Hiding My Battle With Stage 4 Lung Cancer From My Family (5% Survival Rate)

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Can cancer patients lead a normal life?
Deepa shares her 6-year long battle with lung cancer, family conflict, returning to work despite the odds, and how becoming a member of the Singapore Cancer Society support group has been essential to her journey.
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This episode is brought to you by the Singapore Cancer Society. For more information on the Return-to-work Programme, visit: www.singaporecancersociety.or...
"Lung cancer can be treated.
Surgical advancements have allowed survivors of early-stage lung cancer to recover better. Drug developments have produced numerous options (e.g., targeted therapy and immunotherapy) to help early-stage lung cancer patients prolong disease-free survival after surgery, and late-stage lung cancer patients live better and continue working."
- Dr See Kay Choong, Singapore Cancer Society Lung Cancer Awareness Committee Chairperson, Senior Consultant, Division of Respiratory and Critical Care Medicine, Department of Medicine, National University Hospital
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@syedmammar1 21 күн бұрын

She’s such a beautiful soul

@stephaniemuse Жыл бұрын

Singapore Cancer Society is the real MVP. My family also received support from them when my grandmother had cancer, so I donate to them whenever I can.

@mslindadj69 Жыл бұрын

Prayer and hugs. I lost my son from lung cancer. He never told anyone about his sickness and he passed away without treatment which he didn't want to undergo. Only when he passed away then we were told by the doctor about his sickness 😢😢😢. May God Bless You for your courage.

@RajasthanGk-RaJ02 6 ай бұрын

I can imagine how u feel My papa has lung cancer stage 4 I am scared i cant imagine my life without him he is in pain Cant he has sleepless nights 😢 If my papa live this world i stop believing god

@sharmilap8483 5 ай бұрын

How's dad now

@DHARMIK_M 2 ай бұрын

OMG :-(

@Tantemify 9 ай бұрын

cancer is scary. it takes away hope

@NurseSnow2U Жыл бұрын

What an incredible and incredibly beautiful woman in mind, body and spirit. I don't know how I landed here but I am grateful that I did and I pray she continues to shine her encouraging light for many years to come.

@Shijilakh Жыл бұрын

Mam. How are you

@godschild3640 Жыл бұрын

@@Shijilakh. I found out 2hours ago , I have lung 🫁 cancer .. I do pray for all of the people that are infected with cancer, and I hope that lady is still alive because she’s a real nice happy lady😂

@boomeradvocate 11 ай бұрын

You are a strong and brave woman. Thank you for sharing your story with us. I hope you are doing well 💗

@sarammashetty1183 7 ай бұрын

I am 68 years old i had adenocarcinoma in lung .operation done and test shows egfr possitve.started with basic targetted therapy For two years no metastatics but after two years it went to brain 4 places then started osimetrin tab which is 1 lac2o thousand. After six months radiation gamaknife done .waiting for 3 months to do mri .i am not having much pain .pray for me to jesus christ to cure me completely

@zabadani7263 5 ай бұрын

Hi did you try keyo diet??

@zabadani7263 5 ай бұрын

Based on prof tjomas seyfraid

@vijayahauradhun2964 Ай бұрын

I pray for you. You are a fighter....Jesus is surely with you🙏

@rebeccamondloch4265 Ай бұрын

I had stage 4 lung cancer and in 5 other places, I refused chemotherapy and radiotherapy. I had 3 vitamin c infusions then cut out all sugar and sweeters, gluten & dairy. Had immune therapy. My last 2 scans showed No tumers. Sugars gluten & dairy feed cancers

@mjblue84 Жыл бұрын

This lady has such a beautiful soul.

@mariasussman6683 Жыл бұрын

Prayers and hugs

@linwji Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your journey. I think more people need to see this!

@sandrarampersad3486 Жыл бұрын

Prayers and hugs ..blessed my dear 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@stephanejourdren3668 9 ай бұрын

People all over the world are the same... beautiful mind when illness appears.i love all the people suffering because they are real.

