in my life… they lie aim is to Destroy you.

@lisabrinkerhoff4706 7 ай бұрын

#1...toxic mom my whole life, I'm 55, she throws unpredictable attacks on me demonstrating no love or respect! I'm learning my identity in Christ and now she can't hurt me❤thank you Kris for helping me!

@loseweightwithmealplanning 7 ай бұрын

THIS!!

@rollerbug21 7 ай бұрын

I understand your sitution.i have that kind of toxic mother..I am turning 50 tomorrow...we just have to keep growing in Christ and set our boundaries whether they like it or not. Obey Gods word and pray for our mothers...

@lisabrinkerhoff4706 7 ай бұрын

@rollerbug21 Amen! It's sad we have these moms, but I was able to let that hurt go when I learned my identity is only in Jesus, that's it! ..and how my mom views me just doesn't matter anymore... Sending hugs, Lisa❤️

@sirtedricwalker2979 6 ай бұрын

DITTO!

@nazleyvanblerk1703 6 ай бұрын

I can relate

@kittydigins4943 6 ай бұрын

I grew up in this nightmare and didn’t even realize. I knew something was wrong but not exactly what.

@user-cy6uf6vj8t Ай бұрын

That's exactly what I experienced too.

@user-zr5wj7iv2o 4 ай бұрын

5:01 "Lack of love and respect: a clear sign of toxicity."

@indridcold8433 3 ай бұрын

You just described 90% of humanity. With that high level of negative people, I have opted to forego all interpersonal, social, interactions, associations, and bonds. The only way to interact with humans is in a manner that is similar to the manner that a client would interact with a service provider or merchant. After the business exchange, conclude the meeting and never readdress the human, if at all possible. If necessary to address the human again, make it identical to the first transaction style with the human. This level of aloofness, detachment, and standoffish behavior, will maximise the odds of not establishing any sort of familiarity. The goal is not to establish any sort of connection with the person outside of the business at hand. Today, a friend is nothing but a low level enemy in disguise. A love interest is nothing but an opportunist ready to take all they can. Make no connections and make no conflict. Delete the social aspect of your life. You will not regret it.

@CompostWatcher 7 ай бұрын

I speak this over my problems. In Zechariah 4:6, The statement “Not by might nor by power but by my spirit” His grace is sufficient. Amen

@connieadams8603 7 ай бұрын

My mother uses church, scriptures, and religion to hide and cover up her manipulations and control. She projects shame and guilt on me as she gaslights her gossip and slander. My whole life I've been so confused because my mom is "sprinting" to heaven. She goes to church every Sunday. At church we learn that we are children of God and about feeling the "love of Jesus" but the confusion has been my mother's projection of shame and family scapegoating as she is "holier than thou". My entire life I have never had the opportunity to communicate my experiences and feelings when there has been conflict. I have always been blamed and shamed with no opportunity to speak or communicate. I've been shoved in a corner and stomped on as the family doormat. I have finally stepped away and removed myself from the toxic family dynamic. 😊

@Kali08012 2 ай бұрын

It’s such a miracle that you are a Christian after the use of spiritual abuse, to use scripture to control others and shame them is, well shameful! So many judge God by the people who profess to be Christian, it’s one of the tools I think the enemy uses most. Thank God for your discernment and being raised in church to hear the word.

@Kali08012 2 ай бұрын

Time stamp what is manipulation and what’s truth, what is control and what’s somebodies troubled way of trying to communicate 8:35- This Timestamp is so valuable. I have listened to countless psychological videos. I see the terms narcissist and other labels thrown around so much when it’s not necessarily true, watering down the word and using it so freely begins to give it no meaning. So many people have narcissistic tendencies at times, while not actually being one. The tools given in this Timestamp is so very important so we do not confuse someone that just doesn’t have the necessary communication tools or emotional tools to handle a conversation and situation than an actual narcissist. The huge difference is the heart of the person, God judges the heart but he has given us discernment to judge the persons fruit. I’ve spent countless hours on CPTSD videos, and I see a lot of blaming the parents for how we turn out to be. It can cause so much bitterness and resentment if not handled properly.

