Joint Family system and its issues.|urdu| |Prof Dr. Javed Iqbal|

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Professor Dr Javed Iqbal

3 жыл бұрын

Discussing the issues related to combined family system in Sub-continental prospective.
#combinedfamilytsystem

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@FreeQuranEducation 3 жыл бұрын

Jazakum Allah Khayrun respected sir Javed Iqbal for recommending our Channel. May Allah swt always bless you and your family sir.

@BlogsbyUsama 3 жыл бұрын

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@drjavaidahmadd 3 жыл бұрын

Asalamualicum Already subscribed. Your channel is very helpful. May Allah bless your team with the best of his blessings.

@imamyousafzai9 3 жыл бұрын

Salam

@imamyousafzai9 3 жыл бұрын

Salam

@noshadjs3116 3 жыл бұрын

Ameen

@hamidabbasi2325 3 жыл бұрын

Assalamualaikum sir ...!!! Ap na belkul sahi kaha ,buzrug he insaf k sath joint system ko better Chala sakty Hain but hamary idar buzrug he farq karty Han apni olado ma ...,,.that's the reason .now I am the patient of depression to...,,

@shaziasiddiqui4320 2 жыл бұрын

Sir humare dada pardada k zamane se joint family system tha humare khandan me... Lekin jo malik aur malkin hote the.... Woh bht zyadatii karte the us zamane me bhi.... Sirf duniya ko dikhane ki unity rahti thi... Haqeeqat tab bhi bht mukhtalif thi... Bahut haq mare jate the...ye sab sirf kahne ki baten hain... Aksar taya ya ghar k bade k pas zyada paise... Zyada jaidad... Un k bachen zyada ache lifestyle... Internally bht kuch chal rha hota tha tab bhi... Sirf zahir me lgta tha ki sab ka sab kuch ek jaisa hai

@numrah.khan. 3 жыл бұрын

I've been living in a joint family system since I'm born. There are always pros and cons. You get support from the other family members but the cons always outweigh the pros. We cannot have joint family systems in this age. Everyone wants to be financially, emotionally and socially independent.

@AlviSultan 3 жыл бұрын

You are more or less on target, good comment by a smart girl!

@salmarashid3475 3 жыл бұрын

Ji correct

@mohplaysrblx 2 жыл бұрын

For sure, I can relate.

@sanji546 2 жыл бұрын

There ar lot of pros

@zoologistpk4678 2 жыл бұрын

Yes exactly

@mr.anonymous784 2 жыл бұрын

Joint Family system is from Hinduism. In Islam there is no reason to stay in a house with everyone. Islam says to give separate house to every children or at least make portion of your own house and give them independence.

@2903kiran 2 күн бұрын

thats very good part of islam

@asqueen2013 3 жыл бұрын

Joint family me reh reh k mera logical brain muj sy naraz ho gya hua hai r emotional brain r heart mil kr silent volgure galian dy ry hotay hn... R eyes me tears hotay hn 😂

@aruhawaqas2659 3 жыл бұрын

Qasmy

@alltypevideos289 3 жыл бұрын

👍 😓

@anamkhan4951 3 жыл бұрын

deep i feel you ...

@FaizalAestheticFitness 3 жыл бұрын

@@aruhawaqas2659 sachiii muchiiii

@itsnotme820 3 жыл бұрын

Lagta hai ye har larki ka haal hogaya hai 😁😁

@sohailshaikh1334 3 жыл бұрын

Jiss tarah Dibetese bohot see Systemic Bimaariyaa paidda kartaa hai theek ussi tarah Joint Family System bohot see Mental health issues Paidaa kartaa hai..

@AlviSultan 3 жыл бұрын

Baishak!

@alltypevideos289 3 жыл бұрын

👍 😓

@hassamkhan5794 3 жыл бұрын

Exctly aur olad b suffer krty hy .barbaad hujata hy sb kch

@audiovisualbooks3231 3 жыл бұрын

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@malikmohsin2267 3 жыл бұрын

100% Agree❤️

@syedullah613 3 жыл бұрын

Joint family system is the blessing! It is biggest curse if people have no patience (Bardasht). Nowadays it’s best to live separate in a small house and try to live close in one area. Go to each other house as often. If you think in Prophet time it was the same everyone had an independent and small homes.

@learnlikemuzna4702 Жыл бұрын

Well said !!! Ye mera life time thought hai !!!!

