Wow! Last night I cried to the Lord because though I have used my single season for His glory, lately it’s been hard because I have a strong desire to be married. I cried out to the Lord late last night and He whispered to me, “Daughter, let Me write your Love story”. This is so much confirmation. Thank you for posting this.

When they leave I do not want my value to leave with them...Nice..

If it ain’t Kingdom, I don’t want it ❤️

When it flows, it's God. When it's forced, it's you.

When it flows, it's GOD..When it's forced, it's you! Amen!! 🙌🏾❣

"You're not as sound when you're intoxicated with sexual sin"

If it ain’t kingdom I don’t want it! 🖐🏾👋🏾Yes!!

"What you tryin to build? A solar system?" 😂😂!!! Now let me finish watching the rest of the video 😂

lol not the solar system 😂😂😂 but it’s true when it’s kingdom it just flows natural. I stop what I was watching for this video

A year later & this message is still on time 🙌🏿. Like NO girl! He wasn't the one then & God still showing he's not the one now. Even when he comes back after time has passed God is still revealing the red flags.

"Flow without a force"

"Bipolar certainty" I don't know how you guys come up with these things. 😂😂😂😂

I love you guys so much!! I'm only 17 years old and I'm learning a lot. God bless y'all.

It’s a different kind of pain when you have that “I trust You, Lord.” Kind of pain. 🔥 Yes, it hurts if that person you love maybe isn’t on the same page as you, but when your heart wants the Lord’s will more than your own, you already know this too, shall pass! I love you guys. Thank you for doing what you do for the kingdom of our God!!

Also, I think it’s important to be the person of God that we want our future spouse to be. A lot of relationships fail because our hypercritical and hypocritical society has built a mindset that does not extend grace to others. Even a KINGDOM relationship will not be perfect and it’s important to recognize the difference between a deal breaker and a personal flaw. And also to realize, when you’re checking someone off your list, are YOU the woman/man of God that you require? Food for thought.

I was Blind for 8 years now am Free Thank God he woke me up it Hurt still healing but I no God is in this one and he have something Good for me and my children

Wow 🙂love this. Nothing is forced in the relationship between me and my boyfriend. It always flows. He respects my boundary of waiting until marriage.He prays over me and he prayed for my dad who's sick and I won't be broken and devastated if things don't work out.

Thank you for this video. This current person just didn't make sense, but since day 1 I been praying and fasting asking God if it's his will. somethings didn't make sense, didn't match up with what I thought I was "suppose" to be with verses who he really is, , but we are still talking. He is still here. And I'm learning not to be judgmental. Nobody is perfect. But he has a beautiful quality of humbleness, provider, and has faith. So I'm learning to accept God's will isn't always my will. So I'm still praying, and we are still seeing each other. 🙏

I just love the way you two break things down so we can fully understand the principles that you are teaching us. Thank you so much. Amen

Great one...and that last point was my fav. When you're hurt by the breakup but still fine with them being gone, because you know it wasnt God. That right there...peace! I love these last few videos...the background, flow of the conversation, the topics including your story...its prefect yall 👌🏽. Keep em coming! Lord, continue to give them more ideas, fresh perspectives, creative ways to relate to your people and help us to redefine relationships righteously...in Jesus name, Amen. ❤

Seek Gods will early daily.💕Love Him with all your heart and strength, learn His word and help others.💕 Revelation 19:7

"what are you building a solar system?" Lol. This is great. I said just yesterday because I feel like all these secular folks get these wonderful love stories. I guess it was the Father stepping in.

Bruh said “ what you tryna build a solar system?” 😂Awesome word!✊🏾🙏🏽💯

Your wife is so pretty! 😍 I love her hair! You are amazing pastors! You've been helping me so much in my walk. God bless you and your family!

"What you tryna build? A Solar System?" LMBO😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣

Bipolar certainty this used to be meeeee😩

Thank you I needed this!🙏🏽 Her curls are poppin too 😍

It’s the “I was praying for you” for me 🙌🏽

That's good, 'continual fruit production.....'

"What you tryna build a solar system?" I agree. It's so much better to wait for God's will!!!

Thank you you two! Now I know that I know I haven't met a kingdom man yet. Thank you Lord!

