"... everyone that come with you, can't go with you..." Needed to hear these words. thanks Steve...

He married her! They have a brand new baby girl...April 2020.

‘The objective is not to keep it real, it’s to keep it moving.’ Yes! Yes!

Kudos to him for manning up and asking for help, she better hold on to him tight hes a keeper!

Steve was bout to make fun of his name until he looked up n saw how big he was 😂😂😂

He really does love her. Seems like a real stand up guy. He will make the right move; I’m sure of it.

Lol thats crazy I know him from elementary school. I am so proud of him and I've never forgot him because of his name 😂 but I am very proud of him coming from where we're from he has turned into a great man and God has blessed him. Wish him all the best and very happy for him.

Respect for a man who is even considering or looking for advice.

Went through something similar with my wife, when we were dating. She was so afraid of losing contact to her friends (because she started concentrating more on our relationship), who were mostly single that it caused us stress at times. But I told her the minute her friends meet their partners, we will see less of them and they aren't going to apologize. Wasn't long, before it started happening, one after the other... Spared her the petty, "I told you so.."

Real friends are usually happy for each other as they progress through life, if they aren't then a decision has to be made. Sometimes they'll mature and come back into your life.

Cool dude he looks like a darker version of Scottie pippen

Another words... It’s okay to become successful and leave your bum friends behind.

High school freinds were so jealous when I got into a real realationship at 17, I had to make the choice to leave them. I'm 29 and still with the same guy, wouldn't have it any other way.

IT'S CALLED MATURITY SON....YOU BETTA SET A BOUNDARY BECAUSE TRUE BROTHERLY FRIENDS WILL UNDERSTAND, FAIRWEATHER FRIENDS ARE NOT MATURE ENOUGH TO SEE THAT LIFE BRINGS ABOUT GOOD AND BAD CHANGES. GOD BLESS AND LOVE YA!

If you cant grow with me you can't go with me -Eric Thomas

Dang, an NFL player on Steve Harvey?

Steve Harvey always speaks facts

Very good advice. Steve is right don't let anyone mess that up.

Real friends don't mess up the good things in your life. And you better not let them.

He's right. The real friends will reinforce you & those who aren't will sabatage you.

The audience did not clap when they introduced his girlfriend😯 #Awkward

Steve is speaking the truth, sometimes for you to grow you need to leave some things and people behind

This is one of those from Steve that he answers seriously without cracking a joke..respect the man..

this is what a real man looks like.. i hope his woman is good to him too.

I still go back to this video to remind me of the real friends and the fake ones

SO CUTE. It’s funny how Steve is so GREAT at answering the questions he somehow resonates with but the ones he doesn’t he’s just like “back to commercial”. 😃😜😄😀😁🤩😆

I lose all my friends after I got married.. which means they wasn't my friend's

And once he has kids, he Leveled all the way up LOL

She's holding on for dear life 😩😂

Sound advice! When you Level-up, you gotta shed some things...some people too!

Loyalty can be a double edged sword if you let it. Gotta pick the right things to be loyal to and for in life.

Clap Clap Clap, love lessons about Leveling Up! Such an important message. This is what life is supposed to be. As every year that passes in life, you are supposed to learn more, do more, experience more, so that when you are 30, 40, 50 and up you *aren't* living or thinking as you did when you were 20. All your relationships, your income, temperament, it is all supposed to level up. People that don't understand that aren't meant to be in your life.

I had a former friend that was not so happy for me when I met my bf now husband, she said i chose a man over her. She was my maid of honour in my wedding and still wasnt happy for me, someone told me the stuff she was saying about me and my family, let's just say I kicked her to the curb, 10 years of friendship done just like that. It's sad but oh well

When Steve said the name and the audience was laughing 🤦🏾‍♂️ then find out he in the NFL and clap. Just wow 😐

It takes a real man to tell what's real, whether we gonna like it or not. My man Steve Harvey

Keeping it real can go horribly wrong. Marriage saved my soul and sanity... Level up! 10 yrs truly Blessed and Joyful!

the most valuable and most disappointing lesson in life is those that you think are your friends. aren't. don't ever let them keep you down because they will

He a good wide receiver to this man on another level

Steve is correct at a certain point. It works both ways. Life is all about balance

Facts. The true friends push you to do big and better things even if that means less time to hang out.

