it has come to the point where i make up fake scenarios in my head about having a friend😭 15 with no friends sucks like everyone my age is having so fun meanwhile i am just rotting in bed

i hate how real this is

This is SO real. I'm homeschooled, but I still get really depressed sometimes about having pretty much no friends- I have a few people, a FEW people I talk with online, only one I feel close with but they live miles away and we barely talk anymore. I can definitely relate to the whole college thing, I feel like it'll be a good, fresh start. Thanks for this video!! It's good to know I'm not entirely alone.

Out of all the videos I watched on this topic….this is the only one I can relate to. School is 10x harder when you’re alone. I’ve lost all motivation to even go to school. Im naturally an introvert so I do like being alone but sometimes I think about how lonely I am walking through the halls alone, sitting at lunch alone, sometimes even sitting in the bathroom for lunch. It sucks but at the same time I’ve always been like this. I am now a senior and I still have 0 friends. Thank you for this vid ❤️

I want freinds but I’m autistic so no one sits near me

I’m a sophomore and I’m LITERALLY in the same situation. There’s like, a whole story as to why I haven’t made an *actual friend* since 5th grade but long story short COVID really messed things up and I’ve been lonely & had social anxiety ever since. Anyways I really appreciate this video and I hope you make a friend soon!🙏🏽

im a senior this year and have been homeschooled since fourth grade really has stunned my socialization. online friends come and go (as do all friends) but ive always just wanted at least one irl friend to help with life and just enjoy my time with. literally thank u so much for this vid

Omg omg finally found someone who I relate to! I feel so lonely at school and out of school.. I talk to ppl and stuff during class but I’m alone at lunch ://

I am in the exact same situation, at frist I tought i could endure, then school became hell, and being alone was probably a cause of it.

anxiety is tough, but if you don't join a club or a sport it's gonna be tough to make friends if u don't put in the effort, i struggled a lot as i was homeschooled heading into highschool, but as soon as i joined a sport i made friends. put urself out there or you're gonna be lonely

i have seen ALOT of people online say that they have no friends irl and keep complaining about it. but i really have no friends since 5 years now and people around me always seem to atleast have 1 friend while i have none at all. i used to have lunch in the school restrooms while crying almost every single day. even the teachers back in highschool used to be concerned about my lonliness and ask my parents if i have mental issues. as someone with SEVERE anxiety i am left helpless and i feel lile ending my life

I hate how like posts online and ‘influencers’ always say that you should drop those toxics friends and find new ones as if in this generation it’s as easy as going up to someone, saying ‘hi’ and becoming friends.

This is so real. This is happening to me right now and it kinda hurts (Btw papa’s bakeria is the best I actually sometimes play the to go ver. at school)

Your not alone, my freshman and sophomore year I had almost no good friends. I just stuck around assholes to not feel lonely and was extremely quiet because I drifted away from so many people over quarantine. It sucks, just going day to day with nothing to do besides school work, rotting away, waiting for college. Thankfully I finally found some good people who like me for who I am, and I really hope anyone else reading this can find those people too. Just remember, you dont need to be popular or have it all to be happy, its just highschool, dont compare and find people who you enjoy. Also being honest, luck is a big factor. If I didn't get lucky with some of my classes I'd still be right where I started.

I just want to leave, man. 5 more months… prom is coming. I had no friends in middle school either. Or elementary. Acquaintances is the max I’ve gotten so far. I also happened to be in the worst place in terms of mental health in my life, and other problems outside of school. The extreme loneliness and the isolation at school is just a bonus

feel you girly pop. i know it's hard. but hey, on the bright side, you'll be going to college (or not if you don't want to) in a few years and you'll be able to make new friends there. stay strong

I’m sorry you’re going through this. At least you are trying. I’ve recently found some people that have the same interests as me after years of feeling like friends don’t understand me. So, you never know. You still have your identity and confidence which is all you need. But you’ll find them.

Reality is harsh.

I honestly wish I had someone to look forward to in school, it doesn't really work the same online. Because now I look forward to skipping school 💀 But yeah, this video exactly hit the spots in my soul. Good video 🌸

It feels good knowing that there are others who had a similar experience.Even when i do make friends i can't be too close with them idk just can t connect with them

Felt :/ Having a strict family that isolates you makes this worse.