Amen. I so want to help kick the devil's booty okay and I would never be devastated over any kind of a breakup period. For the fact of the matter I buried my precious precious son 8 years ago. And believe me if I can live without my baby I can live without any human. But sometimes God has other plans! And anything I do in my life is to glorify and praise God. I would not be here today if it was not for him and his Relentless love for me amen. God bless you guys and your family

Very Beautiful Wife ✨ God blessed you greatly.✨

Getting fed early this morning, thanks yall! I'm patiently waiting for my kingdom man and making sure I'm ready and spiritually good. 💜

You know what I enjoy about these videos, it's the thought of how much fun y'all have discussing and coming up with terms like "bipolar certainty" 😂😂😂😂. Seriously. God bless you more.

I’m believing God and God only for my love story. #ordained #GodItrustyou #Kingdom

You are both such a blessing! God is doing something right now that doesn’t make sense in the natural but he keeps telling me. “Allow me to write your love story”. So my prayer now is, God, not my will but your will be done!!!

When it's God appointed, it flows, it's natural not forced!

Pastor Jerry and Lady Tanisha-you two are the bomb in the Holy Ghost! This was the best of all the videos I’ve seen of you all! This is timely because I just met someone recently, and I am hearing God concerning wisdom for our relationship. It’s about the Kingdom-not about us! Keep doing what you do-you two are blessing a lot of people!

Wow this is so true. When it don't make sense it's God.Because that's when he gets the glory.

My Kindgom woman and I have such a story, only the hand of God could have written. So blessed to have her. Even though she lives 3.5 hours away, still Kingdom strong. Love this video! Sharing it! Keep pushing the kingdom.

ON POINT!! Thank you, God used this to help heal + encourage my heart + spirit in Him❤️ Praise❤️

The pieces not making sense.. until it did... Yes. That part! It's Having the faith to believe when it doesn't make sense!

Thank God for you (both as 1) A lot of destinies tied to this. God bless you for taking the call and following through. I learn ALL THE TIME from this channel. This video I must share

I wanna share my story on how I knew my man was the one because honestly I just never understood that love really happens when you least expect it and when you're finally on your path and I want to help others learn the things I wish I could go back in time to teach myself lol. So, back when I was 18 I just felt so empty. Like I literally lived the life of a 30 year old by 18 cause I was able to do whatever I wanted cause my parents never disciplined me. I hated everything about myself tbh and I have been overweight my whole life so at that point of time I wanted to change myself when I graduated high school and start taking God serious cause I went to private school from a child to 16, but I hated it cause catholics don't really follow the bible so I begged to switch schools and I just came to the realization that everyone lives the life they want vs doing what's right and it just drove me crazy how we live in a world where the bad is considered good in societys eyes but yet good is considered bad. I'd like to go more in depth but I'd rather make a video if anyone's interested. But anyways yeah when I graduated high school I wanted to take my walk with God serious cause nothing else in life gave me geniune satisfaction. I just felt like a soul in an empty shell so when I started to follow God it started to change my life. I started eating healthier, worked out, and even started working at a gym to put myself in a positive environment when I attended my freshman year of college. So low and behold there was this guy at the gym I liked but we never talked besides the casual 'hi welcome to planet fitness' when he would scan his key card and he'd give me a little sup nod. It was funny cause I'd purposely walk to the bathroom to try and sneak a peak at his workouts. Then about six months go by and he finally decided to come up and talk to me. He got my number and we texted for a week and met the following weekend. I liked him but I have been played one too many times in my life so I didn't really want to entertain too much. I saw him as either a potential boyfriend or just a gym partner to workout with after work. But from my past I realized that I'm not going to put in effort unless if I see him make the first move. Soon enough he always wanted to chill with me but I blew him off on his birthday because I thought he was just like any other guy, just tryna smash some cheeks on their bday. Then that week he just seemed really upset and he told me that he just wanted to spend time with me he wasn't in my life just for that. then the next week he decided to make me his official girlfriend to prove me that. Now I'll be real we do have our arguments, but I knew he was the one for me because he was the only person in my life to ever fully defend me and not leave. I've had people speak up for me on my behalf, but I never really had someone that would fight for me. I had an ex run into him at the bar and the boul was mad and stabbed my boyfriend. My boyfriend took the knife out and knocked him smooth tf out. In fact, it's not the first time someone's tried to come at him for me. And he's knocked every person out that's tried him. But life is more about that. He teaches me things and put me on more game than anyone ever has in their life. He is the only person that has came into my life and never lied nor cheated on me. I have never met a man who is about their word like him, and he is the only person I ever met that doesn't switch up their personality depending on who their with. He is the thurlest man I've ever met because he's the soul definition of what these wannabe rappers want to be like. He always keeps it real whether if it hurts me or not because my favorite quote from him is that 'the truth hurts, lies heal' and that has set me free to be the woman I always wanted to be. It's crazy cause all throughout my life I always prayed to find a man with these qualities. I used to ask God when I meet him show me how he's the one. I know my boyfriend tells me that he wished he met me sooner, but when we talk about our lives we now understand why God made us wait this long. God designed this relationship perfectly and I'll tell you why. God always had us in the same area. Like all throughout our lives we apparently went to neighboring schools, chilled with the same people, shit we even talked about being at the same parties, but for some reason we NEVER met nor knew shit about each other until I started working at the gym. We both had the same background. We were both only childs, had family problems, both fat ass kids and that's why we both started going to the gym, etc. We even talk about tv shows that I could never talk to anyone else about like how we like anime and marvel. And when anyone sees how we interact in person we are literally one in the same. We talk, laugh and dress alike. I can't believe that I get to live the life I used to fantacize about my whole life until I started following God and made it happen. Now if that don't motivate y'all to get right on your path, idk what will.

