Concept of Joint Family System in Islam by Sahil Adeem

Concept of Joint Family System in Islam by Sahil Adeem | Hafiz Ahmed Podcast

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@farwanqv 11 ай бұрын

Bilkul sahi and 100% agreed. No doubt we have so many male child in our society. Even parents suffer more in joint family instead of being happy and at peace.

@eeymanfatmafatma6993 11 ай бұрын

بہت زبردست باتیں کیں ساحل صاحب نے۔ مگر اس معاشرے کا اللہ ہی حافظ ہے۔

@Noah-zb7nu 8 ай бұрын

A wife should take care of her parents and prioritize them over her husband's parents because a daughter is responsible for her parents, not the daughter-in-law

@lodhiaudiobooks 11 ай бұрын

Reality is that highly educated couple who spend all their life as single family (living alone), they are forcing their sons to live as joint family.

@naveedalmel668 11 ай бұрын

This is soo true....

@asifaslam4230 2 ай бұрын

what's the reason behind it?

@taetae...... 11 ай бұрын

I've grown up in a joint family system and i can write a book how it can destroy anyone's mental and physical health. Only Allah knows how much me, my mother has suffered. I literally hate it so much that if someone says that mil jul k rehna chahie. I just wanna slap him and take him back to reality. If you are choosing to be in joint family system always remember you are going to destroy your kids life and you are responsible for it. You are not a man you are just a typical mummy daddy kid whose emotional intelligence is so low that even after getting married you want to live with your previous family. Don't get married then.

@KanwalShahzad-tj4jb 11 ай бұрын

I absolutely agree with you

@zahoorhussain196 11 ай бұрын

@@Alifaizalifaiz exactly they are not grown up so much

@sibghasworld3406 11 ай бұрын

😢joint family system is just a bullshit pagal krdairs hy logun ko

@tahseenn5649 11 ай бұрын

Koi system tab bura banta hai jab laug khud gharzi dikhaien. Joint family system koi farz kaam nahi hai jis per zid lagai jai na hi zeher hai keh pabandi lagai jai. Jinhein sharing nahi aati ya kisi apnay k liye apna haq chorna nahi aata ya keh lo jisay dosron say mohabbat kerni nahi aati woh akaila rahay.

@naveedalmel668 11 ай бұрын

@@Alifaizalifaizyours is an exceptional case .....we have seen 99.9999% families which are disasters......education ki baat to mat karo aap India Pakistan m......sab educatedly uneducated hote h

@farwanqv 11 ай бұрын

Another good point that MAN has to take a stand and they do have a power to do this in our dear society.

@shaistafarooq2592 10 ай бұрын

V true i grew up in single family .but married in join family daily depression ki medicen kha kr soti hu.

@shumailanaveed1139 11 ай бұрын

جی بالکل جوائنٹ فیملی نوٹ گڈ

@Sumaiaali-zl6or Жыл бұрын

Family joint system aik aurth ko نفسیاتی طور پر کمز ور کرتا ہے

@Shabanaawan-xf7hv 11 ай бұрын

😢

@sadiabutt9325 11 ай бұрын

💯 true.aurat jitni b smjhdar ho disciplined ho sughar ho .aksar susral waly uski qadar nahi krty usko bewqoof aur khudgarz smjha jata hy.apny Haq k liy Uthai hui sach ki awaz b tlaq ki dhamki de kr chup krwa d jati hy.

