I agree with you! I think the judge was overcome with emotion regarding two sisters not talking to each other. It's a soft spot for her... There's a reason why that other twin left home, and the reason is that other twin!

Look at the sisters face at 4:31. She definitely.looks like an evil little bully.

The judge did suggest the sister has an anger problem

Yes!

This comment is very interesting! Good point

Very much and everyone ripping Judge M up in the comments do not seem to understand what we plainly see. Do I think the sister is a hothead e s?Who I think she was trying to help her sister get out of abusive situation, absolutely!!!

I agree. I think he found out the sister was going and decided to go

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I agree ☝🏾

I agree ☝🏾

That part ⬆️

THIS! Took the words right out of my mouth.

I agree 10000% percent

Agree!!!

They are 22. Grown women. They obviously have a mental disability. Mother can't afford rent without 2 adult children. That parental authority left the building years ago.

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Definitely some self esteem issues!

The 'boyfriend ' isn't good for anyone. Seems like a run of the mill loser

And the family is even more dangerous!!! BF isn't the one who messed up this family. But he doesn't help.

Her family isn't good for her stop blaming him when her family is the problem

EXACTLY! When the twin was controlling her, everything was all good. Then she got a BF and he started controlling her. The twin lost her control, so she started beating her up. The twin even admits her sister is very easy to manipulate/control.

He looks like he was living in his mom's house until he found some desperate girl to put up with him. Mommy made me do it is not a defense...And he knows that he does not get billed from the VA. I have been going for years and not one bill...And if he was going for back pain it would be considered service related unless he told them a girl beat him up...

What defense? You mean e explanation?

​​@@yung1717It's both. When the judge berated his quadrupled amount, he defended himself saying that his mom told him to. It's both an explanation and a defense.

@@yung1717I mean what I said: he's defending his lawsuit amount by saying he listened to his mommy like a good boy.

Especially when he knew that he would not be receiving a bill from the VA. I have a hard time believing that he was actually in any form of the military, but if he was, then he isn't paying a dime for his medical care. He just wanted to get a couple thousand out of the defendant, and it didn't work. He strikes me as the kind of person who is quite comfortable sitting at home with his ass on the couch while she works and waits on him hand and foot. She looks very scared of him and afraid to say the wrong thing in front of him. Her father needs to step up and be a father and get that girl away from him. Yes, I do know the signs, I've been where she is numerous times, and unless she gets help, she'll never leave him. At least not alive.

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He is in heaven now. ❤

Sending you love❤

There is way more that need intervention. This is the second set of twins on the show in a month. Very sad family dynamics🙏🙏🙏

Yes she has, it is another episode (newer) with other twins

@@rubylimey7614 Ohh that's right I remember that other set of twins that were on last month. That was also a sad case.

That's what I was thinking. He's controlling and distrusting of her. I was with a guy EXACTLY like him. I do believe the sisters had squabbles growing up, alot of siblings do. He slowly isolated her...first with friends, then with family. They see it and just want their family member back. She will see it one day. It's very sad. She looks miserable.

@PHOENIX1699 he's her boyfriend not her husband.apparently you wasn't paying attention

@@marys4565 Exactly. The girlfriend was crying the whole time, barely able to speak and the whole time, he's just smirking and smiling. It sounded like the trouble started when he came into the picture and she sided with him even as her family was saying he's causing it. It's wild that so many comments are saying he's innocent and the judge didn't even listen when...nothing he said ever made sense. Why'd he not mention the fight to his doctor? If you tell your doc your neck hurts and it's after chugging water upside down on a dare, that might not be the reason but it'd still be "Patient complains of neck pain after drinking copious amounts of water while updside down". Why say he never asked them for $900 to replace the phone when they have a piece of paper with his handwriting on it demanding $900? Really hope this was the wake up call and she's seeing someone better.

@@margaretakins6829 and probably Sis and dad also

a lot left out. she is 21 or 22 and still living there, she did not move out.

Yes! This drives me absolutely insane. The majority of abuse happens at the hands of a family member. I don't care that we're related, I'd never make attempts to reconnect with my abuser.

Exactly! The judge thinks after 30min talking to people….she knows everything!🤷‍♀️

@@lone.faerieExactly! The judge is a busybody (know it all)

She also studied psychology and it's for entertainment value...

i cant fault her for trying. both sisters immediately start weeping before they can get a word out. clearly they are both hurting

“Glossing over,” not “flossing over.”

@@CrystallyLavender it was a typo. Eat my entire ass.

She didn't, the sister was explaining what every siblings go through, we all have a scrap now and then. The BF is the issue, again, dude turned up to pickup his girlfriend and his girlfriend has a car( youissed that that part) The family went to try to talk to her without the controlling BF, but he got wind and showed up. F ing hell man, listen and comprehend.

If course you would, you're a woman. Bet you're single too.

Exactly...the boyfriend is adding fuel to the fire

So is her sister

They create the fire on which to put the fuel on.

The boyfriend and the sister are vying for control. Both are controlling bullies

That's what it was giving to me. Seems like the defendant is also very controlling of her sister and she's just mad she doesn't want to deal with her anymore.

@@Daydream355agree!

Nothing was clear in this case.

