yes!

I know many women who live to 96 and longer.

Too bad she is a total Flake and a Narcissist

​@lee4768 you're very fortunate, and so are they

She’s rich but still. She looks amazing and I would hope to be that active if I even make it to that age.

She always does.

I don't always agree with Joy but I think she is a much better moderator than Whoppi.

@@naylas3908 so does Whoopi

I only watch the view to understand the other side. I don’t care for Joy , but she is a great moderator.

Whoopie just mumbles on and on and without making any coherent thoughts. Fridays, the topics run smoothly regardless the subjects when Joy moderates.

Good lighting, makeup, and smoke and mirrors...

Plastic surgery and botox do wonders! Yes, she looks amazing!

@@breal7277She openly admits to using Botox regularly but she clearly hasn’t had surgery, her eyes, nose & lips are untouched.

@@vincentbaca790Haterrrrr 😅

@@freedomofspeech6447 no, just a realist....take an honest look for yourself...

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So true. My father always said children should come from a broken home,not live in one.

I agree. My parents were toxic whenever they were together so I was glad they got divorced

You know what, yessss! Since I was a teenager, I experienced a horrible home life, not because of abuse, or deprivation of anything for me as a child, but because the dynamics in our home were off between my parents. They clearly disliked each other, and the longer they stayed together, the less respect and tolerance they had for each other. One would literally have to physically remove themselves from the same room if the other entered. They were reserved and respectful in front of us and the world, but man, they couldn’t fool us. As soon as the last kid went to college, literally like 2-3 months before my little brother left for college, they announced their divorce. My siblings and I were so relieved. It got to a bad point where I worried for physical harm if one finally broke or something. The tension was always terrible. That is to say, divorce is a freaking blessing I wish on no one, but hope for those who need it. Marriage isn’t just the paper, burn it down if the two parties no longer honour that contract. The sooner, the better in my opinion. My parents are a really good team separated than they were together. They could have had a much much happier life had they stopped worrying about the kids and just went their separate ways earlier. They could have a better relationship today had they not stayed too long and started hating each other. I’d go as far as to say, eff the kids, a marriage is between 2 people and 2 people only. If they no longer like each other, that’s all the consideration they need to take. Finances, kids, the community can be figured out if the divorcing parties separated amicably. They will be more loving in how they organize coparenting and children’s needs. I’m telling you, do not drag out a failed marriage for the sake of anyone else! As a child of a bad divorce, I’d rather have grown up with happily divorced parents than, stuck and bitter and exhausted parents. It was not a family anyway.

Yeah

My 96 yr old grandmother hasn’t had all the Botox or any face lifts. So she looks like a regular 96-year-old but I think she looks good. And she still does all of the New York Times crossword puzzles even the hard one on Sundays and she watches Jeopardy and gets almost every question right! Her sharpness amazes me. .

She gets Botox.

She could pass for being in her 50s/early 60s easily.

@@hannahwalmer1124 so it works

She is still delusional

Love joy . Seems like type person chill with have fun 🍾🥂🍹

Way better than whoopi.

So is Whoopi

!00%. Whoopi is a bully

And she is 80 years old. She is on top of it. Joe Biden is younger.

No, she's getting into her 80s. She got a great plastic surgeon and makeup artist though.

@@lilaznkid4ever what are you talking about, “no”??? People are living well into their 100s. My grandmother is 96. Still sharp as a tack and still answers almost every question on jeopardy correctly.

Yeah man she's not even graying yet So real and honest

No. That's commitment. We don't know if they truly loved each other. What we know is that they stayed together through the ups and downs.

@@breal7277well said.

Plastic surgery can't make you attractive

IKR 😲

I agree. Whoopi can do it once per week.

I had a couple of my siblings get divorced. My mother never told her family across the sea because she was embarassed by it. WTH, what parent want's to see their child getting physically abused and is embarassed by the divorces.

Then the sanctity of marriage shouldn’t exist either. It’s ridiculous to think that way. I understand there are serious reasons why people divorce, but nowadays people just want to divorce for getting bored or annoyed.

​@@bec6384The Sanctity of Marriage is *no reason to stay in a miserable Marriage* that's been over for years. A verbal &/or physical Abusive Marriage getting your face Bashed in, OR with a dog who won't stop cheating, OR a miserable _"I wish I was Dead"_ marriage where the person does Not even love you anymore, living like Roomates in separate rooms and it's fighting & War everyday. That's not boredom, only Celebrities toss marriage like it's nothing. And not the Celebs that divorce after 20 Or 30years of marriage _(a lifetime)_ they stayed married for a long time, they did not play with it. It's for a good reason they're divorcing. *Who you are in your 20s is not who you are pushing 50yrs old.*

​@@bec6384So many damage and traumatized kids from Bad & Toxic Marriages wish their parents had divorced.

