For anyone about to comment "so like, are you a boy or girl???" I've said MULTIPLE times i am **MALE** I'm not sure whats hard to understand. I am a transgender male. meaning I was not born male. I make that VERY clear in this video. Please stop asking. I've made it extremely clear. You can check ANY of my social medias and it says **MALE**

I personally think guys who are feminine are really cute--

PSA: TRANS GAY BOYS ARE NOT HETERO WOMEN!!! If you are gay and trans, that is just as valid as if you are any gender and any sexuality. Do not let someone make you think that you aren’t who you ARE.

🌹Roses are red🌹 💙Pepsi cans are blue💙 🏳️‍🌈You are trans🏳️‍🌈 🤗And we support you!🤗

Pretty much me how I found out I was Bi: Puberty: “that man looks really cute.” Me: “sounds reasonable.” Puberty: “that girl to.” Me: “Impossible. Girls don’t like other girls.” Friend: “no it’s a thing.” Me: * surprised pikachu *

if it helps you any. when you started talking i thought you were just a feminine guy. i legit thought "he sounds so adorable"

I’m not trans, but I am intersex-and it sucks. I identify as a male, I was assigned male at birth and was raised male. No one noticed anything wrong with me until I was about 5-6 when someway somehow my mom noticed something was a lil’ funky with me (having to do with the stuff you shouldn’t mention anything with a child). So apparently my mom went to the pediatrician panicked about what was wrong with her son. The pediatrician had an examination and found out that I had not only malformed female genitalia, but I had a fucked up uterus. Yay. So, I didn’t really care until I was 11, when I started complaining about when I would lay on my stomach to sleep (yes, I’m a stomach sleeper), my chest would hurt. I learned later that my mom freaked the fuck out, worrying that her son would be mistaken as a girl in the restroom or in public and shit would go down. And with my fucked genes, my chest surely grew. It was the awful experience. I had no idea what was going on-and I just wanted out. I stayed up with my mom and cried about how others would call me a girl and I didn’t like it. How kids in my class started acting weird around me and I didn’t understand. (Keep in mind, I’m autistic and social norms and stereotypes grazed past my mind as a kid). Without knowing what to do, my mom took ace bandages and binded me with those. For a year, I couldn’t breathe (also keep in mind that I’m asthmatic so that was really fun). Later we discovered that the constant pressure of the bandages began to squeeze my ribs so much that the right side of my rib started forming inward. Luckily, once my mom knew that we stopped doing that immediately. Our doctor got us hooked up with a therapist that helped with my emotions, while the doctor helped with my.. other stuff. I was able to get a binder (which didn’t really work but it compresses me enough so people wouldn’t look to my chest to see what gender I was). I’ve gone through very spaced out and lingering periods that are literally like someone twisting a knife inside of me (try having testosterone eating at your dying ovaries whilst a minuscule hole is covered mostly with skin is spewing out blood and see how you like it.) I hope one day I’ll be able to get top surgery and get my uterus removed. I don’t identify as trans, but I sure as hell feel like it from what I’ve been through. When you said “I’m proud of you for being alive”-that hit me like a truck. I sat there and felt my trachea run up my throat as the face burned with my capillaries raising to my skin around my eyes, cheeks, and nose. My eyes were hot and stinging with tears rolling down my face, and lungs quivering. Thank you, so much. I honestly can’t express the feeling of joy that gave me. I’ve struggled so much with depression and suicidal thoughts-an eating disorder from trying to stop my chest from growing-and a fuck ton of other shit. “I’m proud of you for being alive.” That’s a quote from God (whoever and wherever they are) edit: hi, i wrote that when i was 13 and i’m happy to tell the crazy amount of people who have replied to this that i got top surgery :] i also no longer bleed because i was on estrocide for about a year and it leveled out my hormones enough to prevent any bleeding 👍 it gets better guys

Cis girl: **has short hair** People: oke she is still a girl Trans male: **has long hair** People: *surprised pikachu face* iSn'T hE a bOy? Btw love your video❤

"but, that relationship ended up becoming very, _very_ toxic so.. *yeet* " that is a proper response

Cis male: *wears makeup* People: "yess, you're doing great I love it on you"👌 Trans male: *wears makeup* People: *"CIS-PICIOUS"* No, it shouldn't be that way. Trans guys are males, so there shouldn't be a difference :)

Teacher “Stop holding hands” Pax: “Why” Teacher “you flirting with da boy” Pax: “im f*cking four”

*My brain during puberty:* so you see that guy over there? He’s hot. *Me:* mhm *Brain:* **points at girl** and she’s beautiful, you have a crush on her. *Me:* wait wh- *Brain:* also you’re a guy.

