Watching Harlan hold Addison as she cried broke my heart. He’s such a good brother!

We’ll definitely miss seeing him in vlogs! I hope he does amazing with his new job! I started crying as well! Good luck on your next adventure, Harlan!❤️

Seeing Harlan crying at the end made me start. He's such a sweet son and he'll be missed horribly.

Saddest one yet😢 All the teens are growing up and moving out. Hope everything works out for Harlan and that he is able to visit as much as possible. You have both done such a brilliant job as parents, Shelley and Jared. Will miss Harlan so much. Love from the UK XX

I don't usually get emotional but this one got me. I've enjoyed seeing Harlan grow into a handsome young man. Keep at your goals Harlan. Shelley and Jared you are an inspiration to what can be done with love and work.

Harlan is going to be missed so much ! same with Cynthia, i'm super excited for them both in their new journey of life :) xx

How Harlan looks at his foster dad restores my faith that there are still genuinely good people left in this socially enept world. Thanks for sharing. I love this.

harlan seems like the he gives the best hugs. i’ve noticed that he’s always been especially protective of aubrey and addison which makes sense after everything they’ve been through together

I’ve always felt like Harlan, Addison, and Aubrey had a very strong bond as a sibling unit. He’s such a good big brother and I hope they are able to stay connected. Best of luck, Harlan!

Best wishes Harlan in your new adventure. Glad you have a life plan. Remember to keep your family close and stay in touch.

The thing I noticed throughout the whole video is whenever someone felt upset you could see them taking a deep breath, you two as parents have taught them all so well ! This isn’t goodbye this is see you later and seeing how all the kids are able to get through it together is so heartwarming ❤️

Aubrey staying back and watching the little kids- she reminds me so much of Lacey. So responsible. I feel like when I was her age, I would have gone even with the stomach ache 😂

😭 I know everyone is crying now… I can’t be the only one…! Harlan, you’ve always seemed to be the “quiet one” in my book, but it’s always been apparent how much love you have for your family and them for you! Praying that your new transition works out well for you! ❤️🙏🏻 I know that mom and dad / Jarod and Shelly are very proud of the man you’ve become!!!

Wishing him the best. My heart is breaking that we won’t see him. He’s so awesome!

Such a fantastic plan to become an electrician! So proud of Harlan, it's a huge step. I hope we will get some updates on his life if he wishes and is ok with sharing. Lots of love to the whole family!

What an exciting and emotional time for everyone. To think that until 2 years ago Harlan thought his bio father had passed away and now he's going to live with him is nothing short of amazing. He will be missed so much but this new chapter is so exciting. All the best to you, Harlan. I look forward to updates knowing you will be doing great things.

This one has me balling 😭 I think the first Crazy Middles video I ever watched was called “Whose at the door 4 more” when Harlan moved in. In that video you guys asked him and his bio siblings what they wanted in a family and I have been so moved by the love, happiness, and precious memories that you all have created! Congrats Harlan, you will be so missed.

Wishing you all the best Harlen, I've watched you grow over the years into the amazing young man you are. Will miss seeing you in the videos xx

So sad that Harlan is leaving, but really happy too that he will be with his bio dad and has a great job opportunity! Shelly and Jarod, you raised a fine young man. Good luck Harlan!

I know it's sad but such a great oppertunity for Harlan to do something he loves while getting to know his birth dad better. He will always appreciate how you guys raised him and loved him. It is a good thing as they all grow up.

So proud of you Harlan. Continue to reach for your goals. You will be missed.

So proud of you Harlan, you will be missed by everyone for sure. Good luck, can't wait to see you in the vlogs again.

Ill say it again, love how much these kids care for each other! Its so moving! My heart is exploding! Best if lucky on your new path Harlan! You are going to do well!

I am currently in a homeless shelter watching you guys and your keeping my spirits up while I work on getting back to normal and on my feet

I cried from the beginning to the end. The hard part is watching them grow up and move out. I wish him the best of luck on his new journey

I love how Landon has always been Jared’s mini me but find it hilarious that Jared loves hugs and Landon reacts the exact opposite

These people are true Earth Angels!!! You are people that I admire! Good job!!!

