Do you agree or disagree? I would love to know your thoughts 💕

I just have to say as a grey hair sister, I needed to hear this today. There are times when I feel like maybe I should go back, maybe I do look old. But then I ask my husband and he says, " I like your hair now, don't change it". I am so glad you did this video, you have once again talked me off the ledge and encouraged me again that this is the real me and I should embrace it. Thank you, I am so glad you are here on you tube, I just love you and your family and all your videos. Have a wonderful week.

Renee I love this video!! Encouraging women to embrace their natural beauty, and not to hide behind fake coloring is honorable. When the world is telling us it’s not good to be older, to be gray, and you should fight it with all you’ve got, your attitude is contrary to the worlds. I love it because such an attitude embraces who we each are as individuals, and helps us appreciate our uniqueness. Each of us has been made with individual talents and gifts. Appreciating our unique self is the best mental health strategy I’ve ever heard. You are beautiful just as you are Renee. Thank you for pointing out that we can each admire our special gifts, and not striving to be like all the other girls. Thank you Renee. You are an amazing gift. Love ya!!!

I support everything you say. I went grey some years ago and have never looked back. It's not a particularly pretty grey but my hair is so much healthier than when I dyed it, it looks shinier and nicer. I also stopped worrying whether people would judge me by my age!

I think you made the right decision! It's not having grey hair that makes one appear old. People think of you as younger because you seem to have such a positive outlook on life, are full of energy & have a good sense of humor! Life hasn't beaten you down & made you sour! I'm pretty sure that's why so many of us enjoy & look forward to your videos!!

I agree. I used to say I did’t feel like myself if I didn’t dye my hair red. Then my circumstances changed and I couldn’t afford to color as often. Then the salon had to close for 6 months. When she reopened I decided to embrace my natural color. She had taken the 6 months to learn new things and she did an amazing job of coloring my old hair to blend into my new hair. It has now grown out and I love it. So far all the grey I was afraid of turned out to be beautiful highlights around my face. I get so many compliments. Now I think the old red color was just a costume I wore because I feel more like myself than ever. And you are right, my hair has never been healthier than it is now.

Good video, Renee. You’re a rockstar. Your hair is beautiful and I love hearing about how good it makes you feel. I have the opposite story though. To me, colouring my hair is not about being afraid to show our natural hair colour. I have reddish brown hair and, since I was young, in my head I always saw myself with dark brown hair. When I started colouring my hair I finally felt like myself and looked like the self I always pictured. I went back to my natural hair colour during the first two years at the height of the pandemic (hair salons were closed in Canada for a long time) and hated every minute of it. Reverted back to dark brown as soon as that was possible. To me, embracing your true self does not always mean just accepting the genetic cards we’ve been dealt but rather pursuing what we feel is our BEST self.

I love the “line in the sand” theory. And it’s CORRECT! You were stunning with your colored hair and stunning with your natural gray. Love you!!!

Renee, I found your channel when you were transitioning to grey. I had been thinking about it for some time, but had been on the fence. Well I'm here to tell you that your encouragement lead me to do the same! I've been grey for what will be two years at the end of October. Best choice I could've made!

I, like my father, started going grey when I was in my mid-twenties. I couldn't abide thinking I could be totally grey by the time I hit 30, so I started coloring it. I tried to get as close to my natural color as possible (I was a redhead), but could never really achieve that natural color (nor could I ever really achieve a color that looked "natural"). I kept coloring my hair until my accident (I fell down our stairs and was severely injured). I couldn't really color it then (in the hospital) and my skin really aged due to a lot of the medication I was on. So I decided to never go back to coloring my hair and I now love my grey hair. I did do the "big chop" method (had my color cut out--it only took two months to get rid of all the color), but that isn't for everyone. I'm glad I did it that way, but not sure I'd do it that way again! At the time, I was wearing my hair short anyway, so it wasn't like I went from long to short, I went from short to very short! I don't think my hair ages me (and I get a lot of compliments on my hair), but (unfortunately) my skin does. The grey goes better with my "older" skin now and as I've gotten older (I'll by 67 in October!!), I've become more accepting of myself as I am (petite, grey hair, wrinkly skin, scars, and all). And while I care less about what others think of me, I still do like to cover my scars. People do "look" when they aren't covered--and I don't think that these people are meaning to be rude. It's just human nature to look at something unusual, that you don't see every day. But around my friends and family (and my doctors), I don't care about showing the scars because they don't notice them any more.

