He Rushed To the Philippines For A FILIPINA & Ended Up In A Nightmare

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He Rushed To the Philippines For A FILIPINA & Ended Up In A Nightmare

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@stw5346 26 күн бұрын

Keep up the amazing channel!

@TheBlackFilipino 26 күн бұрын

Thanks 🙏🏽 for the support brother

@richardtaylor9802 Ай бұрын

I've been with my woman now since 2019. I told her from the beginning that we do not loan money to anyone for any reason. I'm still in the U.S. but visited PI twice now. Her friends are trying very hard to friend me on fb. I refuse them all. I like to be drama free. Retiring in Nov. Should relocate by next Feb. You are giving great advice. Men just need to use their heads.

@gdcskates Ай бұрын

which head?

@yaadythommo5548 Ай бұрын

@@gdcskatesROTFLMAO 😅

@Airraidcd 29 күн бұрын

Men are driven by the taco it’s a biological thing.

@curtisthomas8025 23 күн бұрын

Yeah I help my Filipina girlfriend every week her and her cousin and daughter but I have been over there two times so I trust her but made sure I tested her good

@dennismelton2261 14 күн бұрын

@@curtisthomas8025the simple test is if a woman is asking for money from the jump or constantly asking on occasions. That's a major red flag.

@marksjourneytothephilippin9574 Ай бұрын

I told the girls i met online that i would never send money until after i met them and probably nothing significant until engaged or married. And if they ever asked id break up or block them immediately. They weed themselves out. The good ones talked for years and never asked for anything. Now I’m here and dating casually just slowly deciding which one I want to pursue long term. It’s nice to have several good quality choices.

@MikeS-7 26 күн бұрын

No money... The first ask should be the AMF moment.

@garyzies3486 Ай бұрын

Dating platforms are a major source of income for many girls who claim to be looking for a relationship. Dating platforms are a goldmine because so many guys around the world are willing to send money to people they've never met.

@dnyce3506 Ай бұрын

Not me 😮😅

@BraineFreeze305 Ай бұрын

Best thing to do is talk to more than one girl before going to the Philippines. The ones that start asking for money ignore. They may try and play the long game so be sure to have more than one lined up. Also be sure to talk to more than one because some may not even meet up when you get there ( have some backups). Take the women out and get to know them and make sure they know you are not a money bag.

@TheBlackFilipino Ай бұрын

Great advice

@billkeller3083 Ай бұрын

“The ones that ask for Money ignore”😂😂😂😂😂dude! You have not been to the phillipienes have you Don’t you understand that the poverty Level there is like 98% If you ignore the ones ask fir money ..then Your left with nobody ,because they ALL ask fir money there..

@fishingwithrick3991 Ай бұрын

I'm guilty of this with a Filipina. Learned my lesson.

@12567NoYouCannot Ай бұрын

There is Something in the Psychology of men that doesn't make Sense, especially AMERICAN "MEN". They TRASH, degrade, ill-speak, mistreat, misjudge, Use and Abuse the Women where ever they are; in this case the USA. EVEN the Good Women. They don't PAY the RENT for the Women They USE for S*X in the USA. AMERICAN "MEN" do NOT help ANY WOMAN financially in US soil, but they go so many thousands of miles of AWAY to be used by those that look "innocent" and "fragile"?? LOL, D*MBAF.

@12567NoYouCannot Ай бұрын

Weird how in the USA the American men don't Help the Woman they are with. She could be going through the MOST DIFFICULT TIME in her life, financially and emotionally, and the "Men" behave like Robots, heartless, but they go by the Thousand to the Philippines to be taken Advantage of these "looking innocent & fragile" little things. LOL, DMBAF.

@marksjourneytothephilippin9574 Ай бұрын

A good test (works back home too) is to take a few weeks vacation and tell her that you lost your job. Or maybe you unfortunately did lose your job. Or you get sick or hurt. Does she stay when you’re broke? Does she care about you and your health and healing and recovery? Does she want to take care of you or wishes she could? If she cares more about the money and job toss her back in. There’s plenty of other fish in the sea still.

@Ron-oe7hg 29 күн бұрын

You guys are a lot braver than I am. Firstly I can't start a relationship on an untruth. I prefer honesty in my relationships. Sending the Filipina 50k?? I'd never have the guts to do that.

@TheDumontShow 27 күн бұрын

@@Ron-oe7hg anybody asking for 50k, ditch them. anybody. that's a bad investment

@MikeS-7 26 күн бұрын

Look at the extreme men have to go to in order to get a woman.

