My Hmong sisters, please dont cheat if u r not divorce & please dont steal other Hmong sisters' husbands to cheat with. You didnt like it when ur husbands cheat with other women, so dont cause heartache for other sisters too.

Viv ncaus aw txhob rawm ntseeg2 ib tug txiv neej siab phem os nws twb siab phem rau nws tus poj niam ne es koj xav tias nws siab zoo no los yog nws siab zoo mas nws tsis muaj poj niam pob cov txiv neej muaj poj niam es tham hluas nkauj cs zoo ib yam li koj Tus txiv xwb os

Haig tau zoo hv li o niam laug aw

Haig tau zoo hv li o niam laug aw xa hmoo kj tag li xb o

You might think you are happy but you forget to think about that you take the expenses of another woman and her children’s expenses. Everytime you are with this cheater you take his family time and his children time do you understand? What an evil woman. If you are going to cheat why not do with a single man?

ฉันชอบสิ่งที่คุณทำ ยอดเยี่ยมมาก สามีเก่าของคุณสมควรได้รับสิ่งนี้แล้ว อยากให้ผู้หญิงทุกคน ทำแบบนี้ กับ สามีที่นอกใจ

Dangyum!! Haib tshaj plaws!! 🫰🏻👏👏 nrog koj zoo siab os tus viv ncaus!!

My ❤ May’s Thanks for TEACHING mind lady CHEATING!!…🙏❤️👍👏👏👏👏

It’s not love, it’s temptations. If he was truly a good man he wouldn’t cheat on his wife with you.

I don't understand these woman....your husband cheated on you....why would you do this to another woman?

You're a smart woman. Most Hmong women would just sit and cry.

Niam laus kj hais db neeg zoo mploog hv li o

Nyob zoo mas

Ua tsaug ntau2 niam tij hais tau raug kuv tshaj li

I'm speechless about this story. Most likely men like that never last if they can do to they're wife in the future they can do to you also, but Good Luck sister. wreckering your own home ain't worth know your worth.

Nyuaj lawm Lau kuv poj niam

Maum twm o maum twm aw

Tu siab tshaj plaws li os. Lam muaj lub npe muaj txiv xwb…twb tsis muaj neeg nrog yus ua ke, tsis muaj neeg pab yus, tsis muaj neeg ua yus luag, tsis muaj neeg pab yus nqa qhov nyhav li os. Cas kuv lub neej es tsis txawv koj lub li os sister aw…ntshe lwm tiam xwb. Tiam no ces ntshe tsis muaj li os. Xyov puas muaj neeg zoo li lawm.

Yog lawm os 😭😭😭😭😭

Just bc your husband committed adultery doesn’t mean you can/should commit adultery too. We sin to God, not other people.

Wow... thov qhuas koj nawb me viv ncaus xav kom peb cov poj niam ua tau li koj es txhob quaj2 rau lawv os..

This story sure seems like dejavu. It's sad and love seems to never goes as planned. Thank you for sharing your story. Love oneself more is the best.

cheater will always find ways to justify his/her cheating.

Wow!! Very proud of you sister. A lesson to be learned for those men who never gives credit to their wives.

Zoo kawg yog peb cov poj niam muaj peev xwm li ko

Ua tsaug qhov koj muaj peev xwm ua tau txhua yam pauj txoj kev chim rau peb poj niam tam sis no peb yuav tsum tau xyaum muaj peev xwm li txiv neej thiaj saib taus peb

Cov niag ntsej muag txiv neej hmoob siab phem siab dub quav dev...thuam yus li thuam yus xwb...yog ua tau li koj ua ces yog tshaj plaws li o yom..thov qhuas koj o..keej tshaj li..ua li koj ua Los yeej phim nws kawg li lawm thiab ma

Emotional abused..sister glad you found happiness 💃💪

Kuv nrog koj zoo siab os tu me viv ncaus aw.

Tu niam no ua tau hauj lwm zoo heev kuv mas nyiam tiag2 li os yog li os li no nyuam qhuav phim txiv neej xwb...Yeah yeah...👍👍👍❤💪💪

Amen sister

Leej muam dai2 siab, Kuv nyon no os

Cas zaj dab neeg no hais tau zoo heev li os

Waiting for part 2 with Your Bf. Good luck

One man's junk is another man's treasure

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏zoo mloog ta ta li nej ma thiaj li txawj ua lo sib phim tiag2 !!