@rabiaimran1966 11 ай бұрын

True

@noorulainmah8561 11 ай бұрын

Exactly

@noorulainmah8561 11 ай бұрын

Ex😢actly

@shahanaawan2349 Жыл бұрын

Very true. Joint family system main husband bohat majbor ho jata hay. Wo sach jantay hoay bhe bewi Ka sath Nahi Deta. Kitni zalim saso nay Ghar tak turwa diay. I'm a victim of this thing😢. Mere in laws main decision making completely parents in law k hath main thi. Nanden har waqt wahen. Saas nandon ko Dekh k aur batamezi Karti thi k Dekho main nay bahuon ko nechay lagaya hoa hay. Mere request hay in laws say k apni bahu ko plz beti Ka darja dain. Plz. Bahu ko Kam karnay main koi masla Nahi hota, na he ap ki khidmat karnay say magar har waqt apni insult koi bear nahi Kar Sakta hay. Mujhay joint family say nafrat ho gayi hay. Main apnay Bhaion ko b samjhati hon k alag raho. Mere in laws k joint family system nay mere life barbad Kar Di. Allah will held them accountable one day.

@nomankhalid1968 11 ай бұрын

ALLAH ap ki madad kary ameen

@Anonymous25279 11 ай бұрын

My sister also went through the same situation. As the in-laws feel that their son is shared and he will get out of their hands, due to this insecurity, they develop hatred against the daughter-in-law in their minds and start doing things to make her feel as if she is a piece of shit. And they give her food and a place to seek hide.

@minecamf-ee7ih 11 ай бұрын

Sorry but today married girls can't be trusted it's an overwatch by husband's parents to look after

@user-zp6fz2sf6m 11 ай бұрын

@@Anonymous25279also my aunt faced this situation Roz laraiyan Roz maar peet Hoti lekin phir bhi jaan boojh kar alehda nhi hotay.

@user-xe5xq8pt9j 11 ай бұрын

Me too

@asiyaghazi316 11 ай бұрын

Mashaallah! You put off the man from his roots.

@imranarizwan6814 10 ай бұрын

I have experience 13 year's joint family with force of my husband I personally experience join family disterb new generation life I hate join family system I decided when I merriage my son in day his marriage you go your wife and enjoy your family life

@hinashahid498 2 ай бұрын

Same Yar main b yehi karun gi in shaa ALLAH

@aqsaali2670 11 ай бұрын

I totally agree with it larkey bohat vulnerable hojaty Hain, jabke separate main larkey mentally bohat strong hote Hain.

@shehlaazim5859 11 ай бұрын

They become more responsible

@awaiskhokhar4131 11 ай бұрын

Just one thing is destroying in all this the future of grand children, when mother is busy in serving her in laws how could she able to give enough time to her children, unki taleem tarbiyat Kisi khaty m ni ati , or bigarny m sb sy agy grand father's hoty hn

@sumairabutt438 10 ай бұрын

Exactly that's my point

@Noah-zb7nu 8 ай бұрын

You're right 💯

@technical.boy57 11 ай бұрын

Joint family system is not bad at all. However the power/authority should not be centralized, sons should be independent to take their decisions

@sajid88559 10 ай бұрын

Joint family sarei cheezon ka Bera gark Karti ha

@TheFatimahashmi 10 ай бұрын

You’ve to first understand that it’s not Islamic

@technical.boy57 10 ай бұрын

i know it's not islamic, rather it's in our culture but a good culture@@TheFatimahashmi

@technical.boy57 10 ай бұрын

how?@@sajid88559

@Ibn-Firnas 10 ай бұрын

@@technical.boy57Its a bad system. Children are not given independence to live and navigate life. Problem is parents don't prepare for old age. This could be financially or support. When the average person marries their parents are not retired pensioners. The father in law is still working. We need to look at reality.

@rabeebahmad8297 Жыл бұрын

Impressive Ma Sha Allah

@user-oc9mw7ct5f 11 ай бұрын

Right 👍 Jazak Allah

@abdulazeem7179 Жыл бұрын

Bilkul durust kaha aapne.....

