Wait, at first your husband was too busy so you went alone with both of your IDs and money. When the money was gone, you claimed, both of you went and 4 eyes saw?

Koj muaj 20 tawm xyoo, hos koj tus txiv 51 xyoos , hnub nyoog txoj kev hluas thiab laus sib txawv deb ua luaj ces koj tus txiv ham tsis muab koj hu ua Naib xwb mos. Yog koj yuav luag laus ib yam li nws es nws muab koj hu ua Naib mas thiab haib ov.

Nim yuav seem os, pog aw🙄 Koj niag thaub thiab thaub yij laug ces nim yuav xyeej pim tsis aim naw

Wow! You’re very immature to be believing your husband 110%. Just bc you’re younger doesn’t guarantee anything.

Lol. You are too gullible. He claimed to be that drunk but he remembered so much stuff. Yea…. Sure…..

Koj tseem mos2 ces koj tus txiv yeej yoog koj las mav. This is the rule of 👍 for common OGs.

This young wife know her husband less.

Tim koj xwb os, koj tsis muaj cai cem tias lawv siab phem. Lawv yeej siab zoo es lawv thiab suav koj los tau ntau xyoo. Koj yog tus tsim tej teebmeem no thaum koj muab koj qhov nyiaj cob rau tus tub laib tuav. Twb tsis muag neeg pom ua lavtham mas koj yog tus liam txim rau lawv tus tub ces koj yog tus tsim teebmeem.

U marry a guy who divorce 5 time there something wrong with him n when your family give u advice n u still don’t listen don’t blame nobody jux yourself n for the guy he need to stay single for life😂😂😂🤣

Tsi yog neej tsa koj mus zeem tau cov tsa nees xwb

Sugar daddy..there's a 20 plus year difference..damn such a show off..no sympathy for you..must have daddy issues...😅😅😅😅

U marry a guy who divorce 5 time there something wrong with him n when your family give u advice n u still don’t listen don’t blame nobody jux yourself

It's nobody's fault, but your own. You knew that the son was a gangster, but you still left the money at their house, and you even mentioned the amount. You should've waited to hand the money directly to the mom even if that means you would have to go back to their house another day. I hope you learned your lesson and keep your circle small!

Koj paub koj tu txiv tsawg os. Txog txij koj tu txiv mag raug nkauj nrab muab nws hle khaub ncaw tag thiab coj mus nyob rau hauv nkauj nrab lub van ces koj niag txiv ǰ❤

Tsi txhob thab kiag nawb cov me muam mus zeem luag ces rau yog yus ua neej zoo thiab pab luag tshaj xwb yog yus txom nyem luag yeej tsi hlub yus nawb example kuv niam yog ib tus tsi muaj neej tsa nyob mekas li,kuv yug tau peb 4 kwv tij 3 tus muam peb hlub niam kawg kuv twb tsi zeem los hmoob yaj tseem hais tias kuv niam yog niag hmoob yaj hmoob dub xwb tsi yog hmoob yaj xeem

Thanks for sharing

20 xyoo yuav tus 50 tawm xyoo 😱😱 es koj tseem yog me nyuam hmoob meskas thiab OH NO MUST BE SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU. Tsuas hnov thaub laus mus yuav poj niam tim nplog teb 20 xyoo xwb as.

kuv twb kawm tiav xyoo 1988 kuv tuaj nyob qaum teb lawm os lawv aw

Isn't any single men alive left.?

Peb cov txivneej mhoob yuav taur tsortseg qhov khuvxim tu neeg tsi hlub yu. Cov pojniam lo yuavtsum taur tsortseg thiab e baj lub siab raur tu neeg hlub yu. Yog tia yuav ncor ce ncor tu hlub yu xwb nawb e peb thiaj muaj kevkajsiab vim kevuarneej thiab uarneeg luv heev. Tsi petsawg xyoor peb twb yuav tsor lub ntiajteb nov tseg e ncorjoov uarzoor raur tu neeg uarzoor raur yu.

Hlawv xyab hlawv ntawv com noj koj cov nyiaj tag ces kom tuag tas

Rule of thumb -- No matter how great or bad your relationship is with your siblings... Never ever, ever share a life insurance policy. Another advise. Life insurance is not to get rich off of. It is to pay funeral expenses and also to pay off any debts left behind.

You and your husband are so stupid! It’s your loss! Hope you learn your lessons “qhov ntshaw ntshaw neej tsa”

Cia saib yuav npam leej twg sai sai xwb os vivncaus aw muaj lub ntuj thiab tus tswv yeej khiav tsi dhau tej kev npam li nawb mog.

Sadly, its ur fault that u should’ve trust ur instincts. Moreover, there are family members like that who one dislike u then all dislike u..and they dont care if there is justice or not. These people are very immature people. Yes, take it as a lost and learn ur lesson. No matter how hurry u are, money is very important, and do not depend on anyone to handle the responsibility for u. Trust no one but urself to get the job done. And like ur mom said..not all families are like that.

Paub neeg tsis paub siab! Trust no one! I never go “zeem Ua neej tsa”

cv nj tsano siabphem tiag2 yom 3 cv kwv t ua g yg niamtxiv 1 plabyug mas phemtib ym li cv nyavnoj ng (nj tsano) zoo duaces hmoob vj rovsib yv kuj hajyam zoovim g txheebne yg nebnyiam plaubli lawvces hausdab kiag g ntevces pom qhv tseeb lm mas

Why does all the good MILs get the devil nyabs, but all the devil MILs get the good nyabs? Smh

Even my moms own sister did me wrong and I’ve blocked her and her daughters. We try to give people a benefit but when they burn you that’s when you really know who they are. All the sweet talk is nothing but crap and the moment they have a chance they will stab you

Teeb meem yog yus xwb. Tej khoom tseem ceeb yuav tsum cev kiag rau tus need los sis cev rau tus ua yuav responsible. Koj muab tso ntawm tej xwb ces luag tsi lee lo pab tsi tau,

you too stupid you know her son is a thief but you still leave money. no body's fault but your own fault. beside tsov tsi tom tsov os

Thawj thawj zaj ntawm koj cov neej neeg uas ua rau kuv poob kua muag.

