If he will cheat with you ....he will cheat on you...please believe that !!!!

It’s not your job to teach a man how to be a man. Nor is it your job to teach a man how to treat you. A man knows how to treat a woman he really wants.

This man doesn't have red flags. He IS A RED FLAG himself. Run sis.

Please don’t retire! I’m 23 and I’ve learned SO much from you. I’ve made sense of my past & set standards for the future. Thank you so much for what you do! It’s not in vain, at least not to me

"Don't let your desperation be so loud that you can't hear common sense" -TG

No Tony, I'm Mexican and we all understand what you are saying. It's simply women who are desperate, and think I'm going to be the one who will change him, nope!! it's not going to happen. Ladies know your worth. Perioddd!!

Ladies as a collective can we please get it together before Tony stop giving relationship advice. We’re stressing him out!😩

I'm a white woman. I sincerely just love watching you. Your love for God, sense of humor and love for your wife is what brings me back to your videos! Divorced, single mommy of 3.

When someone shows you who they are....believe them!

LORD PLSE KEEP ME FROM BEING DESPERATE. DESPERATION BRINGS A LOT OF ISSUES. TONY STAY HEAVENLY BLESSED.

I can't imagine how Uncle Tony's feeling right now. Most of us listen to his lessons back to back, and still do the craziest things. 😭 😭 It's really sad.

“You cannot let you desperation be so loud that you can’t hear common sense.” TG

Us women hear men opening up about a messy past with an ex and we become naive and think "awe he trust us to open up( usually about something we should run from) and men dont normally open up based on society so we feel special. we also think we are the exception because he "trust us with sensitive information" Once we feel "trusted" with what WE BELIEVE is sensitive information we become the ride or die/ prove I'm wifey type because we mentally promoted our self in HIS EYES without TRUE validation. This is how women stay with men who admit foolishness.

Brother PLEASE don’t retire!!! Some of us are really listening and learning. Your work is NOT in vain! Keep Blessing & Be Blessed! 🙏🏽❤️

I listen. I got my headphone purse recently and left after 8 months instead of being dragged for years. In the future, I’ll be shortening the dating process by acting appropriately when 🚩 🚩 are displayed.

It's sad 😔 to see some of us women will see all the red flags but still choose to stay in the name of "love" but it's really in the name of "desperation"! I hope 🙏🏾 she hires a life coach to give her the tools she needs to Never been in a situation like this again.

It appears having a husband defines her, which is why she was married three times and was considering him to be the fourth husband despite the fact he admitted to all of his bad behavior. I hope she finds her self worth and the strength to walk away for good.

Mr Gaskins, I really appreciate what you said at the beginning regarding 'the procedure' and how you can't speak too much on it because you yourself are not a woman, and you do not understand or share the same anatomy or psychology as women. I wish more men could be as respectful and empathetic as you ☺️

I learned that don't let no man tell u twice he don't want you..

“He got more issues than Vogue.” - TG

He’s calling you another woman’s name?! That man knows exactly what he’s doing.

I would've ghosted this guy when he said he cheated on wife with many of his clients but I wouldn't be even talking to a married man tho Love your videos Tony! You're helping me and so many others. Please don't stop ❤🙏🏾

TG - "Yall want me to be wasting my breath AND not being to able to feed my family too?! I am going to double the ads..." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂...Great video TG! Desperation is indeed us women's enemy #1. Just give us the grace dear Lord Jesus.

She needs to run, but to be honest, she set herself up for all of that nonsense. Self-love, coaching, therapy, and prayer will help her move on from this. Thank you Tony and be blessed everyone. Ready to get the lesson.

My husband and I love your videos and we thank God for you and your wife. This world needs this sooo bad.

He is a man that lacks integrity, character & respect. I don’t even think he loves himself. How he gonna love you?!!! Run sis! 🏃🏾‍♀️ he’s 🚮🚮🚮🚮 he has more than 3 strikes.