That was pretty sweet! He seems like a good guy and Steve gave solid advice. I hope they keep in contact for mentorship throughout his professional career.

She was my teacher at Vincent High School! That's Ms.Riley she was always dressed down!

I saw part of this on insta. And I just had to come on here cuz I just needed to hear the rest cuz it’s sooo powerful💯💯🙏🏾.

"Everytime you level up some of your friends will stay out of life I like that"

U have taught me a lot Mr Steve. thanks

I had this same issue with my husbands female and male friends. He's married and a father now life has to move forward and onward. What all the homies gonna grow old together single? Really. Life is about growth and positive changes. Eventually his friends realized it was time for him to elevate like Steve said he leveled 👆🏾. Soon they followed suite well some of them. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Wow. I'm seeing Steve Harvey in a new light. Every word was spot on. Amazing man

Nah u Gotta keep it real as long as all ur boys are with u wherever u are in life u bring them EVERYWHERE

Keep it moving 💯👏🏾🔥 I’m going through this now with “friends “

Damn Steve speaking facts!

Love u so much steve. Trust me ur talks and advertise do change alot in some pples lives out hear. Thanks and keep doing the good work. Much love

Listen 👂 to STEVE BROTHA he don’t eve know u and u get the best advice ever made ...!!! Look at me I put my “ friends ) “ in front of my family ( daughter wife ) my parents in facts everything involved with me . And now I’m 30 years old and I’ve just lose everything. I’m missing my baby girl 4 years old . And the best woman , mother friend and lover in the planet 🌎... so please big men , fallow what Steve got to u . And enjoying ur life . Now I don’t have not even a reason to stay alive ... take care and y’all have a great life ..!!!

much love to this couple may God bless them she's a beautiful woman

Keep it moving > keep it real! so good!

I love Steve Harvey!!!!!

Thank you Uncle Steve that was on point God-bless you🙏💜💜💜

Exactly, not only are those FAKE FRINDS going to disappear. He needs to be hanging out with "Married" like minded men like him. Most single men will live a different life style than married one's. That's why I speak to them while passing by each other. I came to find out, my friends wanted me " a married man" in the group because it bettered their chances at hooking up

Uncle Steve always gives the best advice I couldn’t have said this any better than that 💯 I’m glad he asked for advice because many other dudes are having that same problem.As you age you have to grow in every aspect of your life and certain people even if you’ve known them since you were in diapers if they’re not headed in the same direction as you they will drag you down unfortunately you have to let them go and move on with your life...... I had to let several of my homeboys go because I realized that we weren’t headed in the same direction we were on two different pages of two different books 💯

Steve, I watch you all the time from Papua New Guinea in the pacific. I follow you here on youtube and facebook. I always long to sit in your studio and watch you live. Wish we have such programs here in my country. God bless you and make you prosper in everything you lay your hands on. Joe

Steve drops dimes in his wisdom nuggets. This advice is sooooo true. Hard but true.

Great advice Steve I have lost so many "friends" because I'm constantly growing and evolving

Steve Harvey's Ask Steve segments are Always on point And always filled with Good Sage Advice 👏👏👏 LOVE AND LIGHT💞

Uncle Steve always hitting the nail right on the head!

That's RIGHT! Amen to that, well said Mr. Harvey!