Wanna hear a funny story? I came out by texting my whole family the meme of the guy jumping off the counter and saying “ I’m gay! “

I think you are a wonderful example of what men should embrace. Men shouldn't be afraid to like pink, or be interested in "stereotypical feminine" things. Your gender(s) do not define your style, interests, or sexual orientation. Keep on keepin' on, my dude.

Top Surgery also known as TEET YEET

Puberty- Hey you know, that guy’s cute. Me- No he’s really not. Puberty- What about that girl? Me- HOLY FU-

Puberty: Hey there, that guy is hot. Me: Mhm Puberty: But that girl is also hot. Me: *What?*

"-or are just generally confused" Or do you mean *Gender-ly* confused

You sir are not filled with toxic masculinity, I respect you.

This is insane... I watched this December of last year, and at that time I thought I was a lesbian, and I was dating a wonderful girl and we loved each other. About 3 months ago I figured out I was a trans male. I told my at the time girlfriend and she started crying. Turns out HE is the same way. We've been dating almost a year. Thank you, when I figured stuff out I only figured it out completely because this video had given me a full understanding of what being a trans guy meant.

You can be trans and like feminine things, your gender doesn't mean you have to have to have a certain style. Be proud. :)

**Casually disabled** "You are worthy of love" *Sheds a tear*

I'm a transwoman who's built like a football player, and the parallels in your story really tugs on my heart strings. I hope you find what you are looking for and know that you are who you say you are, and nobody can make you be someone your not.

video about being a trans guy in the teens area: "I was like, essentially just tired gay boi" *damn same*

GUYS CAN BE CUTE AND PINK GALS CAN BE ROUGH AND TOUGH!!!

I’m not gonna lie For a solid minute I was staring at the bear on the side

Me: I wish I could have been born a boy like I legit hate my body Friend: Transition is an option Me: W A I T ʸᵒᵘ ᶜᵃⁿ ᵈᵒ ᵗʰᵃᵗˀ

Pink Yellow Blue THATS ALL I DO I am pan That's the plan ❤️💛💙

*stay safe and drink some water*

Honestly I think your voice is actually pretty gender neutral

5th grade me: I dont want to go through puberty. Puberty: Hi 5th grade Me: Fine, I guess I have to deal with y- Dysphoria: Hi 5th grade Me: Wait a minute, who are you-

My brain: hey that girl is cute Me: yeah I know My brain: so is that guy Me: ok yeah? My brain: holy crap every one is cute Me: oh shiz I’m Pansexual

"You know, if that's your thing you can have a wife and 2.5 children" H O L D U P

Is no one going to comment on the artwork? Its fricken' awesome!

i feel you about the hair. Everyone constantly talks about how long and “pretty” it is and how “people would k*ll for your hair/body” and it makes you feel like it’s your only worth. I’m so proud of you for how far you’ve come man. 💛

Puberty: "ok so you're going to like this guy." Me: What can go wrong? Puberty: "but you're also going to like your best friend." Me: **chokes on sweet tea** but she's a girl! Puberty: "ahhh yes but she's bi."

I'm not apart of the LGBTQ+ community but I completely support anyone who is apart of it. One of my friends is trans and a lot of my other friends are lesbian, so I try to support them and the whole LGBTQ+ community as much as I can.

18:00 I legitimately started crying and hugging my laptop.

Me: what’s the deal with liking people like wot? Puberty: hi Me: hmmmmmmmm DaMn My best friend: i’m a lesbian puberty: AHHHHHHHHHHH Me: AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH the end i’m bi.

10:39 Me: *I SMELL A SUPERNATURAL REFERENCE THAT PROBABLY WASN’T INTENDED, but whatever.*

My wife is transgender and she’s gone through many of the same things you have. She’s even been disowned by her whole family. And I can’t imagine how strong she is. How strong you and everyone else who is transgender are. I know it may not mean much, but I support you and everyone else trans and pray that one day there will come a time when you and everyone are accepted for who they are. I just want to say never give up and never give in to those who judge you because you are so much more than the sum of your parts and even if it’s hard there are so many who love and respect you for who you are.

