I learned this early on. IF A MAN IS NOT PURSUING YOU, HE DOES NOT WANT YOU!

If he don’t like me, I don’t like him! My Lord God intended someone better for me! Thank you for saving me ❤️

I will attract what I am becoming. The man for me is looking for me and I will be ready when he sees me 💯🙌🏽

People don't accept rejection well. Everyone is not made for everybody.

Men don't be intimidated by women, they just dnt want you!! Period! Your just NOT what he wants! Straight like that! And dnt feel no type a way, GOD probably was saving you from something....💯

After trying to do things my way, at the age of 33 I finally get it unfortunately took me so long. When a man doesnt want you , there is nothing you can do to convince to stay. When a man wants you, there is nothing can stop him from being with you.

And when a man says "I'm not ready for a relationship" the "with you" is silent

“If he is not attractive to you, you will get a world of excuses.” TG

I’m here for the laughter 😂😂😂😂 While the wisdom and knowledge flow through.

Friendly Reminder: Stay Off Ya Back!

"He ain't intimidated by you with yo 9 degrees..." Lmboo...😂😂😂😂

The problem is, these dudes that's picky about looks DON'T LOOK GOOD and DON'T MAKE NOTHING!!

😂😂😂😂 He is not Lying!!! I have had several homeless men shoot their shots at my friendly behind 😂😂😂😂

"I can walk to where you live." I am weeeeeeeak!!!! 🤣😂 Why is this true??? 😫 The men with the least have THEE MOST confidence.

Y'all still don't believe him.. Smh. He's a man, he would know.

I'm struggling so hard... Feel kinda halfway healed. You're literally saving my life ❤️ God bless you 🙏🙏🙏

Ladies, yes, he may not be interested in you because you are not his type physically. It could also be more so your personality (I know that hurts to hear but it's true). If you're not operating from the best version of yourself (say you come off as insecure or overbearing), then your personality could very well be the reason, but let me tell you this: you could be at your best and a man may still not want you. Don't internalize that to mean you're not lovable and something is wrong with you. It just means he is not your husband and that's something you need to come to peace with. Don't blame him or shame him, just go on about your business and have faith God has a better man in store for you. Plus, you are drawn to men who don't want you because you are unhappy with yourself. Truthfully, these men usually aren't all that great and have major flaws of character. You just see them as better than they are because of low self-esteem, yet they may have horrible moral character and they project their insecurities onto you. You don't want a man like that! You tend to see how much of a mismatch the wrong man is for you once you learn to love yourself. Then, if you didn't get involved, you see what a huge blessing in disguise that was. So ladies, please learn to cherish yourself first. God will send you the right man when you're ready.

You attract what and who you are! A man that wants you will do what it takes to have you! I know he looking for me bc I’m not Looking for him! Don’t settle ladies!

Ladies he’s not intimidated by you...He Do Not Want You!

😄😄😄😄 A homeless man nicknamed me Chocolate Chip! Lolol So I'm here to tell you that the homeless man WILL shoot his shot! 😆😆😆

“ if I had a cell phone can I have yo number?”😂 the rentless man! 😂 oh lord Tony is not lieing!

Sometimes relationships don’t work out even when attraction is there. Sometimes two people’s life purpose take them in two different directions. And sometimes people just aren’t compatible beyond being physically attracted. There’s also emotional connection and mental attraction.

My nursing counselor told our beginning class thT we should not be surprised at the divorce rate upon graduation and makings good paper. It overall was true!

I agree but I also feel that sometimes men have insecurities..and they play games once they know your not the one for it they back off immediately or they disappear or ghost you 🤷🏾‍♀️ and once they get what they want or was looking for they leave you ! So be careful and if he say he don’t want you have strength and let go don’t chase what’s for you.. you won’t have to chase 💯pray and practice decrement

Edges going through a season??🤣 How does he do this with a straight face? Hilarious!!!

“Insecure” is a better description than “Intimidated” to describe how some grown boys react to an attractive, successful woman. One tried to dissuade me from buying my own home and taking a promotion that I’d worked hard for.

I agree the word intimidation is used out of context in most situations... but most know when they are dating out of their league and they can become insecure about that fact and it will show. This goes for women and men.

Let's pray to God that he sends us some men where we don't have to go through all of this to become one with each other!

I attract what I am becoming ! 👑👸🏽! My King is coming to find me !

If you can wait to sex after marriage that's best. If you can't take your time. Most important don't go down on him/no top/no head unless it's your Husband.

What you’re saying makes a lot of sense. It takes a strong person to stick around. I myself have learned to just say no when I see something that turns me off.

Real women do not fight or compete with men. It's fruitless like comparing oranges to apples. They both are completely what they are and necessary!

“Femininity does not mean weakness” ...there has to be a masculine and feminine in order for it to work even if the roles are reversed. I love this wisdom.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 This man said...BUMBLEBEE XXX! I HAVE HIT THE FLOOR...BAM!!!🤣🤣🤣 BRING IT OUT TONY!