I'm in senior year, and it's kind of my fault. I've always been attached to the kids with no friends, so I'm suck with them and babysit them instead of making friends with actually good people that I can be myself. College I get a free restart, so I can get a do over. Easy peasy.

OH MY GOD GIRL you actually get it like you talked about exactly what I'm going through its like your talking about my life, glad I found someone that I can relate to sooo true about wanting to skip to collage you DO NOT understand how much it helps to know that I'm not the only one that has been struggling with this

I dont know how to express myself around people 😭

i’m going through the exact same thing right now. i’m a junior in high school just like you!! in freshman and sophomore year i had this friend group but they were so toxic and rude, and we ended up getting in a fight in junior year and i left with everyone hating me. yesterday, i fought my best friend who defended me through that old fight, and she ended up leaving too. now i’m left with basically no one and am having a hard time coping with both of these losses. i can’t wait for college! i swear i’m going to be a better person who makes friends that really get me. we’ll get through this! i can feel the pain through your voice and i truly hope everything gets better.

sia you seem so nice and funny. i didn’t have any friends until about halfway through my junior year of high school and it sucked. i remember getting lunch and then going to eat it in the library bc i didn’t have anyone to sit with. it can be so hard to try and make friends when everyone already seems like they have their groups. i know you said that your anxiety keeps you from joining clubs and stuff but honestly… do theater or band haha that might sound lame but i auditioned for my school’s musical my junior year and that’s when i finally felt like i had friends. i had after school activities and i had people that i could talk to, even if it was just about the show. again, you literally seem so funny and genuine and i know this is the last thing you want to hear, but you’ll have no problem making friends once you leave school. high school is tough. even for the people that seem like they have a ton of friends. you don’t know what kind of terrible dynamic they have within their group or how many times they get left out of things that they really wanted to go to. obviously it’s easy for me, a 25 year old, to say this. but keep your head up girl!!! and keep making content. you’re clearly a really cool person and you won’t be friendless forever. high school just…. really really sucks. ❤ fr loved this video btw. i think you should keep making rants like this. you seem to have a good view of the world and a good head on your shoulders. just wait until you aren’t in high school anymore- you’re gonna excel far beyond most of the people you see in class everyday that look like they have it made. just wait!! it’ll be worth it, i promise.

It does suck at times. Yesterday, I was pretty shocked to see that I was offered an award at my online school program. I honestly didnt think they knew I existed but they want me to come in for it. The thing is, I have never step foot in a highschool building and I know absolutely no one as a 10th grader. I know being alone isn't a bad thing. It comes with many benefits, but I can't help but think about all the other teens who are surronded by supportive and loving friends. I think that would be great to have. But I know I can't force a friendship. I've been there and done that, and like you said, we just don't click long term. Im going to continue to pray and be patient. Perfect love and friendships come with time, and I shouldn't be discouraged. I have so much time for myself, and I shouldn't take that for granted. It's great to know that im not going through this alone. Much love for everyone who is going through a similar situation, may God bless you 🫶🏽

HELPPPRP i relate to this sm and i was literally JUST thinking abt how i literally have no friends but this vid made me start laughing so hard ☠️☠️ “but maaan, i cant do it.” is so real

i releate to this. I used to have no friends in school for 3 weeks bc my friend left me and stopped hanging out with me (this happened like month ago). She was my only friend and I was left all alone with no one and had huge anxiety going to school and i hated it so much. It was my lowest ive ever been in my life. But then i did somehow manage to make one friend and now i have three friends at school and im happy about it. Your not alone and i rly hope it will get better to you too have faith and hope.

this made me feel less alone, thank you.😭

my daydreams are what keep me alive during this operation btw this was a great video, hope this channel of yours becomes something big.

All of my friends drop me in senior year, so I have no one to go with at prom,school parties etc which is why I'm not going to any of those activities. My classmates act surprised when I say this like bro do you see me with ANYONE THAT I COULD POSSIBLY go with??? 😭

that’s so real. i started studying in the UK from this year and had no friends to begin with. the school year is almost over and i just have a few in-school friends who never talk to me outside of school

Lmao this is so relatable manee. I just found this vid and already love your personality.