As a mom of a child who is questioning their gender. I want to say thank you for sharing your story. An wish you many blessing and happiness.

Me a non binary person* A random kid: YOu A BoY Or GiRl? Me: i- well im not either Random kid: yEaH You ArE! boy Or GiRl? Me: listen here ya lil s h i t im an alien form area 51, if you keep talking i will steal your k n e e c a p s ."

The good thing is that people have changed. Legit I had a trans boy in my class and no one disliked him.

Liking feminine things doesnt invalidate gender identity at all, fem boys are the best honesty! Live happy 💕

pax: "sasuke" auto-captions: "sauce is gay"

I am a Transgender Male. People often call me cute and just constantly telling me...female which made me uncomfortable and unwanted. So I was in the same spot, as you can see from my profile pic. I normally tell people I’m a He and they’re like “But you’re a girl!” I have to say I’m trans male over and over again which is tiring. Anyway yeah. Not alone ^^

Me: *feel like mans* Me again: Ma, I figured it out, I cracked the case, I'm a mans Ma: no >:((

Puberty: Hey hey friend that girl is reallllllllyyy cute (Ima girl) Me: *Chokes*

I hated it when people said "yOuR a wOmaN nOw". It annoys me alot

**Me walks in hall of school** **cute short girl walks MINDING her own business** Me:aww she’s adorable!!^^*heart beats faster* Me:..... Me:wait I-

I just wanna say, i’m ftm and watching this made me feel better as a gnc trans guy because I wanna have long hair and stuff and a lot of people give me shit for that lol. Thanks.

Tired gay boi I completely and utterly agree with that statement

My mom says I have butifull thick hair and I'm like BEGON HAIR

Rude Dude: I really like you Me sorry imma lesbian Mean Girl:I’m only mean cuz I like you Me: I’m straight Nice cute girl: i like you Me: I’ll give you an answer later Nice cute boy: I like you Me: hold that thought And then I flew myself right into the sun

I like rewatching this video sometimes because your voice is just so calming to me I just can't put my finger on it, but your voice is so reassuring.

"Tired, feminine, gay, trans, boi, that used to hurt himself." that is mood. ✋😔👌

Pink and cute things are just that, cute, that doesnt mean feminine and trans guys and other non feminine peeps have ever right to like those things

This video is the very first I saw from this person and I love it. The music, the speedpaint, and the story that was told. I can relate to some things but I can also see another side, since I'm not Trans. Good job to RadPax and I'm glad you overcame the obstacles thrown at you(plus you earned a new subscriber ^^).

I think I have gender dysphoria, I don't know how to tell my mum...

You: "Stay safe.. and drink some water." Me: Okay. *Gets up and gets myself some water* *DrInKs ThE wAtEr*

I went through the lesbian phase before I realized I liked boys too. I'm trying to base my look off of what Jack Stauber sounds like. If that makes sense. I just think it's unique. And I too am smol.

Thank you for this. This made me feel so much better. I’m trans male, and I’ve recently hit puberty and have been dealing with serious gender dysphoria. I have the constantly hide binders from my family, and every time someone says. “Hey, your such a pretty *girl!*” feels like a stab in the gut.

This is the video that made me come out to myself. I am beginning to transition into a feminine male, but my parents are transphobic. I have my sister at least and countless people on the internet support me, and that’s what keeps me moving.

tbh i dont care about how your character is "pink" and "cutesy" because i have a female oc who looks masculine with very masculine features and likes. like... WHO TF CARES??

I'm trans ftm/ non binary and Im in a really bad place rn. I can really relate to this video, almost everything you said I can experience with. this helped me knowing there are others like me

I'm super late to this video but whatever. The part where you said "I'm proud of you" I teared up. For whatever reason just hearing that someone cares just hit me like a bus. I think I just needed to hear that. Thank you.

Radpax I stumbled on your video and I am so glad I did, I also found it moving, this is amazing and I happy you found people to help you thought this time in your life, and you seem so great and I hope you get better and stay well.

"I basically wanted to look really unappetizing to everybody" oH wOW that broke my heart but thank you for saying that because I finally found a sentence that fully explains my middle+high school experience (I'm also trans)

My current Mate came out to me that they are trans. And My love for them didnt change. I love them for who they are not what they are. And I dont want to just push them away because of it, If that is who they believe they are who am I to judge? They are the exact same person I love. Hate solves nothing.

