Am I the only one who feels like the first wife is super violent and abusive, mentally and physically? This is not okay behavior - for the first time during this show I am so understanding of the husband compared to the wife. She does not listen properly, being agressive, hitting him, telling him to put his act together. I can really understand the reasoning behind wanting to run away.

The first wife kept saying things abusive people say towards their partner! That he is childish, immature, talks back to her, disobeys, etc.. is he a human being or a pet? Plus he works 12 hour shifts! Do you know how hard a 12 hour shift is?? I worked 12-13h a day for 2 weeks and all i wanted to do at the end of my shift was to drop dead and never wake up again! It's so fucking exhausting! Yet she wakes him up on his only opportunity to catch some sleep and he still helps her with the housework! She is manipulative and controlling and a fucking leecher! He should divorce her, get the kids and get as far away from her as possible! "I hit him out of habit" - that's domestic violence right there! Edit: at the very end she didn't even feel sorry, she only said that because she was on tv! She thought she could manipulate the audience and the MCs but she didn't think things through and was humiliated! Poor husband, i'm pretty sure he saw hell when he got home, an abusive person cares only for power and themselves!

the wife slapping the husband on the first concern is not something to joke about, it's domestic violence. If it was the other way around I bet they wouldn't have laughed and make jokes about it,I bet they would even have report it to the police. Men can suffer from domestic violence just like women and it's just as horrible and unfair

B.A.P!!

If it was the man being violent and abusive to his wife, it would be a whole different story 🤔😪

Youngjae was so cute when that boy was performing with the yoyo. The reaction king!

The wife in the first concern is abusive and controlling. She treats him like crap, he is too soft and loves her and she knows it and makes use of it. For the sake of his daughter and himself i would leave her.

i think the camera man fell in love with Youngjae~~~ hes the only one that got filmed 😂😂😂

for the second concern, I felt for both the daughter and mother. First of all, I hate the term "lazy", when it's being used incorrectly, or when people are accused of being lazy when there are other reasons. I only had 2 close friends in highschool, one was my best friend of 6 years and the other was our friend that mainly followed her around. I won't go much into detail at this part but my friend of 6 years was very manipulative and abusive so I decided to end it with her. It was extremely hard but it felt so relieving. I ended up spending the rest of my senior year by myself. I skipped senior activities, prom, etc. I sat with these 10th graders that I knew at lunch time and because I wasn't friends with that girl anymore, I basically lost all connections with the other seniors. I'm very introverted and she's very extroverted so she was always able to get us to hang out with anyone. Anyways that was a really hard time for me and I lost the motivation to study. Like Taejoon said, he goes to school for his friends. Of course they're partially joking but of course lots of kids hate school but go to be with friends. I studied less and faked being sick to miss school. The senior activities were optional so I never went because I didn't have any friends, and I didn't want to bother those people that I sort of knew but wasn't friendly enough with them to hang out you know? Because of missing lots of classes and getting bad grades, I ended up not being able to graduate with the rest of the class. At that point I didn't care because I would've been too afraid anyways. At graduation ceremonies, people take pictures with their friends but I didn't want to be that one there who didn't have anyone. After I completed a few months later, I told my mom I wanted to go to counseling and I'd always vent about this stuff. After a few weeks with my therapist, I went to go see a psychiatrist and I was diagnosed with depression. I think that's what the daughter has. I'm still watching the concern but first of all she had fight with her friend and was too afraid to approach the others, so she stayed home often. She lies in bed all day and plays on her phone, which might not be laziness but a symptom of depression. She cried so easily when she started talking, which happens to me too. At first my mom called me lazy and said I needed to go out and do more things, which was true, but when I was diagnosed that was when we realized the reason. I know it's different for everyone but just the girl really reminds me of myself.

i thought i was the only one but i was in the same situation as the girl who always skipped. i was called lazy when i was depressed. i am recovering from it. and i really want to comfort that girl. i am completely on her side. her mental health is more important than school, meeting friends, and keeping her mom happy.

Someone needs to save that child from the first couple until they sort out their issues. A child should not be in such a hostile environment. Neither of them have thought about her in their immaturity.

