Oyo thats going to be my husband next because he no listen to me and continue to drink every weekend. I have already told myself and my husband that if he ever get sick because of alcohol then I’m not wasting my tears on him. They choose that lifestyle so don’t fell sorry for them.😟

Your nyab is smart to buy lots of insurance on his head. Now she is well off and living her best life.

A true story life story of a Hmong Pantha 🤦🏻‍♀️ Died for Alcoholic beverages... How shameful! Your nyab won the lottery...

Yes!!!! Tuag tug lawm lau!!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

It's sad that he passed away but it is the life that he chose to have for himself. People with any addictions can't change unless they want to change within themselves.

If I have a crazy alcoholic family like that. I will always lies and make excuses to go out of town and never go visit whenever they invite.

You can’t blamed anyone but your own brother! Your sil got abused from your drunken brother so she deserved to moved on and enjoy her life peacefully.

He got a second chance and didn’t appreciate it. These drinkers never learn. I don’t feel bad.

That title ain't crap in America. I always tell my husband that I do not care for that position. That title doesn't do anyone any good besides divorce or cheating on your spouse.

Kav liam mas tuag rau yam yus nyiam ces zoo siab hlo.

I'm not sure if I'd say this is a sad story. I'd say pure negligence even with current drinkers pure negligence.

Thanks for sharing your family's story. Even though the OGs will say "don't break your stinky egg", this is how we learn valuable lessons too. I'd be totally embarrassed and ashamed to have male family members like yours. I would not bring my significant other or friends and other relatives to my family's house if my family was like yours. I would hate my family actually.

So happy for your sister with the life insurance 😂😂😂😂

Not our Yaaj family, they’re respectful that we don’t drink alcohol and don’t get mad when we kindly declined 😊

Omg! This happened during my wedding too! My hubby couldn’t drink and got drunk. He woke up the next morning having rashes all over his back. That’s when we know that he is allergic to alcohol. That was his last time drinking.

Homeles pw qab choj xwb os.niam yog yog pab thas dab tsis.quav dev xwb os

Nws cov phoojywg puas hais tias. Nws twb tsis haus tabsis peb yuam kom nws haus nws thiaj tuag. Cia peb them nws nqi ntees. If he under age his friends can be sue. Good story and thank you for sharing. Hais tau zoo kawg.

These drinkers never learn. Even these OG are encouraging and pressuring people to drink. There’s some OG that don’t drink but nowadays I see so many drinkers.

Nrog koj tus nyab zoo siab tsis tu siab rau koj tus nus kiag nyuam qhuav ntxim zaum no koj tus nyab dim txoj kev lwj siab lawm lo koj tus nyab Tswv yim zoo heev kav tsi mus ua lub neej tshiab kom zoo nawb.

Oh my goodness. Thanks for sharing. It is exactly My husband and his family.

Zoo siab kawg nkaus qhov ua nws tuag

Zaj no ces zoo li kuv cov neej tsa thiab , hais npaum twg los yeej hais tsis tau, kuv tus txiv wb ces yeej tshai mus saib neej tsa li thiab

I hate ppl that force others to drink like your brother. Alcohol is not your friend and when you’re dyeing in the hospital ain’t no one’s gonna care for you but your spouse. If you don’t like to drink just don’t go to those events.

Ntse koj tus txiv tshuav koj nqi los cas tseem los yuav koj es raug koj tsev neeg muab nws lom cawv hnub ua tshoob yuav luag tuag hais lus caij tsuj tib neeg. Yog kuv tsev neeg quav cawv liam li no ntiav kuv twb g tuaj saib pob ib tug nus quav cawv cem kuv tus txiv phem baum ntawv twb g tsim nyog koj yuam koj tus txiv mus ua nws qhev hais lus g saib koj tus txiv. Cov neeg no tuag tshawg xwb cas g tuag thaum hluas zog koj nyab thiaj tau txiv tseem nyob ntev tas baum mam ho tuag. G txawj haus es npav lub haus kom qaug g muaj leej twg qhuas koj na tsuas pom nej thiaj qhuas xwb. Kuv ntxub cov neeg haus cuag g muaj tag kis kuv yog koj nyab ntse lawb nws ntev siab2 phem siav thiaj nyob g ntev zoo kawg tuag ces koj nyab dim plaws.😂😂😂

Lawv twb muaj ib lo lus hais tias yus nyiam yam twg ces yus yuav tuag rau yam ntswd no ne!