@KanuniSuleyman4857 Ай бұрын

We're not living in 7th century anymore. In this age, the social dynamics of the society has changed. Now everyone wants to live an independent life

@Nnn8o 19 күн бұрын

No way better to be safe than being mentally tortured by these relations!!

@atikasyed3233 3 жыл бұрын

Well said I'm going through the same even I get aggressive staying in joint family.

@tuALIm 3 жыл бұрын

وہ تمام میری حماقتیں جو ہ گی گناہوں کی چھاوں میں وہ عمل کی ساری کثافتیں، جو لکھی گہی ہے فضاوں میں تیرے سامنے ہیں زرا زرا تیری ذات واقف حال ہے میں بری سہی مجھے بخش دے میرے دل کو سخت ملال ہے میری نیند آنکھوں سے دور ہے میری حیات گناہوں سے چُور ہے یہ کرم ہے رب دو جہاں تیرا، میرا ہر گناہ پہ نقاب ہے تجھے اختیار ہے سب کا سب، میرا تجھ سے اتنا سوال ہے تو معاف کر تو کریم ہے، بس تو ہی رب ذوالجلال ہے۔ . .۔❤🌸🥀

@roshni2679 3 жыл бұрын

Sir.... I tried my best k joint family system at least tb tk qaiem rhy jb tk sb beh' bhai ki shadi ho jaiy... But I failed, ghr ma jaghry fsaad ko khtm krny k lea qurbani deni pari, abhi sb sepret reh rhy although sbko e koi na koi msla face to krna pr rha but abi etna zaror hoa k jaghry khtm ho gy hen...so yehi kahngy k rishton ko bchany k lea jhuk jana behtr h rishtay cutoff krny se.. Hr msly ka sensible hal mojood h wqt p faisla kr lena hi behtr h

@MOSCOWZ 3 жыл бұрын

Sir Wonderful explanation ....sir you should do programs on PTV so that your golden words reaches to every pakistani ....May you live long...you are diamond of Pakistan...

@easywaytestspreparation7098 3 жыл бұрын

Nice comment

@sabaahmadvlogseducation7120 3 жыл бұрын

Very good thinking sir I am agree with you Meri life main gitni be problems hain sab joint family system ki waja sy hain.

@zaeedahmed9406 3 жыл бұрын

I am Dr Zaeed from Bangladesh 🇧🇩 , salam Dr.Javed sir, your youtube content motivates me a lot

@user-rq6hj6ql1v Жыл бұрын

Allah pak har orat k nasib achy kry or naik susral mily jahan bahu ki b izat ho beti ki tra wrna larki ki zindgi tbah hojti hai thik kaha dunya m ho dozah hn jati hai life

@maheenali728 Жыл бұрын

Maintaining purdah from brother in law is very tough in joint family system. When children grow up, they also struggle in maintaining purdah from cousins who are non mehrams.

@biyasohail1076 3 жыл бұрын

Love u Dr Sahab u r like a father for us ❤️ap hamesha bohut achi targa baat ko samjhaty hain ... I saw your all videos Allah pak apko hamesha sehut tunddusti de ameen 💕💕💕

@saraahmad5859 3 жыл бұрын

Joint family system in today’s day and age is just illogical and cannot work the way it did decades ago. There’s a huge generation gap and cultural differences that it cannot withstand the compromise and expectations it warrants.

@mariamtee 2 жыл бұрын

People always talk about women suffering in joint family but even for men it is stressful and traumatic. Mostly there is just one male who contributes financially and takes care of parents, unmarried sisters and even families of brothers who are not financially well off. From medical bills to house rent/renovation to sister’s wedding he has to shoulder the whole burden. No one thinks of him

@razamughal9095 2 жыл бұрын

This is why men inherit twice that of their sisters

@rabiafazal9077 2 жыл бұрын

Well said

@kiranshaikh4223 3 жыл бұрын

Its actually the space which is demand of every person. In combine system mostly this space is left no where. Thats y one gets suffocated by other. Respect n love everyone whether one is more or less financially stable than u. Life is simple we make it complex by our opinions. Sir its really glad to hear ur opinion which is solution of the problems every house is facing today but they take it very light due to their EGO n end their relation. May ALLAH guide us to R8 path.

@AlviSultan 3 жыл бұрын

Sahih kaha aap ne! JazakAllah!