You two are so awesome!!! Your love for the children is very rare. May the Lord Bless you always!!!

That was so sad, made me cry too, good luck on your new adventure Harlan we will all miss seeing you but look forward to catching up with you in the future, sending love and hugs from the UK x

Best of luck Harlan!! You’re my favorite Crazy Middle Member :) I’m so happy cos I’ve been watching a while now and all those surprises and emotional videos, I feel like I’m already part of this Crazy (Middles/Pieces) Family. ❤️❤️

Prayers for that sweet caring young man. May he be safe and loved always...pray he has happiness he deserves it.

So many people to Love, Harlan is very blessed…!!! Your video made me misty eyed… such a good vlog…🥰❤️🥰❤️🙂

Harlan I wish you the best and am so proud of the amazing young man you have become. You will go far in life. Will definitely miss seeing you in the vlog as you have always been one of my favorites (shhh lol). Enjoy getting to know your dad and learning a valuable skill of being an electrician. Love you 😍

That was a tear jerker! So excited for Harlan, I know you will visit. Best wishes for the future. God bless you!

So happy this young man connected to his biological Dad. So glad he had a great foster family. Love the happy ending.

I'm excited and proud of you Harlan! With all these kiddos have gone thru, this is really brave. Harlan is such a sweetheart and I hope we get to see him. The middles travel, so hopefully we get to see him. You will be missed. 💝

I watch both Crazy Middles and Crazy Pieces, I've watched as these amazing kiddos grow and move out. I've followed many of them on their new life journeys. I've been happy and a little sad to see them go, but for some reason this one... Harlan moving out broke my heart. Please don't get me wrong, I'm so happy that he found his biological father and that he has found a career choice. I know that he will do amazing, but I just cried and cried while watching this. My heart hurts for Shelly, Jared and the other siblings. Truthfully Addison crying for her brother really got me. I wish you nothing but happiness and I know you will do great. Big hugs Harlan, until we see you again.💜

The sweet letter at the end.....😪 I'm over here bawling my eyes out like he's my child! This is such a bittersweet moment but Harlan we wish you all the best!

Wow this was emotional, I definitely cried a lot. Seeing Addison get upset was so heart breaking, it must be so difficult for her and Aubrey especially, being bio siblings, to be separated again and being so far away. I'm so proud of Harlan for being able to move out and start this electrician job, good luck to him and everyone will miss you so much Harlan!! ❤

This was a hard one. I can’t believe I cried so much. Just seeing how close all the kids are, regardless if they are blood, they love each other so very much! ♥️

I love how much love is in your family. Harlan is one lucky young man to have had you as his parents. It will be hard on the girls to have their brother leave. I’m sure there will be as many visits as you can get. Wishing Harlan a wonderful new life experience. You guys gave him the platform to succeed . Love you all xxxx

Good luck 🍀🤞 Harlan with all your future endeavours. I wish you all the best for the future and may it be blessed with positive energy and happiness. I'm sure you'll see everyone really soon xoxo

You 2 are amazing. As a former fosterchild who was separated from her siblings, im blown away that u keep familes together. My heart burst when I heard your family story. My life could have been so different if we could have had found a family like yours . Thank u

What a good kid …he’s going to be doing great things in life . All those kids are precious

I was fine watching the video, until Harlan's note at the end. Special kid raised by exceptional parents. Blessings to all from Iowa

Good luck, Harlan! You have an amazing journey ahead of you! Never give up on yourself and don’t forget to reach for those stars! There’s a special one waiting just for you! ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏻 Jared and Shelly, he’s going to make it far in this world! You taught him so much! Love to you all!❤️🌹💝

Praying for Harlan and Cynthia as they go on in these next big adventures in their lives. Proud of them. They are going to do amazing. These kids are going to do great things because of all the love and support they have. Y'all are doing an amazing job raising such great kids.