Preaching...don't quit on us Tony.

Why is she trying to teach this 51y.o man to be a man? Run 🏃🏾‍♀️ sis.

Tony please don’t quit we are going to start listening to you I promise lol!!!😩😩😩🤣🤣🤣🤣

In a world where we want everything fast and in an instant, many people disregard patience ✨

“Oh yeah that’s me typing” I love Tony 🤣🤣🤣 just hilarious

If this woman ever see's the comment, understand this: the wounds you have not healed will attract a man with the same exact wounds. Please heal!

Tony you have me HOLLERING!!!! I don't think folks are watching all of your videos.... When you learn better you gotta do better. Knowledge is a call for change. Knowledge means reaching a higher level of consciousness. Once you go up, you can't function in the lower frequency comfortably.

I think most people know the answer to their own questions but it’s very reassuring to have a man give us confirmation. I for one made many mistakes but I knew deep down I was wrong and accepted a lot of behavior that would not reap good results. I wish I would have found Tony early in life but I’m glad I did nonetheless.

Yay! I was just rewatching 99% of women.... that is my all time favorite vid!🙌🏾🙏🏾

Lord, help us women!

Wait for a man who is single and healed, ladies. Stay single and heal, ladies.

TONY HE ALREADY KNOW .. HE DON'T WANT NONE OF TONY GASKINS 🤗🤗

I read somewhere that for a woman to be truly happy..she must avoid men.I wasn’t sure at first now I’m a believer

I saw red flags within the first few sentences 😔

Got to go starter kit 😂 Gatorade Bottle, Lint Roller , Starbucks Coffee and Phone Accessories.

I cannot sleep because I'm trying to find the best way to Propose my Wife-to-be! When I read this title I missed the "#4" ! Thank you for your wisdom !

Tony believe it or not, you have inspired me to take typing classes online. You are gifted in many ways. God bless you and thank you for the great video❤️❤️

He Got More Issues than VOGUE! 🤷‍♀️🤣

Nooooo! Don't retire please lol. I'll take the ads and soak up any knowledge you're giving. Folgers please send Tony a check ✔

Tony is like Jeremiah, wanna quit but it's like fire in his bones! We appreciate you! Please let the Lord fill you back up so you can come preach again. Some of us are not only hearing you but LISTENING AND IMPLEMENTING! Your breath is not in vain!

Ought to be: “My legs closed until marriage. Point blank periodt.” TG

This email really got under his skin. You can tell Mr Gaskins is called to do this ministry. Please don’t retire Tony! We need YOU! I am part of the blessed tribe. I watch, listen and learn from ALL your videos. I am LIVING your teachings! And it’s changed my life for the better! I can NEVER go back to how I used to be. Watch this video three times ladies!

It's one thing to listen to Tony, but it's needed to actually apply the knowledge he teaches 💯

This man has been wrong for too long! . I think she’s hoping she will be the catalyst for his change. Sis, get your purse.. you got to go for the fourth time! Geot to go!!! 🙌🙏🏻🏃🏻‍♀️

😂😂😂😂😭😭😭Tony please don't quit....we gone do better !!!

😆🤣🤣🤣 Folgers send me a check 🤣🤣🤣

I learned a lot the hard way and wish I found you sooner also. I am still learning and keep watching 👏🏼👏🏼

Thank you for your intro. Very kind of you. But as for this story......WOW! When you said "Lord Why! I'm finna retire" I felt your pain through the screen. Speechless. This man has helped me stay away from my abusive husband (finally starting the divorce process) and helped me understand the importance of withholding sex. WHAT the heck are some of these women missing?

I’m really going to need that “come on na sista” t-shirt

Many of us are listening and applying these things to our lives and relationships. Don't stop giving the game away. We appreciate you!