Once I heard the name Geronimo I thought, "like the guy from the packers?" Lol

'Keep it real???'...or we ain't doing nothing in our lives and how dare you!%#...Take Steve's advice!😉🤗👍

One the best, and solid advice Steve gave. Proud of you Mr Harvey, Tru dat

Insightful prefect advice as always!! I love Uncle Steve 💜

I totally understand what you’re saying Steve but this is a unique case with an NFL player whose time is going to be very very very limited with the kind of career path he’s on, So it’s understandable why he’s struggling to balance everything because lots of people want some of his time. But this does NOT have to be the case with majority of the population who have much more time than an NFL player. People can make time for you, if they truly care! I don’t let anybody tell me the “I’m busy” excuse because it’s all about priorities, and if somebody has me at the bottom of their list of priorities, ESPECIALLY friends who I’ve knows for a long long time, then it’s time to move on. Yes, we get older and we definitely consume more responsibilities which occupy our time as a result, but i don’t work to live...I live to work! I live to have a balanced life with love, success and good health and full filling personal relationships! I find it appalling that people can just throw away some of the friendships they’ve built from when they were younger. Those people that were with you from the beginning help to SHAPE you to the kind of adult and human being you end up becoming, and you wanna just start neglecting that because of your career or a lover in your life now? To me, that is just utter disrespect and a disgrace. I can never do that, ever! For those of you reading this and saying that I’m being too harsh or unrealistic. Well you can continue living a life dictated by what society tells you and by what your age tells you to do, I’m not going down that path. Everything Is all about balance and priorities.

Keep it moving because people you know the longest are the main ones that don’t want to see you grow and improve

I played ball with him in little league. Great player. Great dude!

That’s right, Steve. Keep it moving...

"Preach Homeboy!"

They are so cute 😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️

My father teach me long time ago about friends (A person would stop having fun at home just to go some place to sit down on a block and be bored, and also its not a safe place like your house and no lady want a man that will spend more time with his friends on no block more than her and whenever your in a group of so call friends theres gonna be trouble cause one always trying to prove something to the others) Most of your friends aint your friends they just looking to see what they can get out of you.

This is incredible advice for all men. Stop being insecure and worrying about what other emotionally stunted men around you think….

Just make sure that the “level up” isn’t just a user

That was some great advice

You are my inspiration I learn alot from you steve God bless you bro

Please I can’t be the only one who noticed de lady in the up left Conner l. At first she was like “ aww he cute “ then when he said “ the love of my live” her face changed bitter 😂😂

A lot of stank faces in the audience after he introduced his lady

Sound advice Steve

Hallelujah that's a blessed word from God.

Great advice level up from friends, and old girlfriends.

I never make my husband choose between me and childhood friends. Me and my husband finds balance with his friends and other couples.

Tampa FL , 813 yessir 💯

It’s good to maintain a relationship with a lady/girl friend if you find a real one, but don’t ever let her come in between your real friends and you. Don’t ever shed your real friends for a woman, you need your friends as long as yall doing positive things, as long as those friends are positive in your life she needs to allow you time with your friends. If he wasn’t a professional footballer she won’t be there. Man up and give her the time she requires from you, but don’t ever let your friends down for her. It’s all about moderation....draw a line.

Keep it all good & real!

Some great advice there

Great advice!

Steve Harvey is a real one ☝🏾

U BETTA PREACH STEVE!!

I don't think is that hard to balance your friends ( depending on the type of friends you have of course) and your love life. It's only one word *coordination* . Sadly if you moved to a different level and yo boys still in the same place (hood) unfortunately you can't hang with them the same way you used to. But if your friends leveled up just like you did, you can coordinate with them a weekend just for your homeboys. You coordinate also with your lady about that and she gots to understand and respect that you still have yo homeboys. #ThatsWhatsUp

I wish my ex fiance would have listened when I told him this.

I felt that. Preach!!!!!

Thank you...needed that.

are there any shows like steve harvey? i think i've watched all his episodes already

bring steve to nz t.v please

He is legit. He is the 2nd best WR on the team. I'm proud that he plays for my squad. Go Pack Go.

Don't mess that up ! Grab that ring and move forward ! Steve has given very good advice. Take the advice. 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