@Margie-zs4lb 10 күн бұрын

Good girl

@pam6367 5 ай бұрын

Today I was yelled at called selfish, thrown bible verses at me and also told “all the things I have done for you…” just for saying a firm No!

@Moonshine-N-Miracles 3 ай бұрын

Jezebel loves the Bible’s scriptures. Jezebel is strong within narcs. Control and manipulation

@JW-po9mb 2 ай бұрын

How dare you say no? Don't you know you only exist to please him? To do everything that's asked of you without question or rebuttal? You have to sacrifice yourself and place all his needs before yours; before your health; before your comfort. 🤦🏾‍♂️

@AdrianaCowick 2 ай бұрын

@@Moonshine-N-Miracles There’s no such thing as a jezebel spirit stop with that nonsense

@janberger4057 2 ай бұрын

Toxic people HATE other people's boundaries.

@jsf8145 Ай бұрын

Preach 🙌

@yanelsherman4224 Ай бұрын

1. Lack of apology and RENPENTANCE 2. Lack of respect 3. Lack of partnership or teamwork 4. Controlling & Manipulative 5. Isolating

@betealvarez 7 ай бұрын

Be wary of relationships in which you are always the “crazy”, “unbalanced” or “villain” in the relationship. I currently experience this with my family. It took me a while to realize that my sister convinced everyone that I was mentally unreliable so that my opinions were disregarded, and only her interests were considered in the issues we faced at home. Each time her reprehensible attitudes were questioned by me, she used my supposed “madness” to derail my arguments. Fortunately, with the help of friends, I realized what was happening and stopped questioning my sanity and judgment. I no longer allow her to do this, and I am already distancing myself physically and emotionally from her, because she is a selfish, unscrupulous person.

@kathyhartman6586 5 ай бұрын

Thank you! You put into words what is happening to me! Not by a husband but another authority figure. It’s sad when you realize people close to this abuser suddenly look at you with distant and ignore you when once you were good friends with you too. I’m copying this down for future help!

@tlm19628 5 ай бұрын

thirty plus years. to realize it wasn’t just me i’ve moved out of the house living next door unable to leave.no driver’s license. nine months to go i’ve given it to the lord to show me the way.praying for us all.

@LarissaOconnell 5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much... I find this a complete blessing!!!!!!! I'm learning to assert boundaries. I have been up so many nights to discern it all out.

@LarissaOconnell 5 ай бұрын

I'm doing this for the family my kids can't be subjected to this anymore

@m998hmmwv7 3 ай бұрын

Be careful especially if she is one of the elder siblings. My two eldest siblings hated me for being born. They feel I took from them. Just my existence bothers them and when my parents passed away they manipulated my mom to trust them as executor and Healthcare proxy. They put her in a nursing home and when she passed away of neglect they took everything everything. They actually packed a garbage bag with garbage and broken items from my parents basement and they gave that to me as my inheritance. Let this be a warning to anyone that reads this.. these people are born evil selfish and greedy and they stay that way until the end.

@karensmith6282 2 ай бұрын

1. Control 2. Manipulation 5. Dishonest but tries to hide it as just joking 6. Personal freedom- I have limitations on when I go out (I’m a caregiver) and it’s my responsibility to make sure my schedule revolves around when he can get free help 7. He very little thinks about how his actions effect me or make me feel 8. Abuse- very verbally abusive at times and blames it on his disability 9. Lack of trust- constantly accuses me of lying or says I don’t know what I’m talking about

@Livingbyfaith789 5 ай бұрын

Father help us... it's difficult in this world. It truly is a strange land out there. People seem to have no souls or hearts. There is no one home inside. 😥

@kaitlincox9714 5 ай бұрын

Every single sign....ive been so stubborn thinking that eventually God will change him. Instead God opened my eyes to see what he was. Also realize i was raised by a narc and have dated them every single time. But the Lord is so good. He has given me His strength. I would be lost without Him. My healing didn't happen the way I imagined. It was so painful but it's a relief to see. Thank you Lord. I know you will make a way. Keep me safe. In Jesus name i pray.

