She was 15 and he was 20?!?! Nobody see the issue rn ?

He had this girl since she was 14..... He never gave her a chance to grow up.

In my early 20s I was talking to my uncle about problems i was having with my wife. I told him I was thinking about separating from my wife. He said never leave your home unless you're leaving for good. He said if you need some space just go for a drive or go have a drink. The best advice I ever gotten. This guy messed up when he abandon his family

When she told him " When you leave, I learn to make it on my own." That was very telling. And that's what Tyrone don't get. These women are gonna press forward and raise those kids with or without you.

She learned to be independent the hard way and he hated every bit of it. Judge was spot on!

He kept mentioning when she cheated but wanted to gloss over when he cheated on her. Then he left??

That piece of knowledge she dropped at the end. Love it "Excuses are tools of the incompetent, they build monuments to nothingness, those that excel at them seldom excel at anything else." That was a whole word.

This is what happened to me. My children's father would threaten to leave me every other day just because he knew I was so in love with him and he controlled me with it. But it didn't take me long to stand strong! Once I noticed the pattern, I helped him out.....Right tf outta my house and life!!! Never looked back, and heve absolutely 0 tolerance for stupidity, ignorance, and BS!!!!!

Tracking a adult via a phone is stalking! Pain and simple! that should be a deal breaker!

This upset me. He really tried to come up there playing the victim?!?!? Boy BYE!! sis bigger and better is awaiting you and you deserve all the blessings that will overflow your cup!

I love the tone of Judge Star’s voice. It’s very calm, but direct. She says a lot of funny and insightful things but never in a loud or over dramatic manner. She stays poised and graceful.

When she said I'm learning to live without him I felt that

She'd better watch her back. Malicious destruction of property like that takes both time and thought! He is seething with anger.

And...if you leave mad at your mate and leave your kids hurting its wrong. Be mad at mom but dont punish those kids.

He feels like he owns her. He knows he can't fully control an adult but he is tires to. He says things like he "let's" her do this and that. That's crazy. They both cheat. The relationship is over. He needs to let go of he's controlling ways and to get someone closer to his age.. She needs to spread her wings.

“Now that’s just stank!” 🤮😂Nah fr.

Judge Star Jones be preaching!!!! Please KEEP THIS JUDGE IN THIS COURTROOM 🙏!!!!!

This guy will not even let her talk because he knew how sneaky and dirty he is. but to walk away from your family for 2 months and didn't even care about his family only himself girl run away and dont even look back just a boy trying to be a man and so damn controlling

Judge Star dropping straight knowledge 101 late night, " EXCUSES ARE TOOLS OF THE INCOMPETENT", A man who walks out on his kids, speaks to his character, it is known as ,''THE LIFE FOR THOSE WHO HAVE IT TWISTED''💯

That fact that he was smirking/smiling when judge told him that his woman was in tears was just Wow 😢

I have to admit I didn't think I was going to like Star Jones but she is doing an amazing job .

*This is the same reason me and my child's father broke up. At 30, I will never be the same girl I was at 15.*

He doesn't get it. He pushed her into a position to no longer consider him. To basically abandon your partner to fend for themselves is hurtful. Then to have kids that you did not take into consideration and walked away like you have no care is debilitating. and there's no coming back.

How can you just walk away from your children and not care if they have food or basic necessities!! That’s beyond inhumane 😡

How he cut up and bleached her clothes. The tracking. This guy is psycho. She should have BEEN left him.

She is so right. Living with a controlling person takes all the steam out of a relationship. It really does. And once youre hurt its just there and nevèr goes away if its not dealt with then...it just gets worse.

GET UP , GO TO WORK, SUPPORT YOUR SELF AND CHILDREN. YOU ARE NOT MARRIED. THIS IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP. DON'T KNOW WHAT IT'S CALLED.

What's crazy is that she got him new tires on his car from the "friend". It's very true that if a woman does not feel secure and/or safe, especially after you walking out on her and the children, she will and have to press forward on with life with or without. That's just the bottom line. I do see fault on both ends of course, but to not even check on your children and make sure their good is just dead wrong, no matter what your reason is for just up and leaving. Him wanting her to depend on him after all that is just mind-blowing. A woman will mentally and emotionally checkout before physically leaving, TRUST!!!

