This one really hitted me hard... When he said that he didn't marry her out of love, but because she would accept living with his mother, that just broke my heart. He doesn't have a good relationship with his wife or kids, and his actions seem to tell that he doesn't care. If he doesn't change soon, I really hope she divorces him. Their kids are all grown-up, they'll understand. She just looks so lifeless, honestly I just want to see her happy and smiling.

I would never trust the apologies and promises forced out of these bums from the audience. They do it because they are embarrassed not because they wanted to. Mam divorce, I know you are afraid of being alone but you are lonelier with him than without. Live a second life without him as your best life. Don't waste your energy on those who do not deserve it. If you wouldn't stand for your daughter being treated this way, why would you allow yourself to be treated as such. You are stronger than you think. He is relying on your insecurities to keep you there thinking shell never leave. Classic narcissist.

I just hate how the husband constantly plays the victim role. Man, just admit you've done some shit and don't have an excuse for it. When he said "I didn't marry her because I love her" I just lost it...

he said they leave him out but he leaves himself out. He doesn't care for them once he said i didn't marry her because of love it just showed where it all begun.

Mad respect for the daughter who wasn't up for pretending with his fake "I love you."

That "I love you" from the husband made me mad because it's not real. 😤

He is so thankful to his mom, because she's a mother. He should do the same to his wife, because she's also a mother, for their kids. Hmmm

My soul dies a little every time I see an abusive spouse on here that no one here really adresses as such

Sorry but I think this relationship is too broken to be restored

Divorce him, queen. He doesn’t care for you at all. He doesn’t care for your kids. Divorce him, queen. I support you all day.

How do you fix something that is already broken right from the start?

Girl just leave him he ain’t worth it

29:02 That face of mother when she is hugged..... Kind of relieving. Priceless.

This was absolutely heartbreaking...she put up with him and his mother for over 30 years. She looks so drained. She deserves to be living in peace along with the support of her two kids.

I do appreciate his caring and love for his mother and sister, but that doesn't mean there shouldn't be any left at least for his children much less his wife of three decades. It's plain to see that he didn't develop any love for her throughout the years of living together. There's not even an inkling of fondness one another. I feel that he doesn't see the need to try hard to get to know his family because he has his mother by his side who'd listen to him and validate his worth as a person. It's really sad though that he's neglected his children emotionally and it would take time to build their trust. If this situation continues on, he'd be one of those parents abandoned by their children to live to their own.

She can do better on her own, he didn't love her from the start. there's nothing to fix.

After watching this episode I had to say a little prayer because boy was it needed. She's a strong woman for staying with him for 29years. The husband doesn't love her no matter how much the producers try to sugar coat all the lovey dovey scenes at the end. A person that loves you will not present himself to the whole nation and on a global television program to say that he didn't marry you for love but for his own convenience of will you live with your mother-in-law. Yes this case was a difficult one but it shouldn't have ended like this. Since they go to church I would advice they seek help with their local marriage counsellor (that's if the wife still wants to go on with her marriage). They should have also adviced him to seek answers from his wife first before telling his mother. You can't keep your wife in the dark, then why did you marry her? I think people need to start asking questions like how many blind dates have you been to, how many were successful and why do you think the others weren't successful? 50 blind dates for me is a red flag.

Why not divorce his ass? I admire you for your strength in dealing with this POS for that long...

His "apology" at the end seemed very forced. I don't think he'll change. Kyubok was right, the dad doesn't care about them at all.

Just please divorce him, mam. You deserve better life. You already have kids that will love you unconditionally.. for me 50 failed blind dates were alarm. Big no no. Hope you get your smile back soon, mam. Luv luv

I wish his mother and sister were here too. I wanted to her their perspective on this. Like, do they take his side? Do they care for the kids? Or are they cold to them like he is?

he is so selfish.... 😭

There always two sides of the story when it comes to couples and you really don't know happens behind close doors. But damn, that's cold blooded to say, he didn't marry her out of love. It's not like anyone forced him to marry her. It's very hard to have a healthy relationship when resentment enters the picture. Yes, it good to help those in need, but your wife/husband should come first.

is it just me or did it look like they didnt believe him when he said he will try harder??

Its somehow similar with our family situation.Our father character is somehow like that.Not know how to show affection.And his voice is rough and the words he say are tought.As an elder sibling i have known it a lot from my childhood that my parents very often have an argument sometimes very serious.But my mom stay positive what so ever and tell us that "if i dont respect my husband no one would respect him".He doesnt like noises and scold us when u laugh but we still make jokes with mom and try to make him laugh.And i think that is the best part of being a family

Sorry but for me divorce is the only solution here, he's selfish and said he didn't marry cause he loved her in the first place...