@user-xe5xq8pt9j 11 ай бұрын

Sir aisa pakistan mein hona mumkin nahi hai hum pori Tarah hindu culture mein dansay howe hain. Agar aik aurat apna woh haq mangti hai tou uss ko Allah ki Taraf say 1400 saal pehlay ata kar dia gaya tha tou yeh naam nehaad hindu culture mein dhansa howa joint family uss kay haath mein 2, 3 bachon sameet talaq day deta hai. Aur zyadataar joint family mein mard Jo talaq deta hai woh apni AMMA ABBA aur Behnon kay pressure mein deta hai. Dua hai Allah say kay Jo jis kay sath jaisi ziyati Kare uss ko waisa sila zaror Milay. Ameen

@dailydoseofsports368 11 ай бұрын

Man can keep parents with him and do everything for his parents and not rely on wife for any thing. Because many times Grandparents are happy to see their grand children and also leaving them alone whole day will be like they are living in old age house

@sadafimran4671 11 ай бұрын

Plz come out from indian culture

@amalik1171 11 ай бұрын

This issue can be solved by seperate portion for wife and parents where son can take care both parents and wife and less chances of unnecessary intervention in life of one another, because problem starts when there is unnecessary intervention. Mother in law don't just want son or bahu to take care of her but she also wants to have hold of complete house.

@dailydoseofsports368 11 ай бұрын

@@amalik1171 💯 agreed Also there should be separate kitchen. And cocking and food taking care responsibility should be of son. As his jannat lies at the feet of his mom not his wife

@humaasim4014 11 ай бұрын

Joint family me aurat rul jati Hy larky ko koi parwa nhi Hoti I m the victim of this

@SanaSaqib-wg7zf 3 ай бұрын

Same

@freehayasin347 10 ай бұрын

It's really true I hope k log samjhein is cheez ko

@tehreemafatima1827 11 ай бұрын

Precisely.... 100% agreed

@user-io5zh4mu8b 10 ай бұрын

200% true agree apne sath yehi hal

@mehvishrahim1432 Жыл бұрын

Maaa Shaa Allahhh

@attiakabeer1991 Жыл бұрын

Very well explained

@farzanasyed9616 11 ай бұрын

بلکل صحیح ابھی تک گیتا سے باہر نہیں نکلے

@aishafatima362 Жыл бұрын

Zabrdast

@zahidafirdous7264 Жыл бұрын

o M G every word is true

@QTA_PLAYz 11 ай бұрын

U are right jzakallah

@yellowlock9779 11 ай бұрын

I got married with a divorced person. His all children married. I also have a minor daughter. Man's married children two 50 plus sisters all living in one house. ......joint family system. Whole family made my life a mere toture cell as well as for my daughter. I demanded separate living. He divorced m becaz my demand non Islamic. Man is Hafiz e Quran.

@nailasaba2601 11 ай бұрын

He was a Jaahil person. He had no knowledge of Islam.

@rabiasheikh5949 11 ай бұрын

Isliye kehte Hain Quran ko samajh k parhna bhi boht zaroori hai

@muhammadaliusamabinadil1065 11 ай бұрын

@@nailasaba2601apne bhaiyoon ko bhi keh do na kay burhay maa baap se separate hojain.

@razamughal9095 11 ай бұрын

Men cant afford homes because of interest. If you are going to ignore one rule of islam, the rest of the rules wont work. The root cause of poverty is interest.

@Storytimeurduandhindi 11 ай бұрын

Tarjuma jo nai parhtay yehi hoga

@ibraheemyasir192 Жыл бұрын

😢😢😢😢😢😢👏👏zabardast 👏👏

@mariamshaikh9670 11 ай бұрын

Bilkul Sahi kaha Bhai

@yasirrajper8620 11 ай бұрын

💯 agree

@tamomemon361 2 ай бұрын

Agreed

@user-td9qx6mo4j 10 ай бұрын

Absolutely 💯

@stealthisgreat 11 ай бұрын

Very well said!. And definitely spoke my mind.

@user-bj3mc5sj6g 11 ай бұрын

Perfectly said❤

@atiyafaisal4999 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely true and 💯 present right. He might have very closed experience of joint system.