Goodness, I have cried more in the last 2 days between Cynthia and Harlan moving out! Jared and Shelly, you two have raised such amazing kids and I absolutely love that you encourage your kids to mend relationships with their bio families, what a blessing all the way around. Love you all so much! 😊

OMG I cried so much. It's so hard watching them all leave home, although I know they'll do great. All the very best Harlan xx

Aww congrats Harlan.. good luck Hun and i knew Shelly would get emotional and Harlan. Cause he's a momma's boy.. ❤️

Talk about bawling! 😭😭😭 Good luck, Harlen! You are going to make a good electrian! Everyone is going to miss you! ❤ You are so lucky to have the chance to have bonding time with your biological father. Your mom and dad have raised such beautiful humans ❤️

Aww such an emotional video. Good luck Harlan. Learn lots of great thing’s. Hopefully we’ll see you soon.

I really enjoy watching your videos and your family! You guys are amazing! It makes my day when you guys post videos! Your going to be missed Cynthia and Harlan

I think this was the saddest move out of them all. Harlan good luck on your new adventure.

Pray the best for him and you all. Thank you for opening your home to these kids . They might be moving out but they will Always Love you. And I am so glad at least with his real dad. And I wish them the best.

this video brought tears to my eyes . he’s going to make awesome new beginnings & adventures with his dad . he will be missed ! hope life treats you great where you’re at harlan !🤍

Ya'll had me sobbing, wishing Harlan and Cynthia both the very best on their new life adventure. Cant wait to see where life leads them.

With so many at the same ages, these milestone come so close together. You have done your job well. You have given your children the wings to fly.

Oh, my mama heart can’t take this! I teared up during the video, but when the note from Harlan came up, I lost it. I’m going to miss his sweet, sweet spirit, and his genuine love for you all. God bless you, Harlan. Do well, and, come home soon! ❤️

Crying because of how incredibly beautiful your family is! ❤ God bless you Harlan! I wish nothing but the best for you with your bio dad. I think it’s incredible that you are getting to spend time with him!

I couldn’t stop crying, I been keeping up with your family for such a long time, it’s never goodbye, it’s alway I’ll see you later ❤️

Wow! Such a sweet kid! Ya’ll will miss him but I’m sure you are proud of him too!

You Harlan are an amazing young man. I will miss seeing you in the vlogs. I've said this before and I'll say it again, you are truly my favorite. God bless you as you embark upon life's journey.

Oh my heart ❤️ 3 yrs ago my son moved from Illinois to scottsdale! We drove a truck with his belongings behind his car the whole way! I still cry and wish he wasn't so far away lol he's 31! Y'all are an amazing family!

Congrats to your next chapter however Harlan you will be so so so missed. Wishing you the best always. 💞💞💞

Harlan I'm happy that you ate pursuing a career, and hope everything works out for the best , I know you will be great . But you will be missed

Jarrod and Shelly, what a wonderful life you provided Harlan. He is confident to go out on his own. He loves you more than you even know. This vlog was so so sweet.

I held off watching this until today because I knew I’d sob my way through it. I was right. So emotional. You will be so missed, Harlan! Good luck on this new chapter in your life…your family set you up to succeed for sure!

Awww. Will miss seeing Harlan, especially he's moving to another state. Goodluck on his new adventures though.

Wishing Harlan all the best as he embarks on this new adventure!

I'm glad you are happy for him reconnecting with his biological dad.it shows you are kind human beings and doing what is right fir these kids.you have always demonstrated that it is about the kids and that is more than alot would do.you will reap good rewards in life for helping life.

Mum and dad to these kids......HEROES! Must break your heart to see them leave. Well done to you both

Fare-thee-well Harlan, safe journey into adulting. Happiness with your Bio-Dad. Don't forget your Wallace family, rules & all. Shelley & Jared have given you dynamic training to becoming a good man. As a family they are wonderful.

I can’t imagine what you guys as the parents are feeling. You raise the kids and just have to let them go. I’m sure sometimes the kids move out because they want their freedom and no longer want to follow by the parents rules but at the end of the day I’m sure they’re beyond grateful for you guys. Harland good luck, you’ll do great, good luck 🍀❤️😊

I wish Harlan and Cynthia the best in their new journeys. This one got me. The bond that you all have as a family is just incredible. So much love.