Love your accent in thos story

Niam qhuav ntxim.

People will never learn. Only drink when special occasion or ua neeb stuff and not every weekend.

Oyo muaj ib txhia neeg yeej tsis sawm zoo kiag nws xav tias nws thiaj txawj plis es yuav tsis muaj hnub tuag taus li no mas.. Kav liam haus haus tuag kiag los zoo mas thiaj tsim nyog ev lub npe os..

Your husband so siab ntev. If that's my husband, he would have left that party already and drag me home😂. My brother drinks a lot, too. That's why we don't visit. My husband doesn't drink, and his body cannot tolerate alcohol.

LOL! Yog haus dej haus cawv xwb ces they can call me all names and be as rude as they they want. I'll just sit and see which hospital he'll end up at.

Qhov vauv yuav hlub yus tej muam tsis yog haus cawv li nawb txaus cawv li no mas yog neeg lim hiam xwb...,😭😭

Just like my ex husband. He pick his alcohol over me so he sure did pass away because he had too much to drink and unfortunately ran his car into an electricity pole and pass away.

Kuv cov neej tsa hmoob yaj los ua cuag kawg.

Hmoob ib txwm muaj ib lo lus hais tias, txuag zam ces zam tshiab txuag siav ces siav ntev. Leej twg hais tias keej keej haus dej caw los kav tsij haus tsis cheem li ntag nawb.

Cov neeg quav dej quav cawv ces tseev cheem li os av tsis lim ces yeej caiv tsis tau dej caw li yuav haus2 kom nkawv qab av kiag mas thiaj li caiv kiag tau os. Yog tias muaj mob muaj nkeeg xiam ces Kuv lub kua muag thiaj poob rau hos yog tim txoj kev khav theeb tawg dej tawg cawv tuag xwb ces Kuv yeej tsis nkim Kuv lub kua muag rau li hos

I hate ppl who do weddings and drink like this or give drinks for this purpose! They are killing you basically. If they love your daughters you don’t need to poison them with alcohol smhh hmoob ppl. I’m sure this still happens in this day and age. He got what he wanted from not listening and continuing to drink ppl like that won’t learn till they like this

I love how you imitate "the grass is greener on the other side"...😂 too funny i laugh so hard.

My husband is a heavy drinker now that his son died. Can't stop anyone who doesn't want to stop themselves and be healthy for their future

I’m a woman, and I like to drink. But this year, I made a promise to my man that I will limit myself to only 3 shots during family gatherings. I haven’t been to any gatherings this year (which is good) so I haven’t tested it out yet.

Cov pab thas ces txawm yog zoo li no xwb es thiaj ua tsis tau ib txoj hauj lwm tseem ceeb rau hmoob li tau tib co pab thas qaug cawv xwb thaum kawg ces ho mus tham poj nrauj es ho muab tus niam pab thas hlob tso pov tseg tsis nco niam loj tej txiaj ntsim txoj kev khwv li ho kuv mas thib no yog kuv tus txiv tseem lav mus ua pab thas ces kawg kuv xum nrauj tas tso nws yuav mus tus pab thas dab tsis los xij nws li ho kuv ces kawg tos saib xwb thiaj li tsis tau khwv nyiaj los tsis tau xiam ho lub zog los tsis tau xiam ko taw los thiaj li tsis mob yog tsis muab nrauj ua ntej es tseem CIA yus khwv khwv mob laug tas es thaum kawg tseem tau ua poj nrauj thiab mas khib yus tuag nthi li hos

This is y I avoid family gatherings. Even us as girls get force to drink. If u don’t drink they will sit and watch u and give u more. Even if u tell them u have health issue and dr won’t let u drink. They are asking for Dr notes. SMH. So I stop going. But I made sure I buy lots of life insurance for my husband because he had a heart surgery and still won’t stop drinking. People will never learn. Even if someone die right in front of them they still won’t learn.