@hariscr3059 Жыл бұрын

So great madam.. I pray the god for your long life. Got very much courage n spirit🙏

@kuwaikuwait5166 Жыл бұрын

You are wonderful lady who has courage and determination, and also who can be bold enough to face the risk and finally reach to sucess

@pamelabartelle5285 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing! Theirs nothing to hard for God! Keep the faith ❤️🙏🏽

@Nontacticalboy Жыл бұрын

My mom started coughing in Oct, found out she has lung cancer in November. She had the best version of chemo, radio and immuno, and her condition deteriorated severely since the treatment. She passed before finishing the whole treatment program on Feb 13th, just in time to spend Valentines day with my dad in heaven.

@mandywilson5004 Жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss ...my friend was diagnosed today with advanced lung cancer it has also spread ...I am broken hearted

@Nontacticalboy Жыл бұрын

@mandy wilson my honest opinion if I may, dont go through chemo. Lost both my parents from lung cancer, they both deteriorated extremely from it, they suffered dearly because of the treatment. Chemo is extremely damaging to the body, although the reaction is very different person to person, this is just my opinion. Do the research before agreeing with chemo.

@mandywilson5004 Жыл бұрын

@@Nontacticalboy I think she is having targeted therapy ...her daughter rang me and told me the doctor has to test the genetics then she will have tablets ....all I have been doing is researching ...we have the NHS here in the UK ...I just hope and pray it prolongs her life and that in the meantime they keep coming up with new medications ...my heart is in pieces

@akhilmohan9630 Жыл бұрын

@@mandywilson5004 prayers .He didn't experience any symptoms??

@Teenywing Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry that you don’t have your mom in her usual form but I hope you find she is sending you messages from heaven. Im going to send you my best vibes right now! ♥️♥️♥️

@carmenliu3087 Жыл бұрын

i'm stage 2 breast cancer gir l i must tell you this it was hard challanging i ever had but thanks to my family and friends who are there for me i'm really happy

@Happyfa379 Жыл бұрын

My mom fourth stage brest cancer

@user_1abc 8 ай бұрын

Breast cancer is far more curable than lung cancer. Abdominal region (pancreatic, liver, stomach) ones are have very low survival rates. Of course, chances of survival to some extent depend on at what stage it's diagnosed.

@reinvent3207 2 ай бұрын

How z ur mom now my mom also has 4th stage breast cancer@@Happyfa379

@priscillamunjita8316 Жыл бұрын

Sending you hugs & prayers 🫂

@hemlatamandalia7261 Жыл бұрын

Sending you hugs and prayers

@mmmnic96 Жыл бұрын

Just found this video and knowing that you are a Boschler as I am (Vietnam site). Currently my mom got cancer, I was depressed got low productivity. This video bring me more motivative and having more faith. Wish you and all the patients in the world the best of luck and tons of good health! Thank you

@annsmith4739 Жыл бұрын

I’m so so sorry to hear this sending you love an hugs an preys Ann uk 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧❤️❤️❤️❤️

@natalietaylor9848 Жыл бұрын

Bless her ❤

@naligsEkr 9 ай бұрын

My wish is for you to be as strong as you can, think positive, + pray to God for healing. So sorry that you are going through this. I hope + pray that God will heal you. ❤

@m_u_s_a8164 Жыл бұрын

Alot of 🙏 prayers for u

@kalaisathya1 Жыл бұрын

Sending you hugs and prayers🥰🥰🥰

@FatLittleOldLady Жыл бұрын

It's obvious you don't smoke or drink. Your skin is radiant. People like me who smoke, you can see it in our faces and skin.

@angelinthanga6866 Жыл бұрын

Get well soon

@someonespecial1234 Жыл бұрын

My grandmother recently passed away just within 1 month after detection of 4th stage Lung cancer. Her treatment was not even started. Doctors just did a test to know if she can take chemotherapy, but before the report came, she left us. The most sad part is that I couldn't meet her, I was just going to meet her that day. But before reaching her, she died.

@charlottedanby2405 Жыл бұрын

Expired is not a nice way to describe a human being!

@mytravls Жыл бұрын

Old people can’t take chemo anyways. What’s the point of treatment? even if the treatment works there’s always fear of it coming back.