This was me throughout the entirety of high school and is kind of me 2/3 my way into freshman year of university. It is depressing, sad, and makes me pissed off.

i relate to this video at an anatomical level (except i didn't have much friends in middle school either) had one super casual friend but mostly just talked to my teachers

GIRL OMG I WOULD LOVE TO BE YOUR FRIEND! LIKEEE you seem so funny and nice like these people are missing out fr. We in the same boat dude except I have somewhat friends that I talk to at school but once I get home we don't talk at all. Online friends help a little until they leave you and your stuck alone again. Anyways YOUR A GREAT PERSON AND YOU WILL MAKE FRIENDS EVENTUALLY!! YOU GOT THIS!!

for me i have 'friends' at my new school but i cant really act the way i want to around them and they barely talk to me outside of school unless it's for work. they arent bad people exactly, our relationships just seem transactional. and the close friends i used to have barely talk since i have moved countries.

Hi Sia, I relate to this SOOOO much. I once was at this point in my highschool life. I’m in 12th Grade now. I STRUGGLED (and I’m not even exaggerating) to make friends. I’m naturally an introvert. I always thought how others could make friends and I couldn’t. I tried so many times, but it always failed. I tried just putting myself in random groups, but then I ended up not saying a word😂 and then someone would be like “why aren’t u saying anything?” And then the whole group would look at me, which is quite embarrassing, so I stopped trying. Although I did have a few acquaintances. But as time went by, in 10th grade, I started getting close with my acquaintances. But I still wouldn’t really call them my friends because it wasn’t really that type of bond. But it reached a point where I just started noticing something. I started talking more and more to these acquaintances of mine to the point where our bond slowly sort of changed into a friendship bond. Even at breaks I would sit and talk to them, and they would have no problem with it. And what I started noticing is that “Communication” is the key to forming bonds, friendships and all relationships in general. The more you talk, the more people would get to know you. And that is the problem that I lacked. I was always verrry quiet. But I’m starting to get out of my comfort zone and starting to talk more, and I notice that it has opened more doors of bonds and friendships. So, long story short, Communication is the key to forming bonds. It could be what you are lacking. I hope it works out for you well in the end❤

I’ve been going thru this for years, I don’t know if I can take it anymore

man. i know this video is a bit hard but it’s 10:30 at night and i’ve had one of the hardest school years so far. i’ve started to feel like my friends are drifting away from me and finding new people, and started to feel like they think i’m weird or embarrassing. it sucks, so hard. i’m not the type to just sit in silence in classes or just go though the day without talking to people, i keep trying to reach out and meet new people and i just can’t find a real sense of connection anymore. after a point, it just feels like everyone i interact with see me to a certain level and don’t look further. i keep loosing friends groups. i can’t keep anything for longer than a few years. the people who i actually know well all go to different schools and we don’t see each other irl at all. i feel so lonely and lost, and it’s starting to feel like there’s no point in meeting new people if this pattern is just going to repeat itself. if i’m just going to sit alone at lunch. your point on college is so real. i can’t wait for college where i meet people who are like me, who have interests like me. people who i don’t already know, people who might stick around.

real af.. just gotta get through senior year and hopefully college will change things and me

This is to real. I’m an extrovert who had a traumatic experience as a kid( bullying). My only best friend right now left school and now I’m all by myself alone. It’s so bad. I have depression and I guess it’s one thing that let to this

the title hit me hard.

My old best friend randomly stopped talking to me and the only actual friend i have left i dont feel happy around most of the time, like theres a bunch of people im friendly with but i don't actually talk to them, and those people are friends with the friend i don't feel happy around so if i left her id definitely not have any friends. She can be so kind sometimes but most of the time I'm around her i feel drained and we've known eachother forever so idk whether to keep her as a friend

This bout to be a long ass story. I used to feel this soo much when I first transferred back from Nigeria. Pro tip- when your mom says she’ll send u to boarding school abroad take that shit very seriously. Anyways, when I came back my family had moved from Baltimore County to Howard County and so when I started going to school sophomore year I had to restart and build up all my friends. I always thought I was an extrovert or good at socializing but I pledged to not be as weird as my middle school self and tbh that was the extroverted side of me. For the first few weeks when I tried to talk to people nothing would leave my mouth. I was friends with a freshman for a while but I only saw her during B lunch. This was all until I decided to man (woman?) the fuck up and sit next to this one very loud and cool girl in my grade during assembly and attempt to talk to her. She was in one of my classes so I complimented her before and stuff like that so we were just chatting. We were close friends that year, the other girls that sat next to her also got to know me and I sat next to them during A lunch that year as well. Slowly but surely I made a lot of acquaintances and some friends due to the African Clubs we had which was a big community. I was in an African gc and it was fun (most of them graduated last semester so it’s kinda dead now) and though that group chat I meet my best friend 2 summers ago, at a party that one member threw. She gave me a job (shit was toxic at some point so I quit) and now senior year is just fun. You can always spin it around but it makes me wonder why I was really meticulously planning this shit from the get go.