I found letting my natural hair color grow out to be liberating! And the cash back in your pocket ... lots! It's amazing how much money can be spent trying to defy nature. I agree with you. I hit 70 this year and I've found it's your attitude about life that ages you not your hair color. People I meet are frequently surprised about my actual age and comment I look to be more in my 50s. P.S. I also need to thank my mom for the great genes when it comes to aging.

Aging is not a fight you can win!!! Embracing it, allows us to age gracefully. It’s a beautiful thing.

I tried without colouring my hair I felt it made me look older but yours is beautiful Renee you don't look 50 at all you have amazing eyes I suppose it's state of mind

Renee, I have been following you since you began your grey hair journey…. I have listened to so many people explain exactly what you and Randy said!…This is by far, the BEST video and advice I have ever heard on the subject…. Your hair in my opinion just keeps getting more and more beautiful as time goes on.. YOU were the most influential person in my decision to go Grey… you encouraged me in the comments, until one day you said, just do it!..I just turned 66 and I honestly never looked better!…it has been 29 months so far and my hair is still changing as you said!…you are quite an influencer, Renee, about SO many things!..thank you for this profound video!..you gave me so many answers to so many of my questions to myself!..the line in the sand is the KEY for me!…thank you so very much for being you, sharing everything you do, sometimes I don’t think you realize just how much you and your family and your channel change lives!…please thank Randy as well for his opinions and analogy on this subject!…love you Renee!..you look and are, spectacular!!!!💜💜💜💜💜💜

Renee you hit the nail on the head. I went through the exact same thing at the age of 62, thinking why do I look harsh all of the sudden? So I decided to let my hair go gray and truly you were instrumental in helping me make that decision cuz I've been with you for years. After I was fully gray, 2 years later,I was at the dentist and he said to me, "I don't say this to too many women your age but you're still really pretty." Voila! I'm 65 now and never look back.

About three years ago I just got fed up with the whole vicious circle of trying to get rid of the gray. My dye jobs only lasted a few weeks before the gray roots were back and the fading color gave my hair an orangey tinge, and these were expensive salon jobs. I am saving a ton of money and time I spend doing more worthwhile things than smelling chemicals in a salon chair. I find longer hair like yours that is gray/silver is a really pretty look.

I know exactly what you mean! You look beautiful! I’m thinking to let my hair to be gray! Thank you! ❤️

I love your videos and your hair ! I went natural a couple of years ago. I was in my mid to late 60’s. To my surprise my hair grew out totally white. I found that white hair, at least for me, wasn’t so easy to take care of. Yellowing was one problem and stubborn coarse hairs were another. In my case because I’m older it did make me look much older. I have a pale complexion and don’t like wearing a lot of make up so I always looked washed out . I’ve started coloring my hair medium blonde and what a big difference! I feel like myself again. I guess what I’m trying to say is that gray is not for everyone. It looks great on some people but not on others. I wish I did like it because I saved a lot of money. Oh well

Renee, keep rockin' and enjoying your wonderful hair :) I "went grey" about 6 years ago and I LOVE it. I use Hair Biology Silver & Glowing shampoo which is amazing and very affordable. Just use it like any other shampoo. I also use their serum that makes my hair look shiny and healthy. I can't believe I put those awful chemicals on my hair and into my body through my scalp for so long -- even though I knew it didn't look all that great! If that's confusing to some people, I'm still really happy :)

Agree totally, the root touch ups, the time to color and the drying out of my hair was getting to crazy. We all gray naturally, it is beautiful now. The worst was growing out the colored junk and appreciate the natural look. I'm not totally gray yet, only my natural brown/ blonde and the gray. I get compliments, people actually thought I was coloring my hair but it is all natural.