@graphicdesigner9392 Жыл бұрын

Kash gents samjhe is bat ko

@ChelseaLampad 11 ай бұрын

@@graphicdesigner9392ladies would definitely endorse this 😊

@naseeruddinmalik7667 11 ай бұрын

@@graphicdesigner9392 Gents kia Samjhy ? Ladies ko b to Smjhna chahye Sb ko nhin keh rha but mostly aaj Kal aisey han Jo Shadi k bad Alag hony k Liye kia Kuch nhin krten Wo Insan jisko Maan 9 months apny pet men rkhti ha Paal k barha krte ha Kia Kuch Usk Liye bardasht krte ha Baap kitni mushkil Sy Usk Liye sb Kuch krta ha Aakhir men JB Maan Baap ko Muhabbat aur Care ki Zrurat Hoti ha Us time Alag hony ka kehti han Wives So Farz nhin ha to Ikhlaqan to Unki khidmat kren Unki Izzat kren aur Zindgi ki khubsurati isi cheez men ha Alhamdulillah

@bufatasports2097 11 ай бұрын

Very Well Explained

@user-xr5hq3he4b 11 ай бұрын

Great🎉🎉

@aasgamingyt8564 11 ай бұрын

Very well said

@rawalpindi1eagle-vy5vi 11 ай бұрын

Sahi kaha ap nay wesay sir

@user-ie3oz5dw5f 11 ай бұрын

true

@Mehboobmobi-gt2bx 11 ай бұрын

Right 👍

@zaheerbaber6762 10 ай бұрын

Bilkul sahi

@ias3068 11 ай бұрын

It is bad system. No easy solutions at time People are forced due to economic conditions but should avoid as much possible. It is bad enough for bride to leave own house after getting married then she has to comply with joint family system. Men live under parents shadow and never get out of it.

@smuvlogs1 10 ай бұрын

Beautiful ❤

@mumtazaziz5515 11 ай бұрын

اسلام کے اصول ہر معاشرے کے لحاظ سے اپناے جا سکتے ہیں اس کے لیے علما کو رہنمای دینی چاہیے

@muhammadreyan9644 3 ай бұрын

Very true.

@viniarora3372 Жыл бұрын

Ye system India se Aaya h islam se nhi

@shaguftasohail3152 11 ай бұрын

Very right

@user-fb4so5td5q 5 ай бұрын

V well said.

@FaisalGhaffar-uo6nh 11 ай бұрын

اسلامی اصولوں کے مطابق اپنے فرائض نبھائیں کتاب اللہ سنت سے مدد حاصل کریں اور شکر گزار بنیں

@MoazMoaaz-dy3xe Ай бұрын

Allah farmate han "Hm insan ko koi takleef ni dete insan khud apne lie mushkilat khri krta ha" Joint family hm ne khud apne lie mushkil khri ki ha Ab joint family se niklna bht mushkil ha

@africangreydailylife 11 ай бұрын

Very nice video 👍

@najmanaseem-iu8iw 11 ай бұрын

super

@soothingsouls204 11 ай бұрын

Joint system, Is baat ko to khawateen endorse krengi agar wo biwian hun lkn maaa or behn ko ye hazm nhi hota . Aik hi aurat k mukhtalif auqat me munafiq hoti hai.

@sumranabasith8326 Жыл бұрын

Brother plz tell me a hadith or quranic verse or sahabis name

@mrsammad4308 11 ай бұрын

👍

@saraathome8798 11 ай бұрын

100000‰ right

@taiyyibahosman7224 11 ай бұрын

Nabi pak (S. A. W) ki hr choty se choty masly hadison ki sorat me rahnumai mojud ha kbi b aisi koi hadis nhi suni or pr hi jis me ho k shohar bv ko ly kr alhda ho or waldain ko tanha chor dai ya joint family system ko bura kha gia ho QURAN pak me b aisa kuch nhi likha. . Hmry han zra sa deen ka ilm hasil kr k sb se joint family system pr hamla awar hoty hain kisi trh sari family ko bikhair dain.