@Greencloud8 9 ай бұрын

@@charlottedanby2405my aunt just died from lung cancer last week She refused chemo

@vibham7032 Жыл бұрын

More power to you

@sardanand2437 Жыл бұрын

Blessing to you

@johnnylawrence7232 11 ай бұрын

So sorry for your situation....Hope you are getting better

@hsd287 8 ай бұрын

This is so sad I'm so sorry hope ur recovering if that's possible 😢

@jomiarts6677 Жыл бұрын

Many risk factors of lung cancer. Like environmental radon gas, pollution, and expose to second. I hope you get well soon. 🙏

@ThanhTruong-ri7ht Жыл бұрын

My aunt got stage 4 breast cancer. Doctor said we can’t fix this. Asked her to stay home n take pain medicine then she died within 4 months. She died on lunar day January/2023. We are going miss you auntie. She was 53.

@Happyfa379 Жыл бұрын

My mother stage 4 brest cancer, she didn't walk 😒, no eat food,

@Happyfa379 Жыл бұрын

@@rmnt5873 72, she died March 21😒😒

@bolooshi 11 ай бұрын

@@Happyfa379oh my good my mom have breast cancer and am sitting with her in hospital room alone am crying after seeing ur comments I can't live without her My mind same situation can't walk eat or talk I hope she will be fine and is not that good he is just 49

@bolooshi 11 ай бұрын

U experience and tell me please what happened with ur mom

@karthiksekar3777 9 ай бұрын

@@bolooshi have courage dear... Me too crying for my mother...

@compassion_gratitude_priyanka 8 ай бұрын

Great victory! Even I had breast cancer and I don't understand why people in India live in a state of illusion. Especially on the work front. Insensitive comments to make me feel incapable to work post bilateral mastectomy by my seniors is horrible. After that battle of physical emotional and psychological turmoil the battle which awaits a cancer survivor is societal boycott and lack of acceptance post Cancer treatment! I really wish people in India too have such support groups at large scale with active involvement from survivors as well as normal people too to generate awareness.

@padmavathidesu6561 8 ай бұрын

Hi.. 4stage gall bladder cancer spreader to liver... Any suggestions u give to increase his span... Age 66

@SAHANAZZAMAN 3 ай бұрын

God bless her

@jampatopjor3432 9 ай бұрын

❤world leaders must put seriously afford on cancer research rather than weapon development,people don't have to be killed ,they die of cancer increasingly

@RajuKumar-rg7hq 25 күн бұрын

God bless you

@seabreeze234 Жыл бұрын

Nowadays cancer is a business to make money.those who have cancer please do fasting for atleast 16 hrs.eat fruits in the morning,drink green juice,beatroot, carrots .be positive do daily exercise,and stay safe

@bmniac 11 ай бұрын

Intermittent fasting seems to be important for starving cancer cells

@romanarodrigues918 9 ай бұрын

Brave lady God bless you today n always

@childofgod7769 8 ай бұрын

For everyone that is sick and going through hardship, turn to the Lord Jesus. He is healer and deliverer, , nothing is impossible for our God. God bless you and we declare healing by the power of blood of Jesus Christ 🙏

@my-4th-cancer 9 ай бұрын

brave lady.

@PreetKaur-fk3ds Жыл бұрын

One of my junior college here in Australia on work visa, got diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer. Here insurance refused to pay for the entire treatment, the public system wouldn’t accept her. This lady had to fly on her own to India, her home town. Can’t even comprehend how she managed it all at the age of 22😢

@miuralfernandes6188 Жыл бұрын

Sad

@shubham943 10 ай бұрын

How is she now?

@cherylpereira2353 8 ай бұрын

God bless u

@adilaismail6524 8 ай бұрын

My good bless u

@paragkamaltalukdar7294 11 ай бұрын

My father was diagnosed with lung cancer stage 4 in last February. Despite providing best possible drug named osimertinib he left us for forever in October. 😢..