Prayers for your new adventures Harlan! I cried so much watching this video, you light up every room that you’re in and I will miss seeing you in the vlogs!

Each person in the family really brings a different but beautiful vibe that when they start to leave the nest it feels almost equally sad for myself and many others who have been so invested in your family's channel. I've loved watching each one of them grow up in the couple or so years that I've been following and I'm so so sooooo proud of them all for doing what they're doing and learning to grow in their new places. Love you guys so much, and Harlan.. all the very best to you man, I know that you will go on to do great things! Stay safe bro 💙

I’m happy for Harlan to reconnect with His brother and bio Dad. I feel so bad for Addison and Aubrey, they’ve lost touch with their 3 half biological siblings and now Harlan’s moving ☹️😩

I’m so sad how many have flown the nest recently, goodness knows how all of you are feeling. Very best wishes to all these amazing young adults on their next chapter. Really enjoyed watching them grow and being part of the Wallace family. 💕💙💕

Wow the kids are growing up to fast. Harlan and Cynthia are going to be missed but she's only down the street. You guy's are awesome parents so they will do great. All the crying got me crying here too.

I knew I was going to cry when this video went up.. Harlan is one of the most quiet sweet loving boys.. I know he's going to do great .. Shelly I know this one was especially hard for you as you and Harlan had a special bond.. makes me realize just how times fly by.. good luck Harlan. Good thing you all have phones n FaceTime lol

I adore Harlan. It has been such a pleasure seeing him grow up. He will really be missed in the videos. Best of luck Harlan. ❤️

All the best wishes to Harlan, and to your family as you make these changes! Praying that everyone will adjust well!🙏🏽💫❤️

My Heart is breaking!! I will miss seeing both these lovely young adults 😢 ❤ 😞 please keep us updated about Harlan. Harlan please take care of yourself.

Heartbreaking, but good for Harlan. Prayers that he is happy and successful wherever life takes him. Prayers for all as you start another chapter. Blessings♥️🙏🏼

I just keep picturing his cute little face in the first video of him. And the cuteness in his voice in the video where you “answer the door” to the four of them. So cute! He was so little! It’s crazy watching from that first video to Joe. I hope Harlan truly gets to build the relationship with his father that, frankly, seems like was stolen from him (from things he’s said in the video where he spoke to his father plus the whole story of him being dead)

Going to miss you sweetheart…you are a wonderful young man and you are destined for great things in your life! ❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘

Omg here I am at work balling my eyes out. So happy for Harlen and this new journey ahead of him. You have done such an amazing job raising him into the fine young man he is. Have a blessed day Crazy Middles💕🙂

it's time to RENEW YOUR FOSTER LICENCE. HARLIN KNOWS HE'S ALWAYS GOT YOU & HIS BROTHERS AND SISTERS TO COME HOME TO.

Note to self...DO NOT watch crazy Middles emotional vlogs while studying! I can't stop bawling 😭💜🤗

Good luck Harlan Shelly and Jared you did an awesome job raising Harlan . This will take time for the change .. I also cried when he was getting ready to go in his dad’s vehicle

Thank you love family for returning him to his rightful family

What an absolutely beautiful video! I laughed and cried, however, I felt so happy for Harlan as well - best wishes for the entire family:)

I've always loved seeing Harlan! I even got my daughter to name my grandson Harlan after watching CM for the last few years. Please keep us updated on his progress. ❤️

What a strong, lasting foundation you have given your son. My very best of wishes to you, Harlan.

Each child that leaves home will always carry those beautiful memories with them all the best Harlan on your new journey, hope some day you will all reunite again. Thank you for sharing this sad but happy vidz. Keep up the awesome work

congratulations to him and your family!

this was a rough one :( such a bitter-sweet time for you all. Good Luck Harlan , you'll be missed xoxo

Good Luck Harlan on your new journey. That was a very hard goodbye for you, you will be missed by all the family. You guys do such a good job in raising strong independent loving young adults ❤️

Darn it when Shelly hugged her son I bawled like a baby hard.