@user-zp6fz2sf6m 11 ай бұрын

Nhi isse boht se nuqsanaat Hain aur Quran me sirf biwi par. Shohar aur bachon ki hi zimmedari aayed ki gayi hai baaki Ghar walon ki nhi maa aur baap ki Tou alag BAAT lekin har chota bara Bhai aik hi Ghar me aur unke Bache bhi fitne hi fitne bepardgi ka fitna aurton ki laraion ka fitna aik doosre ke maamlo me interfair ka fitna aur isse Ghar boht zyada toot Rahe Hain hum khud dekh Rahe Hain logon ke haalat aap duniya ke maamlat Dekho Tou sahi

@saiqazahid5037 11 ай бұрын

,v nice

@redrose7513 11 ай бұрын

💯👍🏻

@ahassan8820 11 ай бұрын

Mostly now a days is that wife is not liable to take care of husband's parents. But there is issue that is man should give separate house to his wife. N if he is living with ur parents then pay rents n bills, plus take care their house as your own. Mostly man are like..... can't live on rent plus can't take care of parents hard earn house.... Bcz there is nothing in my pocket...... N my wife can't help or take care of parents etc

@Sweethome23115 25 күн бұрын

Taking care of husband's parents is not obligatory on a wife according to Islam ,and there is no joint family system concept in Islam.

@ziaullahnagra7710 10 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@umaydniassuh6511 Ай бұрын

Allhamdulilh me and my brother moved out whe we got maried it wasnt easy esp financially,and the relationship of our wifes and family is excellent. I knew from young age joint family is not in islam and even morally wrong ,its a hindu tradition like it or not.if you cant afford to move out the minimum you can do is put a partition wall in the same house.or simple dont get married ( fast instead)

@bilalkhan7881 Жыл бұрын

😘

@alitahir7450 11 ай бұрын

Joint family system destroy a women mental and physical health. Sas susar ki hukmarani ki waja se 1 orat apny husband aur bachon ko time ni dy sakti Ku k Sas susar he apni khidmat ma lagai rakhty .

@sam68.56 3 ай бұрын

Zabardast..main khud experience kr chuki hon tabah kr diya hy susral walon ne aur jab tak susral waly jaan chorrty hain tab tak shohar bhi aik saas ban chuka hota hy

@shujahasnain48 Жыл бұрын

Bilkl sahi kaha

@pathtojannah6453 2 ай бұрын

Hum hindu culture ma itni buri terhan phas gy hyn k hum ny isy deen ka hisa bna diya hy or mazy ki bat ye k ab hinduon ny b is culture ko change ker dia hy ab shadi sy pehly hi larky apny paon per khary ho ker alag rehna shuru ho jaty hyn or hum is jhanjhal pura ma phasy bethy hyn

@remyjaorawala2804 4 ай бұрын

As a senior I totally agree with u Shaheelbhai , capable honest , sensior towards parents son also can't live with his wife in seprate home , due to " log kiyah kahaygay ? " ruine the life of young couple for society n some more their ego satisfaction , selfishness to take service from his wife 😔

@ahsanmehar5576 10 ай бұрын

Is pe impliment mushkil h phir saaaas zulm kesy kr saky gi bahu p

@muhammadzaib3453 10 ай бұрын

Sahil bhai ur v much linked to human behavior u saying that a guy shud tel his father that (don’t get me married until I’m independent ill rather FAST) yar do u really believe this sentence is even close to H psychology

@Eemanfatima786 11 ай бұрын

Very true ... Ye joint family system anay wali larki ko tabah kr deta mentally health mn b r physicall health mn b .... r mostly gharon mn joint family system ky asoll sirf baho ky sar pe thopay jty ... Apni baityun ki dafa wo susr khud wo asol tor ry hoty .. unhn apni baitiyun ky liy akaila larka chahy hota . 😂😂😂😂😂

@malihaali3622 11 ай бұрын

Sir join family system ko mana kar rahey hai to ej baat k aj kal pakistan k jo halat hai is mai ek banda agar 50 hazar kama raha hai to is mai rent bills grocery aur doosrey malat jis mai maa baap ko bhi kuch dega yeh kaisey mumkin hai ? Aur maa baap burhapey mai ab kahan jain akeley rahein???