The plaintiff presented himself more in line with a controlling and abusive scenario more than the twin sister presented as a threat. She is young and seems to lack the ability to address her concerns in a healthy way but ultimately the boyfriend is the bigger problem. Sisters could work this out in family therapy whereas the boyfriend only keeps them separated. What he says and his actions do not align.

@@eyeamtheweirdo absolutely not. An abusive sister is just as much of a threat as an abusive boyfriend. You don’t get to hurt people under the excuse of being “young and misguided on how to express your emotions”. You learn to express yourself

So how much did you charge him for yours?

@@broeheemed32 Free

I like the second one better. If I am not happy my wife isn't happy either.

That saying is crazy to me. The wife could be abusive but happy wife happy life 😂😂😂😂

Nailed it 🎯

lol..... spouse and wife same thing . its truth

@@jeepsishumate2021 so the husband is not the SPOUSE of a wife? Nah, not the same thing. They both have to be happy, not just the wife.

So is the sister

Yep blame the boyfriend not the father for having a violent daughter who antagonized the meek daughter

Dr Phil is a jerk and no good

So a significant other can’t protect the physical and mental being of their significant other from toxic behavior from a family member is what u r saying

@@delonjuan what i am saying is that is where they came from and raised by so doubt their mental health is at stake since they grew up that way but if you truly love someone you also love the people that they love and that gave them life and raised them into the person you fell in love with it is cray to think you wouldn’t like the people that made and raised your love one they are all really parts of each other

@@fashionforwardmom but if someone is causing pain in ur loved one as a man it is our duty and privilege to protect ours from hurt or pain my wife will protect me from my abusive mother and I will protect her from her mentally abusive cousin plaintiff and simple my mother raised me but she is insane my wife cousin is the closest to a brother she has but he is vindictive

@@fashionforwardmom also their is a reason those sisters hasn’t seen each other in a year

@@delonjuan the apple doesn't fall far from the tree so if you are calling your mom insane maybe speak to her and see where she is coming from just because you disagree doesn't mean she is insane , cousins are a totally different topic. Taking people away from their family and friends is part of grooming and control. If everyone would get along and mingle the families and respect where they came from the world would be a greater place and the children would feel the family values that is missing in so many families because of stubbornness and the lack of life experiences that they disagree with their elders but once they lived a little they always look back and regret the way they did them and controlling relationships never work out long term

Same, moved myself, husband and then 5 year old 800 miles away to get away from toxic birthed and siblings. Hope it did well for you. Did for us

Agreed. She's always trying to develop this happy family complex and sometime that doesn't work. It's okay for families to need space or not work out.

Right. Violence is violence, family or not. Family can be just as unsafe as strangers. Obviously, the boyfriend was right to ask why the sister was there.

I think he was trying to cash in on a bad situation. He certainly did not help the situation.

@@minhduong1484 he definitely was tryna take advantage but she was making it seem like he was getting in between the sisters

There is no reason to get physically involved when it comes to two women. He should have just called the cops and allowed the dad to get in the mix and separate HIS daughters. This boyfriend was clearly controlling, and I bet they eventually broke up once his girlfriend came to her senses.

Exactly..

he should have at least gotten his phone and shirt...judge didn't like him because he was fat...but he must be a veteran, so he isn't a total loser...also his misfortune to step into an already toxic family

Why should she listen to the father who allowed this behavior. He is one of the problems these two sisters have.

We know why the family went to her job. Why was he there at all? She had her own car that she drove to work in. Sounds like he's controlling. He saw an immature and vulnerable woman.

​@@trekgirl65They are 22 years old. They sound 12.

Exactly this, and the judge took the bait tears and got all emotional.. LOL.

He was protecting his woman from her violent sister who has been violent in the past and he knows it his woman is the meek twin her sister is the violent twin and their dad is a wimp he needs to get a “ backbone “

She wasn't being abused by her sister they got into fights because of that dumb cowardly boyfriend of her

Exactly!!! Judge is a man hater!

Gee wow sisters fighting ..I know never heard it before

My sister's husband did everything he could to destroy our family. after dealing with the toxic guy, with my sister always supporting him, I finally walked from them. now 26 years later he finally died.. now my sister is left with no one, no family and no friends.. her own children have not had contact with my sister and her husband for 25 years. One guy did so much damage.

@@barbaraness4507 nah sometimes a good partner will let come between you and a toxic family. All families aren’t worth keeping

Had to separate myself from my family. You can love someone but if they are a threat in any way you have to stay away.

@@jennifer_mertens thank you. Sometimes families are toxic without any outside interference and as you stated the girl moved twice to get out of that toxic environment.

😢 here too

JM should take lessons from Judge Judy when it comes to controlling emotions.

Very inappropriate

​@@PaulaCosta-wj7zcAnger is an emotion.

​@@JaiB-xr9flLoL exactly. I love Judge Judy but she's very emotional

He didn't say pull her off his back did he? I thought he said he pulled her off the scrum.

@@stephenbivin1968Watch from 9:29.

So the fact before plaintiff twin moved out she said the defendant twin was verbally and physically abusive towards her countless times

With a sister that's been violent for years? Nope. Only if sister would get intense anger management & daddy parenting classes. She couldn't stay at Daddy's cause sister would come & beat her there. Only grandma & bf prevents bully sister from beating meek sister.

A sister that beats you frequently & a daddy that won't help you or stand up for you? The bf stood up for his girl. Respect for that. Grandma & bf are only ones standing up for gf.