The cheating doesn’t scare me. The fact that he can easily agree with her being ugly is kinda scary.

She stronger than Rita Marley

This video taught me to literally love myself. Respect myself. Have boundaries for myself and definitely not settle for less.

Not even the FBI could’ve get this information from me ngl

No disrespect Shan….however did it occur to you that one of the reasons he may have chosen to marry you was because of the fact that you were willing to let him have his way? Threesomes, etc….most men would love a partner like that. Also hun, just a few words of advice….pls don’t discuss so much of your personal lives on the internet in the future.

Bring back shame , everything isn’t for social media …..

Telling my kids this was Bob & Rita 😭😭😭😭😭😭

Shan and i touch your hands when I say this… you are beautiful and you deserve so much better ❤️‍🩹

Who made this man believe he's the prize???? Wdf???? Steupssss. Shan!. Shan!!!!!!

Her own father doesn’t even see her value I don’t even blame her for entertaining this horrid man

She’s the brain in the relationship, the one who knows how to steer a ship and make money. That’s the only reason he’s still there ! Sad sad sad

Delete this video NOW boy LMFAOOO WDMC

Dear Ladies do not let any man treat you like how this man treating this woman.. A ring ain't all of it .

over everything said in this video….lets pay attention to what her FATHER said to her as a big woman…..now imagine what he was saying to her while she was growing up. This explains EVERYTHING, why she thinks the way she thinks, the way she views herself, the things she accepts, etc.

coming on a podcast just to say “I know I’m not his type” is wild

At no point did he say to HIS WIFE she is beautiful and she should not repeating that she is ugly.

This is the saddest thing I ever watch. I’ve never seen a woman talk down on her self in such ah way. Jesus

Shan needs therapy

I think the Hosts should have lead this interview/podcast/conversation better. Yall allowed Shan to carry out this whole thing talking about her marriage while barely asking her AND her husband 5 good questions and then when you tired hear her sad ass story yall asked “who is your favorite soca artist?” After damage is done. Anybody here was thinking? 🌚

Shan, Shan, Shan girl i have never in my life felt triggered enough to comment but GIRL i feel the need to share... Number one: Lift up your head, and fix your crown Jesus Christ a man is never worth this level of embarassment and shame, girl a little gym and you go to go face card good, a little bottom is what people vex over and for what a average good body rasta, yes we get it d man look good but not for all this scene, lawd fadda the people getting on like the man is Micheal B Jordan... and she is gollum from lord of the rings lmao people not serious. You guys are a cute good looking couple. People including your man need to relax, in this entire video the man has only added to your insecurities instead of defending you properly. Shan you deserve a man that is obssessed with you not someone that openly tells you you are not his type. His ego needs to be put in check and yourself esteem needs some work. I love you guys but at the end of the day i hate to see women put themselves down for the sake of a man. Sometimes we as women are better off without a man, more peace. But i understand its money moves however what is the real cost of this marriage, is it your sanity and self worth.

Im not gonna lie this was so hard to watch. Girl how are you not embarrassed it literally sounds like he just dealing with you cause you allow him to do anything he wants. It’s almost as if like he deals with her because of her personality but the physical attraction is lacking so he deals with other woman. Like whattttt

The fact that her father , didn’t tell her she deserved better 🥺

Mouth is on the floooorrr, because of what she had to put up with. Ain’t no way.

She mouth moving 90 MpM Let the man talk for himself.

This was...alot.

No matter how many times she explains this relationship/situation it sounds ridiculous. The dynamic sounds one sided and she appears like she goes along to get along. I watch so much of her content but no matter what I can't digest this.

Colorism in T&T is real. That woman is attractive. Tired of the way dark skinned women are talked about

Never get a man Prettier than you..*Sprinkle Sprinkle🤦‍♀️

A FATHER saying that about his daughter LMAOOOOO no shade ….. that’s CRAZYY 😅🥹

Shan is made of steel. Idek where to start… god bless

Maybe alcohol shouldn't have been served 😃

girl he settled… RUN

Shan, you are beautiful with an open and giving spirit. Please continue to nourish and pour into yourself. You are deserving of a full and confident commitment. Despite what your father shared, you are a PRIZE and I hope that you never undercut the value of the type of love that you deserve and should command. Full Stop.

These guys are not laughing with you, sis. They are laughing at you.

This have to be f***king AI

One thing Caribbean people gonna do is talk over each other holy crap 😅

Shan, you volunteered way too much information. You seemed like you had a lot to get off your chest and that should have been done at couples therapy. Also, I’m not no advisor, but my advice to you guys, is to discuss what y’all want to talk about before the next interview. Wishing y’all a happy and healthy marriage ❤️

Shan Let The Man Talk Nah, She literally Talked For The entire Podcast.

So up until last year when they got married this was an open, transactional relationship and now they are actually together and closed off because both have some sort of humiliation kink and want to prove others wrong? Her husband is still not really attracted to her? Doesn’t seem like a good foundation, but hey 😅

this is so sad. 😟 also the hosts are terrible.