I swear I was trying to keep a straight face for this video, until Tony hit me with the "Rentless Man"😂.

This is so good and valid. You can know right away if he is genuinely interested in YOU. Our female egos have to also come down at times. Sometimes, we are just NOT what they want. Point blank ... lol

The craziest part is that this is absolutely true. Everything is based on looks at the end of the day. Which makes it extremely disappointing being that absolutely no one can control their features. Out of all looks ,colors and features you could have had, your spirit aligned with the body you have. That is all I NEED to make me love the body I'm in, despite what the world may think😌

Please know the signs are ALWAYS there ..and deep down you know it...he simply doesn’t want you. Thank you Lord for Tony 🙌🏽. Y’all I have adopted Tony as the brother (sibling) I always wished I had. Who else claims Tony as family lol 😂

If you looking for love...you become a target. They can smell that you're lookin for love. Good vid as always Tony. Thank you.

I WILL ATTRACT WHAT I BECOME. THE MAN FOR ME IS LOOKING FOR ME AND I WANT TO BE READY WHEN HE SEES ME. Thank you for that Mr. Gaskins.....one of my new everyday affirmations.

Tony you may have touched on this I've been told several times by women who have been married for ages that the key is to love who loves YOU not who you Love. Something about the dynamic that we are out of our place and women tend to act more desperate for the ones they want. Feels like you have to treat the ones you LIKE like the ones you DON'T LIKE. @tonygaskins

Tony, please! You’re killing me with the comic animations! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

This was too funny and too real! Thank you for the video...although my uncles and my observation had already put me up on game🤣. HEY LADIES: understand this, men are petty...don't let them tell you they aren't. Petty, vengeful and immature. They also do NOT settle....so YOU better not settle. If he ain't your type keep walking. No need letting the bum "get you back"🤣🤣🤣Thanks Tony!💃💃

My daily dose of wisdom ♥ Thank you, Tony, I hear your message from Argentina every single day. As soon as I can I will join the blessed tribe. I want to support you so much! You have changed my life for the better, thank God I found you

When that energy changes...gotta go👌🏽😂🙌🏽

that man is not intimidated by you, most likely there is something about your personality or looks that he isn’t attracted too😫

So true! A bum tried to talk to me and I lie and said I had a man and he said “ Good luck” and rolled his eyes 😂😂

Yay love when I see a new Tony Gaskin's video pop up!😍

Right when I’m in the kitchen cooking. Perfect timing and ready for the message!

I'm so happy a MAN said this because when a woman says this other women take offense to it. I never believed that "You're too intimidating" excuse. I knew deep down inside that was the guys NICE way of saying I wasn't HIS type. We as women have to learn how to ACCEPT the TRUTH without it putting a dent in our confidence. Thanks Tony for ALWAYS telling us the TRUTH about our situations and ourselves. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

One of the reasons Whtiney Houston and Bobby Brown relationship didn't work out was because he couldn't deal with her success as seen in interviews and I have over heard men in their little gatherings say they would never date a woman who makes more money then them, So I don't know if "intimidated" is the word but their egos get rub the wrong way sometimes when they may less money; apart of human nature is to compete and sad to say but some husbands compete with their wives and vice se verse because to many men money equals power.

Rentless man, no landlord gentleman 😭

Omg, Dr. Tony is too funny! Im 62 yrs. old nd im old enough to be his mama but even I listen to this young man faithfully! God bless him & his beautiful family! Lord, if I had someone teach me these things when I was younger.Ladies, we hv NO reason not to get played these days. I share all this information & wisdom onto my daughters! He has a special anointing to teach & heal the masses, who God has chosen nd called him to reach. I just love him. Plus, he aint neva scared to speak the truth, facts, & reveal stupidity! Tony Gaskins PhD. 🙏🏾

That woman called you short cause she wanted you, and you didn't want her. It was a microaggression.

The Lord didn’t describe what Boaz looked like 🥴 that’s so true Tony!

I don’t know how many levels there is to this university and I don’t know on which level I started on this journey and it don’t matter either. I journey forward everyday, improving and growing into a whole and very happy woman. 🙏 be blessed, Tony + family and everyone that’s here to grow 💚

It’s true no man will leave a woman he loves because she is doing better than him. He will probably want you to keep working hard so that he can live off you

This is true! Even as a women, these are some of the excuses I have used when I did not want the guy.

TONY! Look!... It makes perfect sense. "I" or "she" wasn't "his" type. Makes sense to me. Take the truth as is. No explanation needed. As many opinions that exist in the world now days. SOMEBODY ain't gon' be EVERYBODY'S type🤗🤧🤷😊

🤣😂😂😂I almost choked on my dang cereal!!! How Beyoncé and Serena married and you walking around talkin bout men are intimidated by me..LOL!!!! It was that voice and neck roll..😩

That's a good analogy mentioning that a homeless man can pursue you with no problem. So how is that different from any other man.. It's not intimidation. Good Point.