I love this video and the comments are FIRE!!! Praise God!!!

Right. On. TIME.

I’ve been trying to date since my last relationship 2 years ago and every guy that has came along has fizzled out before it even could began. I recently just chalked it up to me just being single in this lifetime but the desire to be married is still there. God recently spoke to me while I was taking a shower and told me “daughter, I am not going to allow them to play with your heart in this season” and ever since then I have been at peace. Thank you GOD🙏🏾🙏🏾

Needed this! Kingdom marriage is not about me but to bring God glory! Thank you 🙏🏾

I almost started not to click on this video just because I feel so overwhelmed with the waiting process. But of course the words of wisdom and the upbuilding of the Kingdom is so awesome through ReDefineTV, I truly appreciate it. I hope that whomever God is going to bless me with and bless with me is also benefitting from your ministry🙏🏾

REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF GOD IS AT HAND !!!!!!!!

Just seeing & hearing how happy you both are is a blessing to me..And your healthy tips are spot on!Thank you for imbuing Christian love!👍🙏😁

Pastor Jerry if y’all ever read this comment please pray that when my tome come I have a Kingdom relationship too please. Man you guys are the bomb 💣. Man always so much wisdom man. Such a blessing Bruh! 🤣🤣🤣 “what you tryna build, a solar system” I died bruh hahaha...

Bruh! She slayed it from the beginning when she said feelings and spiritual unctions. Wow! So good

I’m just happy to know I’m in the right place. The fact that I’m like, “God, if it ain’t you, then I don’t want it.” I don’t understand why God is doing what He’s doing, but I trust Him, so here I am, waiting on God to bless me with the life, the career, the marriage, all of that, that He wants me to have. Thank y’all for making this video to give me further confirmation.

How bless you both TREMENDOUSLY!! I pray that the wisdom that you both teach & share grows me in Christ and brings me closer to my Real of Influence and bring me & my Kingdom spouse Closer in Jesus name ❤️

Lord knows I needed to hear this! My last relationship was not kingdom, my ex was falling away from the faith. Sometimes there was fruit, sometimes there was not. I left and I'm somewhere in between feeling completely devastated but also having peace knowing that's not what God wants for me. Messages like this help me have more peace about God's plan. Thank you!

ayeeeeeee this was soul food this was some good stuff guys i love you keep allowing God to use you all don't ever change....

“It’s one thing to pray over your food, but to have someone pray over your life” That was so deep! Gives me chills. Beautiful video. Thank you for this content. God bless you both!

I definitely suffered with Bipolar certainty 😩

That is so beautiful, Thank you Jesus for this example of God’s Love ❤️

Good info I think it was bipolar certainty with my last relationship I thought he was the one God had for me we prayed n fasted together but it was like 1 min we worked one min we're not talking it was a long distance relationship and I was older than him as well but I will continue to trust God for my supernatural marriage 🙇🏽‍♀️💍

😭😭😭I'm speechless. God is speaking DIRECTLY TO ME &MY SITUATION RIGHT NOW😭😭😭 ican't believe this.🙌🏽 Iwas just in prayer about this very thing this morning - and God is totally using u guys right now to speak to me. ...just Amazing. He's so faithful 😭🙏Bless you guys!

If it's not Kingdom, I don't want it. I just want Gods will for my life! God, I trust You.

This is what I am talking about. God is AWESOME!!!!. Looking forward to sharing my testimony how God caused me and my spiritual mate to meet☺️.

