“If you chase butterflies, they’ll go away. But if you spend your time making a beautiful garden, the butterflies will come to you. And even if they don’t, you’ll still have a beautiful garden.” My fav quote ever.

“god will put you right back together in front of the people that broke you” ❤

"Let go of the things you want, to get what you deserves" that's the affirmation I'm doing

"Disrespect is a response". Love that. Us women need to love ourselves more, when actions speak, we don t need to ask for explanations because nothing excuses disrespect. We just need to shut the door.

"God will put you right back together in front of the people that broke you" wow thats beautiful. God bless you liz!

I was broken up with 1 day after Liz uploaded this video. It's been more than half a year now and just want to say that her video speaks the TRUTH. Cry, cry, cry, pick yourself up and move forward. I wasn't able to do it in 1 month but I did it. Life is amazing outside of that relationship, that heartbreak, those doubts. The love you poured into another person who didn't want it, pour into yourself because you are the most important! All the things Liz talked about it, it's not an overnight transformation but slowly you will get it as long as you choose to. Don't let one heartbreak destroy you, you are more than that Edit: it’s been more than a year now, I’m living my best life and it was all thanks to truly love myself. Never look back, you got this kings and queens!

“was she really the right person or did you make her the right person?” wow

when Liz said “maximum a month” I definitely felt that lmaoo when I had my first heart break after a month I started thinking **okay that’s enough babe, let’s get going**💀😂

I don’t know if anyone has mentioned this to you. But the fact that you never have ad reads or sponsored posts while you teach us this is actually so authentic and refreshing…

not ironically after my last heartbreak i joined the gym, started to study harder and put more effort at college, started doing skincare and eating healthier food everyday... i was a mess for a whole week, but after that week of crying and self pitty, i just started living my best live, living everything i deserve, owning my own future again❤️

I’ve been listening to Liz lately I’ve started doing skincare, drinking more water, doing healthy habits, being more feminine, looking at solutions for my problems, reading, being more confident in how I look while still making changes, thank you Liz ❤ Edit : I’ve been working out! Thank you Liz

Today marks exactly 1 month and 1 day since the break-up, and here's my update. The beginning was tough, I felt lost and lonely. Since day one, I started journaling and kept believing that one day I'd feel better. I let my emotions flow freely, crying when needed and allowing myself to be angry. I also started meditating occasionally when I felt like my thoughts became too overwhelming. I made sure to go out of the house at least once every day because I know it's good for me personally, even if it was just for a walk or a trip to the supermarket. I met up with friends from time to time and visited family, even when I felt like complete shit while being with them. I preferred that to being home all the time. Suddenly, after sleepless nights, there came the first small moment when I didn't think about it at all. That's when I realized things were getting better. And it has been improving since then. Today, I can say that I'm doing well. I still feel a bit down in the mornings, but once I start my day and start doing my thing, that feeling fades away. I wouldn't say I'm completely over it, but it no longer dominates my daily spirit. I've reflected on the situation and learned more about myself and how to approach certain things differently in the future. I've set new goals for myself and I'm actively exploring and discovering more about who I am. I look forward to a bright future, and I hope the same for all of you. Remember, everything will be alright, just don't give up :)

You're not "rude" you're not "arrogant", you're just straightforward and genuine. It's just that people becoming too sensitive. Thank you for the video you're literally becoming our therapist. - Update: that doesn't mean I don't disagree with things she says.

When she started saying "You are strong, you are strong", I almost started crying because it's not often you hear things like that. I love you always Liz

omgggg crying my eyes out over the quote "god will put you back together again in front of the people that broke you."

Four months ago I got broken up with and felt like shit. I remember thinking I thought I found "my person". But I was wrong and watching this video (back then) made me find comfort. Fast forward to today... I got a new job, healing, and been traveling. It's crazy how everything changes for the better

for everybody here going through a breakup... every person that comes in your life serves you a purpose, and when they leave it means you must let them go, especially when they didn't fought hard enough for YOU. I always come to this video when I'm feeling nostalgic or like I've got to be forgiven or forgive people that did me dirty, never ever second guess the absence of somebody

Remember that you don’t attract what you want, you attract who you are. So focus on love. Focus on happiness. Focus on feeling fulfilled and like you already have everything you’ve ever wanted. Focus on gratitude. You are a powerful source of energy. When you do this, you will get what you want because you are in alignment and focusing on all you have instead of a lack. Just know you have everything you have ever wanted. It’s already yours . Be joyful! Sending loving energy to you all. ❤️

9 days since our breakup. I can't wait to come back here in a year feeling healed & happy.

