Old men do not require that the marriage lasts forever. Just lasts till they die.

The bottom line is that it is no one's business but the two consenting adults.

Filipinas want stability and the fact older men are a lot less likely to cheat.

I am Laotian American. I have a girlfriend from Laos who is only 24 years old and I am 56. We cherish each other so much. I am moving there this year planning to live off my pension $2,000/month. I have a Caucasian American friend who married a Filipina gal and had lived in the Philippines for a few years before they moved to Pattaya Thailand. They too love each other so much despite age gap.

I corresponded with my Filipina at least 6 months before going to the Philippines to meet. She was from Almeria, but working in Manila. Very sweet beautiful girl. I think the women from the provinces are most traditional. The thing about not rushing into a relationship, is that you have months to gain knowledge of the person. This is a very seroius thing, so you make note of everything the she says. If she is not being up front with you, that will come through over time, because only truth is eternal, stories change. My Filipina never deviated in the things she said, so she appeared to be the real deal. Yes, I was twice her age, but I did not have any children, that was a priority for me. We have been married 15 years now, I helped her through nursing school here. Find a good Filipina, and she will give you everything a man needs. Even the most elusive thing from an American gal, serenity, peace. I can truthfully say it was the best decision of my life. My avitar is our youngest.

I'm 67 and am about to marry my 29 year old Fillipina girlfriend, I have my eyes wide open and am not naive, I know the core of our relationship is transactional but from my perspective that's never mentioned , I'm long ago divorced and no children and estranged from siblings so basically have lived alone for a long time with occasional dates .I'm fully aware of my mortality and I have made the decision to leave my modest savings to someone who has struggled her whole life and when I die she will be left with enough to live a comfortable life , this is a better legacy to leave instead of my family going to probate to fight over my Will 😊

I love Filipina, marry a Filipina and you don’t just get a wife, you also get a nurse, a cook a doctor and most of all, you get a life time of happiness

Brought my Filipina to the US in 1997 with a 16 yr age gap. After three boys, still married. She has been 100% stay at home mom. I have provided 100%. Now I'm retired we are considering where to retire. She's not in a hurry to settle in the Philippines but I'd like split our time between Florida and Cebu. Just got to find the right person and have the means to support your family.

A few of us want kids so a younger Filipina makes sense for that.

For many men this is their first time for them to find true love. America is often hostile towards men, especially old men. Life is better with love and a relationship where you can take care of each other. 65/24 here

I’m one of the foreigners that have an age gap relationship with my Filipina. She is 33 and I’m 51. Our relationship is an LDR and we are 1yr. in. Our relationship works very well because we communicate twice a day religiously. Our schedules connect perfectly with 12 hour difference. And no, I did not meet her online but through a mutual friend here in the states. Thanks again for your content on this subject.

Social media is ruining Filipinas. Foreign guys recognize that having fun is the only play.

Good analysis. But one thing I might point out is that a 20 year age gaps seem smaller when people are older when they are younger.

I think I've the biggest gap on here - 64/20 - but I'll be damned - it's the best relationship I've ever had in my life. Her family loves me - and they are upper middle class with government positions - no poverty here. Her dad bought her a Honda Click for her 18th birthday. She's so beautiful - that she can have any guy she wants. It's like we were made for each other. We both couldn't be more in love - and we plan on having two kids. *_She connected with me_* - on Facebook - and the rest is history. Don't question why - question how stupid you would have to be to say no.

Most Filipinas prefer Filipinos. It's still a homogenous culture. But most Filipinas don't want to deal with a life of poverty. Most young Filipinas already have children. Dating old men is basically their only way out. Most Filipino men don't date a Filipina with Children. Foreigners do. This is no secret. Just my observation over the past 7 yrs. living in the Philippines.

My Filipina wife is 12 years older than me, so we went against the flow. 😁 Oh well, we've been happily married for 22 years now.

One of the best videos out there on the age gap. I would remind western men to not send large amounts of money for someone you only chat with on line. Online dating is a huge business with some of these young ladies so just be smart.

I messed up... Married a Filipina 3 yrs older than me. 😂She moved to America and now we migrating back to the Philippines after 20 years. Great stuff!

Awesome! Very well spoken and very well put.