I literally have no words for this accuracy 100%❤️

Gorgeous couple❣️💜❣️

Wow i asked God of this, then you video came in thank you And Thanks to the Lord for answering me I now know it's his will 😊🙏

I trust You pain. 😭❤️

Continuous Fruit Production! YES!!

WOW. Ah, this is definitely an on God situation. Because the message that he released on today was speaking about the spirit of fear or what have you.

You guys Rock! I am so Blessed in my walk with Christ even the more after viewing you all for over two years now. I am single, yet content where I am in this season. God has given me grace to be patience in the wait for His timing. I am still learning and growing. Be Blessed and keep teaching truth.

Grateful for you guys! I’ve been watching for 2 years and you guys constantly feed my Spirit and are often confirmation to what God has already spoken to me. Please continue to stay strong in the Word! You may not have millions of views (yet!) but the information is so impactful and true and you are changing lives!

The spiritual wisdom. Thank God.

I'm trusting God for my Love story

I feel so blessed to have found you guys, I’m currently dealing with breaking soul ties that I created for myself these past years and your videos have been helping immensely. A current ex and I have been trying to get together but God is giving me a big nope lol. And it’s true when we truly trust God even though it hurts the pain does feel different. Anyways thank you guys again.

Y’all are tapping into something new ! These new videos are 🔥🔥🔥

I'm waiting on the Lord for this kind of chemistry, pastor pray for me that I don't get impatient, lose focus and move from my place of blessing

Whew This was so good Very Helpful. Continuous consistency with fruit production! Yes A praying man and a praying woman! Heavy kingdomness But dude the solar system got me 💥🌌🌏 ha!

thank you for your blessings Lord

Beautiful! I pray God sends me my KINGDOM man.

This was such an explicit & clear explanation. Helps tremendously. God bless you both!

You’re older? Girl you look good and I’ve been watching your videos for a bit and o never would have guessed. You compliment each other well and I see that balance and that submission but you strong too. You submit to each other and that’s what I believe God for. Age isn’t important but trusting in the Lord and loving each other God’s way is. 😇😇😇

Nice! WoW! What beauty God has brought together. Both of you are more beautiful together than separate and God wanted to glorify Himself by bringing you two together. Nice. I like this brother. You're pretty mature. She's blessed to have you brother. I hope to see more of you guys and the wisdom both of you can share with us. God bless your ministry. This video was a very good one.

"What'chu tryna build - a solar system?!" I'm done😂😂😂

Bipolar certainly this one is common in many relationships and people misunderstood it with real relationship saying " if it comes back mean it was real" but as for me, I always say if it was real it couldn't end. Period🙅 . in real relationship partners will always have that fear of losing the each other bcz they know he or she is the right one. And right people r rare. They will fight always to be together. Love you guys😍

Loved how you both complement one another when speaking on relationships. You all just flow, keep dropping these wisdom of nuggets. Blessings!!

This is so encouraging and clarifying, thank you! God bless you 🙏❤️‍🔥

This is so good. Working for God together is major. I served in one church and hubby was in another while we were getting to know each other. Flow vs force is real, too. May God continue to bless this ministry and the Kingdom families that will be stronger for it! Thank you!

This makes so much sense. Thank you again for pulling out another one. Doing great in my singleness, working on me, but getting ready for my Boaz.

Come on, Amen definitely needed to hear this right on time.

This is one of the best videos you both have made together. Its loving, warm, friendly and you both seem like your operating as one. Almost as if you were intimate in love, prayer and worship before you made it. Spiritually, The vibe was connecting hard and the wifey is growing. Maybe it's cuz she spoke more than usual and he supported her growth and shining; lovingly agreed. Its powerful to know that you are a covering, but you lift your wife up to be all she can be.....Dont know, but keep this up lovely people!!!!! I felt like I was hearing from my best friends who love and like each other very much and love and like me too!

Love that eyeshadow on you...beautiful. Amen to the word!!

Whewwww. This the ONE. Continual fruit production is exactly what I’ve been experiencing since this MOG has been in my life!! I was healed from Ulcerative Colitis and much more. Single sisters, let the Lord have His way!!!

Wow! My goodness God knows how to grab our attention. This video is a confirmation of what God already told me through His word! (Matthew 6:33)

LMBO they on point bout that bipolar stuff😭🤣🤣🤣

Amen, thank you. I totally needed this!

I needed this.. oh Lord thank you😭🙏

This definitely fed my soul. Thank you. I needed this.

This is so GOOD!!! God is always speaking what I need to hear when I press play on your channel!