You got it right on the nose Judge Star. He thought his tactics of leaving all the time would make her beg and plead for him to stay and make her stop doing what she's doing. He wanted her to depend on him. She wasn't going to take it anymore. And just like you said, she's standing on her own. He's afraid she don't/won't need him anymore.

He wants control over her. She was young and now she is growing up to be a mature woman, he can't handle it..

Judge star 🌟 dresses 👗 tastefully, and I like that she's a woman of faith.

""Excuses are tools of the incompetent. They build monuments to nothingness". Deep. I felt that.

He is selfish bottom line. Judge's no nonsense judgement is refreshing. Love it!

So many BM think it’s okay to come and go out their kids lives as they want. STOP GIVING THEM BABIES LADIES!! Please protect yourselves from these LOSERS

This type of man is soo frustrating, he has an excuse for everything 😠

My IQ dropped about 10 points just listening to this young man talk

Both of them need to go their separate ways and seek counseling and therapy to learn how to deal with anger and trauma. Then learn how to co parent in a healthy way

When a man can't provide security to a women you might as well walk away the fact he cut up her clothes was just so petty and leaving his kids with nothing ain't cool he need to grow up

Wow, the end of Judge Stars advice was pure poetry, wisdom and true gems. It take a lot for us to walk away and little for a male. Find you a MAN. Go back to school and work and keep going. It won't be easy but it'll be less stressful with a grown ass child by your side.

This version of divorce court is much better than the previous version with Judge Faith

What man actually throws bleach on his girlfriends clothes, I've never seen that before 🤔🤦🏾

If I was the woman and he walked away I would be like "hold on you're forgetting you're children"

Judge Star is always looking stunning, this outfit is 🔥🤩

He talks too much instead of listening.

So they was dating when she was 14??? That's an issue right there.

«Excuses are tools of the incompetent. They built monuments to nothingness. Those who excelled in them, excelled in nothing else.» Very wise words everybody should learn and apply from day to day.

This whole relationship is toxic and dysfunction, but I honestly think it's not salvageable, with both cheating and him leaving for 2 months ,crazy

She is wrong for having another man in his car. On the other hand, this is why I will always have my own. A person can walk out on you at anytime.🤷🏾‍♀️

That's it...she's tired of you buddy...and this happens...who just leave their family for 2 months 😒...

Why kind of man bleaches and cuts up clothes?!?

They both out here living foul, & doing the most, instead- why not just walk away from a dysfunctional, dramatic, and toxic filled relationship like this, then co parent ( Get out of your feelings, and keep it moving, because them babies should be the first priority ) 😠💯

I swear I need Ms. Star Jones's entire closet Her outfits/ ensembles I should say are on point every single day! You better give them fashion sis Yaaassssssssssssssss!!!!!!

I like it when Judge Star spends around in her chair 😂

Just co parent for sake of your kids. Girl love yourself n your kids. He doesn't seem to care.

She wasn’t worried about how they were going to eat but you worried about how they’re gonna eat. She was worried about it. She get her ass up out there and go to work. Stop relying on other people but I’m sure her mother taught her better.

He talks over everyone. He’s not listening.

Judge let the girlfriend off too easily. She is a mother but still staying out all night, letting some other dude drive the car the boyfriend paid for. And she ain't staying out all night out at her momma and sister's house. Please! She is stepping out on him and the Judge and the girlfriend expect him not to react to that??!. I believe him when he says that living with his girlfriend is unbearable. She looks like she has an attitude and he wasnt falling for those tears because he has probably seen it over and over. I don't agree with him not supporting his kids when left for 2 months. That's completely unacceptable but I think the Judge let the girlfriend off too easily. Because if the Judge's husband had seen driving some other woman in her car, she would go ham also.

I don’t see how people be in these terrible a$$ relationships with all of this stress and trauma. I would never!

I think any real woman would lose respect for their man if they just up and leave her and their kids. Him coming back thinking it was all good is where he really messed up at

One ting you did wrong was left the children, you can leave the wife she deserves it but the children that a no no take them next time

Ms. Star’s hair is always on point

These relationship problems seen on these programs are terrible. Love has waxed cold, no trust, no honesty, no security and no peace😢!