I’m on my last year of hs and in the uk so I have my exams coming up (GCSEs) but a few days ago I lost my whole friend group, and what makes things worse is that I have several people that hate me so I’m just gonna be a bigger target for them, I’ve been off school coz I’m trying to figure out what I’m going to do, I want to be homeschooled but I can’t coz next week my exams start so I’m going to have to be forced to go to school and I’m dreading lunch the most, I still have two friends left but they don’t rlly know each other and they are in separate friend groups which I don’t rlly vibe with, they Alr said that I can hang out with them at lunch but it’s gonna be so hard because it won’t be the same😭

THIS IS SO RELATABLE DAMN, ALSO IM STARTING TO GET PICKED ON FOR IT HELPPPP.

In the exact same situation and grade except im in online school. Knowing that im gonna be 18 in a year and not having anyone really gets to me

I really get this, although I have a couple people I'm pretty friendly with right now, but I'm not personal with them really at all, I'm also at the start of my junior year, I want someone to be my mentally unstable self with, and just hang out with. The thing about me which some people might or might not like is I'm either really chill/low energy or really high energy, and I think it throws people off. I don't even know if I will go to college but if I do I know it would be pretty cool and I would want to at least make one friend, go to some parties maybe and have a good time. I want to live an eventful life as much as I can. (P.S. In school I like to do just whatever fits my needs, gets me to where I need to go, to try to best myself for my future best friend because I just kinda keep the hope in my heart that they're out there just waiting for me to meet them and I'm trying to make sure I have myself all put together for them, so that's my weird way to make myself keep going. plus I do everything I can now to have fun so I'm not bored at school because if I'm bored, I'm SO BORED, and I can't focus on school at all)

Everyone from my middle school went to the same high school but i got transferred to a different one because of some pretty traumatizing things that happened there. So i ended up going into hs tryna be talkitave and making freinds and now halfway through the year ion even have anyone t eat lunch with other than my sister. apperentaly once i get comfortable with someone i get super clingy so they brush my off n put me back in the aquaintances box an it really hurts cause i keep thinking we tight n shit but na i guess not. Worst part is that my sister is literally my best freind and only freind i can truly rely on atp and shes literally leaving next year. Like moving away to college so i wont be able to talk to her at school or anything anymore. Fucking sucks.

lmao you are so real i haven’t had any friends since 8th grade im also a junior :)

Im 14 and this made me feel less lonely because it’s relatable 😭 (im homeschooling but as soon as i turn 15 thats when im being sent to high school its gonna be hell)

Stay strong You'll meet new people and get some friends Trust me

Im a junior too and I have been going through the same thing. I transferred my sophomore year, I used to have a large group of friends but they turned out to be fake asf and they all drifted away no matter how hard I tried to save the friendships, Ive done spots and clubs but the relationships I make are always limited to that topic, I'm almost 18 and I spend my breaks in the bathroom and my lunches sitting in my car where I eat alone. Its really tough having no social life. Im honestly I bit lost but this video is comforting not going to the lunch line because I have to stand alone is so real. I really don't know how I'm supposed to make it through another year. I barely go to school anymore the anxiety is so bad Im js genuinely so lonely, even the friends i make a work only ever want to talk about work sh!t god idk i js need a friend

I'm going through this (uk) high school I do leave officially on study leave next Friday but over the past 4 months My freinds always left school to go over her boyfreinds place leaving me by myself ignoring me never talks to me and I can only sit in the toilet stall messaging my mum or watch tiktok no motivation to finish my final exams We used to be together 24 7 but she is to busy with him to think how it affects me and her other freinds

I started doing homeschool for the 9th grade and I’m now in the 11th grade and I literally have 0 friends lol it reallyyyyy sucks bc I also love talking so it definitely doesn’t help but I do feel as though it has taught me so much about myself bc I used to have massive friend group but it was rlly toxic