@siatelecomsltdLondon Ай бұрын

This is why it is important to get involved with women who come from middle class backgrounds when you go to these countries.

@flanaganjames 24 күн бұрын

you mean middle income ?

@lionelsanders180 Ай бұрын

Best advice ever! Your retired and you enjoying your life! Dont try to solve anyones problems in the philippines or anywhere else! You just prevented 99% of your future problems.

@byroncollier4253 Ай бұрын

you are so right, this happened to me i created a monster. I had to separate after 8 years being together, i saw red flags and didnt pay attention to it. Be smart all I can say.

@djenntt Ай бұрын

Listen to this advice. These girls know you’re looking for love and they will exploit that.

@Area51-is6vg Ай бұрын

Yes the guys are looking for love and the girls are looking for money. If you have no money the girl will move on to the next guy who has money.

@henrymcmiller2527 Ай бұрын

@@Area51-is6vg I was stationed in Seoul S Koreaim the eighties and it was no money no honey

@djenntt Ай бұрын

There are women out there who are not like that, you just need to look harder

@mamishey 23 күн бұрын

@@djennttAbsolutely right! I can say i am one of those.

@Aesahaetr Ай бұрын

Always take your time when dealing with any relationship. That's what I do. I rather enjoy the beautiful country and landscapes before starting a relationship.

@globalismoblackman Ай бұрын

@Aesahaetr Exactly been doing the same since 2015. Enjoying my vacation in Paradise Islands 🏝 😎 . No relationship, no warped expectations , nd entitlement baggage. Solo move solitude life 🙌👌

@MrJamaican8 Ай бұрын

Thanks for the heads up jay much respect 👊🏾

@TheBlackFilipino Ай бұрын

I met my wife on a Christian dating site for Filipinas. Check out Christian Filipina cutt.ly/toWfZ7F

@lionelsanders180 Ай бұрын

@@TheBlackFilipino I retired military! I have lived here in the philippines now 6 years! I know the laws of the universe! Keep people out of your life unless they bring ideas and capital to both your future!

@ElvisGarciaDeJesus-bl4cf Ай бұрын

@@lionelsanders180 This is not how things work in the Phillipine.

@gmm5550 Ай бұрын

Many dudes coming to Philippines seems to fall for the first pinay that give them any attention.. often even "bargirls..and freelancers" My tip for all se-asian countrys: skip the online search and dating..and just LIVE there 1-2 months and get ur bearings and "boots on the ground" before u start dating..

@globalismoblackman Ай бұрын

@gmm5550 Very correct, but even boot on the ground move cautiously. I know from personal experience in the Philippines way back in Cebu 2012-2014.

@gmm5550 Ай бұрын

@@globalismoblackman of course the girls know what they doing..haha But after a while u get the rytm and bearings and know prices and what to eat and where to go and HOPEFULLY little of the language .. and u learn to se which is a"good woman" or a bad one.. Dudes fresh out from the airport are easy marks and often fully dependent of the girl they met online ..that in most cases are scammers or "working girls"

@clydesmith3437 Ай бұрын

Im so glad your putting the truth out therr Bruh.

@MrMotivation247 Ай бұрын

Excellent advice l, as a Man all Women in all Cultures have an Agenda. What matters the most as a Man is that I lead and if she fits my Agenda then we can go from there.

@rodneysessoms8804 29 күн бұрын

I've met my Filipina queen while she was working in Dubai and made plans to meet in Manilla. Praise God everything worked out, we're together on 4 years now and definitely marriage is in our plans

@Jaycfl205205 Ай бұрын

I spoke to my Filipina wife for 4years before I married her, she never asked me for anything, we Been married for 5 years now i be in the Philippines with her for 3 years, we have a child and she’s a God fearing woman that’s what you really need!!!

@PabloChicano 22 күн бұрын

Do you help out her family?

@Recon6 Ай бұрын

Very good video excellent content!

@larrygraham3377 Ай бұрын

Wow, thank you for this great video and the wonderful sunset !!! You are absolutely right in everything that you said . It's best to me someone in person first and get to know them before you commit yourself to a relationship !!! Been there ... done that... !!! Now I have a wonderful filipina who is a great wife !!! Really feel sorry for all the guys who end up broken hearted and broke because they were deceived !!! " IT TAKES A FOOL TO LEARN THAT LOVE DON'T LOVE NOBODY ". Again... THANKS MY BROTHER FOR THIS INFORMATIVE VIDEO !!! 😇😇😇

@johnmycroft3065 Ай бұрын

for some reason I am not attracted to most Phillies

@derekpotts7820 Ай бұрын

You mean Filipinas....😊

@KingLife1991 Ай бұрын

Always spitting facts 👏 keep options open

@derrickclark5510 Ай бұрын

Are you in Metro Manila? That’s a beautiful skyline!!!