Koj zaj neej neeg thooj thooj kuv zaj thiab. Ua Vajtswv tsaug uas kuv kuj los tau ib tug hlub hlub kuv kawg li lawm thiab.

Why did you leave money to her son?

Tsov yeej tsis tom tsov. Koj ruam kawg koj thiaj li hais rau lawv niam thiab lawv tus nus hlob. Koj ua twj ywm thaum xub es ris siab ces twb tsis txob kev sib ntxub sib ceg loj loj

Lesson learned. Continue to be a good person but have boundaries. Don't let others wrong doing turn you into a bad person.

It's a hard lesson learned. To always hand money directly and make sure it's counted. I don't believe anyone who always say I don't need to count it, I trust you. And good thing u didn't back down with the brother because if ya don't cut them lose and they know u gonna be forgiving. They would eventually take advantage of you.

This is what happened when you married too young. You missed aupity life.

Pob ntseg kub2 es nim yog yuav muaj teeb meem na yuav muaj teeb meem mas yog yus qhov muag laim2 pob thiab yeej tim koj mas yus twb paub tias lawv tus tub tsis tseem ceeb es yus ho muab nyiaj tso rau dabtsi naw yuav pib nyaj hoom xwb es yus nim yuav tsis tau nim yuav tso2 siab tag npaum rau lawv nyiag pawv ces ham tsis tag dawb xwb ua li mes kas hais koj tsis muaj proof ne es koj nim xav hais tias cov neej tsa viv ncaus/nyab nus zeem ces nim hlub koj tshaj no thaum zoo ces lawv sawv daws hlub ov thaum ib nyuag muaj teeb meem es koj twb tsis yog luag tus kiag hauv tsev es luag puas yuav pab koj puas hlub koj naw 1 txhia es koom niam koom txiv kiag tseem ua plaub qees twb tsis sib hlub sib hwm tseem sib txiav tag li na es cas koj nim yuav zoo2 siab tso2 siab tias lawv hlub2 koj es koj twb tsis quav ntsej txog cov yus koj txawm nyob deb npaum twg los 1 xyoos kuj mus saib tau 1 zaug los pos. Kuv li dhau cov ntawm yus koom niam koom txiv yug thiab cov niam hlob txiv Ntxawm es yog 1 tse neeg koom dab koom qhua yug lawm ces Kuv yeej tsis mus zeej leej twg kiag li nawb txawm hais tias kuv 1 leeg twm zeej xwb los Kuv yeej tsis lam mus zeem leej twg ua viv ua ncaus ua neej tsa hlo li nawb vim Hmoob lub siab phem2

Cias ntuj mam txiav txim os. Never ntshaw ntshaw Sister, cousin, brother. Ntuj pub nus muag viv ncau lis cas rau yus, yus yuav lis ntawv xwb ok.

hehe. Txiv coj xaiv, peb hais yeej muaj ib toom hais "Nej niam hais tias kaj ntug tagkis nej tawm rooj li plaws, nej mus pom luag niam los txhob mus muab luag niam hlub tshaj nej niam, nej mus muab luag niam hu ua nej niam luag tsis teb nej los tsam nej tu siab, luag lam teb nej. Thaum zoo ces zoo2 kawg, thaum tsis zoo ces nej tsis yog luag roj los luag ntshav luag txawm hlug nej los hlub mus tsis tis txhav no mog."

Those ppl are evil. This story made me think of my parents but in a good way. My parents are the opposite of those ppl. They are more afraid of the more distant relatives being sadden or offended then their own children. They always said tus tsis yog yus yug ces yuav tsum tau hlub tshaj los luag tseem tu siab hos tu yus yug ces yus tsis tshua hlub los nws yeej tsis pom qab tu siab . My parents have always loved others more. That's also sad.

👉 lt's your mistake, lady! Learn your lesson. You have no evidence to go after the boy and his mom. Be smart!

Dam, you were a cheap thrill, that's why he ghosted you! Who goes to motel 6 with a guy to have sex? Smh, you're easy and cheap, he got what he wanted 😂

So sorry to hear. I married and moved very far away from my family. I have a very large family - 8 brothers and 3 sisters....I missed my family so much throughout the years, but regardless, I never go zeem anyone to be my neej tsa. If they said they are the same as my surname, I greet them but never ntshaw mus zeem luag los ua yus tus dab laug, yus tus nyab, yus niam yus txiv, yus sisters vim txog thaum kawg, yog muaj teeb meem li no, lawv yeej tsis hlub yus nawb. Lawv yuav pab lawv tus ua ntej lawv pab yus.

This is why I don’t go to any family functions. I befriend any Hmong people. Times have changed and Hmong people are no longer need families to help with farming or to solve their problems. Here, it’s meka country, meka laws, and everyone provides for themselves.

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Who is stupid here, it's you. Why giving cash, most Hmong Americans use checks, money orders.

Tim neb xwb, vim neb twb paub lossis hnov lub moo tias neb tus viv ncaus qaib qus tus tub laib nyuam qhuav tawm nram nkuajj los es neb ho yuav tso siab muab ob phav nyiaj ntsuab tso cia rau hauv lawv tsev rau tus laib ntawd paub thiab pom naw.

Never trust other than your own family. Smh