@stitchwhich8317 3 жыл бұрын

Bilkul drust Islami triaq b ye hi hy Bjaye ek sath marny k tang a k nafrat krny monafqat krny ki bjye alag ho jana chahye Kam az kam waqt k liye zror Es sy ek dosray ki qadar b a jati hy

@basitgaming832 3 жыл бұрын

MashaAllah. professor sahab kash pakistan ki tamam abadi ap ka ye video dekhe aur samjhy. Jazakallah

@eishaturrazia8350 3 жыл бұрын

Jazaakumullaah Prof. Sahab! May Allaah accept you for HIS cause. You are an adorable mentor.

@huzaimaamir3220 3 жыл бұрын

ڈاکٹر صاحب اس مسئلے پرآپ نے بہت عمدہ گفتگو فرمائی ،جوائنٹ فیملی سسٹم میں لڑائی جھگڑے ہونے کی ایک بنیادی وجہ تنگدستی ، یعنی کم آمدنی بھی ہیں تنگدستی اور کم آمدنی سارے مسائل کی جڑ ہیں ، ایسے خاندان جن کے مالی معاملات ٹھیک ہیں ، وہ اپنے مسائل پر قابو پا لیتے ہیں اور خاندانی لڑائی جھگڑوں سے بھی محفوظ رہتے ہیں۔

@VlogswithAysha 3 жыл бұрын

Good topic. Nowadays, joint families are different. My mother in law didn’t allow her 3 daughter in laws to leave kitchen the whole day. . We only had break from 3-5. Parents should be very careful while marrying their daughters.

@mrsmohsin1024 2 жыл бұрын

Then... what are u doing? All day works?

@VlogswithAysha 2 жыл бұрын

@@mrsmohsin1024 My mother in law has passed away. Now I part time teach and keep myself busy in house work like always

@rabiaakram187 2 жыл бұрын

One , another one...after I stick to complete the whole series of your lectures, I learn how to cope with real life problems through this channel, almost every possible social and moral issue you raised helped me a lot managing my personality flaws , but also being a better person than before 💯,sir you are more than blessing to our nation😇.....🇵🇰 May Allah SWT keep you safe and sound.. ameen

@khddf367 2 жыл бұрын

Ameen Sum Ameen Yarabul Almeen

@syedaamina7882 3 жыл бұрын

Salamat rhein hmesha ❤️

@nationmovei 3 жыл бұрын

masha allh sir ap ki baten bht mazboot bunyad h ..bilkul sahi kha apne

@strongwoman9997 3 жыл бұрын

We are living this life style.all of us have portions..everyone has its responsibility.but people in our society alag hony ko gunah samjty hain

@razajavedofficial6141 3 жыл бұрын

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@AlviSultan 3 жыл бұрын

Asiya Hassan: The only thing constant in this world is change. I hope our people soon realize this and come to their senses. Dr Sahib is doing his best to educate our people.

@MATHSMATHSInnMATHSInnBusiness 3 жыл бұрын

Hmmm hum aisy e rhy productivity km hojati hai main sb ko kehta hun k aisy rahain k alag alag b hon progress b zyada hojay aur combined b controlled manner mn hon but it's really tough here to make everyone learn here.

@AlviSultan 3 жыл бұрын

@@MATHSMATHSInnMATHSInnBusiness Sab logue apne apne haalaat aur bardaasht ke mutabiq guzaara kerte hein. Aik poor man living in his shanty or hut, where can he go but stay put?

@hassamkhan5794 3 жыл бұрын

Mian biwi dono working hun tu finaces ka issue nhi huta and alag hujate hain ..mental health should b priorty

@rpskidsvlogs9049 3 жыл бұрын

Assalamo alaikum sir. I m from India.I m Rahima Perween.I m a research scholar in education, I m married having two small kids. I always see your videos and like that most. I m your new subscriber. Your speeches are awesome, Mashallah.

@easywaytestspreparation7098 3 жыл бұрын

Nice comment.

@user-pe5zp8xv6z 3 жыл бұрын

bohat acha mozoo hai جزاك اللّه‎‎ خيرًا

@HassanandAleeza 3 жыл бұрын

Good questions and amazing answers from UK

@baazal 3 жыл бұрын

I used to live in joint family when I got married, but my wife was always fighting with my family. When I moved out with my wife all problems stopped.