Right on Renee!!!! 👏🏻👍🏻

Your hair is beautiful! I stopped coloring my hair and to my surprise it was snow white and I love it ! Everyone tells me they like it and just the other day I had a comment on it being pretty. I need to get a new picture of my snow white hair instead of the one you see now.

Wonderful Video Renee!!

Good morning Renee! Some people lack confidence which I believe what is holding them back from being their authentic self. I am 43 years old, this month is my two year anniversary of no chemicals on my hair. I don’t have a lot of silver sparkles but I love what I do have! U are a fabulous!

Hi Renee! I’m 56 and I’ve been highlighting my hair for years. My natural color is a light brown. I have a lot of blonde highlights. What you said is true. I’ve just been afraid it would make me look older to go natural. Idk how much gray I would have. Your hair looks great on you and you don’t look older at all. I love the curl in your hair as well. Thank you for this video. Women that are afraid to go natural need to watch this. Love your videos Renee. Have a great day!

Preach it! I stopped coloring my gray hair in 2019 and it was the best decision I’ve ever made! Plus I get compliments all the time that my gray hair is gorgeous!

Best video ever! Every word is true; you are BEAUTIFUL❣️

LOVE Love Love this video!!

This is so timely!! I have been contemplating going "natural" for a couple of years now, and I have been asking my husband of 32 years all kinds of questions. WELL, he made the statement YOU realized yourself, about my hair not matching my skin, at the age I am now, turned 60 in Sept of last year. Makes perfect sense!! I haven't decided WHICH avenue I'm taking to go natural, but I do NOT plan to color my roots as I have for the last 20yrs....I also have naturally curly hair by the way!! Excited & apprehensive!!!!!! Going to watch more of your grey hair journey videos!! Thank you!!

Thank you so much for this video...I needed that encouragement. You are so beautiful, and your hair shines!

I love your hair, gray & curls!

Renee, You Rock your gray hair with such beautiful curls. ❤❤

Beautifully done video. Great recipes! Thank you!

I think your hair is gorgeous! Curls and color!

Renee you are the reason I let my Grey grow out and I am loving it. I get lots of compliments on how pretty it is. I thank you so much for giving me the courage to do it.

Thank you so much for saying what you did! I wish more people had your attitude! I am also gray and curly. You are an inspiration to me!

I love your curls and the color of your gray hair. Ms. Renee you are fabulous.

I love both your curls and your grey hair!

Renee, I landed on your channel during the beginning of the pandemic looking for encouragement on making the decision to go grey. You were so instrumental and had such a positive attitude about going grey that I decided to do the same. My hair grew out to a beautiful silver that is much healthier and often gets complemented. I still wear it in an edgy bob cut and have fun with the latest fashions. Thank you for making this video and reminding all of us that grey hair doesn't make you look old.

Silver hair is a Crown for the aged. It shows you have wisdom. You are beautiful and wonderful. Hurting people say hurting things and foolish people say foolish things. Keep being you yourself only one of a kind a masterpiece!💗😄😊😊😊💗

Hi Renee, I am so glad I found your channel recently as I am 52 and going back to my own hair hair colour, greys and all! I love it, I finally feel like the real me. Your curly hair is gorgeous as it is.

Loved your video! You look fantastic with your natural silvers! I finally stopped coloring mine in 2016 when I was 62. I wanted to do it years before and wished I did. I looked in the mirror one day and said “Who am I trying to kid” and finally embraced my gray. It turned out mostly white and I wear my hair the same as yours but with bangs. It is so empowering going gray! It’s funny that I never got compliments on my dark brown hair but now I get them all the time as you must, too. Anyway, yours looks so beautiful and I found your you tube channel because of your gray hair. I love all your videos! There are so many silver sisters these days rocking their grays!😍

Your curls look amazing!!

Thank you for this encouraging video

I absolutely love your hair! Curls, volume, colour, length and all!!!