@TheBlackFilipino Ай бұрын

yes Mandaluyong Metro Manila

@Jay-King Ай бұрын

Oh snap I'm right here at the Fame condos@TheBlackFilipino

@theghostofpennsylvania_11 Ай бұрын

I met my Filipina in person at Mall. We are very happy with each other and her family is fun to be around and very nice.

@adean04 29 күн бұрын

Thanks for the video: I have found that asking about the immediate family first has been key to my success. For example, I would inquire, "Will anyone in your family have an issue with me being African American?" or "How do you and your family earn money?" An experience that stands out to me is when I was married to a Filipina for 20 years. While the financial aspect was fine, the issue of race was a challenge with her extended family. I took my time, and met a Filipina from a Province who checked all the boxes. We have been together since 2021. In November will be my 6th trip to the Philippines (Just) take your time - the right one will come.

@TheDumontShow 27 күн бұрын

I never had my Filipina ask me for money. I had her refuse money from me. I did get her stuff to help her out with her health but I remember on my birthday, she had sent me a cake mix to my house. I didn't realize it was her. it was from Doordash and my sister picked it up off the doorstep. I was wondering who sent me a cake mix. it was for my birthday. later on that night, she hit me up and asked did I got the present she sent. I knew it was her. she cared that much to go do that. that's when I knew I had a good one. my girl doesn't care about money. you can always tell a girl if she is about money. because it always comes up in the conversation. i had to stop talking to a Filipina friend all the time because he needed money from time to time. I gave her the business. never again with that nonsense

@christinejoyarmonidad9468 Ай бұрын

Goodluck to you guys, God bless

@michaelprescott9033 25 күн бұрын

Great video.

@PabloChicano 22 күн бұрын

Many foreigners search the Provence to rescue, young Filipinas IIMO not knowing what may be required of them such as giving her family a monthly allowance or paying for his sister in law to go to university!

@michaelprescott9033 25 күн бұрын

Thanks!

@MoneyManQuick 4 күн бұрын

Met so many who uses the same line about debt and getting sued and needing to pay in 3 days 😅. I be like well that’s sad, I hope you get it handled 😌. Only 1 didn’t mention money and we are good friends and she is successful. Take heed on them money grabbers

@mikesimpson9997 Ай бұрын

Hello

@pattayaexcitingnewsgirlz2720 Ай бұрын

great video

@BuenDia93991 Ай бұрын

I would rather live near the mall of Asia. Is this a good idea?

@TheBlackFilipino Ай бұрын

You would have more opportunities

@charlescolton8810 27 күн бұрын

some lessons are taught while others are bought. just dont let the lessons learned all be for naught!

@mikedenham5882 Ай бұрын

I have been watching videos on the Philippines for a while,I’m planning on retiring there soon. I’m 72. I met a woman online 50 years old.after 3weeks we are “in love” she hasn’t asked for money or even hinted,but I sent her 50.00.What I have been thinking is the whole idea of love.We fall in love when we are young because of physical attraction. I guess I’m asking myself what’s wrong with falling in love with someone although older,because the older man can provide.It seems to be an arrangement between the two,the man provides security,the woman other things,like I am going to need someone I can trust when I get there.

@harryhowell5644 28 күн бұрын

My experience with the Philippinos in the US has made me wary of them. They tell you that they love you, then ditch you the next day for another guy. I have seen them use and abuse men. They seem to be very jealous of you around other women. But on the flip side they are flirting right in your face. Granted, these girls made it to the US, but still play the same game. Sad hearing about how they grew up. Heartbreaking 😢.

@user-rw311 6 күн бұрын

Thats the problem with dating in other countries that the girls problems always become the man problems. This is why i choose to stay alone and just enjoy the company of a woman a few times a month to hold me over.

@moreycleveland2472 8 күн бұрын

THE NIGHTMARE HE GOT GAFFLED UP RAN OUT OF MONEY & NOW HE IS COMING BACK TO AMERICA CRAWLING ON HIS HANDS & KNEES ASKING FOR ANOTHER CHANCE OMG

@thefilipinapee 23 күн бұрын

If the fellow is foolish enough to give his girlfriend $10s of thousands of dollars, that’s the best investment he could make to learn his money lesson, it’s called bought sense! Once you lose that $ you will never forget it!💲

@markblazek6271 Ай бұрын

Ok , if I marry a Filipina and buy a house , can she kick me out ?