12:12 “ You mean to tell me you have a buggie full of other people clothes and you feel that YOU AND I 🤭 are compatible ? “ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😭😭😭😂 Tony you deserve a Oscar.

Thank so much Tony for your encouraging words of wisdom! 🙏🏾

Slappin himself with that pen! I can't even take a breath for laughing so hard

Uncle Tony, when you said in a past vid that you'll never be fully prepared or where you want to be getting into a healthy relationship, that stuck with me.

Im so glad u breakin it down Tony!!

Thank you for all you do Tony

This just helped me Tony! Thank you for your words of wisdom ✊🏽

This was hard to hear BUT it was necessary - growth is uncomfortable.

Yess Tony please speak on feminity more it is so important! Thank you for this message 🥳 God Bless You and your family 👏🏽

It all boils down to humility.

Omg, I am in tears. Not bumblebee 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 but you are speaking the truth ‼️That narrative will mess you up, ladies better be humble and pay attention to all details and go through the states. Mutual interest Become friends Date Decide if you two want to become exclusive Engagement Marriage If you look down on men they sure will switch, make you fall, and straight dog you. AND when they do LEAVE 😌

I will attract what I become! God is preparing us for one another!

Bum: “If I had a phone would you call me? “You see that cart over there.... ???😂😂😂 “My legs are strong, I can walk to where you live”😩😩😂😂

I do understand. Women keep telling themselves stories and believe in them. They would compare notes with other women. They all keep going in circles and there is no progress.

Brilliant!!! Yet again Tony. Thank you!!!

Tony you really acted out the microphones swinging at that woman’s face 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I’m dying

Thanks for the honesty and many chuckles!

Thank you for the brutal honesty!! 🥺 It strings but it’s truth I was speaking one language and he was speaking another

Preaching Today Tony Gaskins!!!

Thank you Tony... you are the truth!

This is what I call getting perspective, thank you TG...much appreciated

Tony Gaskins thank you for speaking the truth & nothing but the truth!!

I have watched this video more than once and TG is hilarious! If I’m feeling a bit low he puts me into the best mood! His sense of humor coupled with such great gems of advice is the best! 😂😂😂😂

🤣 “Your edges have gone through a lot.”

This is sooo good Tony thank you so much for sharing...what really made this so special and valuable was when you said a immature man only does this.. not a grown man.. I really do believe there are good men in this world but guess what it's worth waiting for my King because I know he's gonna be for me and love everything about me.. I was so hurt and heat broken when my ex told me we wasn't compatible and he wanted to end things...I didn't know why at that time but I do now and it's ok because at the end of the day I'm still winning and I know who I am and my worth.. and I'm very confident to say oh well his lost 🤷🏽‍♀️ thanks again Tony you have done so much wonders in my life may God continue to pour in you so you can pour into us!! Much love!!!

Brother Tony thank you so much for your words of wisdom.May God bless you and your family...

Tony. Thank you. Peace and blessings.

This channel is educating me. Thank you!

I hear ya, but its NEVER a woman’s fault when others mistreat her, adults have options.

This was very insightful. I appreciate your honesty and wish there were more men that could just be honest. I see that they cannot be real bc if their fear. Like you said, they operate out of fear with everything!

Thank you, I thought that’s what you were saying in the other video. You just answered my question, thank you so much! I’ll just keep it moving, healing, growing and working on self! BeBlessed

Lord have mercy! Tony you tickle me! Totally crazy in a good way! So on point! Sheri thank you for such a Godly standard and for allowing God to do whatsoeva He wants to do! Blessings to the Gaskin family! ❤️ My God!

Tony, thank you so much for the truth!!!!! And also, you are soooo funny! Every time I watch your videos, I'll be cracking up 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Great word. Thank you Lord for this work

Omggg how can a video be so informative, constructive yet so funny at the same time. I always need my dose of Tony.

Love it Tony! Keep the knowledge coming. Thank you. Stay blessed.

Tony, i think some men look down on beauty as well. I am an attractive person. I met this guy online and we’ve been talking for about three months. He saw me at my good and bad. But I was always the type to keep nails done, I did wear wigs the whole time but he loved my natural hair. Been around my family and they would say to him “make sure you treat her right” I had a good family support system and he saw that. I’m assuming that he was jealous because after I had my bday party, he saw the support, the tables turned and he start dogging pulling disappearance acts and just changed the whole dynamic. I didn’t give in and to this day he still in and out. It may be others things but I did nothing wrong to this man. I was open to him, but maybe too soon. Idk

On point as always. Well gone raise us up then TG! I’m considering this message a reminder from God. As I take steps to lock it all the way down by locking it all the way up, I’m reminded that the nature of a thing is important. And acting in concert with that nature is our protection. He said he would get all except My purified ones. Purification of anything is never pleasant. Grateful for you TG!!

Just in time! I’m ready to collect these 💎 gems!!! Lehgooooooooo 👍🏾👊🏾