The only real concern my pinay wife, 28 years younger than me, had before we got married was that she worried I might not perform my marriage duties well. After I proved to her that would not be a concern she happily married me. I hope I do not break her. LOL! Stability is something one wants in a table. My insanity is what causes my wife to love me.

Hi. No need to feel rushed in making your videos. I don't believe anyone of your subscribers would mind if you slowed down and elaborate more information. You are putting out great content. That's why I subscribed.

The only opinion that matters, is the couple's opinion.

You know I heard you make a comment 30 seconds into your video that seems to be a cliche with many bloggers. Older men want younger women because of her youth and beauty and we know that looks fade over time. First rather then answering the question as to why with your opinion have you ever asked older foreigners that question? Not one or two but a good sample. Yes no doubt any man of any age (and woman for that matter) appreciates what is pleasing to the eyes. But to say that is the driving force for them (most) is foolish and belittling to men. Looks may draw him but personality and character its what will hold him. She is (hopefully) less jaded and scarred with a lifetime of failed relationships and life disappointments then a older woman and he could maybe save her from ever going through that because he has lifetime knowledge. Also he is able to do things that he could never do when he was younger because he is financially stable and he has time and wisdom on his side. As far as her "beauty fading with time" goes. First if he is in his 60's, 70's and she is anywhere from mid 20's to I would say early 40's, chances are he will fade from this life before his Filipina's beauty fades. More importantly physical beauty and attraction is more important in the beginning then later. When you are with a good person as time goes on you see the inner beauty or ugliness more than the outer. Sorry for making this so long, but I have been seeing this statement made over and over again and felt I had to sayh something.

Here is what bothers me with age gap relationship... When the older man doesn't take care of the filipina after he dies .I have seen this two times with expats who died and left the wife with no money.. if a filipina is not a US CITIZEN she has to be 62 yrs old for her to get his pension..if she is a Citizen of US she gets his pension at 35 years old. My friend died last year and his wife got nothing and she had to move back with her family in the province..this is Sad. and the wife is in Worse position then before she got married. .the husband needs to have a life insurance policy for his wife after he dies

Many videos have been made on this topic but your approach is probably the most interesting I've seen so far!

I the have a Pinay friend , she's shot me down more times than Chinese Sly Balloon, she is extremely conservative and we have a 30yr age gap I'm moving to Cebu in 540 days so she's my boots on the ground, weve known each other for 6 yrs and I had to learn about her culture I almost blew it with her, she actually forgave me and might be warming up to the idea I am an Evangelical Christian I'm not going to offer a sampler platter I want 1, an actual chance to court her properly 🤞 Thanks again on another excellent Vlog

I love my fiancé she’s younger but I love her so so much n I treat her like a goddess ; yes I built her a house ; she makes me happy and I love her n accept her the way she is

Every relationship is unique. If it works it works if it don't there is plenty of opportunities for both parties out there.

Thanks for this short, no nonsense video. I am in an LDR with a Filipina 25 years younger and I am moving to the Philippines this year from southwest Florida. New subscriber

Good video. Concise and informative. Subbed.

I’ve been married for 8 years to my wife. There is a 22 (YES, 22) year age gap between us. I am very blessed that I have found someone who I love very much and plan to spend the rest of my life with. Your analysis is pretty much spot on. One thing you didn’t mention is that in some cases an older man and younger woman are on the same maturity level. That can be a good or bad thing. In our case, we have been fortunate because my wife and I enjoy the same things. We are both homebody’s, we have many of the same interests e.g. music, tv, movies, food (she loves to cook and I love to eat LOL), politics (most of the time😉) and family. I love her sense of humor. And she (bless her heart) finds me entertaining as well. Prior to our meeting, I was married for almost 25 years 😱 to a woman who immigrated to the states, from the Philippines, 4 years before I met her. And while she gave me 2 beautiful children, our marriage was difficult from the start. She was, in my opinion, a high maintenance person who had insecurity issues going back to her childhood. Ultimately, we (thankfully) ended our marriage while we were still young enough to move on with our lives. It was a difficult transition that left some scars but it was very much for the best. I guess what I really want to say is that there is someone for everyone. And in my case, my one and only was born 22 years apart from me. And for those who are curious. I just turned 60 and I met my soon to be wife when I was 48. And I have told her that she is the one I have waited for all my life. Thank you for allowing me to share. And always remember that haters are always going to hate. God bless and good luck.