@rakeshpj1673 7 ай бұрын

My Mom Died from 4th stage squamous cell carcinoma lung cancer even non smoking 9 months Back miss u mom😢😢😢

@user-ow3sr6gv8i Жыл бұрын

Nice motivation

@jasminejay5966 9 ай бұрын

Lost my lovely mother to lung cancer 12/9/2023 I miss her terribly 💔💔💔

@karthiksekar3777 9 ай бұрын

Sorry dear.... My mother too in same stage, i might lose her anytime... I only wish for her painless death.. nothing more..🥺🥺..God pls give her a painless death... I can't see her suffering..

@nenouchediop4789 8 ай бұрын

Lost my mom 2017 it spread lung & liver cancer

@karthiksekar3777 8 ай бұрын

Lost my mother too..... I can't take the loss... Miss her. Feel terribly lonely....

@lavanyapavan9018 5 ай бұрын

Even I lost my mom of liver lungs and bone cancer. It had almost spread everywhere. When Doctor told she will be for max 3 months. I was in shock and was on ur same situation. I can understand ur pain u r suffering. God will give you strength

@alishakhan4802 Ай бұрын

My mom was diagnosed with oral cancer last year and she passed away 1 week back. I miss her . She was a fighter and she left us too soon. I am not able to recover from that trauma.

@Vibespakistan Жыл бұрын

I lost my father. Lung cancer (adrencarcinoma) stage 4 he is no more last month 😢

@IamKrishnanPrasad Жыл бұрын

best motivational

@kashifasghar8337 Жыл бұрын

My father lung cancer and death 25 February. Last stage 4 diagnosis adrencarcinoma

@nsqtr7578 7 ай бұрын

Without having a PET scan , how can they say it is stage 1? Once cancer is strongly suspected, the PET scan should be done before your first Chemo.

@neethar7674 Жыл бұрын

🙏🙏

@itsdude9866 11 ай бұрын

How is she now? Can anybody update about her health?

@SRKTVCREATIONS Жыл бұрын

She is very lucky, she got all the support.. She is rich... If u want to beat cancer, you should be rich

@wardahhoussin621 Жыл бұрын

stop bullshitt talking... insane... who says you can by life or health stupid comment! even in the richest countries people die of cancer!

@Nightfawn555 Жыл бұрын

My Godfather had also all the support... we aren't rich ... In the beginning of December he got the diagnosis of lung cancer ,He started Chemo on Christmas. In mid February they couldn't continue with the treatment because his lvls were very low and got the 2nd diagnosis also last stage metastatic bone cancer ... We lost him last Thursday. He didn't even told anybody in the family that he has terminal cancer and doesn't have much time to live ... He also went to the hospital and declined the opportunity to my mom and uncle to see him like this,because he already knew he won't go home anymore ...

@bmniac 11 ай бұрын

No. Money is not just enough. i know of several cases of cancer from which anyone over 70 hardly survived. A close friend in the mid eighties had brain cancer surgery, followed by chemo and radiation and died within a few weeks. After a late discovery at an advanced stage (failure of some doctors) a close relation who had oral cancer had lived with 2 surgeries over the years and survived for 8 years. She quite rightly refused to undergo chemo and radiation therapies A major failure of the system is on dietary advice for cancer patients. This is also true of major metabolic diseases. I had a heart attack (unstable angina) about 25 years back. I refused bypass surgery or medical management. I worked out my diet and lifestyle based on Dr Ornish's programme. I am 83 and my BP and sugar levels are optimal. I avoid cardiologists and hope to survive for a few more years with some luck. This young woman is tough and I wish her good luck.

@dinahmangaoang4604 Жыл бұрын

amen

@msmoe8687 8 ай бұрын

My mother hid hers, we didn't even know she was sick and five days after she was admitted to the hospital she died. Now I will never know what it was that she was sick from, think about it.

@keldenlhamo2046 9 ай бұрын

Please can any body Share name of the best cancer hospital my sister is suffering from lungs cancer

@lathaprakashprakash1889 Жыл бұрын

Please suggest some solution mam My mom has stage four esophagus cancer

@joyj6702 9 ай бұрын

Stomach cancer is very hard to detect.. it usually detects in stage 4.. my aunt passed away with in a month.