"Im fittin to double these ads" 😂😂😂 lol

Tony, thank you for every single video you ever made. You may not ever know how many men and women, God has used you to help in this life time. For every individual that rejects this wisdom, I'm sure at least two are coming to light. The power of God is always sovereign. God bless brother 🙏❤️

Puerto Rican girl here listening . This message is for all of us . Every women needs to hear this !!! Great video

Don't quit Tony! We really do need your ministry. Trust and believe some of us are listening and following what we are being taught. I am one of them. Remember the shepherd will leave the 99 and go after the lost 1. Don't give up on us!!! You are needed more than you will ever know.

I’m newly single, and feel a little afraid for this. But I will do my best not to degrade myself and follow desperation. I’ll lead with a clear mind and common sense, like you said. I think maybe she’s afraid to be alone... and also, a man must change for himself! Sometimes men beat women down so much and the woman allows it, that she begins to believe there’s no one else, and no one will want them. You gotta believe there’s better than this Miss! Think about your beautiful children.

Tony , I understand your frustration. I remember that first time when i found you from KZfaq by luck , i have been gaining knowledge about men, life in general, business ideas, self love , new vocabularies, changed my mindset and most importantly found God by through you for the first time. I can’t even recognize myself sometimes because i have listened and implemented all of your advices. Life is more meaningful with your presence in KZfaq and watching your videos are blessing . Thank you for all the free videos and appreciate it so much. You get more sense of humor than most of comedians out there.

He got more issues than Vogue lmao Tony!!!! 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

Tony, you're helping me. I can't speak for anyone else but you have saved me from dealing with some very ridiculous men. Now, I'm not perfect. Sometimes I've been slow pulling the trigger (not too slow) but I get the heck'on up outta there! "Gotta GO!" So thank you.

When a man wants you" he will leave at 11:00 go and get the moon and be back by noon" come on up in here!! This is what I'm talking bout!! If you are the one he will show you, you will not need to guess. Thanks Tony Gaskins for your teachings and sacrifice for all you do 💯💯💯

I’m single Six kids going to start non profit💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽 I’m praying my heart🥰🥰 changes for the better💯☺️🙏🏾 I really appreciate your gift Tony and you and your wife and family inspire me to be great💯☺️

You and your purse 👜 and lint brush need a comedy show 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Tony, you are not wasting your breath, there are women out there who really do listen. Thank you.

Thank you Tony, I could not PAY for these NUGGETS that you're dropping. I am a better person because of these videos. God bless you.

Tony I'm listening to this for the third time. Plse dont leave us and no I'm not desperate.... Single and loving me..... Reading , videos, exercising, waiting patiently for your t-shirts.... Keep the blessings coming...

When Tony did that shimmy move, and said" do it again" I'm hollering!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀

Please don’t retire. There’s some women who are out here listening to you and actually applying your teachings to their life. God bless you and your family for your sacrifice.

DOUBLE those ads for the ungrateful people Tony 😂😂😂 I am Not going to be mad atall lol

I had met someone very similar a few years ago ,so there are a lot of these perpetrators running around. Her situation is not uncommon. As soon as u read it ,I was thinking how the biggest thing we ignore is how a man is when we meet them , why do we think they will magically change for us when that is who they are to begin with! If we were in the business of hiring someone, and they told us they had been stealing from their previous company for 15 years, they would not even be a candidate for the job. So in the same respect when we are given all the info on a mans history why do we move forward thinking they will magically change and be different for us. I have been guilty of this as well and now I am working on myself. The next time I will save myself the trouble and look at character over all other things. I want to say each and every video u put out I am going back and watching all the ones I missed , watching some more than once . It is becoming a part of who I am . Seeing the whole world of dating thru different eyes .Thank u for all u do , please don’t retire yet! We need ur wisdom Mr Gaskins! Starting to think of becoming a coach once I get this in my spirit!

So many red flags / why do women ignore them IDK

I can’t handle this Tony... you is something else and don’t skip a beat... I love all your videos !!! Keep doing the good work... God knows this generation needed you, including me!!! The Best!