@daizy850 3 жыл бұрын

bhai wo apki biwi bn k ati ha jub k joint family mn sb uski azmaish krna shuru kr dety hn

@its_lovet_queen57 2 жыл бұрын

Yes 👍

@theflowers9677 2 жыл бұрын

Maybe your family is fighting with your wife and they are acting as innocent infront of you and showing your wife cruel because it's happening in many joint family

@maqsoodazam7572 2 жыл бұрын

Deen ki Dori ki waja se Ghar Main ladari Hoti hai ....

@risingstar9086 2 жыл бұрын

@@theflowers9677 absolutely.....his writing skill should must be improved 😃

@hadiakbarkargili637 3 жыл бұрын

Mashallah best answer and solution for family system issues.

@zunairataimoor2924 3 жыл бұрын

Wow extreeeeeeeeeeemely well nd right nd experienced talk🤲👍👍 jazak Allah

@mrsfareekhan543 3 жыл бұрын

Sir aj topic ko maine bht enjoy kiya yaqeenan ye ESA ak muzu hai jis py jitna bola jae or jitna ilkha jae kam hai meri shadi ko 12th year hai ye 2020.or abhi tak joint family system mai hi hun bal ak aam uorat k muqable kafi mukhtilf logo mai or mahol mai time guzra maine bas ye bat samjhi hai positive mind hona dosron se zada khud bande k apne liye acha hai or ak sub se ahm bat koi bhi rishta chahe wo behen ka bv ka bahu ka ya maa ka sub ko nibahten ve ALLAH ko razi karne ki koshish honi chiye insano ko nhi phir ap bht ache se sub rishte nibhaten hain mera Iman is cheez py hai kisi bhi insan ko us ki ibadat se nhi us k mamla karne se pehchanen or respect karen

@aqsaakhter4734 3 жыл бұрын

It's always good to see u 🙂 May God always bless you.

@saimkhan8138 3 жыл бұрын

جوئنٹ فیملی سسٹم اگر محبت ہے سلوک ہے عزت ہے تو جنت ہے اور اگر ایسا کچھ بھی نہیں ہے تو یقین کرین دنیا میں ہی جہنم ہے برداشت اب نہیں ہے لوگوں میں اور حسد کی بیماری عام ہے ایسے میں بہتر یہی ہے شادی کے بعد ہی محبت سے الگ الگ کر دیا جائے

@mariyamkhan8499 3 жыл бұрын

Deewar alag hone Se Mohabbat khatam ho Jaati Hai kya ???

@ezzahwaheed 3 жыл бұрын

@@mariyamkhan8499 wo mohabat hi nahi jo deewar se khtam ho jae

@ShafiqKhan-nu5jk 3 жыл бұрын

@@ezzahwaheed wah kia kehna

@shahidaaziz2959 3 жыл бұрын

What should I do same here in my case.

@mariyamkhan8499 3 жыл бұрын

@@ezzahwaheed Mera yah Sawal hai kya bete ko alag rakhne se Mohabbat khatam ho jaati hai Maa baap ki

@chemfanatics7382 3 жыл бұрын

Thought provoking discussion ...

@usmanashraf5409 3 жыл бұрын

سر آپکی گفتگو سے بہت سارے لوگوں کا یقینا فائدہ ہوتا ہے اللہ پاک آپکی عمر میں رزق میں اور علم میں برکت عطا فرمائے

@Omer3k 3 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately it’s not possible anymore 😭. Everyone has bigger ego than oneself. Family system has almost done.

@shawn7258 2 жыл бұрын

U summed up

@shawn7258 2 жыл бұрын

We r just trying to drag it in name of religion & culture destroying mental health of future generation

@abdullateef6307 3 жыл бұрын

Ek masla ye be hay Kai Ghar k bary Koch bachon ko buht ihmeyat daity hayn kuch ko km .is nainsafi k waja say b jagry banty hayn

@syedasyeda7825 3 жыл бұрын

Aisa he hai...

@muhammadishtiaq2258 3 жыл бұрын

Its true mari sas mari devrani ko ghar ka bara khti hai or usay he har chez mein aagay rakhthe hai yeh nainsafi hai

@amnakhan8340 3 жыл бұрын

agreed

@tariqrajput6709 3 жыл бұрын

Agree with you

@sardarjamshaidkhan5087 3 жыл бұрын

100% agree aisa hi hai Ye nainsafi karna chor dain to sb acha ho jaye

@farhatamin9718 3 жыл бұрын

Bohat kamaal MA SHA ALLAH 💗

@GulReads 3 жыл бұрын

Bht khoob Sir behtreen or ala wazahat k sath ap nay Bht saray mamlat ko suljha dia 👍Jazak Allah khairan kaseer.

