Or here ❤️

I'm like what? I rarely see another Tamara anymore!

That's so good. Thanks for posting!

Where can I follow the boyfriend interpreter???

The boyfriend one should have said. I'm sad because you hate everything I've done to connect with you, but I can't tell you that because I know you will use my vulnerability against me later. Also, now I kinda want icecream.

if he isn't he will be in like 5 minutes

I give him 40 secs

@@ct_devoidmore like 10 seconds

​@@TheSinnisterGamingChannel And what would he do with the remaining 7 seconds?

@@Andresmente This just gets better I am here to ruin it

Might be a short lived job but it's worth it for the lady to learn.

It would just be repeating the same thing because what we say is usually to the point lol

NO! Never ever ever get that. BAD idea. The moment we say 'I'm ' fine when we just want peace is the moment that peace is gone for a 2 hour long discussion and 2 days of cynical remarks. Rest of the month will be fights over that one.timw.you dated to say 'hi' to your ex 7,5 million years ago

@@Minkehryou ok bro?

@@Minkehr u need a hug Buddy?

no its a full time job and gold siggers dont act up like that

@@mugnuz I see

I’d say ditch the vanilla gf just go for the translator…

@@yourlifeisagreatstory makes sense

I need to make this my job

He is not confused, he is scared.

It's my birthday today and I have 0 subscribers 😢

That shits funny 😅

Even after the interpretations he’s still confused lol

​@@lrmcatspaw1annoyed

Just a second opinion lol

YOU RECONSTITUTE IT BY MIXING IT WITH WATER. IT'S NOT ROCKET SCIENCE!

YOU RECONSTITUTE IT BY MIXING IT WITH WATER. IT'S NOT ROCKET SCIENCE!

Oxygen can be pretty fun alone.

That's the winner for the best comment so far this month!

Sup.

Is it? Seems quite cheery. Clinically enthusiastic maybe.

​@@justcommenting4981exactly. That's why it's patronizing

Right? Like we’re the idiots because we just speak clearly and don’t play mind games. And while *you* can do it, if we aren’t 100% sincere in anything we say, it’s bad.

Australian

I'm going to leave that at 69.

agreed

I think she just complicated it too much. The girlfriend simply wanted to have a cute walk/drive impromptu ice cream date. A simple moment of companionship, nothing meticulous like a pre-planned date. But the translator thing was an insult that ruined the mood, and having ice cream alone would have been sweet but with "what if I am inconveniencing him" undertones.

@@hsihdbssbcjtzksk7426It’s nice to see people with empathy.

No she's in just insecure​@@hsihdbssbcjtzksk7426

@@kellynantonacci7885???

😂😂😂

Really all that's needed

I would believe it

TRUE 😭

He just provides subtitles of the audio.

What's the difference? 😂😂😂

2.3k likes with only 1 reply? Let me fix that

Well in this fictional relationship the communication failed, so just clearing up the communication is the best form of counselling🤣

Lies again? Wrong Translations USD SGD

​@Svabre The woman failed to communicate properly. I agree. Expecting one to read ones mind is a failure in communication.

It's fine, as long as she stays honest and doesn't get upset. Women are highly social beings so these feelings are normal, the catch is that they have to learn give-and-take. As each of you discoveres where the other one really is, some give-and-take needs to occur to find the medium place between you where each need is best met. So a woman who's learned these things would say, "Actually I thought it might be nice if we both had but I don't feel like having one on my own." - exactly the same but the need is shared. If he says ok I'll share one she can assume he's happy to do that, needs met; or be reluctant to push him into it and say "But I don't want you to be obliged to have one just for me" and then he can say "I'd still enjoy it, let's go". Of course very few women can learn the art of logical openness easily because their emotions can cloud their thinking and they easily jump to conclusion and get hurt. But you won't find one without these red flags to SOME degree.

​@@greatbriton8425This brand of sexism is almost worse than open misogyny, because people become convinced that it's logical and has women's best interest in mind, but ultimately it's just as dehumanizing and more subtly destructive. Ultimately, I'm convinced this style of essentialist garbage will one day be looked upon in much the same way as phrenology is today.

