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solohouette

solohouette

4 жыл бұрын

just an update from me!

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@alana7190
@alana7190 4 жыл бұрын
Hey! I was so surprised when I saw the notification. I'm glad to know you're okay and happy. I can relate to you about not being into MBTI anymore and that you feel better this way. I feel the same. However, it doesn't change the fact that your videos helped me a lot years ago, when I learned about personality types and was trying to understand myself. It's good that they are still helping people, which proves that your content was good. ;) Thank you for your update! Best wishes always.
@Coneman3
@Coneman3 2 жыл бұрын
An INFJ who isn’t growing is dying. Comfort for an INFJ is an illusion which you will come to regret. Harsh Ti child words but I fully believe them.
@Wayoutthere
@Wayoutthere 4 жыл бұрын
My interest in MBTI always comes and goes. When I needs some extra support I sometimes go into it, but that usually only lasts for a few weeks. This happens less and less frequent though. I stopped caring for figuring stuff out, and started LIVING.
@rayw3332
@rayw3332 4 жыл бұрын
Ahh, the phenomenological approach ... Edmund Husserl's phenomenology -- the most significant philosophical development of the 20th century. As much anti-science as anti-religion, it's a way of living by what you experience, with poetic emotion as it's essential quality. And intentionalism, a "turning toward" the world, a way to meet the world and experience it. "The world is not what I think but what I live."
@mizenkah
@mizenkah 4 жыл бұрын
Your content was authentic which really resonated with me as an INFJ especially your conversation proces, however I am very glad you found your way to step out into the real world instead of just living in theory such as mbti, keep up the good work!
@slnkpop3138
@slnkpop3138 4 жыл бұрын
It’s been a while ! We miss you ! I just want to say that I’m no longer into MBTI too . I’m an infj and I don’t regret knowing mbti since it helped me understand myself and people more .However I lost my interest or let’s say that I chose to not read anything about it few months ago. I feel better like this and I’m convinced that what’s important is that you’re surrounded by good people that support you and like you for who you are and vice versa. Additionally, when it comes to the best match with infjs ( the thing that I used to worry a little bit more about) I think that sharing the same thoughts , the same feelings , and understanding and supporting each other are the most essential components for a good relationship despite the personality type . All in all I’m so happy for all the things that you have achieved and I wish you & Daniel the best of luck , be yourselves guys and do things in your own way . I love you 💕
@thatinfjgirl
@thatinfjgirl 4 жыл бұрын
Hi! You're videos really helped me and I related to your experiences so much. You and Thinker of Everything were my fav's and then you both disappeared! But I'm glad you are doing better and feeling better and living your life. That is what's most important.
@s.u.5285
@s.u.5285 4 жыл бұрын
cool...shes lives!
@cxp269
@cxp269 3 жыл бұрын
It's great to hear that you're doing so good Solohouette. Thanks for giving us an update. Please know that we wouldn't complain if you continued to do that once in a while. Cheers
@rayw3332
@rayw3332 4 жыл бұрын
It's absolutely true last night I was scrolling around on the KZfaq and I came across one of your old videos and I watched it and I said to myself I wish Solo would come back (See MBTIers! INFJ-INFJ telepathic introverted intuition! Powerful) and I said I should put a comment in here, a pleading, from Ray, and maybe if she'll read it then ... and I said, "Neah." I remember you left us in the middle of your angst about graduating school and your uncertainty about your success at taking a marketing/advertising job, which can fit in with an INFJs temperament but there's the problem of crass consumerism and the fact that advertising is built to make you unhappy instigating a need for more purchases. But anyway, good luck with whatever you started. You seemed happy I can tell from your microexpression. Congratulations on success. Make sure you're matching your company's retirement contributions! I've been into MBTI for about 5 years now and though I'm a man of deep science and in the medical field and have been following along, I don't think I have the deep gravitas to run my own channel. Still. So I commiserate. But yeah, you're right, there are quite a few uncertifiable INFJs and I'll say even fakes, that have latched onto the topic because they want to be a rare zebra and monetize the b******* that they spiel. But what I liked about you was you were a genuine INFJ, which is extremely rare but it's just like Brian S (Yo, Brian! WTF?) who made his one hello update video then disappeared again. INFJs, sheesh. This is typical of INFJs because we are of such private nature (and when I go dark I prefer to be the prescient, reticent, intelligent, planning, snake-in-the-grass and use it to my advantage!) and really prefer to be enigmatic and reserved. I get quite confused and angry about all the enneagram and socionics and five personality and 512 demons and saviors and all that crap. 16 personality MBTI is all you need and all that one should focus on. Maybe you'll happen on a job/life encounter where you can still bring up the topic rather than a formal didactic lecture. Just for fun. Please. Does Dan still have his Subaru WRX STI? I still have my 2004, one of the original 500 ever, the one with the dealer installed short-throw shifter, and titanium shifter knob. You're a beautiful young woman now. Nice Florida room. Please don't be a stranger.