I usually don't write my story here, but that mom is exactly like my mom, hit him, insult him, she's so violent and abusive, my mom was like that with my dad, my brother and me, actually that situation happened until my dad died and my brother left the house, i really really really hope she can changed, or the husband should left the house, lock him out, made him slept in the car, cutting his face from the photos? she's so rude, i can understand why he left the house, not only that, they have a children she's growing up seeing that, that's bad :/ probably people think he's inmature, but if the case was the opposite, if was the husband who hit her or insult her people could say "She should left, that man is the worst" reading the second concern about the girl who skip school, and today i skip a class xD i shouldn't, i was also worried about her, but i think she gonna go school ^^ her mother, wow, she really had a lot of trouble i hope she's okay T__T The guy in the last concern is so cuteee, also he's good, but i think he should focus in others thing too, maybe the time the mom is working he can practice, but when his mom is sleeping he should study, 0??? wow, i'm totally obssesive with Monsta X just like he is with yoo-yoo but if i know i have a exam i study hard, (actually i should be studying right now XD)

Youngjae is looking so good here and i love his skin tone.

im only here for my laughing seal youngjae and perfect man Himchan

The second concern just hearing the story about the daughter through the mother I thought it sounded like the daughter was either depressed or had deep anxiety and hearing how the daughter talked about not wanting to be in the way and being scared to go to school made it clear that she has anxiety I hope she gets help in overcoming her fears. Hearing about the mothers illnesses I hope they can get help its sad that parents have to tell their kids to give up on a school because if money I hope they will both have a better life and that the daughter finds other way to achieve her dream.

In the first concern, I honestly thought it was about another husband who was really horrible but then as his reasons came out I began to understand. Living with a wife like that must be hard, especially when she hit him. I'm glad that his problems were taken seriously because I think that when men usually complain about their wives hitting them they're laughed off but when it's reversed, women are usually encouraged to leave. Of course, the husband isn't perfect but at least he didn't resort to hitting his wife when he didn't get his way. Or cutting out her face in family pictures because that would have really hurt him, especially when he seems to genuinely care for his wife.

The last kid sister was hilarious xD She kept poiting him to stay still, use the mic properly, lol. But at the same time I can say she seems stressed /: Fighting!

First concern, they should swap seats, cuz poor husband idk how he is with her till now .. she wants everything on her own way.

YES! I was hoping some of the B.A.P members would be on Hello Counselor with their comeback. I just love them ♡__♡

awwww youngjae's reactions were all like :o it was so cuteeeeeeee

Woahhhhhh still shocked by how perfect and beautiful youngjae looks

My monday routine :) Love this show .

The overwhelming sexism underlying the first concern is blinding. When they hear that a woman slapped her husband, they assume and insist it was just a light little ladylike tap rather than a full-on slap. But think: If it were a man slapping his wife, people would be appalled and think it was definitely a full-blown, drawback slap. People shrug it off when the woman is the abuser, but if it were the wife in his position saying her husband hit her, y'all KNOW there'd be a huge commotion.

in the first concern that lady is abusing her husband like what the hell I would leave too if I were him

49:47-49:55 was the highlight for me. Youngjae was so interested by the hand movements haha, so adorable

B.A.P my love ♡♡♡♡

who else thinks CHOI TAE JOON is becoming more handsome each day? his smile is the highlight of it all, i can hardly concentrate

I love how the last kid just was not getting it until Yeongja compared life to fried chicken and pickled radish. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

The wife in the first concern is just crazy how can she hit him over little things ?

Omg, the first story was shocking I thought the husband may have another woman but then he said his wife hit him! That's really BAD It doesn't matter if is a woman or a man DON'T HIT PEOPLE. Men don't like to be hit. Men are not meant to be hit. Nobody is meant to be hit. Please don't hit people T.T If you have a bad temper just go outside and calm down just like your husband and take his feelings into consideration too. That woman seemed really violent and selfish. Poor baby girl! I hope the woman can reflect because her husband seems really nice! many others would have gone or hit her back, she's lucky to have him. He's trying his best for the sake of the family.

BAP 😍😍😍

All the comments are talking about the concerns and if they agreed or not or if they were serious or not... But I cant get over the fact that Youngjae had his mouth opened the whole programme 😂😂😂

B.A.P love

Youngjae ❤️

Nooo I have so much homework but I see BAP and I forget the world exists 🌏❤️

The wife in the first concern is crazy

B.a.p fighting!