@@TheBrownIsland I 100% agree there are reasons to get divorced such as abuse or cheating. Changing from who you are in your 20’s is not a reason to get divorced. That sounds like you’ve lost the same interests as your partner. I’m sorry, but you work to find common interests and you stick it out.

I really believe that all of the threats our PM has been getting has prompted both him and his wife to part for safety reasons above all especially for their three kids. I would do the same.

​@@shelleykeefer4966wow I had no idea that was happening. That's so sad.

It's the same in the U.S.

Ya it's also venus retrograde. They'll probly get back together in a few months .

@@shelleykeefer4966 Alberta and Manitoba despise Trudeau.

yes!!!!

Joy doesn't...

@@vincentbaca790 What?

Why not.just say that she looks great?

That is awesome that you two have a strong committment

Right?!? I don’t get people blaming the pandemic.

*It all Depends on the topic of discussion, then they're at each other's throats. They talk a lot behind the scenes even if there is Tension on camera.

Right! I hate constantly seeing Sunny ripping into Alyssa or cutting her off

Comes and goes

That's great! 😊

That's not a good marriage philosophy at all. Makes one person way too dependent on another.

I wish my parents divorced. There was physical and emotional abuse involved, but she stayed because she wanted to keep the family together for "the kids". But their relationship was toxic and I never saw a loving moment between them. Every day was yelling, anxiety and drama.

I agree. Children watching their parents fight everyday, and become physically violent is not a good environment for them to be in. The children can grow up thinking that dysfunctional relationships are normal.

My best friend in college celebrated when her parents finally divorced. Theirs was un unhealthy marriage but they stayed together "for the kids". The kids were messed up anyway because of the verbal abuse they were subjected to witness growing up.

it's not that simple. your parents are always your parents psychologically, whatever choices they make. So for example, your father abandoning you and his responsibilities as a father, could lead you to see men who are non-committal or relative dismissive as a viable option for partnership, in a way that someone who had an available father would not, because your father is your first model, of a partner. The fact that they were divorced doesn't change anything, psychologically. You'll still be unconsciously attracted to men who are like your father. Consciously, you might make a different choice.

I agree too. Also child of divorce here, and the most traumatic experience about it was all the fights. In fact, one of the worst fights was on an attempt to get back together. Sure, as you said, both parents have to be committed to make things peaceful but it’s hard for them when they have hurt each other. And if one of them has existential problems of their own, then it’s even harder. But in the long run, it’s still better in that case for them to split. Or it could be worse.

Seems?

I appreciate the entire panel.

And.both.are.hotties...

i know!!

Indeed

Yes, but I love Whoopi too.

YES WAY!

She would say mind your business and do what works for you

No. I can't stand her moderating because she rants on and on.

​@breal7277 Exactly..I love Fridays when she's not there😂

Why are the worst marriages always the longest ... people divorce when they are relatively ok but if they are utterly miserable they will stay and stay and stay

And parents staying together fighting and hating each other doesn’t impact children? Please be for real.

@@kaytee5031 Have you ever tried to work things out? Seek counseling? Actually talking to each other like civilized people? My parents had MANY problems (including domestic violence) but they still managed to work it out by talking and correcting. They're still married 43 years later and get along now. I'm glad they did.

@@kaytee5031 If you let your relationship get to the point of fighting and screaming, then take a long look at yourself. Take some accountability that you partook in that and you allowed it. Start with the person in the mirror.

@@linger4605 Get real, you think your unique experience is how it will work out for others..hahaha...not even more often than not especially with domestic violence it doesn't work out, the two parties can't get over it. Well, you know because there is violence. Your family experience bucks the norm, you have to realize that.

@@linger4605 that requires both parties to be willing to seek outside help. Not everyone has a partner that’s even willing to entertain the idea of therapy. And then when you add mental health issues and personal trauma into the mix, it can get ugly. Divorce won’t scar a child anywhere nearly as bad as domestic violence, screaming matches, and an overall tense household.

Marriage is overrated.

A kid can get used to anything at six, you were young enough to adjust to the new normal.

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