Has anyone felt like they are BETTER when they aren’t in a relationship? It’s like expectations of someone else to rise up brings you down if they don’t meet it.

NGL I literally teared up when she said " you are strong"

When she said “I want you to cry your eyes out” my eyes started tearing up 😭😭 I’m in the process of healing and it is hard but I know great things are coming and I’ll be fine

Inshallah everyone realizes there is SO MUCH more to life than the person who “broke” our heart. I’m finally on the other side, but just know healing is a consistency thing and you WILL HEAL. every circumstance and characteristic of ur life is SUITED for your souls purpose. Our souls CHOSE to undertake this physical experience in order to heal itself. As Liz once said “we’re SUPPOSED to be getting our heart broken and learning”. Do life in wisdom, love, and joy. 💋💋And stop worrying about the “symbols” in the 3D. Before manifesting anything make sure ur manifesting good mental health, living life in connection to the true reality/soul, because what material/sp will matter if ur not feeling the source of what ur really chasing such as stability, safety, health, comfort

Currently going through one of the worst heartbreaks I’ve had. He’s a good man and we loved each other very much but timing wasn’t right. I’m finally learning to love and trust myself after years of relying on other men. I needed to hear all of this and will continue watching your vids. Thanks Liz 💕

❤️ Timestamps 1:59 - Ask the person/yourself why this happened 4:14 - Realise the emotions you are feeling are normal and not bad and feel then deeply 6:57 - Write a letter to the person that hurt you or to yourself 7:37 - Practice shadow work 8:22 - Focus on what you can learn from the situation and how to move forward with it 9:58 - Remind yourself of what needs they failed to meet 10:43 - The best revenge is creating a better life for yourself 13:41 - Combat your limiting beliefs 15:41 - Trust in the higher plan for you 16:20 - Time will pass and this won't be as big as a deal anymore 17:32 - Don't make decisions in an emotional state 18:25 - Have trust in yourself and your abilities 19:35 - Talk to friends that won't judge you 20:52 - Try to make new supportive friends 21:25 - Focus on mentally evolving 22:00 - Watch videos on KZfaq on healing heartbreak 23:20 - Ask others how they have dealt with heartbreak 23:48 - Spend more time doing things you love 24:57 - Take care of your physical appearance 25:47 - Listen to healing/self love meditation 26:09 - Repeat powerful affirmations to yourself in the mirror 26:41 - Keep practicing and don't quit 29:07 - You will be okay and wiser despite what happened

THIS is a real friend. As women we start to realize this the more we grow up, this is literally the truth, no sugarcoating. And that is the highest form of respect and love we can give ourselves is the truth!!

It's been 6 months now, I love this guy so much. But he doesn't, he is a Playboy he wants to explore options. I don't want a guy like that. But he had the ability to love someone. He had been hurt in the past that's why he is afraid of commitment. I'm trying to move on from him. Hope he finds a partner he wants. Maybe I was not enough for him. But ik I'm amazing myself. I just wish by any means he receives the message that I actually love him and I don't want to play with him, nor do I want to waste his time. But it's okay I'll move on. I'll leave this on God 🙏

I'm 15 years old and for these past few days I have been feeling lost and have no will to do anything. I have listened to all your videos and everyday I woke up I still try to implement what the highest version of myself will do. You have helped so much. May God continue to bless you with unimaginable blessings. ❤

"You didn't waste those years" 😭😭😭 I lost 4years of education to depression and did nothing. I really needed to hear this. Thankyou liz. Sending you hug 🫂❤️

honestly, i've watched this video before, but now that i had a heartbreak, watching this video again hits different..

I had about 34 jobs in my life and I’m in my late thirties. I now had latest job over 2 years, and make decent money part time, low stress, debt free and successful. I could be making a little more money at least and plan to later. I am a walking, talking failure. But I still made it. Most of my family (not all) still think I’m a deadbeat bum loser. Everyday I’m getting closer to owning my place though. And my few friends believe in me.

This video genuinely changed my life. My gf and I broke up amicably a few days ago and I was absolutely shattered. This video was EXACTLY what I needed to get out of my slump

I started crying when she said “you will find love again” 🥺Liz u have no clue how much your videos help me heal, and help me hope.

I love how Liz always resonates and addresses the thoughts we have in our heads.