@thebigshift 11 ай бұрын

Burhapay may sath rhain aur khidmat kren. 50 saal k uncle borhay nae hotay. 46 saal ki maa apki wife ki zindge ajeeran kr dy ge. Jb wo helpless honay lgain tb unki help kren aur khidmat kren.

@Storytimeurduandhindi 11 ай бұрын

To sas susr apni zabanein control rakha karein na phir rakh bhi laein unko

@Jia-1726 11 ай бұрын

Issi liya ma inn ki baat ko nahi agree kerti , jin sahaba kay dour ki baat kertay hain wahan too aik aik khajoor say bhi oratin guzara ker laitti thi , aik toota kumara bhi unn kay liya buaht hotta tha , lakin aaj kal kaya larkiyan assay rah pain gi ????

@saadkhan-dw7bf 11 ай бұрын

I wonder how will a man take care of his old mother and father if he lives separately from them ?

@hamzamaqbool1564 11 ай бұрын

They way we ‘allow’ wife to take care of hers.

@Storytimeurduandhindi 11 ай бұрын

Jaisay wife apnay ma baap ko visit karti rehti hai hr kch din baad waisay hi wo bhi karay ga

@saadkhan-dw7bf 11 ай бұрын

@@hamzamaqbool1564 Wive cannot take care of her parents

@saadkhan-dw7bf 11 ай бұрын

@@Storytimeurduandhindi it doesn't make any sense. Is tarah to wo bilkul b burhe maa baap ka khyal ni rakh pae ga.... Unke lie khana kon bnae ga, wghera wghera... air biwi to sirf milty h apne parents khyal rakhne k lie to ni jaty khyal to biwi k bhai aur unki Biwia rakh rhy hoty h

@relaxaquaa 11 ай бұрын

why u not wonder when kisee ki akloti beti huti hay par woh unhay akela chhordeti hay..apna ghar basati hay..maa baap tab akele nhi rehtay? yeh bete k alag hune par itna wawela kyun huta hay bhui?

@user-eu8sx7uh7m 28 күн бұрын

I think aaj kal ki chote bachon ki maa bari akalmand hoti hai. Woh next generation ko change karengi and decide not live in joint family when her son grows up and gets married. They know the pros and cons of joint family system and want to break the cycle. I've read plenty of other people's comments of how they will encourage their sons, when they grow up, to live separately with their wife.

@azhariqbal6269 Жыл бұрын

Joint family ky faedy b hai nuksanat b hai ap ny bahot ache bat ke Islam bil jaber nahe pardy ke ro sy ghalt hai ye totaly mard ka headak hai

@naziaali2239 6 ай бұрын

Mashra bigra hi is joint family ki waja se aurat bcho ki achi tarbiat k ilawa baqi sare kamo ma lg jati ha ur apne asal maqsal bcho ki tarbiat se hat jati ha is ka zimedar shohor ha

@pakistanpskistan4171 11 ай бұрын

Very nice sir.mere husband apni married sister se order lete ha hr bat k lye 😮😢😂

@truthbehindthehiddenfaces8895 11 ай бұрын

Daeshis in Lamb's outfit. Kharjite lovers stacked together Mirza Sahil Jhelumi

@gamer-jq6vl 10 ай бұрын

Ye zarooro nahi me ne apne inlaws me dekha ha mere devar aik din bhi joint family me nahi rahe lekin unka ghar khrab hua kyok dono ko larne se rokne wala koi nahi hota tha samjhame wala koi nahi thia biwi shohar k jaane k baad mohalle me ghoomti rehti thi unko rokne wala koi nahi tha