When you say back in the day you sound 70. But you look 25

All relationships are transactional. An exchange of value

Thank you. Very intelligent rundown. (79-year-old American.)

Thank you for recognizing the natural differences in what men and women appreciate. Men value fertility, which is associated with youth, and they also value beauty, which is nature's way of creating attraction. It's a way of keeping men committed to their partners. Without these aspects, men arebless likely to stay and support their children. Their interest would only be to provide for themselves.

As long as they happy Im happy for them, usually those who criticize are feminist-influenced woman who hates happy couple 😊 Life is about make good memory anyway....

Good video, thanks

I have been with a sweet young Filipina for 2 years now. Yes she is beautiful,and they know how to manipulate guys on social media , it’s pretty common nowdays. I have learned a lot about how it works there. I have been to Philippines 3x and it’s beautiful there,and the people there are very friendly towards forigners. Our plan is to get margied next year,I will eventually retire there with her and her family . Yes .. the MAIN reason young Filipina date older Forigner is because of the support. There is so much poverty in Philippines,you can’t blame the girls to want ,and get a better life for them ,and their family’s

Thank you for your insight 😊

Excellent, informative, truthful, balance.

I just found your channel. Please don’t feel rushed. I have visited the Philippines multiple times and plan a semi retirement there. I appreciate longer educational videos on the topic from those that have the knowledge. Thanks for the vid.

16 happy years with my Thai wife who is 32 years younger than me. We just had our first child after all these years. Life is good!!

Nice video my friend

Very high quality video

All eminently sensible. The changes from the past are toxic, as you say, with foreigners, in particular, playing around when they go there with little or no intention of a lasting relationship. The result is that Filipino women are often far more cautious about dating foreigners who are in the Philippines.

Hi Conservative Filipina. I don’t think you rambled in the video or made it too long. In fact you deliver very clear and concise information. First time viewing. Subscribed Thank you.

Thoughtful and well presented.

It's a transaction. Women want security and men want (you know what). I tried the large age gap twice and it didn't work. I found one closer to my age, 13 years younger, and we are going to live there. Most everything you said is absolutely true. I was told by a Filipina woman who was the landlord to the apartment I rented to do what you said, play the field. Even after I was with the woman I was with and still am. In front of her she didn't say that. Two faced. I have all the qualities you mentioned, light color eyes, large bridge nose, slim, and 90% of my hair, lol, albeit over 60.

"I need to fix my camera because its dark. BRB" Comes back, looks the exact same. lol. Jk. Cool video. Good info.

1045 Fifteen years doesn't sound like a significant age gap.

We know beauty fades. But when you grow old with someone, their beauty is not their physical. Me and my asawa have been together 12 years. She is almost 40 now and I see her as more beautiful now than when we met.

You have very good insight. 👍 this is the first time I watched one of your videos you have a distinct accent. Your English is excellent but I wonder what the accent is.

Robin Yount and Ken Griffey, Jr. one of the purest sweet swings ever

Excellent point that women all over the world are looking for financial stability and security in their man.

Very true

The world changes so fast and I know that there is pro and cons. But it’s more toxic or harm than good. Good other video.❤😊

Good vlog, very good perspective

Enjoyed your video thank you. Im a 39 afam and my filipino fiance is 27. She is younger but it just turned out that way. I fell in love with her and filipino values. She will join me in Europe for a few years and then our plan is to move back and buy a farm in Leyte

Very pretty!! Oh my goodness my wife is filipina, I am the younger, I love filipina women, they have soul and and warm hearts

If you think a 20 year old is going to love a 60 year old well try to not give her a allowance or support her family and see how long she stays with with

She gets his Estate much sooner, than if he were younger. That means she can go on to score another Mark while she is still young enough to look appealing

For a man the lack of baggage is very important and a younger woman usually has less baggage.

Interesting topic. I believe that a lot of educated women in Asia over thirty have a tough time marrying guys in their age group because the Asian guys in their country want younger ladies. Probably some real gems in the over 30 category that might appreciate/consider an educated older Western guy. Oh, and Chop On Braves!