I was once In a really dark place after a breakup from a “situationship”. And even though I needed to heal, I knew that I couldn’t lose anymore self respect and break no contact… So, I told myself: They don’t need to listem to you pour out your heart and get a reply from them, all you truly need to move on Is to be able to forgive yourself for having allowed that person Into your life and going through that. And that changed my perception of getting attached to situations that don’t necessarily end with closure

You didn’t waste those years. You chose to get out of it and become better. I needed to hear that 💖

she really is the older sister that everyone needs, a truly gift from the universe

I never had an elder sister present to guide me. For 21 years, I had to do it on my own- I faced every heart-ache alone. Thank God for your existence. You helped me a lot. I wish I’ve come to known this channel sooner. + Happy to be able to share your wisdom to my younger sister! You’re the best, Liz!

I don’t see you tough or so, I see you enthusiastically advising & couching & this so nice of you & authentic

„god will bless you, he never fails“ thank you Liz.

I just got broken up with last night. Your words are helping me through this. Thank you Liz.

"people are afraid of you seeing your potential" this is WAYYY too true. people who are happy within will be happy for you but when you're in a toxic environment they will make you feel crazy and guilty for shining your light and will see you as a threat. im gonna shine, glisten and sparkle regardless !

i've been getting more and more into your videos. your point at the 31:30 mark saying "atleast you realized, atleast you are trying to change now" is so real. so glad i found your tiktok. you're a blessing liz

I know I need this. I know my own worth and I won’t settle on the same level as him, he’s such a jerk. He cheated on me and lack of sex discipline. After he broke up with me for like 3 days? I guess he went out and hook up with some other girls out there💀 I laugh at that now instead of crying like mannnn I’m so lucky that I can get out of his life. Right now, it’s nearly 3 weeks but I’m doing really better than I was before. I love myself more, I spend time with myself to get to know me better and I’m truly believe that I can get over this within 1 month (I give limit to myself) Shout out to our Queens here, I know we can do it, We’re STRONG. Just give yourselves some time and love yourself the most. You guys can do it💖💖💖 Thank you so much Liz, it helps me a lot.

Shadow Work Questions given by Liz ✨ 1. How did I evolve during this situation? 2. What needs of mine were failed to be met? 3. What could I have done better in this situation? 4. What would the best possible outcome have been for myself? 5. If I could do this again to myself with the knowledge that I have now, how would I approach the situation? 6. What would a person that really love themselves would do now? How would they handle the situation? How would they treat themselves now?

Liz is like the elder sis we all need!! thank you Liz, I finally took myself out of the pity cage...I'm working on myself and my dreams, your videos helped so much! I know I can and I will. ❤️

just came across her page and i’ve been struggling with my break up since last year and still going, he left me for another girl after we were engaged, he moved in only three months after and he’s posting all these happy post saying this girl changed everything for him and he’s happy now.. after he treated me like shit, put his hands on me and used me. he blames me for everything and makes me the bad guy. So i’m gonna see if this helps me cause i’m at the lowest point in my life and i wanna just die so let’s see

I’m listening this during my evening walk and I’m 1 month post breakup. Literally wish I watched this video when I was at my lowest because your advice hits home hard! The heart break glow up is so real !

I'm a Christian & when you take the concept of God it really touches me, though your a muslim you tell 'God' without bringing your religion into it using universal term. there are few people who don't take advice from them if they are Christians/Muslims/ Hindus etc... I think religion isn't a barrier for this At the end of the day we all need love, kindness & we all are humans... doesn't matter which God we serve Love you Liz! God bless ♥️

“So many people are afraid that you will get to know your power.” 👏🏽🗣️👑 I’m so happy I found you on this platform Liz! Keep up the powerful work! 🫶🏽

i was in this situationship a year ago and i genuinely liked him and thought he felt the same. he would tell me sweet things all the time while we were texting and would make me feel like the only girl in the world. however, he wouldn’t start any conversations with me irl and would walk past me like i didn’t exist. it hurt me yes, but i pushed it to the side bc of excuses i made for him. then one day, he told me he was talking to other girls the entire time when i thought i was the only one. it hurt so much, but i knew that the best thing for myself was to leave so i did. i erased every part of him from my phone, social media, etc. the next few months after that were full of healing and it wasn’t easy. sometimes i still think about it but it’s not like before. i take it as a lesson. now a year later, im in a much better place. im focusing on my education, going to the gym, eating better, and spending more time with loved ones without worrying about a boy. i’m grateful for the lesson that situation taught me :)

It's been more than a month after our broke up. It was difficult like I cannot stop crying every day. It feels so heavy. I even lose my appetite, but as time went by, I felt a little bit better. I thank God every day for giving me strength to go on. Your videos help me a lot too. Thank you

Liz has become our therapist at this point! Thank you for all the videos.

I was so broken over my last break up but after being depressed for 5 months I decided to take action and glow up. I never looked back ever since... that heartbreak was really a blessing. I feel empowered now.