어머니 힘내세요 쓰담쓰담~~ 눈물나요 앞으로는 어머님 을위해서 사세요

Can't believe that he said he did not marry her cause he loved but she agreed to take care of his mother................. so sad for the wife.

I cried this remind me so much of me and my husband my husband did not take me out on our 30 anniversary. I also have two non cure illness it is really hard on my body, my dr told me three yrs ago to go on disibility finally three weeks ago he let me but still get treated like it is my fault I am tired of it I did not get two horrible non cure on purpose for ten yrs of it i will never hear I am sorry or how u feel or are u okay. I will never hear it from him ever...I understand how this person feel..

marriage is so difficult. sometimes we get so in our feelings, it just accumulates, and it's hard to get back to what marriage is about. an arranged marriage, happens...a lot. it's about learning and growing WITH ea other. sometimes, we just get caught up in our daily duties, but don't take the time to work on getting to know ea other. i'm sure they will work on it. married 29 yrs is an accomplishment and shows responsibility for family life.

I think he just cared about his reputation in front of strangers. Even me, he makes me hates his mom. His mom should advise his son. A mother who only listens n never nagging on his married son always kind of receiving n wanted more n more money from his son. Whatever his son's family lacking of money is never her problem

This is how my dad acts. Seriously its a huge problem.

I couldn't believe the things that were coming out of his mouth. She had to live with that for 29 years!

Im crying so bad😭

This is one of the concerns that seems to be unsolvable.the damage is alright done.i hope they end well tho

My father is a man of few words too, maybe not this bad but still I can relate to her

Why this kind of guy still exist?? 😩😩

Poor her..😢 i hope she is doing well right now...

Well this is hard... I don’t know if there’s a resolution even... I can’t say I fault the dad for saying he met her through matchmaking and didn’t marry her for love cause there were probably many cases like that in the olden days.. the mistake here was that he said it out loud even when it was the truth.. Tbh I think lots of asian dads are kinda like him- hard to talk to and doesn’t say much but the difference here is that the dad really doesn’t seem to care or love his family at all... anyway I honestly don’t know many around me who are that close to their asian dads... 😕

어렸을때 아버지가 돌아가셔서 아빠가 어떤건지를 잘모르신것도 큰듯.........

That change was so quick, I don’t think it’s very genuine. He said that he didn’t love her and only married her because she was willing to live with her mum. I feel so conflicted and sorry for the Mother. I really hope things do well for them.

이게 너무 슬퍼요ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ

I hope she leaves. I don’t care if divorce is frowned upon in SK. She deserves to be happy. If he didn’t marry her out of love then he should have never gotten married. The words you say stick with people for life. I still remember my dad saying the same thing about my mom and whenever they threaten each other with divorce I just shrug. The woman deserves better and to move on. He can stay with his mother and not be judged.

아주머니, 그 남자랑 이혼해야죠 ㅠㅠ 그런 남자는 결혼하면 안돼요 진짜

Just leave him already. I hope he will growing old and realize that there is no wife nor children who taking care him for last of his life

Why they still married 😩

50대 이상 부부면 97.989%이상의 확률로 남편이 잘못했을 확률이 훨씬 높음...

i don't know but, i think he just too shy and don't know how to express his love. He's dad passed away when he was 3, it may be the one of the reason why he's don't know what father's role he's supposed to be. :(

Leave him.

He remember my dad who always said is my mom who dosent work things out, but in the end if you are not willying to go with they bs and endure it, they think is your fault that for any mean or reason you should take it and be happy with that. In the end my parents divorced and i have to say as a daughter im more happy this way than seeing my mom stucked in such relationship. P.s: i think like he said he dosent love her and he just care for his kids because is theyr blood and will look bad as a dad not to. But not for any sincer feeling. And in the other hand she dosent love him anymore, she is just taking gor the kids (what i dont get, they are old), probably because she dosent want to people point them out for having divorced parents. A pitty in the end matchmakers can be really troublesome since you dont know if the person likes you or just lost his hope and want someone to fill that gap and dosent care who is the one.

He doesn’t love her, that’s soooooo obvious.

They should come early .. Its been 29years their relationship was not so good .I'm so pity to his wife n also their childs

Just divorce that selfish man

It won’t work out, too broken to fix, the wife’s soul has been 29 years died..

I don't think he wanted to marry her in the first place, I wonder if he did it because she got pregnant? That happened a lot with people their age.

I already watch this episode😁

Y’all he never loved her to begin with, I don’t he ever did actually, he said he only married because she was willing to live with his mother. If he never loved her of course he will not show affection towards her.