@jasusoppo498 2 ай бұрын

Amen sis.

@mirnacudiczgela1963 7 ай бұрын

I used to tell lies out of fear due to trauma imposed on me by my narcissistic mother, but I am working on it with God's grace.

@user-hk3hm8om3m 7 ай бұрын

My husband of 48 years has had10 affair that I’m aware ok. The last one was the last straw. Children are grown, have children of their own and are financially independent. When I discovered last affair, I thought’” I’m FREE!!” Praying for him. We have been together since I was 16. Married at 20 and 21. I guess he’s “in love”, again. Has happened a couple of times before. Signed up for online counseling for next Thursday. I want to get thru my pain. But also pray that he will have true repentance and accept Christ. He was baptized before we were married. Silly me, I fell for it. Lol Even if we never get back together, he needs to turn to a better life. He will be 70 next year prayers for us both please

@victorial8764 7 ай бұрын

I just prayed for you. ❤

@Jesusloves736 7 ай бұрын

Who would have thought you still have it going on at 70😱

@findingdori442 7 ай бұрын

Please start with baby steps of taking care of you. Get your belongings in order (your savings) & eventually leave 💛

@user-hk3hm8om3m 7 ай бұрын

@@findingdori442 I’m gone. Living on my own in my own home since June. Still occasionally feel devastated NO WAY I could ever go back!! Just feel so bad for our children and grandchildren that he’s been such an ass and that things have turned out like this.

@1948rambo 7 ай бұрын

I just learned all this at age 75!!!!! Now everything makes sense!

@judicurd434 6 ай бұрын

#1 Lack of Love & Respect - For the first couple of years, I was loved and respected. But the last 4 were extremely disrespectful and love was expressed, but not shown. #2 I experienced excessive gaslighting #3 Conflict, He never let me bring up struggles. He would always say "that's the past" (even if he just said something 5 minutes ago). #4 Lack of forgiveness and holding grudges. I had a unique experience with this. He was quick to forgive, but would bring it up later when it suited his point. He was never willing to talk to me about relationship problems. #5 Dishonesty & Deceit - Honesty was rarely given to me, but he always claimed he could not lie. #6 Lack of Boundaries & Personal Freedom - He harped on our future being ONLY the two of us. I shouldn't include family or friends. This was what killed the piece of the relationship we had left. He moved on to a mutually toxic person who would agree with everything he said of did (including cheating). #7 Selfishness - Givers attract Takers. One of my biggest mistakes in this Toxic Relationship was not setting boundaries to begin with. In the 6th year, when I tried to set boundaries, he started looking for, and found, a more compatible person. #8 Abusive - Physically, Verbally or Emotionally - He became verbally & emotionally abusive. If someone hurt or upset him, he would do the same to me. #9 Lack of Trust and Insecurity - I would give him trust, but he would always break it. I am talking about every single time. He would always say how much he trusted me, but never did when it counted. This made me very insecure in the relationship (which was very founded in the end). My takeaway from this toxic relationship is that the toxic person will either make the effort and work required to make the relationship better, or they will find a kindred soul who will live life their way. I am 72 and starting over again, after devoting 6 years of my life to this toxic relationship. I pray that God will help me learn from this and use it to help others.

@debbysteelebsn2987 27 күн бұрын

I am 68 years old and starting over after he stole all my money. I have nothing. He kicked me out and after 7 months away from him, he is love bombing me daily. In 8 years, we went on vacations twice and both times he got angry and drove me back home 5 states away back home and left me and drove himself back to vacation alone. All the while I am asking what did I do? No response and never spoke of it again, like it never happened.

@kayesmith2518 Ай бұрын

Getting out is just not that easy when they're abusive

@1timeslime971 7 ай бұрын

Accusing me of WHAT HE IS DOING... YES. YES…YES THATS him

@HIblue187 7 ай бұрын

Some people are controlling in many areas and they are always RIGHT! Always right even if they are wrong.