So the lady is a fish, that's cool.

Very true sister. You did well. Proud of you. For those who shame you will never understand. Happy for you

Wow…. Cas hais tau easy ua luam nas! He got what he deserved. Most Hmong man are very mentally abusive to their wife. Mine also. But I Dnt have the courage to cheat like that on my ex hubby. At the end. We didn’t work out and he choose a Hmong plog lady. I think I’m happy where I’m at. Just being single and to have my grandkids make me happier than catering to a man.

Niam laus koj ua yog lawm os koj mas thib ib kiag lawm nawb yuav tsum ua li koj mas thiaj haum txiv neej siab ho

Good job.

Yog kawg koj hai yog tshaj plaw li lawm os

So proud for you sis. You did this cover for all hmong sis. I like that

Niam ntsuab teev aws zaj no ma zoo kiag li kv ntag os kv tu txiv ma coj zoo li tu txiv neej ntawm ko ntag ho

YES kj ua tau zoo kg lawm

Your husband is a cheater but you became a homewrecker

Noj mov cuav zos yeej qab dua os

Txiv neej ces yeej yos li koj kaws thaum yus tuas siab lawm lawm mam khoo ces tu siab dhau lawm os viv ncaus aw

Cas yuav raug kuv siab ua luaj os...sim neej no kuv to taub koj zoo heev os..cas tu siab ua luaj ..kawg yuav ua thaj no xwb thiaj xav ua neeg nyob os...laus lawm los txoj kev hlub yeej tseem ntshaw2 mog lawv..

Divorce before cheating to avoid getting killed 🤦‍♀️

Zoo kawg li

What a beautiful story . All I can say is that you deserve better and congratulations with your new love. May God bless you both to the end. Do not turn back just keep going and enjoy life.

Ok

zoo tshaj plaws li nawb

The lady in this story makes me sick. Your marriage is dysfunctional so you're wrecking another sister's marriage? You don't need more men, you need psychological help. Get a divorce first if you don't plan to be on the news that you're dead due to infidelity.

Your bf cheated on his wife with you, disrespected you while you’re still with your spouse. Bc if he respects you he won’t place you in that situation. In conclusion, he doesn’t love you, it’s only lust not love.

Wow sounds like my life!!

Equality for everyone. Way to go lady.

Koj tseem mus txeeb luag li xwb ces koj yeej tsis Yog ib tug neeg zoo. Yog koj zoo tiag yeej tsis ua rau lwm tus poj niam

Zaj neej neeg no tu siab thiab raug siab heev li os

You did everything right, I’m so proud of you sister .

Pauj kua zaub ntsuab tau zoo kawg nkaus ..cov txiv neej no siab phem dhau lawm zais siab nyiag ntsis mus tsuav ntsuag sab nraum xwb..peb cov niam tsev los nrog cov txiv khwv khwv rau lub neej kawg tabsis cov txiv dev siab phem no ho coj pojnrauj mus siv nyiaj, mus motel, mus noj qab2 yuav tej khoom khim pub pojnrauj xwb tseg peb mob siab quaj txhua sijhawm nyob tsaus ntuj nti nrog lub kuamuag si..peb tsis muaj peevxwm mus ua pauj nej cov muaj peevxwm li no kav tsij nrog txiv neej sib tw ua seb leejtwg yog tus swb thaum kawg os.. kom lawv thiaj li paub txog tias mob npaum licas..

Lawv qhua dag kom tau nrog yus pw xwb os, koj tseem paub txov neej lub siab tsawg xwb os, lawv yeej tsis qhua tiag tiag na

Viv ncaus kuv tus txiv ces thuam kuv thiab ib sim neej yeej g qhua kuv ib zaug li

Your husband cheated on you and it hurt you so why would you go cheat with another man just like your husband who also cheated on his wife? We Hmong sisters need to love another Hmong sister not to cheat with another woman's husband. I can't sympathy with you because you ruined another sister's marriage.

hais tau tu siab thiab zoo mloog heev li os kv tus txij tus nkawm kuj tau thuam kv li tus niam tsev no thiab tu siab tshaj thaum yus tus txiv thuam yus tias phem nkauj tus siab tshaj

U don’t need another man to revive u. Don’t need to jump from one man to another. If u have enough self-love & prioritized urself, u would’ve left a long time ago. This woman is still too dependent on a man making her feel good about herself.