@gargos25
@gargos25 4 жыл бұрын
Yesterday, I went through the cca. 200 channels I am subscribed to and opened a few of them, including hers. And what do I see? She just posted a video after 3 years.
@AllieB-11.11
@AllieB-11.11 2 жыл бұрын
I'm INFJ but I stopped bothering with Myers Briggs quite a while ago. I'm older than the average follower of it and I didn't think it was doing much for me anymore - also there isn't much original thinking in the community - it's like it has all been said before. You're lucky to have found a job that you enjoy - despite me being a lot older than you I never managed that. Every job I've done I've either mildly disliked or outright hated. I just can't stand the routine of a 9-5 in an office - too much Si for me. 🙄There's maybe two fields that I wouldn't have minded getting involved in - content writing for a website or something Ti like computer coding - even then I wouldn't like the actual office environment with fluorescent strip lights, sitting in front of a computer and seeing the same colleagues day in, day out with their nosy questions. But no way could I work for a corporation as it goes against my morals/ethics - don't want to be used to make money for shareholders and senior management plus don't like the Te protocols/illogical policies. Also opposite to you I found that the times I had breaks from work I was happier than when I was in work - my self-esteem is usually lowered by SJ colleagues who try to railroad, not listen to, or project jealousy onto INFJs a lot. I've also been picked on by management or even outright bullied in some jobs over the years. It's fairly rare for an INFJ to have found a career they enjoy as you have done - you must have been fortunate to have come across a nice company with decent colleagues. 🙂
@kurtf3734
@kurtf3734 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you have a good job and have found more direction in your life.. i stumbled across your channel and kinda fell into a weird mind state after looking so much into personality types. For whatever reason I subscribed to the inactive channel. But yeah good luck 🤍
@dreamluvr1600
@dreamluvr1600 4 жыл бұрын
Kurt F OMG i think i know what u mean, can u explain more about the weird mind state u went into after looking so much into mbti?
@mbtisocialclub
@mbtisocialclub 4 жыл бұрын
Hey, I’m glad that you are doing better and happier. Personally I come to this channel for you and that you did mbti was a bonus, but I subbed for you not mbti. I think I speak for most of us when I say that we would love it if you kept making videos about anything you like. We like you as a person and understand the pressure that can come from putting yourself out there. The thing is that we all get imposter syndrome, feel scared to post videos too so we relate to you. That’s what makes you so great is that watching you feels like I’m watching a friend, I can smile, laugh with you and at the end of the day we care that you are doing alright. So if you don’t want to make videos that is fine, but just know your audience really cares for you and not the mbti. :) Have a nice day
@martisearmstrong462
@martisearmstrong462 Жыл бұрын
I'm SOOO curious as to the type of work that you do that you're so good at... I'm struggling to find out something in the business world that I would feel in my zone in doing like you seem to be.... If you read this, please share ..