@@iankellymorris It's not sexism if a) it's accurate and b) it's non-prejudicial, as in this case.

@@greatbriton8425lmao

Not really a red flag, just a feeling that people experience sometimes. Edit: Oh I guess you are referring to the immature way she's dealing with it.

"Okay, no ice cream, no putt putt.. how about butt putt?"

Nah bro be like "I'm fine" F feeling hopeless I I don't have what women want N never showing true emotions E every night I can't sleep right

​@@NoblePearSeems like you've put a lot of thought into this. Are you ok?

​@@NoblePearkeep your head up king, your crown is falling

@@brunobertoline3003 he's fine

Nah bro. We say what we mean unless its an injury

She shouldve bought boyfriend translator translator

We men go straight tp the point though

Nah it works 👌 😅

Right. They're just gonna repeat what the best said unless he's hurt😭

^women being dishonest with themselves prompts them to come up with these kinds of indirect fire lines.

That doesn't happen often, its mostly just a dumb stereotype lol I'm not against this video, its still pretty funny.

@@Isaac-ho8gh My personal experience begs to differ. And not just with my relationships. In fact, it's a trend that i have seen in 9 out of 10 cases and i am not so sure about the last one because some women behave when outsiders are within hearing range.

@@RealCadde Ah okay, sorry to hear about that then. I wonder if it could be a cultural issue where you live or something.

@@Isaac-ho8gh no it’s actual differences in how the brain functions for each gender. look up Baba Ali for great examples

Yeah I burst out laughing

What about a Happy Ending? 😏

Girlfriend interpreter : I didn't finish and you were overly sweating.

😂😂😂

​@@Ollay245So Do I. 😂😂😂

Dejected, that's the word I was looking for but I couldn't express. Thank you.

I think he was looking forward to "interpreting" some putt putt.

"unironically" The word you're looking for is *genuinely.* Un-ironic implies things are done ironically by default

​@@justsayin._.Generally the phrase "I'm fine" is used in an ironic manner

@@jddj6747 I guess, but it's more of a lie than being out of irony

"He's currently processing the negativity. Check back again in a few minutes; in the meantime, assume all is well unless you _specifically_ hear otherwise."

Like wtf you asking me for he just told you 😂😂😂

Almost like it’s a punchline.

Absolutely fine

That is the payoff.

the slight delay too, the interpreter had to process the lie!

Surprised he's not got a slab of beers and handing the guy one.

It does more'n that. It informs the girl that she should stop trying to read deeper into what he said.

Wait till the guy starts grunting. Then it comes in handy.

lmao same, also "It's dumb."

Wdym? He literally lied, why would he be fine in that moment?

​@@uno9915He's fine. A little perplexed, but fine.

​@@uno9915 Fellow woman I'm guessing. Men tend to be more honest about their emotions than us women.

No shit sherlock

Fr😂

Even the interpreter isn't falling for that trap.

Or did the boyfriend interpreter translate to girlfriend "fine", not literal "fine"?

​@@gw7579 the hell does that even mean

@@MightyFrog11 An excellent question, sir. When a girl says "It's fine", it is NOT fine.

@@gw7579 This is a harsh lesson that we all have to learn. In girlfriendese 'fine' means 'not fucking fine' yeah man idgi either

Yes, Suga seems to work better.

You shouldve watch key and peele president translator Same concept BUT for married couple

And that's why I'm single. I just don't feel like playing this game right now.

Been with the same woman going on 25 years. I do not understand why they insist on speaking in code to men. Most of us don’t catch it. And if we do it feels like a test. Be direct and say what you mean. Otherwise don’t be upset if things aren’t going your way. I don’t even know what way you want.

​@@Oliverf-ej8klif it makes you feel better, I'm single because the last woman i dated cheated on me. I remain single because i also don't want to play womens games. If i find one that, realistically, plays them less than others, then i would consider it. But these days that's like trying to find a jet stone in a coal mine.

@@toddsmith8608 many times bitten, forever shy.