I was 56 when I started dating a 21 year old Chinese. We married two years later and now I’m 72 she 37 and still married.

I’m new to this post and it’s not long enough, you went through it to fast in my opinion. But you give good information, I just don’t know how accurate it is. I’m with a 40+ yo Pinay right now and there’s a 16 yo one looking at me that way. I’ve been here in the PI waiting for the older ones annulment for almost 8 years now and I’m trying to be patient but it’s running thin. She says her lawyer told her that the powers that be are looking really hard at the request, so I don’t know right now. I’m starting to doubt and this will fall through and I’ll have to move on, we’ll see.

People pair up when it is in both of their best interests.

Awesome video. I absolutely agree with you. I tell men my age at 57-year-old dont send money to women you never met. I lived in Phillipines and yes its poverty and money is hard to come by. Alot of women would prefer 🤔 fillipino men. But they will take a older foreigner to help them financially. Great video.

I've traveled to the Philippines 3x thus far now planning my 4th trip because of the woman I've met and fell in love with. 52 @the time we met and her 38, as I told her I'm too old to be dating around and looking to be married. We'll be married sometime next year and couldn't be happier. Salamat for your opinions po

Too young or too old is for the couple to decide. It's nobody else's business

Nice video

There is 40 years difference between my Filipina wife and me. We knew each other for 4 years before we were engaged; we were engaged for 2 years before we were married and now we have been married for 2 and a half years and there are not any problems. More than that it has been great. She came to the US and we were married here. At this point we are in love. There are other things in that I support her family. I am healthy and we are having fun. Yes, I may die within 20 years, and we knew that. From the security side, she may get 750,000 USD when I die. We are trying to have a child and I have no problem with it. I know the relationship is much more than money. If she would have married someone her age with a terminal disease who would die in 20 years, no one would have a problem with it. If i can satisfy her physical and emotional needs, then it pisses me off that people judge.

It's not just the Philippines, but other not western countries that the age gap is normal. Thru all of history, women always searched for an established man 10-20 years her senior.... it made sense, he got fertility, yourh and beauty, she got provisions, protection and stability... My only issue with a Filipina is that when you bring up culture or beliefs, they can't or mostly won't accept polygyny, even if you bring up the history of small tribes and multiple wives pre-spaniah invasion or that the T'Boli peoples still live that way. Three wives to a husband

This is a refreshingly realistic commentary on Filipina motivations to marry a foreign guy.

Love is so rare in general. I live in Manila. I'm single looking for a serious Filipina and I can't find her.

Good looks are overrated in my book. I prefer an average looking woman who isn't trying to keep up with ever social economy trend. She understand her role as my wife, companion, & lover. She doesn't have to be going out on the town every night, she comfortable at home watching a movie. She a simple women who is satisfied with the simple pleasure life has to offer. She not addicted to social media, taking a few day off won't cause her to have a mental breakdown. She respect & honor supports her man & rejoice when she see his hard work begin to pay off. She is his number one cheer leader. She feels proud & fortunate to have a good man in her life. She committed to having a ride or die relationship unto death do we part. She is fun loving, attentive, trustworthy, honest, & down to earth. She recognizes the her husband is the leader of the family & does everything she can do to make peaceful. She is a industrious women who is active make his home their castle.. She cooks nutritious meal for her husband & family. She is a God fearing woman who loves the Lord. She prays & reads her bible daily.

It's like wine 🍷 the older the better 🤤😋

Ken Griffey Jr. in the background on the wall. My favorite Baseball Player. You just became my best friend.

Take care and God bless you 🙏

sometimes it's not "playing around" but rather that we date to really get to know each other. However, the Filipina may be ready to be in a serious relationship NOW, planning the future, etc., after just a few dates and even speaking about love. Most western men are more cautious and looking for real compatibility, so we move into serious relationships more slowly. So our very seriousness about being with the right woman gives her the impression of not being serious. Hmmmmmm I think men and women are basically incompatible, but we are compelled to seek each other out because God is obviously a prankster!!

As a direct result of younger Filipinas marrying older foreigners, there are alot of very well off Filipina middle age widows in the US.