@Motisol786 3 жыл бұрын

Family system is becoming a problem for this mobile generation... 😊

@gateaspirant2383 Жыл бұрын

It was a problem since ages, my mother suffered a lot due to this evil system when there was no mobile no internet. dont try to connect it digitally.

@shahida_vlogs5417 2 жыл бұрын

Mery sasur b yhi same baat khty k mery jity Ji alag nei hony dena aur haal ye k ek dosry ko dekhna b gawara nei krty , 😢

@muddassurqureshi6734 3 ай бұрын

😂😂same ......aur yehi susar sahib khud apni bevi k sath alag ghr main sari zindagi rehty rhy hongy ....

@waqasgul4538 2 жыл бұрын

zbrdst guftgu.....asa sb valdyn ko sochna chahy

@HUZAIFAKhurram2432 2 жыл бұрын

Mashalla always formative lecture

@khawjamaaz9433 3 жыл бұрын

Very good and logical interpretation regarding social issues. Ma Shaa Allah, sir live long and healthy life

@cymantha_robin5892 3 жыл бұрын

This man is gem 💎!

@faizaarif1071 5 ай бұрын

Ma sha Allah ma sha Allah ap bht acha kam kr rahy Hain Allah apko duniya akhirat ki kamyabi dy

@sidrasaeed1447 3 жыл бұрын

bot achay sy ap nay is bat ko clear kiya hats off for u sir❤️

@MAJIDHUSSAIN 3 жыл бұрын

hats off 🎩 ❤️

@LearnwithMariyam 3 жыл бұрын

اکثر بزرگ یہی کہتے ہیں کہ میں جیتے جی یہ نہیں ہونے دوں گا

@newvediosandwhatsappstatus4323 3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha ese hi h

@farhan-rl9ut 2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha 😂

@AMMARAfahad5563 3 жыл бұрын

I just love your this speech sir. Amazing

@saeedatariq8042 3 жыл бұрын

Jazak Allah Kash .Aysa har Family May hu Jaay Ameen

@verdhanadeem665 3 жыл бұрын

Sir i think issues rise when people get jealous of each other due to economic imbalances.

@soniyaimran8822 3 жыл бұрын

I agree, my step dad is kicking me out; I’m pregnant and he wants me out by the time I give birth; my mum works non stop pays the bills the mortgage and gets the groceries he does nothing. Yet I cook clean and look after my younger brothers yet I’m getting kicked out, the unnecessary stress during pregnancy is not needed and I pray it doesn’t affect my unborn child. I’m pregnant but I also work two jobs I’m a lady and I don’t complain so I don’t see why men can’t do anything; alhamdulilah I’ve been blessed with a husband Who works and prefers to work. Yes I also had shortcomings I don’t tolerate lies and manipulations I sometimes speak the truth too much and it gets me into trouble but I’m only being true to myself.

@creativeweirdodiy3105 3 жыл бұрын

No issue rise when people are evil themsel3

@verdhanadeem665 3 жыл бұрын

@@creativeweirdodiy3105 not able to understand your replie

@kashifmrs5091 2 жыл бұрын

Not only economicimbalance there is many behaviors which disturb such as enterfare in every matar

@qadirshakeel649 3 жыл бұрын

I hate joint fasmily system The older brothers and sisters often use your life for own purpose

@S.L.A.Y.E.RE.D.I.T.O.R4596 2 жыл бұрын

Most satisfactory video on this topic I've ever watched

@umarnagi2501 Жыл бұрын

Asal wajah hoti hy personal mamlat main dakhal dain. Aik dosray ki personal sapce ka khiyal rakhaun. Limits ka khiyal rakhain to joint family is a blessing. Room aik

@noshadjs3116 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you sir for such recommending such nice channel. I have subscribed to it, now my family will learn the holy Quran in easy way. Once again humbled and grounded dear sir. Stay blessed.