Me the second time I watched this video: *Insert This is Home by Cavetown* If this offends anyone I'm sorry I just had to say it P.S Also I'm trying to imagine you as someone I would be friends with, I imagine you as a very supportive friend and someone who would be very cute and very nice just so you know if I ever knew you in real life I would 100% be your friend but I probably would never talk to you before we're friends because I can't talk to anyone but I would definetly be your friend, also never give up and ignore whatever people say about you, you are being yourself and no one can stop that.

I just cut my nails,painted a trans flag,and getting a hair cut next weekend...but I’m not out of the closet 👁👄👁🏳️‍🌈

You kind of sound like a more masculine version of Pidge from Voltron!

as another trans guy, i love this video so much the end of the video made me tear up, especially bc i have a really unaccepting dad thank you so much you are such an amazing person and i love you

Honestly, I have been trying to subtly act more how I want to act instead of being like "I need to look perfect and act feminine and have feminine interests and flaunt my femininity to make my family look good" and it has made me feel so much better about myself. I just feel so much more comfortable wearing a binder that I made (I make clothes for fun) and wearing jeans and a sweater and acting more masculine- before I just kinda swept feeling uncomfortable about myself under the rug and I had so many doubts if I even wanted to be a man because 'who tf would date a trans gay guy' and 'I have no chance of happiness in the love specter because no guy would want to date me' and listening to this just gave me so much more hope for myself and I think even if no one accepts me I want to be myself for myself because I will find people that love me for me. Thanks for helping me realize this

I swear the first time I saw this channel I was like "This is a person!" Didn't thought of any gender at all until you said he so now I am like "This us a guy no questions asked"

I am transgender mtf and I am glad you are alive to this day 😊 and this is my first time watching your videos have a good pride month 😊

*2.5 children*

i have always felt uncomfortable with my body, no matter how many time i tell my mother she buys me a dress or gets me a nail appointment. i had never felt so sad with all my traumatic times, but one time when i went to tell my mother she had went through my phone and called me a lesbian. she said that since i was missing my trans sister so i was a lesbian. but even then she had said that it was all in my head and itll go away. As if it was a sickness...i have never talked about it since but your story is amazing and helps. i hope you and whoever is reading this is accepted and feels worthy of love, have a great 2024

You have been such an inspiration to me. I don't really have an accepting family so trying to come out as gender fluid and bi has been really hard for me. It's even been hard to accept myself because all my life I've been told that I am only a female and that I am straight and that anything else that I think is wrong and that if I am anything else no one will love me and I'll be more of an outcast than I already am for being in the marching band. Hearing you talk about your experiences and just knowing that there is someone who kind of understands and reading the comments and seeing how many other people also relate and just seeing that I'm really not alone in my situation helped a lot. This got kind of long but I just really wanted to say thank you. I love your art and you have been an inspiration that has helped me want to draw more and now make me want to not give up and to learn to accept myself. Thank you. Keep being the awesome guy you are.

Me: *chilling in the hallway at school with one of my guy friends who I came out to already* Me thinking: *"Oh,that girl's kinda cute"* My friend:Hey,bro, that girl's kinda cute! Me: *spits out all my water*

One of my best friends is lesbian and more than half of my friends are gay or bisexual and they are the best people I know and they mean the world to me they help me with my mental health issues and I help them with depression LGBTQ people reading this you are loved by someone so don't feel lonely

I'm not crying, you are :" D I am happy to hear everything is getting better for you, hon. I hope everything keeps going well for you in the future! ^^ Btw It's super valid to like "girly" stuff You have the right to like anything and whatever you want, even if it's pink stuff :3 Thanks for the beautiful message.

I legit can’t thank you enough for this video- I’m in the process of going through some similar things as you explained in the video, and it really helped to know that there are amazing people out there and that I’m not alone. aHh just, thank you.

Now I'm sad. First I thought you were gonna be a trender but it turned out you're in the situation my best friend might have to face. She finally got a diagnosis (which takes like 3years in this country, i don't know about america), but after all this, she might never get hrt because her family has a history of heart problems and now she has to get like 1000 blood tests. I'm scared for her since I know her dysphoria is basically horrid and she sometimes just bursts out and rambles about wanting to die. I'm having a hard time accepting the fact that so many people are actually going through this...

I'm a transgender male as well, I never came out to any of my friends but my online ones... I have a fear of losing everyone I love. I feel so horrible knowing that it will probably never will tell anyone irl. But my online friends are so supportive. I'm greatful to have them. I hope you are doing well!