I clicked because of Himchan and Youngjae 😂 this is my second time watching Hello Counselor

We need more shows like this in America where the main focus is helping the people in trouble rather than exploiting them for entertainment purposes.

thank you for always uploading with subs ^-^ much appreciated

youngjae and himchan 😍😍😍 i love youngjae reactions to the yoyo boy.. 😂😂😂 he is so adorable.. can't stop loving him.. btw, the first woman was so horrible 😣

I think there is more to the bullying in the second concern. I think she was basically shut out from the entire class. It's hard when no one will talk to you. It's easy to get distracted with her cell phone when the real world is so cruel. I hope the class changes and a falling out with one student doesn't lead to everyone ignoring her. I think a lot of the situation in the news about the daughter of Choi and what happened in her high school. The teachers were unable to stop the corruption and suffered, now the ones who were powerless and bullied into the passing the girl are in trouble. Such cruel priviledged people. Such misguided blame. What is the average person to do when bullied by a powerful person close to the president?

EXCUSE ME HOW DID I JUST FIND OUT BABIES ARE ON THE SHOW?? B.A.P FIGHTING AHHHH

It is so cute when the yoyo boy's older sister nudged him to make him sit up straight and moved the mic up to his mouth😂 She did it so nonchalantly, not even looking over and just doing it😂 They are so cute☺️

BAP!!!!!!!!

Finally came home from school squad... Where you at? 😂😂

I definitely cried for the second one. But why did the last kid not understand anything until it was described in food terms. Hopefully he changes. He doesn't realize she's working so hard for him and his life.

Ok but that yo-yo is so cool tho lol it's a talent

B.A.P ❤

Youngjae looks so dam hawttttttt......................... 😍 😍

The host did a great job explaining to the young man about how to balance his life. He is good with yo yo's. Can't he go to a park and do his tricks? I bet he would get an audience that way.

BAP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

15:28 lmao youngjae you okay ??

I only focus on youngjae he is so handsome ❤️

Himchan sharp fetchers..so handsome 🖤

The mother in the first concern reminds me of my mother. She would hit both me and my father if she didn't get her way never hard enough that it would leave wounds but hard enough that it would hurt. No matter how many times I tell her why I don't like to be with her she just apologize and then acts like nothing is wrong. Its really mentally exhausting so I moved out as soon as I could so I understand the husband.

I liked the advice Dongyeop gave her about school not only being to study for subjects, but to meet new people and make friends. He's right. That's something I tell my students too ♡

The first concern actually really worries me... She seems to be very abusive both physically and mentally...

Youngjae looks beautiful ♥️

watching this i sometimes wish I was a kpop idol so I can speak my mind on this bs the woman in first story is a toxic person they should add a part where they check the comments section of their episodes

Thanks for uploading it with subs so early!

I love Youngjae's comment on the yo-yo master, because I like how he is encouraging of having a dream BUT he pointed out that the kid seemed to lack concern for others, which is bad. It's OK to have a dream, but that kid is waaaay too obsessive, how can someone support your dream if you're spending hundreds of dollars (and honestly, you don't need THAT many yo-yos) and causing them so much stress? I'm usually on the side of a dreamer, but in this case.... naaah, you need to be considerate of others, if you're selfish you won't go far.

it hits Yeongja out of everyone 😂😂 she's my favorite

the announcer saying the wife in the first concern has a point because the husband is childish the hell you talking about she got angry for him spending 1000 so she spent 2000 and got angry at him for leaving so she cuts him out of pictures memories for her children yea the wifes real mature and laughing at him for thinking he is crying he is human and is being abused wth

If the first concern was reversed with the husband hitting the wife rather than wife hitting husband, it wouldnt be acceptable at all We are in an era of knowledge and understanding, and we all know that violence is not good no matter where it comes from.