@MyEverty
@MyEverty 4 жыл бұрын
I followed your channel back when it was active, because I was really into this MBTI stuff. Back then it was interesting to look through that lens at myself and others, but eventually I stopped being interested in MBTI, maybe because my dad started to get more into it then me XD What I always liked about your channel is that you seem very genuine compared to most other youtubers, maybe that's why you stopped being a youtuber. It really felt like listening to someone similar to myself. And I think most people that are into MBTI are into it because they are trying to find or understand themselves better. That's why I think that your video's can help people, so it's nice to keep your video's up if you're comfortable with it, but that's of course your choice. I'm glad you're happy now. I'm also much better then how I used to be. Have a good life
@PotionRecipess
@PotionRecipess 3 жыл бұрын
Great to hear from you again and that you are doing well! It doesn't matter that you don't follow MBTI anymore as it has only been a conduit to express your authenticity. Your character is the main reason why your channel is so insightful. I enjoy being in your presence and aura, which are more holistic than hard knowledge, and I'm sure many others do too!
@jocob30
@jocob30 4 жыл бұрын
Welcome back!! I was just watching your videos two weeks ago!! So happy to see a new upload after all these years!
@JustAnotherSean
@JustAnotherSean 3 жыл бұрын
Look at you! Being all spontaneous like a Perceiver. Making an impromptu video and all. (; I'm glad to see that you're doing well in the post-youtube life. It's an interesting thing, ins't it? To spend some time in front of a camera and then to sort of just fade away into the sunset. Love it. 100% approve. Oh any yes, imposter syndrome is a very real thing (on many fronts). I know I always regretted not being more accurate in my own reflections. But that's the nature of the beast I'm afraid. Everything tends to fade, change or deepen, even certain understandings and the things you think you know about yourself. So yea, happy for you. Keep on smelling the flowers, S.
@cdavey7654
@cdavey7654 4 жыл бұрын
Hi! Nice to get an update, glad that you are doing well. Life changes and does get busy sometimes indeed... I do hope you leave up your channel and older videos as I really enjoyed watching them (may even watch them again at some point). They helped me a lot when I was beginning the process of figuring myself out. Thank you, and I wish you luck wherever your adventures take you! Future updates would be welcome as well! :)
@mattpatterson1447
@mattpatterson1447 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your video. I saw one of your videos a long time and thought it was very down to earth and refreshing. I appreciate your view and I hope you made it though the crazy Covid days of 2020 and still enjoying life
@oliviapenelopehope4497
@oliviapenelopehope4497 4 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear it! Your channel helped me a lot back in the day. I’m perfectly fine with no future content. You do what you need to do. I’m just happy that you decided to give us an update. Thank you and have a great rest of your day!