@dennyfie 5 ай бұрын

Yup hi blue,I could not deal with it.

@HIblue187 5 ай бұрын

@@dennyfie peace of mind is more important, for sure.

@rachelmartinez1923 5 ай бұрын

Dishonest and deceit. Are the worst

@904SweetiePynk 3 ай бұрын

Runs deep in blacks 😢

@KimHart-sg4tl 2 ай бұрын

Satan is the author of confusion so how do you take the signs you see at times then the effort being put in another times and decide whether you are actually being lied to and not able to prove it or if they are actually telling the truth and the signs you are seeing are from the trauma of lies they told you in the past?

@judicurd434 6 ай бұрын

So true. He didn't care about my pain. I struggled with that. He didn't struggle with ANY part of the relationship. Just an addition to this.. toxic people will ghost you to make you desperate to keep you from asking them for anything.

@paulinerichardson138 Ай бұрын

He was upset that I was in pain. Now he says I shouldn't be making myself miserable.

@paulinerichardson138 Ай бұрын

He won't take the step of regaining my trust.Ive asked him to walk with me.But he continues to hide and lie and then they come up with compassionate responses to me. So I am the problem.

@karenkasteler942 7 ай бұрын

My ex is guilty of all....so far...I'm lucky to be alive....thank God....the neighbor down the street had a "thing" for him....and he left me for her......God IS good....Thanks Kris!

@kathymiller2354 7 ай бұрын

Karen , This is also my story . But God .....I thank him for making a way out for me even though some people people don't truly believe that he was like that (physical, emotional, mental and spiritual abusive. I so understand why they would think that way . He was sooooooo loving sooooooooo understanding sooooooooo protective of me......... there wasn't anything he or I wouldn't do for each other. ..... we've known each other 16 years before we got together . I never knew he had this other side . (Woman, Woman, Woman) everywhere we went....his phone never left his side. He loved his job because of being around the woman ( he works for a lawn care company) it gives him the opportunity to show himself to others and to see them in many settings. Certain times of the year he would have to work all night and early mornings plowing snow or throwing salt down and he was able to get his eyes full of some people getting ready for bed, getting up in the morning and or watching people make love to each other.....this is no joke. At least not in my eyes. I also knew he and the next-door neighbor had something going on ..... pay attention to where they take you, who they introduce you to, and sooo on . They are ALWAYS LOOKING FOR THEIR NEXT PRY . I was put in the hospital twice. Finally, I was able to escape the nightmare . I now have a place of my own. I owe it all to my lord and savior Jesus Christ for supplying all the means of getting away from him. No one can do us like Jesus!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AMEN.

@carlawalker4989 7 ай бұрын

I'm glad you lost that weight and also lm glad you understand. I pray the Heavenly Father releases me from my marriage. I'm happy for you tho😊

@michellethomas4928 3 ай бұрын

I wish mine would leave for someone else. I feel trapped.

@karenkasteler942 3 ай бұрын

@@michellethomas4928 Try leaving him emotionally...make your full time job.... working on yourself, nurturing yourself, loving yourself.... try new activities...slowly... try eating better, working out, reading nurturing, insightful books.....and ask God.....or your Higher Power to help you with this....meditate and pray. ❤️🙏

@AmourofgodShinelight 3 ай бұрын

I'm glad I found another who has understanding of this, I hope the Lord will give you deliverance from this abuse and you get help from people who understand and have empathy, Peace , love and respect to you 😃🦄💗💙💚❤💛💜👽✌🌹🌌🕊🦁😃

@SavedBySweetGrace 7 ай бұрын

Kris Reece, your videos are helping me tremendously to stop giving the toxic narcissists in my life the attention they so crave from me. Thank you for sharing your godly wisdom.