@@Oliverf-ej8klwhy do you care if he’s single or not?

its hilarious

agreed

_"Are you kiddin'? I know my wife is cheating on me. Every time I come home the parrot says, 'Quick! Out the window!'."_ - Rodney Dangerfield Just some non-sequitor parrot humor. 😂

@@NarwahlGaminghe got noooo respect!

@@miamitten1123 Boy, I tell ya! **fixes tie**

😹😹😹

Lmao 😂

Or, it could mean his is beyond miserable, but no one cares anyway, so why bother...

@@brentfarvors192that’s why communication is key when it comes to any relationship

@@brentfarvors192 God you’re dramatic

@@Bleach_Drinker_7nah he’s right is what he is. Btw it’s men’s mental health month in case anyone cared…oh wait lmao..they dont

I don't agree with you! But,... I'll be fine.

And he's got a point

I spend enough money on my damn girlfriend, I'll be damned if I'm gonna hire a translator unless she's also doing my dishes and hopping in a 3-way with us.

He's probably thinking "why is this even a job to get hired for?"

Great scrip...actually in his first response he wanted to want to take her and most likely would have been ready to order ice cream by the time they arrived

We are just that simple, it's not that deep

​@zBorderPatrol nah we also just say we're fine all the time regardless of how we actually feel, everyone's a bit shithouse at communication

​@@IridescentW yeah that's why all those blokes who are "fine" keep offing themselves here

@@IridescentW Communication needs always at least two senders. If you say that it is all logical, then you can not say that it is a one sided issue: that is impossible. Anyway, breaking it down to cold logic is as wrong as just emotional communication. Both are opposing poles.

​@Kyle-yn5hy there has been a spike suicide for males in the US as well over the last 20 years. But not talking about our feelings is nothing new, it's genetic because generally, women want a man who makes them feel safe not one that complains. Men's mental health is a big one but I feel that sticking it to one thing isn't right.

@@JJJBunney001partly true, difference is a woman’s “im fine” means “I’m not fine and i want YOU to figure out WHY im not fine and fix it” While a man’s “I’m fine” usually means “I’m fine” or at most “I’ll be fine, just leave me alone for a minute or two”

This is the only correct read in here. The boyfriend translator knows he's not fine, but he also knows that the boyfriend knows that sharing your actual feelings is almost always a bad idea.

@@twelvecatsinatrenchcoat lol where did you get that? if its not hiding something painful or that you might worried. its fine is its fine. no lie, unless you ask that same question 3 more times

@@kouani1995 From his tone of voice and the clearly pained expression on his face that made her ask if he's fine. From the fact that the boyfriend translator also stumbled and cracked when saying he was fine. And from personal experience of how it's basically always gone sharing feelings of hurt with women throughout my entire life.

He's fine

​@@twelvecatsinatrenchcoatSharing your feelings is high risk high reward. It's the only way to have genuine connection

We stick to the basics

Same... PMSL at that... When we say we are fine, we are just fine lol

​@hudsonbear5038 God damn I haven't seen pmsl since AOL chat days😅 took me back waay to far bro😓

@@goodstori I am that old Bud😁

Lmao yep his interpreter was spot on. If a man says we are fine then we are fine

The guy interpreter is scared as hell of the female interpreter haha!!!

He's fine

​@@brucephillip6456 no he's fine

But the in. guy isn’t confident saying hes fine 🧐

He says “he’s fine” because the boyfriend interpreter is also stunned at the discovery of women hating minigolf 😂

I don't care* is the correct answer. She's being difficult fir the sake of it, you tried, you failed, stop caring.

“There is nothing we can do”

​@@nervonabliss I think in this case it was more of a "I am not allowed to care" situation

​@@zimzimph As a man I can tell you, that's every situation.

Or "I think there's a game on the telly."

That result is as fine as the guy

But... are you sure he's fine? He said he was fine but he kinda said it like there was a period at the end you know like he said hes fine but hes not actually fine? Why would he just say hes fine? Is he cheating on me?

@@ianh1504 He's fine

guessing you never dated one of yall...