Icl when I was wasting my time for that one person I wasn’t even thinking about myself and that made me even realise that that wasn’t a good thing I should be more focused on me and not be giving to that one person who don’t even value me or respect me thanks for you you had opened my eyes you don’t know how much this had served me.

I feel like my heart been ripped out my chest and I’m literally about to die…This hurts so bad Thanks Liz

I though this idea was weird in the first place but I wrote a letter to myself like you suggested in your video, and it was such a relief. For those who tend to be really empathetic to others but not to yourself, please, try doing this. It will force you to write as you would to a friend. You know, the love you naturally give to others because it's obvious they deserve it. You deserve that love too.

She actually became a helping hand for me to become a better version of myself 💗lots of love ❤

i appreciate how blunt and straightforward you are it’s much needed and you’re not mean at all ♥️

My bf jus broke up with me im watching this

I think that even tho it sucks when people use and betray us, at the end of the day we usually get over things we never thought we would a month or a year ago. We constantly evolve as souls on this earth and like tbh she’s right if I never went through betrayal loss death or abuse I wouldn’t be as knowledgeable or grateful for things that I have in life. Hardship brings mental and spiritual growth.

You changed my life to the better and I am so thankful for this❤️

She literally don't even know how much she is helpful for people like us🥺, tq liz ur like my big sister

I felt like my own mom was talking to me, with so much care. You're so kind. Thank you

After getting my heart broken for the 1000th times, this was exactly what I needed to hear.

I never understood it, all the years of suffering. All I was thinking was, "Why me?". I remember crying on the floor years ago thinking if God exists then he doesn't love me. Now I understand, that my suffering was a blessing in disguise. It truly made me understand that it needed to happen, to elevate me into a person that I never thought was possible. I still continue to grow and the self love continues to pour out. The more I love myself, the more I love others. It's truly amazing. Whether you believe in God, the higher self or the universe, what Liz says is true. Life is a game and a test for you to reach into the highest loving person you could be. Meditation truly is key ❤ Thank you Liz ❤ More blessings to you and your family 🙏

Liz, I just need to say that I am so grateful that you exist and are making these videos. seriously, you are helping me so much right now, i don't even have the words to express how much you're helping me. Thank you.

I don’t know where I’d be if I didn’t find your Chanel, you’ve truly helped me shift my mindset and I’ve grown so much

I am on month 4 post heartbreak, and still depressed. BUT, in these 4 months I also became sober and leveled up. My life has improved, I guess now I am grieving. Your videos are very helpful, thank you 🙏🏻

You're such a blessing to me, Liz! Thank you for this video. 😭 Please keep doing these! We love you, too! 😭

When I feel sad I watch the wizard Liz and even by seeing her I just light up and become more motivated and confident,her aura is something I can’t explain. I love her.

Going thru breakup currently.. It hurts soooooo badddddd i swear it hurts.. Typing this with tears in my eyes...but i hope i won't need this video one day in my life and i will come here to remind myself how i get out of this and will see this comment of mine and will realise how far I've come.. INSHALLAH!!!!

I broke up with him and blamed it all to myself. I desperately try to work on me but then I feel as if I don’t deserve it. I feel like I don’t deserve to be happy all because I cut connections with my toxic ex. This video made me realize how much I should be proud of myself. I’m not weak, I’m working on myself and I dropped the relationship because I had the courage to. Thank you so much liz for making me realize that❤. I deserve better, I’m moving on, we hurt each other but we learned from it. It’s okay. I WILL love myself and I am proud of myself for taking the step forward first.

Girrll...you are so young yet SO wise. You've literally helped me see a new light and path for my life. Just been through a very difficult breakup. Can't thank you enough. Please keep posting. Love you💝💖

i am facing the heartbreak right now ... and i cried through oyt the whole video .... i feel so alone but there is the feeling deep inside that i have liz ... i have liz like a bigger sister who will teach me .... i love u so much liz!!

Never felt so powerful, self aware, loving myself after my heartbreak. Started to reading good books like 5am club, atomic habits they literally changed my mindset in healthy way...started doing skincare and taking care of my body , being body positive , journaling, working out regularly and man life never felt so sorted out before. Previously i used to curse at my ex for making me go through hell but now i literally thank him because if he won't have shown how shit things can get i won't have been this stronger and more self aware about myself ✨ so i strongly agree with the phrase God takes you in deep water not to drown you but clean you so trust it trust the process and everything is lesson take it and move on💖

I watched the video this morning upon waking up, and a few minutes later my ex contacted me after three months of ghosting. I managed to ask ALL of my questions, and I feel so much more clarity and peace now. Thanks Liz 🙏🏼

After my heart break I got a great job at another country, moved, made amazing friends and am living my best life. Thanks to my heartbreak

Liz, congrats to 1.3 millions subscribers! Your channel have grow so fast! Also, thank you for all the content videos you created for us. Much appreciated! ^^

liz can you do a night time routine, or a full list of habits that you suggest us to take care of ourselves and become more confident? I love your kindness and I'm forever grateful for all of your advices.thank you so much.