@Annointed1985 5 ай бұрын

Why can't us empaths get with each other

@jimboswell4818 3 ай бұрын

I remember the day the Lord spoke to me about severing the relationship with my corrosive daughters. The quest" What does light have to do with darkness?" Popped into my heart and mind at the same time. My answer to him was "nothing".. The next thing that popped into my mind was " Walk away and put them in my hands". Best decision ever. Got peace now and it taught me to identify toxic people in my life and walk away too. Got new friends that are not toxic. Also it opened up doors for me to see many of my own toxic behaviors and become lovable. Took a long time, but now I get to teach the Bible to inmates in our local jail. Learned an awful lot and have joy in my heart. God is really good and He's really smart too! 🙏

@bevdiamond6826 7 ай бұрын

#2 I’ve lived with this but now I’m free and alone it’s going to stay that way because I’m not interested in turning myself inside out to please another human ever again. I’m happy being alone and being free to be myself

@dennyfie 5 ай бұрын

I was like that for a long time, then my teenage lover showed up and screwed me over big time. Glad she is gone,I will never let that happen again.

@polskigirl8547 3 ай бұрын

I have embraced my singleness…I am not lonely, nor depressed and enjoy living my life alone….. No more drama, or emotional roller coaster…. The only one I am accountable to is God…

@eattoliveveganstyle65 7 ай бұрын

#1, #2(gaslighting), #3, #4, #5, #6, #7, I ask God every day for the strength to remove me from this relationship. I’m a giver by nature and this man only knows how to take.😢

@londontyler6598 5 ай бұрын

I had this , I walked away completely after 5 years. He tried to tear me down, but uplift in another breath. I chose to follow Gods way and began to remove myself from the situationship. He began to say how he understood what I was doing and wanted to walk as well. That didn’t go so well of course, because it was all a lie because he needed something from me. No more

@Moose74491 3 ай бұрын

You will know when you’re done. And when you’re done, you’ll be done.

@lorrainespurrell628 7 ай бұрын

Amen to your prayer. Prayer truly is the key to dealing with life in general. Proverbs 3:5-6

@rainingpatchouli4476 4 ай бұрын

I'm in the throes of self doubt and emotional ❤, God placed this in my earbuds as I walked this morning.

@theresahuk-vallarino6100 7 ай бұрын

In spite of childhood and extensive adulthood narcissism, the deep knowledge owing that Truth will set us free. My middle name is FAITH. Hope is just a passing thought.

@Wendy-rh3xo 7 ай бұрын

It’s so unreal to watch someone destroy your son and entire family with lies and isolation.

@gal2727 4 ай бұрын

Your family too. My brothers wife did the same.

@Wendy-rh3xo 4 ай бұрын

@@gal2727 I’m sorry! No one should go through this.

@chartman194 3 ай бұрын

Do not watch Your son being destroyed. He is not a sacrifice. The abuser is not worth giving up your son’s health for. Or you will have two damage people. Get your son and get away from abuse.

@Thepeggy818 3 ай бұрын

I am the Co-dependant Queen falling off her throne 👸👑

@2mckeans 7 ай бұрын

Amen about the discernment. My marriage is toxic. He is a covert narc. The Lord is showing me and teaching me. Itsvbeen awful but im learning and healing and working on seperation...careful seperation. Constant conflict,also. I love how you point to scriptures for all topics. Thx and blessings🙏

@ashleynicole9423 6 ай бұрын

Yes. Careful separation is key, unless we want to end up on the streets. Because a narc will take everything from you if they can.

@godsgotme65 6 ай бұрын

I want that free gift

@theresasutherly871 5 ай бұрын

Lack of Boundaries

@dennyfie 5 ай бұрын

@@theresasutherly871the one I just booted had zero respect for my property,feelings opinion nothing all about how she was smarter than anyone, it floored me when she told me no one was smarter then her. The most toxic experience I had ever been thru.

