Laddies listen here if I don't reply to your message means I'm done with you, move on don't waste your time.

If you fool around with the wrong men, they'll take advantage of you.

I agree with you 🤦🏾‍♀️

The truth in this🤦🏽‍♀️

Yeah, they get slow in the head when it comes to men. 😐

The betta preach it!! Going thru it now. He told me he isn't a texter.. but he can call me if he wanted to

@@livinmabestlife It's a red flag after you've watch this video..

True.

Sad if the girl likes him and hope for him

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Ament. I had to learn that on my own heartbreak. Know our worth & stop accepting less just to say we're in a relationship. Luv 💖 this

This is true! Self worth and Standards.

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exactly stop going back and forth

Brilliant advice

I don't have yo do that. I just ignore the heck out of them.

Right. For those who don't have good fathers. Steve Harvey is an amazing Father to all these desperate lovely women including me

Not all the ladies will be here telling her story to Steve Harvey, most of them can fall into a trap.

I won’t be texting him first then ain’t no way will I would do that 😤😤😤

I like how she nods like she is proud at how strong she is with her text mess when she calls out his moods and tells him to pay up. The poor thing is such a push over and he knows it. He doesn’t think twice about what she says.

I wish she valued herself more.

@S B it's almost laughable when girls think they are being strong and the man on the other end is still being shady.... coz women think just because they called him out, he will suddenly straighten up and behave well... no, he won't ... because it all ends at calling him out, but he knows dang well, he still pulls the strings...

This is why women have to strengthen their self esteem

@@SB-fh3sv You sound harsh. Ick! She said some amazing stuff to the gentleman that shows she did assess correctly. She just needed some help to cut it off completely and I hope she takes the opportunity of being super vulnerable in processing with Uncle Steve to move on and move forward.

Wow this is powerful Like seve Harvey messaged to us Ladies

Hi beautiful

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I'm a man don't let me tell you twice or directly I don't want you.

I don't take advantage of girls, you're asking for it if you're hitting at the wrong man.

Friends with benefits are cheap if you're a woman.

Well said 🙌🏾

Hello I am so sorry if this sounds weirds but you wrote such a nice and wonderful comment on here and I like your comment. I can tell you're a very positive person. If it's okay with you I'd love to be friends.

@Shakeira Hines wdym?this isn't new?these old videos

​@@paulsmith9192 That is why she said she wished they would bring the show back. Based on her comment, I gathered that she knows that the show isn't on anymore.

Exactly my situation… I don’t know why I’m still hanging on

@@nettyghofficial7780 You probably have feelings for him. If you know he’s using you, love yourself enough to leave.

Women well most can’t hold a conversation or talk about herself 90 percent of the time I rather text 😂

Exactly, they want "options" and dgaf about your feelings ☹️

Sounds like he had a woman/family he was hiding you from.

@@holly7825 or maybe she demand dates and extra shhh

Hey how are you all you need is me but question is are able to grow with me from scratch lol

@@gregorythompson5540 seriously?!? Read her comment again please. Ain't no way you be that stupid 🙄

If he only popped up or would only show up at 1 or 2 am then he was showing you what he was really after.

This happens when a woman desperatly wants to be in a relationship and doesn't pay attention who the man really is.... I know it from my own experience....

Let's not blame ourselves for not expecting liars. Love is something honourable and beautiful, so women are not expecting disgusting realities masked as love behind every interaction. It's hard to think that way all the time about others and not become cynical and bitter. A careful balance

@@Elven. While I agree with you that women shouldn't blame themselves for someone elses actions, BUT when someone shows you what you mean to them, BELIEVE IT. I am to blame for MUCH of my treatment. NO more and I am at PEACE NOW, LOL....

@@cindys2995 Of course, true. All I actually meant is that we shouldn't call ourselves stupid for making a mistake looking for something wholesome. Sometimes people are really harsh on anything innocenct and more "over it" with nasty behaviour. At least I believe we have to respect and guide pure intentions in others more and insult or reject ugly behaviour. Be more understanding of a good intention gone wrong in ourselves and others and show no tolerance for the ugliness in the world

@@Elven. I agree with it being innocent to expect the good but this was about once the person starts doing stuff and you continue to give chances. It is my fault if I proceed after that.

@@cindys2995 the "game" is against her, 1.she has natural and good hormones unfortunately telling her things are good,2. a guy is taking advantage of that reality, 3. she doesn't have experience with this situation and 4. her goal seems to have a good relationship and that pushes her to make it work. Four against one. Just because she's making mistakes while acquiring the strength to successfully resist this heavy combo, doesn't award her the blame in the situation or an insult

Damn 😂

🤣🤣🤣 God have mercy🙆‍♀️🚶‍♀️🏃‍♀️💨

@Pamela Hartfield they're beautiful and all that, but unfortunately (1) they don't value themselves; (2) they do not have standards; and (3) they do not understand themselves. It is not likely that anyone will value them unless they first value themselves.

If those two beautiful young ladies are not interested in God's help in finding them a perfect mate they aren't going to be getting a mate that is right for them. That is something that happens when you have a relationship with God and you have faith in your prayers. And you act on your prayers, then you will get something that is right for you in the area of a mate.

Facts… if a dude want u he would be taking charge then making excuses

The guy basically spelled it out.

6 years, omg. Glad you finally ended it

Nope! There are no great available men. Too many beautiful, nice, smart women alone. I’m not saying women are perfect, but it can’t be ALL our fault!!

Good idea

Hahaha revenge 😂 I wish I did that tbh... The high road isn't as fun 😝

@@SomeBody-ce3gq 😂😂😂🤣 that was my high road!

@@FF-fd4tm I'm crying hahaha 😂😂😂

😂😂 good 👏🏾😂

Ye, but not many are husband-material. Plus, most women don't like to hear the truth, they love the lies instead because majority live in their "fairy tale" worlds

We can't even say she's emotionally invested or the guys playing her. He's never even taken her out. Get a clue.

@@Ace-ud3qp lol, a woman stays that long because they want what exactly then??? They're on the show because they clearly wanted more (more can be defined in many ways) and they didn't get it, so ye, some emotions must have crept up, no?

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@@kuliet4life Invested in delusion.

40 here and same. It was the pandemic before covid IMHO lol

Steve is lying. Thats why. Most people just rather meet up in person than talk on phone

I don't take women like you seriously who say they prefer texting. It's childish and stupid.

Do you hate to talk in person too?