Writing this firstly to thank you Liz...you really saved my life...thank you so much! Secondly, I'm in the week 2 of this heartbreak. I wanted to give up cause so many other bad things has been happening too but I decided to stay strong. I know that they don't deserve me. I know my worth and I AM STRONG. So, I'll come back to my comment after a month and hopefully I’ll say that I have moved on :,) I know that I can. To whoever reading this: you are strong too…don’t give up 🤍🫂

Even I needed someone to talk to me the way you do. Thank you for this channel and everything.

Honestly, every single thing in this video is so true. I've been going through a heartbreak (the 2nd one this year lol) and I think that it's important we keep doing bare minimum things while going through pain. I don't fight the pain anymore; I'm giving up being ashamed of it. What I do now is keep my workout/work/study/hobby routine *in spite of* it. Happiness and pain, nothing is permanent. There's that David Bowie song what says "turn and face the strange". It's easy to keep healthy, consistent habits and a positive outlook on life when everything's ok. Challenge comes when everything is falling apart. Focus that you're still here, you're still alive and breathing. What I'd say is the bare minimum - exercise and eat well. Even if you're not able to do anything else during this period of pain. As time goes by, start adding more and more - creative hobbies, breathwork, cold showers. You'll get there. And I'll be here cheering for you (and for myself as well) every step of the way :) We'll get through this!

Recently broke up and still struggling with the sadness. My best friend sent me this video, and she said, listen to this. Replay it as much as you can. I cried alot. I will try my best to heal! Good luck you all guys too! X

Liz, I want you to know you are really helping me during a hard time. MY ex fiance broke up with me, been together 8 years. Your videos give me hope that I can be stronger than I once was and one day I can move on. I watched one of your videos when it first happened, its been a month so far and I've gone to the gym, did a new activity like yoga, and starting to get my life together ie. working, school. Baby steps but I feel like I'm slowly gaining back parts of me that I lost in the relationship. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. We all need people like you that help us get up and live life when we didn't know we could again! ❤

Your content is genuinely so helpful, you’ve made me realize a lot more about myself and my own potential. Thank you ❤

my boyfriend broke up w me monday and i truly thought he was the one. I wasn’t accepting that I needed mental help throughout our relationship and he wasn’t as ready for a relationship as he thought he was, especially with somebody battling bpd. but honestly this week i’ve connected w the true friends that have stuck w me through this and after letting out all the hurt I can say this is probably the best for both of us. I’m going to my home country on vacation most of March and I think w this new positive mindset and finally reaching out to a therapist and practicing dbt and using your advice will heal me :) THE BEST REVENGE IS CREATING A BETTER LIFE FOR YOURSELF! i love u liz thank u for everything

stop pitying yourself!!! Everyone remember that our pain is the truth that force us to accept the reality, Take your struggles in your hands, became mad on this and change it all for yourself. BCAUSE YOU CAN

i really really love how real she is, fills my heart with trust and hope

thank you so much Liz! I could not stop crying while listening to you talk, what you say really resonates with a lot of people and this has changed me so much, and the way I perceive hurtful situations

you literally save me from falling into trap every time im going through my roughest. thank you liz

KZfaqrs Liz the Wiz mentioned✨: •Louise Hay •Breeny Lee •Asha Christina •Sheraseven Was looking for this myself, hope this helps💕

i literally started crying, thank you so much for this, you're so incredible

She’s a blessing. PERIODT

thank you liz for making me gain self-respect again after love blinded my senses. i couldn't thank you more. this will be another lesson learned!

Since I watch your Videos, I am more happy and motivated than ever. You're saying the things I needed to hear much earlier. You gave me that kick to begin my healing journal. Sending much positive energy🤍 I am so thankful for you

I litteraly cried at the end. Thank you so much, its been so hard for so long. But I'm still standing, everyday.

Im literally crying in heartbreak as i saw this video come online. So ya... and started listening to it. Pray for me everyone...and thank u liz..

"There's something bigger and better out there for me" this made me think that I deserve better in my life You are truly a healing therapist for me thank you :)love from india

thankyou so much liz. youve healed parts of me, thankyou so much for being there.