@anateresapereira7384
@anateresapereira7384 3 жыл бұрын
Aw when you mentioned getting Imposter Syndrome with your old content I just wanted to give you a hug. I completely get how that feels. I'm writing this comment to say and reassure you that your videos are my favourite INFJ videos in the whole of KZfaq *precisely* because they're so genuine and based on *your* experience. Thank you so much for creating them :)
@stevepeterson5943
@stevepeterson5943 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing . . . Then , and now. The posts were helpful for me, and I wish you all the best. I wonder about a few others who vanished, really nice to get an update, you didn't have to do that, very considerate : ) Onward and upward! - Steve
@barryx23
@barryx23 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Solo. Nice to see the update. Glad to hear you are OK. I wondered what had happened to you. Whenever I happened across one of your videos, I felt that I genuinely learned something. So many people uploading material about the whole INFJ experience endlessely repeat was has already appeared elsewhere; in contrast, you were different - and much better, more interesting. I feel you have a real talent when talking about what it is to be an INFJ, so it is a great pity to hear that you no longer want to vlog about MBPI anymore. It is strange that, as INFJs, we often appear to walk away from what we are good at. It is as though we reach satiation point and believe we have nothing more to add. But I also do that, only to come back to something later, often by accident, and find the itch is still there, deep down, and has to be scratched all over again... If you do come across any more insights, do please share them. They will be much appreciated. By the way, you have INFJ written all over your face; it jumps off of the screen! And I mean that in a nice way :-)
@sydneeeeeeeeeey
@sydneeeeeeeeeey 4 жыл бұрын
So good to hear from you again! I discovered your videos a while after you stopped uploading; your content has helped me a lot. I'm glad to hear you're doing better and have a fulfilling career. Good luck with everything. :)
@kirin7433
@kirin7433 3 жыл бұрын
If you ever read this which I don’t know if you ever will or not but wherever you may be in the world I hope you are in a good state of health. Such an interesting thing you mentioned about not following MBTI. As an INFJ I can relate so much because I felt like I was trapped but I am of course giving my own reasons and like I was even thinking to myself that I should move on in life focus more on other things than MBTI and personality tests, I have been for a while and you know this might be the end. There is much more than that but that was just a little of my never ending thoughts But yeh thank you for your videos I learnt a lot. Much appreciated😀
@kirin7433
@kirin7433 3 жыл бұрын
Also just wanted to say you had no influence on me moving on from mbti it was a long and thought out decision.
@ludvikisnes1628
@ludvikisnes1628 3 жыл бұрын
havent seen youre content before, but i enjoyed hearing you hve done similar mistakes as me and got the same problems as me, and made it and live a happy life. thank you for sharing this, it helps to hear. best of wishes.
@lukasruzicka1188
@lukasruzicka1188 4 жыл бұрын
It's great to see you feel better :-)
@gballmaier
@gballmaier 2 жыл бұрын
Told you your life would get better. You are not a label you are an incredible creation of God.
@slick_Ric
@slick_Ric 8 ай бұрын
happy you broke out of the personality theory trap! i found your videos useful years back but Jesus eventually pulled me out of that stuff, and life has been much better for me too 😊
@honestly_present
@honestly_present 2 жыл бұрын
I'm just glad to know that you're okay and living your best life 🙏
@CptTaz01
@CptTaz01 4 жыл бұрын
Nice to see that you're doing well! I think it would be good to see your videos remain, but it's your choice of course
@anjalidesai6320
@anjalidesai6320 4 жыл бұрын
dude this is freaky. i was JUST wondering 'what happened to solohouette'? and last night i watched a bunch of your vids for the first time in years cuz i went through a similar thing you seemed to have gone through with mbti. i'm now at the point where i've circled back and maybe i've forgiven myself for what i thought was responsible for making me unhappy at the time. but yeah i think it's nice to be free from things that you really used to feel like defined you. im so happy to hear you're doing something you're good at.
@nicolasdanek4225
@nicolasdanek4225 Жыл бұрын
This channel is very good.
@david_oliveira71
@david_oliveira71 4 жыл бұрын
Aww, it's absolutely wonderful to see you here again
@scruffyyyjin
@scruffyyyjin 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for existing, I feel so lost sometimes as an INFJ, your videos make me feel human again. We all get to say something in the world before we go, you scored a victory for humanity
@crediblecat7498
@crediblecat7498 4 жыл бұрын
Hello fellow INFJ! I support you and your hermit lifestyle!
@gilbrook
@gilbrook 4 жыл бұрын
Nice to see you. Glad you’re so happy. Keep those vids in place.
@Coneman3
@Coneman3 2 жыл бұрын
I can totally see how a very attractive, young female INFJ could have an easy life.
@AllieB-11.11
@AllieB-11.11 2 жыл бұрын
Take it from an INFJ - it's never easy being an INFJ regardless of youth or looks. Probably much easier being an ENFJ.
@Coneman3
@Coneman3 2 жыл бұрын
I am an INFJ. I think male INFJs have it harder.