For every living human in this world, we live for once in a lifetime, men or women have their own disire to make a better life. While as a men you must rememmber how your wife delivered your son. Its really dificult for being a mother and raise a kids alone and much more difficult when the husband didnt care at all. Its a mental abbusive. Please say everything that make our partner smile and happy, we wont realized until once they are moved or left us.. The only thing in this world is being loved and loved is a must. Appreciate our partner or regret wil hunt our life forever.t

Man this one grabbed army heart.

*I Like*

Wow, so he's a deacon at church but he treats his family like that? How very "Christian" of him😑😑😑 at least when I see someone like that, I can appreciate more how wonderful my dad was.

It's heartbreaking to hear from a person you been with for 29 years that they didn't love you. It seems that the husband has lived a life that he never wanted nor loved. He doesn't hate them but it's clear that he has no love for his family. Ask the years of neglect of course that his children will take their mothers side as they to were treated indifferently.

11:03 when he said her birthday is on 4th May , I was like this isn't my future flashing infront of my eyes right!!!!! 😦😦........

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I would've divorce him a long time ago. No one deserves to be treated like this. Better yet dont even get married to a guy like him! waste of time!

This is why I’m glad arranged marriage aren’t in the US. They don’t always work out the way they were meant to.

the problems juz go around in a vicious cycle..... none of them can determine who did wrong first at the very beginning.....so they juz blame each other....the husband blaming the wife for treating him badly but the husband himself did the same...also same to the kids.... its frustrating to see tis situation...... i guess the root of all tis is tat tis is not a marriage based on love, like wat the husband said......but 29 yrs...even if there's no love...there should be a sense of responsibility as least...bcuz its a family we talking about.....

How do you put up with that

Welp I don’t see the reason for visit he clearly said he married her out of convince and never loved her so why is she doing all this now I’m sure she knew it

어머니 너무 속상하고 너무 너무 힘들어요

The thing is they look like they doesn’t even start anything..... why do you want to marry at the first place if u don’t know how to handle your family?

She looks absolutely dead at the end. I bet they fought right after this at home, and he was embarrassed that she made him do this...

What's the point in staying in the marriage when you are miserable. Don't wait for 29 years before you decide to leave your husband because you are afraid to start again. You may think that you are staying for the children but in the end they too will suffer. Life is short. Act now and be happy!

우체부 퇴근시간이 몇신데?병원가볼 시간이 없누

You are a jerk, mister. This lady needs to divorce and live happily for her remaining years.

아무리 그래도 이건 남편의 생각과 인식이 잘못되었다.

Honey it's time to stop✋ ur too good for this. Cause this man wasn't raised right. That being said I can see both of their faults

그럼 당신 어머니랑 평생 살지 왜 저래 괜히 한 평생 아내랑 자식한테 마음에 못을 박고 아휴 말하는 뽄새도 진짜....🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

They should divorce, 29 years? And it is not enough? No! If that was me, I plan on to live my life and find happiness than stay and be miserable knowing that nothing will change.

please get a divorce queen

i feel koreans are either too sensitive or too harsh lmaoo.

Divorce him sis!!!!

Sejong is so adorable! I am glad they didn't whitewashe her

You should have left him along time ago, they should have never married. He won’t change.

His mother wasn't able to teach him how to love a wife. That's taught by the father. So yes, his mom taught him wrong.

U cant fix a broken glass

Arranged Marriage? No love? Resentment? He grew up without a father so he did his best to be a provider . May be the sister lend him money and his paying her back .

Throw the whole husband away!

I think the reason for the whole thing is his mom ,she made him cold and selfish

what the heck the blue shirt guy is on the dads side. i mean...the wife treated her husband bad because he was the one that never loved or cared for her in the first place. and they made him the victim.

This is one of the things I don't like about this show, they try to force you to feel something other than what you feel. I understand that the show is about resolving issues, but if they are not willing to do so, don't force them. The Mother and daughter ain't feeling his stuff. They ain't going for it. Kick his butt to the curb. Lol.

This is so fucked up i would never want a husband like that

정말. 아빠 생각나단다. 자기 가족한테는 못할짓 다 하면서 남 한테는 그렇게 잘 대해주구.

시댁에 반품하세요

That woman should have walked out of the marriage 29 years ago talking about both being toxic to each other...

This guy needs jesus😂😂 (Anyone offended ..its just a meme)

SMH

K

Duty to church? How about duty to your wife and family? Like most religious people a total hypocrite.

Chantel and Pedro in the future 90 day fiance