YAAASSSS, girl! Preach! I love all of the beautiful encouragement, wisdom, and truth that you speak in this video! Thank you for this! 👏👏👏

I love the variation in your natural hair colour Renee. It’a fabulous 🌟💕

I started getting gray hair when I was 13 - and 2 years ago I decided to stop fighting nature and embrace the grays - at 27. Gray hair isn’t dictated by age. My grandmother was completely white by 16. I feel so much happier now that I don’t dye my hair to adhere to a beauty standard of youth, and feel freedom that I can play with my hair for fun instead. I even added some chunks of gray in to complement my hair since it’s naturally about 50/50 salt and pepper right now. The biggest win for my experience was just feeling the freedom to play and express myself instead of continuing to try to hold on to my old dark hair by covering my roots every 4 weeks.

I love this vid. You are truly beautiful inside and out!

Inspirational-your videos got me through my grow out. Thank you!

So needed this. I'm almost a year end in growing my gray hair and was strongly thinking of dying it. Thanks for changing my mind to hang in there.

Great video Renee! I love my gray hair! I get many compliments, my hair is shiny and healthy, no more color! You have been my inspiration for three years Thank you! 🥰

I agree with you 100%! Love this video and I've also embraced my grey curly hair and love every strand of it!

you go girl - i am now grey thanks to you - thanks from a black canadian happier woman.

Thanks for the encouragement!!! I don't color my hair but I do have curly hair. I can't say I haven't thought about adding a color. Thanks again.

Wow, I’m in awe of you. You make so much sense and I’m scared but listening to you has finally helped me make up my mind to stop colouring my hair too. I’ve been wanting to since watching your channel and also because I too go every 3 weeks and my hair has become course & brittle. Not to mention the cost to keeping it coloured. Anyway I’m giving up my hair colouring addiction and will make today Day 1 of my self improvement journey. I will even keep a journal. Wow I feel so good already. Thank you thank you Renee, I’m sending you an electronic hug 🤗

Go Girl !!!

Your gray hair journey is what drew me to your channel! I've loved watching your transition - your hair is gorgeous! I started my gray hair journey in 2020 & never looked back. I've been gray for a year. I'm 65 & surprised how much of my natural auburn still shows thru. It's mixed with a medium gray color & silver streaks - & I love it! Thanks for such an encouraging video, Renee!

Thank you so much for sharing ❤

Your absolutely beautiful! Love your accent! 🥰❤️

Good morning Precious! I think your gray hair makes you even more beautiful and certainly, you do not look old! Have a great day!🐶🐈🐾❤️

The other day watching a video ( When you took your B to school) and you had your beautiful hair back in a headband...and thought that's beautiful AND IT TRULY WAS Renee!!! As it always is 💛 Rock it Hot Momma 🤩 lol Have a great week and give those sweet boys some lovin...

I love watching your videos. And you do have gorgeous hair both curls and grey. You have a beautiful spirit. Thank you for talking about grey hair and telling everyone to embrace who they are. I’m 41 and have a nice bride of Frankenstein patch of grey. Lol and my mom is like why don’t you color it doesn’t it bother you. I told her know I’m starting to age a little but I’m enjoying embracing it I’m not scared to show my gets I’ve earned every single one of them. But your right. Every time I tried to touch it up it just came back faster. And that’s more frustrating then embracing my grey. Thank you so much for sharing.

Great video !

YES! This is the content for which I originally started following you! I too have curly hair that I colored for 20 years. I’m fully grown out now and get a ton of compliments. I will NEVER go back to coloring! Thanks for the positive boost 😊

I love your gray hair, your curls and your attitude Renee. I am older, but I have never colored my hair, what ever color it changes too is what I live with. I think your awesome !

I have been watching you for about a year. I too have curly hair. It was about a year ago I stopped coloring my hair and absolutely love it. I refer to my gray hair as wisdom highlights. Thanks for encouraging woman to be their true selves.

Renee!!! Just keep on doing what you do !! You Know Where Your Power Lives !! 🌿 Stay Safe My Friend 🌿

What matter's is you are GORGEOUS ! From one silver sister to another, big hug's and Merry Christmas from New York 🤗

Greetings Renee! I had my hair cut in a really short pixie in order to grow my gray in. Since then, it has grown in even curlier than before and now I wear it much longer. I love my natural gray! This is the first time in my life that I actually love my hair! Who knew? That is why I found your channel and subscribed, almost from the very beginning of your journey, in order to support you and myself. Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us!! Love and blessings ♥️🙏

Your hair is gorgeous!