Me: I'm dating a guy Also me: that girl is cute *wait, WHAT?!*

This is so comforting to watch. My story is somewhat similar and hearing that I'm not alone and my process of discovering myself is/was normal makes me so happy. Thank you for making this video. :)

yes just because your transgender or gay or lesbien dosnt mean you have to suffer, im sooo proud that you didn't end it all, your also a strong person for going through all this, dealing with this your a hero. you deserve wayyyyy more followers.. for that, say helo to a new subscriber

I tried listening to this while I worked on some projects, and I bawled my eyes out when you said you were proud of everybody. I don't know why, it just hit me right in the feels. I needed to be told that today a lot more than I thought I did. Thank you.

I relate to this story so much and I'm so sorry so many people treated you badly. This video is about a year old now so it's definitely old but I just now found it. It's so comforting hearing the stories of other transgender people because it reminds me that I can do this. Despite still being very closeted and terrified of coming out to anyone else as a male this video has really helped me out. Thank you for sharing your story! I've dealt with a horrible ex before too who didn't accept me coming out, friend who saw my identity as a joke and outed me to the woodwinds in my marching band without my permission- A lot happened but I'm still here. The message at the end of the video nearly made me cry because it was so sweet. I'm stuck with my family for quite a few more years but I hope anyone else dealing with hardships like these that it will get better and I'm know rooting for you.

I’m so, so proud of you for being who you are. I’m so sorry that you had to go through of all of that. If it makes you feel better, I actually couldn’t stop thinking how much of a precious male you are. You’re just so amazing, and I’m glad that you’re in a better place now. This video hit me hard, especially towards the end. That message brought me to tears, and it has helped me realized that I am worthy of love. Lately I’ve been so downcast due to various things. I don’t think that I’m trans, but at one point I was questioning for months and got quite depressed. Thank you for helping me. It means so much. I’m happy to say that I am a new subscriber as of a few seconds ago.

Thank you for telling us your gender, I was confused and didnt wanna get it wrong.

“Tired gay boy” *THIS IS LITERALLY ME I SWEAR*

The “your so pretty because of your long red hair” is so extremely relatable. I’ve started getting my hair cut and my grandma constantly complains that I have a wierd haircut (it’s a side shave) and I would be “so pretty” if I grew it out and evryone hates it. So thanks grandma. Now I have *way* less confidence because I love how I look with this haircut. I constantly think people are staring at me and hate my hair but I don’t want to change it. So yeah.

I actually heavily relate to this story (I'm not trans, gender fluid) but yeah with the eating disorders and harming your self but I really needed that at the end when you said " I love you and I'm so proud of you for being alive" thank you 😭😭😂😂

_Hi, pansexual goober here. I was listening to the video while drawing and I was just enjoying your story so much and happily listening and then... when you said how proud you are of everyone, I started crying?? I just felt this spike of warmth because I kind of realized that "Hey, I actually am doing a pretty good job of not jumping off the end or letting the things around me eat me whole." Like, my life isn't absolutely terrible, but there's always the things that happen the push a little too hard. Like when the people who promised me unconditional love when I was born slowly but surely get funny ways of showing it. It's been a while since someone's sounded so legitimately proud of me? Like I said, not absolutely terrible, but I more or less can't wait to get out of here._ _I just wanna say thanks, dude.

Awh, the drawing is so cute!

My husband is transgender and also loves very cute things, soft colors, and so on. That doesn't make you any less of a male. I personally enjoy people who aren't afraid to change gender norms. And I love how happy he gets when you or his other trans KZfaqrs that he watches post. You helped him see he shouldn't be ashamed to like cute things.

UGH the hair thing is a huge source of my dysphoria. Once I got it straightened due to not having enough time for caring for my curls. It looked longer (down to my shoulders) and I just couldn't look at the mirror. I looked so _girly_ and everyone was complementing it which only made it worse. The "looking ugly" thing as well, huge mood. I'm still somewhat in that mindset, in that any attention I get for looking womanly just irks me immensely. Bro, I want to join in on spreading that hope that we'll be ok. Being ourselves is always hard, and all that traumatic stuff is really difficult to let go of (heck, I'm still trying!), but there's always hope, and there's always someone out there to love and support us. I saw this vid in my recommendations and just. All of it. Strongly agreed. Have a good day, dude.