Even a good friend would try to protect your reputation. That man does not like you and you don't even like yourself.

Lets be real she agreed to that open relationships to keep him around and hope he see her as they move about

Shan imma hold your hand while i tell you this…..

I have loveeed her personality since I discovered her on IG and after this I can see that her tolerance for BS from men stems from her father (not trying to be funny or disrespectful) but your relationship with your father determines what you accept from men. This is crazzzyyy

I love Shan inno, but she is someone who has to learn the hard way. If you listened to her storytimes, she allows too much disrespect in her general interactions with people. She's a go-getter, beautiful and personality out of this world but this man ain't for her!!

I love Shan eh but they could start a series called “How Shan survived Kumi” 😭😭😭

This relationship isn’t going to last. Leave when you can girl please

This is psychological abuse. To each their own tho

Sis, this man doesn't love you. He only tolerates you because you allow him to do what he wants and possibly financial reasons. (He is probably keeping the cheating on a down low now that you are married). You both are "cool" because he has grown familar / used to your friendship but darling a man that doesnt CHOOSE YOU or put you FIRST doesnt love you. (Protect your money at all cost eh) Clearly theres deep insecurities. You can see that by choosing second place and your relationship with your father. Also you stated you have never "claimed a man" before him. Clearly spending many years as a side chick. Baby girl seek therapy. This man is gonna leave soon as his dream woman comes his way. Dont be surprised about outside children and family in time to come. Have your fun but in all things PROTECT YOUR MONEY

This podcast was a lot - I can see that you two are both very business-minded individuals however I do hope and pray that there was a purpose behind coming on the internet and spilling all of the trauma that the most important men in your life have put you through bc chileee. Pls tell me that you made a bag out of this podcast cause wow. Yes you have said that you're very happy but BOTH your insecurities are showing and the disrespect that you have had to put up with is A LOT. That man needs to be kissing your feet 20x a day at this point cause it is very clear that you are the backbone of the businesses and the platforms that you have. Finally, please seek therapy cause we did not need to know all of this and oversharing is a common sign of insecurity.

This relationship is so dumb, and this woman is immune to abuse because she allowed it in her life for so long, he isn’t even a hot number, and this dog show will deteriorate more after this messy podcast.

"He's mine, you may have had him once, but I got him all the time" 🎶 in fetish form.

He’s manipulative. He knows he doesn’t want her and everytime she caught sense to leave he tricked her into staying. He doesn’t love her but he knows she’s what he need. How can a man constantly tell you he can’t see him self with you and you stay ? Go to a whole other country to tell a woman he’s getting married days before your wedding? Pure shit. None of them girls wanted him and so he had to settle for the only one that did which was Shan.

Controversy aside. These "podcasters" need to learn how to interview people. They've been talking over and interrupting their guests from telling their story. Buy some podcasts mics and be professional.

I wonder how this podcast boost your brand or brand awareness? Theres a clear lack of social media strategy sadly… All press is not good press for small businesses/ content creators

What the heck did I just sit and listen too 🙂‍↔️🤔

Jesus didn’t die for this 😖 because wdf I just listen to 🤨

Let the people answer the damn questions. Y’all talking loud and interjecting and annoying af

so much over-talking and sideline talking. Like let one person TALK.

The man really sat there and said she helped him discover that women are humans too and not just sex objects. Just red flags after red flags

The hosts need to shut up and let the guests speak. It’s distracting and makes the stories hard to follow when they keep interrupting and talking over them. Also, you need better mics. The feedback on the sound is ear-piercing.

Please improve the sound quality. It was very difficult to listen to the video especially when all of you all would talk at once, and the fact that the mics were so close. It was also echoing at one point. Overall, I enjoyed the video and hope that future ones are produced with even better quality for the viewers.

I say this with love… You couldn’t beat this information out of me nah 😀. I could say a lot but sis… you dropped this 👑 pick it up along with a Bible. Both of y’all, need to pray and sanctify that marriage.

Naw this gyal is beautiful and to think she had to deal with so much. How cyan a fadda say sumn so crazy to his daughter … he must be shook!

It's the *excitement* relaying these embarrassing memories for me 🫠. Girl i love you but this is not it.

Ppl always like to say " Oh she don't deserve him" but honestly......he is the one who don't deserve her. Also, the hosts are so loud and annoying, pleassssssse let the guest talk. Could you imagine you own dad telling you that 😢😢.

Saddest part is how many women will still look for him at fetes and after fetes (if you know what I mean) cause they don't care what is said here lol😅

Soooo is it that he genuinely settled, with her for financial reasons or cause he couldn't originally get the woman he wanted? Interesting 😮😢

This is so embarrassing. Also you guys are awful hosts.

he don’t pay all the bills and she still turning the other cheek? omg I have never seen someone so foolish just so 😳😳

This is sad, girl grow a backbone and love yourself

Shan is the woman most men desire. 😅

I hate how they talk about her. She’s a beautiful woman. They put her husband on this pedestal like he’s all that when he’s not. I honestly feel he doesn’t deserve her. But I don’t know them. Also I see people calling out colorism. It’s not colorism. It’s her features. She could’ve looked the same exact way as a white woman and would still get dragged. Stop using skin tone for everything.