@WalkswithJESUS777 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much. I am learning A LOT about myself and how I can be the toxic partner. It's so easy to point the finger at your spouse and say it's ALL him. But the LORD is showing me that I have some character defaults that I need to work on. I have trauma that needs to be addressed. The LORD is so patient and so loving ❤️

@HelenLange-up1pz 7 ай бұрын

Yes, they are dishonest, and please don’t think to compete. The Lord will come to a people ready for Him.

@judicurd434 6 ай бұрын

Kris, you were an answer to my prayers. The relationship has been over for months, but I was struggling with letting go. Because of this toxic relationship (along with the death of my adult daughter 8 years ago), I have decided to be a grief coach. There are so many kinds of grief and this is one of them. Grieving for a lost relationship is a real thing.

@FankaElmaLeinyuy 6 ай бұрын

1lack of respect and love,2manupilatin and control,3 constant conflict.they don't want to learn or accept anything gaslighting

@teresaenglish4628 7 ай бұрын

Definitely the lack of respect and confusion. I didn't get it at first because he said he loved me

@kathrynwilliams5509 7 ай бұрын

What I learned from my situation is if you are losing yourself, get out! I don't remember the scripture but it says to know how you are.

@nicholecornes1915 7 ай бұрын

You HAVE to get out!

@nicholecornes1915 7 ай бұрын

Jesus loves YOU!

@crystalH30 7 ай бұрын

What about the children?

@kathrynwilliams5509 7 ай бұрын

@crystalholscher5465 they are so damaged. I don't even know how to help. All I know is I need to heal, in order to help them, there's things that they think are normal that are not because they came from such a dysfunctional household, but I have no idea what to do. it unbelievably breaks my heart! they struggle every single day!

@crystalH30 7 ай бұрын

@@kathrynwilliams5509 I’m sorry hang in there ❤️I wish I had better advice but im also still here and scared to make that decision..

@Dawn_Starrr 3 ай бұрын

Yes! The toxic person is my life holds grudges for years and the grudge will be for something that was a lie to begin with. Sad! Then, they turn around and accuse me of being unforgiving when I bring up any wrongdoing. Madness.

@nomasontomagobe2844 4 ай бұрын

Amen and Amen for the prayer, Kris.

@jeanmintz9194 7 ай бұрын

My husband has all of the traits you described in a toxic relationship.I need wisdom from God how to deal with this.🙏🙏🙏

@carolynelliott2267 7 ай бұрын

Dealing with at least 5 of the 7 in my marriage. Thank you for your teaching

@fireabriham5278 7 ай бұрын

God. Bliis. You more.❤❤❤

@deborahkearn3703 5 ай бұрын

Simple, he's gone. I regained my peace & life.

@judicurd434 6 ай бұрын

Amen and Amen! Thank you for this video. It has been a great help to me in my struggle to remove myself from these toxic wasted years of my life and gives me hope to turn them around and make them a lesson.

@user-kr8fr6gz1y 7 ай бұрын

I am beyond crushed can’t believe I am here again so angry at myself!

@johnnydiscover2838 7 ай бұрын

Me too I feel the same as you!! I am accepting and putting theses problems in Gods hands, and he is helping me a bit every day. I am becoming an even better Christian because of my misfortune. Jesus is leading me now!! 🙏❤️🙏

@Moose74491 3 ай бұрын

3rd time for me…talk about mad at yourself!! A friend told me the other day when I asked her what is wrong with me, she said, “how about instead of asking yourself THAT, you ask yourself why are you settling for people who aren’t worthy of your love.”

@michellebriggs3094 2 ай бұрын

I was married first time for 16 years to a narcissist. Then single for 16 years. Moved half way around the world, and I have found another one, but not as extreme. I’m also realizing that as a young girl my dad left when I was 5. I thought I must not be lovable. My mom married an abusive man. When I was single for the 16 years, I thought I had done my work, yes I came a long way, but I see now I still have unresolved issues. I’ve been learning to set my boundaries, learn to quiet my mouth. I need to do my part and put my heart in it’s proper place and now I silently pray to the Lord when the moments pop up and he fixes the situation. God 😊is so good and merciful to me a sinner!