Excellent video, thank you for your encouragement.

So beautiful! I have curly hair so I look forward to growing it out. ❤

Renee, you look great with your gray hair. As long as you're happy, that's all that matters!!

That pure white silver at your temple is GORGEOUS!!

This was wonderful!!!!!!

Thank you so much Renee, ironically my name is also Renee 😊 I needed this today as I am in the process of making this decision! You’re beautiful, thanks for sharing! ❤

Totally agree. You have a beautiful spirit. 😊

You go girl

Good answer ❤

Great vlog today🤩💛

I think you look younger with gray hair! You have a fun, youthful personality and I think the gray is sassy, especially with the curls.

Kudos for you! You look gorgeous and fashionable!!! Btw I'm a fashion and image consultant and lately, I've been bleaching most of my hair (highlights) to look more greysh and just love it! It screams classy!

Thank you Renee for the encouragement. I’m struggling with this myself right now.

Thank you Renée, the message of this video moved me deeply. I have a short pixie cut and my natural colour is a coppery brown, now 'withening' with strands of white hair and sometimes, it irritates me and l would like to colour it. But the last time, my hairdresser left a fine part of a white fringe on my bangs on one side charmingly longer and accentuated somehow the whitening process gracefully cheeky. Yes, your grey/white curly hair does look pretty good on you🌼🌷🌼

Renee, I love your hair it is beautiful. Because of you I let my sparkles come through and I love it and the freedom it gave me. Thank you.

Omg your hair is so beautiful

You gotta love Randy!!! I LOVE your hair (and all your videos)! You are always very inspiring. I have never dyed my hair and have been gray for many years and love it!!

You look very fresh and beautiful with your grey hair. It brings out your eyes and bright personality. Very encouraging , starting the transitioning to embracing gray here ❤.

Renee, you are blessed with so much which includes (but not limited to) a youthful body, mind and spirit. Hair is always negotiable and you took ownership of that, which is awesome and commendable! I shaved my head out of being done with the lies of the dyes and NEVER regretted it! (wish I could post a pic here). Thanks for being brave and bold and a pleasure! - Laura

Renee! Because of you, I am now going grey, and I’m so excited. Thank you for all your honesty and encouragement.

Renee, I love your grey hair. It looks healthy, shiny, and soft. You have a youthful face which makes you even more beautiful with your grey hair. Thank you for your encouraging words on going grey

so beautiful love your hair very pretty

Your hair is SO BEAUTIFUL ❤️!I'm going gray and I hope my hair will be as gorgeous 🥰😍 as yours !!! Very pretty don't change a THING !!!!

Love, love, love this video! I have been Grey for 5 years now and I love it. I used to get three colors on my hair....I loved it at the time but I just got tired of it. So, I'm like you I have imbraced my grey! You are so beautiful Grey curls and all, I hope more women take your advice and go natural. Way to go! 😃

One of my sisters in law started going grey in her twenties and never thought to dye it. Her complexion is similar to yours and I think that combination is stunning! I‘m ten years older than you, but both my parents went grey very late in life, but I‘m so looking forward to going grey.

I am 56 and stopped coloring my curly hair 3 years ago. It is a mix of some silver and more brown (definitely not as striking as yours) but I do feel at home in it and it is so much healthier than when I was dying it. I have decided to think of the silver streaks as tinsel and am looking forward to more of it!

Thank you, Renee! That is the reason I subscribed to your channel a few years ago. I loved watching your transition. I too have curly hair and have been 2 years dye free. All of my grays are underneath and around my temples. I love the way it frames my face. When I pull my hair up everything looks gray except the ends. I really need to start using a purple shampoo that will be good for curly hair.

I started my grey hair journey just 6 weeks ago after thinkingaboutfor the last year. I agree with everything you said. Thank you for the extra boost just as I'm getting started. Your hair is gorgeous!

Thank you for this encouragement. I'm 49yrs old and have not colored my hair at all. The gray hair have sprung in so quickly. I made my decision not to color my hair . Thanks to you and Beth have confirmed to me to embrace my natural gray hair.