@@Thewhiteandorange​​⁠​⁠no but being one means I know a little more about us than you do, sounds more like a problem on your end if your only able to be with such shitty people, maybe a reflection, not sure just something to think about😂

​@@tyresefarrell ooo, someone's sensitive and incapable of calculating the difference between "being" and "being with" 🤔sounds more like a problem on your end, if you're that bitter about it. or maybe deeply jealous? guess that's between you and the therapist. next sesh, ask why you got so angry that'd you'd call men who miscommunicate "shitty people". yikes.

​@@Thewhiteandorangeyour reply is horrible and makes no sense.

1 in 50 chances will translate the “I’m fine” to spilling the beans

You are fine!

Easiest job in the world

@@markmaxwell5090 Not really, good luck interpreting shit if he's an introvert

​@@PrathamInCloud Even better. I can just make everything up and he wouldn't make a fuss.

Good luck translating "Shaboingkyloinky"

Bro, putt putt is a irl rage game.

It's just for kids and virgins. 🏑 (there's not even an emoji for that) ...just kidding, I love it. ❤😊

BTW: I know, there actually is an emoji for that: 🏒

Easiest job in the world. Lmao

​@@christopheichhorn5893that's ice hockey

I mean, it feels like she would have gotten ice cream if she didn't play mind games. Play stupid games, your boyfriend doesn't buy you ice cream 🤷‍♂️

​@@ethanfunk6214🎯

@@ethanfunk6214 problem is they are not playing mind games. Women are highly emotional. So it's their truth rather than mind games. I can recommend some books if you are interested. Men are from Mars, women are from Venus. I have to get back home for the other one. So please reply to me if you are interested

​@@ethanfunk6214 thats all most women can do though, its the reason im single, i dont have tine for that crap

@@PlutoProtogen Yeah right buddy lmfao

Guy: im fine Translated to english: Im fine Men are not the problem here

Idk why girls are like that

That's just the female default

It's more about willingness to control the partner mentally: "I know you're only doing this because I want it, not because you want it. That makes me feel bad. Now, you have to want to do it somehow". So not only forcing you to do what you don't want, but make you guess beforehand that she wants it and make you suggest it and pretend to enjoy it.

@@kazkaskazkas8689 But she doesn't even want him to want it. She would even go golfing with him. Him wanting something clearly comes first for her, and she doesn't care what it is. Girl just wants him to be happy man

Oh he's 100% annoyed, it's just unlike her he will let it go and move on because it's not worth the fight that will follow if he says something

Nonono. He is, trust me.

The part where he decides to go for icecream when gf wants him to go with her, then she doesn't want to go when she gets what she wants but say No BC NOW she doesn't want to go BC she knows he actually doesnt want to go but will go for her. That part, that part there is absolutely infuriating. It's the worst female game. It's as bad as the woman who cuddles up to sleep& tells yoy in the morning she was horny last night, why didn't he say something. DARP, worse she'll say "Not this morning I'm no longer in the mood!" Making it clear she's pissed off. That's the ultimate in infuriating non communication.

@@shieldwolf65 Yeah, apparently women are better communicators though.

​@@joeblow7464 That's the point, the majority of men need their conversation to be like instructions: clear, short and mostly objective. While women don't need that condition and so their way of conversation has more plains of existence.

from the woman's point of view that translator should speak "woman"

What're you talking about, they're FINE

They're both fine dude 😂 we need a man to woman to woman translator for how men feel. If he says he's fine but looks dejected. "He's fine he just looks dejected because dealing with you is exhausting but he's prepared to deal with your constant bitching and moaning because he finds you precious and or would rather not be alone when he goes out to get food and events"

No

No, she needs to grow up and act like an adult, not like a 12 year old girl.

as a married man of 10+ years... it comes with time...

Answer - because it's like a f@#king car crash in there - bits flying everywhere - scary !

You just got to tell her that you're not Professor X.

usually means "im fine enough that trying to remedy the issue would be more burdensome than ignoring it."

@@gabbonoo yes

​@@gabbonoo Or at the very least, "nothing that's big enough of an issue for me to make it more of one."

I'll take the L just to end this situation and move on.