@hennahenna2800 11 ай бұрын

We're not supposed to be in join family system

@kainatali5306 Жыл бұрын

join family m bivi sayghulami karwai jati hai wo ghalat hai ghar walon ko khush karnay k ly bivi ko izzat na dena ye kon sa mazhab hai shadi k ly mazhab yad aata hai

@minecamf-ee7ih 11 ай бұрын

تو تم کو کیا رانی بنانے کےلئے لاءیں ۔ اگر شادی کرنی ہے اور تو کام تو کرنا ہوگا ۔ ورنہ باپ کے پاس اتنی روٹیاں تو ہونگی کے عمر بھر گھر بٹھا کر رکھ سکے ۔

@rabiasheikh5949 11 ай бұрын

@@minecamf-ee7ihji bilkul Karna hoga lekin sirf shohar aur bachon ka. Maa baap aur baaki Ghar walon ki zimmedari betay ki Hoti hai. Phir thk isi Tarah aap bhi uske maa baap ka kharcha uthao

@umarikram2296 11 ай бұрын

@@minecamf-ee7ihbhae apki bt glt ha islam ko prho

@umarikram2296 11 ай бұрын

@@minecamf-ee7ihbray chotay insan ho app bhae bhttt choty

@minecamf-ee7ih 11 ай бұрын

@@rabiasheikh5949 thats why todays girls are under heavy problem Miss there are no silver trees in boys home nor chests filled with gold . If you want to marry the terms will apply or home sweet home.

@usamazafar4236 11 ай бұрын

mn pagal ho gai hun joint family mn reh kr

@beeebravebrave1061 11 ай бұрын

My ny ye video aik lfz b nhe Suni uper Jo joint family system.k bary my lekha tha us sy mutaliq bat krun.hum 4familes aik ghr my rehty hn kitchen sb k alag hn APNA APNA khrch krty hn but aik chat k nechy rehty hn.na bachun k school k ly driver ki zarort hoti hy sb ki duties taqseem hn bht araam r skoon ki zindgi hy.ye ghrun ko torny Waly manhos shakln khurafat bythty hn zehno my

@mrowneruk 11 ай бұрын

Agreed yeah sala pagal hai sahil ka Bacha

@Sweethome23115 25 күн бұрын

Joint family system ka Islam se koi taluq nahi , na mehram AK dusre ke sath nhi reh sakte .

@hirarajput8631 21 күн бұрын

Tum bkws qn karhi ho zruri ha ap set ho to sab set he hon Baki sb k comments b parh lo....main b 5 Saal se joint family me hon 28 log Hain main full Pagal ho chuki hon depression ki mareezz bn Gai hun

@Capitalmom 2 ай бұрын

very right 😊😂

@bushraraheel9751 Жыл бұрын

Asr k sunnat ada kr nai skty farz namazain ada kr nai skty lakin 4 shadiyon wali sunnt zror pori krni hy....

@minecamf-ee7ih 11 ай бұрын

Tum tu paka 8th wife bano gi 😂

@user-zp6fz2sf6m 11 ай бұрын

@@minecamf-ee7ihtumko konsi aik bhi mil jaayegi saari zindagi kuware pan me guzar jaani hai

@hopeislife111 11 ай бұрын

Hmary han divorce b isi ly ziada ho ri k is system ny hus wife ko aik ni hony dyna hota

@MuhammadAli-gj6ss 11 ай бұрын

Living with parent/parents after getting married is not always due to economic issues. What if ones mother is bedridden and there is no one to rely on to take care of her. It all depends on circumstances. If wife serves her husband's parents, it is considered as a good deed in the light of Islam and there is nothing wrong with it. Why choose the words joint family or economy instead of care and love for parents? Sons are usually more close to their parents. Wives approach their mother in law's to get their husbands agreement or permission.