@elhamrasheed4784 3 жыл бұрын

cejk

@mrsumar5358 3 жыл бұрын

Sir what about injustice and favorism in household systems. The main reason behind all fights is this i think

@centreofprayerharummakkah9899 3 жыл бұрын

Ap ka question bhot acha hy

@rizwanali3341 3 жыл бұрын

Very true.. Favoritism is the cause to one specific family and comparing with other family

@sanamnasir1399 3 жыл бұрын

It's right

@ummemun2185 3 жыл бұрын

Bilkul sahi hamare haan yahi hain favourism

@cookingwithorakzai5136 2 жыл бұрын

Blkl

@abdullahgondal7506 3 жыл бұрын

Zabardast. Live and let others live.best solution is seprate home.

@2903kiran 2 күн бұрын

Wonderfully explained the solution

@hassamkhan5794 3 жыл бұрын

Koi b larka ya larki shadi ka tasawar b na kre agr woh khud nhi kama skta..aur ghr nhi afford kr skta!!YH SIRF APKI LIFE NHI APKI OLAD KI MENTAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH ka b sawal hy...inlaws ki interference aur ghr k jhagre bachon ko zehni mariz krdete hain..

@rpskidsvlogs9049 3 жыл бұрын

Sahi kaha sir, hasad badi cheez hai , yahi sab galtiyaan karwata hai, I think.

@akbarrahman6560 3 жыл бұрын

No fight from One-Sided, Syed from San Diego, CA

@Sulaikpro46 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you doctor sab for this video. It was nice view.

@Jabir37 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent Dr. Sb. Allah apko mazeed himat de taqat de. Jazak Allah o khairan

@iqrarashid7796 3 жыл бұрын

Nodoubt joint family system is problematic on many grounds but at the same time those sufferings which u face in joint collaboration makes u experienced as u live with many people ,u read their psychy which helps u in future to tackle different situations peacefully,humbly.

@creativeweirdodiy3105 3 жыл бұрын

No one wants bad experiences

@creativeweirdodiy3105 3 жыл бұрын

Kids who live in toxic environment can never become Confident adults

@iqrarashid7796 3 жыл бұрын

@@creativeweirdodiy3105 bad experiences makes one experienced... Well that is my opinion.

@iqrarashid7796 3 жыл бұрын

@@creativeweirdodiy3105 myself being the product of joint family don't think so.

@creativeweirdodiy3105 3 жыл бұрын

@@iqrarashid7796 well it depends with what kind of people you lived..

@MATHSMATHSInnMATHSInnBusiness 3 жыл бұрын

6:20 the solution

@muneeba2299 2 жыл бұрын

Mjy laga hamary gar ki baten kr rahy hn ham MashAllah sy akhty rahty hn Allah ki boht rehmat h...

@bepositive8934 3 жыл бұрын

Very nice sir 👍 you are described owsam .thanks for information

@rizwaan6333 3 жыл бұрын

بہت نازک مسئلہ آج چھیڑ دیا ہے مرشد 🙈🙈🙈🙈

@BlogsbyUsama 3 жыл бұрын

13 subscribe done plz back

@AlviSultan 3 жыл бұрын

Dr Sahib toh aik haqiqat bayan kar rahe hein, jitni jaldi issey tasleem kar liya jaye, behtar ho ga!

@desidog4169 3 жыл бұрын

A lot of people are just too poor to live independently. Their kids and wives have no idea of financial issues. Family members should be transparent to each other and discuss these matters. Fake pride is a killer! 👪

@hassamkhan5794 3 жыл бұрын

True...if a man cant provide a seperate space than he shouldnot marry both mian biwi should b earning and better if of same field..always b4 marriage one should clearly discuss this stuff without hesitation! Yh pori generation ka mamla hy bachaon ko b nafsiati issues hute aise mahol m reh kr

@SairaSabir1443AH 2 жыл бұрын

Showoff and ریا کاری

@alabbasgoods6043 3 жыл бұрын

ماشاءاللہ بہت شکریہ

@zubairahmed8330 3 жыл бұрын

Bilkul sir ap ny 💯 present sahee kah rahy ho

@muhammadsufiyanmehboob786 3 жыл бұрын

Sir, I have a question for you. I have seen a lot of joint family system around us and I have seen a lot of problems in joint family system. I don't think there should be a joint family system nowadays. People who are living in a joint family system and most of them suffer from a lot of problems and suffer from many diseases.

@hassamkhan5794 3 жыл бұрын

100 % agreed.life is more hell for a girl bcs parents dnt support after marriage.and husbnd is more concerned abt his family even if they r wrong.