@moonlightstargem1006 7 ай бұрын

You should not try to control others exactly right & do not allow others to control you. This is what she is saying. Allow there to be peace in the relationship

@shaunteljerome1908 Ай бұрын

I’m number 1 through 9! and I’m struggling to get out.😭🙏🏾 I’m now starting my walk with God and it’s hurting them more than me

@stearns55ify 6 ай бұрын

I'm only 2 examples in and I must comment on #2. I have been Isolated from family, friends and Church. Thank you for sharing God's word to shed light on the works of darkness. As I may learn later, this petson will not listen to advise. Does not think they have a problem. Constantly exposes everyone else as having the problems. Thank you, God continue to bless you & your ministry.

@loseweightwithmealplanning 7 ай бұрын

I’m tired of dealing with this over & over again. The manipulation & control & throwing things in my face from the one who gave birth to me. I think it’s better to no longer have contact even if I’m in the same house

@RoB-dp1cm 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for being so transparent! It is also important that people accept that whether a person claims to be a Christian or not, they have individual rights to refuse to have relationships with anyone they don’t want a relationship with. Manipulative, controlling people often have a problem accepting that they don’t have “authority” over anyone but themselves, and often don’t accept the other person’s “NO” regardless of how many times that person absolutely refuses to have a relationship with them. It’s so sad to experience that and observe other people do it to our friends. One thing we can do is continue to pray for those manipulative, troubled people that they will find other relationships to fill their emotional voids with. God expects people to maintain their individual sovereignty and boundaries regardless of who refuses to accept that! People will continue to leave the “church” when the “church” continues to deny the Holy Spirit indwelling of each person and uses relationships as authoritative weapons to whip people into submission of their coercive control. Thank you for all you do! You are very appreciated!

@dianesimon5937 7 ай бұрын

Have you noticed that some people who don’t want authority over them don’t let God in their hearts because they want to do whatever they want to do?

@RoB-dp1cm 7 ай бұрын

@dianesimon5937- I am not sure I understand what you mean, but I respect your viewpoint. May we all find ways to live independently, peaceably and with self-discipline, while not allowing others with ego imbalances abuse or manipulate us. May God bless you in this new year in your journey, and may God bless Mrs. Kris as she ministers!

@dianesimon5937 7 ай бұрын

@@RoB-dp1cm May God Bless you in this New Year, as well!!

@TriciaPerry-ef7bi 6 ай бұрын

@@dianesimon5937please ask God to restore my job and life back in Him not this Antichrist system I regret leaving or looking back to TV and Immorality. This was wrong and I regret this and want back i would have loved a family and church church. I hate this. Waste ...

@JodieSamanthaHarvilleBR549 Ай бұрын

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU and you are absolutely right. The prayer I cried ( still bawling) however , we prayed for Gid to lead us to the right decision but I needed to add and the courage to do so. thank you and GOD BLESS YOU ALL

@user-hh9ef7uz8m 7 ай бұрын

Exactly, I was gobsmacked when I was the wicked one for wanting to name the things that happened... shut down and I am the villain.. will you forgive me for everything leaving the truth out. Yes I forgive her, and the family of flying monkeys who enabled and now I am so Free. I'm trying to learn how to love with discernment.

@deborahbutcher9061 7 ай бұрын

You are always a blessing. Thank you!

@K_Sak123 5 ай бұрын

Hi!! This video blessed me so much. It not only helped me to understand others, however convicted me as well . Thank you for your prayer at the end. The LORD worked through you and prayed everything that is needed in my walk with Him. Thank you and God bless.

@sewingqueen5409 Ай бұрын

I found your channel yesterday. I loooooveyour watching your teachings! Because you back up what you teach with the powerful word of God. Thank you for what you do. ❤

@ItsmeColie22 7 ай бұрын

Your prayers are always so powerful. You are appreciated

@jasmijnkribbe7867 7 ай бұрын

All you're saying resonates with me. The confushion, mindgames. Your video is so helpful to me. Thank you 🙏.