I relate to this so much

i relate to this SO much

Omg, I am from Belarus, and having no friends in high-school here, is no better, maybe even worse. I feel pretty much the same, and my mental health is just tripping. Thank god here we only study 11 years and it is my last year.

this is the realest video ever holy

Thanks god someone did a video about it ❤

always being bullied since pre-school

The only friends I had currently now are social media ones than "real friends" in public so no one can judge me for being different bc of my own lifestyle.

crying couse its too relatable

Yeah, sometimes. I don't care about Having friends or nothing than Possible. Because I'm autistic But I can be Friends with Animals, Plushies in Real life. And Online friends, Somehow I don't know who are these people?

What year u in BTW I just finished my first year of highschool it's a nightmare fr girl the only reason why u did not have friends it's cuz those people act all the same and ur unique and u should be proud this vid hit home dw girly u will meet people amazing like u who have the same interests ik ur being patient same fr

real, i can relate even i graduate high school.

vyvanse ruined my life I was misdiagnosed adhd when I had autism and it kinda made me act like I was on meth for the entirety of middle school and now everyone hates me

You’re too real for this. Push awn gurl ‼️

This is the only reason I’m glad I’m a triplet. If I don’t have anyone o hang out with I just steal my sisters friends and now we are all a friend group and if none of us have friends we have each other.

YOOOOOO searched for a vid like this cuz im 18 and at my first year (chose 2 yr highschool to get it faster over with PLUS ya lazy to explain why 18 and at hs) ANWYAS BUT UEA HAILLL FUCKING NAH i pull up everyday and irs so depressing cuz my ass has no one to talk to in school, if i talk w someone ik their ass think im so socially awkward and weird and it sucks man like getting bullied for being myself made it worse cuz rhat jjst ruins my confidence in being me and acting like myself and no one gets the humor either and all thay stuff and its so hard to get up when you dont have ANY person at all to lool forward to in school or after :/ im a loud ish persom who loves to joke around and be weird and "dumb" at heart, and watching classmates around me what i want to be is rllyheart breaking :( injsit wish i could spend these highschool years with good memories without getting jealous of my friends who have other friends and partners ANWYAYSNELP I TALKED ALOT U SEEM VERY VERY COOL woild be cool to maybe get ur discord and just idk chat for fun u seem EXTREMELY FUN LIKE HOW COME NOBODY WANT TO BE FRUWNDS WITH U😭😭😭GHEYRE ALL MISSING OUT🙄🙄🙄🔥🔥

literally me right now 😭😭

REAL BRO I CANT EVEN MAKE ONLINE FRIENDS

Heck, there’s this annoying clique of “scary badmen” that just throw their weight around in my school, tell me to “oh shut up mate” whenever I try to talk to them and then they have the audacity to steal my actual friends. The girls are pretty neutral with me and find me as a funny weird kid. (EDIT: Only the lonely nerds like me because I’m a smartass, and that says alot)

4:07 HAHAHAH THIS IS SO REAL

aint nun but straight facts

I havent played that game in decades lmfao

Frlll sameee😭😭😭

My dad was in the military so I’ve moved a fucking lot but Indiana has been the worst expierience ever. Truthfully. I’m used to clinging to extroverts but there’s not community here for me and it’s worse because I’m bisexual so 80% of the student body practically wants me dead oh and im aetheist so I can’t even hang with the Christians like I’m just tired like I have friends but not at my school I have no friends within four hours of me and I just I’m tired of this really if anyone wants to be friends please reply to my comment just as desperate as you think you are I am.

This is on my recommended page- fantastic video about loneliness. Keep up the good work!

So real

just 3 more months

underrated

Girl saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaame like I talk to people but I'm not close to anyone in my hs. Your so me like we could be twins 😭😭😭

found my people

Try graduating with no one. Feel like i wasted my years (this vid made my disappointment turn to laughter 😂)

W video

man f dat im not going hungry 😭😭

What do you do for group projects?

Ill be your friend :>

Deadass don't even care I have no friends nothing to worry about

You got autism? Because i do and can relate to this video completely

What is wrong with this generation

you got friends now?

You are weird. But there's nothing wrong with that and there nothing wrong with being alone.

real

shii so real im a freshman and I only got fake friends nobody real even my “friend” from elementary who i’ve known for so long is fake asf 🫠