Story of my life. Been married 30 years. I've loved him but it seems like he doesn't love himself. So what can I say. His "FACE" is more important than anything and since I'm a wife with no manners then I'm only making him lose face....lmao. He now has high blood pressure and heart issues, but won't stop... And I'm so tired of arguing him...smfh.. I am now at peace....These days I'm always looking forward to him drinking with his cousins and friends every weekend. I'm now always cheering him on and always buying him more alcohol so he won't "lose" face. Can't wait for those multiple life insurances to kick in. The sooner the better.😊

Oh hell no if that's my brother and say that shit. We are leaving. Toxic family don't need them.

Pabtha qauv dev! Cov neeg yuam22 kom haus cawv lwj liam li no ce tuag los zoo yeej g khuv xim. Like the saying goes” you die for what you love doing!” That unimportant pabtha loves to drink that’s why he died from it! Mission accomplished! Ntshe nws Tuag yam txaus siab hlo pob?

Well, well, well. Yog leej twg xav ua patha cawv, patha beer. Kav tsij j yuav life insurance kom 😂antau xwb ces kav tsij coj kiag ib lub labcawv los teeb kiag rau hauv tsev xwb ces tsis ntev kiag xwb tau sau nyiaj life insurance lawm tiag. Peb tiam society tshiab nimno. Yog leej twg yig neeg quav cawv quav beer, peb tsis tsab nws ua tuscoj lawm. Yog leej twg tuaj txog hauv party es nws haus ibuprofen poom beer lawm, ces peb tsis pub nws nce samthiaj mus hais lus rau lub PARTY lawm. Vim nws hais vwm beer tsawv lawm. Yog ib tug txuv neej twg thaum nws hais lus, nws hais tias, yov “ Thov txim uas kuv tau dej tau cawv ntau lawm. Txawm kuv hais tau licas los thov sawv daws zam txim pub nawb.” Ces kav tsij mus rub kiag nws nqis samthiaj kiag tsis txhob pub nws hais lus mus ntxiv li lawm.

Neeg liam ces tuag kom tas thiaj tsis muaj cov neeg liam no cia kom tos nws tsim los nws txog dab teb nws tsim los nws nyob dab teb lawm xwb .

It's Very Sad...but That's what He wanted...So let him.Have his way.....mens like that will Never Listen..He deserves that...because he doesn't love his wife and his kids and especially Himself.. 😔

Hmoob Yaj tsis yog caiv plawv xwb haj tseem quav dej cawv thiab. Liam tiag tiag. Puab tha quav dej cawv xwb tsis muaj qab hau dabtsis. Tsis tas li ntawv xwb, tseem quab yuam lwm Tus kom Haus thiab. Dej cawv yog tshuaj iab tshuaj daw tsis zoo Haus ntau ntau. Leej tug xav tuag ces mam Haus. Haus tas tsis nplua nuj, tsuas muaj teeb meem loj tuaj thiab ua neej xyob txhiaj ntxim mus xwb.

Tau cov txiv pab txha quav cawv no ces kav tsij yuav life insurance ntau ntau rau xwb mas. Thawj coj haus xwb tsis muaj quav ab tsi. Ntshaw ua thawj coj tab sis twb coj tsis tau nws tsev neeg mus rau qhov vam meej. Your brother died doing what he loved. Zoo qhov koj tus tiv nyab muaj life insurance ntau rau koj tus nus. Sorry for your loss.

Tbh I hate how some Hmong family drink alcohol and beer like there’s no tomorrow. It’s very frustrating and annoying when none of them listen.

Sad when you don't love yourself. Fake friends and family members.

Cov ntsawg2 ua pab tha os. Li no lawv tau puag yus poj niam thiab siv yus Cov nyiag. 🤣🤣.xav kom pab tha pum lub teb chaws no. 😁😁

I will never get why people like to force other people to drink! Like respect people’s decision and quit using that excuse, “if you love my brother/sister you better drink this.” Like stfu!! Lol! annoy the shit out of me.