This episode has everything

Great episode !!

ok but props to the lady with the frizzy hairdoo for gifting us with life's best analogy ever 👌

1:06:50 THAT SISTER IS SUCH A SAVAGE THE WAY SHE IS LOOKING AT HIM BWAHAHAHA😂

i see bap i click

1st Concern: The lady is the one with the problem. She is very abusive & spoiled. She only understands things the way she wants to. The 'Im Always Right' kind of person. My dad is a doctor that work with shifts so his sleep patterns are also like the man's but it doesn't cause any problem. I mean, he sleeps before going to work so he doesnt fall asleep while he is there. Its not the end of the world cause the man does make time for his family.

love this show ..

I love Youngja so much! She is amazing!

that yo-yo guy is Amazing

Honestly as soon as I heard the second story, even just with the main message I knew for sure the daughter wasn’t going thanks to some sort of depression. I know this because I went through this exact type of experience, I lost my childhood friend and bc my home was already a hard place for me, I ended up staying home constantly with no motivation to do anything. This isn’t laziness, this is your bodies way of telling you you need space

the first concern kinda take me back to ''Reply 1997'' love that drama

the first concern.. she has no respect for her husband.

49:52 is Yj wearing that same watch that Zelo broke when they arm wrestled

I feel bad for the second concern. Having depression (the daughter) is not even easy to manage. She wants to do stuff but she feels so down and she can't even help her mom. I hope they can help each other and be supportive. Praying for them

What a turnaround in first concern !!!kkkkkkk Poor husband.I am brazilian and i love this program !!!!

Minkyo is my fav snl comedian!!!!!!!

The mother and son need to work together and he needs to learn when to do his yo-yoing and to stop calling his mother. Some people are fixated on one thing and they can't help that but he needs to learn to compromise and control himself.

I'm waiting to see if she even work. She controls the money, kicks him out the house, adds locks to the doors and hit him (WTF) he need to leave and don't go back (to her) just visit the child.

the yoyo master is talented, i loved his performance!! Where i can find the peniel's episode??

B.A.P Los amo

Am the only one who's scared about what happened to the first husband after they left?

The second problem seems to me like the daughter is getting depressed. People may often mistake depression for being lazy. You can see how she sees the negative side of things. She was worried she might not get friends but when her classmate told her there are many people who want to be her friend, she said it's too late now. When her mom couldn't send her to the art school she felt helpless. The mom needs to listen to her daughter.

With the first concern, I'm really sorry for the husband to live in Korea. Domestic violance in Korea is said to be private matter and shouldn't be dealt with law. It's not even taken seriously. Korean tradition/culture says, that wife actually belongs to husband, therefore not many social workers or police (who are native Koreans) take this issue seriously. Each year, there is a survey among Korean marriages. More than 50% percent of the asked admited that they have experienced mental abuse in the previous year. In many cases the police tells people to talk it out, but there are situations when they don't even come to the scene. Domestic violance becomes real stuff when entering the court. You, whoever you are and wherever you live, remember, that using violance doesn't make you strong. It makes you a bully.

AHH YOUNGJAE MY FLUFFBALL

In the first concern the wife says he's never home.....but yet he does all the housework and works an 12-hour shift?????? (If I was him I would never be at home either [THAT'S AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP RIGHT THERE ])

The first wife legit thought that she was going to write in and spin the story in her favor. Oh no ma'am...you messed around and got your ass embarrassed on national TV as well as on KZfaq. Girl, bye!

Lol the mum with the yoyo kid was cute 😂😂😂

In the first concern both the husband and wife are super immature. The wife has anger issues and is way too petty and the husband is too submissive and runs away whenever he doesn't want to face her head on. She needs anger management, he needs to be less submissive and they both need a bunch of couples counseling.

59:08 this is so cool but real quick can we acknowledge the butterfly in the room

The second concern was annoying. The mom really needs to be stronger and properly punish her daughter. Going to school is not an option. And it was really annoying how she let the daughter be so lazy. The daughter was texting her from her bedroom for the mom to bring her food and water. If I was a parent, I'd ignore those texts and make the daughter get up on her own.

for first worry, both of them were strong headed. hence why they can't seem to find the middle ground. i'd vote that they both have worries.

life is like eating fried chicken- best simile ever

im sooo early!!!! 😁😱😱❤

What a controlling and violent wife. Ughhhhhhh LMAOO at 1:06:48

im a simple person i see HImchan and Youngjae on the thumbnail, i CLICK for reals tho, this is the first tme ive watched the show, wtf is wrong with the first wife?????