You’re just as bad as your husband too! Cheating with a married man 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Karma is waiting for all of you guys.

Yog kawg kuv lub neej zoo ib yam koj lub tiag kuv muaj tu hlub kuv yam koj thiab kuv xa ua neeg nyob ib yam koj hais

Wow cas koj yuav leej heev li..you will have part 2 one day with your new man.

Great 👍! I’m glad it worked out for this lady.

Yog lawm os niam laus kuv tug txiv los kuj zoo li ko thiab

Zoo heev lis

Zoo heev li

If you’re not happy then leave. Don’t cheat and stay.

Wow, so proud of her 👏 way to go girl

Whatever men can do now days, we women can as well. Life isn’t fair guys. Good job to this lady to finally know your worth

Divorce once filed and served, court can make it effective even if a party refuses. If it’s that bad, now that you’ve gotten the courage and realized your self worth, make it count; even if you won’t end up with that bf. Txhob nqos qub qaub ncaug, txhob cug qub phev.

Grass doesn’t always greener on the other side there’s will be more headaches ahead, is only good when still singles or not yet yours

This is exactly us women's heart n thoughts when our husband betrayed us cheated with another women. Once we have enough n done being hurts. Once we go we will never returned. They started the way n road we just follow. I'm happy you are strong to do what you do sister

2 wrongs don't & cant make it right. Now that your story is out, I would suggest for you to be aware at all times and be safe. Too many end up dead for this exact reason and it's not worth it!

They r all wasting each other times.. just leave each other.. this is the new century…. We all understand..

Thisy favorite teller story.

Zoo qhov koj muaj tus tshiab tiam sis tsis zoo yg qhov koj Tham lawv tus txiv thiab vim koj ua rau tus sab tov lawm thiab ne

Saj tau rab loj dua lawm mas tsi guav ntsej rab gub uas me lawd haj haj

As much as everyone frowns upon cheaters, sometimes it can’t be helped. When someone treats u better and cares for you, you kind of sway their way and realize. You can be loved too. It’s so sad that as woman in the Hmong community we should just wait for the man till he’s done cheating on us, then he’ll come back! I’m glad she cheated, she would of never knew she could be loved, n had to live that miserable life never knowing happiness. People can keep saying she should of got divorced first. Well your not in her shoes n your not her. Fate has it’s way, sometimes this is the only way to make people see they deserve better and can have better! Love yourself first❤

Kuv xav mas tej zaum koj zoo nkauj daim tawv xwb ntshe yeej ruam tiag pob raws kuv mloog li hais.

Peb ib txia poj niam tau tus txiv zoo li no cov muaj peev xwm ces ua tau ho cov tsis muaj pheev xwm ces tseem niaj hnub nyob lub neej tsaus2 ntuj tsis muaj suab luag li os lawv

Yus tuaj piav yus txoj kev liam kev xyob txhiaj xwb es yus zoo siab dab tsi na

Nej cov poj niam zoo siab kawg li yom.....nyias nrhiav nyias kev zoo xwb......hahaha

Too many of these stories tells me are many more out there

Nws ua dau nws tus poj niam ib yam li koj tus txiv ua rau koj thiaj ntag yog koj zoo no koj tham tus g muaj poj niam thiaj yog

Zaj no ces nej 4 tug nyias txaus nyias siab nrhiav kev kaj siab ces kuj zoo lawm thiab….

Tus txiv neej muaj poj niam tham tau koj ces zoo tsis txawv koj tus txiv nkauj nraug ces ham tsis hais zoo kom tau noj xwb ma los

You're not wrong for doing this. You deserve happiness too.

Wow uaca e hnov tsawg zaj neej neeg lo hmoob mekas e tseem ua txiv muaj poj niam lo cia li sib tham li lm od ca zoo li ua si li lm nahhhhh

Txoj kev hlub lus zoo lus muag txhua tus niam tsev yeej ntshaw.

I'm listening to this story thinking when she will divorce her husband. She went on too long with that man.

Ua cas koj zaj zoo li kuv zaj thiab os sister aw sim neej no koj thiab kuv ces Siam tiam rau tiam no os tu siab tshaj plaws tiam no pw los tsis muaj txiv tawm rooj los tsis muaj txiv mas tu siab tshaj li os

There are a lot of Hmong men who are psychological abusive, and we allow it by telling the women its okay when its not. We continue to teach women to settle for the bare minimum bc the men wont do better.