Sometimes it doesn't just mean "I don't want to make a bid deal out of it, it's fine enough". Sometimes people are not really aware how they feel in real time or or they don't want to be a burden and just suck everything up. Applies to all people, nothing gender specific about it.

She sounds like Supercar Blondie

Or shrugging and saying, "I dunno".

I see it that I don’t want to drag my bf somewhere and he doesn’t enjoy it, that would make me sad but I also like the company and him coming shows that he loves me so that’s why I do want him to come but if he’s just :/ then feels like I failed

​@@makaniistorm8664just talk to him openly and with honesty, that'll help

if they say no and you take them its dragging them along, if they say yes and they are like :/ its their fault, usually if the bf saying yes to something asked of them, they will either 1 enjoy the activity, 2 enjoy your company enjoying the activity, or 3 most common... both, but thats just my experience and thoughts being on the bf side

i should say that, its the bf's job to communicate these feelings to the gf

​@@makaniistorm8664 dont base your feeling on his reaction. He chose to come/participate. He made the choice and hell live with the result. Just enjoy the moment and YOUR emotions.

It's honestly really sweet and empathic.

I feel guilty of this with my girlfriend and I'm not even a girl 😅

@@marzipancutter8144 I disagree. He was willing to do something he didn't really want to just to make her happy, and that's not good enough. I get that you would want to both be enjoying something and not feeling like you're making your partner do something they don't want to do just to make you happy, but you have to be an adult about these things and accept that both of your interests aren't going to line up all the time.

@@peytonmac1131 "Not good enough" is a very weighty judgement for what was actually going on. He didn't want her to do something she didn't want just to make him happy too and he's not catching flak for it, right? They prefer different activities, sure, but there's no double standard or forced consent going on here. Except instead of arguing for their own interests each is considering for the others as well. The obvious conclusion is that they will compromise on something both want, if this were realistic - until he kinda shut down with I'm fine, which wasn't translated as part of the joke. But you're putting way too much weight on the ice cream to begin with. You really think the ice cream was the important part of her proposal? The eating part wasn't what would have made her happy about going for ice cream. You get extra points if you can guess what she *did* want to do.

​@@marzipancutter8144there is no comparison between the two situations. He didn't insult the thing she wanted to do, nor insult her for even thinking he might want ice cream. She did insult both his activity and him.

For me its just the weirdness of eating food in front of someone without sharing, I grew up with two brothers and a lot of siblings-like family friends so I wouldnt ever just get myself something and eat in front of someone else because it would always upset somebody, now i have to share every time i get food

@@pumpkincat4594so on your original comment, because I also grew up like that, what if someone genuinely eats way way less than you in a relationship and you are going hungry for a lot of the time. Would you do that? Or would you eventually just find a way to eat when they’re not eating?

@@CheruWasntAvailable I usually eat separately, though most people I know eat as much or more than me so its not really a problem for me, Its also less awkward if its a snack and its between us but they arent actually eating it, I do this a lot for some reason lol, its just so its always available to them and it is a shared food item but they dont HAVE to eat it, idk what Id do if it became a real issue though

Guilt remorse is more poisonous than all diseases.

Then be an adult and tell them that without acting like a child

TAKE. MY. MONEY!

Easier...not better.

@@angru_arches depends

@@angru_arches Agreed short term yeah. Easy in the start, harder when having to open up in the future

It's not like you can't open up to family or friends. Relationships always seem to put you in a binding contract where you gamble your life's enjoyment on your partners personality. I'd say it's almost always better to stay single in this day and age unless you wish for children.

@kokujo5288 if a relationship is largely a binding contract to you, then I'm sorry to say that you've most likely not been in a healthy relationship before.

God no.

​@@meph5291lol

How so? It usually ends the relationship? 🤭

@@OKRickety Honesty without tact is just mean.

​@@bishop51807unless you're a grown adult, then no lol

Putt putt then icecream after. Putt putt to aid digestinghis food. Then beer.

Correction: He still has a bare minimum of one limb attached to his body. He is fine.

@@Canadia_Ball there's no active bleeding.... so.... yeah, it'll probably sort itself out....

Of course he's fine. Let's not go down another convoluted rabbit hole of female discommunication.