@st.dominic4169 4 ай бұрын

Cancers are now silent killers. It's too late when get detected especially when u have poor lifestyle, bad habits and family history.

@user-rf8qv2ys3e 2 ай бұрын

How is that lady is doing now?

@shivamjaiswal7288 Жыл бұрын

I also lost my mother due to stage 4 colon cancer in dec 2022

@arjunparmar3844 Жыл бұрын

Stay strong brother

@SudhirKadam-cb3xe 23 күн бұрын

I am also loss my mother 4 colon cancer in 2024 R u done treatmnent & how many year she live after cancer detect

@monikastando6992 Жыл бұрын

❤

@gayanisugathadasa5388 Жыл бұрын

How many chemos you had mam? My husband has been diagnosed with tumour 3B lung cancer in the right lobe

@prakashsudha1999 Жыл бұрын

How r you doing now

@gayanisugathadasa5388 Жыл бұрын

Not me Prakash. My husband. Unfortunately it has become aggressive. In Sri Lanka we don't have facilities like developed countries. He cannot get a proper treatments. Unfortunately his gene tests became negative and he cannot go for target cell treatments too. We are totally lost

@mechboysudheer Жыл бұрын

@@gayanisugathadasa5388 I am not sure but you can try keto diet 🥺

@madhureddy3239 11 ай бұрын

At least 99percent Noway to save stage 4 lung cancer patients. I am the witness. My dad diagnosed lung cancer 4th stage on 27th june and oncologist says at least her had one year life.but he passes away on 11th july

@gailsfoodandstuff Жыл бұрын

i know 2 ladies with lung cancer, one was stage four, lost a boat load of weight, looked very old, so they gave her immunotheropy, and cured her. my other friend was stage one, got immunotheropy, its gone. little to no side effects. not sure why they didnt offer that for you, vs chemo? or did i miss something here? i see the words at the end mention immuno theropy, so, did you get that after the other treatments?

@bmniac 11 ай бұрын

No mention of age of the patients?

@gailsfoodandstuff 11 ай бұрын

@@bmniac did know that matters, i know one is elderly (and still doing great) and the other, who i thought was elderly due to her frail and thin frame, when i saw her again after “cured” appears to be in her 30’s.

@kanikagupta2456 9 ай бұрын

Can immuno be given before chemo in stage 4??

@gailsfoodandstuff 9 ай бұрын

@@kanikagupta2456 yes, like i said above, the other lady was stage 4,, it was all over and she is still cured to this day.

@SOny-bs1qi 8 ай бұрын

@@kanikagupta2456It is dependent on what a patient responds best to. Often, it is a combination of both chemotherapy and immunotherapy.

@RajasthanGk-RaJ02 6 ай бұрын

How i can contact to singapore cancer society i want treatment for my father Pls pls tell me i cant live without him pls 🙏🏻 Tell me He has stg 4 sme condition but he is bit aged 54 Could you pls tell us

@debbiebrannon8874 Жыл бұрын

Praying for a healing for her amen try cannabis oil and thc for cancer amen

@shivalishankersharma1562 9 ай бұрын

The fact she had to hide she had lung cancer because of the fear that she might be perceived as someone who smokes shows that in her mind, her family would be more disappointed if she smokes/drinks than be there with her for her cancer treatment.

@khaleesisnow1683 Жыл бұрын

🙏✝️❤️🙏

@padmavathidesu6561 8 ай бұрын

Mam.. Please tell how to save my dad... He is in 4stage gallbladder cancer... 66age... Plz I beg u plz mam... 😢😢😢😢🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@jayashreenm3331 8 ай бұрын

Pls give him cordyceps best herb ,it will cure don't worry

@dr.viijaydevganmdmedicine5634 Ай бұрын

Take homeopathic treatment.. It might save him.