Hmoob o hmoob aw... Ruam tiag tiag pabthan twb tsis tseem ceeb uacas yuav ntshaw ualuaj li. Tos kawm ntawv tsis tau los ruam dhau lawm.

Cov neeg quav cawv ces lawv muaj lawv cai hais ib zaj tias haus cawv tuag los kav liam g cuag twb tuag lawm los tseem laig cawv rau,twb noj thaum me lawm ces yuav haus thaum laus tam tseeb li os hais ces yeej g nkaj kis li tiag

Omg phooj ywg tsis hlub phooj ywg ces zoo li no dej caw Yeej yuav tsum txhob yuam kom luag haus . Yog yus hlub yus Tus phooj ywg ces yuav tsum chin yaum kom haus yog luag hais tias luag muaj mib lawm ces yuav tau zam, nej Yeej paub tias nws mob plawv cas nej tseem cua nws haus thiab. Ua Neej nyob yus yuav tsum txi meej mom txog txoj kev quav Cawv txhob muab lub npe pab tha coj lis coj es khav haus Cawv haus tiag tuag tiag li lawm tiag. Yus haus haus tuag kiag yus tej phooj ywg pab li cas kawg tuaj quaj ib pluag xwb.

Tab tom haum xwb cov neeg quav dej cawv nas.

It comes down to basic respect. If someone does not want to drink, do not force them to, look down on them, or say that they don't respect you.

He is right in a sense. We all gotta go so why not go for something you love

Sad, but you cannot stop an alcoholic person unless they do it themselves. You guy should have sued those friends of his for pushing him to the limit knowing his condition.

People who has had opened heart surgery and yet still drink at party n event like nothing. Paab tsis tau lawm.

Phooj ywg coob coob los yog phoojywg beer xwb ces pab tsis tau dabtsi tiamsi phoojywg sib hlub sib pab ma thiab tseeb ceeb thiab muaj nuj nqis

Cov neeg ruam thiaj hua cawv xwb peb muaj ib tus vawv cov neejtsas muab txhautxhau cWv tuag kiag lawm tiag

Txiv laus tsis mus yuav txiv, tabsis tsuas yog cov niam laus mus yuav txiv xwb. Paub tias koj hais yuav kev xwb os niam Neej Vam.

Cas koj tus tiv nyab tais foob lawv vim tuag tom lawv tsev thiab hwj cawv ntawd yog lawv li. American txoj cai foob tau txawm tias nws txaus siab haus los yeej yog tias lawv yuam nawb. Foob kom cov ntsej muag phooj ywg ntawd poob nthab kiag xwb

Yog kuv Tus Txiv ces twb mus Tsev thaum pib lawm os kuv Los Yeej tsis nyias kiag li os

That's what happens if you can't give up what you love, that's what you will end up with. Either happiness or sadness. Your life is your destiny, you can choose to be live happily ever or end up like your brother... most men will never learned from their mistakes

Koj tus dab laug tsis yog ib tug thawj coj ua neej, yog ib tug thawj coj zaum tom hauv paus rooj haus npias xwb Tuag los tsim nyog rau nws tus kheej kawg.

NlA kav tsij niaj hnub niaj hmo haus kom tuag kiag....muab 10 xyoo ntxim rau nej haus xwb ces cawv yeej caum tau nej lawm.

Nws tsi yog pabtha os. Nws yog pab cawv xwb. Ua ib coj es haus cawv xwb hais tsi ib lus zoo siv. Cia cawv qhia kev cai rau nws thiaj paub. Thaum nws paub txog nws lub qaum tes lig dhau hwv lawm.

For ppl like your brother, just double the life insurance!

Zoo mloog heev

Yog kawg cov niag neeg es yus hai tias yus muaj mob lawm hau tsi tau no los nws tias hau ib lub xwb tau kawg, mas ntxim ntxub tshaj lis

Kuv twb muaj ib tug nus kwv tij haus 2 beer poob taw tuag kiag lawm thiab.