@rl5870
@rl5870 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, I'm new to your content having watched just a few of your videos. There seems to be something authentic & captivating about your INFJ experience. I also think your content is very good & has been helpful to me. Please leave it up at least a while longer. Working in teams has been some of my most rewarding experiences in life. This work experience gave me an opportunity for my voice to be heard and appreciated. Wish you the best of everything. Would consider occassionally adding content on other subjects unrelated to MBTI????? Perhaps your reflections on life. I think you may still have more to say that would be valuable to others.
@2trntbls469
@2trntbls469 3 жыл бұрын
Just stumbled across this - I take in a lot of content like a pacman knowledge-dot hoarding consumer of all but, this is my favorite video since who knows when.
@introhaven8999
@introhaven8999 3 жыл бұрын
Our speech patterns are so similar
@user-zz4km7xw6z
@user-zz4km7xw6z 3 ай бұрын
when you coming back
@bigd7355
@bigd7355 2 жыл бұрын
The tragedy of Admiral Holdo is that she sacrificed herself when she was the only one in the galaxy worth sacrificing for. I hope you don't make the same mistake. I'm sorry if I had anything to do with your "success." INFJs forever!
@cxp269
@cxp269 3 жыл бұрын
Just wanted to throw out that the world still needs wisdom any way it can get it! You may not care about being an INFJ anymore, but that doesn't erase your true power or your love for counseling
@brunotraven2736
@brunotraven2736 3 жыл бұрын
You (we actually) are simply (not simply actually) learning by various ways, how to be "Protectors". One important clue is to understand objective reality, so one of them is to explore subject of "ciphers" in Auberon Herbert writings. Regards.
@david_oliveira71
@david_oliveira71 4 жыл бұрын
I wanted to ask, instead of MBTI, and as a suggestion, could you do philosophy or talk about your career a bit more? Would certainly not be the only one curious and interested in your current job, and perhaps philosophy might offer some good content for you? Just suggesting of course. Take it slow. Take care ^^
@solohouette494
@solohouette494 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the suggestion. Based on the positive response to this video, it's something I am actively considering
@TinTuch-tj6wb
@TinTuch-tj6wb 4 жыл бұрын
Good!
@dylanjohnson3346
@dylanjohnson3346 3 жыл бұрын
We miss you we love you we'll support whatever you choose
@cauehenriquebasso3709
@cauehenriquebasso3709 4 жыл бұрын
Hi from Brazil 🇧🇷!
@bigd7355
@bigd7355 2 жыл бұрын
How's our favorite Elsa these days? Update?
@no79way
@no79way 4 жыл бұрын
Hi!
@bigd7355
@bigd7355 3 жыл бұрын
If you go back and look at your "5 Things That Suck About Being An INFJ" video and compare it to how things are for you now, has anything changed?
@foxist2117
@foxist2117 3 жыл бұрын
stop worry and caring about those bastards comments, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you we have a terrible ego trying always to please everybody and being perfect ignore him
@TheWorldAsWeAre
@TheWorldAsWeAre 4 жыл бұрын
Let's make the most of that which we are. One tiny grain of sand in the infinite sea of existence Let's become that which we are. That which can't be described in words. Everything is connected... let's live and appreciate this life every day like it's the last day that we have. We are the infinite expression of love. One existence without meaning experiencing itself in the most meaningful ways. This is our story. Our experience. We are all one beneath it. Let's enjoy this moment, because that's all there ever really is.
@thestarwarsguy1821
@thestarwarsguy1821 3 жыл бұрын
Oh it's you!
@bigbufobufo
@bigbufobufo 3 жыл бұрын
Your ear rings look like mini cellphones 😂📱
@seansollars70
@seansollars70 3 жыл бұрын
I understand
@AndreNewinski
@AndreNewinski Жыл бұрын
whats your name Solohouette?
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