@muhammadsufiyanmehboob786 3 жыл бұрын

@@hassamkhan5794 Yes you are right when girls get married then this problems becomes difficult to deal with.

@abubakarhussain6879 3 жыл бұрын

100% right

@rajazain6974 3 жыл бұрын

Right bhai meri sister in law meri cheezen chori krti thi or bs poochny ki dair hoti larai ho jati saboot ho in pata that siwaye is k k unko kmry sy nikalty dekha. .... Bht kuch gawaya akhir thak k ilzam lagaya to mujhy divorced dy di joint family system ny mera ghar barbad kiya;(

@muhammadsufiyanmehboob786 3 жыл бұрын

Raja Zain No problem, brother, don't worry, just live your life in silence and don't argue anyone it, leave your matter to Allah Almighty alone, insha'Allah you will live a very good life in the times to come.

@uroojhussain5274 3 жыл бұрын

میرے حساب سے تو جواٸنٹ فیملی انتیہاٸ بیوقوفی ہے۔۔ ہم رہ چکے جواٸنٹ فیملی میں تو ہم جانتے ہیں اسکے کتنے نقصانات ہیں۔۔ ساتھ رہنا ہی جھگڑے کا باٸث ہے۔۔ بہتری اسی میں ہے کہ سب الگ رہیں اس طرح محبت بھی بڑھتی ہے۔۔ اسی جواٸنٹ سسٹم کا نتیجہ ہے کہ آج ہم سب ایک دوسرے کی شکل دیکھنا بھی پسند نٸ کرتے۔۔ ہماری فیملی میں ایک دوسرے سےاتنی نفرتیں بڑھ چکی ہیں۔۔

@farahkiyani6412 3 жыл бұрын

Jazak Allah Dr sab

@muzammilislamislam9794 3 жыл бұрын

Bohat acha jawab ha AP ka

@bjahan6971 3 жыл бұрын

In short joint family mein just woi survive kr skta k jo bara badmash ho... phr chahy wo kuch b na kry... sary usk gulaam

@fairyprincess2084 2 жыл бұрын

لوگ پڑھی لکھی بہو نہیں لاتے کیونکہ اسے دبا کر رکھنا مشکل ہوتا ہے. نہ خود ضرورتیں پوری کرتے ہیں نہ کام کرنے دیتے ہیں

@sixmaOrane 11 ай бұрын

واہ واہ۔۔۔۔کیا بات ہے سر

@mrssajid7263 3 жыл бұрын

Respected sir yeh ap ka toota phoota jwab nei hai,yeh to superb jwab hai 💯👍

@aaliatv9841 3 жыл бұрын

꧁🌹🍥✰✰🍥🌹꧂ کوئی ٹوٹے تو اسے سجھانا سیکھو کوئی روٹھے تو اسے منانا سیکھو رشتے تو ملتے ہیں مقدر سے دوستو بس انہیں خوبصورتی سے نبھانا سیکھو جو بھایؑ اور بہنیں میرا یہ کومنٹ پڑھ رھے ھیں ان سے موؑدبانہ گزارش ھے کہ میرا چینل بھی سبسکراییبؑ کر دیں !! جزاکم اللہ فی الدنیا وفی الآخرہ

@amnamubaraka8541 3 жыл бұрын

Kia phir ma bap ko road p dal dein .

@MarihaandAnoushehsvideos 3 жыл бұрын

Sir, Please also give your views about unjust impartiality and inclination of parents towards their daughters after marriage as compared to their married son. They don't do justice or keep balance.

@hassamkhan5794 3 жыл бұрын

Exctly..beti is paraya dhan since the day she is born.parents prefer preparing a girls dowry instead educating her.and after marriage mar jana but waps ghr na ana..sick!! Maa baap 90 % zimedar olad ki life khrab krne m.parents need counselling

@MarihaandAnoushehsvideos 3 жыл бұрын

@@hassamkhan5794 true

@hayazahra8412 2 жыл бұрын

Thank u Sir... You are great... Apki baten super kash k sbki soch bdly...

@kinzahkhan3854 2 жыл бұрын

*Alhumdulilah, hum joint family system mai rehthey hen aur ups and downs zindagi aur duniya mai har jagah hotein hen, joint family system ke bhi boht se faidey hen*

@qudsiabano4797 3 жыл бұрын

I think parda is for women so how can joint family system can work for muslims or bechari women had to cover all the time even in homes 🤔🤔

@creativeweirdodiy3105 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly.. gher mein b sakoon nai.. joint family is haram

@user-gz5mx2nd5p 3 жыл бұрын

You have a point. Even if family does not observe Prada, men in general do not respect women who are not mahram and may lead to quite harassment and abuse of women specially young girls.