A man tell me such nastiness of his lifestyle, that's ALL the information I need to keep stepping. Tony keep up the great work that God has bestowed upon you. God bless you and your family.🙏🏾💜

He told her all that so that when ish hits the fun, he will blame & say "i told you so but you decided to stick around" it somehow absorbs his guilt. To my Christian Ladies, as you watch these videos ask God to transform your heart as well otherwise all this will be head knowledge and you know someone can be an educated fool. Your videos are appreciated Mr. Gaskins please keep up the good work.

If this exhausting to you Tony, imagine how we feel as her family watching this happen over and over.

Let me go ahead and finish my Life Coach Certification. Tony needs ALL hands on deck the way these emails coming in 😩🤣

I'm Mexican American and I love your channel! You are the best coach out here. I've learned so much from you. You are such a blessing. I play your videos so much to get some new knowledge like you adviced. I don't listen to anyone else just YOU. I resonate with you because I know you come from a good place and have God's favor and blessings to do what you do.

Simply filled that void with Jesus...Best wishes Queen.

I never understood why a woman would want to beg/plead/negotiate/give an ultimatum for a man to marry them...what exactly are you getting out of this relationship..he has me stressed out.

Uncle Tony, love saying he can type 🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾🙌🏾

“Near perfect= his issues won’t be disrespectful to you” PREACH Tony!!!!

Please don't retire. Some of us are listening and applying the instructions to our lives.

I'm hollering 🤣🤣🤣 not the inhaler 🤦‍♀️ Tony is something else

Can we get some merch "stay off yo baack"🤣😂

Hi Tony please don't retire. Many of us do listen 👂 and adhere to your teachings. At least I do? We need your insight brother, you are making a difference.

I really feel your pain on this Tony. 🥺 It is time for me to start taking the coaching certification that i have already paid for. Sister, run and heal. And know that you are loved by the Lord.

Please don’t retire. I am learning a lot from these videos. I walked away from a relationship bc of what I’ve learned on these videos. I’ve shared these videos with numerous girlfriends that have their issues with men. And the headphones purse takes me out every time 🤣.

Gurrrrrrrl put the whole bag in the trash!!! Get your track shoes on and leave that man alone!!!!

I’m sad to hear you don’t have more white women watching your channel - as a white woman I just wanted to say I love your show - think you are wonderful & full of wisdom. I have only married white men - 3X - that’s why I’m watching and learning. I am in no hurry to remarry and currently focusing on becoming a better me. But just in case I should run into someone special, I want to have a clear minded brain. Thanks for all that you do for us women.

The blessed tribe is here and ready to learn some mo knowledge, because knowledge is power, power is time, time is money let's get it. Class is in session ❤️💯

Ohhhh... This is a letter from the side chick point of view turned wife🤔. Mistress teaching the wife’s husband how to treat her to be treated like a wife. Lord please give Tony strength.

Tony you can't retire. We out here in Southern Africa, Zambia, our Daddy's don't talk to us about life culturally. Our entire culture is based on toxic masculinity and toxic femininity. Listening to you was the first time I ever realised that I was enough just by being female and I didn't have to cook,clean, wash, do gymnastics in the bedroom to be wife material. It was the first time I realised that men love you or they don't and you can't get them to grow to love you through the things we do to please them. Please pleeeease keep making these videos. I introduce as many people as I can to your message. God bless you abundantly.🙏🏾

I can’t 🤣🤦🏻‍♀️ it must be frustrating for you that you preachin’ dang near every day FOR FREE and women STILL ain’t listenin’. THIS woman right here appreciates you and your knowledge/wisdom. You have helped me through so much just in the past month since I found you. ♥️🙌🏼

I’m Caucasian too but only listening to Coach Tony ✌🏻

That's a negative exchange rate: love and nurturing with a return of disrespect and unfaithfulness. Not worth the investment.

I just died on the purse part and your voice 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