Cov niag neej tsa liam neeg quav dej quav cawv yeej tsis tsim txiaj thiab yeej ntxim ntxub

The wife should sue that family and friends that forced/pressure him to drink, just to scare the heck out of them. 😂😂😂They will think twice next time they are pressuring someone to drink.

I’ve never heard of”the grass is greener on the other side” used in this way 😂

ua cas kuv hnoog zaj dab neeg no cas zoo li kuv thiab es kuv muam qhuav muaj 40 xyoo xwb es kuv tub tau ua poj nruam lawm os

The title should be called "drink till I die...lol

Koj. Tsi hlub koj tus txiv kiaglis os me ntxhais koj twb nyob tebchawsAmekas uaca koj tseem ruam ualuaj thiab naj me ntxhais.

It’s sad but he did it to himself…I may still be young and don’t know as much as the OGs but I tell my husband all the time that drinking and being a Hmong clan leader doesn’t mean shiet when you can’t better other people’s lives and help improve your Hmong people. Like there’s no point because at the end you don’t achieve shiet and other people just use up your $$$ and your health will probably just go down. I’ll never want him to be in a Hmong leader position!!

Haus Cawv tuag xwb tsis ua cas mam mus haus ntxiv hauv dab teb

Pabtha tuag caw.....cas zoo siab ua luaj li os...

Kuv yog tus Niam tsev ko kom lawv tha xwb ma

Panthan huas bias

Yuav life insurance kom ntau xwb..tu nyob tom qab yog tu raug lej

Hnub no ces koj cov neej tsa ntse ntse tau ntsia koj nyab nqa koj nus nqi taub hau mus tham hluas nraug. Lol

I am a Yang too but I don’t know if my family drinks like crazy! Seems like mine don’t unless they do it on their own! But, I always try to not go to places where women drink more than men! That’s why I have no friends!!

I'm not afraid of death... I'm afraid of the hospital bills

Hmoob cov Pabthas ces yeej yog tib co Pabthas qaug nkaus xwb hos, yeej tsis muaj ib txoj hauj lwm tseem ceeb li os

If it was me.... i would be a kid bettee than paying medical bills.... we dont have time to spend with u guys at the hospital 😅

He had a serious alcoholic problem but your family is so used to it generation through generation that you think it is normal.

ua pab tha es kuv txiv lawv ua los tau 10ntau xyoo lawv twb tsi haus cawv li as neeg tseem hwm ib yam neeg yeej tsi kam hloov nws tawm tom qab no muab nws txa ua tus loj zog tuaj los twb ua tau 10ntau xyoo tuaj lawm thiab tseem nyob khov kho dej num khiav tus yees li qub xwb cas nej es ua tus me pab tha khav theeb ua luaj

I don't feel bad for people who drinks every day. Glad my immediate family we don't drink. When my daughter got married there was not much alcohol. Just the elders drink. My sil didn't drink.

I dare anyone try to make me drink. They will regret it for the rest of their life.

I hate people who force others to drink...

Twb tsis sad li los sav. I thought it was gonna be a story about someone forcing someone to drink and died. Yus ua rau yus xwb ces it’s ok. His last moment was with his best friend alcohol so I’m sure he’s happy.

xav tias cov haus cawv tshaj ces yog moos pheeb no

Tsis yog nyhos nws os tab sis tsim nyog tuag kawg nws yeej yuav los li no thiaj zoo nws Siab cov neeg khav theeb niag paj thas quav dev Tsis muaj quav dab tsi cas hmoob yuav qhuas thiab yuav tshab muaj plhuas ua luaj kuv txawm Tsis muaj lub niag npe quav web ntawv los Tsis ntsaw tsuas yog Kev poob nyiaj Kev tsab ntse xwb Tsis muaj qab hau dab tsi rau tiam tshiab no li os muaj plaub ntug mus meskas tseem ncaj ncees dua cov niag hmoob tsab ntse os tuag lawm los zoo mas tsawg ib tug quav cawv xwb os