@lenam415 Жыл бұрын

Hi, sorry about your situation hope you take care of yourself naturally which can help even when taking chemo or radiation. JESUS please help you .Garden of life multivitamin is great and then reinforce with more of the same vitamins for instance they have vitamin c d etc... when body has cancer it will need good vitamins whether take chemo or not. They also have vitamin c spray d and some brands will have liquid vitamins too. Intravenous vitamins can help you out as well and vitamin patches can when you don't feel like taking pills. Alkaline water is great as well and crazy water. Olive oil pills (synergy) tumeric and ginger. If taking chemo don't take tumeric while chemo in system. Tart cherry pills and cherry juice helps fight neuropathy cancer and inflammation. Now liquid b12 shots good too for after chemo treatment 10000mcg b12 energy boost . Now ultra b 12 is good as well.

@debbiebrannon8874 Жыл бұрын

Praying for a healing for her try cannabis oil and thc for cancer amen

@bmniac 11 ай бұрын

It has helped in certain types of cancer.

@deepaksen5581 11 ай бұрын

Survival rates for brain mets any idea ?

@tanvirrahman3728 9 ай бұрын

3-6 months but others health condition influence it.

@bymc98 8 ай бұрын

Watch the documentary series the truth about cancer

@PriyankaMishra-xf4im 7 ай бұрын

Mere papa ki death liver cancer se hogye 2 nov 2023 ko pta june me chla

@rrfashionpoint786 9 ай бұрын

Mam yha k hospital k Dr to bolte hai isko hum rok hi sakte hai khtam nhi hoga ye aise koi medicine nhi hai jisse lung cancer k 4th stage ko khtam kra ja sake

@joselito7776 9 ай бұрын

As an adult, you didnt know what cancer was? I guess you must have lived a sheltered and isolated life similar to the Amish.

@marilyntonelli8832 Жыл бұрын

You can’t work if you’re not alive

@leelajapheth4051 Ай бұрын

No friends and family... No cancer.. Where she lives?

@AlhassanHindolotejan Жыл бұрын

My father has stage one lung cancer he's having his treatments now in the USA. What's the rate of survival for him?

@kanikagupta2456 9 ай бұрын

How's he doing

@asianmomindubai9530 2 ай бұрын

How is he now

@Robin-mj6jv Жыл бұрын

Seafood??

@zickzackehuhnerkacke8602 Жыл бұрын

Maybe because seafood can contain Toxines in high Level, that can cause cancer?!

@hridyasharma6270 Жыл бұрын

What colour is his bugatti?

@user-sn6ph7je2h Ай бұрын

Fenbendezole

@johnjarvis2168 Жыл бұрын

Rick Simpson cannabis oil is the treatment you all are looking for. My team has been treating people for 9 years now for free. I keep talking, but nobody listens.

@ethiopiahagere7869 6 ай бұрын

What is rick simpson oil ?pls tell me my beloved mom diagnosed with lung cancer

@johnjarvis2168 6 ай бұрын

@@ethiopiahagere7869 RSO is concentrated thc oil. About 60% thc.

@saldanulhakkeem5397 Жыл бұрын

Onum pedecanda njan unde kuda

@jillmeader5882 9 ай бұрын

Diagnosed stage four three years ago now in remission had five. Champs and fifteen radiation on target therapy bout two. Yrs I praise God was lung cancer not a smoker city of hope Drs treat me

@jillmeader5882 9 ай бұрын

Chemo I meant

@nayli133 Жыл бұрын

NON SMOKER can kena lung cancer?!?! Ppl who hate smokers just stfu or your attributes will come to you.

@MuhammadAhmad-gm2uq Жыл бұрын

If you recite the below prayer 400-2000 times all your diseases will vanish by the permission of Allah. "O Allah, send prayers, peace and blessings upon our Master Muhammad, the medicine of hearts and their treatment, the soundness of bodies and their cure, the light of vision and its illumination, the spirit of all spirits and the secret of their endurance."

@joselinediaz3233 Жыл бұрын

Source?

@hemlatamandalia7261 Жыл бұрын

Sending you hugs And prayers.

@highlyfavoured6789 Жыл бұрын

Only Jesus can heal. Stop lying to others.

@MuhammadAhmad-gm2uq Жыл бұрын

You should stop lying others. Only Allah (all glory and praise be to Him) can heal.

@ghazalasiddiqui3838 Жыл бұрын

Can you send it here in Arabic