@mrsumar5358 3 жыл бұрын

We have strict parda protocolz in house and outside. And the summer season is just very very hot for us. Alhamdulillah we have ACs in home. But kitchen and lounge are like hell.

@user-gz5mx2nd5p 3 жыл бұрын

Mrs Umar Can you share what those Parda codes are?

@creativeweirdodiy3105 3 жыл бұрын

@@mrsumar5358 exactly.. what is the purpose of parda in home.. why women are forced to live with na mehram.. atleast saudia mein women ghero mein toh sakoon sy rehti han

@hassamkhan5794 3 жыл бұрын

SHADI SE PEHLE HEE ALAG GHR KI DEMAND KRDEIN advise to all girls..ajkl ka daur hee nhi joint ka

@razajavedofficial6141 3 жыл бұрын

@AlviSultan 3 жыл бұрын

Cinderella disney: Sahih banda/bandi se agar shaadi ho jaye toh baaqi ke maamlaat khud hi theek ho jaate hein. Kisi doosrey ke dil mein ghar ka bannana bohut zaruri hai iss duniya mein khushgawar zindagi ke liye!

@hassamkhan5794 3 жыл бұрын

@@AlviSultan lkn woh shaksh m apni famly ko priority dega na k biwi ko..

@gateaspirant2383 Жыл бұрын

@@hassamkhan5794 sister apki shadi hogyi???

@abihasami7287 3 жыл бұрын

Dr sb. Tusi great hoo very well explained and usually people underprivileged they get feel of jealousy and things gets messed up.

@mtufailk Жыл бұрын

ڈاکٹر صاحب اللہ اپکو خوش رکھے۔۔بہت خوبصورت طریقے سے اپ کام کررہے ہیں

@pakistani_suits_ 3 жыл бұрын

Don't ignore this comment sir Please sir make a video on the importance of girls education.. Our parents listen may they will understand and let me study further.. Please🙏 sir dont ignore my comment..

@AlviSultan 3 жыл бұрын

Write him an email and explain your problem with your conservative/jahil parents: surgeonjaved@gmail.com

@pakistani_suits_ 3 жыл бұрын

@@AlviSultan mind ur language sir. I am not telling you anything. Ook. they are my parents and you don't have any right to say a word about them. And sorry to say sir your language shows your education and your upbringing at the same time. If you can't talk decently or with respect, I can say your education is nothing more than a paper degree.

@pakistani_suits_ 3 жыл бұрын

@@hassamkhan5794 they won't force me to get married.. Actually We are from a very small city of Bihar. Here’s the education is not of that high leveled .. they said that they can't take risk of sending me in boardings or hostels.. As every one knows the crime rate or rape graph of India🇮🇳. . That's why they are fear of the evil things in our society.. Btw Alhamdulillah I am doing my graduation from Bihar university.. But for the higher studies I wanna go to Delhi Or somewhere else for good studies but can't able to agree them ..۔

@hassamkhan5794 3 жыл бұрын

@@pakistani_suits_ oh i se bihar same place frm where famous celebrity sushant singh rajput belonged to..then u r lucky..to get such parents.my advise is dont get married till u strt earning .really good and marry sime guy frm own field who encourage u fr furthur education

@hassamkhan5794 3 жыл бұрын

@@pakistani_suits_ u have some relative in big cities u may live at their place ?

@asfhjiwwryhdddu2159 Жыл бұрын

اللہ تعالی جتنے بھی جاٸنٹ فیملی ہے سب کو ازادی دے دیں یہ بڑی رسوا زندگی ہے

@bilalsheraz9347 3 жыл бұрын

Sir ap ki all video bohat ashi hoti ha zabardast well done

@nailajawad9031 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing reality

@syedmuhammadsalaar4927 3 жыл бұрын

Wife apnay expenditures b husband say nhi lati na us say pouchti hai k wo apni income kidr karty hain... Phr b husband wife ko stress main rakhy to wife kya kry

@sidrasaeed1447 3 жыл бұрын

aj kal hr trf ye e hal hai

@cookingwithkanwal7883 3 жыл бұрын

Same question