@mauricepatterson9558 Ай бұрын

I think so since the house has to be in her name. I heard of a Caucasian male doing that a dew years back. He bought a home. But got kicked out and nothing he could do about it. I'm not buying anything unless I'm the owner.

@plainman9887 Ай бұрын

Don't do it!!!!

@MoonKingGamingMobile Ай бұрын

Don’t quote me but I believe you can buy the land and have her lease the house you build on it for whatever years so that can be some sort of protection it’ll still technically be hers though in her name

@bigtee4690 Ай бұрын

I would find the nicest place in a great area to rent or lease and never deal with this type of silliness. You are retiring and moving to a foreign country why create a real headache for yourself??

@user-vm1wb8xf6i Ай бұрын

Yes she can kick you out anytime and you get nothing so don't do what you cannot walk away from and probably more than 50% will kick you out, most filipina women are cold hearted and know the game, you have to screen hard and don't let that pussy wreck your brain they are better at the game than American Women so be very very very careful they know the long game

@vernonhowell4485 Ай бұрын

Where is the best places to meet good girls???

@henrymcmiller2527 Ай бұрын

Its my understanding, that would be in the provinces. I would try to stay away from Manila.

@TheBlackFilipino Ай бұрын

Manila is not bad you can be successful anywhere.

@marksjourneytothephilippin9574 Ай бұрын

Church. From mutual friends, at work. Or province. Though some girls work in the big cities but grew up in the province

@henrymcmiller2527 Ай бұрын

@@TheBlackFilipino 👍🏿my online friend lives in Battan. (?)

@vernonhowell4485 Ай бұрын

@marksjourneytothephilippin9574 duuuh! Why didn't I think of that! Thank you sir!

@kenmcleod8618 Ай бұрын

So true

@harrycarson2119 Ай бұрын

😊😊 MY PHILIPINA DIDN'T GET ANYTHING FROM me !!!!I WENT OVER TO SEE HER IN SEPTEMBER LAST YEAR !!!BUT WE DID A LITTLE SIGHT SEEING THAT WAS IT !!!! BUT I LEFT HER A WK AGO SHE GOT NASTY SOMETIME 😊😊😊😊😊

@timlies3627 Ай бұрын

It’s totally reasonable to take care of your GF. Buying a home very risky.

@chiefokorocha1709 11 күн бұрын

They are all gold diggers

@willardpolk2871 Ай бұрын

there will be red flags in a Filipina in the Philippines bank on it. and the real red flag will be about money they want. so, it happens to me several times and the way I deal with it is to remain in a tourist mode in the Philippines. I don't stay in the province where her family will pick your money down. stay away from the province and stay in the city because when shit hit the fan in the province be aware. these girls in the Philippines have a lot of problems and they want you the expat for money.

@caste90901 14 күн бұрын

They’re beggars

@FREEMANMUADIBB Ай бұрын

✌✌✌✌✌ home na

@scottford6055 Ай бұрын

OK, listen up. The best way to find a good Filipina is In the Filipinas (Philippines). If you want to know if you have a good Filipina, go to her barangay (neighborhood) and don't talk to her family. Talk to the old Lola's (women) especially the nosey ones. They'll tell you the truth.

@willardpolk2871 Ай бұрын

stay in the tourist mode and observe the country trust me many girls will come to you without you losing your money.

@ViceCoin Ай бұрын

Plenty of drama queens in America.

@harrycarson2119 Ай бұрын

I was there for 3 wk

@DJLEO408 Ай бұрын

Never give .oney to a girl you never met period. I don't care she looks like Taylor swift it ain't worth the headache guys.

@FreestyleAllTheWay-ik4gm 28 күн бұрын

Stay single. You’re better off.

@macmcintosh646 18 күн бұрын

Bro it ain't nothing new they are being women

@sindust150 24 күн бұрын

I didn’t understand a single word you said. Your diction and pronunciations are off.

@gregmcqueen4540 26 күн бұрын

What is BLACK?

@friendlyrando 22 күн бұрын

Simps.

@Davidseitomusic Ай бұрын

I made that same mistake with my ex girlfriend of 4 years there. Now she has a new house and our baby. And I won't see them again. My fault for playing the slow money game. I'm happy that my current filipina isn't like that. She needs money... she goes and finds work.

@Davidseitomusic Ай бұрын

Side note: I did go to philippines twice to spend time.