@marshaevans3850 2 ай бұрын

I am so happy that I found you. What a blessing you are! I am taking notes. And looking forward to learning more and applying them to my life. ❤

@shelleygebhardt3609 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for having the courage to teach as you do. I grew up in the church with everything always being okay...its nice to learn that not everything is okay....

@user-bi1xp5yo5i 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for saying this! Love and respect are a must in a relationship! ❤

@ritafrankel7420 7 ай бұрын

Trust to is a big One.

@johnnydiscover2838 7 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏!! Kris, I love it when you go down those rabbit trails, things are more easily understood. God bless you Kris for your wonderful works!!❤️🙏

@AnitaRaynor 2 ай бұрын

I appreciate you! I really needed this today! My heart was broken and I needed to hear the word of encouragement!!! ❤

@aupadua256 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for the wisdom and prayer. Am still in this fight.

@abigaildorko7736 7 ай бұрын

From point one, it hit home. I'm dealing with my mother right now. I have a wonderful father whos counseling me and who is such a life giving comfort. But getting an external input and how i can do better and also check myself is such a big help. Thank you for making these videos❤

@angelykasuico8484 7 ай бұрын

This is so important and difficult... Thank you Kris Reece. God bless every one.

@amaspa8334 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this message! ❤ I will definitely use it with my clients as well as myself!! ❤

@cherylnathanodette 5 ай бұрын

Sending out love and support for anyone struggling, what a lovely thought that the good lord will assist, but look after yourselves. Great video

@lottidabodi 7 ай бұрын

This was soo enlightening, thank you Kris!

@micheles8796 4 ай бұрын

Discernment IS key. The confusion is the most difficult part. Thats exactly how I felt the entire relationship, what he said kind of made sense but didn’t resonate and I was gaslight and manipulated so much I just believed what he said, past trauma, especially unhealed past trauma, really makes it difficult to have healthy relationships. Seek Jesus and heal FIRST!

@mariatyler2742 5 ай бұрын

That first question though! This has been so helpful. I am thanking God for you today Kris ❤

@steventaylor7716 Ай бұрын

God bless you and the time you have given us all. Narcissism is a clinical term for evil. We all have it, but we are to overcome. ❤

@n23391 7 ай бұрын

Got so many prayer points from this. Get the scriptures she spoke on and pray them day and night . This the case where somethings only come out by fasting and praying !!!!

@rhondarundle9979 7 ай бұрын

Thank you. I have 2 family members that are toxic and I need your help. I thought I was crazy, but now I know it's a toxic situation I need to address. You've been a huge help, I care thank you enough. God bless you

@angelalaurel5622 8 күн бұрын

I'm leaving a domestic violent narcissistic marriage. I became reactive abusive, and that was the last straw He does NOT forgive and uses it against me Blame shifts, victim blames, along with Control and manipulative NO conflict resolution or compromise Thank you Blessings

@dorethamack6393 4 ай бұрын

This was so helpful. I hate that you have to not say things because of judgment. When you know, you know, and sometimes there is no easy way but to walk away. Facts

@therightside9237 7 ай бұрын

TYVM this helps with self evaluation on situations and people that seem to take your kindness for weakness!

@loischan8551 7 ай бұрын

Amen. The Truth shall set us free 🕊️ God bless you Kris 💖

@jodipitts6921 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video! It's a huge help for me!

@paulchandychazhoorchandy6074 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for your profound teaching Apostle Kriss Reese. May the glittering light of Heaven surround you well forever, may the spirit of Heaven empower you forever for the transformation of this deviated world .. prayers , Hallelujah Amen.

@deborahkennedy6660 7 ай бұрын

Iam definitely dealing with these traits and patterns in my marriage.

@penny459 7 ай бұрын

Kris that was excellent. You are very anointed, talented and such an insightful person . Your ministry is a blessing. I have two narcissistic adult daughters that are such a challenge in my life, particularly the eldest. Your ministry has insight into so much that I deal with. All I can say is thank you.