Shan i think you deserve better but you decide what you wanted. This just goes to go show...you should never envy another woman because you never know what she has to go through to have what she does 😢 so sad tho 😢

No matter how many times y’all tell this story or how much of the in between y’all reveal, this situation is crazy. This girl let this man disrespect her over and over and over again till he was ready to settle down. How you could go to meet some other woman the week of your weeding, miss your flight and say you’ll be there in time? And y’all came back from that??? Y’all are the greatest. More power to y’all I guess.

Um........she's a strong woman. SHAN, you're a strong woman.

The hosts clearly don’t respect women, damn

He isn't even cute 😮

RELEASE THIS WOMAN FROM THE SHACKLES YOUVE PLACED ON HER DEMON!!!!!! 😂😂😂🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽✝️✝️✝️

Self worth is a hell of a thing. I gone before them Cinderella come for me

Wow.. this is mad triggering. Why was she spilling so much? Why is that the topic?? Why not seek therapy because what is thissss??? This is not normal!

This video made me feel to cry in so many ways ... Thank you Jesus that my parents raised me to love myself ... i am so sincere

Shan doh hv one ounce of self confidence, self respect, nuttin?!!! Come on girl wise up! Even I vex for she steups.

this is diabolical as hell…

This interview was hard to watch. This man was a man child and she could have dodged a bullet. He failed to protect and lead here. She dominated the conversation spilling all her embarrassment n pain because I suppose she is conditioned to coping through embarrassment starting from her own father. Her trust and boundaries and standards are seemingly nonexistent due to low esteem. She sees herself as ugly and can automatically understand why others think so too. He took advantage of her low standards and esteem and maybe saw a good and decent woman who was actually a friend that truly cared about him. She needs to use discretion in sharing her personal business for public consumption. We are not entitled to their truth. Mek dem wonder, and if they asking, then they don’t need to know. Being blunt and exposing your husband dirty laundry for the sake of appeasing inquiring minds is nasty business. Maybe is a Trinny or Tobago ting. This interviewers were asking messy questions like some children. If they are the couples friends it certainly did NOT come across like that. I don’t think I can watch another interview from this show it was loud and all over the place. I learned nothing wonderful and meaningful about them as individuals much less as a couple. What attracted him to her, what he loves about her, what set her aside from other woman, is he in love, what is their love language, share a special intimate moment?? Not alluh this foolishness. Can tell these men have young men mi d based on the conversation alone. Glad they found something real out of the chaos and glad it’s something worthy to them. Girl you represent majority of natural body women, also dark skin women, real women! You are beautiful inside out! Be confident and reach other to respect you by respecting and valuing and yourself first. Bless up! ❤

Hmmm, not once did I even hear him or the other fellas tell her “No! You’re not ugly. Stop saying that” and give her some empowering words. I honestly don’t think she’s ugly but, I think what people consider as pretty these days is someone who fits that social media “aesthetic”.

The hosts really annoying. Only interrupting.

Y’all keep saying that this man doesn’t like her…but why does that matter when the woman clearly doesn’t like herself?! People will only let you do what you allow them to do.

Not once this man tell she “nah baby you not ugly and you know that” um..

A podcast needs some structure. Allow ppl to talk, the host should guide the guest. Allow them to speak. Etc. This is chaotic, loud and poor sound quality

Low self esteem is a terrible thing. She doesn’t know any better

He talking about her looks when both of them resemble bad bad watch them good 😌😌😌

She needs to see a therapist. I've said it in all of her story times. And that man thinks he is so special, when if it wasn't him , it would've been some other clown. She deserves better.

Dear God i know I does ask for a man but please don’t send me one like this 😢😢😂

Sighhh. She over shared because she was never really heard as a child. Sadly to say he doesn't love her nor like her. This marriage would not last whenever she gain some self-esteem to leave him. I can certainly say, he is cheating on her. I can certainly say her father and other family members put her down her entire life because they dont find her attractive. Her husband doesn't find her attractive at allllllllll. He ONLY likes that she is smart in the sense of connections, finances and building his career more. Sighhhhhhh

This was just soooooo sad and shameful to listen yes… Damnnnn

He went to Canada to see of it was greener grass or come back to his 10 choice and stick around. ... There is alot to unpack in this interview, and I don't think her dad was mean he came to her from a man's view This just screaming new Derrick Jackson 😭

Shan .....I'm starting to see you how you see you....cause you would have to kill me dead before I even confess this shit ....y'all can't be FUCKING serious😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

This guy kumix is one of the most useless person Ive ever had the displeasure of meeting and as for Shan all I have to say is that you deserve peace and love End

I wouldn’t be subscribing cuz the host just into the drama and not even for standing up for this girl and what she went tru… he wanted to hear the story that would “make him go viral” shitty… too sad