I remember this one. I was in the audience right behind him lower screen

Lol the CC says “get a$$ to the prom” instead of getting *asked* to the prom 😂😂

She needs to get a JOB. SHE kept allowing him to treat her like that.

He was 19 yrs old grooming a 14 yr old child. I’m not surprised he was controlling and this whole groomership was messy

How sis get defensive about having a GPS on her horn but get booked in her man car with the homie?..these people take being single for granted

I think when a person leaves in the way he did and she had nothing at home is something u cannot get past. I could not respect him anymore. She should have let him stay gone and make sure he can always see his children. That was beyond mean and disrespectful. They need to just be great parents and not have a personal relationship.

Mr. Gast should've stayed gone. You can't trust her because you don't trust yourself. Why even go on divorce court....just leave and stay gone to do your thing. You got it backwards in the first place with 2 kids no wedding ring = no commitment. Pretty lady; you've got to do better for yourself!

He about that 304 LIFE and can't take a TASTE of HIS OWN MEDICINE. Furthermore, where the in the HELL are her PARENTS.

I'm disappointed they both even showed up to fight for this trainwreck of a relationship, sht been dead let it go

He walks away from her and the children....No guilt, No hurt, don't give a damn about them kids🙄

I find it crazy how this woman destroyed her own home and no one is telling her , did you think about your kid or how they was going to hurt him

So sad that people just don't respect and cherish their partners.

At what point will the judges start calling out child abuse? These grown adults, mostly men, but women too, come to court and have the nerve to show their faces on national television after grooming young people and engage in a "relationship" with underage people. It's disgusting and it never gets addressed head-on. No matter what a young person says or does, they are not mentally or emotionally capable of being in relationships with adults. It's a real sickness and perversion to allow these folks to act like they are not predators of the worst kind.

When one walks out, and leaves, what’s not realized, is, you’re showing/teaching the other how to do tf without you

This girl'a family FAILED her! Let me find out my 14-15 yo daughter is with a grown man; HE'd be running to the police before I did!

And another thing if she was single, why didn’t she leave that man’s house? She doesn’t pay any bills she has no right to be there. She should’ve took all of that stuff to where she was when she is single.

Both need counseling to navigate this. Their lack of communication leaves a LOT of room for foolishness and misunderstanding. Both need to feel heard and respected.

She should have thought about all of that eating and transportation before she had that guy in his car.

He really doesn't have a real obligation to her but he does to his children. They're not married and that's why you don't depend on a man if he's not your husband.

Bruhhhhh these "dudes". Always so easy for them to walk away from responsibility and still not see the error in their ways. Smh! I said what I said.

She doesn’t need any cable or satellite. You should be telling her to sit down and read a book with those kids.😊

This relationship is OVER.. they are cheating on each other & neither feels safe or secure. So sad she now has 2 kids with a man who’s shown if he’s not with her, he does nothing for their kids

Stop letting people track your phone. That is unhealthy and you will never have a trusting, loving relationship. ❤️

She was 15 years old and HIM 22 YEARS OLD🤮🤮🤮🤢🤢 when they started to date.

More episodes please!!

this is why I love being a couples counselor to keep people on the right track and build healthier homes... there are too many videos such as these !

That's just Stank!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😍

City Boys down 100 points smh

Judge was spot on

Come on man Move on just leave this woman alone, You still Hurt over the cheating

I think he has mini-strokes every time he's forced to actually listen to her.

Aye she looked out for him on those tires 😂

So they got together when she was 14 and he was 20? Am I mathing right? What in the Dateline is going on?!?

She’s not worried about getting thrown out. She likes to hang out at your sisters house, so why did she go to her sister and she got herself together and why is she not together? What has she taken some college courses while she’s sitting at home? You gotta be kidding me

It's time for them to go they're separate ways period take care of the kids and move on

You’ve made my day. Thanks

Judge Toler! He was making me so uncomfortable by the way he was "allegedly" lusting over you!🤢🤮 I hope you had a chance to shower after that foolishness🫣🤬🤬

He does not get that he is the problem. She will never feel secure with him. She needs to just leave.