I have been back and forth to the Philippines many times and I find it difficult to meet anyone other than just say hi strange. I just came back to America was in Iloilo for 6 months and love my neighbors get along with everybody. Someone set me up with their family members, but I don’t find them attractive but good people. I’m a retired police officer like I say I own property now in the Philippines I plan on going back within two months for about 10months this time You speak very good English I like your videos

Me and my partner only have a 3 1/2 year age gap, and three years older than her and we’ve been together for 2 1/2 years now and we are both working on them back to United States We are both in our 20s. I think when you talk about like a 50 year age gap I think there might be a little bit a problem, but I think you have to find someone will you and her have similar values and on the same game plan.

no disrespect miss but you missed some very important point as to why older men that have made their money prefer younger single childless Filipina women....you and beauty just gets you a ticket in the door....younger women have lower body counts generally, less trauma as a result of broken relationships. Once a women has had over 6-7 partners she loses the ability to pair bond and the chances of the relationship lasting once she goes over 7 partners goes down to 20 percent. Younger women are also more appreciative where older women tend to be less agreeable. Older women have seen more and are less agreeable generally speaking....there is more but I don't want to be long winded here but you get the general idea.

My British husband and I were only 3 years age gap. I have a specific age before i am finding a foreign man. Thanks. New subscriber 😊

I'm 66yrs and had a variety of flippina gf's-most under 26yrs. While, the conversations are short; the sex isn't. Currently, residing in puerto galera on mindoro in the Philippines.

Well, I can tell you this. There's one definite way you can find out if She just wants to get out of the Philippines. And it's not for true love. Tell her during the dating process. You'd eventually like to move to a nice area of the philippines

First time viewing ur video. 3 of my buddy married, brought back to U.S. women were a lot younger, Americanize then Divorce. Sad but true. Here in U.S. called sugar Daddy. B viewing ur videos. Thumbs up.

Beauty may fade, but it takes a lot longer with a pinay

Have a blessed night/day, everyone, and stay safe!

You get what you want, I take what I need.

Two statements can be true at the same time. Some foreigners who live there cannot be trusted as well as a tourist guy. The last time I checked, the retirees are the ones telling men that Filipinas are easy and there are plenty of fish to play with. So some guys go there with bad intention. They lie to the Filipinas offering them the world. We are becoming a moral less society; no decency and integrity. I'm afraid that Filipinas will slowly and maturely become feminists. I believe it comes down to having deeper conversations and asking the right questions. Fake is real, but real is realer. You decide!!

What I do not understand is why any man would want to get married after 50? Marriage is for building a life together (in their 20s, not 50s) and having children. If he wants companionship, he can get that without the legal restraints that limits him in a marriage relationship. I have always believed relationships have a shelf life. They eventually run their course and both sides are stuck unfulfilled once it does. If the man is over the age of 65, he is looking for a full time nurse and he knows he can get a younger woman in the Philippines who will accept him. Why not just be up front, pay her a flat fee each month, and if things go bad, they part ways?

They even ask me money to post the truth here....

BECAUSE YOU ARE VERY ATTRACTIVE ♥

The one thing I learned about the Philippines .. is that there are no rules in the Philippines. Don't do risk analysis. Don't categorize and rationalize. Just pick the right girl.

Security, a future, and family support. It is hard for many Western people to understand life in a third world country

Honestly I think Asian women in the US play too many games. Twice I have been vibing with 2 different Asian women thinking the next step would be exchanging numbers and then….COLD AS ICE! I just don’t get it🤷‍♂️

8:29 Can you explain how that makes sense, please? It seems if the guy is in country already he is way more likely to be real, commitment type tp PH and a women there, etc.

If the only thing they want is a traditional life (staying at home to eventually take care of the kids etc) then the only men that can give them that are rich. Average hardworking people like me (and i live fairly comfortable) don't really stand a chance for a serious relationship unless the woman wants to look for a job herself as well. As in most western countries these days life has gotten so expensive that it's no longer feasible to live on a single salary

My wife is currently thirty six I am sixty two . After she got here and basically saw the lie projected by the media in her country. On how great the American dream was. We now want to move back to Africa. She's from Kenya, so the best thing to do is toprated. God, and let him bring a relationship together. And let no man separated