@umaydniassuh6511 Ай бұрын

No women in her right mind will look after someone who is not her own parents,in the light of Islam it's a bad deed not a good ,it's emotional blackmail .one give me single example of any sahabas who's wife looked after his mother,iv heard these kind of excuses

@MuhammadAli-gj6ss 29 күн бұрын

@@umaydniassuh6511 What if it is other way round? Wifes mother is ill and no one is there to care for her? If he is really a good husband he would care for his mother in law by atleast letting his wife look after her. One day you and I will also come to that stage when we will need attention from our kids.

@malihaali3622 11 ай бұрын

Sir ap to pakistan mai old age house ki taleem de rahey mai band alfaz mai q k jab koi nai hoga to kya walid ya walida tanha rahein ge??

@carttoclickshow 11 ай бұрын

Maid rkh do roz jao khidmat kro . !

@immystery3468 11 ай бұрын

frz Kro Lrki b ilkoti Thi Kya Usk Maan Baap Ni Huwy Burhy Unhe Zaroorat nhi hai Sahary ki?? Mrdon ko hi Q Maan Baap ki Goud Me bethna Yad ata hai bar bar? Islam Me Joint Family System ka Koi Riwaj Nhi Hai Hmare Nabi ki B Sari Wifes K Alg Alg hujry Thy Or Whn Jb B Shadi Hoti Thi To Lrka Hujra Ly K Apni Family Rkhta tha Whan Koi B Sas Susar Ka Concept Nhi Tha, Khud Socho Susar, Dewar Nan Mehram Hain to Kya Allow Kry Ga Islam Namehramon K samny Ghoomny ko Jis Me Shar Ka Khtra ho???

@sajid88559 10 ай бұрын

Ye taleem to Hazrat muhmmad Saw NE 1400 sal pehly di thi ke APNI bwiiyoon ko algh gahr Main Rakho or larka MAA BAAP ki khidmat Karey

@sabawaqasofficial121 10 ай бұрын

My husband is just like that wo Ammi ki god Sy Nikal he nahe sakty..😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😅😅😅😅😅

@mariaovais1074 Жыл бұрын

Nice 👍

@zraidamjad7742 5 ай бұрын

Maa Ko Nahi vhorta chorna bi Nahi chahya lkn bewi Ka b haw ha agr bewi Kuch na khay to susraal hi Nahi jeena deta

@iqrazeeshan8050 11 ай бұрын

I think this is incomplete explanation bz aj Kal ka ha lat ma jaha itni mahgae ha or vo jo ek Ghar ka bhi kharcha bohat mushkil Sa utha raha hy vo to ya bayan sun ka kahy Ga ka ma Shadi hi nae kr ta Ku ka hr koe to 4 Shadiya nae kr raha na

@user-HafizHamza1994 11 ай бұрын

Jo financially stable hi nahin wo kya kre,phir maan bap ki khidmat bhi to karni hoti he,kuch majburiyan bhi hoti hen

@umaydniassuh6511 Ай бұрын

If you are not financially able you should fast and not get married.

@Fairy-ch5gv 4 ай бұрын

Mara do bacha fot hua......????isi tention SA .....mara shohar stand Lana k qabil hi ni......bol hi ni saka.......ma ab mustaqil khof ma hun

@hafizubaid7728 11 ай бұрын

پاکستانی ایک بیوی سنبھال لیں بڑی بات ہے عدل کرنا ان کے بس کی بات نہیں ہے۔ آ پ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے فرمایا تھا کہ اپنی بیوی کے معاملات میں اللہ کریم سے ڈرو اپنی بیوی کے ساتھ حسن سلوک کرو اور عدل و انصاف کرو اس کا حساب بہت سخت ہے جو اللہ کریم نے خود لینا ہے اس میں کسی قسم کی معافی کی کوئی گنجائش بالکل نہیں ہے۔۔

@hamayunkhan2173 11 ай бұрын

Meray shohar ny mujh sy tesree shadi ki or mera koi haq adaa nh karta na meri bati ka 4saal sy mujhy meri maa k ghar rakha howa ha kya mera haq allah nahi nikaly ga es insan sy