A man lost his wife a few years ago. He visits her grave site at least twice a year: on her birthday and sometime near the holidays. During this visit he tells his deceased wife that he recently got re married. Although he loves his new bride, he had to make some hard decisions because he's raising two young children that need a mother. He tells his deceased wife he feels guilty because he can't quite make himself feel the same way toward his new bride. "I muddle through, but I'm having a hard time getting over you."